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25:18 I would like to mention that this audio isn't from Bluey, its Russel from the movie UP. But he is still a kid in a "rated everybody" movie so the point still stands
Was looking for this lol
It's still weird but UP is iconic and can't be disrespected like that
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Thank you! Her point still stands, but it was bothering me so much that she thought it was from bluey.
@@rosiekittengirl760 fr
@@rosiekittengirl760Yes! This! Exactly!
its crazy how the same man can say both "not all men are like that" and "i trust *you* but there are men out there who i dont trust" its so contradictory
Cause it's about power. Women aren't allowed to protect themselves only men may protect them.
Hypocrisy is a virtue to the bigoted, because to them rights were never meant to be distributed equally to begin with.
What's contradictory about that? Yes not all men are terrible, and yes some men are terrible. What are you talking about?
And tbh, as a woman, in my experience, men tend to be more loyal and more trust worthy than women
@@wendyjohnson4345"not all like that" in a sense where when ppl talk about how men can be predatory or controlling or etc. some men say this to try and make some men look more innocent
@@amo_kura We say "not all men" to feminists who want to generalize and demonize all men.
When I was pregnant, doing dishes was physically painful starting around 7 months and became almost impossible due to excruciating pain around 8-9 months. I typically did them while my husband was at work before making dinner, but more often he would wash them for me after he came home because it was just too much for me to stand there. I cannot imagine someone having the time to help out their heavily pregnant wife and choosing not to out of pettiness. The pregnancy rage would make me homicidal atp
I can’t imagine most men I know doing dishes for anyone else ever.
Blessings to you and your partner, that’s sweet!
@@FoxVoxsounds like those men need to be cut out of your life tbh.
To anyone out there thinking of having a kid with their partner here's a warning: if they do not currently do chores now, they will not get better after having the kid. (And taking care of a kid & a whole grown person is madness) Learned this the hard way sadly.
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@@FoxVoxthat's because your not smart enough to choose the right partner 😂
The audio with the children's voices isn't from Bluey its from the movie UP but yea your point still stands
As someone who tidies as they cook, with siblings who never did, I always hated "I cook, you clean".
@@HappyThifeLOL
My ex stepmother in-law had an "I cook you clean" for me but also if I cooked it was "you cook, you clean" basically it was I clean and no one else does anything. If I'd ask my ex for help he'd either get upset from "going to work" and wanting to relax or expect "it" as a reward, getting mad when I wouldn't provide after cleaning and taking care of the kids alone all day and only wanting to take a shower. With the same ex, when I was pregnant, I was the only one working, cleaning and caring for our older kid and didn't get to "relax" after work. I hate double standards.
Yup, same here. And unless I'm making a lot of food, it really isn't hard at all to clean up after you cook. For example, if I just make eggs, I'll use one pan and a bowl, which is so easy to wash out when I finish, but for some people, it's the most difficult thing in the world ?? 😭😭😭
@@XxAshleyRaynexXyeah with my ex, it was “he cooks, I clean; I cook, I *still* clean.”
We both had similar-paying jobs, his in the computer industry with no weekends, set schedule, predictable lunches etc, and I’m in healthcare, with all the life-and-death chaos that entails, and very long hours.
When I ultimately had a bout with burnout, his answer was to do even less, lean into his hobbies more, and after 20+ years together, find someone who was more “fun” and dip out.
I was devastated he left and felt such shame and guilt, that I ended up getting a therapist.
When she pointed out that yes, I had been having a rough patch, but that he didn’t care enough to help and be kind was a “him” problem, not a “me” problem, and a big contributor to burnout in the first place was having increasingly No Help With Anything.
We didn’t have kids, and my heart goes out tenfold that have a partner like this who do, but I felt like I had a kid in how he behaved and how I had to take care of him.
I was devastated when he left, but in almost every way my life has been so much better and generally easier, once I got through the initial heartbreak.
It’s amazing when someone you pour your love out to also gives it back. I never knew what that was like or that it was a Thing.
But it is, and it’s how it’s supposed to be.
Much love to all here who had to go through the valley with the Takers, or who are still there.
There’s more out there, friends.
The skit of the straight couple with the wife "half naked" kinda sounds like a parent talking to their kid about how they're dressing, not a partner.
In my country, we don't have a word for straight. We just say normal and homosexual. It's kinda of ridiculous how normal people are called straight and cis in the west, and not only that but they're treated as if they're the abnormal ones
@@firasjemil213cool story bro
@@firasjemil213chill lmao it is normal 2 b gay and no sexualities/couples should be treated as abnormal unless they’re toxic/problematic. No one is hating on straights just bc they’re straight, there’s just a lot of cishet couples that are toxic and problematic and THAT is abnormal.
@@firasjemil213 We must live on different planets. Here in my country (United States) Homosexuals are treated like tokens at best and degenerates at worst.
@@firasjemil213That's like calling blond people "abnormal" for being a minority. Intentionally or not, it's still kinda degrading. That's why we use two distinct terms instead.
And not to throw shades, but I wouldn't call people normalizing the idea of hating your spouse "normal".
As a bi millennial woman engaged to a straight man- I never understand these TikTok’s. The only thing we’re concerned about if we go out without each other is safety because we’re both very anxious 😬
(we’re both big fans of you, btw 💜)
I think, these kind of TikToks are rooted in the boomer humor, the kind of "hahaha i hate my wife, wife bad". This kind of humor was a copeing mechanism in the times, where divorce was not a thing. Its a bit similar when a schoolkids joke about that they don't started on the assigement yet, and the other sais, "yeah, same".
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@overlordfemto7523 Lmao
@overlordfemto7523what ??? Are you even talking about wtf 💀💀💀
@overlordfemto7523I thought I told you, talk to ME, coward. What tf are you afraid of? Someone actually tearing into you the way you attempt so terribly with everything else?
Raised in an abusive and neglectful fundamentalist Christian household, and with the churches we attended, I thought that was just marriage. Like, in every marriage there's just a little misery and unhappiness on both sides. So when I was a miserable in my marriage, I thought that was normal. Took some good friends and good therapy to help me understand the was better paths to take and better decisions to make. I've been divorced two months now and my outlook is improving 😁
Too bad. You were almost saved.
I’m so glad you’re doing better!
@@kaddindefiantwomp womp
❤❤❤ I'm happy for you!
@@kaddindefiant Thank god you were saved in time. FTFY.
Not sure if the last one got mixed up or not, but the audio they used is from Up not Bluey. The points you made still stand 100% though.
I believe it's from UP if I'm not mistaken lol
@@JoinedMoonyes that is what the comment said 🤨
Yeah was gonna comment this
Yes, Russell from Up. Actor Jordan Nagai. Currently an adult, but was a child when the voice recording was made. It is a cringe voice line to make jokes about partner's naughty bits.
As a bisexual chick who has never experienced straight tiktok, I appreciate your bravery. Straight tiktok is a horrifying place, most people never come back the same 😔. Stay safe Queer Kiwi 🏳️🌈🌈🙏
LOLZ wow. Unhinged and ignorant!
@@chris135xwhy?
@overlordfemto7523 i do, it makes no sense
Most tiktok is trash irrelevant of who the creator is.
@@dragon3010lol fair point
My boyfriend encouraged me to dress how I wanted when all my life growing up I was always told to cover up to uncomfortable degrees. He hypes me up and helps me shop when I feel nervous about it. He also is happy when I socialize/make new friends/go out because he knows it's beneficial. I don't understand why other men have to act possessive and not let their girl go out. That's not love; love is encouraging the other to feel better about themselves.
Bestie where'd you find him :")) wishing you the best! 💜
Some people have trust issues. It's literally about trust and communication. There ARE people out there who lie. There ARE people who are in relationships and also go out for hours on end doing who knows what while the other person is waiting at home.
@@chris135x That does not excuse possessive controlling behaviour though. You cannot limit a human being's freedom just because you have trust issues. That will not heal those trust issues either. You have to do the inner work yourself instead of taking it out on your partner cuz that's just wrong.
Those boundaries and issues are completely on YOU to discuss and handle. You should talk to either your partner or a professional, because your personal experiences are not your partner's responsibility. They're yours. Don't bring an innocent person into it.@@chris135x
@@chris135xMost of the guys acting that way are just misogynist, usually incels or "redpill" weirdos.
Also, happy wife happy life is supposed to mean if you make your wife happy she won't bother you. As in men genuinely couldn't understand why their wives were upset at them and "nagging" until it was worded that when your wife is happy, she won't complain
yeah I hate to say it but she's too young to know what it was like for husbands of the 80's and 90's when the phrase was most used, so I get how she misunderstood the meaning.
"Nagging"? Have you really missed the point she was trying to make?!?! JUST. FREAKIN'. LISTEN. It shouldn't be THAT hard for you to understand your own wife. Like, were boys born in your generation EVER taught to listen to other people, or just have conversations and socialize? Are you really THAT socially dense, to the extent that you can't pick up subtle hints?
I am high-functioning/Asperger's autistic, and even I can understand more than you! If Someone is "Nagging" you, it's probably because they need help with something, and it is NOT NORMAL to dislike your spouse. If her personality was really THAT toxic, like you make it out to be, why did you marry her in the first place? I AM NOT TRESS, I AM HER DAUGHTER, TAY. WE SHARE AN ACCOUNT. 🙃🙄💔
Honestly, if you're NOT a heterosexual man, you should not talk about this thing.
@@chris135x fuckyes dude women shouldn't talk about the happiness of wives
@@cats1970 Let me phrase it another way. If you're not a heterosexual, don't talk about heterosexuals or heterosexuality.
I'm dressing for myself, and also for people with a similar style to mine complimenting my outfit. That's it no flirting or anything, I just like looking cool and other cool people noticing it
"You think this cape is for you? Such ridiculous hubris..."
When straight men start dating women based on compatibility instead of status or 'hotness' maybe this will no longer be a thing.
Are you hetero? Because hetero men do want compatibility.
yep hetero unfortunately@@chris135x
@@bluebellbeatnik4945i feel for you 😞
The problem isn't a lack of compatibility, but a lack of communication and an abundance of harmful gender roles.
@@PlatinumAltaria id say that its both
I LIVE for the “I love your outfit!” & “I love your top!” from friends, other women & gender neutral presenting people
it’s called histrionic personality disorder
I comment for attention from others on my alt up there
She should dress more modestly
Unlime myself 😂
@@professorfoxtrot I do dress modestly, albeit fashionably 💅🏻 I actually don’t like revealing clothing on myself, that’s just my preference though!
Your earnings are their own character in every single video love the watercolor
EARNINGS? I know you meant earings but j think auto correct got ya
13:37 This made me so angry. My dad would never do anything around the house, didn’t have a job, didn’t take care of me or my siblings, and my mom had to do literally everything. I remember she went into labor with my fourth brother and she was rushing to get the dishes done while having contractions because she knew they wouldn’t be cleaned again until she got back from the hospital
troll @overlordfemto7523
@overlordfemto7523 How on Earth do I not follow me around? Can't you tell I'm obsessed with myself enough to follower kiwi around?
This thread is a reminder and PSA to take your schizophrenia medication.
That sounds horrible, has she finally left him?
@@giasharie274 He moved out 5 years ago, and my mom divorced him a year later. Thankfully we haven’t heard from him since
as a bisexual woman in a long-distance relationship with a man, i cannot even fathom the distrust about outfits.
i send my boyfriend pictures of my going out with the gals for drinks outfits all the time and not once has he been angry about what i'm wearing, instead supporting how i look and saying how lucky he is to have me. if we can have that trust while living 8 hours apart so can any of y'all.
if someone is controlling how to choose the dress, wether its a partner or family member, take a step back and wonder what their intentions are and how this control makes you feel. you deserve nothing but to feel constant love, support, and to feel at home in your own skin.
@overlordfemto7523 wow, considering you’ve never met me that’s incredibly rude and hurtful. cheating in any circumstance is ALWAYS wrong and quite literally the most hurtful thing you could ever do. maybe go touch some grass instead of harassing people in a youtube comment section
@overlordfemto7523 uhm... self projecting much?
@overlordfemto7523 With how many comments your leaving, it's not gonna be hard. Just more info for me. Get ready. I'm approaching RAPIDLY.
I've cheated on every single person I met at least twice so sorry taking out my anger with myself on you!
@overlordfemto7523lmao who hurt you
the tiktok of the guy covering his girlfriend with random clothes gives the same energy of ralphie’s mom dressing his younger brother for school in the christmas story movie
😂
Normal commenter: hey maybe you should do chores voluntarily, then it’ll help both of your frustration levels
That one guy: NUH UH
the silent one especially disgusts me because it feels so infantilizing. she was written in the skit to be huffing, pouting, and stomping like a child. she is being dressed with no contribution from her. i don't care if it's a joke, it reflects how he views his wife and women in general.
@overlordfemto7523Go to a deserted island and stay away from women, then. We'll all be happy.
@overlordfemto7523Why on earth are you all over this video's comment section??? This content isn't directed at you, and you aren't going to change anyone's mind!
@overlordfemto7523 we are freaks because we don't like these toxic relationships?
Oh god there's a bunch more than just this.
@overlordfemto7523lol wus
All these guys complaining about how their wives/SO's are dressed. My husband would love it if I dressed 200% more revealing.
It sounds like he wants to be cuked
@@professorfoxtrot naw. He doesn’t like cucumbers.
@overlordfemto7523your last comment on this channel was "You're just mentally ill and deeply disturbed. You're not gay." In fact, you have a LOT of comments on this channel. Sounds like an obsession and a deep desire to know what's going on in your brain, you just don't know it yet. Have fun on your journey.
@overlordfemto7523 yeah, I guess it is a weird flex to have a trusting husband who likes when I show off my hard work.
@overlordfemto7523sad you can't trust someone you supposedly "love". Also sad how many arguments you think you need to start with everyone over everything... maybe you can't love either... or have a life outside of this
Why are most straight couples so toxic towards each other, like it's so wild to see.
23:57 Just gonna be that person and point out here that this audio is from the movie “Up” and not “Bluey”. Not against your point there! Just correcting you bc that sort of bothered me a bit. (Pls don’t take this the wrong way)
I was wondering if anyone else noticed it too lol but yeah I was like “bluey??” 😂
"10 Simple Rules to Dating My Teenage Wife" energy is a strong vibe here
Damn, does Freud will be happy with this one?
@overlordfemto7523How does that make sense?
Men get all the benefits from being married (free emotional/ physical/ sexual labour and as a result living longer or getting wage increases) and hate women even more for that.
@overlordfemto7523want a fight? Come get one! I've been arrested for a felony, and can somehow still show more empathy and restraint than YOU
@overlordfemto7523look at me, bro! I got all the cool emojis that mean I must be right and sooo dignified 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 ☠️💀☠️💀☠️💀
so for one, women on average live longer then men, men dont get to just have sex all the time, nor do they get emotional support most of the time. the reason they get wage increases is because they often work harder then women, there are several studies proving that.
@@FederalBurroOfInvestigationI don’t think anybody asked
@@kaddindefiant nobody asked what you thought of what I said either
9:23 I gotta rant about these types of men. All these guys who dont want their partner to go out wearing certian clothes have this irrational fear that she'll blindly cheat with no hesitation the second some rich 6ft+ dude with huge muscles and 6pack abs and this n that will hit on her as if she wasnt in a monogamous relationship which sounds SO disrespectful to the women. Women cheating just cause some male model or some "chad" or some celebrity showed up & hit on her doesnt happen as much as men and incels think, its so shitty & immature to think all women just remotely cheat and/or swoon over any guy just because he has more muscles or money, especially when you go to r/niceguys and half the posts are millions of women turning guys down because they have boyfriends. If a woman does cheat, she's foul for that, dump her, but I wish guys would stop seeing women as robots who will cheat on them with anything with abs and muscles, to any guys reading this, let your gf wear what she wants, how would you feel if she policed what you wore? not good I'll tell ya that
The only time you should stop your partner before they leave the house, is in situations like; they don’t know that they’re trailing TP, they have their top inside out, their zipper is down, etc.
And then you let them leave with that information to do what they want.
I would also argue that specifically the jacket wasn’t bad because (on its own) that could easily be a case of “hey, it’s gonna be quite cold out, don’t forget to bring a coat or something”. But the video shown here went WAAAAAY beyond that so it obviously wasn’t the case there.
I must say, I love all your earrings! These ones remind me a lot of these tiny colored pencil sets I used to have as a kid
Still straight-demi. Still not OK. Had to deal my own fatness by being called out by my sister on my birthday this week, so seeing couples complain about bod image is pissing me off.
I've said it once and I'll say it again. I would never care what my future partner(s) wear, as long as they're safe and happy, PERIODT.
I'm sorry you had to deal with that. You deserve better.
The only time I can see myself caring about what my partner wears is if they're going to get arrested ("Hey, babe, your skirt got snagged on the doorway and tore up the back.")
You should do some exercise and diet
@@pinoarias8601 That part.
@@pinoarias8601 Burn genes with this 90 day diet.
@@pinoarias8601hey dude, this comment is about being weight-shamed by a family member on this person’s birthday. You don’t know what possible medical conditions could prevent exercise or dieting, or even if this person is just naturally or genetically built bigger and gets tormented anyway. I’m sure they’ve heard it, considering they mention a family member fatshaming them on their birthday, so you’re not being helpful, constructive, or kind!
I don’t have any queer friends yet so watching your videos help a lot
Edit: I actually have friends now!
I have queer friends and it's still good to watch her stuff!
@@sabre_phoenix5996 good for you!
i'll be your friend
@@giant_internet_nerd omg thanks
I don't have any deviant friends either.
That audio clip is actually from Up and the kid was literally 10 when he voice acted for the movie.. 😵💫 like can we not
I don’t think straight tiktok will ever be ok-
Ever.
or straight ppl in general actually
Anti straight leftists
@@professorfoxtrotAh yes, the leftist propaganda of *[checks notes]* being a loving and supportive partner with mutual respect & trust.
@@silvernightray7701 It reads as an ode to cuckoldry.
so sorry to be that person, but that audio about the wilderness explorer isn't from Bluey, its from the movie Up
Also, a lot of times, it’s the revealing clothes that drew the man to her in the first place. Now all of a sudden it’s wrong
If she's committed to the guy, a good woman should dress modestly.
@@professorfoxtrota good woman should stay the hell away from you😂
@@professorfoxtrotno. Do better
@@professorfoxtrot 👎🏻 boooooo 👎🏻
@overlordfemto7523 awwww you mean it?? 😍
Do you make your earrings yourself? They're always so unique and creative, you remind me of Ms. Frizzle
She usually buys them from small businesses, I’m pretty sure it’s usually on etsy
ruclips.net/video/69mLV6ygiJE/видео.htmlsi=vmaTrveod7p8jEh_ this is one of her videos talking about the earrings she has
You are so so brave. As a trans man my tik tok is just filled with hot goth girlies and cute cats and dogs and sometimes ducks and goats. But also you are amazing and very pretty! Have a great day
We have the same tik tok feed! 😂💜
As a trans cat meow meow meow 🐈
Okay......WHAT is "he" "so brave" about? You say that because he's speaking? Got daym, the standards for this society are so low...........
@@chris135x huh?
@@leojones7780they meant the queer kiwi is not brave probably because they live in America
girl, I'm sorry for the off-topic comment, but your earrings are just slaying, i'm obsessed with them
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OBSESSED I'm going to make my own 🌈🎨🖌️
24:00 Not that this changes much, but this audio is not from Bluey. It's from the Pixar movie "Up". The message definitely does not change at all and I agree with you 100%, just figured I'd point out the technicality in an understanding way before someone says anything irrational 😅
the cishets are allergic to actually communicating with each other about their needs and boundaries
As long as I live, I will never understand how a man admitting to sexist behaviors seems like some sort of flex to him... No, dude. You're just showing me who I should avoid.
@goofygamer69420 what does that mean to me?
seeing quokka and leebit hold hands is just so adorable
Hey Queer Kiwi, I’m getting kinda tired of that one fanboy commenting on every one of your videos with his 30 accounts, would you mind blocking them? I also think his mom would appreciate her child spending some less time on the phone.
He’s easy to find, and I think it’s about time we help him move on, because it’s getting quite concerning. If you know, you know.
queer ppl in comments: valid criticism of straight people
straight people in comments: THIS GOES AGAINST EQUALITY
like uhhh do they not understand anything jesus
Imagine a straight person making a channel just to talk about the bad sides of queer relationships and people. Oh wait, they do exist and we call them bigots.
@wheezy__ that’s made up so obviously not valid
“Your a grown up do things by yourself if you need to” I’m always amazed by the number of straight couples who don’t understand this
I also believe in the splitting of chores with the expectation of pregnancy, recovering from an injury or medical procedure, illness, etc. If my future wife and I decide to have children and she's carrying the baby then she's allowed to at any time to ask me to do more of the chores that day or even for the rest of the pregnancy. The same goes for if she's sick, recovering from something, or any other situation where she needs me to help out more. If she wants to try to do something, then she can, but if I see her struggling, then I will step in and ask if she needs help because that's what being a partner is supposed to be
Hey girlie some incel made a video on you, they also immediately said what channel it was so they could come in and attack/spam your comments. Hope all is well sorry that you have to deal with some incels. 😔
Captain Evil standup guy is 100% the kind of guy to refer to his wife as "the ol ball and chain"
I don't understand people who stay in bad relationships that they know are bad and they DONT LIKE THEIR PARTNERS LIFE WTF BRO 😭
Not always easy to leave. Financial strife, the feeling of "love" or lust/attraction blinds you to the pain, social image, for ab*sers, they enjoy the control more as it gives them greater happiness than a healthy relationship.
There, I did the heavy lifting of understanding for you. Empathy isn't difficult.
@@audreydoyle5268unfortunately that’s very true.
@@audreydoyle5268There's also the fear of living alone, as if it's a shameful thing, and the assumption that "things will work out with time, eventually".
If you'd listen more and talk less, you'd understand. Just read the comments in your thread. Only read them. Listen.
@@chris135x I mean, I doubt there was any ill intent in the way they asked. No need to sound passive-agressive about it.
On "my wife ruins when I have fun." My sister's husband would watch her have a good time at parties, get more attention than him, being better liked. Going home he'd start a pointless fight _every single time._ Because that happiness was a gateway to independence. They're not married anymore.
All of your points are correct and I agree, but the audio wasn't from Bluey, it is from Disney's "Up"
I just wanted to say that I appreciate savannah so much for always explaining what's happening in relevant visuals ❤
I do not have visual impairment but my adhd makes it difficult for me to solely focus on watching a video so I'm often doing other things/not looking at the screen and it makes her content so much easier for me to enjoy which is great because I love it! 😂💕
I have to talk about the straights I work with. We work in a clinic and most of the clinical/nursing staff are women and most of the doctors are men. These gal’s husbands won’t let them talk about work because they get jealous of the male doctors they work with. I said out loud that is not normal! I said my husband would never say anything like that to me. They all told me it IS normal and there is not anything wrong with it. They are straight up brainwashed by stuff like this. I came home and told my husband this and he was like w….t….f.
It's not normal except amongst insecure men. That's what they all have in common.
About the chores thing, splitting 50-50 when one of the people are pregnant is not fair, because one of them is doing 100% of the baby growing, so the fair thing is for the other part to take some of the house chores so it becomes balanced again. We know biologically that growing one new human consumes a lot of energy, so take that into consideration, and even more if it is more than one.
i thought "wife bad" jokes were gonna go away with the boomers... aaaaaaaa
@overlordfemto7523coming from someone as deluded as you, that’s a complement
@overlordfemto7523yes because it was silly to expect men to become basic decent and good human beings
Utterly foolish to expect that of men
14:17 people who are pregnant are ALREADY DOING a full time chore for the couple. It's a chore that cannot be split evenly. If y'all decided to have that baby, the partner who isn't pregnant should pick up the slack!
I get not wanting to do chores, but they have to get done! Usually I’ll bitch about doing it while starting the chores just to get it out of my system, i just bitch about it in my head tho, not so much outloud😂
Its because they aren't friends with their spouses. They're co-habitators that occasionally bump uglies. Actual friends don't act like that.
I (guy, 38, mlm) got into the stupidest argument with someone defending a guy who was complaining about being told to do chores by his wife all the time. (The defender seriously wanted to die on this hill. It was embarrassing) Like, bro…you are an adult living in this house. You should know what needs to be done by now. Just do your chores and you won’t have to be asked. It’s part of being an adult. Your partner isn’t your parent-nor should they have to act like your parent.
Some guys really do want a mother instead of a wife. "Man-child or Oedipus complex" is a difficult game.
24:01 random thing, the audio isn't from bluey! it's from the move "Up" and the character was Russell
(i still think the video is weird af though)
3:08 Along with staying together, it’s also the fear of separation in a short time that raises too many questions.
the sad/funny thing, i went through the "completely changes your look before you go out"... but not with a partner. with a parent. in my 20s
im so sad because i thought maybe the one w the husband dressing the wife maybe he was just making sure she was dressing more comfortable but as it went on i got. more and more disappointed.
A lot of these straight TikToks are layers and layers of "but wait, it gets worse", like an onion of disappointment.
Omg that guy around 19:00 is so damn condescending I cannot fathom being treated like that.
He cares about his girlfriend and doesn't want her to be a hoe bag
The insecurity is palpable
Like a small child. It's icky
Unless I'm the hoe
@@professorfoxtrot bruh, stfu. Girls should be able to wear whatever tf they wanna wear. No one gets to have a say in what women choose to wear- not even their partners. -_-
My dad sometime makes the “haha wife makes my life miserable” jokes, especially one that goes “Two old friends meet after some time and one says “oh I heard you got married!” and the other says “yes”. The first one goes “so you must be happy!” and the other replies “yeah, I must be” and it makes me quite uncomfortable. He’s nowhere NEAR this bad, though, he does help with his fair share of the housework and is otherwise a great dad, it’s just these jokes sometimes…
very minor point: the audio from the last one is from the movie Up, not Bluey, but your point still stands because the voice actor who did Russell's voice was 9 years old at the time.
There’s plenty of things my partner and I don’t want to go to together. The cinema is the perfect example, he’s been 4 times this year, I’ve been 24. We just don’t have the same taste in films, for example I’m seeing Passages on Tuesday and he would hate it.
Me, I just love movies.
But I don't go to cinemas because there are other people there lol
@@Nerobyrne I like to go on my own to mid day, midweek showings, much quieter.
how did my generation look at the generation that raised us and go "you know what, I think they were onto something with the wife bad thing"?
I mean, if you don't laugh at that then you're not heterosexual. Or a man.
@@chris135xall men and straight people need to find the "wife bad" joke funny?? What if they genuinely find it not funny? Why is is not "straight" or "masculine" to love your wife?
"Fellas, is it gay to love your wife?"
@@redsprout9347 If your don't or can't laugh at it
You're not a heterosexual.
@@chris135x spoken like an insecure man
@@redsprout9347 You call me insecure because you don't like what I said. It doesn't work that way, kid. Try again.
I don't think that was from Bluey, it was from Up, a movie that probably premiered when _he_ was a kid, but I get it. I'm more upset at the entitlement of just _expecting_ a shaved kitty all day everyday, that's so weird, especially if you know the shower gymnastics people have to go through only for it grow back in like two days. Have several sits, sir.
13:56
Oh wow. you really gave the straights™ way more credit than I did on this one😅
You assumed he cooks for her too...
I... didn't...😅
and... I kinda still don't.... he looks more like a "well I guess I could make pasta for myself if you're pregnant and you won't do that for me" type to me...
Tik toks like those piss me the hell off 😶💀
Because they tell the truth.
@@professorfoxtrotyea,people really need to do better
Except for me!
@@professorfoxtrotwhich isn't good. Thanks for proving the point!!!
@@tayakifish The point being that these crazy radical left wing crazies don't care about the truth
8:40 i think its because of alot of guys dont understand the point of dressing up if its not to try and get something(i mean besides compliments)
Attention is a woman's nectar. Question must be asked - why is she seeking attention from other men?
@@professorfoxtrotdont assume,dont be gross. Do better
I'm a hoebag. Being a gross hypocritite is what I do!
@@professorfoxtrot it's not always about men tho, kiwi already explained in the video that it is to feel good about yourself looking nice and receive compliments from your friends
@@SonotmickeY3626 Excuses. I'll ask again, why is she seeking attention from other men?
I only know two straights that are ok and they’re my mom and my stepdad
It absolutely baffles me that guys will dress up their cars like girls dress up themselves, and then they still don’t get it. Like, we know universally that no girl actually cares for the loud ass bad mileage vroom vroom, just like no guy cares about a cut crease eye look. So don’t comment on it????? It’s not for you??????
Your advice to the first guy is what me and my husband do actually😅.
I rarely enjoy loud/crowded events so he goes alone or with his friends and I stay happily home enjoying my peace and quiet, we still love each other and spend lots of time together too, just in other ways we both enjoy 😊
I just wanted to add something about the "he never tells my secrets cause he wasn't listenning".
It infuriates me when some people just randomly start talking, almost in media res, without calling for your attention first, or without checking if you're listenning.
Like, I have a life, I do shit. Don't think I spend all my day doing nothing but waiting for you to start talking.
Sometimes I'm even wearing headphones🙄
(Also, I'm very likely autistic and ADHD, will get diagnostic next week)
I don't understand men who say "You can't go out like that unless I'm with you" men are going to look at her/perceive her either way. And can you imagine how "oppressed" men would say they are if their gfs/wives dictated how they could dress and how they spent their free time??
Have you not witnessed marriages where the wife just picked what the husband should wear and wouldn’t even let him attend to office parties? Some people regardless of gender and sexuality are insecure and they like to control their partners.
@@meowateyourchips7417 honestly, no, I haven't seen or heard of anything like that before.
12:52 instead of getting defensive maybe he could just listen. Just listen. That is how he will improve
This doesn’t add to the conversation at all but it’s gonna bug me if I don’t say anything: the audio in that last TikTok is from Up, not Bluey.
*you ate tripping, straight people are fine their okay stop hating man* 💀💀
okay I love you but the last sound is from up but the point still stands
Sometimes i think the only straights who are okay are the very crunchy mom couple. They seem to have a genuinely healthy relationship while making "couples comedy" type content. There's a wholesome undertone that I've yet to see in these super weird not okay straights
have you ever said where you get your earrings off? if no please tell us!! i need some of those so bad😭
Woman doing more mental load and chores in a relationship with a man. It is just frustrating and sad that it has to be that way.
But y'all want the man to take all the financial load
@@SosukeTYBWno, you want a woman to be financially dependent on you. That's not a "standard" most modern women have it's one that you made up.
@@tayakifish if it's not then why are there thousands of videos of modern women saying even though they can make their own money the man still needs to pay the bills, pay on dates, etc and also refuse 50/50 relationships? Explain that
@@SosukeTYBW okay, heavy on "most modern women" and also, that's a huge exaggeration especially because I'm very sure you haven't watched or seen thousands of videos let alone of the content you're describing. Just because you've seen a few videos of people pushing a narrative (probably not how they're like irl because Internet and reality are two very different things) doesn't mean you can make your one experience the reality. Also, don't say that women do the same thing with men because what men do to women is a reality. Not a narrative on the Internet.
@@SosukeTYBW I have yet to find anyone other than men to refuse a 50/50 relationship.
that child's audio is from Up, not Bluey right?
Correct. She is wrong.
my momma used to do a lot of "annoying my husband" tiktoks until the angry old men of hamradiotok got mad at her for lovingly mocking him
2:14 Henpecked Husband? Wow, that’s so original. It’s brand new as a concept lmao
First :3 🏳️🌈
It’s always gonna be a good video with straight in the title
Based pfp
rb flag 🏳🌈
@@anomalousanimates ikr
This is why I don't want a man. Bisexual (70% into women tho) but I have decided to date women only since waaaay long ago because men always disappoint me... I haven't closed the door entirely to men, but they aren't my primary focus when dating anymore. I recognize there are good men out there but I haven't yet seen one. And before anyone says something: no I don't "hate" men as individual people, I just think most of them (in my experience!) are lazy and/or cruel towards women, and I need someone to prove me wrong lol ;)
Men are taught that a good husband does things he doesnt want to. They r not taught that relationships need to be nurtured daily. They r taught to shut up and do things, not that these things have value and improve daily life.
So we get lots of men who r bitter and feel unappreciated (Which is comical when you understand how complicated this entire thing is)
The husbands feel like they're giving up so much and stay quiet yet the wife asks for help cleaning. The men get no time to be a person.
Again, comical when you realize how much deeper this all goes.
Toxic masculinity strikes again! *shakes fist*
Honestly though, insightful observation. Men are often taught to do a thing and then transactionally get something out of it, but actual relationships are usually much more complex than that.
"Help cleaning".
Their fucking house, they both are obligated to clean. It's not help, it's doing the minimum.
@@KireiC very well put
You know when Kiwi laughs in the first 30 secs of a vid it’s gunna be a good one❤
he kai kuri koe
so very off topic but i need to point out you outfit! the watercolour earrings paired with the rainbow polka dots on the undershirt(?) is so pleasing to my brain. you always pull off bright colours so well but this one is just lovely!
Just wanted tonket you know the "wilderness explorer" audio was from UP, not Bluey!!
i love dressing cute for other women and cool people tell me i look cute in my outfit cause i hate starting conversations but i love telling people they look nice!
watching this is making me realize i was a terrible partner and i was wag more controlling than i realized and than i should have ever been. i'm just a terrible anxious person and my ex didn't want to tell people they were in a relationship so i was just worried someone would try to flirt with them and they just wouldn't tell them that they were in a relationship already.
Some of these men seem as if they don’t like their mothers and project it onto their partners
Holey Moley! How heavy are those earrings!?
6:15 - why is he talking to her like he’s a middle school English teacher 😭
I feel like that last one, even apart from everything else, if they'd used audio from like Bear Grylls the joke would've landed way better.
19:06 this tiktok gave me a huge ick. Hes dressing her as if she were a toddler and shes reacting like a toddler! Ew!