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I was gonna say 'imagine being AOWAB (assigned office worker at birth)'... and then realized that's basically capitalism 🤦♂️😭
Thats capitalism light tbh.
ASSSAB is capitalism in its purest form, assigned sweat shop slave at birth...
LMFAO
Oh god
I identify as two-occupied my projobs are Archeologist and Pilot... excuse yourself!
The only warranted response to a grown adult not knowing how to do their own laundry is "Skill issue." Lol
Weaponized incompetence.
IKR? I was doing my own laundry and mending at age 10.
Not quite. Cooking and cleaning are not skills you are born with. Yea weaponized incompetence is indeed a thing but people seem to legitimately forget *you only know how to do upkeep chores because YOU WERE TAUGHT by someone else* on how to do them, probably by your parents.
Not everyone has parents that love them and not everyone has parents that are emotionally present at all, and not everyone has parents to begin with! Like "not knowing how to do a certain chore means you're a failure" is literally the same argument as "they don't teach taxes in school because your parents are supposed to do that"
Like yes there are shitty people but making the generalization that *anyone* above a certain age lacking certain skills has "failed" somehow (that IS what you are saying by using that annoying fucking "skill issue" meme) is ableist at best, actively hateful towards some of the most disenfranchised people at worst. *I get that your target was probably only the maliciously incompetent people,* but the phrase "only warranted (you spelled "warranted" wrong, by the way.) response" does indeed imply otherwise
just, be careful with your wording and try to be aware of other possibilities.
@@SnoFitzroy It was directed to poke fun at people who use "I don't know how to do this." As an excuse, I get your meaning and I wasn't intending on being abelist, but again to poke fun at the people who have more than likely been given step by step instructions by their partner because that's usually the MO of 'My SO is so annoying' content and still go "Babe what do I do?"
@@Resilient_Sage88 Alright, so we're basically in agreement then. :) I definitely came out a little too hot there, but I will also admit that it has to do with how the logic I was describing (that I've noticed is worryingly common) being used against me, a disabled person who hasn't been taught these skills enough to do much of it alone 🤣
I need to stop posting before I've had coffee in a day lol
One minute in as a straight I really got my fingers crossed for this one! Guys I think this will be our episode where Kiwi goes “Wow they’re doing great! Good job guys!”
Just got to the three cups bit. It's not looking great, but there's a lot of video left. We can still turn this one around.
Guys… you can’t keep setting yourself up for failure
As a fellow straight, I had sadly abandoned all hope by simply interacting with my fellow straight men. This video didn’t turn that lack of hope around…😂
28 seconds in, I’m rooting for you guys ❤
I adore this comment. 10/10 no criticism.
The "robot wife" fantasy is always hilariously sad.
I'll confess, I was in a relationship with a guy who was having an affair with me (I'm a dude), and he made it plainly clear that it was about sex and ONLY sex.
Frankly, it wasn't even good sex. Because there was no "there" there. No real human connection. All he wanted was to get his rocks off. I kept going along with it because I was still of the mindset that "bad sex is still better than no sex at all"
It isn't.
It's crazy to me that so many people just want somebody to serve and pleasure them. How tf is that in any way fulfilling? Just get a blow-up doll or some sex toys or just watch porn. No commitment necessary.
I get what you mean, but different people feel completely different about sex. Some people see sex as completely separate from love, so they can have sex with someone without any of the "there" and have an asexual romantic relationship without problem because they just don't consider the two things as being in the same category. I could personally fuck some random person I barely know (as long as I know they're safe ofc) with no problem and enjoy it just fine, meanwhile my best friend has to love somebody before having sex with them.
The “robot wife” fantasy is also about power. Can’t feel like you’re in charge if your sex object can’t respond to your demands with a cheery “yes!” Or “of course!”
The baby recipe one at 5:04 is very obviously Photoshopped; the C and U are from "cups" and the M is just an upside down W. I'm guessing the original picture said "love" or something along those lines, and someone just edited it
Thank fucking god
This is why I don’t trust Facebook “friends” lmao
PHEW
It said "three pumps of love" instead of cups of c_m iirc
But the fact that someone decided to Photoshop it this way is still pretty disturbing
Once I was old enough (around 11-13ish) I was responsible for babysitting my brother. Problem is:
1. He was 2 years older than me, just a spoiled brat who couldn't be trusted home alone and would refuse to cook or do chores.
2. I am autistic & he is healthy. I was expected to boss my older, stronger, faster brother around and have him help me with chores when I myself was minimally verbal, had extremely slow reaction times, sensory sensitivities that he knew how to use against me, etc.
The fact that it wasn't the other way around is pure bigotry.
Do you have any relationship with your family now?
My oldest sister had to take care of all six of us, including my brother that was two years older than her. Though in her case my mother was usually there, she just couldn't be bothered to actually do anything.
Omg same, except I was a girl (trans man now) and my sister was the one I “babysat” when I was like 12-14 and she was 14-16. She never did her chores and we’d both be punished for that. I’m autistic too and would be down at the kitchen table trying to do my homework, not even aware of what she was doing up in her room. My parents just told me to keep an eye on her cuz she was old enough to make babysitters think I was the reason they were there, not her. She’d always get all buddy buddy with them and they’d let her do whatever she wanted, even if my parents told babysitters not to listen to her, only me. So at a certain point, babysitters just didn’t work anymore cuz she was that much of a trouble maker. So there I was, almost 2 years younger than her, and shorter than her, needing to watch her and make sure she didn’t set the house on fire (almost happened like 3 times as kids)
@@beesquestionmark you’re still a girl lmao
@@overlordfemto7523 Thank you for addressing clearly the most important detail in the story that just *couldn't* go undiscussed.
Yeah I'm from the southern US, and my older sister and I were parentified to hell and back. My first babysitting job outside of my little brothers was when I was 10. My parents drove my 10-yr-old self to a stranger's house, dropped me off with an infant if I recall correctly, and I was left alone for at least 3 hours. I fell asleep in the parents' bed because it was past my bedtime by the time they got home. Unhinged behavior from all 4 adults.
Sanest southern parents
Bruh.....
I grew up in TX in the 80s, by 6 I was in charge of my 2yr old brother. Literally beaten when he burned his fingertips by touching a lightbulb that had been on all night when I had turned my back for a second, BECAUSE I WAS SIX YEARS OLD. WTAF is wrong with the boomer parents.
@ulytia I'm sorry that happened to y'all and I hope you're thriving now
@@raspberryitalia3464 Thank you! I'm up here living my best Canadian life now 🎉
So funny that 'Gays against groomers' turned out to be Groomers against gays
With the robot wife thing, it's pretty beta and weak if a man can't handle their wife during their period
the one about school being for girls and not boys was so funny because for most of history reading and writing was seen as a thing only boys could do and girls were kept home
It’s the structure not the learning bud. Kids in general aren’t meant to sit still for 8 hours.
@overlordfemto7523 yeah I agree but that also wasn’t what either me or the poster really was saying
@@overlordfemto7523and the structure is literally designed for males. Males just love to complain about everything and play victim card 24/7
@@overlordfemto7523 Based
YES I audibly snorted when she read that because of how backwards it is historically
The Sydney Sweeney one if baffling because, what, two months ago? They were claiming she destroyed "WoKe CuLtUrE" with her cleavage and now they're turning on her?
Smooth brains... it would be so much funnier if it wasn't so sad 😅
Also like the paparazzi photo is also somewhat flattering in another way(ignoring the obv creepyness) like the abs she probably worked hard on to develop wasn't really in the photoshoot but it's more clear in that one. For conservative folks misogony and hate is far more important to them compared to "angering the woke"
26:39 As an Agender individual, I will gladly take up the mantle of education and work as an economist. Thanks TradWife, I'm glad you've affirmed my gender and that of my fellow enbies, who will no doubt take up the role of educated middle and upper class citizens with great enthusiasm.
i, as another agender individual, will also take this deal, i love uni, and imagine uni w just enbies, it'd be so accepting
Lmaooooooo yall really be living in fantasy land 😂
@@sofiessoulxI feel like academia is naturally pretty queer, or maybe it’s just major specific
Is it alright if you could tell me what Agender means? Ive tried researching but it just gives me stuff on being non-binary.
@@ArticPeril oh yeah sure! for me personally it means i dont identify with any gender identity personally, the way i express myself is not connected to any labels. this for me means any pronoun is okay, any expression is okay. i also don't get social cues so its a big mystery to me why things are gendered.
it is in the umbrella term for nonbinary, just one of those labels. if ur curious; you can reseach the trans spectrum and how there is also a non-conforming side! i can provide some links if u want :)
Lmao, I always loved telling people I have 2 dads. My parents are divorced, not queer. I have a step dad and a bio-dad. They are both dads, so I wasn't wrong 😂
Just like ✨Jesus✨
15:16 I think the joke is that the paint store just wants to protect itself from unnecessary returns, since a married couple should be in agreement about what paint they choose, and men often don't put enough effort into these decisions.
I've seen that before and I never even considered it being anything other than "haha men bad at picking out colors" all these other interpretations are so shocking? like yeah it absolutely could be something other than what I thought, but I didn't even consider it not being that !
To be honest the amount of thought men usually put into color is "hm, I don't hate that color."
I put enough effort into these decisions.
I don't care.
I work as an overnight stocker and at the end of the shift we zone the store. The amount of times I have to turn back around or uncover anything LGBT friendly is bewildering. Make-up bags with "have pride" printed on it, products during June with rainbows on them, Heartstopper, and other books that feature LGBT relationships. I sometimes play a game when turning stuff back around- "Is it gay or are people just a mess?" The book with the men kissing on the cover actually got removed from our store! But the book the book that looks like it's wrapped in bondage ropes is fine for the shelves. 🥴
So many disgusting men say they want variation but then use AI to make all of them look the exact same. It kinda makes me wonder what's their real goal.
The Skyrim modding community (and I assume other modded games) has this problem so bad. There are so many people that change the game to make the characters look heavily sexualised. Notably, there are far less instances of fans boasting about sexualising male characters than female ones.
Fr i love playing modded skyrim & that often includes visual mods to make the game appear more modern and appealing, but a massive issue ive run into when looking for mods to give the NPCs more HD models is that they ONLY change the women. Nobody ever wants to make the male NPCs look nicer, they just want to make the women sexier.
@@LilChuunosuke I mod Skyrim too, but only Legacy of the Dragonborn and Inigo and SKSE, so I don’t know much about graphics mods or visual design mods. But the Skyrim fan groups I’m in just have so many men posting pics of Skyrim women made “hotter”. They even assume everyone’s going to think that way. Like sure dude, as a raging sapphic, I agree Serana is hot but she is hot in the base game and looks better in the original game than whatever hentai-looking mod you’ve got there. Look how you massacred my girl.
@@LilChuunosuke and then I get accused of “gatekeeping modding”. Maybe idk, don’t make mods that objectify women? If you must make Skyrim characters look like they never experienced her harsh landscape and never saw dragons, you should make EVERY NPC like that.
@@LilChuunosukeThere are plenty of mods that have visual overhauls for male characters in Skyrim. A small percentage compared to the female characters true, but that's still quite a few, just change the search results on Nexus off from "most popular."
Aren't we all guilty of making our characters appealing to us?
28:08 The only huge difference I can see in Sydney Sweeney's appearance between those two pics is in the "at 26" photo her hair is wet from swimming, rather than perfectly styled. Dude, NOBODY gets out of the ocean with perfect dry hair. Maybe in the movies sometimes, but not IRL.
I think the only logical answer is they rarely ever interact with irl women and so their only source of information about women is movies.
That first guy does know he can pay someone to do his washing, right?
But if you have a wife, she'll get it done if she cares about the man.
Or go to a laundromat.
@@professorfoxtrotnah cause I care for my man but I’m not gonna sit and do his laundry for him when we both worked full time. We have to do two loads just of the time anyways so we just split it . Sometimes tho I won’t even do his . I get wanting to help out and I do cause he’s great but we don’t have to do anything for them. It’s just nice .
@@kaitlynispanickingatthedis3606he's a troll, don't talk to him
@@professorfoxtrot you are gross.
Growing up, I was told the oldest child needs to be at least 13 to babysit, but that could have been a "my parents" rule or it could be a Louisiana thing. There should be laws for age minimums.
I think some age minimums need to be raised, Canadian here and I regret to inform that the age of consent is 16 :/
Hard telling, all those laws vary by state. Where I live I have no idea what the age requirement for babysitting is, but I do know the minimum age a child can be left home alone is "old enough to feed themselves." So if a child is old enough to pour themselves a bowl of cereal, they don't need a babysitter. So like 3 or 4 on average.
@@jakeand9020god no my mother wouldn't even let my brother and I eat while we were home alone until he was over 10 (granted we were only alone for an hour or so maximum and she was usually just going to the shops) because she didn't want us choking and she knew I wouldn't be paying too much attention to my brother because I had never been the maternal/caring type so if he grazed his knee I'd give him a bandaid but if he was crying for any other reason I'd tell him to be quiet and stop bugging me because it was annoying lol
@@Evelyn-rb1zj I was expressly referring to the law where I live, in case you missed my point, the law is freaking stupid.
@@lynnboartsdye1943age of consent is 16 but the age gap has to be less then 5 years
Obviously the “my moms” statement in bluey meant the child had a two parent household with a female same sex couple I know that _(and people need to chill about that- same sex marriage became protected federally by the Supreme Court in all 50 states in 2015; that was short of a decade ago. So a kid 12 and under either has never lived in a country/state within same sex couples or at least was too young at the time to remember back when same sex marriage was ever illegal/not recognized. It would be whining acknowledging some kids have parents of different races in 1977)_
But it also makes me giggle a little that these parents also are faking outrage because if they’re homophobes they could just easily explain it away if they desired to .
A couple kids I’ve known said “my moms” or “my dads” as their biological parents were divorced / separated / broken up but have to coparent because of split custody but one or both of their parents got remarried and also have a step-mom/step-dad they CLEARLY also feel loved by.
With that said I can also imagine a child who was put up for OPEN adoption acknowledging both their biological parents and adoptive parents by saying “my dads”/“my moms”.
It’s literally a nothing they had to whine about even as homophobes
When I was a kid it wasn't uncommon for kids (usually boys) to refer to their (singular) mother as "my moms." (example "Can't hang out today, my moms said I have to go straight home after school.")
OMG NEW HAIR!!!! i love how vibrant the colors are, your hair is always so cool
A vibrant and ravishing... Clown 🤡
I finally realized I was AroAce not too long ago, and these posts and memes make me close my orifices even more
REAL
Same, mostly because I couldn't find a name for it.
The baking thing could have been cute if they made it like 3 cups of love or something. Until you got to the last line I actually thought it was cute
That’s why they’re not ok
That sign was fake, the real one isn’t gross.
I'm pretty sure they photoshoped it
Yeah, that's what it originally said, someone (...for SOME reason) edited it.
@@dekucake4395Probably reddit karma
I feel like, if someone thinks the robot wife is better, they would be doing the world a favor by only being with a robot.
Honestly hoping to put in a range of body types in my writing and let there be a character with big boobs where that isn't all she is. People of various body types and sizes exist, life be life. And people be living.
On a not straight though, I finally ordered a second hand copy of all 3 seasons of TOH so I can rewatch it without giving Disney money. I did also get Bluey a little while ago too, since it was only on Disney + and I wanted to get into it.
they finally realized they would be better if they marry another man
Yes gay men are happy, lesbians have the highest rates of DV and infidelity
I love that before you said that you need that connection that you weren’t ace. it meant a lot, aces are forgotten too often so thanks
Fun fact your brain does not have different chemicals for feelings you have for real people and feelings you have for fictional people.
The straights are never really ok 😔
Does anyone have a link to Kiwi's OnlyFans photos?
as the comment above me proves
bro if someone said that about gays they'd be doxxed, this shows how society has morfed into. D:
Don’t put all of us in there please.
Alpha males make the rest of us cringe just as bad. Please don’t put us next to them.
Can’t say other people aren’t okay when you don’t even know what a woman is lmao
I think I was maybe 12/13 when I started watching my siblings when parents were gone or at work. They are 8+ years younger than me. I was practically a baby raising babies.
Kiwi’s makeup and hair are popping so much in this video. Also, thanks (Kiwi) for the coverage of hetero cringe! You’re doing gods work.
Aight im absolutely a robotfucker and like
I dont want a slave
If i COULD have a real robot be my partner
Id expect them to be sentient ai
And be with me willingly
I like to have control over some things yes, it makes me feel safe, but over other people or my partners is not one of those things
If my robot partner aint in the mood then ill be like “okay ill go play games then”
Edit: forgot to mention
I am not a man
Im nonbinary afab with autism and hyperfixations on robot characters lol
Ok, but as a non-useless husband in defense of the paint notice one, we've tested it, and I can physically see less shades of color than my wife. And I now know that sky blue and baby shower blue are different.
this makes sense! men are more likely than women to have some form of color blindness and women are more likely than men to have the exact opposite - an extra cone allowing them to see more shades of color
27:28 Only thing I can guess is that her hair is flat, because water, and her skin doesn't look as tan as in the pro shoot. But who. the fuck. CARES!?
32:22 on the subject of aloy, i really recommend those who haven't checked it out to do so, horizon zero dawn and forbidden west's stories are very good
I love hzd!! I haven't played forbidden west yet though
@@LaifaCanyonLurker i haven't either, but i've seen videos talking about the story and personally, i like it
I've played both games plus the new dlc and they're so amazing! Honestly (next to The Last Of Us) probably my all time favorite games
So about the age requirements for babysitting: my state did have a legal requirement. You have to be 10 to stay home alone, 12 to babysit. When I was younger than that I would sometimes watch my parents' friends' kids while the adults were hanging out and I'd be in the other room playing a game with the kid, but that's because I wanted to and I genuinely enjoyed hanging out with these kids. I started actually babysitting (and getting paid for it) at 13 after having cpr training. I mainly babysat for these 2 kids that I'd known for their entire lives, their mom trusted me and was really kind and would always round up my payment (like if she owed me $40 she'd give me 50). I also babysat for my little siblings, but that was always a choice and I was paid $2.50 an hour for it so I had extra money to buy snacks. The only time I was "required" to babysit was when one of my siblings had to be taken to urgent care and I watched the other
Even in terms of staying home alone, when I was in middle school it was usually only for very short periods of time, like an hour or two. If my parents were going to be home later than dinner time, they'd get a babysitter. Even in highschool if they were going to be home later than midnight they'd ask a family member to sleep over at our house to make sure we're okay
(This is a parody of one of the posts in the video)
Advantages of a Real Person:
Self cleaning and repairing. No need for expensive tuneups or replacement parts unless catastrophic damage. (Disclaimer, if in the US the Extended Warranty may ruin you)
Unique perspectives. May help push your hobbies in new directions or may join you in them. Also may have their own things they can include you in.
Able to earn their own money, so able to help with bills and aforementioned warranty.
VERY long life due to Cellular Respiration. May even outlast the user.
The men needing a signed note to get paint joke is that men "don't know shades apart from each other" like for example periwinkle and robins egg is all just light blue to them so they won't care which is actually which and just grab one and go
18:33 Went to a show last Christmas with my little brother, where the stand up comedian host made that exact joke. The entire audience laughed, most of them were older people. My brother and I found it awkward as hell.
Fellas, is it gay to sit in a chair?
I mean I don't nesseserly agree with how the paint joke was phrased, and I don't really find it funny, but the thing is that it's actually like a little bit based in biology, because men statistically percive less colours due to gene(s) responsible for human perciving colours are on the x chromoseme. That's also why more men are colourblind, because people with xx chromosomes have a backup. It's also common for people with more then 2 x chromososmes to percive even more colours. It's also why womer are usually tasked with colouring in jobs such as animation, more then men. And I can kinda see it myself in my home, cuz we have 2 glases that are the same, but the colour is slightly difrent, and my brother keeps taking mine, because he says they're the same colour (no it's not an excuse, I can see he's being genuane) and a lot of guys agree with him, and women in my life agree with me. But it's statistics for general population, doesn't mean all husbends will be unable to pick paint colours and I can see the infentalisation and a bit of weaponise incompetance in it, and it can definitly play on like a hypercontrolling stereotype of women, whitch is very not cool. (Also feel free to correct me if I said anything wrong, I'm not a biologyst, I'm just an artist with special interest in colours, and the sciance behind them, but I'm not expert in genetix)
12:07 you know what they say: " fax dont care about your feelings"
I'll see myself out
Anakin looks like he got spliced with Johnny Depp....
Really? It looked more Orlando bloom to me
30:06 this is so weird to me. They literally made her less attractive. She doesn’t look like a regular human anymore, she just looks fake and unfamiliar. Humanity is so attractive to me and I don’t understand why it’s not attractive to these people
poor Aloy has been airbrushed to hell
fucking christ
4 YEARS LETS GOOOO
3:05
Wow. So creative (not)
Screw this planet.
Girl, I'm pretty sure the Star Wars meme thing is... like... a joke.
Like, specifically a joke ABOUT the men who use AI (and those who used photoshop before them) to unnecessarily and gratuitously sexualize things that didn't need to be sexualized.
Like... the point and punchline of the meme is that when Padme says "You mean like [x], right?", Anakin does not, in fact, mean "like [x]"
In other words... when Padme says "To make it better, right?", the meme is saying that what Anakin did is NOT making it better... and is thus saying that overt and pointless hyper-sexualization does NOT make the content better.
I love you, really, but... you spent four entire minutes just... angrily agreeing with the meme and thinking you were disagreeing with it, lmao.
To be fair Ai bros generally use memes incorrectly.
@@hannahleigh6152 True that.
14:35 I thought it was supposed to be a joke, flipping the sexism and showing how dumb it is. Like how wives had to ask for permission and have it from their husbands all the time.
Hey Queer Kiwi, I was wondering if in one of your videos you could talk about Operation Olive Branch. They work with families in Gaza and even have a spreadsheet with a list of fund raisers for families in Gaza in need. It wold also be great if you could shout out one of the families fund raisers.
The problems with AI go even beyond it being used to sexualise and objectify women. Since it cannot generate images from scratch, like an artist would if they were given a sheet of paper and a pencil, it scrapes the web for images that match the prompts entered, and cobbles them all together without the consent of the artists and photographers it scrapes from, to then put out the image you see. This includes any photos people post on public profiles and since the AI has no moral parameters or is advanced enough to employ them if it did this means it will scrape, say, images of minors in bikinis, along other images to give you a busty lady in a bikini. And that's beore even getting into how it steals from artists, including those who belong to marginalised groups. We are already seeing massive layoffs in the creative industry. And before the usual suspects call me a luddite or bingo me, there is no argument pro generative AI that I haven't heard yet and that hasn't been debunked already.
You did dye your hair since last video! It's so vibrant now! It keeps catching my eye
tldr; men should be at home doing all the physical labor of laundry, cleaning, etc because they're not sitting, and women should be going to their office job and coming home and saying "honey im home!"
25:00 Oh my god she is literally saying to send your boys to Jupiter to get stupider so your girls can go to college to get more knowledge
22:42 I hear you.... my aunt and her daughter seen to be in competition with each other about being pregnant. Like, she has 12 kids, her daughter just had a 5th lol...and her daughter is about 18. I won't go into the math with this one, as it is messy, but like, they leave thier older siblings to look after the youngsters while they still go out to work and everything else. It is a quite a bad cycle. The worst part is, each kid has a different father. They 'struggle'' to look after the kids, struggle to find a nanny figure and yet they still popping them out. I am not sure why the daughter keeps getting pregnant, as she always has the worst end of it, and always has the wort end of birthing. She had an emergency a few times where she came close, but just manages to get them out through C section, but it isn't stopping her. Both of them always use the older kids to babysit whether they want to or not. The older one has always missed out on tons of stuff and lost her friends because of it.
Wow
I don't think I could be bothered to keep up with the maintenance (and I also like my natural hair colour too much), but I admire the heck out of your dedication to rainbow hair, and it looks SO cool. I love your videos, thanks for doing what you're doing.
I know this was such a small moment, but I think about it a lot and the implications of it. My aunt and uncle have a 14 year old foster son, and a one year old foster-turned-adopted son. When they got the baby, they already had the then 13 year old boy living with them. The baby was an emergency placement and was only about 2 days old when they got the call about him, and they explained to the 13 year old that, literally out of nowhere, this baby would be coming to stay with them (at the time, they had no clue this would turn into a formal adoption situation). What I found so sad was that when the 13 year old found out, he immediately told them “I’m not taking care of that baby.” and the implications within that statement are heartbreaking to me. He comes from a large family and probably has had to take care of younger siblings before, or younger foster siblings from elsewhere in the system, and I admire that he told them right up front where he stood on the topic, but I find it so heartbreaking that he’s dealt with situations in the past where he’s had to take care of younger children, and that his immediate response to the situation was an expectation of bad parenting (because, yes, I think any parent or caregiving expecting a child to take care of another child is bad parenting and irresponsible).
It uh it would take a while to get to three cups >.
Having no age limit is wild to me. I know my family at least had a rule of thumb of you have to be at least 13 years old to stay home alone for a short amount of time, at least 14 to be left alone with siblings for a short amount of time, & at least 16 to babysit other people's children. The only exceptions to this rule was if you had a disability that make it hard or impossible to be home alone, you were over 10 & it was just going to be an hour or two after school, or you were sick in which case another family member would be asked to watch you & your siblings or a sitter was hired
Throwback to when my friend said "you and your boyfriend really do give me hope for straight people, you're so healthy" and then my boyfriend and I turned out to be both very bi 🤣
Btw not saying that straight couples can't be healthy, or that all non-straight couples are. Obviously. This was just funny.
I had to start babysitting my younger siblings when I was 8. They were 4 and 1 for entire days (8am-7pm). I had an older brother who was 12, but of course, he wasn't asked to be the babysitter. Sometimes my stepfather would be in the house, but he'd be asleep, and I'd be in charge of the kids, cooking, cleaning, basically everything that went into looking after 2 very small children. If we were even slightly noisy, my stepfather would come down and beat me for not being able to keep them quiet.
I will not be leaving my children alone until they are both at least 12, and they will have no responsibility other than not being unsafe, and it would be for a few hours at most.
when I heard that in bluey I thought that the kid said "mum's" as in like "my mum has" as opposed to "mums" as in "multiple mums" but I might be wrong
I think it was “my mums told me” implying to but idk for sure I don’t really remember
Considering the ridiculous way colours are gendered, I assumed the paint joke was "we're not gonna let men buy pink unless they're buying it for their wife, because men don't buy pink".
So ironic that all of these people who are carrying on and on about "protecting the children" seem to be doing the damnedest to raise their children into the most dysfunctional if not ignorant and prejudiced adults imaginable. If your childhood is the first 18 years of your life, it takes the REST of your life to undo all of the psychological, emotional and spiritual damage that your childhood caused. And these parents seem thoroughly determined to increase that damage.
I feel like the people who live by the belief thaf "women are emotional, men are logical" have taken the "men are logical" so far, they end adopting the "every interaction with any human ever is a transaction" mentality. So of course emotional connection is the lowest of their priorities.
everytime i see one of those "robot waifus are better than real women" really just shows the person's making those posts opinions on REAL women obvious aka they see 50% of human pop as nothing but objects. let them have their toys, keep away from real people
5:26 That visibly made me cringe. And I can usually handle cringy stuff.
It's hilarious.
@@professorfoxtrot
cringe reply
I mean you do live with yourself, I’d assume your tolerance to cringe would be pretty high
@@overlordfemto7523 do you hatewatch this channel or something? I keep seeing you in the comments and just picking fights here? I'm really curious
@mikethegoo nah I don’t listen to this crayola human. I just come here to make fun of you people
I don’t think people realize how much 3 cups is. Get a measuring cup , and pour 3 cups of water into a large bowl. Its so much
Are the straights ever going to be ok???
No. Not once. Ever. Nope 👎
(Family Feud Voice): Survey said- No!
I’m straight. I talk to other straights. The answer is a hard no.
Sometimes. A few (aka 2 of my friends) are okay. But all the rest? No
@@TTGGrave I am straight too and I approve this comment.
We can get married legitimately, have sex and make babies. Checkmate.
If the recipe for a new baby image was posted by a queer couple, we would never hear the end of it.
For the tweet about laundry literally most of the straight couples I know don’t do each others laundry they only do their own because they both agree that the women isn’t the mom and the man isn’t the son and vice versa it’s crazy that usually men except to have a second mom and not a partner and best friend
Eldest daughter syndrome reminds me of when I had to walk my little brother to school, miss my own school since we lived too far away and bringing him to school meant I missed the bus, and then pick him up (and do all the cooking and house managing) for a week when I was twelve....
you know what's even funnier? Aloy in game looks incredible. She's adorable and I love her
Australia has similar rules about needing a babysitter I think but I know my mother didn't leave us for more than an hour to an hour and a half during the day (where Mum was about 5 minutes away at the shops or something) and Mum told us not to eat until she got home until my brother was about 10 or 11 and I was 13 or 14 and we weren't left overnight until I was 17
Happy anniversary!! I’m very happy to have found your delightful channel. Here’s to many more years! ❤
When I was a kid I learned a long complicated story about our family. After my Great-grandfather died, my Great-grandmother began dating a black man. This was back in the 1940s in the U.S where it was not just frowned upon but illegal in many places for people of different races to date. My great-grandmother and her 7 siblings (idr how many were underage then) were taken away and put in a children's home when their mom married that man, and kept there until the two divorced. So at a young age, hearing that story, I formed the opinion that if 2 consenting adults are in a relationship, then nobody has a right to judge them or separate them if they aren't doing anything illegal (like abusing their partner or something.) And I still hold those ideals. I know I'm in no way attracted to the same gender, but I don't care if somebody is, it doesn't bother me, it doesn't involve me, so idgaf. I mean I'm not big on any couple who are overly PDA in public, but even if PDA makes me cringe, it's not for me to say anything. Idk how there's some people that are so obsessed with what genitals somebody has or who they take to bed.
24:02 There ARE laws in place. It’s the responsible parents who hire people to watch their children. I work as a caregiver/nanny/babysitter overnights for teens because that’s the law. But I do think that’s the exception to human behavior.
I love your videos and it's really nice to finish my day of study by watching your last one (I am from Belgium btw, so there's a bit of a jet lag)
All the places I’ve lived in the U.S. you had to be 12 to babysit and 10 to stay home alone. Some places I think you need to be 14 and take a certificate program to babysit a non family member.
..Ada minor
I started watching my siblings around 8 years old. By the time I was 10, I actually was the go-to babysitter for multiple families with severely disabled kids. That was three decades ago, though, and I don't think people have kids that young watch disabled kids these days. I made a lot of money, though - I could clear $100 in a weekend, which was a lot of money for a 10-year-old in the early '90s.
Sydney Sweeney is going to look hot for decades to come.
23:56 "If you are under 14, you need a babysitter"
Me who was left home alone starting at 8:😶
The "3 cups" person didn't want to be made fun of like the person who posted the same "recipe" with "3 pumps of Daddy" . Instead they're being made fun of in different ways. 🤢
It’s amazing the difference a year makes…in terms of suntan, hair, makeup, and lighting.
15:40 Without invalidating your view, there could be an alternative explanation: the typical joke that men only know 5-10 colors. "Chartreuse is a wine, camel is an animal, eggplant is a vegetable, what do you mean these are 3 colors wtf?". This may not be related only to men infantilization / lack of focus on arts, but on a different trope (I use the word trope because I don't know if there' sany real science behind it) that says the cone/rod photocells ratio has some correlation to *sex* (chromosome?hormone? is this even science?). E.g. "men have better night vision, women have better color awareness".
I started solo babysitting my younger siblings when I was 8 years old. I started solo babysitting other people's children at 11 years old. I was in an isolated religious community that didn't believe in birth control, so I often babysat 3-6 children at a time. When I was 14 I started babysitting 30 4 year olds with 1 other 14 year old. I cared for my younger sibling more often than my mom did, they started calling me "mom" whenever my mom wasn't around. What was my "housewife" mom doing while I was raising my younger siblings? Spending 3+ hours a day praying, and watching 10-16 hours of christian preaching programs while sitting or laying down. I had to bring her health tonics and supplements every 30-60 minutes & serve her 2 meals a day. I did all the laundry & all the cooking. My mom said she had/has chronic fatigue syndrome, that's why she was always on the couch or in bed. Yet she kept having children. The next girl to be born after me was 13 years younger than me, so I was the sole housewife to my mom & dad.
I love your videos so much!
as a straight, we are not ok
I think you might be gay. The straights will be just fine. The continuity of the human race depends on us.
The world needs straight people.
@@professorfoxtrot
"The continuity of the human race depends on us"
Riiiiight, that's why marriage and procreation is on a steep decline
Btw, many LGBT people can have children, and those who can't - there are already too many children being born with bad families
The foster system has too many kids without homes already
I intend to adopt when I get financially stable
@@JosilyneTwigg
my sole existence as a bisexual cis guy shits on his entire argument lol
You aren’t okay, the rest of us actually help society function instead of devolving into not knowing what a woman is
26:38 I’m… pretty sure this is how bee colonies work??
It’s actually quite nice to see realistic looking people with a wider variety of appearances, i especially women, represented in media. Especially because they usually still end up looking gorgeous, even if they’re not the patriarchal ideal.
Not the cishets being so annoyed by your channel 😂😭 your videos are great by the way love ya ❤
On the topic of young kids being alone. I was left at home alone from the age of 7. And I was also left at school for hours after classes had ended. I'm verry lucky that I had enough sense as a kid to not hurt myself or the house while alone. But I know for a fact that's not the case for other kids. Let alone what it does to your mental health. Zero out of ten all around and I'm happy to hear other country's have laws around those things
Congrats for your four years anniversary 🎉 love you
9:05 okay so I know this one isn’t about Anakin or Hayden Christensen (who I already think is a beautiful man, even in his 40s) but they did my boy Hayden so dirty in this “art” as well for different reasons than Natalie like they were trying to make Anakin *less* attractive in some way
9:05 I'm sorry but this one was funny, and as a sapphic I can relate. Y'all making it way deeper than it needs to be. Ever heard of rule 34? The internet is just like that.
yeah i think the meme was acutally AGREEING with Kiwi here
18:56 That's it everyone, this is peak boomer. Things are finnally gonna start getting better.
it shouldn't be crazy to me that there's a concept of lawfulness to leaving ur kids home alone/having them babysit but it is 😷😵💫
the youngest i was being left home alone was 4. my ma made us have a whole plan in place for what i was allowed to do/what i could make myself to eat/what i could touch, who i could answer the door for, and what to do if someone was trying to get into the house which as an adult looking back, sure, reasonable... if i werent barely out of the toddler stage.
i was watching my younger sisters starting when i was 6-7 (they were born a little more than a year apart) and then throughout our childhoods onward, basically 3rd parenting until i had a job that kept me out of the house longer than just a school day's worth of time. also up until high school i was regularly made to miss school in order to watch my sisters and/or be home to care for them when THEY came home from school. just little oldest daughter things 🕺🏽
The hair is AMAZING
Clown hair
Wait… other countries have age limits for babysitting and being at home alone?! I was babysitting my sister and cousins at age 9 and started babysitting for neighbors at age 10…. I did an overnight babysitting at age 10 I didn’t know that isn’t normal