Should I Leave My Toxic Workplace? (My Boss Yells At Me)
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Never tolerate a boss who yells at you, insults you, or anything disrespectful at all. It’s okay to tolerate it temporarily if you need the job for some given reason, but have a plan to leave and find a better environment. The best LEADERS never yell at or insult their workers. They encourage them, they teach, they promote a great attitude in the workplace, etc.
My former boss yelled at me when I was still new cause I kept asking one guy instead of another one questions. He said I was ruining the dynamics of the team and that at his company everyone is a team. I was left confused and if I didn't *NEED* the job I'd have quit immediately and not even showed up the next day, but the guy who helped me get the job was the guy I kept asking questions, boss didn't like this at all lol. I would have burst out laughing but the dude was really upset at me on my first month working there. He didn't yell since that day but I couldn't have seen myself lasting a year in that place.
How do I get back at my boss but not get fired
A lot easier said than done for many people. My boss literally screams and curses at me anytime I make a mistake big or small. He acknowledges he has a problem with his temper and often apologizes afterwards. I would like nothing more than to leave but i support a wife and children with this job and cannot leave without having a firm job offer in place elsewhere
@modernmasculinity6560 i am in the same position and my male boss did this to me. Im very traumatized. I have anxiety when i have to go in monday. He screamed on top of his lungs when we were on a call which he said i never sent him an email sent a vendor which i forward i did. I am looking for another job. I feel very sick since this happen to me.
@ethanlculver Agree 💯‼️; And a good supervisor promotes worker moral.
Poor guy. He has the weight of the world on his shoulders. I wouldn't put up with a yelling boss. No way!
Never put up with a boss who thinks ok to yell.
I worked in construction for 21 years and was yelled at almost every day . the man that yelled at me lost his job , lost his benefits and lost his pension . I wanted to hurt him but karma stepped in .
Why would someone think that yelling at an adult man make sense , or be tolerated
@@alinatamashevich3354 i had a job like that once. the owner yelled at everyone every single day. on day 6 i rolled in and told him i was leaving and that he could keep his money, i didn't even want it.
If only that was true in every job. Sadly in corporate their are snakes, brown nosers, slackers (it’s not the same as quiet quitting imo), and toxic ppl that get away with it in office jobs.
Had a boss like that too, but yeah fighting him would be stooping down to his level. Better solution would be just to leave or go to a higher up.
@@carlosvelazquez7305 Or date his daughter!
I hate how bosses think they can take advantage of you because they know you need a job. No one should be yelling at you. That is very unprofessional.
Very true. I can relate and now they are retired lol
Very unprofessional….
@@elimoreno5018Good… lol…
@@elimoreno5018Good they are retired… lol…
@@Mary-io1mb yes miss :)
The best time to look for a job is when you have a job.
Leave ASAP. I went through this and developed debilitating anxiety, depression, insomnia, heart, palpitations, and more. Not worth any amount of money.
I'm an engineer in SLC. There are jobs everywhere for engineers. This guy has options.
Is 78k low?
I BELIEVE IT TOO!
How are road ragers treating you there?
i hope he can find something soon. sometimes when you're in a difficult situation it's difficult to see a way out.
*something doesn't add up with this caller story, maybe a prank*
I got yelled at my job on my first week about asking one guy how to do stuff instead of the girl who worked behind me, in an accounting office. Boss straight up threw a hissy fit and got angry at me. Soured the whole experience/desire of being there. Since that time, I came up with an exit strategy as soon as I can. There's a massive difference between constructive criticism and being yelled at.
Huge difference
My boss never yells at me when I mess up they talk with me but no one should have to tolerate an unprofessional work environment
What was your exit strategy? How long did you endure your job before leaving?
You out yet???
Engineers are in high demand. He needs to move on.
He totally does, but in the moment it's hard to recognize that. When you are in a bad job getting beat down it's easy to think you are worthless.
This guy's life is going to change in a week, he just doesn't know when that week will be. On a Monday he will be hopeless, and on Friday he will have an offer at a new job and will be walking proud, it's just getting there that's the problem.
@@claytonmarkin7863
Very true !! Sometime when a person is in a miserable job or a profoundly unhappy work situation, it's easy to have an overwhelming sensation feeling stuck/trapped, even when there's plenty of very obvious alternatives available.
@@Minimalist-Lifestyle yes.....and add to that the responsibility of a young child and a wife who may or may not be on the mend healthwise.......stressful.....however, he can win.....by taking one day and one issue at a time.......
His caller should record the yelling idiot and upload to every single media possible.
Careful if in any of the dual consent states.
Or just walk away like an adult…
@@tuckerstafford8266 okay, but is money going to just fall out of the sky?
Be careful about recording s conversation at work as it might include snippets of work-related confidential information that could get you in major legal trouble.
@@bmoshareholderappleshareho855 will going on a secret mission to record your boss and make an attempt to get it to go viral so you can soil his reputation make money fall out of the sky?
Coming from a guy who has been yelled at by an (ex) boss: please follow these guys' advice and exit---with a plan. But exit, and exit fast!
The day I left that job, it felt like an enormous backpack had come off of me.
This may have been the motivation I needed. Thank you my job is draining me.
Yes me too, I'm also trying to leave my job because my boss yelled at me in public in front of everyone and it's traumatic
I had a similar situation where a short little ex-marine boss with a Napoleon complex would go on tirades at the otherwise professional staff. Right off the bat when he pulled that with me I calmly but firmly told him that sort of behavior might work with the others, but it doesn't with me, and never talk to me like that again. And he never did. He did with the others, but never with me. Right from the beginning you need to set the perimeters, but also be prepared for the possible consequences.
Back when I was in nursing school (2005) I started waitressing at a local family-owned restaurant. I was new and had to scoop ice cream for a table. The ice cream scoop was always right there with the ice cream, but this day it was not. They were kept in the cook’s area and wait staff generally did not invade. So I asked the owner (who was the cook) “hey Jack, where are the ice cream scoops?”. He said “come on, don’t be stupid”, stopped what he was doing to walk over to me, put is arm around me and condescendingly guide me to a random drawer and then asked “what are you, an idiot?”. I kept my mouth shut and completed my shift. After closing, as I was leaving, Jack was sitting at a table, drinking a glass of wine and watching a ball game. I said “excuse me Jack. I don’t work for anyone who calls me a “stupid idiot”. If you speak to me like that again, I’ll walk out and work somewhere else”. He just pursed his lips, nodded and then went back to his ballgame. Never had another problem with him. I don’t think these people are called-out often enough.
@@katiejon17 Great story and exactly true - indeed, they aren't called out because most are afraid. I think things like that need to be set from the very start, like the groundwork between spouses, especially by women that they will not tolerate disrespect.
@@snatchinitback4635 Exactly! It is important to immediately establish the respect boundaries with others, no matter if they are bosses, co-workers, spouses, neighbors, or family members.
not sure what his height has to do with it!
my heart goes out to this young man. i have lots or respect for him for doing what he did and i hope his family situations gets better.
My previous boss would yell at me in front of my coworkers, so I left as soon as I found another position within my company. She was mean!
I felt trapped in a horribly toxic job for a year because it was a very “attractive” position and I was the breadwinner for my wife who had medical troubles. Every day felt like the movie Whiplash. I’m still shaken up from it.
I'm so sorry and I hope your situation has improved.
Same here… right now, i may take $10k pay-cut new job
A 45-60 minute commute to a decent job isn’t that bad at all.
I've had plenty of bosses yell at me, I look them in the eyes and laugh. Then they get to learn they don't scare me and IDC about their veiled threats. They end up liking me and I get promoted because I'm assertive and don't back down, I also do not antagonize. Don't look away from them once the eyes are locked, make it clear you are willing to die on this hill if they keep pushing.
Respect, my brother.
Something In have learned and it works for this situation. NEVER allow anyone you work with or your employer, know how desperately you need that job. Because, now they know they can push you around and you will not go anywhere. Keep your personal life/finances out of work conversations, cause it will get used against you.
My former boss appreciated my efforts and encouraged me. He allowed staff to make decisions. He left for greener pastures out of state. His replacement operates on the idea that belittling people, calling them out in front of colleagues, and ignoring problems is the way to go. I will be looking elsewhere.
I can totally relate to that
My boss expects me to be at her beck and call.
Plot twist: caller is in the Army
😂
Bro i'm dead 😂😂😂😂
That’s the only time I haven’t been annoyed by someone saying “Plot twist:”
So funny!
😂😂😂
You made my day. Thank you
I'm a licensed EE. The first few years of an engineer you don't have a lot of options. No one really wants someone fresh out of college. They want someone with 3+ years experience minimum and ideally a PE license.
I’ve been in his situation and leaving is the best thing I ever did. I won’t lie - I’m still really impacted by the treatment. It’s been 3 years and I still feel pain and anger about the whole situation. It really impacted my life and my finances negatively😊 but my only regret is that I didn’t leave sooner.
Ditch diggers don't deserve to be yelled at either.
just had this same situation... boss threatened termination if i went to HR over issues i had with him... what a POS.
Ask your boss to e-mail anything that he wants you to know. (What do your co-workers say/think about the boss?)
@@kaohsiung99 whats funny is that he never would email anything, only confront you about it in person like this and during the argument, he snipped "well NOW youve got your little paper trail you wanted" because i emailed him about these issues.
@@showspotter You did the right thing. I hope things improve soon...
@@kaohsiung99 thank you, i ended up getting fired a week later. and they wonder why they cant keep people. its a TRASH company with absolutely no HR support. its literally trash. if i werent afraid of getting completely blackballed in my niche industry (i have proof it happens), i would 100% out them everywhere i could.
Yeah having been screamed at a few times working at accenture I checked out pretty quick. No benefit is worth your mental health when you've got credentials and experience. Now I make 3/4ths as much working for myself as a grease monkey but that 25% is worth the peace of mind knowing anyone who screams at me can be asked to leave my shop or else I'll call the cops (Police station is 800 feet away).
Do not work where you hate it. There is no money in life that will make up for that. Stop getting into debt so you can afford to tell people what they deserve to hear when they treat you like that.
*The conversation took a new turn after he said he's an engineer*
Keep looking for another job while you keep the one you have, pray for the the right job to come along!
I worked for family once and I got yelled at everyday.
Yes, yelling and my witness of both yelling and cussing from the all high leader was so harmful for the workplace, I saw it, witnessed it, and I removed myself. Please leave and find your way
People please be kind to others even though you are not kind to yourself. No one deserve your unwanted behaviour.Some people are going through allot! People have issues like mental illness etc please just be kind!
Love how most of the callers call in and ask for personal life advice rather than actual financial advice...
Dave’s advice is mostly personal rather than financial. Dave preaches having common sense and financial sense comes from working through issues using common sense
@@tylersanders2388 common and financial sense yet dave promotes marraige to men
@@hiteshadhikarimarried men are wealthier, happier, and have better adjusted children
Yep, the two are often intermingled
@tylersanders2388 I find it funny though that all these callers have non or seriously lack what most of us should have and shouldn't need to call a hotline for that being common sense. And I see very few anymore if any callers calling in to ask for actual financial advice similar to what you would ask an attorney or an accountant etc. It's almost laughable in my opinion. I listen to some of these calls and I'm sitting here thinking seriously? You had to call in and ask that? It's a no Brainer. And I'm not nearly as smart as some of these callers but my God man you learn common sense in grade school.
Do this: move to an area where you can get a better higher paying job, let the kid go to day care and wife either takes therapy sessions remote or find a new therapist recommended by her current one. New job, making more, wife still getting treated and kid on day care and you guys can visit your family every once in a while. BUT LISTEN dealing with someone who needs mental help is tough. You CANNOT do that and also be yelled at in work. You will go mad soon keeping things like this. Make a move ASAP
This is why unions in the workplace are important for the low man on the totem pole
He could file a grievance if he were a union member
Dave Ramseys show seems to be swerving towards Dr Phil's territory.
Next up, "You are not the father"
Has been since Delaney got on here
A lot of money problems stem from physiology, mental issues, and the stress of life....
How you run your finances can be a huge indicator of your mental well being and emotional state. I could tell a lot about my own previous mental state when I look over a years worth in bank statements.
@@nunyabusyness762 true enough. But this is a personal finance channel. Turns out that it’s also true that when you take control of your finances and spending... other areas will follow suit in time.
"cause I'm a redneck, it's hard for me to put up with that stuff" AMEN Mr. Ramsey!
ALOT of respect to the guy on the left, the man on the phone was on the edge and you showed compassion and respect, I’ve been there and I know it meant a lot to him, when he told him good job and he was crying that hit me
Never be a DOORMAT FOR ANY EMPLOYER!!show yourself respect and QUIT!!!
Dave, not all engineers are required to be licensed. It depends on the type and the application.
If the caller works for a big enough company where this troublesome boss of his has other bosses to report to and if they have a full-time HR dept., he must report his belligerent boss right away.
I've grown accustomed to commuting. I work just minutes outside the city limits of a metro area but live in a small town. To me, the 1.5 hour roundtrip commute is a price worth paying to not live in the city
I had a co-worker who would come in and Complained I didn't fill up the bottle of water for when he arrives, he is ex-army guy in his late 40s.
I told him I didn't drink that water, I bring my own water, and that water has nothing to do with me.
He wouldn't listen and every week came in complaining, he then began lifting the empty plastic bottle and hitting me on the back with it, it didn't hurt at all, but him touching me at all was really pissing me off.
Eventually I told him, look I don't drink that water and I would appreciate if you kept your hands off me.
He went on a tirade, and started shouting the place down, I told him over and over I don't drink the water, he just kept shouting, I'd ask why he wouldn't believe and that I don't use the water, he just continued, eventually he got in my face, pointed to the door and told me to "Go"
I stood my ground, because he was shorter than me I looked down my nose at him, told him he's not my boss, he sbacked off and started complaining, I walked out on him mid sentence.
He since changed his attitude, bully's are all the same 😂 Cowards.
Shame on your employer though.
Record it and give it to your boss, or put it on social media.
No! Not social media. Boss, yes.
Sounds like you need to make this guy his own individual bottle of water with a “special” additional ingredient of your choice - nothing poisonous, maybe just mixed with water you didn’t finish. It can just be your little secret.
Then you can tell you DO drink that water . . .
I've been dealing with that at the temp job I am working while someone is on medical leave. She's been in the office and just hateful towards me. 😒
I'd say leave, but I had a boss that would do this at times but, oddly enough, I liked her. It was just her personality, she'd be yelling at the top of her lungs and then an hour later would be in your cube joking with you. I just accepted she had a strange personality, and I legitimately missed her when she left. She looked a lot like Pat from SNL too.
She needs as much family support as possible so I wouldn't move very far at all.
he can commute for a while. then make another move to be where he wants. I had a friend from the islands and they used to say take what you can get till you get what you want.
I didn't even consider that part. Stability for her would be very important. I was thinking about numbers and not at all about mental well being.
Dave doesn't yell just gets his points across loudly.
I just yell at my employer back and feel better. 😂
Idk what type of Engineering you are but I’m Civil. Apply for UDOT or a local municipality. There are even consulting firms out there hiring. Also consider cross disciplines as well. A lot of my colleagues went so school for Civil now they are doing Mechanical, Industrial or Computer Science. One thing about having an Engineering degree is the sky is the limit. So sorry for your situation. Keep your head up!
My husband is a CE and he works in a toxic work environment. He wants to leave desperately but after almost 23 years in, he loses alot in terms of vacation accural and senority. Plenty of places he could go, but he works for tyrants, and this is in the public sector!
@@maryfields877 If they really want him elsewhere he can negotiate that.
I am an Engineer and have ended up in IT/computer science. Yes, lots of options!
Growing up in the church I was taught that your employer is your master, and they could treat you however they wanted and you just had to praise Jesus and be grateful for that job.
That's seriously one of the most idiotic things I had ever heard.
I'm Christian and that is not the message that I ever heard so I am sorry you went through that. God is my supply and if some of God's supply comes through an employer so be it, but we should still praise Jesus for his sacrifice no matter what happens to us. I still have no clue what Christian church would teach that an employer is a 'master' when only Jesus is King and God is master of all as he created it all.
shouldnt yell at ditch diggers neither. this is why manual labor of all fields have a great labor shortage. this, being underpaid, low benefits, ridiculous scheduling practices
Probably not a good idea to yell at someone with ready access to a shovel.
I have similar experience as the caller. I understand 100% of how he feels.
Before jumping ship and paying for your own insurance be sure the insurance you get doesn't consider your wifes health condition a preexisting condition because they will deny coverage to her for that.
Plot Twist: Caller is self employed
How large is this company? If it's fairly large, report him to HR
Bahahaha...my friend, HR protects the the company, NOT the employer. If you don't know that, go tell something to HR, before you get back to your desk, your boss will be informed.
HR is not your friend
HR is there for the boss..not for you.
my wife was in HR.....if HR likes the boss or hates you, youre already on the way out
@@loanokaharbor8303
The bosses boss would be informed
@@loanokaharbor8303 You are 100% right. HR is on the side of the company every time.
I'd bet money that Dave is a yeller.
Probably not
He might yell with passion but not with anger
Ohhhh yeahhhh
in practice i actually don't mind a Yelling Boss as long as they can show you exactly what they telling you to do . If they are just stepping on me i openly and formally call them out if they can't also show me exactly How to improve what they are complaining about . It Always has nipped it in the bud
@@snatchinitback4635 Same loud Boss yelling " Great Freakin' Job!" isn't ineffective i hope .its the other side of the coin . probably the same folks who agree the caller's boss is wrong Love to hear Ramsey go off on some callers . ijs
Being yelled at on some occasions may be acceptable but only when it is carried away is not. Going so far as threats, harassment bullying not acceptable at all.
Ask the caller to reach out to me. I will help him. I work for a Fortune 500 engineering company.
I’m 18 and work fast food. My managers (except 1) are disrespectful. I get yelled at and belittled. And even hit. I want to leave, but I need the money for school and bills
Life’s too short. I’m sure as an engineer,he can find a job that he is happier in.
I'm curious as to what the missing details are for the yelling. (Reason)
Who knows, could be fatal to hundreds of people like a bridge that he messing up on. Or could just be they don’t like him for another reason
My brother is a supervisor for a small moving company. One of the workers complained to the owner of him yelling at him. The owner called my brother in. The worker was their. And asked my brother if it was true he yelled at him. My brother told him. " Yeah, and he didn't tell you I cursed him out? There was silence. My brother told the owner. He told the worker more than once. not to do something regarding moving furniture. It would of injuring himself AND the others movers. The worker would not listen. That's why he yelled at him and cursed him out. My brother still employed their 😁
There is no reason that would make yelling acceptable in the workplace.
@@azteca6695 A lot of the places you're using "their" should be "there". "There" refers to a place, "their" means basically "of them".
Plot Twist : Caller is next room to the studio on his lunch break and Dave has no idea.
The kindest thing anyone could do for that boss is to have a private meeting with him and insist he stop the abuse. It won’t be tolerated.
My mom was a violent rageaholic in the 1960s and 70s and not one person ever sat her down and laid down the law.
No one has ever stood up to the bully boss. It can be done kindly but firmly. He’s crying out for help.
I have been watching Ramsey for a year now I heard and learned a lot . But this call got me . There’s always options !
If an employer yelling at the employee is causing the employee so many problems affecting health then it is time to go.
Sounds like an awful boss. Wouldn't work for him anyways.
No job is worth getting yelled at. I'd be out.
My boss yells at me when I don’t put my dirty clothes in the hamper 😅
@gspdude7183 - Ohhhhh ... you are SOOOOO funny !! (Not!)
Don't work at Target...the management is full of flipping bullies!!!
Yea half of target management is bad.
He can make way more money and find a better work environment as an engineer. Just start looking. Praying for you
Great advice! I had a boss get mad at me. He let me know that (no yelling) but slammed the door to my office on his way out. I went in to see him and told him never to do that again saying I grew up in a home without displays of anger like that and I didn’t want it in my workplace. Looking back I’m pretty proud of myself for doing that. I was a 20 year old secretary. To his credit he heard me and never did that again.
One hour commute beats hating your job.
Podcasts are perfect for commutes. My husband (Electrical consulting engineer with his PE) leaves at 6:30 am and gets home at 6:30pm for his 8-5 job. 45 minutes without traffic each way.
Report this bad boss to HR, I used to work for W---mart I had a boss yell at me in frount of costmers & emploees because my dell case was missing items ( turns out ware house shortages) as he was yelling at my I walked away & kept waling to Mj office he kept yellin MORE . Once we got to Mj office I layed down the lay he would never speek to me ever again out side of the mj office!!!!
I hate that the trouble wins by everyone just quitting. I say try to do something about it before quitting. Report them for harassment, hostile work environment, verbal abuse, mental health issues due to their abuse, etc.
Yeah. Never tolerate a bad boss. There are a ton of jobs out there.
Don't they have a h.r. Dept. There ? Where i worked the h.r dept. Gave us training on what we could or couldn't do. Being yelled at in front of our fellow workers wasn't allowed. It would be taken care of by h.r.
I don't care how well the pay is; if I am disrespected or yelled at, I am out of there; and I have actually worked out of two jobs before due to disrespect and unsafety. It's about how much do you value yourself, based on what you can contribute to a work environment?!
My SO is a civil engineer in Salt Lake City, UT. The civil engineering consulting firms in town cannot hire enough new college graduate and experienced professional engineers. Plenty of work to go around. I hope you can continue to look for a workplace that respects you and values your contributions to the company. Having gone through this myself before, absolutely do not put up with this type of treatment.
Plot twist: Caller works for Gordon Ramsey
*Dave Ramsey
@@John3.36 no he said it right 😂🤣 the chef Gordon Ramsey 😭😭😭😂🤣
@@John3.36 r/whoosh
I quit today for the same reason. My wife has been deceased since 2016 and im a father of my 7 year daughter, my boss told me why im a quiter though was told due to my injuries he would not promote me along with trying to demoralize me when i stood my ground. I left mid shift with a "Thank you for the opportunityof working here. Today i made plans to move to another state to work and live. Nick, goodluck and you given me hope.
My boss is not a nice person. She is insulting on a daily basis. The worst I had from her was when i had just returned from a one day bereavement after losing my grandpa (who was my best friend) and she verbally insulted my intelligence in front of everyone I work with, told me she doesn't know why I'm still here, and that I didn't care about my work since I took a day off for bereavement. I was still very emotional, since he died not even two days prior, and I ended up crying in front of everyone.... super embarrassing. I debate quitting every few months, but never do. I feel like i won't find a good job beyond what I currently have. So I tolerate it and keep my mouth shut.
This is why I left the military once my contract was up. I took a job that paid less but was also less stressful.
Wow, this one hits home really close for me personally. I too worked as an engineer for a boss with major anger management issues. Not surprisingly, that firm had a big employee turnover rate (I've heard from my colleagues that one girl went to lunch at noon on her first day and just called and quit without a notice). I took that job for a big raise and great learning opportunity (company had a great diversity of projects such as hospitals, airport and tech company headquarters). Once I paid off my mortgage (thank you, Dave!) and aquired experience/knowledge that I wanted, I left for a firm with professional environment.
He is an engineer in need of a new job. The alternate is a 45 minute commute - that is nothing.
I feel that this dude’s back is against the wall. I hope he can find a better job soon.
Record the boss yelling and turn it into HR or the higher-ups.
What I learned is that HR is not a Police Department. They are workers like everybody else. If there is a conflict between two workers, they are going to do what right for the company, not the victim.
@@bmoshareholderappleshareho855 Maybe so, but you can still do your part, and they can have something on record for the future.
HR is worthless. People think HR is on their side- they aren’t.
I love dave and john. they are so wonderful. offer great advice.
also respect to this man.
It's a fine line , I think it depends on the employee If you keep mesing up eventualy it might happen. Most managers need to be firm and fair at the same time
Report him to HR for intimidation
HR only works for the benefit of the company, not yours. I’d look for a lawyer.
Just look for a better job. They exist
Someone better not tell Dave that we yell at each other for messing up in the Marines 😂
Right, but this person isn’t in the military.
The marines and a work place are different.
If you’re yelling at your colleagues/subordinates At a workplace, expect people quitting or throwing hands.
Yeah, and the Marines I've met usually don't fall into the category of "civilized humans, " so it fits
Why would you have to yell at an adult man?
@A Knight
"Yeah, and the Marines I've met usually don't fall into the category of "civilized humans, " so it fits "
I almost spit out my drink. XD I have a lot of ex military in my family, including marines. Absolutely correct in my experience.
I'd imagine that there are dozens of folks who have left after dealing with Dave's temper at work.
He yells on the tube because it's entertainment
2:08 such a good guy for saying this.
I agree but he also needs to take this up the ladder. Possible the boss needs to be fired but no one is reporting his issues.
Problem is the person he would be reporting to hired that person
The job isn’t the cause of the stress. Sounds like your wife is putting more on your plate than you can handle
I left the post office due to garbage like this!
I have messed up before and my boss has gotten on my case and for good reason but has never needed to yell at me
My boss yells at me everyday too, but what am I supposed to do, divorce her?
This is just another case of job dependany. The question is what is his financial situation. He's young and is educated. If he is not moving on it could be he is massive debt. Debt is slavery.