that woman flat out saying, “if my son rapes your daughter” is seriously mortifying! 1) that’s a horrible threat to make, and 2) that woman is painting her son as a potential rapist, which is SO BONKERS TO ME?????
Her *FOUR YEAR OLD* son. Painting her children who aren't even old enough to be in kindergarten as rapists is abhorrent! Abhorrent doesn't even cover it...
i think it's stupid to care about romantic relationships AS MUCH as we do, because MOST relationships in our lives that are significant and meaningful AREN'T romantic. friendships, relationships with parents, siblings, other family, neighbors, fellow members of the community. i mean, yeah, romantic relationships are nice, if you're into that, but there are so many ways to have companionship. that AREN'T controlling or domineering or transactional (the way we tend to look at romantic relationships as a society)
I am a feminist. I'm also a stay at home mum to two beautiful children. I was married before having children. I have only been with one man. I am the anti-feminists dream, until I open my mouth because I am most definitely a loud mouth feminist. Feminism is literally just about having the ability to choose how to live your life. 50 years ago, this would be my only choice, but now I have more options. If I wanted to be a business person, I could. This is the life I chose, not the one that was forced upon me. Honestly, if it was, there is no way I'd be as happy as I am, even with the same family I have. I know if I said I want to go back to work tomorrow, my husband would be totally okay with it and would help make arrangements for childcare. Also, I want to add, that a man being a good, hands on dad is the sexiest thing possible for so many people. I find my husband the most attractive when he's playing with our children, when he's helping them with homework, tidying their toys, putting them to bed. It's so attractive to see your partner being a present dad.
Lmao yeah same with me and my mom. She was a single mother but took all her savings + welfare benefits to be a SAH mom to care for us around the clock. Yet these people would hate her. I myself met my current bf at 16 and we're still going strong after over 7 years. An anti-feminists' wet dream, but alas I'm sadly a feminist 🤪
The supportive partners who are present dad's never seem to complain about feminism or actively try and deny women their rights. Men who behave like decent people and act with common sense and respect seem to be much happier in life but that's my opinion. The irony is us women think that's the biggest turn on 😂😂
I also want to say, as a large-chested woman, 7:50 was so frustrating. First of all, it makes my heart ache for any smaller chested girls who have grown up feeling like they need to change their body. No! I'm a 32F for reference, and I cannot tell you how long I have hated myself for being so heavy chested. I was a C cup by eighth grade, and I felt so ashamed that I got minimizing bras and did any chest exercise I could find to try to make them smaller so I could be like others. Then in ninth grade, running in PE was mortifying. I had to put a sports bra on over my normal bra because I was so embarrassed. Even now I go to the gym and wish I could wear the cute, strappy sports bras that all the other girls wear, but I can't because I have way too much and need more support than a thin layer of spandex. Not only is it this, but the physical pain of being heavy-chested is the worst of all. My posture hasn't been the best because I spent so long trying to conceal them, and they have given me so much back pain. In short, never feel like you need to have a DD. You are beautiful, you are desirable, and I can promise you a girl like me wishes they could be as lucky as you. Very few women are satisfied with what they naturally have, so please embrace your body :) It is meant to keep you alive, not please others.
Another con is that if you have and breastfeed 2 kids and hit middle age as I have, there's a good chance of them basically deflating, like old balloons. At 5 feet tall and 110, having DDD- F sized breasts was often difficult- finding any clothes that fit right just never happened and bras cost a mint- but once I'd had kids and gravity truly took over, I'm left with something reminiscent of a couple of knee socks half full of mashed jello hanging off my chest. Now I have a size that fits my size and frame but gathering them up and finding something to keep them from oozing out everywhere is impossible.
One of my sister's friends in high school actually had to begin using a walking aid because her back couldn't physically support her chest. Some men and women are fucking dumb for not bothering to learn how hard having a big chests can be. Last I heard, she got a breast reduction and although I don't know her and have only meet her a few times, I hope she feels much better now
Another issue with large chests is how hard it is to know your size if you constantly lose and gain weight. I’ve gone through so many bra sizes I have to get UK equivalents because it’s impossible to get my size in USA unless I go online. Not to mention the back pain and having to take off bras so you don’t feel like you’re suffocating.
Honestly! I'm like a D to DD (I haven't bought an actual bra in like 5 years and I'm 21) which is a little over average but finding anything cute, fits, and is comfortable is impossible. Plus I'm a big girl as in both heavier and taller (chubby and 5'11) I wish I could find bras other than sport bras that I could wear.
No one hates guys who put their feet on benches because they're mansplaining. We're annoyed that you're putting your dirty shoes on places people are meant to sit. Instead of sitting, they'd rather make the seat dirty for the next person who might want to sit there later.
Exactly! I was just thinking the same thing they leave messes everywhere but they claim they built everything around us but they also keep breaking statues and polluting the planet. Now that they built everything maybe we can build less of them..
My dad refused to change me as a baby because he didn't want anyone thinking/calling him a pedo. That makes me more concerned than the dad holding his baby.
my auntie calls all 8 of her kids sex trophies and got mad when multiple of them told her to stop because it was weird and making everyone uncomfortable, people are so fun sometimes
I absolutely hate “pranks” that involve getting someone excited and then they find out it’s not real. Like the gift ones…. Or the fake lottery tickets…. Most of us experience genuine excitement so rarely in the real world… and to use that as an opportunity to laugh at someone is literally sick to me.
I love your titles, they're always so silly and fun gay. Literally only just started the video and already I can tell the straights aren't okay. First guy really thinks he invented a whole new type of relationship lmao.
The sex trophy one just reminds me of how obsessed with it some people are. Brings to mind the Lonely Island song where they completely destroy the kind of people who obsess over it with the call and response section in "I just had sex" - "But I cried the whole time" "doesn't matter had sex" "She was looking at her watch""doesn't matter had sex" etc.
it's just so freaking creepy. assuming it's not THAT kind of creepy, it's still weird AF. like, you're so obsessed with other people knowing you "got some" that you're gonna bring a whole ass human life into the world, so they can be your sex trophy and EVERYONE will know you got laid. MORE THAN ONCE. like bro, how pathetic and insecure are you? and also, it's so unbelievably selfish. cuz really? THAT'S the reason you had a kid? REALLY???? people have kids for the WORST fucking reasons
Had a great Valentine. Had a Galentine/Palentine day where my Mum made brownies and my friends and I played some Lethal Company to hang out. It was my first time playing and it was really fun! Remember, you can celebrate non-romantic love on valentine's day too.
17:53 thank you for talking about this omg 😭 i keep seeing people talk about how horrible it is when someone who's in a relationship likes another person's instagram photo and whatever and i'm just like. are we not allowed to find people attractive without wanting to date them??? or maybe they just like the way the picture looks in general. or they're friends with the person and want to show their support by liking their posts. like is it really that big of a deal
i used to think this way too and then found out some dudes really follow and like ONLY women in bikinis and nothing else... i mean ofc i wouldn't be jealous of that but it's just weird???
@@StasyaWorm ok yeah that is kinda weird if it's All they follow/like but liking one picture every now and then isn't that bad (at least in my opinion but ig everyone has different boundaries)
There are many guys who really just follow tons of models and hot women and just like their pictures. It's weird, I'm not a jealous person but I'd definitely not want that in my relationship. It seems disrespectful and too objectifying.
That is their relationship and their boundary and nothing you can force them to break if they feel uncomfortable with the huge number of taken men liking po_rnographic content on their social media because many are so p_orn addicted and often times even try to get into personal contact with them or compare their partner to them. I can already tell you dont know how many cishet men act online and simply dont care about a selfie of a woman "looking only aesthetically pleasing or cool". I cant stand this uneducated superficial and manipulative "youre just insecure" narrative that even these specific men use against their own partner and is hidden behind a "progressive, stop being controlling" facade. Exactly this talk that was shoved down my throat like every other woman forced me to get harmed for the rest of my life
@@huhs112 that makes sense but still im just talking about liking one picture (of a friend etc), ive never even mentioned porn im a lesbian and im confused whether all cishet men are really that untrustworthy to the point they cant even interact with their friends on the internet or all women who date them are paranoid
The most idea relationship to have is one where you can not only consider your partner your lover, but also your best friend. You're intimate, equal, and enjoy being with each other. Cishet men aught to try striving for that sometime, maybe they'd start having better chances with women.
Ayyy, perfect timing! Time to see what the straights are up to now 15:55 I think another way this could be read is as if the father is displaying them to future men as sex trophies that those men can “have for their collection.”
So I was thinking one could easily do a similar comic to "how a feminist sees the world", but replacing the thoughts of the straw feminist with the American Evangelical persecution complex.
About the girl who had a problem with her boyfriend liking girls photos: I have no problem with a partner liking regular photos of other people but my problem is (and this is from personal experience) when my partner not only likes and follow pages of girls who post themselves basically naked with their butts out, it’s mainly that he was screenshotting them and he did it right in front of me many times. It made me feel unappreciated and uncomfortable. But just liking a selfie of another girl isn’t bad, no.
@@Zectifinnot really? It's all about personal boundaries that need to be discussed. You are allowed to be uncomfortable with this. And then you talk to your partner about it and you can come to an understanding and decide if the relationship is right for you. The problem with the situation in the Video was not her jealousy but her pettiness and lack of communication
@user-mh7te6xi3p I did end up breaking things off with him because he was really disrespectful towards me by calling me names and basically saying that im not exactly his type but in a much ruder way, when I tried to talk to him about my boundaries.
@@Zectifintypical manipulative talk to make women accept mens po_rn addiction WHO THEY ARE IN A MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP with. There is no way you are going to call an actual boundary of someone controlling to manipulate them. Are you one of these men? Because they talk exactly like that. This is not your relationship. Respect for your Partner is important
I’m totally with you girl. I don’t get all this modern shit. I’m old school and I think thirst following others on socials and liking their photos or even exchanging them between friends is extremely disrespectful and gross. I love kiwi but I really completely disagreed with her whole view on that.
5:30 Worst part about this is the fact that they are LITERALLY AT THE BEACH. Like wth were you even expecting? Not only that but she wasn't just sexualising the 13 year old, she was also sexualising her 4 year old/s
Videos like this are like rollercoasters. They're unnerving snd kinda scary but weirdly exciting and fun to experience since we know we're safe cause we don't know these weirdos and they don't know us.
9:42 i love that youre so open with everything. talking about how you tried to figure out how to change your body to make yourself more lovable hits home to me. its also kinda nice bc you are very pretty and have a great personality (from what i, a youtube watcher in another country, can see)
21:58 dude it’s not creepy when I was younger and very tiny I used to fall asleep on my grandpa’s chest cuz he’s a big dude. it’s soothing to the baby because it’s nice. You can feel their heartbeat and they’re warm like a nice warm bed.
The whole thing about platonic life partners already has a name btw 😂 it’s called a queerplatonic relationship and it’s common practice in the aromantic community because they don’t want a romantic relationship but they still need that companionship. Like if he doesn’t want to call it that because it has ‘queer’ in the name that’s his prerogative but a nonsexual nonromantic committed relationship is not unique to that guy 😂😂
Redhead This is your term for me Your Stereotype, your agression When you have been called it all Raggedy hair whatever Well now I speak I am not bald I do not have curly hair I am not a person who dyes my hair Or 'unsure' I am not your words. I am not "redhead" I am a person with hair Who loves my hair But that doesn't matter Because my name Olivia
Ngl, the idea that straight men don't even have friends is really sad and would explain why their mental health is so bad. Having literally no friends or no close friends to hang out with or confide in sounds awful.
The first post could be a QPR, but I doubt he'd be the type to admit that to himself. Still, it's possible that he feels like his relationship with his platonic life partner is just different from how he would go about friendship. It's likely less about "he doesn't even know what friendship is" and more "he's very close minded" - as supported by the misogyny. 👍
The bloke complaining about being dragged around the mall 🙄 cos that’s what all AFAB people want to do. The only times my partner and I are in the local mall (about once a week) is to go to Game and HMV or as a shortcut to the station that’s out of the weather.
My mom, when I was a teen, knew how much I hated how my thighs looked, so she used that to convince me I was overweight and needed to start a diet and would tell me how fat my legs were. I was within my normal weight all throughout my teen years by the way, I just wasn’t as skinny as I was when I was 12-13 so yeah I ended up developing food insecurity, body dysmorphia, and an eating disorder Thankfully, my mom caught onto the eating disorder and realized what she did wrong and put me through treatment and therapy
Im a Lesbian Feminist, and even I wanna be a mom eventually! (Probably adopting, due to a history of health issues affecting the birthing process in my family tho) The only time I would say anything about a mother is if she is neglectful of her child! Or if she gave birth only coz her husband wanted her to have a baby and she didn't want to, but then I would say "Do you need me to call the cops?"
13:56 that is what some people are saying, and have said to me at these sizes If you're small (like, look like a malnourished tween in your 30's small) you don't deserve to see yourself represented in the same body positivity posters as fat people If you call yourself midsized, you're showing your fat phobia because you don't call yourself fat. If you call yourself fat, you're appropriating the struggles of actually fat people If you're overweight and enjoy your body, you're celebrating only being smallfat and that shames largefats And no matter what you do and no matter your size, your very existence is oppressive to anyone bigger than you
@Victori.A1 Just because..men can, doesn't mean that every time a man will. I understand where you're coming from, I really do. But this father has had no....ideas, in the past of doing that. the rapeyscapeys typically have a history of being freaks before they assault someone. But please don't just..assume every man is a freak. You can be weary, but assuming might put an innocent man's life in genuine danger.
So when a dude has a close guy friend bc he hates spending time with women, its straight and cool with the other dudes. But when two dudes just have a friendship, no hating on women required, then one is a secret gay? It just doesn't make sense.
ill never understand the getting upset at ur partner 4 likin other ppls selfies cause they think theyre attractive thing dude me and my bf of 3 whole years (comin up on 4 soon :3) constantly talk 2 eachother and our friends abt guys we see on our fyp we think r hot lmao
@@huhs112 ok im rlly confused wtf ur replies meant 2 even be saying, i was talking abt how straight ppl r insecure of their partners liking others selfies cause its apparently cheating and i was saying me and my bf dont gaf if we think other ppl r hot and we've had a strong relationship plus i never even said we looked at porn huh ??
@@playstatonz9215 i do not care about your relationship😭 That tiktok was NOT about simply liking random friends selfies to support them or because they look cool it is about men constantly liking social media post of women who they are s
Fun fact sir there are women on this planet who actually enjoy all of these hobbies. Straight women who enjoy ALL of these things. But then again, I can't imagine how you would see these hetero women; so you should probably leave them alone also.❤
Also wit da guy dat discovered male friendship, he does know women r not a monolith. Some would love 2 hunt n fish wit dem, n back in my cod days, der were married women who played. Dude has a set type in women dat he doesn't even like or have anythin in common wit. I have a hand disability i use phonetic shorthand 2 shorten da amount da amount of typin, thus limitin da amount of pain dis is a copied message
First guy needs to just realize that women can also have similar interests to him, just as there’s many men who won’t have similar interests to him. The lady at the beach was probably actually more concerned about where here husband/boyfriend was looking, and was just blaming it on the children
I'm fem presenting and have a guy best friend, I can't talk about him because everyone assumes there's something going on and I'm always like?? That's my homie and he has a gf (who's very sweet!) + I'm aroace and in the closet 🫠
The thing about a guy liking women's pictures and that guy's girlfriend seeing that as a threat is weird on so many levels. It shows that that girlfriend only sees other women as sexual objects and, on top of that, assumes that her boyfriend will only interact with other women with ulterior motives. Are guys not allowed to have female friends? Why is the first instinct to assume adulterous intentions? If you distrust your partner this much, you shouldn't be dating them.
THANK YOU. I'm so tired of people getting mad about jealous controlling men, and then they excuse jealous controlling women. That woman was definitely controlling. If she was willing to be cruel like that, then I believe she's done much worse. If you like that someone liked your selfies, don't get mad that they liked other peoples selfies. You're not the only person in existence.
I have seen that Tik-Tok video from the beach, but holy f*cking hell! I didn't see the whole thing! Or was it Part 2? I did NOT know she threatened violence and then said her son might one day r*pe that girl. WTF?? Who says that?! I feel bad for that 13 yr old and their parent, but more so for the 4 yr old being raised by such a person. I literally have no words...
Are men aware that there are men that like shopping and the mall and not hunting or fishing as well? This isn’t a not liking women thing, this is a you wanting to date yourself thing.
Yep. Just thinking of my dad who goes shopping with my mom all the time lol. Sure he doesn’t always like the same places at her, but get him in a bookstore or a record shop and he’s overjoyed lol
My dad loved shopping. He had more clothes, shoes and personal care products than my mom, who hates shopping. His tie, belt, shoe matching skills were next level.
@@Hana_HI like to do both❤ I love men stuff and women stuff..I have so many interests, karate, sailing, variety is the spice of life, just because im female doesn't mean imcant love doing g men stuff, sports, hunting, you name it❤
I'm a normal feminine woman, skinny but athletic I've always had muscle arms and legs I love using my body...pole dancing, aerial silks, karate...why I've always been skinny and I don't diet, I eat lots of fat foods etc. I'm probably bi,...I'm looking for my soul mate whether male or female..like in Chasing Amy, I wo t pass up my spulmate of its a woman..I don't care..
@joshuarichards8065 There's an unfortunate surge in parents being hyper aware of "gender roles" now because of all the fear mongering against Trans people. I mean, it's always been there, but the recent aggressive pushing of it is so ridiculous. I had a customer get angry at her son for wanting silly putty of it's pinkish color. Like wtf lady, your kid just wants to play with a toy that's been around for like a century, it's not going to give him "the gay". He looked so sad when she snatched it away from him. It made me want to slap her.
@@joshuarichards8065bought my first wall hanging art piece at 26. Never had posters or anything as a kid and it's kinda strange trying to figure out what to do with walls that isn't just hanging shelves everywhere.
I feel like that one guy may have been an unaware aro or ace, since he said he was happier single for years than he ever was with a woman. I mean I don’t want to assume or something, but it’s like, I feel like that’s common. I feel like I’ve heard it before from other closeted aro/ace people
I'm demi and I have had so many boyfriends I didn't even realise that's what they were. Even in the early days when I used to experiment with them because I was sure I was supposed to like something sexual I just couldn't figure out what. Now I know I'm demi I enjoy being physical with my partner but I still prefer the friendship part.
Yeah I'm an aromantic and ace spec guy and this is what I think too. It sounds to me like what he "hates" most about women is an unspoken pressure to participate in an intimate relationship that isn't right for him, whereas a queerplatonic relationship is. I hope he is able to get some information on these identities and maybe learn something if that's the case, and hopefully realize that women aren't the issue - it's just he was trying to fit a square peg in a round hole so to speak.
I think a lot of us didn't know it was an option. I didn't know what ace was until 3-4 years ago. I thought I was a late bloomer, or too picky, or had trust/commitment issues but I've always thought the fantasy is better than the reality when it comes to romantic relationships. They look fun on T.V. but I've never felt that way about anyone. The things people do for romantic attention is crazy to me. I've never understood how people felt such lust that they would risk STDs and unwanted pregnancies or have affairs that destroy their marriages, or breakup / makeup /breakup over and over again with someone incompatible. It makes absolutely no sense to me. I'm so glad I avoided all that hot mess.
That first post (the good parts) is actually life goals of mine. As someone who’s Aroace, I just want a best friend to share my hobbies with. A life partner but platonically.
that woman flat out saying, “if my son rapes your daughter” is seriously mortifying! 1) that’s a horrible threat to make, and 2) that woman is painting her son as a potential rapist, which is SO BONKERS TO ME?????
Her *FOUR YEAR OLD* son. Painting her children who aren't even old enough to be in kindergarten as rapists is abhorrent! Abhorrent doesn't even cover it...
my initial reaction to that woman was "who hurt you? why do you believe that?" and then "you should maybe not have kids"
It is horrifying, much more than mortifying!
It also heavily implies that she's going to encourage that sort of behavior in her son. That's extremely concerning.
If anyone said that to me I'd tell them that if they raise a child capable of doing that they fail as a parent.
I think platonic soulmates can exist, some people are just made for each other, but it doesn't have to be romantic.
i think it's stupid to care about romantic relationships AS MUCH as we do, because MOST relationships in our lives that are significant and meaningful AREN'T romantic. friendships, relationships with parents, siblings, other family, neighbors, fellow members of the community. i mean, yeah, romantic relationships are nice, if you're into that, but there are so many ways to have companionship. that AREN'T controlling or domineering or transactional (the way we tend to look at romantic relationships as a society)
@@bottomofastairwell well said!
Agreed, that's some good aroace soup (and all people in general)
I am a feminist. I'm also a stay at home mum to two beautiful children. I was married before having children. I have only been with one man. I am the anti-feminists dream, until I open my mouth because I am most definitely a loud mouth feminist.
Feminism is literally just about having the ability to choose how to live your life. 50 years ago, this would be my only choice, but now I have more options. If I wanted to be a business person, I could. This is the life I chose, not the one that was forced upon me. Honestly, if it was, there is no way I'd be as happy as I am, even with the same family I have. I know if I said I want to go back to work tomorrow, my husband would be totally okay with it and would help make arrangements for childcare.
Also, I want to add, that a man being a good, hands on dad is the sexiest thing possible for so many people. I find my husband the most attractive when he's playing with our children, when he's helping them with homework, tidying their toys, putting them to bed. It's so attractive to see your partner being a present dad.
Lmao yeah same with me and my mom. She was a single mother but took all her savings + welfare benefits to be a SAH mom to care for us around the clock. Yet these people would hate her. I myself met my current bf at 16 and we're still going strong after over 7 years. An anti-feminists' wet dream, but alas I'm sadly a feminist 🤪
Ya seeing your partner being a good dad is one of the sexiest things. Imo too lol
Exactly.
Watching my husband and son hug and say I love you brings tears to my eyes.
The supportive partners who are present dad's never seem to complain about feminism or actively try and deny women their rights. Men who behave like decent people and act with common sense and respect seem to be much happier in life but that's my opinion. The irony is us women think that's the biggest turn on 😂😂
I also want to say, as a large-chested woman, 7:50 was so frustrating. First of all, it makes my heart ache for any smaller chested girls who have grown up feeling like they need to change their body. No! I'm a 32F for reference, and I cannot tell you how long I have hated myself for being so heavy chested. I was a C cup by eighth grade, and I felt so ashamed that I got minimizing bras and did any chest exercise I could find to try to make them smaller so I could be like others. Then in ninth grade, running in PE was mortifying. I had to put a sports bra on over my normal bra because I was so embarrassed. Even now I go to the gym and wish I could wear the cute, strappy sports bras that all the other girls wear, but I can't because I have way too much and need more support than a thin layer of spandex. Not only is it this, but the physical pain of being heavy-chested is the worst of all. My posture hasn't been the best because I spent so long trying to conceal them, and they have given me so much back pain. In short, never feel like you need to have a DD. You are beautiful, you are desirable, and I can promise you a girl like me wishes they could be as lucky as you. Very few women are satisfied with what they naturally have, so please embrace your body :) It is meant to keep you alive, not please others.
Another con is that if you have and breastfeed 2 kids and hit middle age as I have, there's a good chance of them basically deflating, like old balloons. At 5 feet tall and 110, having DDD- F sized breasts was often difficult- finding any clothes that fit right just never happened and bras cost a mint- but once I'd had kids and gravity truly took over, I'm left with something reminiscent of a couple of knee socks half full of mashed jello hanging off my chest. Now I have a size that fits my size and frame but gathering them up and finding something to keep them from oozing out everywhere is impossible.
One of my sister's friends in high school actually had to begin using a walking aid because her back couldn't physically support her chest.
Some men and women are fucking dumb for not bothering to learn how hard having a big chests can be.
Last I heard, she got a breast reduction and although I don't know her and have only meet her a few times, I hope she feels much better now
Another issue with large chests is how hard it is to know your size if you constantly lose and gain weight. I’ve gone through so many bra sizes I have to get UK equivalents because it’s impossible to get my size in USA unless I go online. Not to mention the back pain and having to take off bras so you don’t feel like you’re suffocating.
Honestly! I'm like a D to DD (I haven't bought an actual bra in like 5 years and I'm 21) which is a little over average but finding anything cute, fits, and is comfortable is impossible. Plus I'm a big girl as in both heavier and taller (chubby and 5'11) I wish I could find bras other than sport bras that I could wear.
Flat chested girls are gorgeous and the Romans would agree
No one hates guys who put their feet on benches because they're mansplaining. We're annoyed that you're putting your dirty shoes on places people are meant to sit. Instead of sitting, they'd rather make the seat dirty for the next person who might want to sit there later.
Exactly! 😤
In a public park? I have some scary things to tell you about the cleanliness of public benches...
@@jacktadash Don't care you don't have to put your dirty shoes on them to make them worse.
They are the type who will also do it on a couch, chair, table, or bed. Shoes don't belong on these things.
Exactly! I was just thinking the same thing they leave messes everywhere but they claim they built everything around us but they also keep breaking statues and polluting the planet. Now that they built everything maybe we can build less of them..
It never fails to amaze me that men valuing their children and enjoying time with women is seen as being anti-hetero.
Fellas is it gay to love your wife and children?
Fellas, is it gay to love?
Fellas, is it gay to have a wife and kids and be a decent human being to them?
EXACTLY!! I'm so glad I'm a feminist
Fellas, is it gay to have a wife?
My dad refused to change me as a baby because he didn't want anyone thinking/calling him a pedo. That makes me more concerned than the dad holding his baby.
my auntie calls all 8 of her kids sex trophies and got mad when multiple of them told her to stop because it was weird and making everyone uncomfortable, people are so fun sometimes
Your aunt calls them WHAT!?
Woah woah woah bud SEX TROPHIES 😨
That first example is giving, "they were great friends, roommates even"
I absolutely hate “pranks” that involve getting someone excited and then they find out it’s not real. Like the gift ones…. Or the fake lottery tickets…. Most of us experience genuine excitement so rarely in the real world… and to use that as an opportunity to laugh at someone is literally sick to me.
7:50 "I wish you were this size"
"Bruh, I wish you were that size too"
"And I wish you were OUT OF MY LIFE RIGHT NOW and why did tge FUCK you date me then?"
Honestly best response to it. His girlfriend should find a large sports cup and be like "I wish you were this big".
“It doesn’t matter because my name is Olivia” at the end of that poem killed me 😭
If I ever heard someone talk about her sons committing sa in the future I’d be compelled to call cps.
She never fails to serve her looks
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6.5 at best. Shave the armpit hair, lose the rainbow shit, and put on some high heels would raise her to a 7
I love your titles, they're always so silly and fun gay. Literally only just started the video and already I can tell the straights aren't okay. First guy really thinks he invented a whole new type of relationship lmao.
The sex trophy one just reminds me of how obsessed with it some people are. Brings to mind the Lonely Island song where they completely destroy the kind of people who obsess over it with the call and response section in "I just had sex" -
"But I cried the whole time" "doesn't matter had sex"
"She was looking at her watch""doesn't matter had sex" etc.
it's just so freaking creepy. assuming it's not THAT kind of creepy, it's still weird AF.
like, you're so obsessed with other people knowing you "got some" that you're gonna bring a whole ass human life into the world, so they can be your sex trophy and EVERYONE will know you got laid. MORE THAN ONCE.
like bro, how pathetic and insecure are you? and also, it's so unbelievably selfish. cuz really? THAT'S the reason you had a kid? REALLY????
people have kids for the WORST fucking reasons
Had a great Valentine. Had a Galentine/Palentine day where my Mum made brownies and my friends and I played some Lethal Company to hang out. It was my first time playing and it was really fun!
Remember, you can celebrate non-romantic love on valentine's day too.
Working GAY through lunch, baby; UPSETERO
Also, that jacket is all that
17:53 thank you for talking about this omg 😭 i keep seeing people talk about how horrible it is when someone who's in a relationship likes another person's instagram photo and whatever and i'm just like. are we not allowed to find people attractive without wanting to date them??? or maybe they just like the way the picture looks in general. or they're friends with the person and want to show their support by liking their posts. like is it really that big of a deal
i used to think this way too and then found out some dudes really follow and like ONLY women in bikinis and nothing else... i mean ofc i wouldn't be jealous of that but it's just weird???
@@StasyaWorm ok yeah that is kinda weird if it's All they follow/like but liking one picture every now and then isn't that bad (at least in my opinion but ig everyone has different boundaries)
There are many guys who really just follow tons of models and hot women and just like their pictures. It's weird, I'm not a jealous person but I'd definitely not want that in my relationship. It seems disrespectful and too objectifying.
That is their relationship and their boundary and nothing you can force them to break if they feel uncomfortable with the huge number of taken men liking po_rnographic content on their social media because many are so p_orn addicted and often times even try to get into personal contact with them or compare their partner to them. I can already tell you dont know how many cishet men act online and simply dont care about a selfie of a woman "looking only aesthetically pleasing or cool". I cant stand this uneducated superficial and manipulative "youre just insecure" narrative that even these specific men use against their own partner and is hidden behind a "progressive, stop being controlling" facade. Exactly this talk that was shoved down my throat like every other woman forced me to get harmed for the rest of my life
@@huhs112 that makes sense but still im just talking about liking one picture (of a friend etc), ive never even mentioned porn
im a lesbian and im confused whether all cishet men are really that untrustworthy to the point they cant even interact with their friends on the internet or all women who date them are paranoid
The most idea relationship to have is one where you can not only consider your partner your lover, but also your best friend. You're intimate, equal, and enjoy being with each other. Cishet men aught to try striving for that sometime, maybe they'd start having better chances with women.
Tumblr user Olivia thought the "Down with Cis" bus post was real and made it her whole personality
Ayyy, perfect timing! Time to see what the straights are up to now
15:55 I think another way this could be read is as if the father is displaying them to future men as sex trophies that those men can “have for their collection.”
Not that it will likely ever come up again, but Yuengling is pronounced like ying-ling, so it rhymes. I've been drinking it since the '90s
So I was thinking one could easily do a similar comic to "how a feminist sees the world", but replacing the thoughts of the straw feminist with the American Evangelical persecution complex.
About the girl who had a problem with her boyfriend liking girls photos: I have no problem with a partner liking regular photos of other people but my problem is (and this is from personal experience) when my partner not only likes and follow pages of girls who post themselves basically naked with their butts out, it’s mainly that he was screenshotting them and he did it right in front of me many times. It made me feel unappreciated and uncomfortable. But just liking a selfie of another girl isn’t bad, no.
that still sounds like a jealousy control issue.
@@Zectifinnot really? It's all about personal boundaries that need to be discussed. You are allowed to be uncomfortable with this. And then you talk to your partner about it and you can come to an understanding and decide if the relationship is right for you. The problem with the situation in the Video was not her jealousy but her pettiness and lack of communication
@user-mh7te6xi3p I did end up breaking things off with him because he was really disrespectful towards me by calling me names and basically saying that im not exactly his type but in a much ruder way, when I tried to talk to him about my boundaries.
@@Zectifintypical manipulative talk to make women accept mens po_rn addiction WHO THEY ARE IN A MONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP with. There is no way you are going to call an actual boundary of someone controlling to manipulate them. Are you one of these men? Because they talk exactly like that. This is not your relationship. Respect for your Partner is important
I’m totally with you girl. I don’t get all this modern shit. I’m old school and I think thirst following others on socials and liking their photos or even exchanging them between friends is extremely disrespectful and gross. I love kiwi but I really completely disagreed with her whole view on that.
The Braids are a fab look. We need more of them.
5:30 Worst part about this is the fact that they are LITERALLY AT THE BEACH. Like wth were you even expecting? Not only that but she wasn't just sexualising the 13 year old, she was also sexualising her 4 year old/s
Videos like this are like rollercoasters. They're unnerving snd kinda scary but weirdly exciting and fun to experience since we know we're safe cause we don't know these weirdos and they don't know us.
i giggled at "upsetero" for way too long
10:36 this one is extra funny to me because in Canada (at least in Ontario and Quebec) it is expected for most stores to have that sticker
1:51 Just dudes being bros!
9:42 i love that youre so open with everything. talking about how you tried to figure out how to change your body to make yourself more lovable hits home to me. its also kinda nice bc you are very pretty and have a great personality (from what i, a youtube watcher in another country, can see)
21:58 dude it’s not creepy when I was younger and very tiny I used to fall asleep on my grandpa’s chest cuz he’s a big dude. it’s soothing to the baby because it’s nice. You can feel their heartbeat and they’re warm like a nice warm bed.
The whole thing about platonic life partners already has a name btw 😂 it’s called a queerplatonic relationship and it’s common practice in the aromantic community because they don’t want a romantic relationship but they still need that companionship. Like if he doesn’t want to call it that because it has ‘queer’ in the name that’s his prerogative but a nonsexual nonromantic committed relationship is not unique to that guy 😂😂
I'm sorry, but if I heard someone calling their children "sex trophies" (🤮), I'm calling CPS, because that is fucking concerning
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Redhead
This is your term for me
Your Stereotype, your agression
When you have been called it all
Raggedy hair whatever
Well now I speak
I am not bald
I do not have curly hair
I am not a person who dyes my hair
Or 'unsure'
I am not your words.
I am not "redhead"
I am a person with hair
Who loves my hair
But that doesn't matter
Because my name Olivia
😂
Ngl, the idea that straight men don't even have friends is really sad and would explain why their mental health is so bad. Having literally no friends or no close friends to hang out with or confide in sounds awful.
The first post could be a QPR, but I doubt he'd be the type to admit that to himself. Still, it's possible that he feels like his relationship with his platonic life partner is just different from how he would go about friendship. It's likely less about "he doesn't even know what friendship is" and more "he's very close minded" - as supported by the misogyny. 👍
The bloke complaining about being dragged around the mall 🙄 cos that’s what all AFAB people want to do. The only times my partner and I are in the local mall (about once a week) is to go to Game and HMV or as a shortcut to the station that’s out of the weather.
5:00 Heyyy, here's a thought, it's possible people should just teach their sons not to objectify and a$$ault women? Maybe? ...Too wild?
I just looked in the background and saw your straykids merch. Legitimately instantly thought you were even cooler. Stays are so awesome.
i feel like a lot of cishet dudes would love the concept of queerplatonic relationships but they would be put off by the word queer.
Also the baby doing skin to skin with dad clearly IS comforted because the baby isn’t screaming… 😅
That blazer is so cool
Just guys hanging around dudes.... Not a WOMAN in sight 😭😂
Glad I'm not the only one who wants to braid my hair but can't remember how lol. But that blazer is EVERYTHING
I literally just went over this subreddit yesterday and saw these posts, wish I waited a day and saw your video instead
tHIS TITLE GAVE ME WHIPLASH
I prefer the reverse of "bad thing in nice box" like nice clothes in a diaper box
The title is great I love it
Nice to know we do checkups for straight people but the result is mostly the same.
My mom, when I was a teen, knew how much I hated how my thighs looked, so she used that to convince me I was overweight and needed to start a diet and would tell me how fat my legs were.
I was within my normal weight all throughout my teen years by the way, I just wasn’t as skinny as I was when I was 12-13 so yeah
I ended up developing food insecurity, body dysmorphia, and an eating disorder
Thankfully, my mom caught onto the eating disorder and realized what she did wrong and put me through treatment and therapy
Your hair looks so cute braided!!!!!!
The blazer is super cute, by the way 😍
Omg I love the blazer.
Feeding the algorithm gods as that title is perfection
It is apPARENT that some people shouldn't be
I starved myself during puberty because I was scared of having big t-ts (afab non-binary)
i’ve never been this early 😭
Your jacket is fire!!!
The title of this video made me click on it instantly. Love it. ❤️ also, your hair looks adorable!
Do they not have yeungling in New Zealand or the UK?
Im a Lesbian Feminist, and even I wanna be a mom eventually! (Probably adopting, due to a history of health issues affecting the birthing process in my family tho)
The only time I would say anything about a mother is if she is neglectful of her child! Or if she gave birth only coz her husband wanted her to have a baby and she didn't want to, but then I would say "Do you need me to call the cops?"
tbh, the olivia poem should belong to
r/im14andthisisdeep
the title is ICONIC
that title is me
13:56 that is what some people are saying, and have said to me at these sizes
If you're small (like, look like a malnourished tween in your 30's small) you don't deserve to see yourself represented in the same body positivity posters as fat people
If you call yourself midsized, you're showing your fat phobia because you don't call yourself fat. If you call yourself fat, you're appropriating the struggles of actually fat people
If you're overweight and enjoy your body, you're celebrating only being smallfat and that shames largefats
And no matter what you do and no matter your size, your very existence is oppressive to anyone bigger than you
I mean I think I would definitely be weirded out at a nude beach when I was a kid cuz not everyone is raised the same but otherwise I agree 6:21
I am so glad I got my breast reduction and I would worry for my potential daughter having same or similar experiences I had
21:58 that person is right!
No they are not you can feed a baby formula and men can be the nurturing type. A parent bonding with their child is not creepy
@@newcoolboy4113 look up the rates of men, even fathers doing inappropriate things to new born infants, then we can talk
@Victori.A1 Just because..men can, doesn't mean that every time a man will. I understand where you're coming from, I really do. But this father has had no....ideas, in the past of doing that. the rapeyscapeys typically have a history of being freaks before they assault someone. But please don't just..assume every man is a freak. You can be weary, but assuming might put an innocent man's life in genuine danger.
So when a dude has a close guy friend bc he hates spending time with women, its straight and cool with the other dudes. But when two dudes just have a friendship, no hating on women required, then one is a secret gay?
It just doesn't make sense.
ill never understand the getting upset at ur partner 4 likin other ppls selfies cause they think theyre attractive thing dude
me and my bf of 3 whole years (comin up on 4 soon :3) constantly talk 2 eachother and our friends abt guys we see on our fyp we think r hot lmao
What does their monogamous relationship and boundary of not liking po_rnographic content on social media have to do with your relationship ?
@@huhs112 ok im rlly confused wtf ur replies meant 2 even be saying, i was talking abt how straight ppl r insecure of their partners liking others selfies cause its apparently cheating and i was saying me and my bf dont gaf if we think other ppl r hot and we've had a strong relationship plus i never even said we looked at porn huh ??
@@playstatonz9215 i do not care about your relationship😭 That tiktok was NOT about simply liking random friends selfies to support them or because they look cool it is about men constantly liking social media post of women who they are s
17:37 And if bf is taking it to the point where it's a problem, why do these weird prank gifts and not just dump him?
Fun fact sir there are women on this planet who actually enjoy all of these hobbies. Straight women who enjoy ALL of these things. But then again, I can't imagine how you would see these hetero women; so you should probably leave them alone also.❤
Amazing video title, i love it.
3:00 he could also just.... date a woman who likes fishing and hunting? someone who shares the same interests?
Your outfit is stunning! 😍
My girlfriend is letting me decorate our room all pink and white like a Barbie dream house. A straight man could never /hj
Also wit da guy dat discovered male friendship, he does know women r not a monolith. Some would love 2 hunt n fish wit dem, n back in my cod days, der were married women who played. Dude has a set type in women dat he doesn't even like or have anythin in common wit.
I have a hand disability i use phonetic shorthand 2 shorten da amount da amount of typin, thus limitin da amount of pain dis is a copied message
I’m really hoping the profile is him holding three trophies, it’s not a good joke but that’s the only way I can feel okay with that 😭
18:36 my bf and i frequently girl gossip abt our mutual celebrity crushes (we’re both a lil 🍓🎉) what else would we do? 😂
First guy needs to just realize that women can also have similar interests to him, just as there’s many men who won’t have similar interests to him. The lady at the beach was probably actually more concerned about where here husband/boyfriend was looking, and was just blaming it on the children
hi i love you :)
I'm fem presenting and have a guy best friend, I can't talk about him because everyone assumes there's something going on and I'm always like?? That's my homie and he has a gf (who's very sweet!) + I'm aroace and in the closet 🫠
The thing about a guy liking women's pictures and that guy's girlfriend seeing that as a threat is weird on so many levels. It shows that that girlfriend only sees other women as sexual objects and, on top of that, assumes that her boyfriend will only interact with other women with ulterior motives. Are guys not allowed to have female friends? Why is the first instinct to assume adulterous intentions? If you distrust your partner this much, you shouldn't be dating them.
THANK YOU. I'm so tired of people getting mad about jealous controlling men, and then they excuse jealous controlling women. That woman was definitely controlling. If she was willing to be cruel like that, then I believe she's done much worse.
If you like that someone liked your selfies, don't get mad that they liked other peoples selfies. You're not the only person in existence.
That makes Zero sense. What. And why are you making up fake scearios about the woman posting selfies and liking random men liking it
What a title
I have seen that Tik-Tok video from the beach, but holy f*cking hell! I didn't see the whole thing! Or was it Part 2? I did NOT know she threatened violence and then said her son might one day r*pe that girl. WTF?? Who says that?! I feel bad for that 13 yr old and their parent, but more so for the 4 yr old being raised by such a person. I literally have no words...
That dudes like “I DISCOVERED A NEW THING!” Describes being friends with his roommate.
Lol that was a trip
What next shopping and fashion lol
@@USSAnimeNCC- Woah woah... you don't wanna scare them.
😂🤣
Oh my god they were roommates!
Are men aware that there are men that like shopping and the mall and not hunting or fishing as well? This isn’t a not liking women thing, this is a you wanting to date yourself thing.
Yeah, and some women don’t enjoy shopping and going to the mall either
Yep. Just thinking of my dad who goes shopping with my mom all the time lol. Sure he doesn’t always like the same places at her, but get him in a bookstore or a record shop and he’s overjoyed lol
My dad loved shopping. He had more clothes, shoes and personal care products than my mom, who hates shopping. His tie, belt, shoe matching skills were next level.
@@Hana_HI like to do both❤ I love men stuff and women stuff..I have so many interests, karate, sailing, variety is the spice of life, just because im female doesn't mean imcant love doing g men stuff, sports, hunting, you name it❤
I'm a normal feminine woman, skinny but athletic I've always had muscle arms and legs I love using my body...pole dancing, aerial silks, karate...why I've always been skinny and I don't diet, I eat lots of fat foods etc. I'm probably bi,...I'm looking for my soul mate whether male or female..like in Chasing Amy, I wo t pass up my spulmate of its a woman..I don't care..
As a Straight, it means a lot that you keep checking on us. Thank you. Maybe one day we'll be okay. I hope.
we're all rooting for you all
stay strong! it gets better.
Have you tried conversion therapy? I suggest watching some Finnster and going from there.
@@jacktadash please don't tell me you're trying to force them into being queer because you kinda sound like that
@@indiumsandwich You missed the joke
Everything about this title is absolutely perfect.
Yes
Why the gay at the end? In place of “day” or?
@@Abby-ll2vkin place of "straight"
truly lol
@OfficerZ637 what's the fuck?
2:05 There’s friendship but also equally hilarious is when straight men ‘discover’ interior decoration and crockery.
I actually find it sad. Growing up as a millennial boys weren't allowed to express themselves in such ways because their parents said no to it all.
@joshuarichards8065 There's an unfortunate surge in parents being hyper aware of "gender roles" now because of all the fear mongering against Trans people. I mean, it's always been there, but the recent aggressive pushing of it is so ridiculous. I had a customer get angry at her son for wanting silly putty of it's pinkish color. Like wtf lady, your kid just wants to play with a toy that's been around for like a century, it's not going to give him "the gay". He looked so sad when she snatched it away from him. It made me want to slap her.
@@joshuarichards8065bought my first wall hanging art piece at 26. Never had posters or anything as a kid and it's kinda strange trying to figure out what to do with walls that isn't just hanging shelves everywhere.
The heteros have been making me upsetro all Valentine's day season. Now that's it's over they still aren't calming down.
Big old heard
@@moonshinershonor202small new deaf
They never calm down cuz most of em are too hornee
@@alexpercent is that the gay way of saying it? Cuz I kinda like tight new squeak
@OfficerZ637 ewwwwwwwwww
So, I have three points about the "sex trophy" thing. My first point: Ew. My second point: Ew. And my third point: ...Ew.
I have a fourth point - boom!
@@professorfoxtrot Yes rico, ka-boom! /ref
I saw this comment before I got to that part of the video and it was much more gross than I thought it would be.
That cisgender thing is like white people being offended by being called white people.
I feel like that one guy may have been an unaware aro or ace, since he said he was happier single for years than he ever was with a woman. I mean I don’t want to assume or something, but it’s like, I feel like that’s common. I feel like I’ve heard it before from other closeted aro/ace people
I'm demi and I have had so many boyfriends I didn't even realise that's what they were. Even in the early days when I used to experiment with them because I was sure I was supposed to like something sexual I just couldn't figure out what. Now I know I'm demi I enjoy being physical with my partner but I still prefer the friendship part.
Yeah I'm an aromantic and ace spec guy and this is what I think too. It sounds to me like what he "hates" most about women is an unspoken pressure to participate in an intimate relationship that isn't right for him, whereas a queerplatonic relationship is. I hope he is able to get some information on these identities and maybe learn something if that's the case, and hopefully realize that women aren't the issue - it's just he was trying to fit a square peg in a round hole so to speak.
I think a lot of us didn't know it was an option. I didn't know what ace was until 3-4 years ago. I thought I was a late bloomer, or too picky, or had trust/commitment issues but I've always thought the fantasy is better than the reality when it comes to romantic relationships. They look fun on T.V. but I've never felt that way about anyone. The things people do for romantic attention is crazy to me.
I've never understood how people felt such lust that they would risk STDs and unwanted pregnancies or have affairs that destroy their marriages, or breakup / makeup /breakup over and over again with someone incompatible. It makes absolutely no sense to me.
I'm so glad I avoided all that hot mess.
No i really think he's just a misogynist asshole.
1:38 Omg this is giving me ”They were just roommates.” and it’s the literal plot line of ‘Fellow Travelers’ lol
That first post (the good parts) is actually life goals of mine. As someone who’s Aroace, I just want a best friend to share my hobbies with. A life partner but platonically.
@OfficerZ637 Oh so Content Patcher?? they removed it for the newer YuTube
@OfficerZ637
Well, nothing can beat Crabbie Patties.
Same. I would love to have a partner like that one day! We could maybe even adopt some pets together!