At least you did not break it over there heads🤩, Ben you did what any logical guy should do, not give away your belongings to thieves, its sad the item was broken, but you were not giving it to them any other way, legend for standing up for yourself💪 great effort making the crossing✌
Nope, a logical guy would have known you can't argue with those types once they've made a decision. I guess I tried when I was younger and learned earlier. You can't argue with bureaucrats. I've had documents rejected because of the wrong color ink when they guy gave me the pen to write with in the first place. Clearly they like to muck with people.
It's a black eye on the Maldives, one that will be here for all to see for years. There's no reason for them to be upset you broke the spear gun, unless they were planning to sell it. They thought it was 'theirs'. And the boat collision is surprisingly poor seamanship for professionals who do that every day.
I am sure you are right. "They wanted the spear gun" must be the truth of it, that shows by the reaction to breaking it. Probably they wanted a bribe payed like is said in another comment. It's a weird expectation, expected to know what they want. And you might go to another place and get arrested for trying to bribe an official.
Big love and hugs guys, that’s bullying and you’re tired and vulnerable after passage. Making you sit there for 10 days waiting for a permit surrounded by garbage when they know you have two very small children on board feels very off. Just leave.
@@FlyBrent i can, but it deoends on them though.. Because they are the victims in this case.. Im a by stander... So if i report and if they get an unexpected visit frm authorities which they dont want.. May irritate them.. However, if they want to report, then i shall
@@FlyBrent Judicial action usually takes months to years. They prey on tourists ("they" as in corrupt officials worldwide, not just the Maldives) because they know it's highly unlikely a tourist will want to stick around or go to the expense of formal legal action in foreign country. In that respect, a RUclips video generating bad publicity is more cost-effective.
Take it to the tourism minster, let him/her raise it with customs minister, reminding the customs minister that no tourists means a much smaller customs department (maybe the two portfolios can be merged and the customs minister is no longer needed?), after all you only need half a dozen customs officers to clear a couple of supply ships a week, and that's all they'll need to do when the tourists stop coming and the economy tanks. (there are other commenters here that have already canceled their trips to you country and it's only been a few days)
Omg. So sorry for you guys. I am just planning a passage from Seychelles to Thailand with stopover and crew change on the Maledives. I got warned already from Yachties in the Seychelles yachtie fb group. I might reconsider and change plan to passage from Seychelles direct to Thailand.. . 10 days in Q zone in that rubish water??? O M G
I'll add it to the list of places I won't bother to visit with my yacht. I really do appreciate the candid information. One thing that I have learned traveling reasonably extensively is that everywhere isn't worth visiting and some places are not worth the hassle and drama.
Being a Maldivian this is really sad to see. Especially because there are a bunch of locals with working spear guns that use it very openly on Instagram. I’m really sorry your experience of the Maldives was not what you expected but I assure you that the officials don’t define all Maldivians. Hope everything works out for you guys.
"the officials don’t define all Maldivians" but they are the "face" of your country, first impressions count, especially when they become only impressions (an experience like this will cause people to leave and go to the next country), you need to let your tourism board know that that your officials are undoing all their work the moment people arrive, and quickly before you have no tourism left (unless tourism is not important to your economy, but I think it might be).
Yikes. I had a bad feeling when you said you were going to the Maldives. I've heard so many stories. I do hope the boat is ok and you don't have any further issues. They don't play there, so be very careful. It's beautiful, but it's not a nice nation if you aren't IN a resort. Best to keep your head down and get out soon. Definitely don't try to bribe them as that will get you arrested for sure.
You should hear what I heard about Tahiti. If you get sick there and can't pay for your medical care and they offer you a helicopter ride somewhere else don't go. They'll throw you out of helicopter into the ocean after they try to blackmail you on the helicopter to call anyone in your phone to get money for them...
This experience puts into context the multiple discussions regarding carrying real guns on boats. The over reaction to a fishing instrument I am sure is nothing compared to them finding a real weapon. I belive you covered this subject. This experience just means the spear gun has given you two memories which you can keep forever, getting it and having it taken away. Life is a collection of memories, keep on collecting, you guys rock!
That spear gun wasn't so much a spear gun as it was a token of being bestowed an honor by the Indonesian men who gave it to you. It's a real shame that the officials in the Maldives took a zero tolerance policy to the extreme... in the end a speargun can be confiscated by paranoid people but that honor that it symbolized cannot be taken away, Ben.
I had a similar incident with the TSA in NY a few years after 911 in 2004. My son and I had bought a Statue of Liberty lighter that was not charged with butane, it was empty. The TSA said we couldn't take it on the plane. I stomped on it crushing and braking the lighter. This angered the TSA and they went trough my luggage leaving TSA inspection papers through out my luggage. Most of these entitled servants want what you have for themselves and when you defy them this insults them to no end.
That’s called having a giant ego trip being high on their ‘power’! They do it more to make a statement and because they don’t want other around you doing the same and putting them in their place where they belong
Boston airport 2010. I didn't think about the too large bottle of mouthwash. Still unopened. The Tub Stacker said its contraband. I said I may as well as take a swig before you take it. She batted my hand, screamed, You can't do that, and threatened to arrest me if I opened the bottle. A gentleman in line with me said he had arrived from visiting friends in Russia, was catching a connecting flight home to Minnesota. His friends had given multiple small jars of homemade cavier. Even those each jar was less than the size allowed on airlines, the Thuggush Stupid Asses moved to confiscate them. So he walked over to a bin to pour out the cavier so he could at least keep the decorative jars. They arrested him. I heard mention of terrorist threat. Another passenger was told to go back to the end of a long line because he hadn't removed his belt soon enough. He too was threatened with arrest if he didn't comply. He protested he'll likely mis his connecting flight. They replied, Too bad, that's your problem. I was a commercial pilot. Often I would be pulled out to be questioned why I have pilot 'stuff'. What are you planning? Who do ty ou work for? What's their telephone number?
Dang. Seeing you guys so excited to arrive, then, the very first 2 impressions are devastating. Now stuck for ten days on trashy bay. I've heard good things about MDives, but now, seeing what can happen to a family with babies on board, im thinking twice. Someone should be help responsible for the damage. Guess my MDives eager just turned cold. Good luck. Be safe.
I once flew to DC for a construction project I was working on, so I had my bag of tools as carry-on luggage. Framing square, 300' tape measure, ball of string with a plumb bob & a few other odds and ends. They took my small plumb bob because they considered it a weapon. I had them call their supervisor and after she considered all the ways I could use the plumb bob to take over the plane, allowed me to take it in the bag. It was obvious that the whole kabuki theater was about wielding power.
Just had some douche tsa guy take his time with my bag over a empty bottle of sun screen. When I mentioned I was gonna miss my flight he moved slower and sent the bag he just checked back through the scanner. 100% a power thing with them. They know there’s absolutely nothing you can do to them.
Greetings from home Calgary. Wow is all I can really say too bad you had this unfortunate experience but thankful your family are safe. Damaging your boat while departing is just totally unprofessional not exactly their first time on the water. Additionally you must be so disappointed with the anchorage, from the pictures not exactly a tropical paradise. I've been with you since day one and know you will get past this and back on track it just won't be in the Maldives. So look forward to the better experiences ahead. Sail safe.
I know from experience that it hurts to lose something very special from your travels. Perhaps now consider placing a picture of him giving you the gift in a frame. Wow Sailing Aquarius had such a warm welcome in the Maldives but I believe they had a guide because of the yacht rally. Hope things quickly turned around for you!
Agree. I'd be out of there with that kind of welcome. You'd think they'd encourage tourism & especially vloggers........... oh well. I've been there & wouldn't return.
Half way through this video and years from starting my own adventure, I found myself looking into alternate routes that I could one day take. Hope your stay improves and thank you for sharing. Look forward to seeing your Seychelles footage!
Wow. So different from what Zatara experienced.(not getting a cruising permit). I bet that has something to do with the "gun" incident. Those islands made my bucket list based on what they experienced with the locals. I hope it works out and you are able to stay. That speargun is so unlike a manufactured one that I wonder if you could have just disassembled it prior to arrival, dispersed the components and not even mentioned it. You're going to be going through more countries if you're able to get it back you might just want to ship at home.
@@kobboy007 I see that now. I was thinking of how all the islanders seemed to welcome them. But, those would be the civilians, Not the government. What Keith is describing sounds like Tahiti to me. So sad
I’m sad to hear of such an unwelcome welcome in the Maldives. I have always dreamed of traveling there, but have heard negative comments from others. I think that your experience seals the deal. I hope you’re able to put this encounter behind you and have smooth sailing as you move on. I think after your terrific extended time in Thailand, this is a real disappointment. ❤️ you guys!
That was a hard lesson learned, in particular when the "spear-gun" was so emotional for you guys. So try to leave the bad episode behind and enjoy the rest of the paradise. Cheers and fair winds.
The only lesson is that govts are bureacratic scum always trying to leverage non-issues for stealth taxes while being non,accountable for any actual wrongs.
‘Kids need their parents 24/7’ Yes!!! I wish more parents saw it this way! Instead we have a culture and society that doesn’t even know who their kids are because they don’t know how to be around their kids and most have gotten so far removed and replaced by that role that they can’t connect with them and therefore think it’s too hard to be around them so much that they don’t even want to be. Hearing you talk about the growth of your kids just melted my heart! They’re so young and this is EXACTLY what they need!! What a great opportunity for them all to have this kind of lifestyle and be able to have more actual hands-on world life experiences like this than most kids will ever have to opportunity to even do once in their whole entire lives! “Come sit on the edge with Mumma” Also something most parents are far to scared to do and are constantly telling their kids to get away from the edge of something.
Awe Ben I'm so sorry you lost that spear gun. I'd have broken it on half too. Some of these banned customs items are ridiculous. Get some sleep so and get out of that harbor.
Just another video that shows what really good folks you are, you love the people you meet along the way they really play a big part in your story and its bloody special to watch. I hope your boat is ok xxx Ashley is the most amazing woman for taking it all in her stride. I’d love to have some one as gorgeous and strong as ash on my side.
Peoples irrational fears and laws of guns in general are ridiculous. Thanks for documenting this, I was on the fence about going to the Maldives but this has solidified it.
@@phuketbungalowinfo2757 I'm guessing English isn't your first language so Ill forgive you on that atrocious attempt at a sentence. What you don't understand is negative videos like that one, that shows the pollution, the corruption and the stupidity of certain countries do have an effect on tourism. Sure small numbers wont make a big difference now but eventually they all add up, but I wouldn't expect you to give a shit now about any of that.
this is nothing about gun laws, they clearly wanted a bribe and when they didn't get it they wanted to confiscate the gun so that they can sell it, that's why they got mad when Ben broke it
We love how, even through a difficult situation, you guys still try to put on a smile on. Glad you made it through, and we look forward to seeing more beautiful adventures
100% right. Kids need their parents! I have a 9 and 6 year old now, and that still stands true. So many people are too quick to hand the parental role off to teachers and daycares... Behind every happy thriving child is an attentive parent.
I remember the interaction that you had with those guys at night and you ended up with that cool spear gun. I believe it was a gift from the heart and I absolutely understand why you didn't want to lose it and why you did what you did. Obviously, they were going to try to sell it to make a profit. So sad! If you do end up getting it back it will have a hell of a story to go with it! Stay safe and try not to let it make you soured by the entire thing. Wishing you and the family nothing but good times from here on out! Peace!
I remember when you made that trade, I watched that video when it came out. It's permanently in our memories and that's what matters :) Glad to see you guys sailing again!!!!
The "official" probably wanted some form of baksheesh/bribe, in order to smooth over any "misunderstanding." You did the right thing, in rendering the item completely valueless, as it could not be sold by anyone looking to make some extra money. I say good on you, for remaining as calm as possible in such an untenable situation. Good thoughts going your way!
Exactly... Thry were expecting something and you made it clear that they are not getting anything by breaking the speargun... That is the reason, they got upset... am an Indian.. I know these things first hand...
@@phuketbungalowinfo2757 in that case, why did they request for additional investigation? The guy driving the boat bumped into the catamaran.. No professional captain would do that.. Wouldn't he put the sailor in trouble? I have no issues with the country.. But, corrupt officers are everywhere...
@@SGudur You've got it exactly right. The Asians sometimes have a very dodgy style of finding something and building up drama to then get some extra money. When Ben destroyed the speargun, the bribe hunters lost their leverage and got pissed and angry.
Your family is the best. I know all is not perfect or easy. It just makes my heart happy to see your RUclips videos. Willa is going to be driving that boat by the time she is 5. That boat or the next one.
Sorry to hear the problem with clearing in and sitting on the hook in a harbor of trash with 2 small children sad 😔 God bless you guys stay safe and stay the course and stay strong. Peace
It’s been a while since I have commented but I can’t sit on my hands anymore. That was a disgusting display by those custom officers. Ben, you are too damn nice. Call them out, write to their Consulate General. I remember the episode when you got that spear gun and the look on you face was priceless. Make it a short stay and spend as little money as you can. Too hell with them.
Indeed, until countries and officials such as this learn they need to have and only implement, proportionate and necessary laws, they should be reminded of the damage they do. Compare this to checking in to some of the Caribean islands, friendly, one stop stamp.
I remember that episode too. Ben was like Ralphie in A Christmas Story opening that official Red Ryder, carbine action, 200-shot, range model air rifle, with a compass in the stock and this thing that tells time. He was so happy and grateful for such a gift.
You guys are awesome. Ben you have taught me so much about how to deal with fishermen. I think you spirt is phenomenal. Often time when we aren’t centered we make not the wisest of decisions. You guys were tire and absolutely exhausted, lol. Take it as a lesson for the next rodeo with customs. Sorry to see that happen to the boat though. That’s the real story. That dent could have been so much worse. I’d recommend that you insist that the don’t tie to your vessel in the future. Help them to board safely. Chin up! You guys made it through. Just a paragraph in your book….that’s all. Stay safe!👊🏿💯😎
Should not have declared it. If there is a next time take it apart and put the wood in your tool box with some other wood you keep on board for repairs. Then put the other parts in with tools and hardware. Live and learn.
10 days???? Even after you have already filed papers?? I'm so sorry you two had to go through this. I've been on the resorts on the other islands in Maldives and everyone is very welcoming, but never had to deal with the officials in Male except the airport, and even then, they are not happy at what they do. I hope the next few weeks, you guys can finally get to enjoy Maldives and meet the locals that are much nicer than the officials.
As a fan of you and other sailing RUclipsrs, it's so frustrating to see what's been going on over the last couple of years. I don't know why or how Covid has changed the world, but many of these countries are OUT OF CONTROL for no reason (Tonga, Maldives, New Zealand, Fiji....). It's crazy. And it's frustrating to the point where I think you should all go to the Caribbean until the world gets back to normal. And none of you want to badmouth or criticize the countries (understandably). But I'm no longer watching videos where sailors defend fascist and ridiculous things. I'm so happy you guys are being honest about your feelings and presenting the facts as ridiculous as they are. And now a war just makes things worse. Get out of questionable parts of the world in terms of cruising, and go somewhere free.
I am South African and have travelled extensively in Africa and The Indian Ocean Islands not as a yachtie but individual businessperson and tourist. The islands East of Africa all have this type of officialdom except Seychelles now. It’s a great friendly place and while officials are tough they are understanding. Kenya, Mombasa is also good, but be cautious of Tanzania, especially Zanzibar. Don’t think of Camores, give them a wide berth. Also stay clear of the Northern half of Mozambique, there’s a war there. South of Beira is Okay. Once you reach the coast of South Africa you fine. We friendly nice people and our officials are used to yacht people. Our seas are quite rough so Good luck..
“Rules for thee and not for me.” Corruption exists when narcissistic criminals have authoritative power. Welcome to the new prevelant state of humanity.
It says a lot about the both of you for caring about the spear gun so much. It really shows that you care for all of the people you come in contact with. I hope your luck turns around! ❤
You guys are awesome! Respectful, you do understand boundaries and admit when you went to far even when you truly believe to be right. Also, no sponsoring commercials on your videos which I just realized you never do, not like "Gone with the Breeze" couple... LOL. You are genuine! God bless you all. Thank you!
Thank you for sharing. I really appreciate how open you two are. And every time I see single use plastic in the ocean or on land I get somewhere between really annoyed and angry. How come the companies that make those things aren't accountable? ARG.
So sorry you had to go through this..so frustrating to see how illogical laws and regulations are in so many countries. I hope you get your speargun back..I could tell how much it meant to both of you! Keep doing what you do. I love watching your videos!
Unjust Laws were meant to be broken. Sad state of affairs with all the world governments right now. Great job guys, keep smiling and glad it was a great passage.
Indeed the legal industry is strangling the world. The horror is the steady increase in their power, the vindictiveness, and the lack of accountability for the damage they do. Those who draft, prepare, approve, implement legislation are the most quilty.
It’s only going to get worst as the globalist bankster boys force this ‘new world order’ agenda through their puppets the corrupt politicians allover the world. Most “officials” in these days are nothing more than government armed thugs.
Sometimes, you just have to pick your battles, I guess. You are in their territory, outnumbered, you didn't stand a chance on this one. Kids are looking great and seem to be adapting to boat life very well. Good job guys.
So sorry for the trouble you ran into, literally. Goes to show the advantage of going as a group to these places. I have traveled to several south/ Central American countries and there is always “safety in numbers”!
@16:05 In a few countries it is not "just doing their job", but "legal" harrasment. There are a few countries in the world that are unfriendly towards foreigners in general or against foreigners of specific regions or cultures or religions of the world. This can get reinforced with underpaid, low educated employees in powerful positions, like policeman, soldiers, coast-guards etc. especially in poor countries.
Just a general comment. I really enjoy your life voyaging. You guys do what many of us only dream of. It's great that you share your ups and downs and really take us on a true journey through what it's really like in boating life. However, I imagine sometimes it's even harder than what you see in your videos. But it seems like the ups and the downs balance out. Most of us just won't get the opportunity to enjoy the type of lifestyle of exploration that you do. So it's fantastic to be able to come along on your journey. Thank you for all that you do!!
I am sorry for what happened to you in Maldives. Your daughter loves the beach. come to Palau and enjoy the beach and dive. Palau's underwater is magnificent and the people here are friendly.
I'm so sorry this happened to your lovely family. I remembered a similar situation happened to the sailing family Zatara in the Malvides. I do know from watching other sailing families I would never go there for sure.
I hope you both consider taking crew for crossings to help with sailing or the children. It was scary seeing one of you ill during a crossing and the other having to shoulder all the responsibilities & 2 young children. La Vagabond does it and it seems to work well for them. Peace and happy, safe sailing!
It was a memorable moment in my life when they gave you that gun that weapon of mass destruction your videos mean a lot I cannot travel so I travel through you guys when I heard that snap it hurt me as well simple possession precious memory lesson learned keep it up you guys looks like there's a couple people watching thank you
I would have so done what Ben did. I'm sorry this happened to you, but appreciate the way you handled it. Happy and safe sailing to you and your family.
It was so wise to have 2children as they have a playmate and better social skills learning sharing and yeah so glad you were able to have 2 babies.Aldo 1boy1girl what luck
Wow. Heartbreaking. Makes me so thankful for my country. God bless y’all. Thanks for sharing. Still makes me want to figure out ways to have a safe or hiding spots for weapons.
Nobody ever has anything good to say about sailing in or around the Maldives. BTW, make absolutely sure you strain, settle, and treat any diesel you buy there.
Thanks for sharing love your Channel. I totally feel your pain and frustration. I fly a small plane in Mexico for a living. Definitely had my run ins with customs a time or two before. Even more frustrating when you have your family with you. Hang in there. Looking forward to your next episode.
We just cancelled our trip. Thanks for posting this. We will take our business where it is appreciated.
Lmao maldivians are not dying for "your business". All of you just need a reason to be racist.
amazing company !
At least you did not break it over there heads🤩, Ben you did what any logical guy should do, not give away your belongings to thieves, its sad the item was broken, but you were not giving it to them any other way, legend for standing up for yourself💪 great effort making the crossing✌
Nope, a logical guy would have known you can't argue with those types once they've made a decision. I guess I tried when I was younger and learned earlier. You can't argue with bureaucrats. I've had documents rejected because of the wrong color ink when they guy gave me the pen to write with in the first place. Clearly they like to muck with people.
✔✔✔👍 I would have done the same and left if plausible goodbye Maldives !
*Maybe he should have broke it over their heads! What complete assh0les!*
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if they are going to take your belongings, at least make sure they are worthless and unusable for sure... so pisses me off...
It's a black eye on the Maldives, one that will be here for all to see for years. There's no reason for them to be upset you broke the spear gun, unless they were planning to sell it. They thought it was 'theirs'. And the boat collision is surprisingly poor seamanship for professionals who do that every day.
Take Maldives off the list. So sorry you had to deal with that. What amateur boatmanship.
I am sure you are right. "They wanted the spear gun" must be the truth of it, that shows by the reaction to breaking it.
Probably they wanted a bribe payed like is said in another comment. It's a weird expectation, expected to know what they want.
And you might go to another place and get arrested for trying to bribe an official.
Wow! To think I was worried about you guys with possible threats from other boats as you were sailing there. Stay safe. Enjoy your videos.
I agree with you. I would have left Maldives. I Hate it for them.
@@markzieg3593 No kidding
You guys rock! A 11 day passage with 2 tiny kids. Amazing!!
One of the few channels I automatically press the like button before the play - 😅
I've always wanted to go to the Maldives. Until today...
Put me off as well. Corrupt bastards.
Big love and hugs guys, that’s bullying and you’re tired and vulnerable after passage. Making you sit there for 10 days waiting for a permit surrounded by garbage when they know you have two very small children on board feels very off. Just leave.
Yes it's shameful.
It’s well known that it’s a theocratic nutjob regime there. Sod always be avoided.
Kinda hard to leave with 100 litres diesel.
It shouldn't cost any thing tbh. As a maldivian, i condemn such behavior by our security forces. They need to be court marshaled. Really upsetting.
Maybe you could show the video to the appropriate authorities??? Someone needs to be accountable.
@@FlyBrent i can, but it deoends on them though.. Because they are the victims in this case.. Im a by stander... So if i report and if they get an unexpected visit frm authorities which they dont want.. May irritate them.. However, if they want to report, then i shall
@@FlyBrent Judicial action usually takes months to years. They prey on tourists ("they" as in corrupt officials worldwide, not just the Maldives) because they know it's highly unlikely a tourist will want to stick around or go to the expense of formal legal action in foreign country. In that respect, a RUclips video generating bad publicity is more cost-effective.
Take it to the tourism minster, let him/her raise it with customs minister, reminding the customs minister that no tourists means a much smaller customs department (maybe the two portfolios can be merged and the customs minister is no longer needed?), after all you only need half a dozen customs officers to clear a couple of supply ships a week, and that's all they'll need to do when the tourists stop coming and the economy tanks. (there are other commenters here that have already canceled their trips to you country and it's only been a few days)
@@daveamies5031 i dont think we have a customs minister. But we may have chief, or another high rank
Omg. So sorry for you guys. I am just planning a passage from Seychelles to Thailand with stopover and crew change on the Maledives. I got warned already from Yachties in the Seychelles yachtie fb group. I might reconsider and change plan to passage from Seychelles direct to Thailand.. .
10 days in Q zone in that rubish water??? O M G
I'll add it to the list of places I won't bother to visit with my yacht. I really do appreciate the candid information. One thing that I have learned traveling reasonably extensively is that everywhere isn't worth visiting and some places are not worth the hassle and drama.
Being a Maldivian this is really sad to see. Especially because there are a bunch of locals with working spear guns that use it very openly on Instagram. I’m really sorry your experience of the Maldives was not what you expected but I assure you that the officials don’t define all Maldivians. Hope everything works out for you guys.
"the officials don’t define all Maldivians" but they are the "face" of your country, first impressions count, especially when they become only impressions (an experience like this will cause people to leave and go to the next country), you need to let your tourism board know that that your officials are undoing all their work the moment people arrive, and quickly before you have no tourism left (unless tourism is not important to your economy, but I think it might be).
I'm sorry for what has happened to you in the Maldives, I pray everything is fine, especially your boat! Stay safe!
Yikes. I had a bad feeling when you said you were going to the Maldives. I've heard so many stories. I do hope the boat is ok and you don't have any further issues. They don't play there, so be very careful. It's beautiful, but it's not a nice nation if you aren't IN a resort. Best to keep your head down and get out soon. Definitely don't try to bribe them as that will get you arrested for sure.
You should hear what I heard about Tahiti. If you get sick there and can't pay for your medical care and they offer you a helicopter ride somewhere else don't go. They'll throw you out of helicopter into the ocean after they try to blackmail you on the helicopter to call anyone in your phone to get money for them...
This experience puts into context the multiple discussions regarding carrying real guns on boats. The over reaction to a fishing instrument I am sure is nothing compared to them finding a real weapon. I belive you covered this subject. This experience just means the spear gun has given you two memories which you can keep forever, getting it and having it taken away. Life is a collection of memories, keep on collecting, you guys rock!
That spear gun wasn't so much a spear gun as it was a token of being bestowed an honor by the Indonesian men who gave it to you. It's a real shame that the officials in the Maldives took a zero tolerance policy to the extreme... in the end a speargun can be confiscated by paranoid people but that honor that it symbolized cannot be taken away, Ben.
I had a similar incident with the TSA in NY a few years after 911 in 2004. My son and I had bought a Statue of Liberty lighter that was not charged with butane, it was empty. The TSA said we couldn't take it on the plane. I stomped on it crushing and braking the lighter. This angered the TSA and they went trough my luggage leaving TSA inspection papers through out my luggage. Most of these entitled servants want what you have for themselves and when you defy them this insults them to no end.
That’s called having a giant ego trip being high on their ‘power’! They do it more to make a statement and because they don’t want other around you doing the same and putting them in their place where they belong
TSA are useless
A pet hamster has caught as many terrorists as the TSA since its inception.
they want obedient slaves. Question them & they will make you pay.
Boston airport 2010. I didn't think about the too large bottle of mouthwash. Still unopened. The Tub Stacker said its contraband. I said I may as well as take a swig before you take it. She batted my hand, screamed, You can't do that, and threatened to arrest me if I opened the bottle.
A gentleman in line with me said he had arrived from visiting friends in Russia, was catching a connecting flight home to Minnesota. His friends had given multiple small jars of homemade cavier. Even those each jar was less than the size allowed on airlines, the Thuggush Stupid Asses moved to confiscate them. So he walked over to a bin to pour out the cavier so he could at least keep the decorative jars. They arrested him. I heard mention of terrorist threat.
Another passenger was told to go back to the end of a long line because he hadn't removed his belt soon enough. He too was threatened with arrest if he didn't comply. He protested he'll likely mis his connecting flight. They replied, Too bad, that's your problem.
I was a commercial pilot. Often I would be pulled out to be questioned why I have pilot 'stuff'. What are you planning? Who do ty ou work for? What's their telephone number?
Dang. Seeing you guys so excited to arrive, then, the very first 2 impressions are devastating. Now stuck for ten days on trashy bay. I've heard good things about MDives, but now, seeing what can happen to a family with babies on board, im thinking twice. Someone should be help responsible for the damage. Guess my MDives eager just turned cold. Good luck. Be safe.
I once flew to DC for a construction project I was working on, so I had my bag of tools as carry-on luggage. Framing square, 300' tape measure, ball of string with a plumb bob & a few other odds and ends. They took my small plumb bob because they considered it a weapon. I had them call their supervisor and after she considered all the ways I could use the plumb bob to take over the plane, allowed me to take it in the bag. It was obvious that the whole kabuki theater was about wielding power.
Just had some douche tsa guy take his time with my bag over a empty bottle of sun screen. When I mentioned I was gonna miss my flight he moved slower and sent the bag he just checked back through the scanner. 100% a power thing with them. They know there’s absolutely nothing you can do to them.
The Maldives did not work out for me as well twice! Time to move on.
Greetings from home Calgary. Wow is all I can really say too bad you had this unfortunate experience but thankful your family are safe. Damaging your boat while departing is just totally unprofessional not exactly their first time on the water. Additionally you must be so disappointed with the anchorage, from the pictures not exactly a tropical paradise. I've been with you since day one and know you will get past this and back on track it just won't be in the Maldives. So look forward to the better experiences ahead. Sail safe.
Another Calgarian agrees!! Love to you guys!
I know from experience that it hurts to lose something very special from your travels. Perhaps now consider placing a picture of him giving you the gift in a frame. Wow Sailing Aquarius had such a warm welcome in the Maldives but I believe they had a guide because of the yacht rally. Hope things quickly turned around for you!
I cried along with you because you're such lovely people. Not everyone is nice, no matter how well u think of them.
You two have given Willa & Bodi the best first years you can give any children - I bet they will be adventurers - Lovely to see - thanks for sharing
Seems like a cash-grab. Being very unreasonable toward what is CLEARLY ornamental. Maldives is a NOPE for me now !
I'd just leave...ASAP
Agree. I'd be out of there with that kind of welcome. You'd think they'd encourage tourism & especially vloggers........... oh well. I've been there & wouldn't return.
@@anneofgreengables1619 Hi Anne, I don't think they can leave without supplies for the next journey.
Ahhh Our Families Sailing Nahoa Sunday morning!!!! This is how you start the day and week off to a great start 😊
Man that broke my heart don’t give up you guys I’m looking forward to the next video to come
Half way through this video and years from starting my own adventure, I found myself looking into alternate routes that I could one day take. Hope your stay improves and thank you for sharing. Look forward to seeing your Seychelles footage!
Wow. So different from what Zatara experienced.(not getting a cruising permit). I bet that has something to do with the "gun" incident. Those islands made my bucket list based on what they experienced with the locals. I hope it works out and you are able to stay. That speargun is so unlike a manufactured one that I wonder if you could have just disassembled it prior to arrival, dispersed the components and not even mentioned it. You're going to be going through more countries if you're able to get it back you might just want to ship at home.
you should read what Keith from Zatara just wrote up above. I don't think their experience was that great
Seems Zatara didn't experienced that differently. Check Keith's comment he made here few minutes ago.
@@kobboy007 I see that now. I was thinking of how all the islanders seemed to welcome them. But, those would be the civilians, Not the government. What Keith is describing sounds like Tahiti to me. So sad
I’m not telling, nether arguing - Nahoa IS their home. So shipping anything elsewhere is hardly an option.
@@MiQBohlin I know... but if I remember correctly they have family in Canada.
I’m sad to hear of such an unwelcome welcome in the Maldives. I have always dreamed of traveling there, but have heard negative comments from others. I think that your experience seals the deal. I hope you’re able to put this encounter behind you and have smooth sailing as you move on. I think after your terrific extended time in Thailand, this is a real disappointment. ❤️ you guys!
That was a hard lesson learned, in particular when the "spear-gun" was so emotional for you guys. So try to leave the bad episode behind and enjoy the rest of the paradise. Cheers and fair winds.
The only lesson is that govts are bureacratic scum always trying to leverage non-issues for stealth taxes while being non,accountable for any actual wrongs.
‘Kids need their parents 24/7’
Yes!!! I wish more parents saw it this way! Instead we have a culture and society that doesn’t even know who their kids are because they don’t know how to be around their kids and most have gotten so far removed and replaced by that role that they can’t connect with them and therefore think it’s too hard to be around them so much that they don’t even want to be.
Hearing you talk about the growth of your kids just melted my heart! They’re so young and this is EXACTLY what they need!! What a great opportunity for them all to have this kind of lifestyle and be able to have more actual hands-on world life experiences like this than most kids will ever have to opportunity to even do once in their whole entire lives!
“Come sit on the edge with Mumma”
Also something most parents are far to scared to do and are constantly telling their kids to get away from the edge of something.
not everyone but sadly the majority! Take our kids back and make it all about the family or by age 13 they are lost and we have lost them completely.
Never traveled like you guys but always told the kids, one hand for what you're doing and one hand for the boat. Best of luck...great sailing!
We are planning to cross Indian Ocean next year, most likely Maldives are off the list for stop-over
Awe Ben I'm so sorry you lost that spear gun. I'd have broken it on half too. Some of these banned customs items are ridiculous. Get some sleep so and get out of that harbor.
With all the trash in the water and oil on the surface, it's not like there are any fish to protect anyway.
Just another video that shows what really good folks you are, you love the people you meet along the way they really play a big part in your story and its bloody special to watch. I hope your boat is ok xxx Ashley is the most amazing woman for taking it all in her stride. I’d love to have some one as gorgeous and strong as ash on my side.
Peoples irrational fears and laws of guns in general are ridiculous. Thanks for documenting this, I was on the fence about going to the Maldives but this has solidified it.
@@phuketbungalowinfo2757 I'm guessing English isn't your first language so Ill forgive you on that atrocious attempt at a sentence. What you don't understand is negative videos like that one, that shows the pollution, the corruption and the stupidity of certain countries do have an effect on tourism. Sure small numbers wont make a big difference now but eventually they all add up, but I wouldn't expect you to give a shit now about any of that.
@@TG-xo1uj bro... Peak oil was reached on this planet... No one is going to be traveling any where in the near future.
@@phuketbungalowinfo2757 Nicht alle Amerikaner sind so, wie Sie denken....
Go Phuk yourself.
this is nothing about gun laws, they clearly wanted a bribe and when they didn't get it they wanted to confiscate the gun so that they can sell it, that's why they got mad when Ben broke it
We love how, even through a difficult situation, you guys still try to put on a smile on. Glad you made it through, and we look forward to seeing more beautiful adventures
100% right. Kids need their parents! I have a 9 and 6 year old now, and that still stands true. So many people are too quick to hand the parental role off to teachers and daycares... Behind every happy thriving child is an attentive parent.
I remember the interaction that you had with those guys at night and you ended up with that cool spear gun. I believe it was a gift from the heart and I absolutely understand why you didn't want to lose it and why you did what you did. Obviously, they were going to try to sell it to make a profit. So sad! If you do end up getting it back it will have a hell of a story to go with it! Stay safe and try not to let it make you soured by the entire thing. Wishing you and the family nothing but good times from here on out! Peace!
I remember when you made that trade, I watched that video when it came out. It's permanently in our memories and that's what matters :) Glad to see you guys sailing again!!!!
I learned to walk and grew up on a small sailboat in the 70s.
So many dinghy rides around crappy harbors to pass the time! So funny...
Chubbles is still adorable... Been a while,.... glad to see you are back afloat. Congratulations on the new pumpkin!
The amount of stimulation being pumped into these kids brains is amazing.
Salute your courage and wisdom.
You guys have worked so hard for this sail. I wish you much better luck and sleep.
The "official" probably wanted some form of baksheesh/bribe, in order to smooth over any "misunderstanding."
You did the right thing, in rendering the item completely valueless, as it could not be sold by anyone looking to make some extra money.
I say good on you, for remaining as calm as possible in such an untenable situation.
Good thoughts going your way!
Great points.
Exactly... Thry were expecting something and you made it clear that they are not getting anything by breaking the speargun... That is the reason, they got upset... am an Indian.. I know these things first hand...
Never pay any bribes and enable them to keep doing these things to people.
@@phuketbungalowinfo2757 in that case, why did they request for additional investigation? The guy driving the boat bumped into the catamaran.. No professional captain would do that.. Wouldn't he put the sailor in trouble? I have no issues with the country.. But, corrupt officers are everywhere...
@@SGudur You've got it exactly right. The Asians sometimes have a very dodgy style of finding something and building up drama to then get some extra money.
When Ben destroyed the speargun, the bribe hunters lost their leverage and got pissed and angry.
Your family is the best. I know all is not perfect or easy. It just makes my heart happy to see your RUclips videos. Willa is going to be driving that boat by the time she is 5. That boat or the next one.
You guys are way better people than I am …. Hell would freeze over before I would stay.
Sorry to hear the problem with clearing in and sitting on the hook in a harbor of trash with 2 small children sad 😔 God bless you guys stay safe and stay the course and stay strong. Peace
You guys are incredible! To still be smiling with kids on the boat and no land. Thanks for an amazing experience!
It was somewhere I wanted to visit, but not on the list anymore.
It's overrated. FRankly the Greek Islands are just as beautiful with nicer people & you can drink alcohol & wear a bikini......
For years watching you guys… i can see that sadness in your eyes… stay safe guys
It’s been a while since I have commented but I can’t sit on my hands anymore. That was a disgusting display by those custom officers. Ben, you are too damn nice. Call them out, write to their Consulate General. I remember the episode when you got that spear gun and the look on you face was priceless. Make it a short stay and spend as little money as you can. Too hell with them.
Indeed, until countries and officials such as this learn they need to have and only implement, proportionate and necessary laws, they should be reminded of the damage they do. Compare this to checking in to some of the Caribean islands, friendly, one stop stamp.
I remember that episode too. Ben was like Ralphie in A Christmas Story opening that official Red Ryder, carbine action, 200-shot, range model air rifle, with a compass in the stock and this thing that tells time. He was so happy and grateful for such a gift.
You guys are awesome. Ben you have taught me so much about how to deal with fishermen. I think you spirt is phenomenal. Often time when we aren’t centered we make not the wisest of decisions. You guys were tire and absolutely exhausted, lol. Take it as a lesson for the next rodeo with customs. Sorry to see that happen to the boat though. That’s the real story. That dent could have been so much worse. I’d recommend that you insist that the don’t tie to your vessel in the future. Help them to board safely. Chin up! You guys made it through. Just a paragraph in your book….that’s all. Stay safe!👊🏿💯😎
Man that sucks. Entering ports seems very nerve wracking and denting the side of your boat is upsetting. You handled this situation like pros.
Should not have declared it. If there is a next time take it apart and put the wood in your tool box with some other wood you keep on board for repairs. Then put the other parts in with tools and hardware. Live and learn.
I'm glad all four of you are good and safe... thanks for the look out though. Happy sailings to all of you.
Maldives is now off my cruising list. I think if that is how they treat visitors you guys should just check out and go.
10 days???? Even after you have already filed papers?? I'm so sorry you two had to go through this. I've been on the resorts on the other islands in Maldives and everyone is very welcoming, but never had to deal with the officials in Male except the airport, and even then, they are not happy at what they do. I hope the next few weeks, you guys can finally get to enjoy Maldives and meet the locals that are much nicer than the officials.
As a fan of you and other sailing RUclipsrs, it's so frustrating to see what's been going on over the last couple of years. I don't know why or how Covid has changed the world, but many of these countries are OUT OF CONTROL for no reason (Tonga, Maldives, New Zealand, Fiji....). It's crazy. And it's frustrating to the point where I think you should all go to the Caribbean until the world gets back to normal. And none of you want to badmouth or criticize the countries (understandably). But I'm no longer watching videos where sailors defend fascist and ridiculous things. I'm so happy you guys are being honest about your feelings and presenting the facts as ridiculous as they are. And now a war just makes things worse. Get out of questionable parts of the world in terms of cruising, and go somewhere free.
Such a shame! Maybe you could get in touch with the Canadian or German Embassy. They might be able to help you with your boat.
I am South African and have travelled extensively in Africa and The Indian Ocean Islands not as a yachtie but individual businessperson and tourist. The islands East of Africa all have this type of officialdom except Seychelles now. It’s a great friendly place and while officials are tough they are understanding. Kenya, Mombasa is also good, but be cautious of Tanzania, especially Zanzibar. Don’t think of Camores, give them a wide berth. Also stay clear of the Northern half of Mozambique, there’s a war there. South of Beira is Okay. Once you reach the coast of South Africa you fine. We friendly nice people and our officials are used to yacht people. Our seas are quite rough so Good luck..
“Rules for thee and not for me.”
Corruption exists when narcissistic criminals have authoritative power.
Welcome to the new prevelant state of humanity.
It says a lot about the both of you for caring about the spear gun so much. It really shows that you care for all of the people you come in contact with. I hope your luck turns around! ❤
You guys are awesome! Respectful, you do understand boundaries and admit when you went to far even when you truly believe to be right. Also, no sponsoring commercials on your videos which I just realized you never do, not like "Gone with the Breeze" couple... LOL. You are genuine! God bless you all. Thank you!
Thank you for sharing. I really appreciate how open you two are. And every time I see single use plastic in the ocean or on land I get somewhere between really annoyed and angry. How come the companies that make those things aren't accountable? ARG.
Your resiliency is commendable! Bravo for taking the high road in spite of the circumstances 👏
Screw them, leave if you can. Going to Seychelles next?
So sorry you had to go through this..so frustrating to see how illogical laws and regulations are in so many countries. I hope you get your speargun back..I could tell how much it meant to both of you! Keep doing what you do. I love watching your videos!
Unjust Laws were meant to be broken. Sad state of affairs with all the world governments right now. Great job guys, keep smiling and glad it was a great passage.
Indeed the legal industry is strangling the world. The horror is the steady increase in their power, the vindictiveness, and the lack of accountability for the damage they do. Those who draft, prepare, approve, implement legislation are the most quilty.
It’s only going to get worst as the globalist bankster boys force this ‘new world order’ agenda through their puppets the corrupt politicians allover the world. Most “officials” in these days are nothing more than government armed thugs.
Great! You put this video back! Hope you are doing great.
They got angry because upon breaking the spear, they couldn’t extort money having the Coast Patrol escort you from north to south.
Unlikely. It's much more about Ben losing face. A big no no in Asian culture.
Wow I hope you were able to get on land finally after 10 days of waiting. Sending Love
Sometimes, you just have to pick your battles, I guess. You are in their territory, outnumbered, you didn't stand a chance on this one. Kids are looking great and seem to be adapting to boat life very well. Good job guys.
thanks for being so real, I feel your frustration, but that is part of traveling. I'm so impressed your doing this with two babies.
So sorry for the trouble you ran into, literally. Goes to show the advantage of going as a group to these places. I have traveled to several south/ Central American countries and there is always “safety in numbers”!
The stars are reflecting on the ocean because the ocean is glass, priceless. May your sails always be blessed :]
@16:05 In a few countries it is not "just doing their job", but "legal" harrasment. There are a few countries in the world that are unfriendly towards foreigners in general or against foreigners of specific regions or cultures or religions of the world. This can get reinforced with underpaid, low educated employees in powerful positions, like policeman, soldiers, coast-guards etc. especially in poor countries.
What a deception for the Maldives. So many people talking good about tourism but it look they reality is something else.
Glad you made it safely. Thanks for sharing the journey.
Stay strong guys. I feel so sad for the dent 😢 it hurts.
Much respect Sailing Nahoa!!!!
Just a general comment. I really enjoy your life voyaging. You guys do what many of us only dream of. It's great that you share your ups and downs and really take us on a true journey through what it's really like in boating life. However, I imagine sometimes it's even harder than what you see in your videos. But it seems like the ups and the downs balance out. Most of us just won't get the opportunity to enjoy the type of lifestyle of exploration that you do. So it's fantastic to be able to come along on your journey. Thank you for all that you do!!
I am sorry for what happened to you in Maldives. Your daughter loves the beach. come to Palau and enjoy the beach and dive. Palau's underwater is magnificent and the people here are friendly.
That was a real bummer. Glad you both manage to smile through it.
I'm so sorry this happened to your lovely family. I remembered a similar situation happened to the sailing family Zatara in the Malvides. I do know from watching other sailing families I would never go there for sure.
your parenting and attitude about life speaks loud of the beautiful family you are. SAFE TRAVELS!
So sorry you had to go through this. Even more sorry for your boat.
Corruption. Keep ON and enjoy! All the best.
I hope you both consider taking crew for crossings to help with sailing or the children. It was scary seeing one of you ill during a crossing and the other having to shoulder all the responsibilities & 2 young children. La Vagabond does it and it seems to work well for them. Peace and happy, safe sailing!
It was a memorable moment in my life when they gave you that gun that weapon of mass destruction your videos mean a lot I cannot travel so I travel through you guys when I heard that snap it hurt me as well simple possession precious memory lesson learned keep it up you guys looks like there's a couple people watching thank you
I'm so sorry you guys went through this. I love watching your videos and your really an inspiration to more then you know. Please keep your heads up.
I would have so done what Ben did. I'm sorry this happened to you, but appreciate the way you handled it. Happy and safe sailing to you and your family.
It was so wise to have 2children as they have a playmate and better social skills learning sharing and yeah so glad you were able to have 2 babies.Aldo 1boy1girl what luck
Wow. Heartbreaking. Makes me so thankful for my country. God bless y’all. Thanks for sharing. Still makes me want to figure out ways to have a safe or hiding spots for weapons.
I agree "Forget You" Maldives, off our list. World is plenty big.
Dang, other sailors should of warned you about the problems in that port. Unreal
Nobody ever has anything good to say about sailing in or around the Maldives. BTW, make absolutely sure you strain, settle, and treat any diesel you buy there.
Nooo! This should not be alowed!
Well, I will certainly be avoiding the Maldives on my passage in the region after seeing this. Sorry for this negative experience.
Thanks for sharing love your Channel. I totally feel your pain and frustration. I fly a small plane in Mexico for a living. Definitely had my run ins with customs a time or two before. Even more frustrating when you have your family with you. Hang in there. Looking forward to your next episode.