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r/BestofRedditorUpdates - My MIL Photoshopped my husband's nose on our wedding pictures. How do I tell him?
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12:54 my boyfriends mom had only sons. 3 boys. My bf is the middle child and his mom always wanted a girl named Holly. Because of how his parents treat me and love spending time with me, if my bf and I were to ever get married and have a baby girl, I'd want to ask his mom if it'd be okay to name our kid Holly in honor of her. But that's only because she's kind and nice to me. She even came to my college graduation so she already feels like an amazing mother in law to me. If you're kind to someone, people will be kind back.
I blocked a friend of 6 years with "no explanation". Simply because I had already given my boundaries and they always walked over them. It was easier to just walk away versus trying to explain and have them turn it into an argument. They weren't ready to listen.
Same. For me we were friends for about 6 years as well. She was not just horrible to me, but everyone in her life. Especially her mum. I was tired of explaining myself and being called names and all sorts so the last time I told her I forgave her, even though she didn't apologise, and then proceeded to delete her contacts
I fully blocked a friend I've known since I was born (I'm 33 years old) on every platform she could reach me, some months ago. She overstepped serious boundaries and constantly accused me of trying to tell people her secrets - she always shared her darkest secrets unprompted, I never asked her to, and then always made a scene asking me to delete every single message she's sent me and then wanted me to show her screenshots of the cleaned apps as proof. 🙄 I told her she was being paranoid and that I've never told a soul what she told me, neither do I intend to in the future. She told me she could never trust me, and that I was being the worst friend imaginable. She's done this a few times. I hate being accused of something so heinous when I've given her no reasons to distrust me. I can't deal with that, so I'm done. Plus, she's accused me of other things I won't share.
Yes, I did this, too. Except mine was 2 brothers and sister in law, they were always lying about what I was doing.
SAME!!! I just had my daughter and this dude, whom I thought was a friend, said “she should have been OUR daughter.” WTF?!?! I showed my husband and it was an INSTANT block.
totally agree, why give them the opportunity to blast you, you don't even owe them any explanation. Just block them.
Sex of the baby is determined by the dad's genetics, lol
I heard more "attractive" fathers produce more girls. Idk how that could be true, but it is a fact that fathers determine gender.
Yes , it's true.
Looked it up. Attractive people have a 26% higher chance of having a daughter as a firstborn and a higher chance at having more girls proceeding
I've heard testosterone level in the father affects as well - higher testosteron= higher probability for girl, lower = higher chance for boy
I’ve heard a big schlong will give you a great chance of having a son, but could just be an old wives tales that gave men a complex about their PP for centuries to come?? 😅
Well, the mother isn't using her brain, just impulse. So incapable of absorbing facts.
I love Carrie🎉❤ She gave really good perspective from female angle. She vibes well with John and Sam. Please have her back again!
Sam-"Carrie, shut the fuck up!"
Carrie*continues dying
John, like the gorgeously blinding man he is. *provides help and love like a qualified Daddy
Sam's mic is a bit off today. Liked the OPs idea for the first story. Genius. That MIL is crazy.
I thought I was the the only one!
They were probably gentlemen and gave the guest the good mic
It’s so crazy when parents are like, “You must do the same things I did!!!” It’s like, did you not want your children to have a better life than you? Or are you determined to make them as miserable as you are?
Some parents will preach how hard they worked to give their children a better life, and then complain how privileged their children are to have a better life. Wasn't that the WHOLE point? You succeeded, why are you mad?
@@zoeb3573fr 😭
Grandma is going to hurt their baby's feelings growing up around her. They should go no contact, if not, be prepared to go off on her to defend your child
I agree that no-contact is absolutely necessary in this case.
Story 2 you don't owe an explanation. Sometimes it's safer to block someone. Definitely in this case.
Blob is a great name imo :)
My sister called her baby "Peanut" all throughout her pregnancy. My niece is now 6 years old and my sister still calls her "peanut" atleast twice a week ... Even though the name you choose is great (we love my niece's name) sometimes nicknames just stick xx
I wanna preface this by saying that I have a cousin older than my dad. So my entire life I’ve never really thought about age being a barrier to friendship with how extensive my family is as well as all the family friends of my dad and grandparents.
I mentioned celebrating my friends 38th birthday a couple weeks ago and one person got a little weird about it.
I’m 30. Unless one party is being weird, friendship isn’t that strange even with age differences.
I used to be part of a choir with people in a lot of different ages, the ones who joins are usually around 20 something years old, the ones who were there for years could be around 40. We were good friends spending time together not only at practice and performing but also at free time, even going out for weekends together. Age doesn't have to be weird or problem if we have something in common 😊
that crazy mother… it was like reading a story from my own life. you didn’t ask to be born, so don’t regret cutting parents like this from your life. took me way too long, my only regret.
I suddenly feel oddly grateful for my late MIL. And my own mother. Heck even my sis. This definitely gives perspectives. I swear this MIL's husband noped out on purpose and left the rest of the fam to deal with her. He was like "I can't deal with this any more. She's yall's problem".
@@chocolatte522 i am very grateful for my older sister. she’s been the mother figure i needed in many occasions. it is so sad that even something like family, especially when it comes to your parents, you can’t take for granted.
@@vermininermine my mil, mother and sister are frustratingly toxic. I learned the "long handled spoon" approach from my husband (is how he dealt with his mom) and that's helped me maintain my sanity and my peace. But I gotta say, stories like these show that no matter how bad you think you've got it, it can always be worse.
@@chocolatte522 i’d rather not think about that, i honestly think my mother is even worse than OP’s… 🤣 i went full no contact for about a year now, though. i wish she would get help, but she’s way too backwards to accept that people who go to therapy are not ‘crazy’.
Who has asked to be born?
No one.
That mother. Time to go no contact, as she makes everyone feel like poop about themselves.
With the twitch story I can hear Matt Rife screaming “ LADIES, HE. IS. NOT. YOUR. FRIEND.” 😭
0:25 this I need every day as my wake up alarm. *”WHHOOOO!!!”* plus glitter, yes and thanks.
OKOP SHOW REDDIT FAM WHERE Y'ALL AT I love seeing stories on the reddit and then seeing them read on the show the twitch "friend" story was a nice one
LETSSS GOOOO. WE LOVE OUR COMMUNITY 😍😍😍
@@OKOPShowLET'S GOOOOOOOOOOO
i went to croatia recently! went to the capitol zagreb. the country is so beautiful
Hello from Croatia 😂😂😂 I'm from Zagreb, but hearing 'What is a Dubrovnik?' was a WTF moment for me.. 😅😅
I think Sam is thinking of sea turtle eggs and gender by temperature
"Congratulatios! It's a blob!" 🤣
I love Carrie as an addition... not sure if I spelled right
Parents should want their children to do better and have more opportunities than they got. Unfortunately what parents did was do for their children and give them what they didn't have. So in short they made their children entitled. However you have the parents that are jealous that their children have more at an age where they had less. Credit is a big problem with this because when we were young adults we didn't have credit cards we had to work hard for everything we got. I have never been jealous of my children's accomplishments. However, I do worry about them being credit laden.
I ghosted an ex friend. She was too emotionally needy. She started calling me daily to complain about her life but never even asked how I was. It became mentally draining. I set boundaries, and she just didn't care.
my best friend of 10 years ghosted me. she knew i didn’t like her boyfriend and i told her that i didn’t want to hang out with him when they came to town one weekend. that was the last time she talked to me. it was honestly bizarre considering how close we were for so long
The girl in the story was 22 and he was 40 which is a 18 year gap. The guest host was 16 and he was 35 which is a 19 year gap. Same story.
The last story op is asking if it's ok to block him wothout a reason. But op has already given a reason more than once and dude kept repeating the cycle. If op did block him it would be 100% reasonable
About Domino's, that is depending where it is, (Country) coz here in Denmark Domino's had to close coz it was dirty as heck.
About the MIL with problems, the son should actually go no contact fully, coz the mother will not change before she loses all and she nthen figures out that if you dont change, you wont see any of us.
I had to go no contact with my own mom coz of problems, and not until one no contact of 1½ years and the second time of 8 month did she understand it fully, meaning I had to do it again for ger to get that I fully meant what I said.
I repaired things with my mom before she died a year later of aggressive cancer where I were by her side every day at the hospital (like m6-10 hours despite chronic pain)
So It might help the relationship between them, so that is my advice
Mother-in-law is a narcissist. And he should know that and he should know how to deal with one.
Need to tell MIL to fix the photos immediately and that you will tell him what she did if she doesn’t
24:22 I’ve never agreed with Sam more. I order JUST lava cakes sometimes.
My mom says that my nose is huge and I need surgery too. Hahhaha.
Watch the show Botched. It is full of people who got nose jobs underage, often pushed by the parent, and they got f-ed up.
I love updates 😩
Parents are SUPPOSED to want their kids to do better than them. It's so disgusting to be MAD your child can do better than you. NTA. MIL is horrid
I blocked my childhood friend of years because she constantly crossed boundaries, I didn't talk to her for awhile but missed her and thought I was over reacting. Until - 2 days into talking a found out, during that time period, she had picked up my younger brother to "smonk wed" with him (he was 18) and tried to sleep with him! SHE IS 7 YEARS OLDER THAN HIM. I ghosted her again for that, he told me that it was super uncomfortable, she tried coming on to her and he didn't find her attractive on top of he found it weird that she was my friend. She didn't even tell him that her and I stopped talking. She sent him a message how he was her "perfect metal head type". Wtf? She never knew him like that, or hung out with him during our friendship. I feel like she was trying to get petty revenge bc for awhile she was upset with me when we were friends. Pretty much a guy she liked, she found out I had slept with him when I was a freshmen in high school and apparently he still found me attractive. I hated him, their situationship was very toxic...and I was a point of contention because of our "past". I did confront her about these things bc she wouldn't leave me the hell alone, and she tried defending herself with the "situationship" thing, saying she felt insecure. Thats not my problem, I made it clear, I DO NOT LIKE HIM, I HATE HIM. I told her right away when he tried to flirt with me and I laughed at him and blocked him for even trying. When it came to the situation with my lil bro she said "i thought you would be okay with it because I don't judge her for sleeping with guys". I DONT, JUST NOT MY 18 YR OLD BABY BROTHER. Safe to say we stopped talking, and a lot of other people stopped talking to her because of her behavior.
While I’ve never used snap chat (no reason or judgement,) we used to refer to it as “disappearing 🍆 pics.”
I thought you said Bowser instead of domino’s 🤣🤣🤣
*MIL/ Baby Hopes + Dreams -* OP’s MIL wasn’t coping very well. She was hoping so hard that it was a girl she was on *hopeium.”
The fact they are defending Dominoes and the first thing they say is good is not one of their pizza items😂😂😂😂
Sam… that’s not how you say Hagrid….
OK I heard the second story about the nose first. It doesn't surprise me it's the same person but I did laugh.
Thanks for the upload guys :)
Imagine they did gender reveal party and she react like this in front of all the family and friends...
You babies are soo cute thinking 40 is old.
Why dose their voices sound like echos ? 😂
They need to go no contact with mother/mother-in-law for their mental health, their children's mental health and the health of their marriage.
27:29 My best friend of 5 years, friends for 8 years total, blocked me with no explanation 😐 This title itself triggered something in me…
"i want a girl"
"Ill see what i can do?" *Shrug*
Here for it #1 finally first 😂
Loved the echo all ep hahaha, too many mics I feel like
The warm and cold thing is for baby crocodilians, so unless you're a crocodile in an egg the temperature means nothing 😂
Are we gonna talk about how he said Hagrid??
#2 for the win! 😂
The trick to try for a boy or girl is when you have sex in your cycle. If you do it a few days before ovulation your more likely to have a girl and if you do it right before ovulation or right at ovulation you will be more likely to have a boy. XX chromosone sperm is bigger, slower and live longer. XY chromosone sperm is smaller, faster and dies faster.
My best friend 13 years ago had suddenly blocked me and I still have no idea why he blocked me. We literally hung out nearly everyday for about 3 years.oh well. I’ve accepted that I’ll never know.
I'm sorry that happened to you. That ain't right.
Wow mil is absolutely nutsoh
I have heard things about positions, one sex of sperm is apparently commonly faster than the other and the other hardier or something like that. I wouldnt put alot of faith into it but i will say my girls were created in one position and my boy in a different one 😂
When it comes to the mil wanting a granddaughter they should have named the baby a unisex name and not told husband's parents the sex of the baby and never let them change the baby lol
I love your show but it was hard to listen to with the echo feom the mics being too close together maybe?
I have heard of people doing a lot of strange things to get a boy/girl. Even had my online mom group talking about it. There’s even theories determine the gender based on the way you carry and fetal heart rate. The gender ones didn’t work for me. My son had all the indicators for a girl lol.
I never heard the the first part of story one before. That JNMIL sounds like a wacko. I like the idea of saying increasingly weird shit to stop her from complaining. Before the updates, I thought OP was going to say they were going to raise their kid as trans girl to shut her up.
But onto the updates, the whole situation is just awful. Hearing about how OP's husband's hopes of a normal relationship with his mom die as she told him about how she photoshopped his nose in their wedding photos makes me want to cry on his behalf. And just when he was starting to believe she was changing for the better this happens. But it was for the best. At least MIL won't be able to hurt OP's son the way she hurt her husband. But the whole thing is absolutely devastating, it makes you feel like a worse person from hearing about it.
What was Carrie's first episode?
I could see the hot/cold thing for reptile eggs. That's not how humans work. 🤦♂️
Everyone's mic is off..
Streamer teenage kid is an idiot for even being Friends with that diaper sniffer in the first place let alone staying Friends after the 1st inappropriate scenario and after her initial confrontation was so blatantly disrespected. I have ghosted and blocked a plethora of those kind of creeps and feel no guilt at all for it they deserve it they deserve to be behind bars really but they deserve to be away from me and not able to contact me. I did that as a teenage girl I blocked ignored and all that social media wasn't nearly as big as it is now it was pretty big but still not what it is today as its steadily growing bigger Myspace still existed just to give you an idea of how it was.
The fact that social media is so big these days kids are desensitized to these kind of things they can brush them off more easily because they're such open access to all of this kind of treatment and that's crazy because back in the day when I was a teenager we were balls to the wall crazy and would gang up on somebody like this and Bully them into Oblivion if they refuse to leave us alone find legit get all my friends harassing this person and they would stop. I just want to add that behavior is equally as dangerous and I don't condone it. I do however condone the older a kid gets making them more and more aware of how bad things can get this was very mild compared to the worst that could have happened count yourself lucky and take this life lesson and cling to it as if it's your last breath.
Its probably the MiLs nose 👃 she'll have uad her's "fixed" without telling anyone
Second story from okop fam: im sure they have already but pretty sure you can block a user on twitch! And since theyre not responding to him already he may not even realize for a while.
Ohhh wow my ex MIL was the same about girls when I got pregs. She has 3 boys. Well, I did have a girl and she insisted I name her April Nicole. Did not happen. She was annoying but i love her so I did give my daughter the middle name Nicole. I ended up divorcing her son and got remarried and had 3 more girls which she accepted as her grand daughters evem though they biologically werent. Still love her but she was super very much like the first MIL i nthe beginning.
Lol the audio is strange in this episode
I see you xx
Love Carrie she gorgeous and vibes well with you guys, but you could of told Carrie much earlier about the something in her hair it was really annoying me 😃the 1st story with HB's Smother I wish he would of stood up to her more often rather than OP......But OP got ❤ and that's great. 2nd story straight up done the right thing blocking the creep. Power to the People ✊
I met my boyfriend on twitch. He trolled the fuck outta me while i was playing sonic forces. We have been dating for almost 4 years now😂😂😂😂😂
That's adorable lol
Speaking as a (now) woman who was groomed over the internet an embarrassing amount of times (it wasn’t my fault, but that sick feeling in my stomach lingers), there’s a point where almost every girl has to realise; I may be _too nice_ to block him, but he’s making me _too uncomfortable_
It’s actually kind of wild when I meet girls around my age (25) who still message back rando’s to have a conversation when the rando definitely doesn’t want just a conversation… *you don’t have to reply to everyone that messages you because you’re too nice* to ignore them or cut off the conversation when they get scary/gross…because that’s exactly how every instance of my grooming started.
The thing is, we are expected to be "nice" and "people please" all through childhood and into adulthood. If we were allowed to punch someone in the face when someone tried to pressure us into an uncomfortable situation (I'm betting that most women know that I'm talking about the verbal/physical manipulation leading up to a sexual assault) there would people a heck of a lot of people walking around with bruised faces!
I was still living out in verdi nv outside of Reno and approx 1 mile from the California state line when the biggest fire that took quite a while to get under control was due to a gender reveal gone wrong...
That's it? That's the story?
I know there must be more
Ok, I think this is a new setup, because there is an echo in the video and it is noticible.
Look i know couples that have 11 years age differences and they're probably one of the best matches in my friend group's. However 2 decades plus is probably borderline creepy. Also 40 isn't old wait till you guys reach 30s 😅 you'll realise you're not really an adult in your 20s. I agree 40s is way too old for a 22 year old.
The second story is the most stupid problem ever.. she doesn’t even know him in person to give him so much importance
This woman wants her son n wife to suffer. So bitter, awful
Last story was grooming. This is why children wouldn't be " friends" with adults. They act nice to GROOM YOU!!!! They don't really care about you and what you're going threw. They want what they want and will do anything to get it. That's why you wouldn't talk to grown people men or woman if your a child and don't know them
Definitely a predator. For the last 5 years I've had a guy who asks me out (a customer, not someone I work with). He's married, I'm married, I've said no repeatedly for 5 years! I've blocked his phone number (I made the mistake of giving it to him before Covid happened) so now he randomly shows up in my shops (I move from shop to shop and he doesn't live here, but he and his wife visit several times a year). Ignoring a NO! once is not acceptable. Ignoring multiple NO!s is stalker behavior.
kari kontent kari kontent !
Don't quit your career to rap. Please 😂
You guys definitely need a female or two to buffer your commentary, why don't you guys bring your girlfriends on the show or something
Idk if it's just my headset but it's it exho and reverberatey to anyone else?
Yooo, I think the beep edit might be off G