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If woman are like children then you shouldn't date them.
Ohhh shit, they are all p*dos! Prolly shouldve realized it when we saw the venn diagram of men supporting these podcasts and men supporting child marriage was a perfect circle
"Alpha" males: That sign won't stop me because I can't read
They say women are like children, they practically want to date children, and they want to be treated like children.
@@FaizatheTempestgo to the kitchen where you belong
Exactly like are you saying you like children sir🤨
This is the most extreme example of "I need therapy but I am a guy so I'll blame women instead" I've seen in a while.
When he said that inner child shit I almost cried for him. Heavily agree
Kind of like how this queer kiwi needs therapy but blames all her problems on men instead? Funny how that works, eh lol
Yeah, the whole part where he accidentally revealed all of his issues and how he doesn’t deal with them “keep moving don’t think” was actually sad to watch. I know he’s a misogynist but this is the epitome of why toxic masculinity is so harmful to everyone. Positive masculinity would be acknowledging that you need to address your issues head on with a professional. I rejected therapy for years even as a woman trying to live that way. It will break you especially if you’re burying real trauma like me (r*pe/SA). It will come out in other destructive ways. He reminds me of myself years ago. When I was a kid I used to smack myself and trained myself not to cry or show any sign of perceived “weakness” bc I grew up in an abusive home. I can tell this guy has been through some shit. I’m not saying he was abused I have no idea but there are some serious issues he’s not dealing with. He reminds me of my dad too who has never talked about anything with anyone. Except occasionally when he’s black out drunk he’ll drop some horrific info about something he lived through as a child and I’m just like “what that fuck?? he’s been carrying that around for 60 years?” It’s truly sad.
@@ripwednesdayadams Like I am going to listen to a dyed hair lezbo and her worldview that are limited exclusively to her man hating world view. Radical feminist like her thought men will take it lying down, and you can attribute the changes to todays culture to gen Z men growing up on these bullshit indoctrination and waking up to what the fantasy they preach in school doesn't work in the real world by feminist teachers which are mostly women, and yes the resentment will run deep because of that. No one likes getting lied to especially by a bunch of incompetent women who runs society to the ground, it will be men who will rebuild it from the ashes, so we let these SJW do their thing and let them burn it all to the ground. Unlike women men will do very well being solitary, because we are used to not being cared for by anyone since the dawn of human civilization. One thing feminism will never do is earn women more respect ever because their entire virtue is based off self centrism, victimhood complex, and a me me me ideology of receiving but not giving back like the leeches they are, the stereotypical toxic qualities of female on full display. Masculinity build society for women, only for feminity to destroy society because they are leeches, history will repeat itself and we are all at the precipice of that.
@overlordfemto7523 yikes.
I'm gonna need people to stop attributing personality traits to feminine and masculine like that's the only thing that contributes to our whole personality
FR, though!
THANK YOU! It's always so bizarre to me that people see anything beyond aesthetics a masculine or feminine trait
**snaps snaps**
This is such a gendered comment /s
@@randomuserwitharandomname6183 TiS ObvIOUsLY a FemAnInE ComMenT bC fEeLiNgS
He sounds like a child being made to do a presentation for the class
Yeah, like he’s reading bad inspiration posters from the 90s. He’s a literal bot designed by misogynists.
Beyond his not having a cohesive thought beyond that women aren't as good as men. His lecturing is just really boring, I feel like him and Pearl would create really boring and messed-up babies together.
literally my exact thoughts 😂
He knows there are women police officers and firefighters? And construction workers, like me!also, does he realize there’s a word for being uncomfortable? It’s called disconfort
Omg construction worker ? That's so cool :0
There’s women in those professions that he just completely glosses over. But also there’s significant trauma in female dominated professions as well, like nursing.
He says that women being in those professions are "spreading trauma to society" (which might be somewhat true, statistically, but it would be just as true for men too). And that's why modern society is failing, yada yada yada.
@@Hyperlophus yeah, I’m a nursing student and we were told, immediately, a lot of people quit after their first year of work due to the stress that comes from nursing.
It makes me so angry when people don’t actually realise what it means to take care of people. You wanna know how we change the sheets and wash patients who can’t move. Whether that be due to obesity, mental issues or disabilities.
Since your a construction worker, DO YOU KNOW WHERE THE FUCK THOSE BIG ORANGE TOWERS COME FROM???
I like to bottle my trauma and then when it is ready to boil over, I can take it out on my women and children like any healthy male role model does.
Hahahhaaa
Dad? When did you make a RUclips account?
Truly the male model experience. Glad I'm not the only one.💪
@@Iamagoblingivemeyourstuff😂😂😂
@@Iamagoblingivemeyourstuff is this my brother’s account? *Did you type this from your room??*
What's this obsession with thinking being feminine means you accept being mistreated.
Idk, the patriarchy. White/Male supremacy.
Not sure, but it gives me the ick
@@Wonderoddity Maybe. Btw, I like your profile pic. It looks pretty.
@@catrakitten oh it’s such an old photo haha but thank you
@@Wonderoddity Your welcome.🥰
I think it's so funny that he said "women are delicate" over a clip of a ballet dancer... he's clearly never met a dancer off-stage lol. Dancers are badass and have a lot of grit and strength to do what they do.
Yeah I’ve never done ballet but I’ve known people who’ve done it, and it requires A LOT of strength and agility.
Definitely. Professional ballet dancers have more muscles than many “gym bros”. They need those to perform ridiculously exhausting and strenuous stuff like balancing their whole body weight on some toes while spinning and shit. There’s not much “delicate” about that.
Most women are delicate it's pathetic big time
That is not ballet dancers that is us pole dancers
@@HEALTHNFITNESSHIPPIEWITCHballet is a combo of not eating and only muscle
This man really said cops make the best dads
cops make the most fucked up children more like
Mfw 40% cops self report being a domestic abuser
it's true, cops are significantly more likely than non-cops to be great fathers it's been proven in studies. for more information google 40% cops
@@Our_Remedywhat study is that?
i feel like most misogynistic people are confused and or delusional
edit- chill you guys 💀💀
Ikr, it's almost as if they don't want to be misogynists.
most misogynists do ten lines before vomiting bs all over their mic so small minded incels can blame society and women instead of getting some help, cuz if they don't they're just gonna harass and sexually assault women
Yes. in fact, I would say all bigotry (like non-ignorant) requires a huge level of cognitive dissonance
I feel like most woke feminist are confused 😭😭
@@lokehoubo9428what are we confused about?
Personally I don’t want my partner to shelter me from the dark truths of reality or whatever he said, I’m a socialist and I want my partner to research and discover more knowledge about the dark truth of reality with me! I want us to learn more together, discuss and form our opinions with eachother.
You're a socialist. That means you want to replace men with the state. You don't want your man to shelter you from the dark truths of reality, because you think that's the state's job
Same, that take is super weird to me. As humans, we have to figure out the world around us whether we like it or not. When you’re in a partnership with someone and are willing to share your life with them, I would think talking about that life and what you each think about it would also make sense? Idk, but I would feel super uncomfortable having a partner who tries to “shelter” me from life’s truths, it feels almost infantilizing.
I need to know everything. Not knowing things makes me anxious. Idk if it is hard or upsetting I want to always know the truth. When I found out my dad lied to me about what happened to one of the cats it pissed me off. He said it just disappeared. Later mom told me it was hit by a car. Both suck but knowing it was hit by a car gave closure. I don't like or trust people who try to shield me from the truth. And I also don't like someone who decides what I can do or what I need based on my vagina. My vagina plays little part in my day to day life. I'm just a person with my own personality.
As a socialist too, lemme echo that! You shouldnt be with someone you dont see as your equal(you should still see all ppl as equals, but if you’re not that mature, own it). A lot of these men dont want a partner they want a fucking maid or a mother. Its been said so many times that its almost lost meaning but men need therapy
“Morbid intelligence abhors the cheery sunlight of positive thinking and eternal sweetness; and women must be sunlight and cheery and sweet, or the woman could not bribe her way with smiles through a day. Wild intelligence abhors any narrow world; and the world of women must stay narrow, or the woman is an outlaw. No woman could be Nietzsche or Rimbaud without ending up in a whorehouse or lobotomized.”
and
“Traditionally and practically, the world is brought to women by men; they are the outside on which female intelligence must feed. The food is poor, orphan’s gruel. This is because men bring home half-truths, ego-laden lies, and use them to demand solace or sex or housekeeping.”
- Andrea Dworkin
I am a cisgender woman and a paramedic. And I know lots of cisgender women who are in EMS, fire, and police. And LOVE it. So... 🤷🏼♀️
My Mom was in the EMS she told me some dark stuff she saw, but she said she loved it and wished she never gave it up((Hint hint she gave it up because the man in her life was an absolute douche and she had to became a single mother, thanks men))
@@daylight_virus5129 yeah, men definitely do that. My ex made me quit for a year or so and broke up with me when I returned to it. Them feeling emasculated by certain things is their own problem.
How weird that you're calling yourself cisgender...
@@steph678 uh... huh? I called myself and the other women I was referring to that because clearly the person saying hateful things would argue that the people I am talking about are trans women and therefore men.
That is definitely not what I think. At all. And you insinuating that is helping no one.
Morticians also! A lot of people in the funerary business are cisgender women. That’s a pretty.. interesting field that could be ‘traumatic’
I’m studying to be an embalmer & funeral director, so that’s why I know. (Im transmasc also)
Love that trauma is supposedly only passed down by women XD a lot of trauma would not pass down if more people went to therapy, and if men going to therapy was less frowned upon that’d save a lot of hassle for society
First one to pass down trauma to me was my dad. And oh BOY
I actually thought that part his point (kind of like a hidden sub-point) is that men are not supposed to take care of their children. Because these kinds of people seem to have a thing for the old ('traditional') gender roles and even if they don't exactly say it, it is still implied...
@overlordfemto7523 manual labour can be therapeutic indeed.
BUT (!) talking about feelings is the only way to learn to understand and manage them in a healthy way, especially if that has not been learned before (in childhood). That is a big part of what therapy is meant for!
Too many men let (negative) emotions lead their actions and swallow down any 'unwanted' feelings. If these feelings are not managed they will not disappear but grow, build upon each other and at the worst possible time they will erupt and cause harm even if they seemed minor to begin with.
Whatever it is - talk it out guys!
@overlordfemto7523men are people and people benefit from talking about their feelings
@overlordfemto7523 they were though and this is an issue labeling everything. Talking about your feelings isn’t an only women thing
31:44 “I don’t think depression for a man is real.” What the hell is this man smoking?
Idk man but if it makes you THAT detached from reality, it must be a hit on the street. I chose the wrong profesion, should've been dealing shit this fruitloop takes. This stuff knocks you out better than enough weed and Xanax to tranquilize a horse.
Then at 15:26 he says men are no longer balanced. Like chose a side
They're leading the sewerslide rates through the roof too
its really sick how theyre always like 'women just want bad guys' and its like. did you ever consider that those 'bad boys' probably love bombed her at the start and maybe you shouldnt be a dick to someone for getting trapped into an abusive relationship?
Sadly some people don’t know what love bombing is
@overlordfemto7523 Yeah and we don't talk about those women. Either way, they're usually on the 'I want to fix them' side. Vulnerability is rare to find in men, which I think is the appeal, even if that vulnerability is a fucked up desire to kill people. In other words, men are so 'anti-feelings' except when it comes to anger, that any emotion at all is considered attractive. I'm completely serious. And yet, it is a common misconception that people who do bad things won't do those bad things to you if you're good to them. Not so.
Yeah, I've kinda been of the mindset that if people I'm attracted to have been with assholes in the past, wouldn't that make me (hopefully normal) look better in comparison? I don't blame the people for dating assholes, I blame the people who are being assholes.
I've mentioned this on so many videos, but these "Alpha Male" guys mention what "all men want". Well guess what, I'm a man. I don't want a woman, nor a wife. I want to live a happy life with my life partner, who is a man.
@overlordfemto7523 have fun getting reported
@overlordfemto7523 I mean, Engineers are kinda scientists, they are constantly working with Physics and Chemistry.
@overlordfemto7523 Engineers are closer to scientists than Mathematicians, I am a mathematician myself so I’d know, have you ever looked at any high level engineering?
You'll get that happy life with either a future or current partner. I'm sure of it. 😊
💜💜💜
I hope it's a long, happy, and wonderful life.
All this guy wants is go back to the times when women would do both emotional and physical labor *for free* so that all of the money would stay in men's pockets and women would have no other choice than staying under the thumb of their male relatives (first and foremost father and brother(s)) and eventually under their husband.
This !!
@overlordfemto7523cooking, cleaning, childcare, etc… all manual labor for no pay. If they were forced into that role than yes, they were practically slaves
@overlordfemto7523 they weren't. If they were so happy why did they fight to get away? Why were so many women in the 50-60s on constant uppers and downers just so they could maintain what men demanded of them? And once again, research proves you wrong. The happiest demographic of people are single and childless women, I'm sorry facts hurt your feelings.
@overlordfemto7523 not true. When agriculture started to become a thing in humanity, bones in women show they were so powerful from all the manual work women had to do. And women have ALWAYS worked. I don't understand why men like yourself insist that things have been like 50-60s tradwife when that isn't remotely true.
Women have literally always worked a career, and they also raised children and maintained the house without their husbands help.
@overlordfemto7523 oh okay, so if things like washing dishes and daily tasks are so easy, why are there so many studies that show how little men pull their weight when it comes to domestic tasks and it's one of the biggest complaints cited by women for why they're divorcing him. Why is it that studies show that men do not pull their weight? And modern women with families are one of the most miserable demographic, that sociology calls what women must do "the three shifts" because not only must they raise children, but maintain the house and work a career while it's proven men only think they need to work. And to afford a family in this economy you need a dual income. It's crazy to me that there is so much research and studies done and out there that completely prove you wrong but you just dig your heels in. I'm sorry facts hurt your feelings, because based on plenty of studies, by your logic it's men who are the lazy ones.
take a shot every time he says "women want"
also he sounds like he is using speech to text AI or that he is just reading a cardboard in front of him
I also bet that he's not very bright, either.
That's deadly.
he just mumbles then when he gets toward the end he mumbles louder 💀
he kinda sounds like a first grader giving a class presentation 💀
Are you trying to give everyone alcohol poisoning?
It's ironic how a guy who's supposed to be helping men is talking about how they're supposed to carry the burden of every choice & difficult thing in life... like that's infantilizing for women but also putting way too much responsability on men.
This is especially concerning when we look at how men tend to talk less about their problems to avoid seeming weak, which really can really harm their mental health
@overlordfemto7523you don’t know that and men’s mental health is literally a concern. Men are offing themselves because they refuse to talk about their issues
Real interesting to learn that men don't get traumatized by traumatic things and my grandfather drank himself to death in the years after WW2 not from PTSD but just for funsies!!
13:44 The Japanese term is Karoshi which is death by overwork. The system is designed in such a way that taking earned vacation days makes people feel guilty.
And how is that doing for their fertility rate🤔
@@dangermouse4871 It's one of the worst in the world.
What he understands as dominance it is actually considered possessive behavior, telling you how you should dress, behave or live your life. Most people will see through these red flags and never engage in any way with a person like that. Before you blame the people around you why women are avoiding you, you should ask yourself am I the problem. You will never get a woman if you have a mindset like that, period. Learn to respect, accept and adapt.
You say this as though a domination mindset isn't the reason they're possessive.
this guy: women shouldn't be doing the hard work that men do
also this guy: it's so hard to be a man because we have to do all of this hard work
make it makes sense
He also wants a very feminine woman who’s also masculine. And she has to be a child, but be able to parent him. I don’t think there is any sense to squeeze out.
31:00 imagine going up to someone with depression and telling them that they only have depression because they are a waste of potential, like god damn. Way to make someone jump off a roof.
Dude I was telling my boss I'm burnt out because I'm autistic and it is stressful because I live in a world built to work against me and I don't even want to be here anymore because all I do is work and go home and recoup so I can work. And she told me firstly I need to stop being so negative. I'm like I'm sorry but being positive won't suddenly make being autistic and working full time a joy. It won't suddenly give me energy to have friends and a life outside work. I wish people would just keep their damn opinions about mental health to themselves. Especially people who don't struggle with any of it themselves and have no clue.
@@Dr.k0ckersmd not very accurate and portrays some not good stereotypes for a few of them.. but i like where you’re coming from!
@@Dr.k0ckersmd let's stop pretending mental health issues are "dope". They're not, we thrive DESPITE of them, if we thrive AT ALL.
Hey, my ADHD may stop me from studying or keeping any job as simple as it may be, but at least I have a dope disability! And my schizophrenia may make socializing with other people impossible and give me constant stress every second I'm away, but at least it's dope that my mind works differently from other people, even if that makes every aspect of life a struggle!
@megzasaurusrex
I don't meant to be rude but I don't think it's very fair to trauma dump on your boss and then bitch about her because she didn't tell you what you wanted to hear. She is your boss, not your therapist you can't expect her to cater to you like that.
@@LordDomielOfElysium it's not a stereotype they were compliments, they are not meant to be completely accurate. But good to know people can't meet people with these types of lives and comment, right?? Because your portrayal is more accurate right??
Men like him are such a sad case because they have fallen into this cycle of lies where they are utterly bitter but then never change because they believe it's the woman's fault.
"I'm single? That just means I haven't met quality women. People think I'm an ass? That's because I'm hitting them with the hard truth" and what's sad is that you can't even feel too bad for them because they spew such hateful rhetoric.
These people are beyong dialogue, they have an excuse for every aspect that goes against them.
The way that pickup artists their view conversations with random women is the same as those idiots who think a waitress being nice to them is an invitation for sexual advances instead of her doing her literal job.
I love the giant Leebit in the background with the pride flag
Yeah! I'm sure Minho would be proud to see it ❤
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We stan ✨
Stray Kids everywhere all around
the world 🔥
they have been through enough atp
why does that guy sound like a text to speech bot 💀
Oh my god, he does
Maybe he should let an AI write his script. It couldn’t be worse than this TikTok.
There is just a pervasive… sadness radiating off of this man. Hope he gets a therapist. And a life.
Id bet good money he's depressed. I have clinincal depression and what he says about happiness and depression rlly sound like the mindset of a depressed person.
I think the reason why so many people think certain traumatic events don't affect men, is because men aren't allowed to EXPRESS the affect and trauma, otherwise they are seen as unmanly.
@overlordfemto7523 How do you know they got better? As I remember, history is mostly men abusing their wifes and children. And killing other men, because someone said their hair was bad that day...
I wouldn't cosider this "getting better" more like "I can't understand or control my feelings so I bottle them up 'til they cause me severe frustration, which I'll later push onto someone else", but you can think whatever you want, my friend.
@overlordfemto7523 Reddit understanding of history?? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 This has made my day, lmao I've never heard this before 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@overlordfemto7523 You are cute, baby UwwU
@overlordfemto7523 And no... in fact, that was the only thing worth responding to UwwU 💗💗
@overlordfemto7523 You are just so adorable, aren't you? UwU
He talks like he is held hostage; some kidnapper makes him read flashcards. Which would explain the different views. Apparently he just gets kidnapped a LOT; one day by the left and one day by the right. Now I think about it; he has 2 parents I think about to divorce. His dad developed some weird views on women because of it; his mom tries to make him unlisten to his father. He is stuck between both.
Guy doesn't even know how to control volumes in his vids.
I'm sure that's just the start of the list of things he doesn't know how to control
Quite ironic that he's tweeting "go to sleep" to someone bc he always looks like he's on the edge of passing out from exhaustion
Men in the manosphere always say that women usually has at least 10 or more options to pick from. I heard this so many times in the past that it made me feel ugly because I don't have several options to pick from all the time. But it seems like I'm not alone with that. Sometimes when men say they are talking about all women they are only talking about a certain type of extrovered pretty woman who is popular. That is actually not the majority of women.
@@appleswithpeanutbutter609 I've seen a youtube channel in my native language (not English) where they said in one of their videos that "a high value woman always has hundreds of men to pick from". I think what they call a "high value woman" is actually a very small percentage of women.
@@appleswithpeanutbutter609 I know that many women get approached randomly, but not me. I rarely get approached irl, when people approach me, it's mostly online. Maybe I look better on my pictures than irl, because I try to look my best on the internet (I don't really edit my pictures though). Racionally I know that being catcalled and harassed is not something I should envy, but I still feel ugly a lot of the times because I was taught that if no one approaches you, it means that you're ugly. I would never say this to anyone else, but I tend to judge myself like this. 😅
@@darkphoenix7342I feel you. I’ve only been catcalled twice, and it was this weird conflicting thing of “ew” and “people finally perceive me as pretty enough”, which is a gross way of me to think. But as a teenager, I never really got attention from guys, and my crushes never liked me back. You’re not alone in this. Most girls I know only have 1 men that gives them attention (their partner)
@@romyjane17 I forgot to mention that in my culture It's not socially acceptable to talk to strangers on the street. Despite that catcalling still occurs to people.
And also I was on the bigger side most of my life and I have low self-esteem. For most of my teenage years, I wore all black outfits and I never had the confidence to wear croptops (not even when I was thin). Recently I started wearing croptops is public and at first I thought that people are gonna laugh at me. But suprisingly they didn't and the funny thing is I get catcalled more often these days, even though I don't have a flat belly and I'm not thin.
Bro speaks like ChatGPT. Vomiting out words without thinking or knowing which word comes after the next.
Nah because at least chatGPT looks at scientific sources
I know I should already know this, but when she said that small milestones are just as important as big ones, and you need them and you need your rest it was honestly so helpful to me because I've been struggling so much lately
even if we "should" already know something, it helps a lot to hear it out loud. I'm proud of you for being here and i hope things get better for you asap!
Love how he thinks someone can change how they express themselves like a flip of a switch. Like how are you gonna say women are actively making themselves more masculine? 😂 Like no, they’re probably just naturally more masculine.
Also masculine things are subjective, depending on where you go in the world, long hair might be more masculine, the color blue might be a woman's color, etc.. like, come on now
“That’s not a woman thing that’s a mentally ill thing” I felt that 😂
10:02 Hustle/Grind culture and Perfectionist mindset? Such cool concepts that doesn’t have *ANY* limitations.
P.S. He sounds like he wants to cry. The voice breaking is real.
Personally I hate being treated like I delicate & need a man or anyone else protecting me especially when people learn I have disabilities. Like yes I'm am very attracted to those who are strong & want to protect those they loves but that doesn't mean I want to be seen as a child who is incapable of taking care of myself by anyone especially not a woman I'm going to want to date or potentially marry
I guess comparing women to children is one way to tell on yourself 💀
Everything he said went straight over my head because of how unsure and hypocritical it was 😭
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Women shouldn’t have to deal with these “grimy aspects of life that have to be done”? Like cleaning the house? Great, then men can start doing that from now on so that women can focus their ✨ feminine energy ✨ on the nice things
My grandmothers had to chop off the heads of chickens to have chicken for dinner.
@@janel.8921 that probably really disrupted her "feminine energy" 😔
I was thinking, you mean like changing nappies, scrubbing the bathroom, taking the bins out? I divorced my abusive husband, brought up my kids by myself, and made sure all of them, male and female, knew how to cook and clean before they left home. That's not a gender thing, it's an adult thing.
@@kayew5492 I'm aware of that, yes. I was being sarcastic
One of classmates was one of six children. Her father seemed angry all the time. He was the first father I knew who swore at his kids. When her parents divorced, he wanted to put the four youngest kids up for adoption. Her mother refused and moved out of state to live near her parents.
35:52 I had a headache but feeling much better. Rolling my eyes every 5 seconds while he was blabbing really helped.
your comments are what live reactions in the comments should be tbh
@@KayokoSudou Lol I’m terrible at livestream based commenting
@@PokhrajRoy.you’re doing great lol 🔥
@@LordDomielOfElysium Omg thank you!
Guy spends 10+ hours a day on TikTok, "Now I'm an expert on everything!" 🤣
Agreed. You can easily tell that this guy has never held down a real job, let alone being in a serious relationship.
The last one about depression made me so mad. What about the famous men who suffer from depression? They often have exciting lives, beautiful wives but they still suffer from depression.
I’m a die-hard Linkin Park fan. Chester suffered from depression. It killed him. He was a rockstar, he traveled the world, he had money, a model wife and children. He had good friends in his band and outside of it plus a lot of contact with millions of fans. He didn’t have any of the “reasons” to be depressed that this guy mentions.
And Chester isn’t the only one either, unfortunately there are many other examples of men suffering from depression even though they’re what people would consider successful
I just listend to Linkin Park right before i watched the video. Your comment made me cry.
Btw i'm a guy so pls don't tell anyone that i cried cause men aren't allowed to do that, right?
He most commonly has about two contradicting takes on everything, but unfortunately, they are both wrong.
Very alpha, queen
By his logic I’m masculine because I’ve had to deal with trauma and “grimy” part of life Lmaooo
Me, a girl who is neither masculine nor feminine and dealt with emotional trauma: I broke the system
He sounds like he entered "Andrew Tate speech" in ChatGPT, then read what it generated off the screen
Hey Kiwi! I just wanted to finally take the time to comment and thank you for always including "nonbinary pals" in your intro greeting. It's the little things that really end up making a big difference. My fiancé and I love your channel, keep doing you! 🙌💜
“Women need to be the ones to heal men” …What is this an MMORPG?
when you view life as a board game, people as pieces and yourself as the player:
That guy is no chessmaster.
Whenever I was at my highest point of depression, I was actually extremely overwhelmed with life. I was not bored in any capacity. I was thinking about all the things I have to get done, all the things that could come tomorrow and the next day and years into the future, and all those things caused me to become extremely depressed and suicidal. Sure, having a mundane life isn’t for everyone but it’s something I would’ve welcomed at the time. I like routine, I like knowing exactly what I’m going to be doing tomorrow or next week or next year. It makes me feel comfortable and safe. Risks and unknown possibilities are what make my depression spike up.
If I am uncomfortable in a convo with a man, I ABSOLUTELY still smile and nod and look engaged because to do otherwise has a statistically high likelihood of ending with me being physically assaulted. Or at least threatened.
23:48 What’s wrong with someone’s ideal partner being a fictional character like what do you think media is for?
@PokhrajRoy. There's nothing wrong with desiring a fictional character as a partner. Most of them are better than real life partners.
@@catrakitten Lol I was being rhetorical but you articulated it nicely.
@@PokhrajRoy. Do you have any fictional characters that you desire as partners?
@@catrakitten The Men in Jane Austen’s Literary Canon.
@@PokhrajRoy. Black Widow from the MCU movies.
This guy wants a therapist, not a gf jfc 😂
13:32
I feel this. I have recently quit my job as a dietary aide because i physically cant anymore. My health has been declining, and i have been to the ER so many times at this point due to my nerves not wanting to regulate muscle movement correctly anymore to the point of them not wanting to regulate my heart properly, not wanting to let a limb move properly, or let it have sensation or weight bearing... because i cant NOT work, cause i cant get a diagnosis without money, and i cant get on disability without a diagnosis, and i cant go to the doctors to get that diagnosis because i had to work... its a vicious cycle and it drives me and a lot of others like me insane and towards our early grave...
I think there is this one lawyer and she only takes women as clients and always wears Pink to court and honestly I'd trust her with any case, she seems amazing
So we’re here to balance men’s emotions and be their support. Isn’t that what children need? Which one of us are the children then? I thought women were little children running through meadows and bouncing along beaches, now we have to support them?? WHAT AM I??
Man like him be like:" Man used to go to war."
Yes but like man died in the war or came home with ptsd so yes man did not want to go to war.
Also man like him say stuff like that and than frow a fit because they are hungry or what ever.
I’m convinced that none of these manosphere guys have never met a lesbian.
Derrick (that incel from Jubilee) also compared women to children
Straight to jail
It’s almost like there’s an ego maintenance session which is ruined by bad editing skills lol
i’m going to need men like this to start citing some sources and showing their expertise!! these claims are so out of pocket and they always state them like facts!! no sir, you getting your heart broken by a pretty girl doesn’t make you an expert 🙃
the way he talks about how men need to do the dirty, rough, traumatizing jobs, they need to just shut up, man up and handle his and everyone elses business. it cracks me up. especially because i would also big bet that he is one of those "look at the rate of male su*cides!!!! everything is so hard for them!!!! be nice!!!! >:(" as if society is forcing men to work those jobs
My boyfriend was listening to this video while i had it playing on my phone and he said (about you, not the chode in the tiktoks lmao) "They sound like a genuinely nice person. Like a GENUINELY good person." 😭 💜
Elle Woods, our queen, is the only representative of it and its still only in movies 😔
What they don't realize is that is worth it for me to not have to put up with their bullshit so much that I'd rather be single.
Savannah I don't know how you manage to get through this whole video. I adore you and I really value and appreciate the work you're doing and I will try to remember to turn this on later just so that I can finish playing but I gotta stop watching this right now because I'm personally having not a great brain day. But thank you for the work you're doing and I really do value and appreciate that and I will pick back up with you later
I know she’s a fictional character but seeing “Legally Blonde”‘with Elle Woods killing it as a lawyer in bright pink was so amazing as a kid. Even though it’s not real life sadly.
I loved how it progressed! We saw her as an 'overly feminine' Character at the beginning, and she didnt compromise it, but used it for her benefit. But as soon as she tries and turns away from it, she experiences backlash. Instead of 'manning up' she goes right back to pink costumes, eccentric behaviour and her cheerful Persona and Kicks asses. In all honesty, the pink costume was Just the pinnacle.
As a nurse i am confused with what he means that the police and fire department department that have majority of male staff are very traumatising, like those injured and deseased people will pass through the medical department and there are more nurse that doctors in general and most nurse are women so women experience as much trauma as they do. Also there aren't many women in those departments because of sexism and assault, women in military are very often abused by men
I'm a man, and work as a part time paramedic and I do LOVE my job. I do not view it as something I HAVE to do, but one I'm allowed to do.
Yes it is a job someone has to do, it is sociatally often understood do be a unconfortable job, but for me it is not. It has it's moments where I'm happy we have a CIT (crisis intervention team - basicly therapy at need be), and I've used it 2 in my career as a paramedic.
BUT, here comes the kicker, I love the job. I love beeing "the last line of defense" for someone in distress, beeing able to get somebody out of their worst day of their life fullfills me. Call me a adrenalin junky or whatever, but it is my understanding.
It fulfills me with joy and pride, that I live in a society where if someone is in distress they can call us and be sure they get the healthcare and attention needed to put them back on their feet.
To think of this as a job people dislike doing but do it, is such a disservice to the women and men I work with. I've yet to see a person who does the job purely for the money. All worked with do it out of some personal reason other than money.
I worked during my uni times as a waiter, and that I did for the money, not because the job fulfilled me (not saying that there aren't people who think that to be fulfilling just not for me).
The dude sounds like a person who cannot fathom the idea that there are other minds but his own. Eveyr person on this planet must think like him and if it is a thought he came up with, it means it's the viewpoint all others must also have.
This is so painful to watch. Its even funny how he talks about not putting women in situations that can cause trauma, but the trauma of dealing with misogyny is ok somehow. And doesnt he understand that noone wants to be in traumatic situations? Men and women sure dont want to deal with soul crushing shit, but they do because it has to be done. I mean.. of caurse he doesnt understand, because he is just another white dude with a podcast.... no, wait. He is also a very sad boy and that is tragic
Trauma that hurts women, but profits men somehow doesn't count in this guys world view.
You are always stunning savannah love your intelligent videos pick up artists are almost always misogynistic always excited to see you're videos you are an amazing woman
I thought her name was kiwi 🤔
@@AkiMare kiwi is where she from
@@AkiMarewhat 💀😭😭
@@AkiMareKiwi is a nickname for Savannah is New Zealand
@@miabennett04kiwi is a Nick name for people from New Zeland, like how Canadians are called Canucks.
"Women are like children" WHY TF ARE YOU ATTRACTED TO THEM THEN?!
Mentally…
I love this segment so much. You are a G for real. I watch your videos for inspiration and to build confidence my future content.
I love the younger generation. I learned so much
not me saying the intro with you lmao
frrrr its so catchy
4:46 dude was really going somewhere untill the misogyny kicked in. A lot of people start to mirror their partners that much is true, women especially if we're talking statistics. But not to "be children" it's just part of loving someone, you pick up the mannerisms in someone else you find endearing because you find them endearing
“But that’s not a women thing, that’s a ‘I am mentally ill thing’” is my truth😭😭
I have BPD too! It's always nice to see other borderliners thriving and living their best lives ❤🧡💛💚💙💜
He is taking it as red that women raise care for and influence children, whereas men don't. Which is a whole thirty meter massage in a stick red flag of its own. But that's why he doesn't worry. That men will pass trauma to their children. Because he does not expect them to substantially influence and/or interact with their children.
P s, he just expressed the idea that nurses us and being a winner are the same thing.
The video of that dude describing success was literally just my mental state in my teen years. I was severely mentally ill. No one who is ok thinks that, and if you think that I recommend reaching out to someone. I really think we should stop acting like suffering is a power and a good thing. It’s not. Simple pleasures aren’t bad and the idea that you need to suffer all your life for some far off idea of success isn’t healthy. It just feels like leftover Christian ideals of martyrdom. Enjoy your life. Be gentle with yourself. Pleasure and peace aren’t your enemies
5:15 No thoughts, only vibes.
P.S. That voice is great for A.I. that processes text to speech.
P.P.S It’s a word salad not available in Olive Garden.
It's so interesting that men are the responsible ones yet in the household all responsibilities not just cleaning, cooking etc all of them are on sisters shoulders especially the oldest daughters
This dude is literally what an aneurysm would be if it was a person.
Guy talks like he was never introduced to the concept of punctuation.
As someone who is a "high performer" in the sense of video games telling someone to not enjoy their achievements is complete bs. When I set a goal and achieve that goal I love sharing what I accomplished with my friends. I enjoy the fact that I got a platinum for a game, beat x game on the hardest difficulty, or beat my personal best time in a speedrun, etc. Yes I will have another goal in mind after but that doesn't mean I don't stop to enjoy my accomplishments before starting the next goal. That's something u should always do because u worked hard to achieve that goal & u should feel a happy about it. If ur just going from goal to goal without taking the time to enjoy what u did ur not only are u going to burn urself out but ur going to suck out the entire reason or reasons for doing it in the first place. I don't speedrun games or hunt trophies because I want to be a showoff but because it's something me & my friends love to do as well as just show each other the things we accomplished in our own playthroughs of a game
"when was the last time, you saw a woman in a pink dress in a leadership position?" UHM princess Peach???
Does he ever explain what girls / women are supposed to do in his vision of perfect H€LL? Is it supposed to be like in Gilead from Handmaid's tale or do girls at least get a proper education? Are women just there to pop out kids like in Naz! Germany or do they get to have friends / hobbies / really anything that makes life worth living?
Ikr
Yeah that seems to be pretty much what at least a large part of the trad/"return to tradition"/"Christian values" crew want. They've slowly been increasing the craziness of their rhetoric like noted gender traitor Pearl Davis saying women shouldn't be allowed to vote; it feels like it's only a matter of time before people start saying women should not be allowed to be educated. Maybe some are already.
Also yeah a lot of these people are definitely saying the same crap that n*zis were saying, whether they acknowledge it or not. Makes me feel like a lot of them are in fact literal n*zis who are just smart enough to not say that out loud for obvious reasons.
8-9 men?! I don't even have that many friends 😂
i watch your video while fixing my notes for school and it give me so much good energy so thank u really
34:02 some men desire to sleep with men
watching these sorts of tik toks as a trans gnc person is absolutely wild. they have such a narrow view of what performing gender has to be like- it honestly seems like a really awful existence to be stuck viewing every aspect of your personality and your path in life as something determined by the body you were born with
Yes I found this video earlier then earlier. Love your videos
“If you’ve been up all night and cried till you have no more tears left in you - you will know that there comes in the end a sort of quietness. You feel as if nothing is ever going to happen again.” - C.S. Lewis
I don't know how anyone could watch this with a straight face, and I am horrified to know that some people can and do.
I love your intro so much! ❤ I literally live for it
Wait until you binge watch her videos and the repetitive pitch (not the words but the pitch) becomes pretty annoying 😅
I see that but I think most intros become annoying after watching them back to back lol
This dude legit tells on himself in every video. 😂😂😂
“Men only become depressed when they’re bored” that explains my hubby going through depressed thoughts and trying to deal with burnout from living a hectic life (no, it doesn’t explain anything, this guy has no clue what he’s talking about). He’s content with our lives, what goes on inside has nothing to do with either of us.
The first tiktok and I'm already laughing in disbelief. How do these people exist where they think women are LIKE CHILDREN????? 😭😭😭