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My friend had a crush on me when we first met. My other friends told him I’m aroace and there’s no chance. He got over it. The friendzone is a ridiculous notion
the friendzone is for ppl who bathe in their own self pity too much to think about what the other person may want
yeah I don't get it. Why would you want to date someone you wouldn't want to be friends with? Also many men would probably sleep with their male friends if they had the same personality and just weren't male. (aka what many trans women experience when they transition).
I'm aroace too! (although I wish there was a "friend zone" where I could find friends because I don't have many friends and I get lonely lol)
@@ZectifinI keep saying this. I had argument with someone yesterday about this. Like if I don’t like yoj as a friend then why would even date you😭😭💀💀
My friend had a crush on me when he first met me until he found out I had a boyfriend not more than a day or two later. We’re still friends and him and my boyfriend are actually super close now.
“I’m proud that propaganda didn’t work on me” bestie you support the U.S. military wdym????
"I can think for myself thats why I only listen to what fox news tells me"
@@Zectifin LMAO
Realest shit ever I'm stealing this line @@Zectifin
@@Zectifinmy parents in a nutshell lmfaoooo
It did work on her, she just isn't smart enough to realize it.
my partner once openly complained "I really wish we had a better candidate then Biden :/" and his mom responded like "Oh, so you wanna vote for Trump?" uh, no ma'am, he just doesn't want an 80 year old to run the country, not that wild of an opinion to have 😭
we want BETTER candidates ma'am, not just "other". Like we're very aware of the quality of our options, thanks. Really tired of the old king mentality
@@hexonyoulook into “Literally Anyone Else” it’s a person running under that name so if people write in Literally Anyone Else he gets votes & when I last checked he was building his website and didn’t have awful ideas
Edit- he’s def not gonna be our next president but I thought it was kinda iconic to change your name. He’s a teacher from Texas if I remember correctly.
it's the classic 60% hitler vs 70% thing. like sure i 100% will vote for the 10% less hitlerite guy but that doesn't mean i like him...
If we want better presidential candidates, we need to get involved at the local, county, and state levels. That's where Presidential candidates are forged
There were better candidates! Three people were running in the democratic primary that weren't Biden. But no one was talking about them. Some states even removed them from the ballots.
the friendzone isn't even real. it's made up by incels and it doesn't even make sense to me as an demi-romantic/demi-se*ual* person
if a man doesn't value friendship or doesn't want to build one with you, he is not the one. stay away
Fellow demisexual/romantic, I only ever get hit on by men who end up just wanting hookups, it’s the worst.
Yeah, if they think that the only relationship they can have with the other gender (or any gender) is romantic/sexual, you ain’t putting them in the friendzone, they’re just an incel.
@@MoonlitBookworm73that's what I've tried to tell people too they created that zone to guilt trip women that are not attracted to them almost like there trying to force you to make them your preference but they can't because women have very different tastes from each other and we're not all attracted to the same features. There's so much more to the dynamic to being datable to women then his looks his personality and the way he lives is the real reason there being rejected trying to get women to have sex with them when they won't do anything to improve themselves or there future. This is the real reason the 4b movement become so popular because it's the truth women live healthier and longer lives without a husban relationship are not a priority to a feminist because it will just hold us back and after your done building them up that's when he will replace you. They want desperately for women to believe there capable of romantically loving women but there not there confusing it with lust.
The "friendzone" is only real if you "relationshipzone" someone first.
@@unicorn73212 Mhm
It’s way less likely to get bitten by a dog than sexually assaulted 😒😒😒
Fear of dogs is also consistently in children's top 10 fears year after year, usually because of a single instance with a "scary" dog.
I was lucky enough to have enough experience with dogs to understand that my childhood "scary" dog experience was my own fault. I can still remember actively working out that yes, dogs *can* be scary, but that doesn't mean they *have to* be scary. If I didn't have the understanding of dogs I did at that time then I would have been scared of dogs, especially with how the adults reacted when they saw the scratches on my face and learned I went out to play with the pack of Great Danes all by myself at age 6. The human adults ended up being much scarier than the giant dogs.
True. I have never been attacked by a dog but I’ve was r*ped twice in college and SA’d a few times. My experiences aren’t unique, the majority of my friends experienced the same things.
Yeah, I've only known one person who was bitten by a dog in my entire life, but I can't even count the number of people I've known who've been sexually assaulted.(almost all girls and women).
I can read a dog's body language better...
Also, working in healthcare and spending so many afternoons treating dog bites - even from 'calm, friendly' breeds - has made me incredibly wary of dogs I don't know. Key: dogs I don't know. Dogs who belong to my family and friends, who I have a rapport with and know how they behave, I'm 100% fine. Random strange dog runs up to me at the park? I'm not putting my hand out.
Women are not yelling at men for holding open the door. That's not happening that's just not a thing. You hold open the door for anyone of any gender because it is courtesy to everyone else around you. You act like a decent human being and you be nice to other people just for the sake of being nice.
I had a coworker once who ran around me, literally ran, from behind me, around me, so that he could get to the door first and hold it open for me. Then, when we were going into the meeting, he tried to complain that women don't like having the door opened for them anymore. I tried to explain to him that it wasn't about holding the door, it was the fact he ran around me to get there that made me uncomfortable. But he just couldn't understand why that would be such an uncomfortable thing for women. I always hold the door open for the person behind me, my 8yo DD does as well, holding the door should not be gendered, it should be kind. But running past someone so that you can be seen as "gallant" and a "gentlemen" just isn't it. (And it wasn't because he was trying to date me or anything, I was recently married and he knew it, he just genuinely thought that this behavior would make him a gentleman).
@@SuperMrsMar yeah going absolutely out of your way to accomplish that is just obnoxious.
@@UlexiteTVStoneLexite The only way its NOT obnoxious would be if the person you're running to hold the door open for has both hands full of groceries or some shit.
@@awolters5827 true true. If you recognize that someone is going to need help then yes it is appropriate to go out of your way to try to remedy the situation
I'm so glad she brought up the bizarre fixation on holding the door for women (or anyone really) as somehow being "offensive"
When I'm going to the store, or the gym, or to an appointment, I always hold the door open for people if they're coming through. And I've had people hold the door open for me too.
We usually say "Thanks" "No problem" and that's the end of it.
Wait, wait wait wait wait,
The masculine men are hiding bc they don't know which woman will yell at them for holding open a door?
And instead of just assuming no woman will yell at them, they prefer to not engage with any woman so they don't get yelled at?
B-but its NOT ALL WOMEN that yell at them!!!
Thank you for the laugh, oh my god 😂
Nothing says masculine like being afraid to exist in public. Classic masculine trait right there.
Women are either not real or scary
😂
I'm just kinda still stuck on the whole "the MASCULINE men are hiding because they are afraid of being yelled at" I guess it really does depend on what you think of as masculine.
Don't they realise that you can just...not open doors for people? It's so rare nowadays so why does it even matter
As someone who lives in America, I do have to mention that a lot of people who vote for Biden are just voting for the lesser of two evils, and because we're not a cult, Trump supporters think Biden won't be president because we don't have Biden flags hanging up. That is because we don't worship him, we tolerate him as the better of two not good options. Also I'm definitely a feminist and you took the very words out of my mouth about holding the door open for other people and letting people hold it open for me as well.
Seriously. I was in Texas recently and saw a LAWN SERVICE named Trump Lawn Service. Complete with the big Trump flag and everything!! I cannot imagine there’s a single “Biden Lawn Service” anywhere in the country.
As someone who isn't American, I can't imagine having 2 party system, it's insane
@@i_ate_a_cat_ it definitely is insane, I don't usually even support either and wish we had a third option that actually had a chance. We do have extra options but they never get elected
It's kind of wild how long Biden has been an elected official while simply being "tolerated." Why do Americans consistently have to pick the least worst person to govern them? I grew up there and still can't understand how they are so patriotic, but keep giving control over the country they love so much to candidates they don't trust.
Let me offer a slight correction: They're not just two 'not good' options.
Saying they're 'not good' is like saying eating dog vomit is 'not good'
To quote an excellent comment: "Stop putting you in the friend-zone? Stop putting ME in the f*ckzone!"
Wait a goddamn minute, I could've sworn like... women count for diversity scholarships right? And Women's History Month? And there is most likely a whole women's section for movies right on streaming apps, right?
Conservatives arent known for being educated or even intelligent
women count for diversity scholarships right? : Yes, they do. They just aren't exclusive to a specific color of woman.
That type of logic prevents her from being able to apply for the racial victim card she's trying to play, though! 😸
Real
@@kismetcaffet9862 True, In hindsight, I was so caught up in it that I forgot: She was just being racist.
"I feel like you're a little too excited to use a gun"
I had a neighbor who would leave his front door halfway open at night for a few hours, literally hoping someone would break in. How do I know? Because I asked him. He told me he heard of a few break-ins in the area and wanted to "take care of the problem". You can imagine what kinda guy he was. These people are way too eager to kill someone.
I've heard of people leaving their garage door open with a bait object in plain sight, like a purse, then lying in wait for the thieves they're sure are everywhere. These are the people who are going to end up shooting a neighbor who's trying to tell them their garage is open and this purse was sitting there.
Yep, if the purge happens that monster would be lynching people no doubt
@@katphish30 Sometimes, I'm happy for the law there is in my country that makes it so if you hurt a thief (more than you are, basically), you can be sued o_o"
Most peaceful American
@@sowl2826 I think that's called excessive self defense, right? If you keep attacking someone even when they're not a threat to you anymore?
When people use the “not all men” and “they have men in their life that they trust” it’s like, duh, but my own father taught me to never trust men and to constantly be aware of my surroundings in case a man decides to attack me. If fathers have to teach their daughters not to trust all men, then it’s obviously bad.
It's not "all men", it's "guilty until proven innocent", which is a defence tactic!
@@PlatinumAltaria The thing is, women are damned either way. If we're cautious around men, it's "Not all men!" and "Guilty until proven innocent!" and "Witch hunt!" But as soon as one of us is assaulted, it's "Why weren't you more careful?" and "You shouldn't have been hanging around him if you didn't want to be raped!"
It was the behavior of my father and his harmful actions towards myself and others I cared about that taught me what gendered violence was... long before I learned the term. It didn't matter that the words or concepts for it weren't accepted or discussed in my community.
@@danakchampion Exactly, some women have fathers and brothers and cousins and blablabla... who abuse and rape and turn down and so on as the first woman said. Besides, some of them never even heard of their fathers.
The "Toxic masculinity" argument is so silly... Toxic is an adjective describing certain types of masculinity... It doesn't mean ALL masculinity is toxic.
If I talk about "blue dogs" I'm not saynig all dogs are blue.
Masculinity is not toxic, no one's saying that. TOXIC masculinity is.
IKR? It's like they've never heard of adjectives before.
I saw a man beaten to death for offering a woman his jacket once /j
@@ttintagel They treat every word like it's a proper noun.
@@ttintagel they probably haven't, given how proud they are of not knowing pronouns i feel they don't know any english grammar.
right?
man who is into woodworking teaching his daughter how to use woodworking tools=masculinity
man who is into woodworking teaching his son how to use woodworking tools, but refusing to teach his daughter who also wants to learn because "its not for girls"=toxic masculinity
its not that hard.
“The men who actually show their emotions end up in the friend zone”
“I’m sorry ma’am did you want to give men a cookie for not immediately choosing violence?”
'You'd be scared of all dogs' YES? I AM?
Hi, person bitten by a dog who chased me down a hill. I will not ever touch, trust, or be near a dog and most men.
Why did you say men twice? 🤔 /j
I'm sure it's been said before but transphobes explaining "basic biology" is like listening to my little sister talk about how there's only three states of matter. Stupid but in an endearing way, like yes hun you explain your basic science to me and don't even worry about advanced science. 😊
Not me googling states of matter...
@@Karategirl5947
There's like so many it's honestly fascinating tbh
A man held a door open for me yesterday and told me to have a great rest of my day. It was lovely. Its all about intention
Literally
Also all people can hold doors open for anyone
'I didn't get a diversity scholarship' is like England complaining they don't have an Independence Day.
as a 60 year old women - if you get to your 30's and think "not all men"....just wait a bit. It might not be all men but you can never know which men are threats.....often until it is too late.
Exactly what I've been trying to say. Exactly what MANY women say.
Fr! If you go into a room full of cupcakes and know one tray of cupcakes is poisoned, but don’t know which one, you’re probably not gonna give any of them a try. Not all cupcakes are poisoned, but enough of them are and you have no way of knowing which ones.
Question for conservative, right-wing women, female men's rights activists, and anti-feminist influencers who benefit from feminism: If you truly hate women's rights with every fiber of your being, why don't you delete your social media accounts? Stop having property in your name, ask your father or husband for permission for literally doing everything, and have your opinions not heard or disregarded.
On the topic of not trusting men, when the statistics say that around 1 in 4 women have experienced sexual assault, the numbers are not in our (women’s) favor
When I’m the outlier among the women that I know because I’ve somehow avoided it, the chances that my lucky streak is going to end increases
We have to get lucky every single day of our lives to just not be assaulted
A man who wants to assault someone only has to get “lucky” one time to make it happen.
It might not be fair for anyone, but my sympathies lie with the woman who is afraid of being attacked, not with the man who is insulted that a stranger is wary of him.
When someone says "I know how biology works!" I always imagine their reaction to concepts in higher mathematics would be something like "if Sally has one apple and Britney gives her two, she has three apples; do you *not* understand how math works??"
"I know how to count" but bro doesn't even know basic combinatorics. 🤓
8:08 i was raised in a christin conservative house and i still turned out gay 💅
I'm all for sapphic love and kinkkyness.
Hell yeah buddy live your truth
✨Same✨
@@onceuponamelody twins 🤩
"I dont get a whole month" what...what do you think the other 11 months are ????
Womens history month isn't race specific
@@midnightsan9917 But white history is taught in all schools in the western world which is what they are specifically referencing. It was a point about race, not gender.
@@midnightsan9917 the OOP wasn't even talking about gender. They were talking about race. That's not even an appropriate comparison
White women do have a movie genre: it's Hallmark Christmas movies
"You're allowed to have emotions, you're allowed to take breaks, you don't have to prove to anyone that you are masculine and you don't only have to feel anger." Me and so many other men need to hear that straight up. It's exhausting putting on a persona
I wish I'd heard that growing up
@@jeffersonclippership2588 same here.
If they're in the U.S. then they're included in diversity scholarships based on their sex. Also there are months to celebrate European countries ......
Also there’s March. St. Patrick’s day. That’s like basically a month for the Irish. Super green and white. Lol. 😂
Also how're they so mad about black people getting the shortest month
The second video of the woman making the argument, that just because one dog bites you doesn't mean all dogs are bad, is kinda ironic. Yes, not all dogs are bad, but the ones that bite are taken down medically immediately as a consequence of their action. This way, they can never hurt anybody again. The difference between bad humans (especially cis-het white men) and dogs, is that there are almost zero consequences for their crimes. In non-western countries those crimes aren't even considered crimes, because men get endless free passes to treat women and children however they want, when and wherever they want.
i can confirm that yes, i love dogs, but i was bitten by a coyote two years ago and now whenever i meet a new dog i am incredibly afraid of being bitten. that's just how it is. the "not all men" point is simply off base
When I was 7, I was attacked by the same dog twice. I still view all dogs as a threat decades later. That doesn't mean I won't give a dog a chance, but I am constantly on edge around them.
On the "not all men" bit, she says that women all have fathers and brothers and uncles and grandfathers they would qualify as good men, therefore not all men rape, abuse and are violent. But she forgets the if you have been sexually abused as a child, there is a 90% chance it was perpetrated by a male you love and trusted. There is also a 58% probability that it was by the victim's own biological father. This is such a heartbreaking statistic. You cannot even trust family. Therefore you cannot trust all men. It is survival at this point. It may seem unfair to the good men but women cannot take the chance to blindly trust.
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4:48 uh, _yes???_ if you are bitten by a dog bad enough, that trauma may very well make you at the very least wary about other dogs! especially if the dog is big, the injury is bad, or if youre young when it happens. and you may be fine with dogs you know, but any strange dog could be aggressive. did nobody ever teach you not to approach strange dogs, and be careful about dogs that approach you? thats a damn good way to get rabies you know.
The thing about the dog versus men comparison is that yes, a lot of people do form a fear of dogs after being attacked or bitten by one. But the difference between dogs and men is that if you are apprehensive about dogs because you don’t know if a certain dog is going to hurt you or not it doesn’t really take even five minutes of meeting and seeing it’s demeanor to figure out if that dog is a threat to you or not. so it’s easier to deduce whether a dog is a threat to you pretty much right away. Whereas with men it’s a lot harder because they can be really nice to you at first to lure you in, a dog is not going to do that. Men can trick you make you think that they’re innocent and then turn around and hurt you. And I think that’s a really important distinction to make if people are going to argue about being afraid of dogs versus being afraid of men.
It’s just like that thing that people are saying right now where they would rather encounter a bear in the middle of the woods, then encounter a man. The bear, much like dogs, are rather predictable and you can gauge their temperament right away. You don’t know what a random man in the woods is going to do. That’s arguably more scary than any animal that could hurt you.
Don’t get me wrong I would still be scared shitless if I saw a bear in the middle of the woods. But again it’s an animal. It’s pretty predictable. In that situation I would just try and get out of there. Yeah there is a chance that I could die, but depending on the kind of bear that it is most likely it’ll probably just be chill and leave you alone. But men? no way dude
11:40 "The propaganda didn't work on me" said the girl with the united states flag t-shirt.
Who definitely gets all her info from Fox News and InfoWars.
when will 'not all men' stop. like, we are AWARE it's not all men, that's never the point. I've never heard someone yell out 'not all dogs' when someone says they were attacked by a dog once. also people will actually believe you if you say a dog attacked you.
Also if you say you were attacked by a dog nobody asks what you were wearing.
4:45 I can absolutely guarantee she would not advocate for this kind of nuance when it came to trans people, especially trans women.
I absolutely cannot stand that woman
5:59 That comparison that the woman made to a dog bite was so stupid. I believe that a dog bites because it wants to survive, while a man bites because he wants to.
i love the part in queer kiwi videos where the plushies gradually slide off the couch
Can’t have a Queer Kiwi video without it😂
Same
I must say that I LOVE your intro because I always feel so welcomed when you say "greetings" because you sound so energetic like you're ACTUALLY happy to see me! THAT made my day!
"not all men" ok so let me get this straight, if we don't automatically trust men we are evil, yet if we do automatically trust men and something happens to us it's "why would you put yourself in that position, you know how men are", then there is also if we wear anything that's the least bit revealing we need to worry about our safety to the point we need a gun. So no matter what we are to blame?
Yep, damned if you do damned if you don’t
You should name one of these videos "Trying to conserve my sanity"
I have never even considered yelling at a human being for being kind and opening the door for me. I have, however, had men who have refused to walk through doors I open for them. That whole argument is wild to me
Exactly!
But men refusing to go through the door because you open ut is DEFINITELY toxic masculinity
its funny how she says that they have brothers and fathers. The number of times dads or brothers will tell girls/young women not to trust men they are dating because they're all just trying to get into your pants and they would know because they were young men and have friends who are men and know how they are is so common.
Yeah, and they say “I know how teenage/ adult men think!” So if they’re sooo concerned about their daughters getting hurt teach boys to be decent human beings and not make women feel like they’re objects
The fact they think that holding the door open is something they think we're mad at men for doing because it's "so masculine" makes me think that these women NEVER hold the door open for others or do any other small nice things for strangers because it's set in their heads that those are for "masculine men" to do.
That Lady J has a fuckin' doctorate in Pick Me.
With a minor in QAnon Studies
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jus started the video but what kills me about people who complain about minorities getting months literally forget that they DO have their own months. there is a month to celebrate women, there is a month to celebrate the military, etc. they’re not mad that THEY DONT have it, they’re mad that minorities DO.
My MIL is a devout Christian and also a passionate liberal. Her dad is a pastor, and she’s a Pilates instructor with two trans kids :D
I feel like you can think what you want, but if it's mean or disrespectful just keep it to yourself like omg
look all i’m saying is if i had to choose between being in a room of swifties or a room of christians, im spriNTING to the room of swifties
Same with drag queens and trans women vs christians
As a femme I have been yelled at by multiple men because I try to hold a door for them because they can't let a woman hold a door for them
I believe diversity scholarships are so important. People of color get overlooked for so many. There’s only one type of scholarship I don’t understand and that is that there’s no trans specific scholarships that aren’t exclusionary to white individuals. I am a trans person who is also quite poor, and it’s been a struggle to find scholarships that are trans inclusive that don’t exclude me because I am white. I understand trans people of color have it much worse than me, but I feel as though transness has definitely held me back a lot more than a white cis person and has kept me from so much.
While the woman hopping in and out of tiktoks to be anti-feminist is very annoying, the line “That’ll be because many women are only focused on a man’s..finances” was low key hilarious
Guys put themselves in the friendzone. If you are seeking more than friendship from a woman i.e. a romantic relationship and she isn't interested in that, move on.
On the topic of being scared of dogs after being bitten. We had a neighbor who owned a really aggressive chihuahua that often got loose. That dog consistently attacked by Dad whenever we went by and caused some injuries on his ankles. I do not trust chihuahuas.I caught myself assuming that somebody's dog was evil just because it was a chihuahua. It's not just men. Anybody will fear anything when given a reason to.
lol little dogs are often the ones the attack or at the very least, bark like a madman for no reason in the presence of anyone.
Before I knew I was trans, I was afraid of men. As a trans woman, now I'm just MORE afraid.
@@Vahlee-A To be honest, as a trans man, I am still afraid of cis straight men. The specification only because trans and queer men are part of my community, and I feel safer because I know that they have gone through a lot of the problems that I have.
Chihauhas are the canine equivalent of a guy with small 🍆 energy buying a massive ute thats heaps high off the ground.
what is so interesting is that I have never ever been upset that someone opened the door for me but I have been told by men MANY times, that they refuse to walk through a door opened for them by a woman. So if that isnt toxic masculinity idk what is.
I saw this somewhere else and I can't remember where but this is not something I came up with. This is most likely a paraphrase. So, there are four glasses in front of you, all glasses contain water but two have been poisoned, and you have to drink one. If you accept and are poisoned, it's your fault! How could you not have known the one you picked was poisoned? And if you refuse, how dare you! Only two glasses are poisoned, after all! What about the other two glasses with perfectly good water in them?
It’s a horrible game of Russian roulette
Those earrings give me Green Lighting vibes. 🤩💚⚡
On the dog thing: I've always had dogs, some of my first memories are playing with dogs. I currently have 3 pit bull rescues and I love them to bits. ~1 year ago, I got violently bit by a dog my friend was taking care of and lost a chunk of my thum. Suddenly I developed a fear of dogs, and now and I have a visceral fear response to any dog opening their mouth near my hand, even my own dogs. Their playful bites when roughhousing now genuinely scare me, and I get very nervous around new dogs.
The audacity to say the one bad experience won't recolor your feelings on a group is SICKENING
As a straight, white European male, I, of course, feel completely underrepresented in the stories of minorities and want those to cater to me as well. /s
I have a dog. I love my dog. I tried to help two digs that got loose from someone's yard. Wrangled them into my backyard and put up posters. Went to check on them with my dog (who was more than twice their size), after I put up posters to try to alert their owners, and they attacked him and bit me bad enough I had to go to urgent care. (My dog was fine, he didn't fight back, just tried to get away.) Called animal control on them and didn't look back.
I have seen several dogs that clearly got loose, and unless I see an owner trying to catch them, I just watch them go by. I don't trust strange dogs not to attack me. I certainly don't trust strange dogs that aren't leashed.
The thing is... yeah, not all men are going to commit sexual assault. But are the men who don't do it calling out and condemning the men who do? Or are they making excuses for them? Are they believing the victims? Are men in positions of authority working to make sure the men who commit sexual assault don't get rewarded and have their crimes covered up or dismissed so they can just move on to the next victim? Are men speaking up when they see rape, assault, or exploitation glorified? If men aren't being part of the solution, then yeah, they're part of the problem. Not as big a part of the problem as the men actually committing the crimes, but a part nonetheless.
The dismissal of Toxic Masculinity genuinely upsets me like nothing else. Because it's negatively impacted my life.
I had it baked into my societal upbringing. I can't confidently express myself so often because the "idea of what a man is and should be" way of thinking creates massive anxiety in me when I want to do things that are expressive in a non-masculine way.
The dismissal of it bothers me because it's erasure of my struggles and the known and unfortunate reality that this outdated and harmful ideology has stunted and still halts my expressive freedoms and mannerisms. But then also it allows said practice to be kept alive and potentially hurt others. And take away from them the freedom to express and act and be how they want to without mental barriers holding them back.
Anyone who actually defends Toxic Masculinity, and people who write it off as not real, are active abusers and terrible people, imo.
One of my best friends had a crush on me in the beginning of our friendship and asked me out. I told him, that I wasn’t interested and that I only saw him as a friend. That was 7 years ago, he got over me quickly and now we’re just really good friends
Lady J talks and emotes like an AI bot and I find it SO uncanny and uncomfortable
She emotes like a sociopath.
You being uncomfortable is your natural instincts telling you she's a potentially violent lunatic.
I love the conservative woman calling out...other conservative women and they're all basically making the exact same complaint but she doesn't seem to realize that the women she's insulting are already on her side. It confounds the mind I swear.
The argument about being bit by a dog made me think of another thing along those lines. I've encountered lots of dogs who are scared of adult men because they were abused by one as a puppy. Everyone who's ever been told this goes "aww poor baby :( of course it's understandable to be wary of men!" and not "foolish dog, doesn't it know that not aaaall men are bad? How misandrist!" the way we do with... HUMAN WOMEN
I think the dog comparison fits men perfectly. There are dogs that I've come to know and trust, but I'm going to be very cautious of strange dogs in case they bite.
“if a dog bites you are you scared of al dogs?”
Yes. Yes I am. My boyfriend has a husky mix and he has to put her outside because if she starts barking at me i will go into panic mode
i feel like conservative christians assume all other christians are conservative. like, my aunt is a minister of a UCC church (one of the most left wing branches of christianity) and she's really dedicated to environmental activism, social justice, et cetera, that's like a big part of what she preaches about and just generally how she lives. one time at a family thing, a friend of my conservative great uncle came up to her and started talking to her about how the bible is against abortion or something like that, and she was blindsided because that's, like, so far from what she believes, but this person just heard she was a minister and immediately assumed she'd agree. wild.
I had a DREAM about getting attacked by a dog when i was little and it made me scared of dogs for years. Yes I did get over that and I have an amazing dog now, but psychological trauma is a real thing and it’s not always the victim’s fault for categorizing an entire group of people as one thing
I’ve got a friend where a _lot_ of our interactions are us snarking each other but he still holds the door for me cuz it’s *polite?* I mean, he complains the whole time cuz my screwed up joints mean I get up the stairs slower than his stupidly long legs do but he still does it.
It’s not even a chivalry thing it’s just nice to not drop a door in someone’s face, especially if you’re talking to them. Idk what these women are on.
Can someone find Lady J’s man, and ask him to blink twice?
She's definitely single.
@@kateemma22Chronically single.
4:52 My grandmother was attacked by a dog when she was young and she is still wary of dogs, especially larger ones.
Trauma is a thing, people.
As a woman I love it when men hold doors open for me, that just means I don’t have to touch the dirty door a billion other people have touched. That doesn’t mean I can’t support feminism because I enjoy not touching doors.
The fact that calling out toxic masculinity is more beneficial for the man
Like say you can’t cry because you’re a man is not healthy
dude that botox lady is so unsettling
Lady J, the woman at 14:49, really annoys me. Not for her views or her beliefs, just the way she talks down to people in such a condescending way like she knows everything and she cannot be wrong - really snobby and arrogant..
Leftists worship Biden?! 🥴 When I voted for Biden in 2020, I didn't expect much out of him, and it turns out even that was getting my hopes up. I'll still vote for him again, because the alternative is unthinkable, but I LONG for a viable candidate I don't have to hold my nose and vote for.
This exactly is how i think about the two major parties in aus. I vote labor because its the lesser of two evils.
The thing about holding open doors to me has always been less about "women don't want men to hold open doors for them because it's patronizing" and more that men got it in their heads that showing basic kindness in extremely performative ways would make women fall head over heels for them despite any other personality flaws they have. And then when they don't they complain about being "friendzoned" despite being "nice guys". Seriously, if anyone needs to be told this, holding open a door for another person is not a difficult thing to do, affects your life a trivial amount, and isn't going to make you a significantly better person if that's your idea of being kind. It's fine to hold a door open for someone, just don't get weird about it and expect praise to be heaped on you for something so simple.
21:30 I don’t understand how that woman can say that women only want men to listen to them when in reality it has been the opposite since forever. It has always been the women who want spiritual and emotional connection and BECAUSE of modern feminism men are starting to keep up. And I don’t understand how she’s so obsessed with ‘masculine men’ and then says women are only looking at men’s finances nowadays, like, is that not what a traditional woman is supposed to do??
And ironically, it's the spaces that repeat the toxic masculine rhetoric that is why a lot of men are still behind like those that follow Andrew tate or alpha male/red pill podcasters. So it's really just toxic masculinity thats the issue here.
I love how they use the excuse of basic biology to hate trans and gay people. Like do you also not understand calculus? Modern physics? Do you think Emily Brontë's english is too difficult to understand? Did you never attend highschool? I pity them.
Oh, that's part of the grift. They insist that all science beyond a 6th grade level - and of course, all scientists the world over - are "part of the conspiracy."
From someone who lives in the south, everyone holds the door open for literally everyone. If you don’t, you get ridiculous side-eyes and scoffs. ‘Bless your heart’ type shit.
The study of biology is extremely focused on variation and atypical representation of perceivable traits. Whenever people say that biology is the reason they are against atypical sexual representation they don’t understand the basis of biology. As a microbiology major, I am constantly taught that who we are as a whole is made up of billions of differing and varying traits and systems with endless complexity, complexity is the basis of nature, and I guess some people are too rooted and ignorance to just admit that they are hateful
If you get bitten by a dog, do you view all dogs as a threat?
Yes. (at least if it happens when you’re young enough). That’s trauma for you.
I love when people say “chivalry.” I just think of Don Quixote fighting windmills.
Being a little too excited about 🔫s describes about 95% of Americans... And I say that as an American...
Have you seen the little britain in usa bit where the guy gets a little too excited about demonstrating those things?
6:04 'My dad was attacked by those police dogs (sorry, I know the name, but it isn't coming to me at the moment) when he was a kid and never liked any of them ever....and when I was a kid, I had a nasty experience with a Terrier and ever since then, they just make me nervous. We don't get on at all, crossbreed or not. People do judge all dogs, just like they judge a group of people over something, it is natural.
I think you mean German shepherds or Belgian malinois. Beautiful dogs, but I will not trust them either. I was never bitten by a dog, but not every dog owner is responsible enough for those breeds.
@@minachernobog yeah, that's it...beautiful arent they. My nan had them for years, I had two when I was a baby. They was fine until some local kids turned them nasty. But your right, you need to be responsible
My grandmother has been scared of dogs for about 80 years after a childhood attack, if she wasn't in another state and visiting was more of an option I couldn't bring my dog anywhere near her.
I always physically cringe, whenever I here someone say oh it's not every man, sure your dad, brother, uncle, cousin the list goes on may be wonderful people to the person saying that, but honestly people who are capable of such horrible acts, can fake a whole persona, with a smile and when they are not in your space, can become a whole different person, that you may never see, the mask is taken off, so when people say oh there are exceptions, so and so would never do that, how can u ever really be sure 🤔
"the friendzone" and it's literally just wanting friends and not having romantic interest in them
I can't freaking stand lady j, that condescending tone is unbearable.
I recently saw a tiktok where a conservative girl was saying she has "skin color preference". And she was claiming it isn't racism
Of my 42,000 yearly tuition, i got a $2,000 scholarship for being Latino and Arabic. Not only did my attendance alter the composition of the overwhelmingly white protestant campus, my own background brought with it a unique contribution to classroom discussions that added educational value to other students.
Grutter v. Bollinger - "student body diversity is a compelling state interest that can justify the use of race in university admissions."
Yeah, I do have a brother, father, grandfathers, and uncles I think are "good men" who would never... Didn't stop one of my uncles from being the first person to SA me (in the middle of a family event no less). Didn't stop the uncles who made comments about my body and how much skin i showed when wearing a swimsuit to a family pool party as a 12 yo. Just bc you think it would never be them, doesn't mean you're right. You never know until they hurt you
Those tik tok videos are true brain rot
4:52 As someone who was bitten by a dog on my lip at 4 years old, I was deathly terrified of dogs for almost 10 years after words. And yes, I viewed all dogs as a threat because it was a traumatic fuckin experience for me. Hope this helps! 😊👍