'What Are You So Afraid Of?' Dr. Phil Asks Teen Who Lashes Out
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- Опубликовано: 10 фев 2019
- Dr. Phil drills down to determine why a teen acts out and threatens violence. And, why does he call her “unsocialized” and “immature”?
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If I spoke to my mother that way and behaved this way, I wouldve gotten a one way ticket to meet jesus.
Ikr id get a v.i.p pass to meet him
Lmfaoooo 😂😂😂 same.
And that attitude is just as bad.
@@jessicagrebes6816 dong be rude plz
@@jessicagrebes6816 did we asked ?
She gives me a "I'm not like other girls," type of vibe
Fr fr
@@jessicagrebes6816 If someone wanna be loved and supported then that person needs to be open and not attack everyone who approach cause feel good playing the victim
like a kinda pick me,pick me vibes
@@nolimits300 I think they were being sarcastic lmao
Nvm they’re being serious I saw her other comments
@@jessicagrebes6816 See many people feel that way, I think I’ve had a lot of things happen to me, including having my father and the following father figures leaving my life from young and as I grew. However, this does NOT give us the right to act out and give other people trouble because we feel troubled. Handle your issues maturely, figure the world out because understanding is key and all of us must be held to that truth.
The face she made when doctor Phil said she was unsocialized 😂😂
lolo
just saw that and read this comment.
👁👄👁 Loooool 😭😭😂😂😂😂😂
She probably mistook the word for uncivilized, which...based on her behavior could be debatable lol
She proved him right
The second hand embarrassment I cant 😐✋🏼
@@jessicagrebes6816 omg shut up
U forgot the second hand 😔 u only put one
@@praiseakinyele3823 how about you shut up 😁
@@praiseakinyele3823 omg shut up
@@nevaeh8419 no lol
She’s clearly not very smart, but pretends like she knows everything.
this
True💯
Part of me is wondering if she's suffering some other issues... People said the same stuff about me that you said, but they didn't see that my mother was horribly abusive and I was a child unable to express the problem 🤔
@@PPikes her possibly going through abuse or a deeper issue doesnt take away from the fact that she appears to he unintelligent
THIS
Her facial expressions 😂
BRUH I KNOW
I can’t help but laugh 😂
*she has me deaddddd*
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
BRUH SHE WAS LIKE 😐😥😲🤕🤧🥴🤤🤨😕🥺😒
That girl looks like those 3 group of girls in school Brittany, Jennifer ,and Ashley and she’s the head of the squad. She’s the brittany
What Brittany hurt you?! 😂
At my school it started out as three girls. But as more and more and more and more and more people like them came. Now there are like 20 of them
I come up with names in some situations and they don’t relate to anyone i knew.
@Ashley Kuhl Same with Karen's lol. We don't make the stereotypes, we just accept them.
@Ashley Kuhl Its a big stereotype and funnily enough I’ve met this group in MULTIPLE schools. Not even kidding one of them always had one of these names
Dr. Phill is right on this one. She has a really thick layer of emotional armor on.
Sure💯
She needs a Robbin Williams to cut through that armour.
Shes still a little rude
Wdym emotional armor
when she said "would you like a cookie?" died of second hand embarassment
She sounded dum that’s all :/
i am not embarrassed when she said that, but i feel sad for her because her behaving like that won't help herself at all.
She's afraid of authority and she's afraid of being controlled. I wonder if someone who had power over her abused her in some way when she was younger.
No one over looks this
She’s not afraid of authority, she has trust issues with those who are closest to her. She clearly has respect for Dr Phil
She probably just a spoiled brat.
@@realretrorelapse That's the quick, cheap answer. Twenty percent of American kids are raped or sodomized by age 15, and she could be one. America is not Beaver Cleaver's world any more.
i dont think she get abused when she was a child.
poor personality or lack of respect will makes you like her.
or just a child she has their dark inner motives.
she is a child and her brain doesnt function like a adult.
She's putting on such a front. She needs a therapist to chip away at there barriers
I don't know nothin about this besides this video but when I watch stuff like this I hope that the kid starts to learn something about why they even do the things they do, that can be difficult to grasp at times, stuff like abuse or neglect or social awkwardness or an undiagnosed case of autism can become so internalized that your own mind doesn't even make sense anymore
Basically I sympathize with her, I see a damaged person who needs help, not an evil brat
Good luck to that therapist he or she gonna need it if the person dont want to open up to the therapist he or she not gonna make that person to talk so good luck
@@jessicagrebes6816 how old are you you sound like a teenager yourself i am 34 it seems it seems its mostly teens in comments
She's beyond help at this point. She chooses to be this way towards everyone else. Does she need help? Absolutely! But she is beyond it at this point. Lock her up straight away
A therapist would probably make it worse she’s behaving this way because she has no father and her mother had driven her crazy
Prayer is the easiest way to meet God. Talking to your mother like this is faster.
PLEASE
@@Andy_-so9yk Problem?
@@meagankestle412 get with the program sis, there’s no problem
Lmaooo
They're white it's not surprising to me
@@olugboyeopeyemi2428 Your parents failed you if you think racism is okay.
i love when she said she doesnt know what hierarchy means, and i know dr phil knew she felt less than because of that, so he so sincerely said that its okay and went on explaining what it meant
melloyehet i am 34 most teenager girls do know
@@timothywait9457 but some don’t
"No OnEs ThE hEaD oF wHaT yOu JuSt SaId"
..."Family"
"YeAh No"
Lol she's just so confused and full of herself.
Hierarchy 😅
😂😂😂
She acts like a 7 year old trying to be tough.
Nah like a 1 or 2 year old
DR PHIL TURNED THE COMMENTS ON????
WOOO
Obviously if you can comment
Covid ....we are his live audience now 🤣
@juan mendez I knew I was tripping- goddamn acid
Last year
It’s fascinating watching her emotions change and as her safe guards come down
Dr. Phil does have an amazing way of getting people who've gone through so much pain and suffering to start to open up more and feel comfortable with him, especially when he can prove that he's providing them a safe space to gain more insight on their issues and ask for help once they realize how much they need it.
My mom would slapped me so hard for even thinking making face like that 😂😂😂
Same😂
Dr. Phil won't let you do that. Cuts into his revenue if the kids don't act like dumb, spoiled brats.
Same 🤣🤣
Time to get new parents
The way she sort of shuts down when he asks about her fears, and what she says about people telling her to just "take a deep breath"---she so obviously needs real therapeutic help and her mother didn't provide it before her problems snowballed.
There's more to this kid than a bad attitude
i feel like putting her in front of a crowd and a camera while asking her about these things isnt a rlly good way to go, if i was up there and he asks me what im afraid of i wouldnt tell him tbh but if we were alone id feel safer and tell him
It was more rhetoric than anything. He was trying to get her to see her behavior is a reflection of fear... In other words its to say you're not fooling anyone pretending to be tough
id tell him the truth. saves her acting that way in front of the entire country
@@hannahp.fletcher9969 as much as i hate this girl, it's difficult to tell the truth when you're in front of an entire crowd like that to something that you feel is personal
@@Robloxchat123
And that's one of the main problems with Dr. Phil ...
I see a therapist on a weekly basis, and I have built up enough confidence in her, that I've been able to tell her things perhaps only one other person knows ...
But to have my sessions, with her, in front of not only a television audience, and broadcast across the nation ...?
For one, she wouldn't dream of such a stupid idea, primarily because of my safety, but she would lose her licence, and possibly face criminal charges.
There are times when Dr. Phil is right. But he also needs to know his limitations, such as this case, which can only really be handled with her, in a room, with a therapist she can trusts, because they've been able to get past her defenses, without demeaning her. Then, and only then, will she actually admit to what she is afraid of ...
Unfortunately, though, since he has been doing this for more than 3,000 episodes, he has gone way past that point where he understands somethings are just too damn sensitive to handle in the way he does ...
See Dr. Todd Grande's videos --- whom is himself a Licensed and Registered Clinical Psychologist --- on his views on Dr. Phil, one practitioner to another ...
Welll it isn't dr Phil's fault people chose to go on dr Phil
how is he so patient, I would have lost it with her
When she gets older this will be so embarrassing for her to watch all over again
Probably not!! She’s craving attention. Plus some mental and anger problems there.
If only she changed when older
i’m 18 and still see a hurt little girl begging for help from some who doesn’t care. so idk what ur talking about
thats her fault for the way she was acting
This girl is out of control, but I do agree with her about the “take a deep breath” thing.
I don't think she's dumb, I feel like its rlly just a front, ik alot of bullied and depressed kids like this, she puts up a front to hide her insecurities by only thinking of herself causing her to just uninentionaly disconnect from reality of things, tho of course that doesn't exsuse what she has said and done
No, she is one of the most dumb people I have ever seen. Her reaction and inability to process things proves it.
@@SatinN54 okkkk but do u know if she’s had trauma ?
@@redblues8821 having trauma doesn’t correlate with low intellect. Trauma is irrelevant here
@@SatinN54 so true, she unable to understand what dr phill told her. she need education, dicipline and asian mom.
@@asyeela8518 mega oof
My 10 year old sister has a higher vocab
My name is Maya too!
@@polsenggg7034 there was literally nobody named maya in this interaction
@@isaac.2031 because maya
@@isaac.2031 my name is Maya too!
:^ ok
her face when he said she’s unsocialized😂
😂😂🤣
Hahah would you like a cookie?!
YO I DIED WHEN SHE SAID THAT- 💀
"Do you want a cookie? 🙄"
"No, but do you? I made it with cyanide."
My mom would have slapped me right out of that chair.
0:15 *WOULD YOU LIKE A COOKIE?!*
I would love a cookie
*her facial expressions are killing me*
The way she moves her head and speaks along with how she doesn't care is annoying so she'd just destroy my life if I had a child like her or was even stuck with her in the same class-
@@jessicagrebes6816 bruh u annoying af
@@jessicagrebes6816 makes sense. just a scared teenager. I had my moments as a teen and im glad they werent filmed
@@jessicagrebes6816 stfu
@@edgy8806 STOP BULLYING JESSICA IF U DONT LIKE THE GIRL THEN MAKE A COMMENT BUT DONT HATE ON PPL JUST BC THEY CARE ABOUT HER
@@InsecurArties SHUT UP
If I acted like that in front of my parents i would be in a body cast.
If i talked to my mom like that i will get thrown across the room no joke 😂
Same :)
The mother called the kid 'Destoni', she was doomed from the start
Well, her “destiny” could have been a positive one, it doesn’t have to have negative connotations. She seems to be choosing to have a negative destiny
“Congratulations, would you like a cookie?” :| 🍪 😂
This girl is hurting really bad. This is just an exterior she's putting up to prevent herself from breaking down. Hope she heals
Here is an example of a kid that never got disciplined.
It can be more than that
Everyone with scary parents knows this attitude is a free ticket to Jesus 😌
I love how Dr.Phil slowly breaks down people
I generally thought of Anna when she was like WHAT ARE YOU SO AFRAID OF
and then Elsa rages
🤣🤣🤣
"I SAID ENOUGH!" *ice powers*
@Julia Summer 💀
If i acted remotely like this i would probably be dead
Also what teenager doesn't know what hierarchy means
There's probably a lot of them that don't know what it means.
@@theshadowmanshow2995 yeah a lot of other stupid People
@@olugboyeopeyemi2428 or some people that have never come across that word before?
@@jayy17783 well
Maybe people that didn't go to school? Yh them
@@olugboyeopeyemi2428 not everyone learns about that word at school. I learnt that word outside of school, and have yet to see any teacher teach the word
3:52 legit that's the face my 5 year old sister makes at me when she's mad at me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Destoni is definitely a 5 year old trapped in a 14 years old body here. She is not thee only person who lived in a tough house hold. Hope things scare Destoni straight these days😂
When I was a kid, this sarcasm and screaming would have gotten me 5 swats with the belt. Not out of my parents anger either. I was put on restriction, and the "belt appointment" came the next day, after we were all calm. We would talk about the attitudes, discuss further punishment, (yard duty. Gardening, cleaning up clippings, mowing lawns) after the belt appointment. This discipline was usually followed by "lost allowance" for a week or more. I only went thru this ONE TIME. It HUMBLED my attempt to control my parents and do as I pleased.
If she was my daughter, I would take away everything: her cellphone, internet access, and all of her technology devices. She seriously needs to get off her high horse and get a serious reality check.
Agreed. Her attitude makes me think how my mother would react and it’ll be a one way express ticket to see Jesus LOL! these kids need a old school discipline type of thing they’re so spoiled now a days they don’t know the work/reward system. I didn’t get my first game system until I got good grades! but that makes me more appreciative of everything my mother gives!
Why weren't you this child mother?
Been there and done that 😂 .. my daughter is 24 now and she laughs now and is grateful for me taking away her phone and laptop .. looking at this child now I’m thinking gosh my daughter was an angel and I took away her things only because she didn’t clean her room up and was alittle bit cheeky .. by stomping up the stairs in a huff lol
3:45 to 3:55 is the BEST wakeup call on Dr Phil ever.
Dr phil: What are you afraid of?
Me: Im scared of you roasting me
Why she glitching?
She's of course scared.
The question shouldn't be "what is wrong with you let's figure out the problem" it should be "what went wrong parenting-wise that made you so rebellious to authority, let's figure out the problem"
He literally just made her question her entire existance, outside of our reality even
I feel sorry for this girl and for all she’s been through, and her father is a piece of hateful garbage, but that doesn’t mean that I condone her behavior. I hope she’s doing a lot better, and did pray for her as well.
If she is unsocialized that is on her parents
If I ever spoke to my parents like that I'd be hospitalized. These kids have no respect my daughter would never disrespect parents because she is being raised right
I don’t understand how parents allow they’re kids to act in such a way.
i identify as michael jackson and my pronouns are hee/hee
Yo- Im hee/hee now
😂
Roflmao This comment is gold
😭
transphobia, hilarious 😐
0:15 “would you like a cookie?” 😂😂😂😂
Her initial reaction to Dr. Phil's question was very interesting to me. It's almost like a part of her felt like she'd never even asked herself that question before or hasn't asked it to herself for a while. She'd probably become so accustomed to lashing out that she didn't feel like there was anything that could be done to change it. That would indicate she has very low self esteem.
she shuts down almost straight away, she’s putting up a front. she needs help and support,, but putting her on a show won’t help.. She needs help, she’s not a bad kid she’s lost and confused. bless her x
Alot of people are wandering if she's been abused. Sometimes people are just angry for no reason. You don't need to go through any thing to hate the world. Sometimes your are just a really angry resentful person.
This is such a sad comment section
Oddly enough I was thinking the same thing
I would be so ashamed to be her parent...I got told I was too strict with my kids, but would they dare act like this? God no
I am so grateful that I have had the pleasure of having two wonderfully amazing kids.
This girl is the definition of a 'No Brainer'
LMAOO
@@jessicagrebes6816 stfu
@@edgy8806 no u
Yeah
That girl reminds me of myself when i was 4 (except I never threatened to bring a weapon to my school) then I actually matured and I’m *still* younger then her!
Let the comments begin
He's spot on that she's afraid. She can't actually realise the psychological consequences but pretends like she does
Dr Phil is such a good man...Remind me of those old family doctors who cared about whole familes, selflessly...On of those good doctors that went out in harshest of winters to heal a wounded man or tend to a sick woman...I can imagine him in those old paintings just toiling away...
Televised or not, I would have been whooped if I’d spoken to either of my parents that way
I thought people like these only existed in the movies
I don't understand why I am feeling embarrassed
Im hurting for her, she is VERY damaged. Im so sorry..
Dr Phil: That tells me that you're unsocialized
Teen: 😠
Me: 😂😂😂😂
2:52
That face she made 🥴🥴🥴
She seems to be afraid of everyone around her and acts out in a defensive away
This kind of stuff makes me scared to have kids... the disappointment I would feel as a parent, to have a kid turn out like this
She did say or hinted that her not having a father was the reason for her heartache/ behaviour. She dislikes her mom.
I like watching these things and then ask my grown sons what would have happened if they spoke to me like this. They'll laugh and state how they would have been throttled within an inch of their life.
Dr Phil: is your mom the head of the family?
Her: No
Dr Phil: are you the head of the family?
Her: No
I thought she would’ve said yes lol 😂
Me too
She handles her tone very well for disagreements.
How Dr Phill can handle such DISRESPECT
This girl NEEDS help 😂😂
This but unironically
@@jessicagrebes6816 stfu
Her worst fear is when Wendy’s runs out of fries at 2 am
0:45 "I don't know??? Becuase I ammmm?" Great that really sums it up thanks.
She knows what chlamydia is but doesn’t know the definition of hierarchy? Priorities.
Her parents named her Destoni, what did you expect.
does anyone know where this girl is now? or at least her name?
That's confidential mah dude
Her name is destoni
@@OfficalMaryScott ur a madlad
She’s back at home now, she has an Instagram where she mentioned it
Pupper I mean they mention her name on the show and what treatment program or facility, etc she went to, I don’t remember exactly what it was though.
The law has giving them so much power and works someway in their way!! Where I come from, you dare not!!
Hurt is no excuse to treat others as you please. That's weakness and entitlement. No one is obligated to compensating for your flaws.
Sorry but this child was left behind😂
3:55 I cracked up too much lmao!
She looks like Kimmy Gibbler when she makes that face.
I hate when I get embarrassed for others.
Nobody’s asking her the most obvious question which is what are you going to do when you have a job and a boss
this girl just made a whole damn mood
Yea a negative one that nobody wants to be around
Sure🤣
her facial expressions tho. I feel second hand embarrassment right now
Those that say they have no fear, are afraid of the most basic thing. They don't think they'll be loved, so they will go ahead and push those away that they should not.
like idk why parents are so surprised when their kids turn out to be like this when they give them names like "destoni" like wtaf kinda name is that
I can almost hear Gene Wilder calling her name in Young Frankenstein, "Destiny, Destiny,.,"
You can tell she's been bullied heavly when she put her head down and starting to think should she come clean or carry on being the way she is I mean I could totally wrong about her
This video took me by surprise because this is exactly how my ex would act with me. He would lash out his anger on me and it was one of the most scariest things. I was so afraid to tell him what was wrong when he would ask me because he would act like he cared but if it had to do with him BAM anger outburst out of nowhere. I’m so glad he’s not in my life anymore.
Unfortunately I didn’t end up leaving the relationship… but either way him leaving was the best thing I could ever have had happen.
She became respectful with doctor phil
She is full of it and it mind boggling... and she knows it
my mom would have gave me a good slap on national TV if this was me
I texted a link to this to my mom and asked "what if i spoke to you like this as a kid?" Her response?..... Just a picture of her fist 🤣🤣🤣
This is the issue of family loosing a foothold of good family education. That's why a teenage can talk to senior and parents in such a manner. Any one that eat my food, sleep in my house, use my money for clothing, education and medical health care and made me legally responsible for his or her actions will NOT BE ALLOWED to behave in such a manner. Period
Establish authority and respect to authority to teens is basis 101.
All the judges here needs to watch the whole thing and know the whole story. She did commit something horrible, but it's not beyond repair. Hope she finds the help, well-being & closure she deserves...