#2 Top Ten Signs You Are in a Toxic Relationship
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- Опубликовано: 15 окт 2017
- www.drdenisedart.com #2 on our top ten list is when your partner avoids taking responsibility for their actions by telling you what they thinks you want to hear. If caught red-handed this person becomes indignant with you for having the audacity to question them. The message is: “How dare you!”
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My husband is very sneaky and if his lips are moving he’s lying. But being married to him for 53 yrs I don’t like what I’ve become. I don’t like not being able to trust my husband. I don’t like the anxiety that I feel all the time. I’ve moved out of his bed and I no longer care what he does or how many lies he tells. So that helps me a little until I can leave.
It was so validating to hear this! You used the exact script my ex. used! How he was protecting me blah, blah, blah! In effect, he was blaming me for his lying because he said that I "couldn't handle the truth! " Twisted mind for sure!
The ex cluster B I went NC with used to use the blame game on me for his lying...so if he was caught lying I was accused of snooping, not trusting him, or told he lied because he doesn't like my reactions or he doesn't like to be told what to do! It was always my fault for his lying. Looking back it was very hurtful to be treated like that but now I see him as a pathetic emotionally stunted person.
this is true! My now ex-husband had 4 emotional affairs during our 35 year marriage and always managed to convince me I shouldn't doubt him because he "would never do that" or he loves only me etc. His actions never matched his words. His last emotional affair lasted 2 years and I caught him out lying a number of times - he tried hoovering me back but when I said I can no longer live with someone who keeps secrets (meeting the girlfriend in secret) and tells lies, he got indignant and said "I only kept it secret because I knew you would misconstrue it" i.e it's my fault. And the usual "aren't I allowed to have female friends". We have adult children in common so there will always be contact but I am now healing after leaving him.. He continues to lie very effectively to friends and family, denying any wrongdoing.
Narcissists are compulsive liars. Everything they say is a contradiction. When I'd simply say something like "oh but u said this last week", he'd either act like he didn't hear me or go into a rage saying he's 40 yrs old & I'm not his mother & doesn't have to answer to me.
This has happened numerous times within my current marriage of 10 years. Thank you for the example. Because that’s when it clicked for me!
Yep. Im so glad i found you. I've been confused for so long. Im hurting so bad. I don't even want to live.
This is amazing! How devious they are! I've experienced this abuse and it stinks! Thank you Dr. Denise!
A drinker (alcoholic) - said the alcohol on his breath was Listerine!!
This after I asked him to disclose if he needed/had a drink (nicely).
He lied alright - that was the very moment I knew he could, and would, lie to me & try to cover it up.
My spouse will lie to my face and once caught simply say "I didn't want to fight so I told a little white lie", like it's oh so freaking normal.
Confront your cheating spouse with evidence, i was able to spy on my cheating ex phone without finding out.....
it really helped me during my divorce ...you can contact (westhack000) on Instagram
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I thew my ex Narc out November 9th. This point especially resonates with me . We lived together 8 years. Emotionally and verbally abusive man. I'm still in recovery mode. He chose to move only 1.5 mile from me it's right around the corner. He is a diagnosed NPD, that, in and of itself is a story. I did not know this in the beginning of our relationship. Just a few months ago he said, "I usually just tell people what they want to hear and then just do what I want". This was before his meds kicked in although he of course thinks that he's smarter than the doctor and he takes his clonapin as HE sees fit. And this brings me to another question, he now has been getting his clonapin from a general practitioner M.D. not a psychiatrist which I was under the impression that was a legal NO NO. He's been getting them from this dr for about 4 years now, maybe more. The M.D. before this one had told him he needed to go to a psychiatrist for these meds as he would be unable to prescribe them to him anymore.
When an ex insists on continuing to show up in your immediate vicinity it’s important for you to be absolutely firm on your boundaries.
I just want to be happy. I can't he never has nothing nice to say to me. Im stuck here but im going to save up money and get out. I loved him sooo much but im suffering cause he don't care what he does. He won't take the blame. He twist things around. Says i bad mouth him. Yea ive called him names but if you knew what he has put me thru and what he has done anyone in their right mind would call him names. He trys to make me look like im the bad one. Like i can't get along with anyone. He actually said that i can't get along with anyone. My mom. Knows hes nuts.
This is what he did and probley still does.
I know my ex is lying, because he's breathing . he doesn't even have to talk to be lying. Its his natural state... :/
Confront your cheating spouse with evidence, i was able to spy on my cheating ex phone without finding out.....
it really helped me during my divorce ...you can contact (westhack000) on Instagram
spying and hacking social networks, school servers, icloud and much more, viber chats hack, Facebook messages and yahoo messenger, calls log and spy call recording, monitoring SMS text messages remotely, cell phone GPS location tracking, spy on Whats app Messages, his services are AFFORDABLE .................................... ONLY GOD CAN THANK HIM FOR ME
I caught my ex in a lie and she got mad at ME, said what am i her father????!!!!
I said ugh you are lying and got caught anyone can see how the hell am i getting accused of being like ur dad for u lying???!!! Psycho
Hello everyone ! QUESTION : Do you think a toxic , very emotionaly abusive narcissistic 19 year old player guy can change in the future or are these traits for life?
+Mimi Lupa At 19 he can change but HE has to want to change