00:29 🖐 Long unkempt fingernails can be a turnoff for women, but it's an easy fix-trim and clean them. 01:53 🧴 Poor skin health affects attractiveness; it reflects overall health. Skincare routines, diet, and hydration can help. 05:37 🚿 Bad hygiene, like bad breath or greasy hair, can be a major turnoff. Basic dental care and showering regularly matter. 09:06 🤦 Contractive body language, like slouching or crossing arms, can signal insecurity. Open and expansive body language exudes confidence. 10:59 💪 Neglecting health and fitness reflects poorly on attractiveness and can hint at laziness in other aspects of life. 13:17 👔 Ill-fitting clothes can detract from appearance; well-fitted attire enhances body shape and boosts confidence.
Important note on the last one. If you aren't upkeeping the fitness part having 'form fitting' clothing may work to your disadvantage. No one wants to see someone try to cram 10-pounds of stuff into a 5-pound bag as they say.
When I see men having long unkempt fingernails I get disgusted lol it's so gross. Bad hygiene is also gross. When I'm around man or woman who stink, instantly have to get away.
When I moved to California, decades ago, women would occasionally tell me that it was bad body language to cross my arms. I always told them that, where I come from, it just means I'm cold.
Courtney is once again dead spot-on with her advice. As an older guy, I would add that if you are going to be intimate with a woman you need to trim your toenails in addition to fingernails. Voice of experience 😄
Important things: 0:34 First Thing - Long/ Unkempt Fingernails; 1:50 Second Thing - Poor Skin Health; 5:36 Third Thing - Bad Hygiene; 8:52 Fourth Thing - Contractive Body Language; 10:06 Proper body language; 10:51 Fifth Thing - Neglecting Your Health / Fitness; 13:03 Sixth Thing - Ill - Fitting Clothing; and 14:23 to summarize all the told here. Well some the things we could like to know a bit earlier as well. But I always say this: "It's better ever, than never." By that I mean to that things to be told when ever are needed as well. As for acnes Courtney, I might add, that this is a normal period of having them, cause that's the time period when we are starting to develop from child to teenager, and from teenager, to adult. I can't deny that can be a problem, but with appropriate skin, and health care, they can be removed. As for symmetrical body, that's a mission impossible. Why? Because by medicine (and some of the doctors can correct me if I'm wrong), there is such a thing called asymmetrical body. And that's not with whole body, but with some things there, and as I said, doctors can correct me if I'm wrong. I might add that choosing your clothes also means that you just don't look good and fitted, but it means that you don't use materials that are bad for our health. It goes without saying that tight clothes are not taken. The additional things to your unattractive physical features are these: Sixth Thing - Doing Too Much Plastic Surgery (but that can be applied to either men, and either women) (and also by that I don't mean on doing medical corrections. I mean on corrections for doing thigs, just to be done such as copy - paste thing, let say it that way); Seventh Thing - Seeking Perfectionism (but this would be also psychological unattractiveness). If we are going to summarize all the told the most unattractive things is not taking care of yourself. By that is to take care of your health, hygiene (We in Balkan peninsula say this: "Cleanliness is half of health."), to know to put boundaries to someone's bad behavior (to know to say word NO when it's needed). Thank you Courtney ❤💙🤍.
this is nonsense, ive sorted all those areas out and I havent had a relationship in 8 years.... height trumps ALL of the above... and thats the only thing I dont have....
I’m an electrician and I’ve been working underground, when I go out after a long day in the dirt/mud you wouldn’t have guessed I worked that day. No excuse for unkempt nails or anything hygiene wise.
Try tending to tomatoes , weeding out the garden or putting on a plaster/adhesive or filling something with PU foam - if you don't work with gloves on all the time, the hands will get dirty
@@jonathanrose456 bruh, I can’t tell you how frustrating some of my peers are. “Slow down or they’ll make all of us work that fast.” I’m a millennial and I was told I’m a lazy sack of shit 🤣 these boomers and gen z peeps are wild
It's very odd, but my seasonal sadness actually hits early Spring through August. I start to feel happier in September, because i love the Fall and turning clocks back, because it effects my sleep when it's light early in the morning and later at night.
Hi. I'm a big fan. I'm a women who has been happily married for 8 years. It's easy to get too comfortable after that long. I'd love more content for women to be their best. Thanks!
I think you are spot on with those tips. I am for years on my own after two longterm marriages. Never really had problems with hygiene. I am keeping myself in shape and try to eat healthy. Although I don' t see any women to connect with. It is only me and some guys my age to talk to. I guess I played my part and now I see reality as it is for me and probably for a lot of other men. They say I still look good but I am not noticing nothing from almost no one. I am getting used to it more and more and keep my mindset on the positive side of life. I guess that's it. I am 70 now.
I wholeheartedly agree with all the points you made here Courtney, even while I have things I would need to work on myself! I think keeping on top of Facial Grooming is just as important, so I try to do all I can to look as tidy & clean (when out in Public) because it doesn’t matter who you might meet, so I regularly use trimmers for Nose & Ears. Money is a little tight right now but is set to improve soon so I will be able to spend more on improving my appearance!
I agree with everything you said Courtney. I have a limited budget but I always make sure I practice basic higiene. You don’t need much money to do that. I shower, trim my nails, wear deodorant, and spray some cologne.
Hot Oil treatment is a godsend for dealing with severe dryness of the scalp. I struggled for my whole life with this because typical cheap shampoo and conditioner will make it even more dry
Great vid, Courtney, thank you! If I may add to the bad breath advice, it’s not just the tongue, but some people have tonsil stones called tonsililiths that cause the funk. They get trapped within tonsil crypts. 😞
You're STUPID if you find this a "great video" or that she has any advice that has value. Everything she said is basically you have to LOOK GOOD ENOUGH for a woman. Duh, there isn't a man out there that doesn't know you have to be hot and have money. Just remember, she ended up with a 6 foot guy who deals in luxury watches. What does she do? Nothing like that, lol.
It’s not just cold places where we need to get out and prevent SAD in the winter. Here in Central California it averages 60-72 degrees with lots of sunshine m. But if people stay indoors or don’t exercise, we can get depressed too. It’s really amazing now that we have thousands of orange, mandarin and lemon trees exploding with fruit right now but not very many people exercising outside for their health. It’s a such a shame. This video is spot on about everything said! 👍😎
Courtney, I enjoyed the content. As a 59 year old guy, who is happily married now for almost 36 years, its great to hear someone giving sound advice for men with such balance and grace. Keep up the great work and I’ll check out the mens products you suggested in this video. Keep up the good work. Julian
ABSOLUTELY! I like getting another idea and viewpoint on how I can look my best and be my best for my awesome wife even after I ask her myself. you're never to old to learn from somebody younger. even more so when it helps to keep things fresh in my marital relationship. May you and your spouse have merry christmas james!@@jamesmccaul2945
9:06 I can understand girls do not find a man’s body language unattractive. Unfortunately, I have autism and it’s hard for me to be steady on my body language whenever I feel something exciting or stressful. But I usually try to maintain my body language in a calm manner without having any sense of insecurity.
I get seasonal sadness too, but mine mostly comes from everybody around me turning crabby because it's cold, and the holidays that encourage you to eat disgusting amounts of food at the behest of being shamed by family.
I’ve been too poor for seeing skin doctors, eating right, & buying makeup (plus as a kid, men keeping up with their skin wasn’t a wide spread thing in the 2000s) so now I’m an adult with acne scars
I’m a retired dentist. That’s good advice about a tongue scraper. It’s amazing how much crud builds up on your tongue. Most bad breath is due to bacteria. Getting rid of the bacteria by brushing, flossing, and using a tongue scraper will solve most bad breath issues. Now if you like munching on raw garlic cloves, that’s another story.
Thanks for sharing your experiences and shortcomings. I think it supports your goal in providing points that are easily actionable. (I also like how you subtly deliver humor.) My challenge right now is how to build discipline while recovering from depression and being a people-pleaser. And yes, the algorithm brought me to this channel because I have a crush. 😅
I am on the no poo kick. Haven’t used shampoo in over a year now and my hair has never been healthier! Just wash with water in the shower, condition once a week, and call it good! No greasy hair anymore! And I use product in my hair as well, just have to get stuff that washes out with water. I use Sauvecito brand and it works excellent while also washing out easily.
Hey! Exercise for the Buzz! Seriously. When I started my recovery journey from alcohol and other substances I wondered about missing the high. I found out that after walking for half an hour or more I got a buzz for about an hour afterwards.
Hi Courtney! Perhaps my skin could be a little better, but I am pretty good at cleanliness and hygiene. I walk and work out every day and don't eat a whole lot of junk food. I sometimes struggle with body language though. I sometimes will keep clothing for too long and will wear things that have gotten too tight. Have a great week ahead, Courtney!
@@kevinsamson1693 I started to get thinning hair and one day a friend of mine said that during prayer, they were told to tell me, that I need to confess out loud my thinning hair back into growth. Eventually after understanding more about scripture I started to say 'I am a child of God and the son of Abraham whom Satan hath bound in thinning hair at the back and the crown of my head, lo those xx years, I am loosed from this bond today in the name of Jesus Christ'. Now my thinning hair is growing back and the bald circle is filling in. But other affirmations can also work but not as well.
Sunscreen everytime you go outside. SPF 50 at least. Make sure it has not just good UVB but also UVA protection as that’s what ages skin the most. Yes Tretinoin. Cleanse skin in shower and moisturize nightly after shower when skin is damp. Take 20 g collagen powder daily too. And good diet with lots of fruits and veggies.
Hi Courtney. Everything you've said in this video makes so much sense, much of which I knew already but It's good to hear it coming from a young lady such as yourself. Interesting to hear that you experienced psoriasis in the past. I also suffer with psoriasis flare ups and know how challenging it can be to look after your skin and as you mention there are many things we can do to improve our skin, such as good hydration, plenty of sleep, reduce or cut out alcohol consumption, moisturise etc. I am now focusing on the nutrition side of things and I'm curious to know if you follow a strict diet when it comes to keeping psoriasis at bay i.e. dairy free, gluten free? I've seen a few nutritional videos that target psoriasis but they seem much to my discouragement very restrictive and suggestions that include cutting out potatoes and tomatoes seems a step to far as they are healthy staple foods in my opinion.
Ha, the "seasonal sadness" can come from the oppressive heat. I would be too happy to think straight if my weather was cool and cold. I often catch myself sort of slouching in the windows and grocery store freezer doors. Working out is definitely a regimen that people have to develop early or just be dedicated to doing it, but having a job that requires physical activity and getting hot can wear people out. I hear people calling others lazy because they stay home sedentary when they are off work but they don't understand that it is rest from spending most of the waking time on one's feet and moving.
A friend has psoriasis and had it really bad. But then someone convinced him to get therapy. There they found out that he had a bad depression and he started treatment. After a while the psoriasis started to get less intense and the attacks came more and more infrequently. I don’t know what the science say about it but there seems to be a connection between depression and psoriasis. A book that is interesting with the connection between therapy and physical health is ”Words that set you free” by Marie Cardinal. I translated the title from French so I don’t know if the title is right in English.
I've noticed that psoriasis tends to be more prevelant amongst people with a Mediterranean skin coloring, but who have no tan. Like they're not getting enough time in the sun. Maybe they're related.
This is one of the most useful videos that Courtney has made. Some men definitely need to clean themself up and dress appropriately for a date. I believe that men that present themself as unattractive is due to the lack of proper hygiene when they are young.
I also hear that another contrastive posture is to have your hands in your pants pocket, unless you are reaching for your wallet. My fingernails are self keeping, I do so much DIY and work with my big rugged hands, that I am constantly breaking them and cutting them. Also Court, if you have problems with SAD, there are lamps you can get to turn on and help you.
I recently got into using whitening strips. I found some pretty cheap ones that work amazing! It was like $10 for 17 pairs of strips. I haven’t even used half and my teeth are already completely white. Of course I only use them after doing everything else, brushing, flossing, picking, etc…
@@screwedupmystic2597 you’re so right Elmo head! Having disgustingly yellow teeth is very manly and gets all the chicks! Be lazy, and don’t work on things, that’s the masculine way! Man! 💪🏼🤣🤣🤣
Hi Courtney.....excellent video as always. Yes I agree with all your suggestions, many are common sense, if you put in the effort you will reap the rewards further down the line.
Pretty good advice, as always. I think that folks can realize, that putting 45-60 minutes for care and hygiene is like the easiest form of self-fitness; washing, brushing, and cleaning oneself is as important as the workout we put in the gym and trail. I think of it like buying candles -- Everyone loves the nice smelling ones. They wouldn't want to spend time with anything pungent nor unflattering. So? Even if a person feels they are somehow physically unattractive? Smelling nice has many advantages to appealing toward the opposite sex. Yes folks: Brushing teeth, getting a haircut, washing/scrubbing in a shower, and cleaning those cuticles is arguably 70% of the attractiveness score.
60 minutes for care and hygiene? For real? Working out (being muscular) is 90% of the attractiveness score (if your face structure which you can't affect is excluded). Yes you should keep clean and not smell bad, but it doesn't take 45-60 minutes per day. 45-60 minutes is the gym workout, the rest should take you 15 minutes at most. People who work out regularly, also shower regularly. After that, all you need is basic things, like using deodorant and brushing your teeth twice a day. If you really spend 60 minutes in front of a mirror like women, lots of women will actually find THAT unattractive and unmanly. They don't want to be the one in a relationship, that spends less time in front of a mirror...
As a sidenote, for you, Courtney, just know that most skin issues are treated from the inside, such as the issues that you mentioned for yourself. You may be lacking in all of the B vitamins. Try to supplement, you might be surprised as the results.💗
Absolutely 💯 👍🏽Listen to this man gentlemen. He knows! Not only B vitamins, but more importantly, Biotin and collagen. I can highly recommend a few brands of supplements created specifically for men's skin. hair, and nails. All natural high-quality ingredients. And no huge horse pills that you'll choke on tryna swallow lol😅 These are all delicious gummies that you'll WANNA take daily. Ordered from your phone, delivered to your crib. I can co-sign for these brands from personal experience. Nothing for me to gain personally from putting you guys on game. C'mon man! Ain't like I'm some kind of famous internet personality or influencer lol Pete and Pedro Biotin gummies and their Daily multivitamin. That's Alpha M's brand. Forte Series gummies, which is from Alex Costa's hair products line. Finally, Particle Aesthetic Science For Men. Particle isn't any RUclipsr influencer's brand like Pete and Pedro and Forte Series, but they ARE a great brand that has some excellent products created for men. Their 6-in-1 Face Cream = GAME CHANGER!! Just 1 product does the work of 6! We dudes like SIMPLE! We don't wanna spend a fortune on a gang of different products, each one to do a different thing (lines and wrinkles, under eye bags/dark circles, etc), NOR do we wanna spend any more time than we have to on a grooming regimen. The 6-in-1 Face Cream + Hair/skin/nails gummies from Particle and 👌🏽You're good to go! The moral of the story is to take a proactive approach to taking care of your skin, hair, and nails. Taking care of what's on the outside is only 1/2 the battle. It's just as crucial to be mindful of taking care of it from the inside too. But once you do, you'll be astonished by results! Seriously fast and noticeable. You got this, fam!
You may want to know, I attempted to order the retinol stick but before I knew it I had 4 retinol sticks along with 4 skin care systems in my cart totaling over $300, and I could find no way to correct the quantity. So I had to abort the order. This is on an iPhone 15 Pro Max, using both RUclips and Safari.
Most guys give it a good try but there are dudes and I have sat near them on buses and planes that have not bathed nor washed their hair before going out in public. Their clothes are wrinkled and dirty. My only guess is that their mom’s may have done all of the clothes washing and goaded them on their personal hygiene but when they move out of the house they stopped paying attention to these tasks.
Well said...although I feel this should be rhetorical for us as Men. I'm not really vocal on the 'seasonal depression'... You and your husband should go on walks. It works for me!!!! My hobby with HO Scale trains keeps me plenty busy during winter months in Southern Illinois. From the Mississippi Valley to the Ohio Valley going to be not only cold but we're in for a few 'Big Daddy' snow storms! Dress well for outside this winter!!✨️🌲🎁🦌🎅🤶☃️⛄️❄️❄️❄️
Yes, I live near North Pole and winters are pitch black here, only a few hours of sunlight per day. When I go to work it's dark, when I get off from work it's dark. I have never had any seasonal depression, people here don't really talk about it much, not even women. Because it's our home, it's always been pitch black (on the other hand, in mid-summer, the sun never sets) Hard workouts cure all depression. Don't let the amount of light affect your mindset, just eat enough vitamin D (normally people get it from sunlight), exercise regularly, and you'll be alright
If you have trouble with seasonal affective disorder/depression, I'd highly highly recommend vitamin D supplements. I noticed about a 70% improvement in my mood as soon as I started taking them in the winter.
When it comes to tech-neck invest some in your workplace, at first a really good chair, adjustable height of table and place the screens high up so that your gaze is horizontal. Do some excercises now and then for your posture. Has helped me a lot.
Good advice for the younger generation. The nice part about being widowed, age 66, and not seeking a woman for anything is that I don't have to do anything of this to impress a woman! Good luck to all you guys who are!
Something else I will say, is even if you got a little bit of Schomer on your torso, just a little bit of love handles in a little bit, but for the most part, you’ve taken care of yourself, because I do do manual labor for my job, and I do have biceps, I’m just normally too exhausted after work to go work out, and the big thing for me is not eating a whole lot, so I’m have to go into a very big coworker deficit, but my biggest tip of advice to anyone that is not dog. Be tired when I get home or get done doing whatever they’re doing, is to wear clothes that would fit you when you are at your best. It’s a good motivation for me because to me I know I looked Better before, and I can be better. And besides, if it’s not too bad, your shoulders, hopefully will cover up the love handles for you.
My best advice to you regarding the depression: 1.) vitamin D3 supplement and omega-3.(Nordic Naturals is one of the best currently.) 2.) elimination of refined sugar in your diet, including fruit juice. 3.) cardio cardio cardio! 4.) what is comes to herbs I would suggest Ashwaghanda Good luck friend!!
I'm 90 percent Irish, with white, dry skin and dandruff, all of which I have under control. When I look at people like you, Courtney, I wish my skin and hair looked so good. Despite many women through the years have said I look like Robert Redford. I was surprised to hear you had skin issues.
A little preachy, but valid points. I have three things to add... 1. Even if you do practice good hygiene otherwise, please watch the cologne and perfume. Some of those products stink every bit as bad if not worse than body odor, especially the musky colognes designed for men. Some women can be just as bad when it comes to their perfumes. Just, don't... 2. As far as clothes, DO NOT wear horizontal stripes EVER! NEVER EVER! ESPECIALLY if you are overweight. They make you look shorter, they enhance your weight issues, and they generally make you look like a derp. Horizontal stripes are fine if you are a French mime or the Hamburglar, but for everybody else, fashion wise it's the equivalent of capital murder! 3. Water seeks its own level. These rules apply to women just as much to guys. In the case of women however, instead of long unkempt nails as with men, it's what I've heard referred to as "cat nails". Very long, sharp nails usually in bright colors. No thank you! Also realize that just because you don't have a gym membership doesn't mean you're undateable... far from it. What it does mean though is you'll get along best with people who are on about the same level you are.
For me who has to wear hearing aids, needs to put more effort in another things to keep my level up. Regardless of whether with or without a disability, one should not see oneself as a failed victim.
A female friend of mine and her mother went to a fundraiser years ago and met Wayne Gretzky. When I asked what he was like, they raved about his cuticles. I was dumbfounded and said “You met one of the greatest hockey players of all time and you noticed his fingernails?”
Women are over-fixated on these things, because they spend way too much time thinking about it themselves, painting and scrubbing their nails, when a simple nail cutter is all you need. I mean, the gender that is prepared to use fake fingernails (to make them hideously long) and think that it looks "attractive" (quite the contrary, it looks hideous, unpractical and unnatural), have been thinking about their fingernails way too long... and something went wrong in their head
@@anonymissed3611 I dated a girl a while back and I asked her what she found attractive about me. She said my hands. I was just as baffled. I wish Courtney had been making videos when I was a teenager.
I do skin routine, excersise and eat healthy everyday and still get acne, now im doing laser treatments for it. It dosen't work for everyone sure it could for most people or atleast make it better, but getting rid of it completely even doing all of this is not guaranteed for everyone.
Because the list for women is so simple. Stay thin and/or athletic. Grow your hair long. Clear skin. Don't stink. Avoid tattoos. Other than the last, women enforce it on themselves more than any man would care to.
5:41 Bad Breath, Yes!! I remember a long time ago I had a coworker and he had it all together. He was 6’3” in decent shape, great dude But the women behind his back complained about his breath. I could hear these women over my cubicle. I did the bro thing and told him as I felt so bad hearing it. He thinks he has 3 cavities and had not gone to a dentist in 6 yrs. I hope he solved as I left that job many yrs ago.
I've done all these things, Courtney says to avoid, for 30 years to stay single and avoid the nagging that inherently comes from relationships with women.
Top Unattractive Physical Features On A Men: 1. Face(average facial features that are not symmetrical enough) 2. High(everything under 6 feet) 3. Body Shape(anything that is not a harmonious structure) 4. Penis size (minimum 7 inches, everything else thumbs down) 5. Car (even though it's not part of your body, certainly if it's worth less than $90,000 you can throw it away)
Well, I am really short, Fuck this bullshit. I am either getting a Robotic Anime Waifu to build my dream girl or getting a passport to leave this failed situation in the States. I'M SHORT and I probably have a small penis too. I won't change my entire life just for women to shame me for being short and unattractive.
Also, invest in a fine grit emory board. If those nails are trimmed, they should also be smooth and burr-fee 😉. One doesn't want things ending poorly, does one?
Re skin health: Eat foods higher in carotinoids (e.g., sweet potatoes). One study showed that eating orange/yellow foods actually produces a 'warm' undertone in the skin, which participants across races found more attractive and 'healthy' looking.
Thank me later…. Over the next 6-8 weeks slowly transition to a 100% carnivore diet with butter, beef, eggs, bacon. Watch your skin glow like never before. Don’t touch sugar, vegetable oils, and keep skincare to a minimum.
@@mattlange5890 This is due to hormonal imbalances caused by competitive performance sport and overtraining. This has nothing to do with nutrition. Acne due to diet is permanent or at least occurs in significantly shorter episodes.
firstly, thanks for the insights! :) my biggest problem with skincare is, i have akne and neurodermatitis. the products for one often worsen the other and that's so damn frustrating.. i also tried different diets and tips i found on the internet but they had no effect. now i'm kinda overcautious about anything and that really doesn't feel comfortable. i feel like this is the major thing that's holding me back.
I bet you have a zinc deficiency. Start taking a zinc supplement. I recommend Angstrom Minerals' zinc. A word of caution: It's disgusting, but swish it around in your mouth for 2 minutes (or more) before swallowing (it's also good for your gums) and take it with food, or you might throw it up. It's very powerful. Also cut out all industrial seed oils from your diet (sunflower oil, soybean oil, cottonseed oil, safflower oil, canola oil).
be short, be outta shape, be bald, wear glasses, be old, be poor, be too comfortable, be law abiding, be boring, be average. and remember - if you are living your life for the pursuit of a XX, you are not really living a life.
One thing I always struggled w was teeth. Theyre not horribly crooked, just on the bigger side, naturally was picked on a lot in school, of course this made me self concious, but in turn I was always super critical w my teeth as far as brushing and flossing, once I got over it, I was actually happy that I was self concious about it because I took extra care of them. Now a days I like my teeth, and have actually got a compliment once or twice on them. The point I'm making is that sometimes what you perceive as a minus could actually be a plus depending on how you feel about it.
OK I am missing the neck item. I tend to slouch a lot and I’m doing what I can to correct that. Any details on what she was talking about? I found one item for your neck while you sleep is that it? How about a comment with the specific link to the item?
Anyone with work that causes perpetually dirty nails ALSO has a job that requires keeping short nails. So there is no excuse for that. Long finger nails are just creepy and lazy on a guy, if not somewhat effeminate.
Hi Courtney, love your videos and my wife says I seem to be improving in a lot of areas!!!! Do you mean the RestCloud when you were discussing posture? Thanks for the great videos.
Great tips Courtney thanks, us men are not aware of what women look for in a man...i am 78 now and still dont know....someone mentioned you say unkept instead of unkept..we in the uk say both ...i think us older people used to say unkept....its funny today how sayings have changed....in the "old days" we used to say " at the moment" now people say "at the minute"...does it matter ? i still say" at the moment" , thanks anyway, great information.
lifegoals? the only thing i ever wanted was that women stop hating me, but they do no matter what i do. why lifegoals? why trying? When all i ever get is rejection?
I’m guessing the study on skin was done by a company that sells skincare products. I can see it with people who have skin conditions, but guys that don’t… I’ve never used any & never had a problem getting dates. Never heard of a tongue scraper either, but Amazon now has another order to thank you for. Spending time to get yourself looking the part also makes you feel the part & enhances confidence, which is the No.1 factor in being desired. Mental & physical health is a huge part of that.
Tip one is legit. LOL No one wants an Edward Scissorhands downstairs - which means when you do clip your nails - use a file so they don't remain sharp. Probably the one I struggle with the most would be being fit. Working an office job really works against you, especially if you end up putting in long hours and you still have family duties. Even so, I'm trying to get back into the gym with my daughter so we can be in better shape for long term health and I want to be in shape for ski season. On a related note, I'm pretty guilty of prioritizing comfort over looking good so I tend to wear a size up than what I probably should wear. Normally this isn't a big deal. But, my wife really prefers it when I wear clothes that properly fit me when we go out on dinner dates together. I also have to match her level of attire - so if she looks nicer, I have to make more of an effort to match. Granted, no one cares what a middle-aged married couple looks like at Applebees.
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Do you have a link to the neck device you reference in the video?
What would you recommend as far as dandruff shampoo?
Same w/ dA' skin here .....I mastered my complexion 🤎🖤 LottA' pills, shots, creams.....
WOMEN with long nails are also unattractive. A lot of dirt gets trapped underneath & that’s gross. I rather see a woman with trimmed nails
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Tell them T-Gel. I have all those things as well. Put that floaty back fukin smartass.
00:29 🖐 Long unkempt fingernails can be a turnoff for women, but it's an easy fix-trim and clean them.
01:53 🧴 Poor skin health affects attractiveness; it reflects overall health. Skincare routines, diet, and hydration can help.
05:37 🚿 Bad hygiene, like bad breath or greasy hair, can be a major turnoff. Basic dental care and showering regularly matter.
09:06 🤦 Contractive body language, like slouching or crossing arms, can signal insecurity. Open and expansive body language exudes confidence.
10:59 💪 Neglecting health and fitness reflects poorly on attractiveness and can hint at laziness in other aspects of life.
13:17 👔 Ill-fitting clothes can detract from appearance; well-fitted attire enhances body shape and boosts confidence.
Important note on the last one. If you aren't upkeeping the fitness part having 'form fitting' clothing may work to your disadvantage. No one wants to see someone try to cram 10-pounds of stuff into a 5-pound bag as they say.
When I see men having long unkempt fingernails I get disgusted lol it's so gross. Bad hygiene is also gross. When I'm around man or woman who stink, instantly have to get away.
It’s crazy how y’all would accept a lot of things in modern society but y’all would talk shit if a man gets a hairline transplant .
@@cniht It’s crazy how y’all would accept a lot of things in modern society but y’all would talk shit if a man gets a hairline transplant .
@@467076 It’s crazy how y’all would accept a lot of things in modern society but y’all would talk shit if a man gets a hairline transplant .
When I moved to California, decades ago, women would occasionally tell me that it was bad body language to cross my arms. I always told them that, where I come from, it just means I'm cold.
Courtney is once again dead spot-on with her advice. As an older guy, I would add that if you are going to be intimate with a woman you need to trim your toenails in addition to fingernails. Voice of experience 😄
A woman who was giving me good head got very angry when she spotted one of my toenails hanging crooked
Important things: 0:34 First Thing - Long/ Unkempt Fingernails; 1:50 Second Thing - Poor Skin Health; 5:36 Third Thing - Bad Hygiene; 8:52 Fourth Thing - Contractive Body Language; 10:06 Proper body language; 10:51 Fifth Thing - Neglecting Your Health / Fitness; 13:03 Sixth Thing - Ill - Fitting Clothing; and 14:23 to summarize all the told here.
Well some the things we could like to know a bit earlier as well. But I always say this: "It's better ever, than never." By that I mean to that things to be told when ever are needed as well.
As for acnes Courtney, I might add, that this is a normal period of having them, cause that's the time period when we are starting to develop from child to teenager, and from teenager, to adult. I can't deny that can be a problem, but with appropriate skin, and health care, they can be removed.
As for symmetrical body, that's a mission impossible. Why? Because by medicine (and some of the doctors can correct me if I'm wrong), there is such a thing called asymmetrical body. And that's not with whole body, but with some things there, and as I said, doctors can correct me if I'm wrong.
I might add that choosing your clothes also means that you just don't look good and fitted, but it means that you don't use materials that are bad for our health. It goes without saying that tight clothes are not taken.
The additional things to your unattractive physical features are these: Sixth Thing - Doing Too Much Plastic Surgery (but that can be applied to either men, and either women) (and also by that I don't mean on doing medical corrections. I mean on corrections for doing thigs, just to be done such as copy - paste thing, let say it that way); Seventh Thing - Seeking Perfectionism (but this would be also psychological unattractiveness).
If we are going to summarize all the told the most unattractive things is not taking care of yourself. By that is to take care of your health, hygiene (We in Balkan peninsula say this: "Cleanliness is half of health."), to know to put boundaries to someone's bad behavior (to know to say word NO when it's needed).
Thank you Courtney ❤💙🤍.
this is nonsense, ive sorted all those areas out and I havent had a relationship in 8 years.... height trumps ALL of the above... and thats the only thing I dont have....
Boom. And yes, agreed from my 5'8" perspective. She also doesn't go into WHY they look at a guy's hands.
@@adamblackedition5529 Good for you.
Keep living that way of your life that you like.
@@jacquesc3166Maybe some want to watch hands, maybe some other are watching at different things and preferences.
WOMEN with long nails are also unattractive. A lot of dirt gets trapped underneath & that’s gross. I rather see a woman with trimmed nails
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I’m an electrician and I’ve been working underground, when I go out after a long day in the dirt/mud you wouldn’t have guessed I worked that day. No excuse for unkempt nails or anything hygiene wise.
Try tending to tomatoes , weeding out the garden or putting on a plaster/adhesive or filling something with PU foam - if you don't work with gloves on all the time, the hands will get dirty
Try replacing a transmission and let me know how that turns out.
Since when do electricians work? Lol
@@gabeo9474 I’ve done the clutch in my Ranger, does that count? 🤣
@@jonathanrose456 bruh, I can’t tell you how frustrating some of my peers are. “Slow down or they’ll make all of us work that fast.” I’m a millennial and I was told I’m a lazy sack of shit 🤣 these boomers and gen z peeps are wild
It's very odd, but my seasonal sadness actually hits early Spring through August.
I start to feel happier in September, because i love the Fall and turning clocks back,
because it effects my sleep when it's light early in the morning and later at night.
Great tips! The one that sticks out the most is the spelling of “unkempt”. I’m almost 39 and always said “unkept”. Thanks Courtney!
Hi. I'm a big fan. I'm a women who has been happily married for 8 years. It's easy to get too comfortable after that long. I'd love more content for women to be their best. Thanks!
I think you are spot on with those tips. I am for years on my own after two longterm marriages. Never really had problems with hygiene. I am keeping myself in shape and try to eat healthy. Although I don' t see any women to connect with. It is only me and some guys my age to talk to. I guess I played my part and now I see reality as it is for me and probably for a lot of other men. They say I still look good but I am not noticing nothing from almost no one. I am getting used to it more and more and keep my mindset on the positive side of life. I guess that's it. I am 70 now.
I wholeheartedly agree with all the points you made here Courtney, even while I have things I would need to work on myself! I think keeping on top of Facial Grooming is just as important, so I try to do all I can to look as tidy & clean (when out in Public) because it doesn’t matter who you might meet, so I regularly use trimmers for Nose & Ears. Money is a little tight right now but is set to improve soon so I will be able to spend more on improving my appearance!
Trimmers for nose and ears are a must-have, those hair are very unattractive !
I agree with everything you said Courtney. I have a limited budget but I always make sure I practice basic higiene. You don’t need much money to do that. I shower, trim my nails, wear deodorant, and spray some cologne.
Always honest and gentle. And always appreciated 😇🙏🏼
Hot Oil treatment is a godsend for dealing with severe dryness of the scalp. I struggled for my whole life with this because typical cheap shampoo and conditioner will make it even more dry
Great vid, Courtney, thank you! If I may add to the bad breath advice, it’s not just the tongue, but some people have tonsil stones called tonsililiths that cause the funk. They get trapped within tonsil crypts. 😞
You're STUPID if you find this a "great video" or that she has any advice that has value. Everything she said is basically you have to LOOK GOOD ENOUGH for a woman. Duh, there isn't a man out there that doesn't know you have to be hot and have money. Just remember, she ended up with a 6 foot guy who deals in luxury watches. What does she do? Nothing like that, lol.
Courtney, you have the best channel on RUclips for this type of content. You've inspired me to focus on improving myself.
Thanks for the really good video Courtney.
BTW, I used to dislike winter, then I took up skiing and now I can't wait for it!
It’s not just cold places where we need to get out and prevent SAD in the winter. Here in Central California it averages 60-72 degrees with lots of sunshine m. But if people stay indoors or don’t exercise, we can get depressed too. It’s really amazing now that we have thousands of orange, mandarin and lemon trees exploding with fruit right now but not very many people exercising outside for their health. It’s a such a shame. This video is spot on about everything said! 👍😎
Courtney, I enjoyed the content. As a 59 year old guy, who is happily married now for almost 36 years, its great to hear someone giving sound advice for men with such balance and grace. Keep up the great work and I’ll check out the mens products you suggested in this video. Keep up the good work. Julian
ABSOLUTELY! I like getting another idea and viewpoint on how I can look my best and be my best for my awesome wife even after I ask her myself. you're never to old to learn from somebody younger. even more so when it helps to keep things fresh in my marital relationship. May you and your spouse have merry christmas james!@@jamesmccaul2945
9:06 I can understand girls do not find a man’s body language unattractive. Unfortunately, I have autism and it’s hard for me to be steady on my body language whenever I feel something exciting or stressful. But I usually try to maintain my body language in a calm manner without having any sense of insecurity.
I get seasonal sadness too, but mine mostly comes from everybody around me turning crabby because it's cold, and the holidays that encourage you to eat disgusting amounts of food at the behest of being shamed by family.
I’ve been too poor for seeing skin doctors, eating right, & buying makeup (plus as a kid, men keeping up with their skin wasn’t a wide spread thing in the 2000s) so now I’m an adult with acne scars
7:48 I had dandruff too. It's from what you are or aren't eating. Usually sugar is behind it.
You do give wonderful advice Courtney. I LOVE your positive energy into the world.
A stainless steel tongue scraper was one of the best purchases I ever made on Amazon.
I’m a retired dentist. That’s good advice about a tongue scraper. It’s amazing how much crud builds up on your tongue. Most bad breath is due to bacteria. Getting rid of the bacteria by brushing, flossing, and using a tongue scraper will solve most bad breath issues. Now if you like munching on raw garlic cloves, that’s another story.
I am guilty of doing the garlic for help with colds but drink tea and mouth wash right afterwards
Garlic is tasty, I like it!🧄😋
You don’t need a tongue scraper just use your toothbrush to clean your tongue 😂
Thanks for sharing your experiences and shortcomings. I think it supports your goal in providing points that are easily actionable. (I also like how you subtly deliver humor.)
My challenge right now is how to build discipline while recovering from depression and being a people-pleaser. And yes, the algorithm brought me to this channel because I have a crush. 😅
I am on the no poo kick. Haven’t used shampoo in over a year now and my hair has never been healthier! Just wash with water in the shower, condition once a week, and call it good! No greasy hair anymore! And I use product in my hair as well, just have to get stuff that washes out with water. I use Sauvecito brand and it works excellent while also washing out easily.
Hey! Exercise for the Buzz! Seriously.
When I started my recovery journey from alcohol and other substances I wondered about missing the high. I found out that after walking for half an hour or more I got a buzz for about an hour afterwards.
Hi Courtney! Perhaps my skin could be a little better, but I am pretty good at cleanliness and hygiene. I walk and work out every day and don't eat a whole lot of junk food. I sometimes struggle with body language though. I sometimes will keep clothing for too long and will wear things that have gotten too tight. Have a great week ahead, Courtney!
It’s crazy how y’all would accept a lot of things in modern society but y’all would talk shit if a man gets a hairline transplant .
@@kevinsamson1693 I started to get thinning hair and one day a friend of mine said that during prayer, they were told to tell me, that I need to confess out loud my thinning hair back into growth. Eventually after understanding more about scripture I started to say 'I am a child of God and the son of Abraham whom Satan hath bound in thinning hair at the back and the crown of my head, lo those xx years, I am loosed from this bond today in the name of Jesus Christ'.
Now my thinning hair is growing back and the bald circle is filling in. But other affirmations can also work but not as well.
Sunscreen everytime you go outside. SPF 50 at least. Make sure it has not just good UVB but also UVA protection as that’s what ages skin the most.
Yes Tretinoin. Cleanse skin in shower and moisturize nightly after shower when skin is damp.
Take 20 g collagen powder daily too. And good diet with lots of fruits and veggies.
Courtney, I also started to be physically active w ,/ daily walks and eccentric stretching exercises,
Makes all of the difference in the world
Hi Courtney.
Everything you've said in this video makes so much sense, much of which I knew already but It's good to hear it coming from a young lady such as yourself. Interesting to hear that you experienced psoriasis in the past.
I also suffer with psoriasis flare ups and know how challenging it can be to look after your skin and as you mention there are many things we can do to improve our skin, such as good hydration, plenty of sleep, reduce or cut out alcohol consumption, moisturise etc.
I am now focusing on the nutrition side of things and I'm curious to know if you follow a strict diet when it comes to keeping psoriasis at bay i.e. dairy free, gluten free?
I've seen a few nutritional videos that target psoriasis but they seem much to my discouragement very restrictive and suggestions that include cutting out potatoes and tomatoes seems a step to far as they are healthy staple foods in my opinion.
Ha, the "seasonal sadness" can come from the oppressive heat. I would be too happy to think straight if my weather was cool and cold.
I often catch myself sort of slouching in the windows and grocery store freezer doors.
Working out is definitely a regimen that people have to develop early or just be dedicated to doing it, but having a job that requires physical activity and getting hot can wear people out. I hear people calling others lazy because they stay home sedentary when they are off work but they don't understand that it is rest from spending most of the waking time on one's feet and moving.
A friend has psoriasis and had it really bad. But then someone convinced him to get therapy. There they found out that he had a bad depression and he started treatment. After a while the psoriasis started to get less intense and the attacks came more and more infrequently. I don’t know what the science say about it but there seems to be a connection between depression and psoriasis. A book that is interesting with the connection between therapy and physical health is ”Words that set you free” by Marie Cardinal. I translated the title from French so I don’t know if the title is right in English.
I've noticed that psoriasis tends to be more prevelant amongst people with a Mediterranean skin coloring, but who have no tan. Like they're not getting enough time in the sun. Maybe they're related.
Lol it sounds like the opposite happened. It was getting better so he felt less depressed
This is one of the most useful videos that Courtney has made. Some men definitely need to clean themself up and dress appropriately for a date. I believe that men that present themself as unattractive is due to the lack of proper hygiene when they are young.
Guys with acne please try head and shoulders. Over the time the zinc really helps without extra routine
I also hear that another contrastive posture is to have your hands in your pants pocket, unless you are reaching for your wallet. My fingernails are self keeping, I do so much DIY and work with my big rugged hands, that I am constantly breaking them and cutting them. Also Court, if you have problems with SAD, there are lamps you can get to turn on and help you.
I recently got into using whitening strips. I found some pretty cheap ones that work amazing! It was like $10 for 17 pairs of strips. I haven’t even used half and my teeth are already completely white. Of course I only use them after doing everything else, brushing, flossing, picking, etc…
It’s crazy how y’all would accept a lot of things in modern society but y’all would talk shit if a man gets a hairline transplant..
@@kevinsamson1693 or limb lengthening
who would know tho if u dont tell them@@noflexzone2.055
@@kevinsamson1693who says I would talk shit for a man to do that.
@@screwedupmystic2597 you’re so right Elmo head! Having disgustingly yellow teeth is very manly and gets all the chicks! Be lazy, and don’t work on things, that’s the masculine way! Man! 💪🏼🤣🤣🤣
Hi Courtney.....excellent video as always.
Yes I agree with all your suggestions, many are common sense, if you put in the effort you will reap the rewards further down the line.
Pretty good advice, as always. I think that folks can realize, that putting 45-60 minutes for care and hygiene is like the easiest form of self-fitness; washing, brushing, and cleaning oneself is as important as the workout we put in the gym and trail. I think of it like buying candles -- Everyone loves the nice smelling ones. They wouldn't want to spend time with anything pungent nor unflattering. So? Even if a person feels they are somehow physically unattractive? Smelling nice has many advantages to appealing toward the opposite sex. Yes folks: Brushing teeth, getting a haircut, washing/scrubbing in a shower, and cleaning those cuticles is arguably 70% of the attractiveness score.
60 minutes for care and hygiene? For real? Working out (being muscular) is 90% of the attractiveness score (if your face structure which you can't affect is excluded). Yes you should keep clean and not smell bad, but it doesn't take 45-60 minutes per day. 45-60 minutes is the gym workout, the rest should take you 15 minutes at most. People who work out regularly, also shower regularly. After that, all you need is basic things, like using deodorant and brushing your teeth twice a day. If you really spend 60 minutes in front of a mirror like women, lots of women will actually find THAT unattractive and unmanly. They don't want to be the one in a relationship, that spends less time in front of a mirror...
Yeah, sure... 2 hours for gym, plus 1 hour for care and hygiene, 2 hours for 3 healthy meals... No thanks...
Damm! 60 minutes? I think I would prefer to die alone with my extremely long fingernails 😅.
Thank you for making this video. Also, your skin is beautiful.
As a sidenote, for you, Courtney, just know that most skin issues are treated from the inside, such as the issues that you mentioned for yourself. You may be lacking in all of the B vitamins. Try to supplement, you might be surprised as the results.💗
Absolutely 💯 👍🏽Listen to this man gentlemen. He knows! Not only B vitamins, but more importantly, Biotin and collagen. I can highly recommend a few brands of supplements created specifically for men's skin. hair, and nails. All natural high-quality ingredients. And no huge horse pills that you'll choke on tryna swallow lol😅 These are all delicious gummies that you'll WANNA take daily. Ordered from your phone, delivered to your crib. I can co-sign for these brands from personal experience. Nothing for me to gain personally from putting you guys on game. C'mon man! Ain't like I'm some kind of famous internet personality or influencer lol Pete and Pedro Biotin gummies and their Daily multivitamin. That's Alpha M's brand. Forte Series gummies, which is from Alex Costa's hair products line. Finally, Particle Aesthetic Science For Men. Particle isn't any RUclipsr influencer's brand like Pete and Pedro and Forte Series, but they ARE a great brand that has some excellent products created for men. Their 6-in-1 Face Cream = GAME CHANGER!! Just 1 product does the work of 6! We dudes like SIMPLE! We don't wanna spend a fortune on a gang of different products, each one to do a different thing (lines and wrinkles, under eye bags/dark circles, etc), NOR do we wanna spend any more time than we have to on a grooming regimen. The 6-in-1 Face Cream + Hair/skin/nails gummies from Particle and 👌🏽You're good to go! The moral of the story is to take a proactive approach to taking care of your skin, hair, and nails. Taking care of what's on the outside is only 1/2 the battle. It's just as crucial to be mindful of taking care of it from the inside too. But once you do, you'll be astonished by results! Seriously fast and noticeable. You got this, fam!
You may want to know, I attempted to order the retinol stick but before I knew it I had 4 retinol sticks along with 4 skin care systems in my cart totaling over $300, and I could find no way to correct the quantity. So I had to abort the order.
This is on an iPhone 15 Pro Max, using both RUclips and Safari.
Most guys give it a good try but there are dudes and I have sat near them on buses and planes that have not bathed nor washed their hair before going out in public. Their clothes are wrinkled and dirty. My only guess is that their mom’s may have done all of the clothes washing and goaded them on their personal hygiene but when they move out of the house they stopped paying attention to these tasks.
Great tips. Breathing through the nose and not the mouth is another big one too.
Well said...although I feel this should be rhetorical for us as Men. I'm not really vocal on the 'seasonal depression'... You and your husband should go on walks. It works for me!!!! My hobby with HO Scale trains keeps me plenty busy during winter months in Southern Illinois. From the Mississippi Valley to the Ohio Valley going to be not only cold but we're in for a few 'Big Daddy' snow storms! Dress well for outside this winter!!✨️🌲🎁🦌🎅🤶☃️⛄️❄️❄️❄️
Walks help us so much! We’ve been trying to go as much as we can! Thanks for the comment 🤍
Yes, I live near North Pole and winters are pitch black here, only a few hours of sunlight per day. When I go to work it's dark, when I get off from work it's dark. I have never had any seasonal depression, people here don't really talk about it much, not even women. Because it's our home, it's always been pitch black (on the other hand, in mid-summer, the sun never sets) Hard workouts cure all depression. Don't let the amount of light affect your mindset, just eat enough vitamin D (normally people get it from sunlight), exercise regularly, and you'll be alright
If you have trouble with seasonal affective disorder/depression, I'd highly highly recommend vitamin D supplements. I noticed about a 70% improvement in my mood as soon as I started taking them in the winter.
Vitamin d has helped me so much! Thanks for the rec 😊
Good one regarding posture, something I need to learn
You and Melli Monaco be killing it with those Tiege Hanley segways 🤣
If you have to wear a man bra, then it’s probably time to stop drinking beer😂
Beer is one of the dumbest things to buy. Paying money to quite literally poison yourself.
So you don't respect their transition LMMFAO
Beer isn't the cause for it
Courtney, thank you, now I need to get cracking that's quite a list thanks again.
The fingernails part does not apply to those who bite their nails out of habit. They don't have to worry about trimming.
When it comes to tech-neck invest some in your workplace, at first a really good chair, adjustable height of table and place the screens high up so that your gaze is horizontal. Do some excercises now and then for your posture. Has helped me a lot.
Good advice for the younger generation. The nice part about being widowed, age 66, and not seeking a woman for anything is that I don't have to do anything of this to impress a woman! Good luck to all you guys who are!
Something else I will say, is even if you got a little bit of Schomer on your torso, just a little bit of love handles in a little bit, but for the most part, you’ve taken care of yourself, because I do do manual labor for my job, and I do have biceps, I’m just normally too exhausted after work to go work out, and the big thing for me is not eating a whole lot, so I’m have to go into a very big coworker deficit, but my biggest tip of advice to anyone that is not dog. Be tired when I get home or get done doing whatever they’re doing, is to wear clothes that would fit you when you are at your best. It’s a good motivation for me because to me I know I looked Better before, and I can be better. And besides, if it’s not too bad, your shoulders, hopefully will cover up the love handles for you.
So, what about guys with no hair but with facial hair? I shave my head and trim my facial hair using beard products.
If you get criticized for manspreading take it as a compliment.
My best advice to you regarding the depression:
1.) vitamin D3 supplement and omega-3.(Nordic Naturals is one of the best currently.)
2.) elimination of refined sugar in your diet, including fruit juice.
3.) cardio cardio cardio!
4.) what is comes to herbs I would suggest Ashwaghanda
Good luck friend!!
Classical guitarist need long nails on their strumming hand. They can keep it clean.
I'm 90 percent Irish, with white, dry skin and dandruff, all of which I have under control. When I look at people like you, Courtney, I wish my skin and hair looked so good. Despite many women through the years have said I look like Robert Redford. I was surprised to hear you had skin issues.
There is no reason for any man to have unkept nails, no skin care routine, and not have a tongue scraper in the cabinet to use. ❤
A little preachy, but valid points. I have three things to add...
1. Even if you do practice good hygiene otherwise, please watch the cologne and perfume. Some of those products stink every bit as bad if not worse than body odor, especially the musky colognes designed for men. Some women can be just as bad when it comes to their perfumes. Just, don't...
2. As far as clothes, DO NOT wear horizontal stripes EVER! NEVER EVER! ESPECIALLY if you are overweight. They make you look shorter, they enhance your weight issues, and they generally make you look like a derp. Horizontal stripes are fine if you are a French mime or the Hamburglar, but for everybody else, fashion wise it's the equivalent of capital murder!
3. Water seeks its own level. These rules apply to women just as much to guys. In the case of women however, instead of long unkempt nails as with men, it's what I've heard referred to as "cat nails". Very long, sharp nails usually in bright colors. No thank you! Also realize that just because you don't have a gym membership doesn't mean you're undateable... far from it. What it does mean though is you'll get along best with people who are on about the same level you are.
For me who has to wear hearing aids, needs to put more effort in another things to keep my level up.
Regardless of whether with or without a disability, one should not see oneself as a failed victim.
Are you married though?lol
Perfect from a woman's perception.. who is gorgeous, alluring..intelligent
Really loved you talking about Seasonal Sadness and how that creeps up! Get ahead of it indeed!
A female friend of mine and her mother went to a fundraiser years ago and met Wayne Gretzky. When I asked what he was like, they raved about his cuticles. I was dumbfounded and said “You met one of the greatest hockey players of all time and you noticed his fingernails?”
Ha! Courtney vindicated. Sadly.
Women are over-fixated on these things, because they spend way too much time thinking about it themselves, painting and scrubbing their nails, when a simple nail cutter is all you need. I mean, the gender that is prepared to use fake fingernails (to make them hideously long) and think that it looks "attractive" (quite the contrary, it looks hideous, unpractical and unnatural), have been thinking about their fingernails way too long... and something went wrong in their head
@@anonymissed3611 I dated a girl a while back and I asked her what she found attractive about me. She said my hands. I was just as baffled. I wish Courtney had been making videos when I was a teenager.
I do skin routine, excersise and eat healthy everyday and still get acne, now im doing laser treatments for it. It dosen't work for everyone sure it could for most people or atleast make it better, but getting rid of it completely even doing all of this is not guaranteed for everyone.
Happy Sunday Amiga 😅
Let’s hope we all have a successful week ahead 😊
You too my friend!
I find that getting a body weight workout before my first meal of the day is effective on staying lean and toned
I think you are one of the women i can trust without dout. Thanks a lot mam 🙏.
YET ANOTHER VIDEO CONFIRMING I WILL BE DYING ALONE 😂😂😂
lmfao
Do a list for women oh wait Let me guess there isn't one
It’s crazy how y’all would accept a lot of things in modern society but y’all would talk shit if a man gets a hairline transplant .
Because the list for women is so simple. Stay thin and/or athletic. Grow your hair long. Clear skin. Don't stink. Avoid tattoos. Other than the last, women enforce it on themselves more than any man would care to.
5:41 Bad Breath, Yes!! I remember a long time ago I had a coworker and he had it all together. He was 6’3” in decent shape, great dude But the women behind his back complained about his breath. I could hear these women over my cubicle. I did the bro thing and told him as I felt so bad hearing it. He thinks he has 3 cavities and had not gone to a dentist in 6 yrs. I hope he solved as I left that job many yrs ago.
I wanna have a discussion with you ❤️ Above🛐🤦♂️,,
I've done all these things, Courtney says to avoid, for 30 years to stay single and avoid the nagging that inherently comes from relationships with women.
Just jump out the closet bro.
What is the point of you watching this content if you have no desire to better yourself then?
@@poeticeclipse because he's actually gay but just won't be honest with himself.
@@hotpockets69 Yeah because every man who doesn't want a relationship is automatically gay. Grow up
Well groomed and hygiene is important. If I don't comment on any of your other videos, Happy Thanks Giving.
Happy Thanksgiving Court! 🤍
Top Unattractive Physical Features On A Men:
1. Face(average facial features that are not symmetrical enough)
2. High(everything under 6 feet)
3. Body Shape(anything that is not a harmonious structure)
4. Penis size (minimum 7 inches, everything else thumbs down)
5. Car (even though it's not part of your body, certainly if it's worth less than $90,000 you can throw it away)
Well, I am really short, Fuck this bullshit. I am either getting a Robotic Anime Waifu to build my dream girl or getting a passport to leave this failed situation in the States. I'M SHORT and I probably have a small penis too. I won't change my entire life just for women to shame me for being short and unattractive.
Also, invest in a fine grit emory board. If those nails are trimmed, they should also be smooth and burr-fee 😉. One doesn't want things ending poorly, does one?
A woman getting “seasonal sadness” is a red flag for men
The paradox to trying to learn what women want is to actually get that knowledge from a man. You got this Casey Zander
I wanna have a discussion with you ❤️ Above🛐🤦♂️,,
Re skin health:
Eat foods higher in carotinoids (e.g., sweet potatoes). One study showed that eating orange/yellow foods actually produces a 'warm' undertone in the skin, which participants across races found more attractive and 'healthy' looking.
Thanks again for sharing Courtney
Acne. I am attractive, but every 1-2 years I suffer from an acne breakout. The difference in my effect on women is like night and day.
The carnivore diet healed my acne in two months. I only break out when I stray from it. 12/10 recommend!
Thank me later…. Over the next 6-8 weeks slowly transition to a 100% carnivore diet with butter, beef, eggs, bacon. Watch your skin glow like never before. Don’t touch sugar, vegetable oils, and keep skincare to a minimum.
@@mattlange5890 This is due to hormonal imbalances caused by competitive performance sport and overtraining. This has nothing to do with nutrition.
Acne due to diet is permanent or at least occurs in significantly shorter episodes.
Also, buy kerrigold irish butter and use as a moisturizer. It has fat soluble vitamins like retinol, vitamin E, D,K2. My skin has never looked better.
It’s crazy how y’all would accept a lot of things in modern society but y’all would talk shit if a man gets a hairline transplant .
firstly, thanks for the insights! :)
my biggest problem with skincare is, i have akne and neurodermatitis. the products for one often worsen the other and that's so damn frustrating.. i also tried different diets and tips i found on the internet but they had no effect. now i'm kinda overcautious about anything and that really doesn't feel comfortable. i feel like this is the major thing that's holding me back.
I bet you have a zinc deficiency. Start taking a zinc supplement. I recommend Angstrom Minerals' zinc. A word of caution: It's disgusting, but swish it around in your mouth for 2 minutes (or more) before swallowing (it's also good for your gums) and take it with food, or you might throw it up. It's very powerful. Also cut out all industrial seed oils from your diet (sunflower oil, soybean oil, cottonseed oil, safflower oil, canola oil).
Don't listen to her, she has no clue what she is talking about.
For neurodermatitis to go away, you just need to stop scratching affected area.
be short, be outta shape, be bald, wear glasses, be old, be poor, be too comfortable, be law abiding, be boring, be average.
and remember - if you are living your life for the pursuit of a XX, you are not really living a life.
It’s crazy how y’all would accept a lot of things in modern society but y’all would talk shit if a man gets a hairline transplant
One thing I always struggled w was teeth. Theyre not horribly crooked, just on the bigger side, naturally was picked on a lot in school, of course this made me self concious, but in turn I was always super critical w my teeth as far as brushing and flossing, once I got over it, I was actually happy that I was self concious about it because I took extra care of them. Now a days I like my teeth, and have actually got a compliment once or twice on them. The point I'm making is that sometimes what you perceive as a minus could actually be a plus depending on how you feel about it.
Just lift weights, trim your hair, shower, and brush your teeth. I can tell you from experience that women will be attracted to you by just that.
Nope, if you are, short bold, broke and ugly, it doesn't matter if you groom or brush your teeth worst if you take a bath.
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I am just talking about physical attraction.
It’s crazy how y’all would accept a lot of things in modern society but y’all would talk shit if a man gets a hairline transplant
@@gerardoa9179 It’s crazy how y’all would accept a lot of things in modern society but y’all would talk shit if a man gets a hairline transplant
OK I am missing the neck item. I tend to slouch a lot and I’m doing what I can to correct that. Any details on what she was talking about? I found one item for your neck while you sleep is that it? How about a comment with the specific link to the item?
Anyone with work that causes perpetually dirty nails ALSO has a job that requires keeping short nails. So there is no excuse for that. Long finger nails are just creepy and lazy on a guy, if not somewhat effeminate.
Hi Courtney, love your videos and my wife says I seem to be improving in a lot of areas!!!! Do you mean the RestCloud when you were discussing posture? Thanks for the great videos.
I'm almost 36. I'm currently single. I have a dream of being a grandpa by age 70. I hope women in general find that attractive.
It’s crazy how y’all would accept a lot of things in modern society but y’all would talk shit if a man gets a hairline transplant
As always, a quality helpful video. Thanks, Courtney.
I have herpes.
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It’s crazy how y’all would accept a lot of things in modern society but y’all would talk shit if a man gets a hairline transplant
Courney Thanks for making this video i really appcaite it😊
Being short 😊
Short and ugly = creepy. Tall and hot = confident
@@gerardoa9179tall alone isn't enough by far
The world owes you short people nothing. Once y'all get that and stop acting like bitter Bs, you'll actually get somewhere with someone.
There are a lot of short men who are married with children.
@Wonderwoman79G that not the point he is making.
Great tips Courtney thanks, us men are not aware of what women look for in a man...i am 78 now and still dont know....someone mentioned you say unkept instead of unkept..we in the uk say both ...i think us older people used to say unkept....its funny today how sayings have changed....in the "old days" we used to say " at the moment" now people say "at the minute"...does it matter ? i still say" at the moment" , thanks anyway, great information.
lifegoals? the only thing i ever wanted was that women stop hating me, but they do no matter what i do.
why lifegoals? why trying? When all i ever get is rejection?
I’m guessing the study on skin was done by a company that sells skincare products. I can see it with people who have skin conditions, but guys that don’t… I’ve never used any & never had a problem getting dates. Never heard of a tongue scraper either, but Amazon now has another order to thank you for.
Spending time to get yourself looking the part also makes you feel the part & enhances confidence, which is the No.1 factor in being desired. Mental & physical health is a huge part of that.
Dear Courtney RYAN…
As an unattractive man this video really hurt and broke me 😞
i can think of one exception for trimmed nails, that being guitar players, some of whom keep some nails long for picking
Tip one is legit. LOL No one wants an Edward Scissorhands downstairs - which means when you do clip your nails - use a file so they don't remain sharp.
Probably the one I struggle with the most would be being fit. Working an office job really works against you, especially if you end up putting in long hours and you still have family duties. Even so, I'm trying to get back into the gym with my daughter so we can be in better shape for long term health and I want to be in shape for ski season.
On a related note, I'm pretty guilty of prioritizing comfort over looking good so I tend to wear a size up than what I probably should wear. Normally this isn't a big deal. But, my wife really prefers it when I wear clothes that properly fit me when we go out on dinner dates together. I also have to match her level of attire - so if she looks nicer, I have to make more of an effort to match. Granted, no one cares what a middle-aged married couple looks like at Applebees.