This Is Why Women Actually Think You're Unattractive
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All those girls talking about the man’s salary requirements are delusional
I wouldn't date any of them if I had that money LOL. Actually I probably wouldn't date any of them now.
When they all said those requirements, they all immediately became unattractive to me.
Especially because only 10 percent of the US population makes more six figures... men and women combined.
All you really have to do is keep in shape, not smell, listen more, and be kind of a combo of a father figure, leader and lover and you really don’t need to be rich. But make no mistake, making a good living is attractive too, but I think it’s part of a man coming into his own and symbolizes stability. I have been married about 10 years now, not saying I have all the answers, but there is a lot you can do to make yourself really attractive. And a lot of guys tend to get lazy and think a gal will just stumble into them. It just won’t work that way. 50k yearly is enough for most women of value I am sure in the real world. Don’t listen to those college girls in the video. They are just delusional
Wow..that was a punch to the balls. I might not have made it to the bigtime in life but these women just came across as vain and self absorbed. A man with lots of money can still be a dick.
1. Acting too desperate
2. Having no ambition
3. Putting in no effort
4. Thinking that you are unattractive
Happy new year guys🔥
1 and 3 combined is pretty much double binds. Damn...
Thanx for saving me!
I think that last one is better described as having no confidence.
@@NoahNobody Having no confidence is an emergent trait. Thinking that you are unattractive is the cause.
Rule Zero: being unattractive
“If women don’t find you attractive, it’s because you’re probably not” - Jordan B Peterson
It isn't that you're "not attractive" it's more that your CIRCUMSTANCES are unattractive. Take an "unattractive" man and give him 5 million dollars. All of a sudden the women would be LINING UP for him. The men women go after have attractive CIRCUMSTANCES attached to their life that have NOTHING to do with "them" as a person. In other words, when a woman doesn't like you, don't take it personally. It has little to do with you and a lot to do with her own selfish and superficial "needs". A man is a utility to her, and nothing more.
'You're stuck with yourself forever, you might as well like yourself". That was such a good line. honestly.
when they started listing salaries above 200k i was dying inside
Yes, totally delusional. I know a few guys that make these amounts of money and their wives are either equally successful (they met in medical school) or their wives are trophy wives - as in 10/10 and half the man's age. These women are not trophy wife material, so they better enroll in med school if they want to live on 200k+ a year.
Thank god women dont verify anything and you dont have your tax return posted on your back in the bars..
Those women’s financial expectations are DELUSIONAL! 😂 I make three times the average in my city and I don’t make as much as most of them expect. Only a very small percentage of men in my city make that kind of money, many of them are married, most are not what those women would consider age appropriate, etc. And any young, attractive-ish, single men who make that kind of money are able to bed hop through an endless line of women (who each think he actually likes them and isn’t just using them). Why would they want to marry or have a long term relationship with women like the ones in this video (who were really only marginally attractive)??
I’m not a young man anymore and I have seen enough of life to predict what these women will look like in 25 years and what sort of unhappiness they will be facing if their priorities don’t change.
Hahaha you so nailed it :p
Agreed. Those women are completely dumb and delusional (except the first one wearing a black hat).
Amén !
I watched the full video with those girls. And I believe the girl who wants 500k said she isn't wanting to contribute any of her income whatsoever to the partnership. I'd definitely would like to see a bigger sample size of woman across a greater age range to provide a better picture of what woman want. Using half a dozen girls their early to mid 20s as your baseline of what woman want is a bit of an over generalisation.
Dude fr, gonna be so many single bitter women (if they go off of financial dreams) 💀
Men, learning not to give a single damn what any woman thinks of you, will set you free.
100%, its honestly every relationship that i didnt care about that I actually fell into in my life time.
Not just women but everyone.
Never depend on anyone else for your own happiness and security, or anything for that matter. That's what set me free.
But now your not getting any smash . You don’t give af but now you lonely . Bad advice papi
So true, I am done showering and trimming my beard.
100-250 000 $ a year in income?! What planet do these women live on?? Superficiality.
It amazes me how some women have completely bonkers expectations about what a guy should earn to even qualify. Almost nobody earns $500k a year. What makes her think she deserves that? What has she achieved?
Meanwhile, many women spend most of their time on ‘self-care’ and other utter nonsense.
No wonder so many guys are just checking out entirely, and the percentage of women are over 30 and single is skyrocketing. It’s crazy.
i agree and i’m a woman. they obviously don’t know numbers and i can tell you they do not represent all women.
I get that this is an extreme example. This girl is very young and has no idea what the job market / income range really is, but still. It’s an extreme example of a very prevalent attitude. She’ll learn eventually. One way or another.
These women are too young to know any better. I think Courtney should also interview some older women who have a little life experience. I'm sorry, but you have no real life experience if you expect to date a man who represents .000001 of the population.
Both my parents who are engineers don’t even make that much combined. For one man to make that much you either have to be some influencer or scam people like wtf.
@@stillawake76 As I commented on another thread, why have none of these women talked about their own work? Do they not have any passions? Oh, but we're supposed to be ambitious and have passions. GTFOH. Who the hell wants to date this chick who "wants 300,000 for my lifestyle." She's def. the type who just lays down like a starfish in bed.
Every mans New Year's resolution should be how to learn not to SIMP!
Amen to that
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These videos are incredibly insightful and accurate. Sometimes when I find myself falling back into the illusion of thinking along the lines of "wouldn't it be nice to be in a relationship again", I only need to watch a vid from this channel and boom, I'm immediately reminded of why I gave up on women years ago and decided to remain perpetually single. One of the best decisions I ever made, and I've never been happier and less stressed. I realize these vids are intended to teach men how to attract women, but to me they are much more so just a reminder that, overall, women are a pain in the neck and will sap your time, energy, and resources far too much to make them worth the trouble. Younger dudes reading this, I realize this sounds like an impossible feat, to triumph over those urges and instincts, but as you get older it gets easier and when you finally overcome this obsession/addiction and learn to be happy within yourself then you'll never look back. 😎
The last one is the one that resonates with me to an extent. Im working on myself, not for women so it will take alot of time and I don't mind it. I want to take time and wish you a Happy New Year. I hope that the upcoming year goes in your favor. Im glad that I found your channel.
They dont think I'm unattractive, but there's always someone better waiting in the wings. Women have massive amounts of options in dating via apps.
They got the opposite problem of trying to determine who will commit to them, who is trying to smash, who actually wants to marry along with how far down in the looks department they have to go to get that commitment though. Like imagine the hot girl seems interested in you and then just ghosts you after a dinner date or something, you put all that investment and they just wanted food (sex in this case for women). Well guys dont want to buy dinner dates anymore and a lot of women try and hold back sex too. Its how far you want to put yourself out there.
@@brent4073 I honestly doubt women value commitment, most I meet are just happy to jump from one cock to another
This is has been my problem my whole life, I wouldn’t necessarily call myself ugly but there’s always someone better literally every single time and it drives me nuts. I’m always second
Great point. A generation ago you would have been a catch, now you’re just third string at best…
“Well, that’s probably how the cookie is going to crumble for you...” Courtney straight up with the truth! I really believe contentment is a huge factor in being able to believe in yourself and bring the energy needed for a healthy relationship.
If I'm making $300K a year or more, then I'm gonna have a girlfriend/wife that's hotter than your friends. Those girls need to come back down to Earth.
I'll rent a 50k whore for the year, and when sick of her rent another one, life's a bitch, but never d marry one at those wages.
Apparently, I'm a 4 when I'm out and about but a 9 when I step out of my expensive looking restored classic cars. Interesting how that works
That's good. If you are not good looking, then you attract with what skills you have
That first one hit home for me. I do come off as desperate to girls. I’ve had a hard time with women, and because of that I do get desperate to find a girlfriend. Like you said, I have a longing to love and be loved. That’s something I needed to hear. I’m definitely going to work on this going into the new year. I needed this.
If you’re under 30, then you have plenty of time to work on yourself. Unfortunately, women have always found me repellent, I then got resentful, and ended up seeing EVERY woman as stuck up. Too late for me :(
@@JohnM... I’m 26 I’m kinda there but it’s more due to the fact I’ve run into enough women like the ones Courtney has on the channel and that really poisons your view of women. Probably gonna join the passport bros honestly
Rooting for you ❤️
@@reanschwarzer2187 tip: join a gym. Works wonders for self esteem, and you tend not to give so much a crap about what people (let alone women) think of you. I now just look at women as guys with boobs, which means I have no trouble talking to them; but, like I said, too late for me. Best of luck!
@@JohnM... already been going for a year straight I’m good on all the self improvement stuff honestly still could use more money since I don’t make the minimum of 100k 😂 but I’m pretty cut going for a 6 pack this year at 4 right now. Looks wise I think I’m sitting at a 5-6 it’s just my Interest has kinda been taken out of me. Now that I have worked hard 2 years the last thing I want to do is date these headaches walking around. That’s all it is honestly!
Kinda to your point of guys with boobs that’s kinda the problem used to they were these bubbly fun feminine people that’s just not what I’m seeing today so just 0 interest even at 26 when I still got that high sex drive and testosterone so it’s really telling how bad it is in my opinion. But maybe other people have different experiences however as a data analyst seems like the data shows most dating isn’t going well today. Just another statistic for now I guess.
Mindset is so important. I’m reading a book that deals with mindset. A change of mindset can turnaround an unfavorable condition, and I found it fascinating that this truth applies even to dating. Thanks Courtney for making the video!
What book? Corey Wayne???
Courtney while you make some very polished good content and there is a lot of good things to learn; they have diminishing returns. It exposes the truth that most women are delusional, selfish and in short the furthest thing men with value want in a wife. 300k or less wouldn't be able to provide the lifestyle that would make them happy as a couple?!!! I make 160k and I live extremely comfortably alone and help my parents with their mortgage as well. There are so many low value women (not referring to looks) that are projecting requirements that they cannot themselves meet but they don't see that as a failure on their part. However, if a male can't reach these Mt. Everest challenges they are low value. All you are doing with these videos is proving to men that they need to go their own way and forget trying to wife these bottom feeders. Guys go out, have fun, don't take them seriously, watch your wallet and when your in too deep abort and put them back on the street. I truly am a good person but I see this as an eye for an eye playing the game better than them. Know a bad investment, utilize it to your advantage and then cut your loss.
Correct, great comment, and it turns out that 99% of the "W" are worthless, it's no exaggeration either. Most of them are boring, entitled, have no unique personality and are all about status and clout, and they are conformists. Not much for Men to find fulfillment or drive or any motivation in that.
I completely agree. Courtney does work with a very small (and seemingly very privileged) sample of females, only a few of whom have the kind of looks to even begin to justify their frankly outrageous expectations, so I won't tar all women as irredeemable.
But another thing that I think her videos also point out by accident is that at least among these ladies, there seems to be a prevailing attitude that men must be the ones to bring the majority of what I'll call "substantive value" to the relationship (since the lists of musts the women tend to have are fairly exhaustive). To me this tendency prompts me to ask the questions, "What do they bring?" and "What do they feel they are responsible to bring?"
Guess the host didn't answer because she knew your right and these trash women will never get married, guaranteed with their attitude and expectations.
What she brought on today lowkey exposed a cold hard truth about women but the fact that she doesn’t do anything to try to prove that to us is what got me.
I’d even think she isn’t Top 3 for dating advice because of that, but then I’ve seen other great DA channels make points that are completely disagreeable as well (mainly having to do with unrealistic expectations)
The comments about salary in this video made me laugh out loud.
The overwhelming majority of women aren't 300k material.
They aren't even 200k material.
But they think they deserve it 🤣
For me, I saw this video as more like why I find myself unattractive (yes, it is important that you think you look good) and why women find me unattractive. And you highlighted a great deal of key issues that I find within myself. But none of it is beyond redemption - these are things that are totally reversible and I thank you for making this video😁
It’s fine to think you’re unattractive my friend…….. I’m unattractive…… it has nothing to do with low self esteem or any of that crap they try to feed you … it’s just what it is …. If women aren’t sending you signals of some sort you’re physically unattractive… you can still meet a woman and be ugly.
Acting desperate is so unattractive. So many men do this and that’s the truth. When I was younger, I would see my friends act so desperate towards a girl they like and I was like “bro… wtf are you doing…”
Can you give some examples of ones you've encountered that act that way?
They still do and we adults now lmao
Well i would to imposing criteria and relentlessly careless
I mean it’s hard not to act desperate when you don’t see women all that much or any that like you for the matter
@@HeadHunterKillCounts Yeah, if you notice there is this constant obsession with seeing "abundance" when it doesn't exist. Courtney, like other self-help gurus tries to promote people to live in a bubble, as Women already do. The thing is, Men can't really help desperation either because when you look at the birth rates and who's being born, the younger generation age brackets all have a serious decline in birth rates. Most of the Women alive are over 70 years old. More Women abort female fetuses, then there is the fact of how many young girls are absolutely undateable, not marriage-worthy and cannot pair bond even if their life depended on it. Courtney is trying to promote Men to live against nature.
Can you imagine how high the cross youre crucified on would be set if a man said "women should just go to the gym and lose weight stop being lazy"
You want us to accept you the way you are but we have to literally turn into another person so youd notice us
This is so fucking true.
I don't even look at women that are not in excellent shape (I am in excellent shape myself). If that's the standard they expect of us, they deserve it right back.
*Yes. You accurately describe the gynocentric, feminist culture of western society.*
I'm a bit older, and have been around the block a few times... I love your videos and you are so dead on with your subjects. Keep doing you... You've helped a lot of us and woken us up. By the way... Most of the time when I watch your videos, I've got a group of friends huddled around me and we're all learning from them.
I started watching your videos about a year ago, and I have learned a lot. I look forward to seeing more of your awesome and insightful content in 2023. Happy New Year, Courtney!
It’s interesting the stages of life, because I have watched 20 of her latest videos and I didn’t learn a damn thing. Everything I watched I already knew. All these videos did for me was not confirm but compound what I already knew. There’s a huge difference.
This is a woman problem in dating 75% barely 25% men problem.
I'm guilty of the scarcity mindset, then again, I have been on one date in ten years, so it's kind of hard to have any other mindset. Guilty of lack of effort in my physical appearance and even trying to meet a woman. Guilty of lacking confidence and thinking I'm unattractive but it's not a physical thing, it's more a personality thing.
So you are basically saying I do not want to do anything to be attractive to women and now are complaining you are not attractive to women. If you know your personality is bad, that is also very easy to change
So you are lazy basically.
Gents, it doesn't matter how much you better yourself. If you didn't catch the fact that the girls she interviews are completely and utterly amd hopelessly delusional, there is no helping you no matter how much improvement you do. Work on finding that rare girl that is a giver. Cause most women out here are takers. And they will take everything from you. They're out for themselves. You can't point out a single girl in these interviews that wanted to do anything for that husband they wanted.
100000% facts. Most men in the US can't even make 70k a year no matter how hard they try🤣
Take a shower; make sure to get in the asscrack with washcloth saturated with soap and water.
I agree with you 100%,but here's the problem. The rare girl who's a giver has already been snatched by someone VERY early. Your only chance is being in the right place at the right time
@Giorgos dro oh yeah. Took me years to find mine. And it was fun date and fuck many women. But I went through dozens of girls before I found one who was eager to please and never caught in a lie and didn't argue and WANTED me to lead. It was lucky, but the harder I worked the luckier I got. The women in these interviews are complete poison and shame on Courtney for not pointing that out. Does she really think these women are going to work on their marriage during the hard times and stick it out? And make no mistake, sure as God made little green apples, hard times will come. I make 90k and bust my ass off for it and I would only sleep with these women, I would never in a million years wife one.
You have contradicting thoughts presented. "...there is no helping you no matter how much improvement you do. Work on finding that rare girl that is a giver." If you watched the interviews with the girls, you'd also see Courtney gave them a reality check. They weren't "hopelessly delusional," they were social-media hyped ignorant.
The inexperienced casual casts nets. The pros choose their bait to lure their catch.
An excellent and heartfelt message to the year's end. When most listen to reply, not understand, there is still room for appreciation as seen below. You are one of deserving ones, so even if you feel like you're shoveling it against the tide sometimes, change is inevitable... and in this context, it's coming to men's benefit. If I only added one word to yours, it would be 'patience'. Oh, and change? You guys' better roll with it or it will roll over you.
I have listened to your advice, took a good look in the mirror, dieting, working out, choosing better fitting and nicer looking clothes makes me feel more confident, I walk more confident and am getting more looks from the girls. Also keeping house cleaner. It all adds up to feeling happier. Thank you.
@@vwqwe-gh6td Yep, but she does have lots of other videos and have been watching her channel for a while now. Most of this video just rehash and was covered in the past but she added haircuts and some more Indepth stuff.
News flash: they're looking at the bulge in your pocket, not your crotch.
1. Not rich
2. Not over 6 ft. tall
3. Not a CEO
4. Doesn't own a Bugatti
But at least I'm out of jail, unlike Andrew Tate.
Bruh 😂
He's got himself a boyfriend in there🤣🤣
If you cant afford a Ferrari 458, a Superfast or a $3 million Pugani BC you're not even on these wahmen's radar.
😅
Spoken like a brokie🤡
If these women expect a guy to make a six-figure salary, they just excluded 90% of men.
More like 99%. These girls are in their early to late 20s. No man in that age range earns that kind of money. It takes time to establish yourself, and those who get to that level (most men don't), do not achieve this before they hit their mid to late 30s, if not mid forties. Delusional is the key word here, and not a single one of the women interviewed is hot enough to have these kinds of expectations.
I mean low end six figures is pretty rare but 100K yearly is achievable with a good education. These Mfs really said over 250K… that’s not even possible for a 20-30 age guy unless he is an influencer.
@@aidey8mph605 Most people in general never make more than 70K even once out of their entire working life.
Women who are very focused on how much money _you_ make as a man really just consider it to be _thier_ money anyway.
@@peachmelba1000 yeah like it’s terrible that it’s seen as a requirement by so many out of touch women but 100K a year is at least possible for a 20-30 year old man if you were like a doctor or engineer. Anything above 250K is literally impossible possibly for any age of you are working a 9-5.
@@aidey8mph605 If you're a doctor or an engineer, you're not fully licensed/ accredited until 25 at the _very very_ earliest and in those professions, during the first half to third of your career particularly, there is no 9-5. Doctors, lawyers, engineers, architects, all work 70+ hours per week. A lot of women see the title, but don't have a concept of what is attached to it, unless they are doing the same kind of job. The rest will be spending a lot of their time without their partner.
I have been rejected, ghosted and flaked on for 28 years by every woman I have ever liked. I am a 28 year old male who has never been in a relationship. We understand desperation is not attractive, but those who are not in a situation like mine, could never understand the mindset this type of life culminates into.
If you don't show any interest whatsoever, you won't be rejected. So this is the mindset you need to change. You are in this world for yourself, not for her. work on your own goals and hang out with like minded friends. In that group there ought to be no "she"
How I feel daily
Just pay a h.00ker, there’s no BS.
Hi Will, You are absolutely correct! I have been around the block a few times, married & divorced, did the dating things & @ the end of the day most women have the attitude of..."What can you do for me?" This is why old & plain looking guys with money can still get women.
I get what you are saying, but its hard to be motivated, or ambitious, when every time you try to get to know a woman it turns out they are either bots, scammers, or suddenly ghost you for no explanation. I've had women admit they are attracted to me, but out of nowhere vanish rather then tell me they changed their miinds or that they found someone else. It would be nice and refreshing if most women were communicative and said something along the lines of "its not going to work for these reasons xyz" so that way I know what I need to know to become a more attractive man in general, but most women dont provide any feedback.
I work out, dress nice, keep up with my looks (gym, haircut, skin, facial hair). I even cook pretty good for a guy and trying to get better, just graduated college as a nurse, keep my car and house clean, and nothing. Maybe I’m not trying hard enough or pursuing hard enough but I’m also too focused on and advancing my career. Videos like this are encouraging but also give a dark realization that I have standards that I will probably never reach so that’s why I’ve partially decided to go my own way and save my money, time, and feelings and invest that towards my freedom, hobbies, family, friends and retirement. Good luck out there.
This is coming straight from the heart, the girl that said 300k/year I would give her the opportunity to carry my water bottle around the gym,that's it nothing else. She's like a 6 on a good day but wants 300k/year :))
I admittedly made a lot of these mistakes in the past, specifically with the first one. The career/ambition stuff has been easier for me as I made that a priority over dating in my younger years.
Well, the scarce thing is real………not scarce of women but scarce of quality women. So when you meet someone you think is a little different than most, you may go a little crazy because you don’t know if you will ever meet another.
Especially when they are in your immediate group of friends and you are already fighting an uphill battle to get out of the friendzone.
I have never been in a relationship and started talking to a girl that I randomly had classes with. We sort of joke and she was really nice. I think she is losing interest in the class/hobby and I might not see her anymore. I don’t know if there was anything there but I feel bad because I have never met someone that treated me the way she did and worried I won’t find anyone like that again…
I really hate thinking of myself as unattractive, but the problem is: I'm filled with insecurities, not always good at making conversations and I just don't think half the time. Now for physical appearance? I do take care of myself half the time, but for the opposite sex? It doesn't seem like it's enough.
Not sure if you can do this, but this one works. Forget about insecurities and attractiveness altogether. Focus on getting into position where you have money (no show offs) and some kind of power ( business ownership). When you have those two, women will be chasing you.
@@robertk5441 I see. Thanks.
It doesn't matter what we do, it won't ever be enough for women
@@UserRobot215 sadly.
@Kenrick Bautista I've never even gone on a date at 25, at this point its best for guys like me to take the L on dating
I've watched a few of your videos, and I must say I am quite impressed!!!
You are honest, blunt, unbiased, considerate, calm, respectful and don't sugarcoat things. You also don't include any feminist and red pill nonsense.
Your videos are extremely helpful and would definitely recommend your channel to many other guys. You've just earned a new subscriber, keep up the great work!!!!!
When you said "It's a one way ticket to the friendzone... or the attention "fill in guy" that she only texts when she's bored or she want's something", it's like you were talking right at me. I wish I could say I've come to realize that this girl I've been dealing with doesn't REALLY like me, but if I'm honest, I guess I've always known. It's just that the good times were so good, I thought maybe things would change. It hurts, not going to lie...
The ambition thing is real. I've moved back in with my mom to help her out with the house and as she gets older just to help out in general. But as a single male obviously this is an idea or attractive is what I thought. But I've been on some amazing dates and those women said they don't mind me staying with my mom because I have ambition and drive to be better and to make something for myself. Just want to throw that out there. Thank you Courtney for the video 🙏🏾
I did the same for my father. He's 70, and he's not good at taking care of himself in general. I don't have a family, so I can.
RIP Pele 🇧🇷😭
“Putting in more effort” applies to me a lot. For most of my life, I wasn’t very successful with women. When I was in high school, I started to spike my hair for the first time. Then, all the sudden, I was getting lots of female attention, girls were smiling at me all the time, and it was all because I made one little change. It was actually the first time I had any hairstyle. I think my friends started to get jealous of me because they started to realize how good looking I am. One day, at the lunch table, one of my friends looked at me and said “You look like one of the fuckin’ popular kids.” That triggered me, because most of the popular boys had my same hairstyle, and I didn’t like those kids. Eventually I stopped spiking my hair because i started to become too self-conscious- it looked like I was trying to fit in with “them”, when in reality I was just trying to get some style. I’ve always been a social outcast and I’m not a people person, so if I really wanted to boost my attractiveness, I would’ve had to develop better social skills as well. As of now, I’m in college, and I’m glad I found this channel.
Courtney, you're a gem! I love your opinions and you always have a balanced viewpoint on things! I always struggled with self confidence but agree that since taking care of myself and wearing clothes that fit me, becoming more confident in myself, things on all fronts have improved! Keep up all of the wonderful videos!! ^_^
For the longest time I though being nice was an attractive feature but it makes you weak so I've detached myself from ever giving into liking a girl until the day I learn to put myself on top before anyone else
Being kind is not a weakness. People mistake kindness for weakness. If you are capable of terrible things, yet choose to be kind, that shows strength of character. There is a difference between being harmless and being kind.
I am a nice person and if they don't like that, then their priorities are fucked and I consider myself a bullet-dodger in that regard. I have no regrets at being passed over for being nice.
That's absurd. My being kind, respectful, and thoughtful always works for me. The key is knowing how to do it in a masculine way that projects confidence and it comes off as being so in a protector roll, not because you're kissing her ass. Clearly you don't know how to do that. The post I made up there gives an example of how I'm doing that right now with a new woman and she eats it up like they all do.
Being nice and not having a backbone are two different things. Be kind but also look out for #1
The first question to ask is not whether women think you're unattractive. The first question is why do you want any of these women in the first place? What exactly do you hope to gain from a relationship with one of them? The women Courtney interviews on these videos are basically average unremarkable girls who have unrealistically high expectations of what they expect and think they deserve in a man. Do they ever mention what they bring to deserve such bounty? Of course not. Because the answer really is nothing. They think they deserve a 1%er and their idea of settling is to take a 10%er. Are you one of those guys? If not, they're not going to be interested in you so stop wasting your time pining for them. And if you are, why would you want one of these girls in the first place? Isn't it better to be alone than to invite an emotional, chaotic, trouble making gold digger into your successful and abundant life?
The crazy thing is all of the girls she interviews actually are not even attractive and had odd or mongoloid looking features. Eyes wide apart, mixed race or the one who wears the beanie and downright looks like a hoodlum. If I saw any of those girls in public, I wouldn't even slightly notice them whatsoever.
I would say that the smart move now is for the middling to decent looking guys to go for the shy, plain Jane types.
I've been doing very well with these women. I still have standards, meaning I won't date an overweight or obese woman, I prefer a partner who exercises, and absolutely won't be with someone who smokes cigarettes, but in terms of needing a woman with a model's face (with four layers of makeup on it anyway), I'm over that.
In _fact,_ being a tiny bit better looking than the women I date seems to bring something out of them. Suddenly _I'm_ exciting and interesting lol
And to be honest, in my experience, the quieter, nerdier chicks are often way wilder in bed. And they're actually capable of having a conversation.
@@peachmelba1000 Not a bad strategy at all. I often found as well that the quiet shy girls behind closed doors were far wilder than the party girls. Still waters definitely ran deep.
Wow you are truly a blessing, this is the content that I never knew that I needed! Thanks for sharing your perspective and being candid about these types of conversations, us guys have no idea what goes on beneath the surface of women 😢
Thank you for your message. I needed it.
I'll go to the gym, but I don't do it nor will I ever do it to make someone else be attracted to me. Because doing something or changing yourself to appease others is a terrible idea and a great way to end up depressed. I'm very content with my height and size, and if large objects aren't your thing, there's small guys out there that are desperate for a partner.
I still find it funny that many women find men attractive if he make more than 6 figures. The only way most men can even come close to that is through criminal activity. After working for 6 figures for a couple of years I ended up quitting. I would work endless hours and had consistent health problems. Give me a regular 8 hour job that would allow me to be with my horses and do my volunteer work. I'd rather be a successful human being that would benefit many people and affect their lives than a successful man who benefits one woman who still could leave me in the end.
Exactly, their expectations are totally unreasonable, and not just slightly. You are especially right about most of these salaries Women expect now, are only typically attainable through criminal activity, and it's no surprise that many of them tend to gravitate and procreate with psychopaths and criminals. You probably were working like one had to work in a true manner to get the 6 figure position you were in before, because the thing is, in most cases, people who make 6 figures or more, never rely on doing hard work to get it, but are part of operations or schemes where the money is making money for them. It's almost never honest labor, and such Men have special connections unlike an ordinary everyday Joe.
Courtney is right. I started to take care of myself more and have made fantastic progress over the years! Has this helped me become more attractive to women? Not even remotely. BUT! It has made me like myself more, and, truthfully speaking, that's a lot more important to me.
Thank you Courtney for the confidence boost, HAPPY NEW YEAR! Just gotta keep trying ❤❤️🔥👍💪😌
This past year we got a lot of good content out of you Courtney. Thank you. I'm writing out my goals for next year today. Trying to get closer to my "best" version. I hope your 2023 gets off to a good start and you have a Happy New Year 🎉
Love to hear it. Thanks for being here. Happy new year! ❤️
I’ve been writing down my goals for 2023 for the past four straight days. I’m trying to become my best version as well. It’s been a long and hard road to get where I am today.
@@CourtneyRyan 6:09 a haircut isnt going to make the guy more attractive. the ginger guy still has a very weak jawline, big nose and still looks like a creep. That’s why I say the blackpill is more realistic in terms of what women want. That man will still get rejected even if he behaves like a nice man as that doesn’t make him high value
@@Spider-Ranger2000 I hear you man. Not too long ago, I was 300 pounds, now I'm at about 195. Still got a ways to go, but I don't forget how far I've come. My confidence is higher, my demeanor around women is calmer and more laid back. Meeting more of my goals will level me up even further. Good luck with your goals. Even if you stumble, just get back up and keep making progress.
@RLP 402 How long did it take for you to lose the weight?
I'm in the same phase to lose weight but at most lose 20 pounds and then have gotten 10 pounds back 🙃
$127k. Where the fuck did that number come from?? Haha
Westlake. I love it when you do videos like this no fluff just straight to the point full of information that is helpful
Thank you for your video that said it’s good for a man to have some facial hair and get a new hair cut after a breakup!!! Been getting praise for my new look
The girl that said 500k salary is delusional! She is going to be single forever
Hi Courtney, your content has been crucial to my dating life. Thank you so much! Happy new year and all the best to you. Cheers to you having a half a million subscriber in the new year 🥂🍾
😂😂 This is a classic example of women saying one thing and doing the other.
1. Acting too desperate: They say desperation is a turn-off, then they check for the same by playing hard to get.
2. Having no ambition: They want a man with ambition, but at the same time, they don't wanna be with a hardworking guy who can't give them enough attention
3. Putting in no effort: And at last, even if a man puts the effort, he is doing everything all the time. There is no reciprocation.
Great video. Courtney, I need help in one of these areas so badly! I don't have the slightest clue when it comes to dressing/fashion. This is without a doubt, my biggest Achilles heal. I don't chase women. I like myself and where I am in life. I don't think I'm ugly. But I dress like a bum. I even put effort into other parts of my appearance. I keep my hair nice, I shave, keep my nails cut, I go to the gym. But to put my bad dressing into perspective, I had a job as a case manager with unhoused people. One day I brought one of our clients somewhere and a worker there thought I was the client. I basically wear jeans, sneakers, and a death metal t-shirt lol. I love metal. I used to be the lead singer in a death metal band that had a record deal. I don't go full on. Other than the t-shirts, I don't look metal. I have short hair. I don't have any tattoos or piercings. I don't wear leather or spikes. Just the t-shirts. The problem is, I don't feel comfortable dressing in nice clothes. When I wear the kinds of clothes women like, I feel so uncomfortable. I'm not a preppy or a pretty boy. Any advice?
When a girl asks me for my number, I get suspicious now. I had girls ask me for my number before, but nothing became of it so I removed their numbers. If they're fishing to see what they can catch, they can grab a fishing pole and go to the lake.
Oke so these are the salaries which they want their bf to make: 70-100k, 300k, 125k, 500k, 150-250k. Let's see which job titles fit that: 100k: engineers, financial/investment analyst, 150k: engineering/financial managers and physicists/astronomers, 200-250k: chief executives, pilots and physicians, 300k: surgeons, cardiologists, 350k> do not exist (as a standard job).
Does a child care about how Santa manages to get around so quick? Visit every house? Know how you’ve behaved the past year?
You forgot bidens finest drug dealers and border smuggling human trafficking buddies
Technically, most pro athletes are contractual employees of their team and most make over 350k....
Thanks Courtney! I hope you have a great year ahead 🙏
" . . do it for you're freakin' self!" Love it! All these tips will help not just with dating but with work, personal relationships, etc. I've been extatically, happily married for 15 years and use Courtney's advice to woo my wife, improve myself professionally and even take better care of my skin!
I think this is something that the more moderate MGTOW folks will advocate for of working on yourself to make you the most desirable person you can be. If you frame it around being a better person rather than turning yourself into someone that is attractive to the opposite sex, it's a more helpful and healthy outlook because it comes from a place of changing yourself instead of the way that others perceive you, which is ultimately outside of your control.
I learned when I give a woman attention she doesn't want it. But when I ignore her she wants the attention. So I decided not to give her too much attention. It doesn't really bother anymore if she doesn't reply to me anymore.
I get better results when I feel annoyed by them and am short with them
One of my friends got married in his early 20s. He mentioned as soon as he put a wedding ring on his finger, women approached him like crazy. Something about wanting a man they can't have or perhaps the thrill of trying to steal a married man. Anyway, I wouldn't recommend attracting those type of women though. He ended up having a bunch of affairs and an eventual divorce. But women are weird.
@@kensmith2796 This is correct. Women love to be a forbidden "side fling" to use a Married Man who likely has a nagging wife and yet disposable assets that she can leech off of, since she figures a Married Man, especially one with kids, likely has a lot of wealth. Therefore, wearing a ring in public will catch the eyes of Women. Also, if you go to a WalMart and buy things that make you look like a "family Man" such as packing your cart full of camping gear and charcoal, grilling items and meat, Women will also begin to notice and smile because they think you are likely married with a family and are making big dough "which they want from you".
Women like the attention of hot guys, not ugly ones
@@gerardoa9179 Ugly women even think an average Joe is scum and unworthy
Very well said. 100% agree with you! Thanks for telling the world this.
Happy new 2023 year Courtney
I just stopped at the money part. So basically she tells people don't date until you're rich or well off. Women, if a guy is rich, 99 percent of the time he's not looking for you.
for real man, seen a few of these videos from her and thought it was decent advice. But that point of the video killed it man. terrible advice
@@nmf220 seems more like training men to be women pleasers. Even the grooming part, if it didn't came natural for the guy, it will feel like a mask for him, even tho' I agree that is essential. The only dating advice you need, is the code of good manners, and that's it. Other than that no, men will become 🪤 by the system with no way out, stay or divorce and lose your assets. Honestly, if anyone is making like those spoiled girls wanted 125-250k $, and not asking them about a prenup, they can shoot themselves in the foot.
There are still women out there prepared to join you on the journey. They are rare but do exist. Many of them don’t use dating apps or social media though.
Based. Not looking for a gold digger
That's 99% of time true. She's not his first option but very few guys reach that
The thing about how you can make urself attractive is very true, all through school I was overweight, didn't have a nice hair cut, dressed poorly ect and just thought I was ugly
before I went to uni I lost a lot of weight (6 stone), got a nice hair cut and dressed well and the difference was night and day to how girls treated me. Unfortunately I was still in my "I'm ugly" mind set so majority of the time if a girl was into me I'd just convince myself she wasn't and lost out on a lot of girls 🤣
Happy New Year Courtney! Hope you have a wonderful 2023 🙂🎆
I just joined Anytime Fitness last month and I’m doing their 6 week challenge. It’s a great way to get in shape and get out and meet people. It’s just people getting in shape and staying in shape. No selfies or steroid users. Going to the classes helps with accountability.
If you find yourself having to pursue a girl, it’s already a losing battle, there’s no way to win or any gimmicks to force the attraction
the money part is so ridiculous.. 500 THOUSAND!?? not even brain surgeons make that much. y’all are naming celebrity numbers and make women look so bad
Good job, Courtney. These tips are applicable guidelines for other areas of life, not just dating. Great advice for men regardless of their relationship status.
Happy new year. Courtney
Not only in the dating world does appearance have an effect, but in the working world. I had a company that worked on 10-20 million dollar houses. I had people that came in looking for a job in torn and dirty clothing. Sure we got dirty on the job but I needed people that took pride in themselves because that translated into pride in the job.
Yeah, get dirty after work, not before work. 😁
Have a wonderful 2023, Courtney!
Definitely the first one but my main question what is your best advice for a guy who has a bad widow's peak, any more if I try to style my hair how I used to it looks very bad with the Widow's Peaks and really don't know what hairstyle to try next so I've been trying to stick with a hat whenever I can
I'm currently in a relationship but even I still need to be careful to not fall into the habits that got me rejected all those years before 😬
Yeah, you can't really put all your happiness into one person. Women come and go. That's just life.
Hell,I could care less about my’bad’ habits. Either deal with them as do with a woman’s habits,or hit the road. I won’t change who I am just to please someone who can leave at anytime on a whim.
This is why i will not go into a relationship. Why keep worrying about keeping the woman happy if all it makes you do is be scared that she might leave you if you mess up. I might be alone, but i dont have to live in constant stress and i have a ton of free time to do my hobbies and watch adult content.
@@kensmith2796 LOL, jeez, Men please understand that true happiness in a relationship only comes from long term monogamy with the right woman. "Women come and go"?!? Not a recipe for happiness. But whatever.
@@SPBurt1 Good luck having your happiness dependent upon another person.
Imma keep it short and simple: “hold on loosely, but don’t let go, if u cling too tightly, you’re gonna loose control”
Thank you Mrs. Ryan! This is by far your best video.
Yeah I don't know about all this seven years ago I was homeless had nothing, today I make almost $100,000 a year I own my own house brand new truck to classic cars and I'm still a f****** zero, either you got it or you don't, and obviously I f****** don't
This is real easy:
1: you're not attractive
2: you're not pulling 7 figures
The end 👍
If a women dated me because of my income, i would skip her... who needs that !! I would want someone who just likes me for me. I would rather be alone. My wife met me when i had nothing , and she did not care about how much i made. She has never had to work , but she would if need be.
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It always kills me that a woman who wants to do nothing but be a stay at home wife with a man that takes care of her has the balls to demand a man with ambition.
So… I have to be this crazy ambitious go-getter and you get to be a leach? Got it. 🙄
Traveling overseas is an answer for a lot of men in the US
Hay Courtney! Been checking your site out! I have a question what are the best 3 dating sites for a serious relationship? Oh yeah! I am 64
Great video again. I have all of your points covered in your video, good stable job, good appearance, clean cut, good shape, etc.....But regarding the first point in this video, I'm 48 years old, never been in a relationship of any kind, never been engaged, etc....Yes I've dated, had some flings, but nothing at all ever remotely serious.....I'm not at all desperate, needy, clingy, etc.....never have, never will be......where has it gotten me?......
These videos always talk about men needing to do better but nobody wants to consider if the effort is worth the tiny bit of reward. As long as hypergamy exists we will never have fair relationships. Hypergamy makes most men lonely because they need to measure up to win a womans approval. If every man started doing their best right now to be a high value man then nothing would change, because woman will just raise their standards.
Cause I'm ugly? Lol
I can confirm that tweaking your appearance a little can make a huge impact. I'm balding, and I feel like I look much better, and I'm definitely more confident, now that I've shaved my head. Also, I loved the use of clips and picture examples in this video. They really helped the points you were making come across! Finally, I was actually a little shocked when you said the word 'freaking.' 😮Your channel is so clean that you saying something even as innocuous as that made huge impact. 😆
Wigs are better than hair.
Doesn't make much difference the boost in confidence though right.
Especially when you have to sit listening to all these women who reject and outright admit they find bald men ugly etc, its potential "weak genetics" for their offspring etc
what difference does it make to your self confidence when women choose your value based on things you can't help about your body from going bald to your penis size to your height, and you are branded a worthless undateable loser based on the above.
@@TheNaturalHealthBlogger I've had many women like my looks despite my baldness, and they've told me they prefer me shaving my head to holding on to the little hair I have, so yeah, it does make a significant difference to me.
@@Spectacular-Spider-Dan Yeah but when the majority of women perceive bald men to be inferior what use is it really?
I mean I had some temporary mild hair loss at one point after a near death experience and a drunk horrible nasty woman came up laughing at me whilst I was quietly minding my business having a quiet pint saying "hahahaha you're going bald" lol
but I mean thats mild I guess, I talk with women on this channel all the time and some of the shit they come out with towards men who are bald, you'd think any guy without some elvis pressley hair style was a second class citizen, if I hear this "weak genetics" shit again I'lll die lol
@@TheNaturalHealthBlogger I don't think most women care that much about that really. Look at the Rock, a lot of women like him.
I will subscribe because you have no dopey intro, no prop pets, not pushing products and nothing but great content. thank you Courtney, from NC Ohio.
Unrealistic expectations = childless and single
Honestly, this is why every guy needs to lie to women. Tell them you are the CFO making $400k, you got a 10' dong, you just blew out the backs of 2 women earlier in the day but you are confident you can get her off if she goes home with you.
I always love your videos, it allows me to take a step back and realize what a loser I am.
you're a gem Courtney. thank you for doing these videos. you are providing a much needed good natured perspective.
@6:08 -> Great point!
I’ve been so insecure about not being able to grow a full beard that I had been contemplating having hair transplants placed inside my face to grow one. I eventually scrapped that idea since I learned that both the side effects and healing process were not going to be too pleasant. I’d like to hear your thoughts about why you think some people do this. Hope you enjoyed your Christmas and have a Happy New Year!
Are you incel or no you need to join blackpill for most honest feedback
Look into Minoxidil, it's normally used for hair loss but can be used to grow a beard.
Dont go through surgery and healing for facial hair. Minor plastic surgery on your face like nose or chin I think would go a longer way
The best way to see your beard growing potential is to not shave for at least 4-6 weeks. That way you're able to gauge more easily how it grows in and the type of style your beard produces. Some can grow better beards than others. A lot of it is dependent on your genetics, but also how you take care of your physical and mental health. A big misconception about growing facial hair is that the more frequently you shave, the quicker it grows back. This is not the case whatsoever. I'm 33 and I find that with patience, I can grow a good beard, but I also like to trim it when I start to look too much of a mountain man lol.
I have actually refrained from shaving for over a month and a half once and the results were still not in my favor.
nah the women's expectations for money are top 1%, don't worry kings, just keep going and building your life and find someone who brings something to the table as well other than just sex