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0:00 r/BestofRedditorUpdates - AITAH for initiating a divorce while my wife is in the hospital after a car accident.
25:16 r/BestofRedditorUpdates - My (38F) Husband (39M) hid having lunch with a coworker (25F) and said my food was ‘tasteless’. What do I do?
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Bruh... The first story is just wild. How can that woman think that she's doing or done nothing wrong when she has been involved in MULTIPLE car accidents; and I'm assuming she's at least been the cause of several
Because accountability these days amongst western women is pretty much gone. Sorry, just how it is. Always someone else's fault, even cheating. Even my wife of 17 years finally started to acknowledge this, especially when I pointed out the issues she had with a number of female coworkers. She started to notice that pattern after that. Other women, and men, would practically give or allow every excuse possible no matter how culpable they were with something going wrong at work. It was the computers fault, the other coworker, the patriarchy, the weather. Not even kidding. She even apologized to me knowing she did this to me many times over the years too. Anyways, no relationship OR friendship, will last long term if one person in that mix cannot accept accountability for their actions. The other person can only accept false blame or allow excuses so long before the bitterness and resentment sets in. Not to mention the perpetual cycle of issues as nothing gets resolved when a person can't accept responsibility. Js, we have a sick culture focused on individualism and victimization. Part of that leads itself to a person never accepting responsibility.
@@AltruisticWarrioroh god we found a wild incel
@Gayonetta5000 hardly. I have no problem with the ladies and have respect for everyone. Again, my main gripe is our sick culture but within that we have different problems with both genders. I'm focused on the woman in the story and explaining why she won't accept accountability. Why would she? She exists within a culture that enables her to not have to. Nothing about being an incel. I guess since we love to overuse flashy social media hype words, are you a toxic narcissist by chance? Im guessing you're American? Explains a lot. 🤣
It said single car accident, she didn't even crash into a car!
@@user-ce4vi3gf9j I know lol which means she at least caused that accident, and who knows how many more? And this was just the worst one, which thank the gods none of her children were in the car!!
My mother got in so many accidents as she got older, my father took her license away. All of the accidents weren’t her fault, but loss of reflexes and being easily distracted meant she couldn’t avoid the accident. He said, “If New York State is not smart enough to take your license, I will have to”😂
With that being said, my Mom was very involved in her church and community. My Dad made sure he took her to every meeting and event. No matter how early or late it meant he was up.
4:43 If you don’t want to be treated like an idiot, don’t act like an idiot.
But this is stupid cubed. She feels like her right to be stupid allows her to put her kids in danger.
Those worms are so cute. I love how Sophia's is just filled compared to the other mic.
No accountability from the wife, you are being treated like an idiot because you are an idiot. She has options but refuses to take them, also if she cared for her kids, she would note that her actions are dangerous, im also surprised she hasn’t gotten her license fully taken away
Lunch story, the husband is encouraging the coworker to do things for him like a girlfriend. He knows the coworker is interested. If he just didn’t like his wife’s cooking then just eat at a restaurant when at work no problem but don’t have this thing of lunching on the coworkers cooking like that he can tell she is flirting and making romantic gestures by cooking. Everyone can see it.
Plot twist: the wife in the first story is actually Mr. Toad from Mr. Toad’s Wild Ride!
😭🤣
If someone’s goes through honest effort and time to making me food, I’m going to eat it and be grateful. I cook almost all the time, that’s my thing. But sometimes, my partner pan fries unseasoned chicken, boils tortellini, and mixes it all up with a jar of pesto sauce. I freaking love it. Is it restaurant quality? God, no. But it was honest effort at the top of his knowledge and ability. I’m happy.
Also, that guy is looking to cheat. You never compare your wife with anyone. That’s some toxic work wife bullshit.
Husband getting fed by coworker, that's bonkers in what world does trashing your wife make you "cool" to a coworker of it does thay are garbage you are with your spouse because they are awesome that's how you should talk about them
For the wife saying she isn't intentionally trying to cause these accidents...there is a term for that. INVOLUNTARY MANSLAUGHTER!...if the outcome of the accidents met a tragic end. Luckily, it didn't. The only tragic thing is that she failed to see the dangerous problem she has with operating a vehicle and it cost her marriage and probably limited relationship with her children. I hope she gets help for that.
first story, she needs medical intervention, and the courts to lock her out of ever buying a car and to make her never have a drivers license ever again. i have seen a judge hand down "you cant get a loan to get a house" because the person was a convicted slumlord. I can see a judge hand down "you cant ever buy a car". it should be brought up in a divorce hearing.
Why medical ? She is imature and won't listen
I was in an (extremely minor, but even so) car accident this spring, entirely my fault. I'm a decent driver in normal circumstances but I have become completely burned out and now I just cannot focus hard enough to drive safely anymore. My partner drives or I take the bus. If I do have to drive I am like a new driver, no music in the car, both hands on the wheel, no rush to get anywhere on time.
Being in even a really small accident was very frightening and eye-opening about how much focus is really needed on the road. I don't understand how this person can have been in several and think it is nothing and continue the same way.
The lunch coworker. More than obvious, she hit dial. Why else would she say that. She wanted her to Hear.
I had the same thought about that could see her doing so if given the opportunity
I LOVE WATCHING SOFIA OPEN UP AND BECOME MORE COMFORTABLE EACH EPISODE ❤
Yes, such a queen 👑
that partttt
“From wap to womp womp”-John 2024 💀
RILEY! Stop overloading the washing machine
Why should I do two loads whenever I can do one??? - Riley
“Butt dialed” I wonder if the girl was behind that or if it a real butt dial
Yeah...I was just thinking about how impossible butt dialing has become since smartphones came on the scene. It has definitely become an issue for only grandparents and Rudy Guiliani.
The girl ABSOLUTELY called her to make her jealous lollll
@@notaripspiderman did her a favor anyway he’s pathetic trash she can keep him.
A lot of states have 'failure to protect' laws. If he does nothing & the kids get hurt, he can be charged & lose custody as well.
I don't see how he could be charged for her choosing to take the children in the car and getting into an accident. She is their mother. She would be the one making that choice. He would have no involvement. He made it clear that she is not allowed to do that, but he can't be expected to be watching her every second of the day. She is an adult and makes her own decisions.
I wish people would quit moving responsibility for things onto people who are NOT responsible for them. Put the responsibility where it belongs and stop there.
@@Karamarika check out the AZ failure to protect laws. If he knows she's endangering the kids & takes no steps to protect them he can be charged at the discretion of CPS & the PD individually. I don't see or understand a lot of things but, they exist anyway.
Also, it's not moving responsibility. Parents are responsible for their children's safety, that includes not allowing them in dangerous situations. Would you knowingly put a child that cannot choose for themselves in the car with an intoxicated driver & then believe you hold no accountability for what happens to that child because you weren't driving?
@WhackadoodleDirtyByrdie you said it right there - he is not the one putting them in the car with her. Read your last statement about a drunk driver again. That's exactly what I said. He is not the one doing it. She is. When they divorce and she has the kids, is he gonna be responsible if she drives with them again? No, of course not.
I don't doubt there are failure to protect laws. I just think you are misinterpreting what that means.
@@Karamarika You didn't know it existed so you're not a reliable interpreter. I've seen the law in effect. In fact, I helped file the charges. Perhaps you should read again. And/or work in improving your comprehension.
@@WhackadoodleDirtyByrdie when did I say I did not know it existed? If you think you can take legal action against someone for something someone else does, then you have no business working in the legal system. That is a terrible perversion of laws. Let's hold anyone accountable EXCEPT the one who is actually responsible. Make that make sense. The same court that would force him to turn the children over to the mother for her time would also apparently hold him responsible for what happens to them in her care, according to you. How idiotic.
that buttdial was a sign from the universe 😅
Regarding the accident prone wife, y'all asked if she needs some mental health care because she has so many accidents, maybe but probably not. I've known people that just refuse to pay attention driving and fail to see the problem. I'm surprised she can get insured.
I'm a mother of 6 & I'm so mad at this woman for doing stupid stuff. She's endangering everyone around her. She shouldn't be allowed to drive period. Maybe she should go thru traffic school or something that might help her or just don't drive at all.
4:15 i think the only reason he mentioned the "his kids" thing is because they are the only ones he has legal rights over? Even though they are married he may not have any right to dictate what happens to them if he isn't able to adopt them. With an active father in their life he may not be able to in the first place
She stands a chance of getting sued, and the family could lose everything😮
First story the op needs to divorce and protect his kids asap. At some point she will be guilty of a massive lawsuit and he doesn’t need to be paying her bills for that. Separate and protect your kids. Just dang.
My sister in law was in an accident due to her reckless driving, and was charged. My toddler nephew was in the car. She flipped her SUV, and crashed through two other cars due to distracted driving. My brother-in-law was heading to the hospital with divorce papers, but they found an aneurysm. So they put it on hold, but he didn't let her go anywhere with the kids in the car for years after that.
My father in law just bought a new car at the end of March. He hit a guardrail a few weeks ago to pick something up 🙄🤦♀️ 2:22
Reily, I had the same issue with washing machines for YEEEAAARS, my mother used to watch me do everything from start to finish thinking it was simply weaponized incompetence and everytime I'd do it right and it would STILL have issues, washing machines had it out for me for years 😂
I'm like that with irons. For some reason, my brain cannot function enough to figure out how to position my hands and move my arm holding the iron. I'm literally waving the iron in the air. Needless to say, I don't iron, lol.
@@shereebuckley7208 Never touched an iron, never will. I can barely hold a butter knife without injuring myself, an iron is a totally different ball game there 😭😂
Me with rice cookers fr, my partner will watch me measure the rice, wash the rice, measure the water and turn it on and every single time that fkn rice is undercooked! Honestly idk what I did in my past life to deserve this uncooked rice curse 😭😭
The mom in the first story should be forced to watch all the deadly car crash compilations on Reddit, because that shit will change you and your driving habits. You have to be aware at all times or else one part of you will end up a hundred feet away from the other part of you and that’s just the reality of the situation. Our bodies are so fragile, it doesn’t take much to destroy us, and car accidents are the number one thing that’ll take you OUT. The husband is making the right choice. I know so many people personally who have lost a husband/wife and all their children in car wrecks. One of them being a tractor trailer piling up on 6 cars, all people in all 6 cars were just gone in an instant. Driving is SCARY. You HAVE to be so so careful and aware.
I really think she needs a full medical workup. Her behavior is too bizarre to fully write off as yet disrespect and negligence without ruling out shimmering medically going on with her. Gotta be a tiny, but growing, yet easily missed brain tumor in the most clandestine place. If she is otherwise healthy, she definitely, needs her license revoked and should be forced to go back through internet drivers training and testing. This should really be a lesson to stats to do handing out DLs like it's candy. You can be one point short of failing with some egregious misses on an exam... and still pass and walk away with a license.
@@chocolatte522 Oh I can explain it. She does not want people to tell her what do , and treat her like kid.
I have a question tho-
man said her insurance is so high her parents are threatening to not pay it anymore.
That means that they’re repairing or replacing cars at like-
dude, are we still repairing/replacing cars for someone who is literally a danger to society? At what point can we just junk the car and not buy a new one?
The woman from the first story is wild, maybe she early onset dementia or something. Even if she drives without the kids, she us still endangering everyone else on the roads. I can't believe she isn't volunteering to stop driving on her own. I've been in one major car accident, deer jumped out of the ditch right in front of my car, I was lucky that the windshield held. It took two weeks to fix my car, and even after that I was super nervous about driving again.
Also, don't come down too hard on people who don't always wear a seat belt, sometimes there is a reason. I always put the shoulder strap behind me, unless I have a seat belt adjusted with me. I'm 5'1 and I am so afraid that if I'm properly wearing a seat belt and there's is an accident, that I'll lose my head.
First story reminded me of when I was a young child and our car got rear-ended by the car behind us at a red light. It was just me and my grandma in the car and as my grandma oriented herself and got out of the car to come check for me, the driver of the car that hit us got all her kids out of her car and then took me out of my grandma's car to stand with her children when she saw me in the backseat. By the time my grandma was able to get to the side door where I had been sitting, she saw that I wasn't there and started to panick. That's when the woman who had rear-ended her came over to my grandma and started telling her how she had turned around briefly to yell at her kids for not wearing seatbelts when she ran into us at the red light. Then she casually gestured towards me and her kids saying thank goodness everyone us okay as if she wasn't the cause of all of this.
English is not my grandma's first language, so even though she speaks it decently well, she was still in shock and this woman was just not giving her any opening to talk. I don't remember how the situation was resolved, but even as a under 10 year old I felt upset that this woman was acting like we were all equal victims of her hitting out car and talking over my grandma. After that, my grandma was a lot more anxious about driving anywhere and would opt not to drive if there was someone else that could take us. That memory has stuck very clearly in my mind ever since.
Pay attention when you are driving, please! Driving unsafely doesn't only affect yourself.... which should be common sense...
First story: I understand op emphasizing the wife injuring the kids, but every time she gets behind the wheel she doesn’t give a flying 💩 about any other person around her.
The food one is simple for me. I will set boundaries and tell him that he can make his own food and stop eating from “home wrecker!” Because that is what she is trying to do from the sounds of it.
Dude if my kid drops something in the car - that’s where it stays until we get to our destination if I’m the only adult in the car, as I’m the one always driving. If it’s something that has to be handled immediately- you pull over, put it in park, then handle the situation
Second story - even if he isn’t trying anything the other girl absolutely is wanting to go down that road with him. If he isn’t going to agree to stop eating that coworker’s food then there is a problem
I gotta start waiting until the end to comment so I don’t have to edit - I absolutely applaud her for leaving. I knew there was something going on and either he was oblivious or participating - “feeling his muscles” is that what we’re calling it now? It sucks that it had to end but I would have handled it the same hands down.
After rethinking of it the first story I don't think I would get a divorce I think I would stop them from ever being able to drive the kids and just maximize life insurance save money on a divorce
The person in the first story should never be driving, but if they are, they should have only a two seater car so they don’t have anything in the backseat
Bruh. For me (@ the wife/OP making the lunch story) The fact that he lied for what seems to be ongoing "lunch dates" and the chick shit talking her? Trust gone... buh-BYE!!
Courage is not the absence of fear rather acting despite the fear.
42:00 Depends on the man. My husband is way out of my league, but I brought homemade cupcakes on our first date. Four years strong 💪
I got run over because someone was looking at their toddler in the back seat 😅
quail eggs taste exactly like normal chicken eggs to me. they're just.. smaller
Yea... If my husband was doing this id probably leave...
The crochet worms on the microphone are so cute.
3:02 literally the least of the concerns rn….like if i get in this situation, at that point it will be _my_ kids.
She sounds like the mom from the movie Little Man 😂😂 When she was changing the baby’s diaper from the driver’s seat while driving
The husband sounds as desperate as my ex did after I finally was able to officially end things with my ex. Dealt with a lot from him and when told how his actions made me feel or asked if he actually wanted to date me get told I was “making a big deal out of nothing” or “acting crazy”. Found messages with him and other women flirting and was the final straw. He wouldn’t leave me alone trying to get me back and saying I was “the one”. Wouldn’t listen to it and he tried to blame me for his cheating saying “he didn’t think I actually cared/loved him” so glad I am no longer dealing with it and allowing my empathy to make me feel bad for cutting off communication and the relationship.
That last caller was amazing
Omg Kitty, the second caller. Ahhhh, I absolutely loved her whole personality!! Her story was for sure a banger, I aspire to be that level of petty🩷🩷 But yes second OP needs to get away from him and protect herself, because he is unhinged now that his emotional support human is leaving him. She fixed that man, and he was dependent on her. If he was so dang dependent on her, then he definitely knew what he was doing was wrong the entire time. Divorce is the solulu on this one for sure, I hope we get an update some day. Love this show, I can't remember when you go live, will someone drop the deets.
21:45 I spat out my drink lmao
Riley, check to be sure your detergent is H.E. And empty your pockets. Coins cause problems.
The little worms on the mic are so cute 🥹🥹
Ok. There is a mental condition for this. OCD , some depression causes slow reaction time.
MULTIPLE accidents, the common denominator is most definitely the wife. She is a driving rick and he wouldn't be a responsible husband/father if he didn't come down hard on her like this. Some people are just to stupid, absent minding, etc. Call it whatever you want. The kids could have gotten hurt by her own ineptitude and lack of care. I hear a man at his wit's end. Divorce it is!
Story 2: I think I would have done what OP did like the entire way. Though I'd start making a note-trail for the lawyers and possibly police if he's becomes threatening. Maybe take a day or two off from work....make a buddy system at work so the ex can't get her alone ever
killing it John 😂
If a co worker is trashing their partner for no reason. Red flag
Honestly love that yall talk about pegging but can’t say shit 😂😂😂😂
They make 'laundromats' you can drop your clothes off at and pay someone to do them for you.
Story 1: It’s also the grandparents they kept pay the wife’s car crashes
When i was 19 i had a roommate that paid 650 a month for insurance... thats how much we paid in rent.
I love these videos ❤
Tasteless food doesn’t mean unpalatable food is food
I’ll never understand women that want the attention of married men, it’s so weird and gross to mess up a relationship for shits and giggles. Obviously the husband sucks, you should never talk poorly about your partner to a coworker, she had the audacity to bringing up the wife because the husband made her feel comfortable doing so.
My mom was also a horrible driver, and now i cant be a passenger in anyones vehicle. I get horrid car sickness. Also i drive good too!
NO ONE cooks for my man but ME.
He might as well be spicy sleeping with his coworker. In fact, "is it better than your wife's?", then laughing...?... Sounds like he IS.
17:20 sounds like you need supervison when using the washing machine Riley.
I’m a medic and I have seen women breast feeding while driving. It’s unbelievable
The episodes are different from the lives now 😮 yayyyyyy unless i disassociated during the lives 😂
I think mom is actually texting and driving.. I think she’s lying about the reasons she’s getting in wrecks. She’s texting and driving for sure.
30:20 I LOVE THE SOUND EFECTS
29:58 philosophical SOPHIA 30:03 oooooHHHH JOHNNNNNN
Lunch story I’m sorry this happened to you I hope you find someone else who will value treasure you 🥰🥰
The first story wtf It reads like extreme untreated ADHD I could be doing life or death things and get distracted but I've never endangered someone else I've never had that problem while driving now riding a four-wheeler dirt bike or operating chainsaw absolutely but not driving😅
WAP to womp womp womp ... Fire
6:10 see? When it comes to the kids being in danger, they all become very territorial cuz it’s like primal atp. I’m sure OP loves his step kids, but this goes beyond that.
She sounds like the mom from the movie Little Man 😂😂 When she was changing the baby’s diaper from the driver’s seat while driving! She doesn’t need to drive with kids in the car at all tho
I’ve been in a lot of accidents with my mom growing up but they where never her fault and I was never injured only accident I ever was injured was my car accident in November of 2019 the worst I’ve ever experienced and on going pawn I barely leave home for possibly being in another accident that may cost me my life or even worse pain
Not to mention the amount of money spent on cars and repairs
I need to know what happens after the husband serves his wife divorce papers
16:05 Riley!!! 😂 😅
Lol Reilly is wrong about surfing not having a weight lifting aspect. The pushing and pulling on the board has a lot of lifting mimic.
So in adventure time, finn was being disloyal to bubblegum by eating tree trunks' apple pie? I don't agree.
I wish someone paid for my uber! wtf lol
3:11 I don’t feel like OP was saying that his step kids aren’t his but basically he can’t make a decision for or about those kids because she’s their Mom.
Because he’s the bio Dad of the younger kids he can say things like your not allowed to drive with our kids in the car because he has legal responsibility and custody capabilities with his bio kids that he does not have when it comes to the 2 older kids.
Most people when they blend families together are willing to take on the love and responsibility of all of the kids but realistically he can’t tell her what she’s allowed to do with her own bio kids when he doesn’t have any true type of custody involvement with decision making and he could try to advocate for that BUT you know the bio parents are all most always going to say no that’s my kid so that’s my decision you can’t tell me what to do with my kids. Hopefully that makes better sense
I told my husband if he had a one night stand, I'd forgive him, because anyone can be stupid once. But an affair isn't stupid once, It's ongoing betrayal. I won't forgive that.
Hot take … lady driver is a Brit and had an affair w an American and that’s why she’s so obsessed w driving …… to remember him.
I know the phrase this is based on is a little old, but I swear y’all should have a shirt that says “but first, therapy” 😂
Wife in first story might have suicidal ideation
I'd like to know how many points that she already has on her license at this point.
WOAH WHAT 0:05
21:41 op legit can kill people outside of her family alone
49:46 I think she’s just saying that he knows but won’t tell her, Idk if she fully knows
If you suck at driving and are in denial, does NOTHING to fix the problem, he’s 100% NOT the a-hole!
It is said that a distracted driver is more dangerous than an alert drunk driver (this doesn't mean drive drunk , it just means pay attention when you are driving s vehicle)
I know the is Sophia and im guessing is mr protein lmao who is the (sam?)😂 and the (john?) 😂😂😂
Right on the first try 🎉🎉
She could be addicted to drugs. Check to see if she is seeking pain killers at the hospital.
The wife is clearly at fault for these ridiculous accidents. I don't understand how anyone can be *this* inept. I wonder if she is this insanely stupid in other areas of life. Does she hold down a job? Is she capable of paying bills on time? Cooking? Performing general care for the children?
However, OP clearly stated that she was allowed to risk her own life as much as she wants, which is what she did. So he isn't carrying through on his threat - he moved the goalposts. Should he still leave her? Yeah, probably so. But he is doing something different than what he threatened her with.
I don’t feel bad for the wife in that first story. Like even without the kids in the car, she doesn’t have the right to endanger everyone on the road. If you can’t drive safely then stay off the roads so others can make it home safe. So selfish & messed up. I wouldn’t stay with someone either who didn’t care about endangering others
The fact that he even offered to pay an Uber if he’s not home to drive her???? Like she had options to keep her kids and others on the road safe. She just doesn’t care
4:44 well, if the shoe fits….
Revenge fettuccine😂