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r/BestofRedditorUpdates - AITA For Not Giving Into My Sisters "Simple Request" At The Cost Of My Niece/Nephew?
r/entitledpeople - My psycho mother sh*ts herself at her cousin's wedding
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She should absolutely 💯 NOT give her wedding dress no matter what fit step sister throws.
i was so mad they said she should give it up. why? just so her antics work???!!! so silly
Story 1: Maybe the stepsister didn't really want the baby and found a way to create drama to blame OP. Either way step fam is unhinged!!!
Wow the sister in the first story is so manipulative of OP and the people around her. But I don’t think that person is ready to get married let alone be a parent
Like holy shit! These kinds of people are real?!
Right! To threaten to have an abortion is insane. Even if she was bluffing, no one who would say or consider something like that should absolutely not be a mother. She literally throwing an extreme tantrum.
Absolutely would 100% leave that person immediately! I agree she doesn't deserve to be a mother, or to even get married. She's just trying to blackmail her sister because she's a spoiled brat who apparently needs to get everything that she wants.... Is she not thinking about what her fiance is feeling over this he wants this baby so badly and she's just threatening abortion so she could get a dress that her sister made for herself and hasn't even gotten to wear yet. Let alone trying to call her fat at 136 lb, then calling her stupid, & then saying that she could pay for everything because of her big degrees how is she stupid then? Plus what is this BS about them saying Oh it's a sisterly joke that you never understand? Wtf is that about!? What an absolute complete & total raging, gaping asshole!
Agreed. She needs therapy not a wedding or baby.
What will she do to the baby when there is something else she wants.
She should absolutely NOT give her the dress. That's top tier manipulating, and she should be put in her place.
I think she shouldn’t give it up. You can’t budge with manipulative people, you need to uphold boundaries or they will keep up their antics and cause havoc every time they want something from you.
Glad OP didn't give in and Lucy got just desserts. With seeing her behaviour and how her mom acts it's quite apparent that the apple didn't fall far from the tree.
OP should not let her stepsister ruin her wedding! After, OP should go no contact with negative family members.
Story 1 stepmom and her daughter are definitely classic cases of narcissists I'm gladOP didn't give in and I'm glad that brother-in-law was able to see the truth before he went through with marrying her
Story 1 floors me! Talk about manipulative emotional blackmail. It's the pregnant adult equivalent of saying you're going to hold your breath if they don't give you a cookie. OP doesn't owe her sister a dress or anything else. If the sister wanted to use OP's dress before OP even gets to wear her own self-designed dress, she could have politely asked. No is no. You don't threathen to end a pregnancy/life because you are pouting about not fitting into your own dress. So insane!
Look Tammy, we apreciate you a lot. You just shouldn't have held back in the first place and decked her and left her out on the lawn right at the start. People who do not support the couple shouldn't be at the wedding.
Everyone needs a Tammy, but damn girl, you gotta act sooner!😂😂😂
@@misshell Right? We're not on Jerry Springer, we don't need build up before the wig snatching, she's about to snatch the wedding, throw the first punch! haha
Do you follow Taryn Delanie (Miss New York)? She has a skit where she is a receptionist in heaven and welcomes people in. But, there is a demon named Tammy who SOMEHOW ended up in heaven. She tries to be nice but ends up just scaring everyone. This is who aunt Tammy reminds me of 😂😂
@@eXcludeyStarling haha I should look that up
The first story. . . That sister is a manipulator. She's using her baby as a hostage to force it into bending to her will. Damn I can imagine there are many stories of sisters manipulation tactics throughout her life. Personally, I would call her bluff. While I do not agree with abortion, if the sister goes thu with one will just prove she's not fit to be a mother and also the fiance will see exactly who she is. Even if she doesn't do their with it she's definitely let her mask slip
If I ever get married with a theme, it would be "nature". Like in a clearing in the middle of a forest, little wolfs and trees on candles, squirrels holding the name tags on the tables, invites with wild flowers... Something like that
Aww thats so cute!
The mother in law in the second story 😳 DEAR GOD! Did she load up on laxatives before hand? I was not expecting that. She is pure evil.
Me thinking she threw up from being too drunk:
Second story: The entire family should continue to shun those 2 sickos. The bride should never have had them in the wedding once they knew their attitude.
I'm a mother to literal babies and they don't even poop for attention... They actually try to hide the fact they did. That crazy mother is worse than an actual baby
Yo when you said she "has to give her the dress" ... no. thats a hard no.
Saying she'll get an abortion because she can't have the dress is the same as those girls that threaten to kill themselves if you don't date them/try to leave them. And also similar to people who baby trap their S/O.
it's gross and manipulative. they're taking advantage of your kindness with an extreme that they know you'll look bad for not going with.
That bride in the first story is a monster! The child is better off without that cow.
Not me listening to the last story while also having a soupy diarrhea sh*t. At least I’m on the toilet like a regular human 😅
Good job. Im proud of you 😂
Story one: She needs to not have a child or at least raise one. She really shouldn’t have tried to procreate in the first place.
Story two: OP go no contact. Live with another family member or something. That lady is crazy and honestly your sister is right on path to being exactly like her.
Story one. I don't give in to my nephews massive temper tantys I'm bloody well not for a grown ass woman... she the one that's making the issue... and her man can have kids with someone who is an actual loving human who is ready to be a partner to him.
Story 1: if i were the sister, id buy her a god ugly dress, say its the one you wanted then wear the actual dress. That sister & step mom are both so horrendous
Edit to say: my fiancés grandmother is as crazy as mom in the last story. No joke, these people exist. It's wild to watch irl. Lol
Honestly, hot take, i don't think that baby deserves the sister as a mom. I am a person that had abusive/narcissistic parents (I am also an adoptive kid and had these sorts of people both in my biological and adoptive family). It was hell. I am in a better space now after going no contact with most of them, but my mental health was so bad for a while. I wouldn't wish that on anyone. At some points, things were so dark i literally wondered why i wasn't aborted and if that might have been better. I know from experience that you can overcome such things, but i also don't believe in having children suffer. That kid will suffer, and it is so hard to imagine how their life will be. I really hope the dad leaves and gets full custody with supervised visitation with the mom at most. She is not above harming this child for the stupidest of reasons, and that is terrifying. I wonder if the law could get involved before the birth? IE-is it possible for custody to be determined before the child is born? I just can't imagine trusting a child with such an unhinged person. Those texts alone should be proof of it. Good lord....i also don't understand how that sister thought she would get away with everything she was doing and saying. Did she think OP would stay quiet? That the fiance woulf be okay with it? The whole thing is wild.
Let’s hope that the fiancé gets full custody. OP needs to save all texts and chats so she can turn them over to him and he can show a judge just how unhinged she is. I know separating a baby from the mother is difficult at best but threatening ABORTION over FABRIC (as OP pointed out) is just batsh*t crazy.
Also I am so so sorry that you have to experience this. I have a narcissistic mother and I am adopted. I wonder a lot why she put some much time, effort and money into adopting me only to be abusive and nasty to me and my brother. Sometimes people are beyond help and understanding.
@@eXcludeyStarling It is crazy how often narcissism gets involved in the adoption process on both sides. I know it's not always this way, but I have talked to so many other adopted kids that have experienced the same thing. I am sorry you went through all that as well. No one deserves that.
Our wedding theme is a dark romantic/vintage glam mashup. Coming this February ✨ so excited
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The daughter of the wedding pooper surely has a treasure trove of stories
Wow! What a crazy ride these stories were! I feel so bad for the OP in the first story and Mary in the second. It is heart breaking that people who are supposed to love and support you would work SO HARD to destroy what is the happiest day of your life.
To quote Shakespeare. “ I do desire that we become better strangers.”
23:15 That literally made me cry....!!! 😖 How awful of a person can you be? Poor bride. Why would you even be there at her wedding?
I read story 2 on reddit but still shocked hearing it!!!
Step sis needs to be institutionalized. Blackmailing a relative she disrespects with an abortion for a wedding dress is the most deranged sh*t... tf-
Story 1: Such a huge red flag. If the brother in law continues with the marriage, he deserves all the unhappiness he'll eventually experience because of that woman.
Girl in the first story is absolutely NOT fit to be a parent if she's willing to have an abortion just for a wedding dress
If she would abort her baby over a wedding dress that she didn't pay for, pick out ,or have altered to her body she doesn't deserve to be a parent period. That trauma will follow her kid the rest of their lives and she will not stop at the dress. Lets say next year she gets pregnant again and wants your house or she'll get another abortion. Even that time her reasoning will be the same. She's a parent of 1 with a baby on the way and she needs more space for the new baby and she knows your house has the space she's looking for would you swap houses with her just to save that baby too. At some point you need to let her live her life and stay strong on your boundaries. She needs to be honest about not wanting to be a mother because anyone who truly wanted to be a parent wouldn't kill their child the first time someone told them NO after finding out they're pregnant. It won't stop at the dress it'll only get worse from there because saying yes is giving her permission
Absolutely NOT! Do not reward her tantrum by giving in. Do NOT give up YOUR dress!
This got uploaded while i was watching the last upload 😂😂
Story 1: She should absolutely NOT give her the dress! Because if these are the lengths she can go to get a dress (?!) what will she do later on?! SET A BOUNDARY NOW or else she’s going to always play the ab**tion card (or worse) any time she doesn’t get her way
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First story, the BIL needs to sue for sole custody, idk if you can do that in-utero. But that child will have a miserable life being used as collateral by her mother until she can move out.
Second story: My mom was a bridesmaid in a full camo/hunting themed wedding
I don’t think I will ever hear a more shocking wedding disaster story than that!
Wow, it really takes the cake 🎂
The military themed wedding: wow, what a terrible set of people. The secondhand embarrassment has me horrified. I can't even imagine... and We ABSOLUTELY love people digging into themselves. That is the most positive thing and am adopting it as my reason for all my self-discovery!
Story No.1: Stepsister is legit psycho.
No you don't need to eat the placenta, you are not being hunted and tracked by a predator who would smell the afterbirth, and we have iron subblements if needed. 😂
These stories were crazyyyy... OMG!!!
To the Christian dad in the first story, if the stepmother did cheat on him, he has full Biblical grounds to get a divorce 😭😭😭he does not need to stay with this bish
Bro as someone quite flat and on the short side I had to have my secondhand dress altered for senior prom cause every single dress was too big or too long for me. Most were both, so bigger dresses do need alterations.
Story 1: You do not ever allow anyone to emotionally blackmail you. They will only escalate. I personally would have called in a wellness check on her and insisted she needs a psychiatric hold.
For the 1st story you know OP's sister is only getting married before her to one up her.
I would just give up the dress and cut ties for the extreme toxicity
Yes people do eat placenta still! Most people these days will send it off to a company that preserves part of it as a keepsake and dries and grinds the rest into capsules that you then eat. I did it with mine and it was pretty cool. The capsules didn’t really taste like anything
Animals do it so that they both don’t draw attention from predators as well as not wasting the calories of the placenta
The first story is wild. The pregnant sister is crazy af. I would not give up the dress at all. And the Fiance should leave. That woman is not ready to be a mom
Step sister did not want that baby. And for her to say she will have abortion over a dress. She is not right in the head. That dress is yours and yours only.
I used to do measurements for tuxedo rentals at a department store out of college. There was a camouflage tux option, which was surprisingly popular.
We also offered added insurance on the rentals, which was an easy sell for anyone who considered the camo suits. Customers were supposed to have them dry cleaned before returning them, but dirt bikes and pimped out tractor rides weren’t uncommon and the added insurance covered everything except for the suit not being turned in.
Story 1 NO, don’t give her the dress. Absolutely not. What makes you think she’s not just going to abort the baby anyways or fight the fiancée tooth and nail to have custody just to hurt him or keep him around. She’s awful. No.
That sister is absolutely UNHINGED, it's so SO MANIPULATIVE to tell another soon to be bride; YOU OWE ME YOUR DRESS or else I'm going to get an abortion. You'll be killing my baby with your choice! OMG OP should just go absolutely NO CONTACT with the entire family.
OP absolutely SHOULD NOT give away HER dress and the fact that you think she should is just as horrible as the rest of her flying monkeys.
Oh my goodness, this 1st story sounds so much like my situation. Obviously there's a difference in my situation. But i literally got blamed for dumb shit that I'm in no way in control OR care about. Yes, i said. I don't care about, why? Because i have my own family and shit to worry about. And I'm on the other side of the hemisphere, so it's hilarious being blamed for everything. I've been gaslighted, manipulated, lied to, blamed, EVERYTHING. In front of my husband because they didn't have no shame. Long story short, i was guilted into giving up my wedding dress money to pay for mother's dental work for one of my sister's wedding event. The fucked up part is, the sister wanted her there but would try to push me to pay for dental care. It pissed me off. There's a lot of details i haven't said. It's a long ass story.
HELL NO! She should not give her the dress! That girl is NOT going to kill her baby! She’s sick and twisted and nothing is off limits to how low she will go to get her way.
It’s disgusting! To manipulate someone by threatening to murder your unborn baby if you don’t give her a dress?!!
The last thing you want to do is give her her way after using such an abhorrent threat.
That sister story is crazy. I’m 13 years older than my sister, 2 hormone issues on my part, so I weigh like 60 pounds more and yet measurement wise extremely close in size. She’s literally a teenager and would never say some shit like this to me because she has more awareness than OPs sister apparently has.
Yeah I want a themed wedding. The theme is eloping.
Proud of the father of the baby
1st Story…here’s hoping OP figures out that she doesn’t need her sister or stepmother in her life and gets a lot of years of not having to look at their disgusting, manipulative, narcissistic faces. I don’t know why people think being family means you must accept all the 💩
Therew alot of good vitamins and stuff in placenta. U can put in capsule, cook it like meat and eat it and season it, boil it but it in soup, sandwiches etc
Story 1: WHAT THE FUCK?! I feel bad for OP because none of this is her fault. It's the sister's fault entirely.
The half sister " Lucy" is completely unhinged. You used your unborn child that you "celebrated" as blackmail material for a unique dress?!! Nope, you do not deserve children or your fiancé. Lucy and her mom are the whole and complete AH here. Good on the (ex)fiance for confronting her and standing up for all decent humans. Brutal situation. Hope they stay in touch with the ex as he seemed like a good man
These stories were just insane. I think the last story is that woman needs to be stuck in rehab and psychological hold. The bride to be so insulted and the daughter must feel appalled and so embarrassed to be in that insane family. I did have a themed wedding ie: handfasting, medieval themed. Only the wedding party dressed. My matron also dressed the part, but the other brides maids just had just had to buy a certain color from this store (Holyclothing). My husband and his party wore black kilts and shirts with the matching blue for the tie. And guest were told to wear what they wished.
I’d post on my Facebook that I’m giving her the dress against my will because of what she said. I’d give it to her but I’d have people knowing how she really is.
With the placenta saving it with cryo is AMAZING! Eating does absolutely nothing! But by saving it with cryo its saves the baby's stem cells and if the are ever sick for any reason they have their own stem cells to rely on. I personally looked in to this for my kids but its STUPID EXPENSIVE!
Story 1. She should NOT give up the dress. For many reasons…manipulation, blackmail, OP spent time and money as well as it came from her imagination and exactly what she dreamed of, if she gets an abortion then it’s on her and she can’t blame anyone else, if OP gives in it shows she will always get her way if she puts enough on the line, shows she is right if she gets the dress. She is just like my 4 year old breaking something when he is mad and saying “Look what you made me do”. She is acting like a 4 year old but with way way higher stakes
If OP gives the sister the dress, than ... what's next? Because now the sister nows BLACKMAIL FUCKING WORKS. DON'T GIVE THE DRESS! Stand your ground!
Number 2. I love the style.
6:56 the length of a mothers love….
From the woman who wants to terminate the pregnancy to fit in the dress. Like, I know they say (regarding Vera) that you don’t alter the dress to fit you, you alter yourself to fit the dress or something like that, but this is absolutely ridiculous
Vampire themed wedding for sure
In no way, shape, or form would I give her the dress. And it isn't even about the dress, it's about the fact that my sister is willing to terminate a pregnancy that has been announced to the entire family over it because she has no interest in just buying her own dress.
The sister is doing this for power. To prove she can control OP and get away with it. I know it would hurt the BIL, and that's awful, but at least he'll no longer have a tie to the sister and can have a clean break from her manipulative, narcissistic ass.
Edit: okay, with the update, I'm glad Lucy is getting what she deserves. Will she learn anything from it? Probably not, as long as stepmom is enabling her. But I hope OP is okay. Abortion is not easy for those who choose it, and I wish her well.
First story. The audacity of the sister. 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡
John fuck NO she should not give her the dress.
1st story give the dress make sure the baby is safe then have her declared an unfit mother
The wedding dress - unpopular opinion: if those are the extremes she is willing to go to for a dress that is not hers, if she goes thorough with the termination, it would be a food thing. Could you imagine having her as a mother?
She is the heartless bastard for going to those extremes just to get a dress.
I wouldn’t give the dress that behavior is unacceptable
story 1 - i would have just said “your body your choice” and then blocked her
Yeah in some Asian culture people eat placenta. Scientifically it’s not nutritional but people do it for cultural purposes.
In China when you deliver a baby, the hospital will save your placenta for you to take home. This is to prevent malicious placenta trading. But of course what you do with your own placenta is up to you
This chick in the first story is single-handedly making the case for abortion bans.
Somebody should send this to the Republican Representatives I would pay money for them to pay play this on the house of senate floor and try to use this as a dumbass reason for abortion bans 😅😅😅😅
First story: I don't think the sister was actually going to go through with the abortion and it was jusr a messed up way to steal the dress. If she did go through with it over a dress, that makes her a horrible person, regardless of where you stand on abortion. OP needs to simply to no contact with her sister and step mom. What horrible people.
Oink, oink….lol😂
Story 1: yes eating the placenta is a real thing but usually it's dried out and made into a powder to pills for the mother to take. My cousin did this. And yes, the sister is a horrible person. I'm totally pro-choice, but I think wanting an abortion over a dress is insane.
Story 1: She should absolutely NOT give in and give her the dress. If she is seriously willing to abort her child over a piece of fabric, she does not deserve to have and raise the child. That child would deserve to be brought into the world with loving parents, and does not deserve to be born to such a POS mother.
I just gave birth.... no, I didn't eat the placenta... I wasn't offered the placenta... I didn't want the placenta.
No! do not give her the dress!!!!!!!
Go Tammy!!!
For the first story, my opinion would be for OP to keep the dress and call the psych ward. Her sister is insane and is in need of help. Maybe jail. But psych ward first for sure. Anybody who is crazy enough to prioritize a piece of fabric over the life of their unborn child has some MAJOR issues.
Malignant narcissists like OP's sister (story #1) are truly only happy when they make others miserable. It was her way of ruining her sister's wedding. She made her look bad in front of her family, emotionally blackmailed and manipulated her and used her abortion trauma against her to guilt-trip her. That's just beyond unhinged...
With the first story, i wonder if the baby is even who the 'father' is supposed to be, mom-to-be sure was quick to use it as ammunition to get what she wanted. Also, i would have totally given her a fake dress. Picked one up from gumtree and been all, okay, tis yours.
I had one of my placentas dried, crushed into power ,encapsulated and ate it. My doula took care of everything did it herself in her own private practice. I ate it. I felt like it really helped my hormones when I had it but when I ran out after 3 months, I went through massive hormone imbalance and had severe ppd. Do not recommend, personally. I have 3 children, and only did it with one.
I have heard of people taking the placenta and placing it under a tree for religious reasons. People do eat the placenta but there’s no reason to do this. The placenta is a filler like a liver, so no. If you have anymore questions about this I would direct you to Dr. mama Jones channel.
Poor Mary. Yes some weddings are tacky but when you see how happy they make the bride and groom that is ALL that should matter. Literally ALL. WHAT is the absolute anger and resentment towards people being happy?? Let’s normalize being HAPPY for people and supporting their happiness. And let’s normalize going no contact with these attention seeking, toxic, disgusting individuals that mess with our mental health. It doesn’t matter if they’re “family” or not. I spend too much money and effort on keeping my life drama free and my mental health positive to literally afford (😢 and $) letting ANYONE ruin that. That means mom, dad, brother, aunts/uncles, whoever. I only have about 30-40 summers left in my life (if I’m lucky) and I WILL NOT waste my time catering to toxic people because they’re “family.”
From OP’s perspective, I’d give the dress, then take screenshots of everything and group chat it saying “this is how psychotic she is”. From Fiancé side, break up IMMEDIATELY
These ones were unhinged…
Sister would be a horrible mother, and you’d be saving the brother in law. Don’t do it
In the last 3 or so months I have been watching more Reddit videos, especially Wedding and family disaster stories and I have read at least 3 stories like the first one. Each one was of course different and not necessarily with kids but it’s always about 2 sisters, one of which is entitled to the other (and I think all of at least 2 of them had the mother on their side) and their wedding plans (dress, venue etc) and the evil sister starts to ruin things and be publicly mean (usually, initially the family and friends are “neutral” and tell the other sister to just please her) , the sister’s fiancé breaks up with her after seeing her shameful behavior and eventually the whole (or most) family turns against her when they realise that she has gone too far, usually only after she has done something legit crazy other than just manipulation.
It’s interesting to see that while men generally are not “in their best behavior” (on average, they are far “worse” than women, I wish it wasn’t like that) and can’t see clear signs in from women (even when specifically told), they see well who they are dealing with when they see how they treat other women and even apologise on their behalf to their victims.
At least, before they get married/stuck with them legally; in many other stories they seem the ones to act blindsided when they see how evil their wives are on their daughters, in laws etc.
No! I wouldnt give her the dress!
major manipulation on the sister's part. I hope OP doesn't cave
I'm pro the Bridesmaid dresses, not wild about the combat boots but it's Mary's wedding so would got for it.
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