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15:54 "Dogs don't mind when you call them by another dog's name" "If a dog smells another dog on you, they don't care" "Dogs don't leave and take half of your stuff" this guy cheated on his partner didn't he
For the little girls in a photo holding a "no boyfriends until I turn 30" poster... joke's on dad if they end up one with a girlfriend and the other ace/aro/both. Would make a great "then vs now" post on r/maliciouscompliance in about 25 years.
The dog sign made me so uncomfortable. I grew up with dogs, and I worked with them too. That sign is 100% inaccurate. Dogs get sad when you leave them alone too long, and can destroy your house if they feel abandoned because you get home late. Dogs can get jealous if you've been meeting other dogs. Dogs can be incredibly clingy and possessive. Dogs don't like drunks, especially since some drunks are aggressive and will hurt the dog as well. The dog groomer that put that sign up should be ashamed of themself. If I saw that sign at a dog groomer, I'd find a different groomer for my dog.
That's what I was thinking too As someone who, at one point, had a dog who's been severely neglected If you don't take care of your dog and your relationship with it, it's not gonna like you, or want to be around you, or act the way u want to.
I agree!! My dog was kept by my parents (my mom's dog had babies) because I have high anxiety especially at night and when alone. So my dog is a protector (tho acts like a big cuddle baby 90% of the time) but he HATES drunk people. If you get to drunk (especially if he doesn't know you well) he gets protective and sometimes anxious.
@@frankisnot1148my pops doesn't take care of his dogs. They're untrained, have shock collars, and are kept in a kennel most of the time. I ended up crying when dad took one to get "hunting training" and saw him tied to a pole. He never took the dog hunting. He can't take care of dogs, yet insists on getting more.
It varies depending on the particular guy doing the asking... but from what I can tell, guys who are pressured into it get that pressure from some combination of family, friends, general societal assumptions and expectations, toxic masculinity, and/or wanting a live-in housekeeper/bedmate for only the cost of her room and board. 🙄
@@HumbleWooper or maybe people love eachother when they do it? Marriage is not a never ending fairy tale where everyone always agrees, but they work through it out of love, these things you see on the internet are not representative of real life, lol…go talk to real married couples
@@RaidenMustDie3594 well they didn’t say all marriages were that way, we’re talking about the ones like in the video which believe it or not do exist in reality unfortunately
@@RaidenMustDie3594 we aren't talking about happy willingly married people we talk about people who hate marriage or their partners but still get married. We also know that they don't represent "real married couples" whatever that shit means, but we also are around those kind of married couples
my dad used to make no dating till your 30 jokes at my sister. He started dating my mom in high school they had me (I'm the older one) at 25. Logic checks out.
the same people who are like "my daughter aint dating till shes 30" are the same kinda people who say shit like "oh is that your little boyfriend/girlfriend?" when theyre toddlers and just generally very young children who are close friends with another kid of the same age and opposite gender. the type of dad saying "my daughter aint dating till 30" is the type of dad to take his 5, 6, and 7 year old sons to Hooters and take pics of them all close with the waitresses saying shit like "ooo you boys are gonna be some ladykillers huh!?" theyre also the kind of people who would have an absolute conniption fit if two boys/girls wanted to have a make-believe wedding and play house. beyond that, what if two boys/girls playing marriage/wedding/house together had lgbtq+ parents!? i cant even begin to imagine the horrifying kind and quantity of grooming/p*d0 accusations that would be imposed on them. absolutely sickeningly hypocritical. TW: discussion of experiences of SA/abuse in thread
Show us one example of a dad who says "my daughter aint dating till 30"and also takes his sons to Hooters? Coz it sounds like you pulled it out of your ass
My father had a shirt which said something like "back off my daughter, you're not aloud around her" and I was just 3/4 years old when he had that shirt...
My dad was the type of guy to threaten any guy I brought home with violence. Like I would bring this perfectly nice guy home, all of which were just friends, and my dad would say shit like “Whatever you do to her, I’ll do to you.” and “Aww, you got a new boyfriend? In completely unrelated news, I got a new gun.” It got to the point where my male friends didn’t want to hang out at my house anymore, because my dad would watch them like a hawk and make vaguely threatening offhanded comments, I asked him to stop multiple times but he would either deny actually meaning the threats and play them off as jokes, or he would say something like “I’m just trying to protect you from this world, boys only want one thing.” You know, real cliche shit. Thing is, I haven’t seen my dad since I was 13, so my dad was threatening middle school students, classy move, dad.
My ex stepdad was one of those guys, saying I can't date till I'm super old. He then turned around n started sa'ing me at 10 and told me it was better to learn that from him than some random man one day. So yeah. Those kinds of people are fucked up.
6:46 The contract with the footprints is very unfair, because the dad is much closer to 30 or maybe even there at the time, so he can get a boyfriend way sooner.
Me and my 2 besties played as 3 wifes when we were like 10-12 years old. I even proposed to one of them(i had a chush on her but didn't realize that yet lol) on my birthday, it was something like "Will you be my best friend forever and forever?" and she said yes! Then i gave both of them "gold" rings LMAO 😭
@@nicusilly Likely because without straight people humanity will go extinct or just become too generic and identical. That was a poor joke, but in all honesty, why would you be Lesbian? Why did people change the definition of Gay from meaning happy or great or good, to mean same sex relationship? “When Johnny comes marchin home again Hoo-Rah! Hoo-Rah! We’ll give him a hearty welcome Hoo-Rah! Hoo-Rah! The men will cheer, the boys will shout, the ladies, they will all turnout and we’ll all feel gay when Johnny comes marching home again!” ~ Opening to a song called “When Johnny comes marching home” a civil war era song.
@@HUNKMrDeath-lt7kq Not only can gay people still choose to reproduce even if they aren't attracted to the opposite gender but you also completely forgot about the existence of bi and pan people.
We all know the dog sign is steaming garbage but I still feel compelled to point out that dogs do in fact care if you drink, especially if they've had abusive owners with substance abuse problems before. My ex in laws had a dog like that, she would growl at people who even had just a mild whiff of alcohol on them, and it was the scared kind of growl.
The only way parents not wanting their kids dating makes sense is if the parents are worried about the drama but the parents shown in this video would probably accidentally cause drama just because they’re so weird about it or cause drama on purpose if they think it’s funny.
Oh boy, I had a friend when I was 7-8, and for some reason the adults around us (teachers and parents) have decided that we were a couple, and were pushing us to do "couple stuff", like holding hands and sharing gifts on Valentine's and stuff like that, and saying weird shit about us, and I was so uncomfortable but had no way to articulate why, so my discomfort was perceived as shyness or just outright ignored. And I felt so conflicted when after 2 years that friend's family moved and he changed school. Because on one hand I was sad over losing a friend, but on the other hand I just felt so relieved. I felt so guilty for almost celebrating his departure, cause I didn't want /him/ gone, I just wanted that weird "they're practically married" thing gone. I also have no idea why out of several of my male friends at that time, they had selected this one particular boy as The Chosen One. It was just so random, made no sense at all Anyway, don't be weird about kids' "love life", it's not there, you're seeing things 🙃
Kinda reminds me of how my friend's friend group in middle school pressured him and his (fem) friend to date, they both broke up and she later realized she was a lesbian and he realized he was gay lmao
@💘𝓑υׁׅꪀׁׅꪀׁׅᎥ_ƒ💘 Not blaming you for this but people have thrown the word grooming around so much that nobody uses it correctly anymore. It would be grooming if it was an adult that was pushing a kid to normalize sexual or inappropriate things with them, the adult. So when that kid became an adult, their ideas of sex and romance were skewed toward just accepting whatever the groomer adult wants to do. Not pushing a kid to be 'romantic' with another kid. It IS inappropriate and uncomfortable however.
That's awful. My mom tried pulling that stuff with me and one of my friends (luckily not to that extent, just making weird comments about us), but I made it VERY clear that I hated her doing that. Glad she never knew he had a crush on me, then it would have been never-ending.
Honestly I had a similar problem with a male friend when I was like 9/10, I’m 26 now and to this day my parents are still convinced I had a crush on him. I’m a lesbian.
Right, and they talk about "grooming," like its LGBT people pushing this weird shit on kids. but it's not. It's these freaks who won't just let kids be kids. Who gives a damn if 2 different gender kids are playing together. They're literal \children and there's nothing sexual or romantic about it. And adults acting like there is just makes shit weird for kids, and puts ideas in their heads they wouldn't have had otherwise.
My reason for not wanting my daughter to date is i am aroace and child less and plan to stay child less. So if i was told someone was dating my daughter, something really strange has happened
Kinda like the spam calls hoping to get a gullible grandparent who say something happened to my grandson. I did procreate but my only kid's in kindergarten right now, so...
I worked daycare for 14 yrs for the ages of 1-4 and the amount of "chick magnet" hetero-pushing outfits they'd slap on little boys was disgusting to me! The same parents wouldn't let those little boys play dress up with the girls in princess costumes and DEMANDED my mother (owner of the daycare) to get "boy" costumes like superheroes. We had so many little boys that wanted to wear skirts (that I'd let them just not photograph) whose parents would get legitimately enraged if they knew they were in a skirt but see nothing wrong with "Lady Killer" on their 4 yr old sons shirt. Smdh...
As someone whose biological father is an alcoholic, and as someone who has disowned him (and planning on changing my last name to my mothers late next year)- alcoholism is the worst thing ever. I don’t want to drink alcohol ever, i don’t want to be near it. Alcoholism is not funny, it damages lives. I have a phobia of older men because of my biological father, especially ones who are also alcoholics.
I may not have experienced what you have, but I've had some scary experiences when my dad used to drink (he's quit), such as drunk driving, saying horrible things and being overall neglectful. I see experiences like these and it strengthens my thoughts of not wanting to touch alcohol, ever (I also hate the smell and taste of it so it's fairly easier) and people still don't understand that it's a personal choice.
So all this creepy nonsense about children (mainly girls because of course) is fine but taking your kid to a family friendly drag show is bad? I just can't with this backward garbage. I hate the no dating thing for girls and wouldn't want it for boys either but the fact is I've NEVER seen it for boys, it's always about what a future stud he's going to be.
I literally saw someone accuse a drag queen of wearing an outfit that was too sexual for children, only for the queen to reveal on Twitter that it was, in fact, a childrens' dance uniform. 🙃 The listing photo of the outfit showed a 12 year old girl. But apparently, it's inappropriate for a twink to squeeze into the same outfit & put on a wig??
It does happen. Not on shirts but in a lot of sons are the favorite child and mommys boy and such. Theres this thing on tiktok where “boy moms” make weird and creepy tiktoks about their sons
I guess for boys you get the mums who overly coddle them and think no other woman will be good enough for them, even when they're a full grown adult, which can also be really weird and unhealthy but it's not really the same or as prevalent in society.
The only reason why I don't let my daughters date is because Stardew Valley children don't age past the toddler stage nor do they ever leave your house. Oh you mean IRL children? I don't have any, nor do I plan to.
it's absurd how hard straight people will fight to NOT get divorced,, like I've been telling my parents to get divorced since I was a teenager,,, I'm 28. they still hate each other and are married. 💀
@Ville not even the point of the comment; get. a. life. already. You're more obsessive than an obsessive fangirl. It's like you literally only exist to be hateful and argue with people over these videos.
@Anon Rando I don't think answering this person is worth it. They just want attention. It seems like they have really sad and boring life, if that's what they're doing all day
@@bottomofastairwell because if you don't stay it'll cost you your money, belongings, and even children as well, it's easier just to distance yourself from someone you might be legally married to but not emotionally
The "daddy say I can't date" reminded me of one polish TV competition. A few families try to renovate flats with money from station in short time. Every episode is another room. Then someone look at their work and one family is eliminated and have to end renovation by themselfs. In this competition were two pair of parents with like 4 years old kids, boy and girl. I saw one episode of this and they made whole drama/slice of life/whatever is name for that segment about those two kids "being in love", because they liked to play with each other and was saying that they really like each other. In that time I thought it was kinda cute, but don't care. Now I think is very weird and is going to be very awkward if they ever find out about footage on later life, not having contact with each other or being in other relationships...
@@Angela1111122222 Ups, sorry I didn't expect another polish in comments of New Zealand account. I tried to find it, but no luck. I'm sure it existed. I clearly remember part were presenters complained about combination of orange fruit pattern with light green tiles and tops of cabinets in one couple's kitchen, which in the end caused their elimination.
It's the whole, "you can't date my daughter" nonsense that really fricking miffs me and part of why I hate certain 'pet' names like babydoll; like excuse, I and others are _NOT_ objects!! We have voices, thoughts, and feelings; why is our input on these dating situations suddenly chopped liver?? Before anyone says, "Well it's to protect you and it's important to save yourself for marriage", I call bull. This isn't protection, and people's sexual experience or lack-thereof does not define who anyone is
EXACTLY! especially the whole daddy’s daughter part. why do you OWN your daughter?? why is that even a thing? it’s creepy and weird. But i have also seen this stuff where women can’t let their son go. they act like they’re already married to them and that is so so fucking weird. i hate seeing that and i will address it every time but nobody sees the problem!
It's especially not "for the protection" of their daughters because they're the same type of people to constantly pressure their _barely teenage sons_ to chase girls and get a girlfriend. "I'm trying to protect you because boys only want one thing. (Because I'm telling them to want that one thing)"
@@sluttyMapleSyrup they view women as sex objects, until they have a daughter and they realize that women are people, then they witness other men treating his daughter the exact same way he treated countless women in his past
I think this still has to do with the concept of woman being 'owned' by men. Like, it's the same when you get a boyfriend/fiance/husband and your dad is like "Shes yours now, so you better take care of her" She is Not his and the fact that stuff like this is still being said disgusts me. Even to this day and age, women are the property of the men in their life. First it's their dad and then their s/o. Dads dont want their daughters date because for them it's like they give up their ownership rights over you. And that folks is why its okay for boys to date but not for girls
"Nothing should really change between dating and marriage" is absolutely true and something I never really heard growing up. My mom would talk about how much everything changes but when I got married it was literally just the same. If you don't come at it from a weird patriarchal perspective then it's literally just two people living as equals
the only thing that should really change is how you file your taxes and that other government paperwork crap. that's it. If your relationship changes THAT drastically after marriage, then you probably shouldn't have gotten married in the first place
@@bottomofastairwell yep unless you're super religious and marriage changes smth in your religion, marriage is basically just a paper thing. So the only thing that really changes is paperwork. And of course the change from boyfriend/girlfriend to husband/wife It can be reassuring tho, to know that you're fully on the same page about how your relationship is going, that you both want to plan your future together and see each other as "the one". But that reassurance probably comes way before the wedding, when you both agree to get married. It shouldn't drastically change your relationship, but it's still an important promise and it feels amazing to have that reassurance and safety (at least from what I've been told) and it makes your relationship stronger.
the most concerning part of the "dogs don't know when you call them another dog's name" to me is like. how fucking often is that happening to you in your romantic relationships that it's become a recurring problem? how often are you calling your girlfriend/wife by another woman's name??? why the fuck are you even in a relationship if you're basically admitting to both not caring about your partner and also (presumably, but... let's be real; it is what it is) cheating on them frequently enough that you legitimately mix her up with your side bitches, or whatever misogynistic ass term you almost certainly use to describe them? stop wasting her time and stop wasting your own if you're not interested in her long term, anyway.
On the point about dogs, it 100% depends on the dog. Some dogs literally are too dumb to care about anything, but others definitely know more than we give them credit for.
I had two sets of friends as a kid, who were brother sister, one of them, the parents told the daughter that she wasnt "allowed" to date until she was 25, and as a sheltered elementary schooler she believed them until she was in middle school, and they still didnt let her date until she was 17, while they let their son have a girlfriend in kindergarten, and encouraged him and his "girlfriend" to do cute pseudo-romantic things together. they also reprimanded this poor boy constantly whenever he wanted to do dance, or gymnastics, or paint his nails, or put on makeup, or wear silly costume jewelry, or put his hand on his hips sassily, or play with his big sister in any way that was remotely feminine, including things like doing her hair, or doing a spa day thing with her, or build 'lego friends' because "those are the girl legos" and the other, big bro was allowed to court a girl in 3rd grade, but she wasnt allowed to even have a crush on someone without getting reprimanded until she was grown. If anyone made a comment about her getting a boyfriend, one of them would drop what they were doing and go on some insane speech about how shes not allowed to date anyone. insane how the misogyny is so blatant.
The sign about dogs was the whole timeline of an abusive alcoholic disregarding their partner and expecting them to be perfect, being a slob, cheating, and then getting a divorce. 😅
Also the ready to go thing I think was meant a whole lot less innocently because they’re comparing women to dogs no way they didn’t mean something creepy
What I love about the boyfriend footprint pact is that if either or both of those girls come out as queer and get a girlfriend: Dad, you can’t say sh!t about it. You made them sign no boyfriend til 30. So when little Ella walks into your house at 15 and says “Dad this is my girlfriend Sara.” you can’t get mad. You can’t say “I said no dating til 30!” cuz she can whip out her phone and pull up the receipts and say “actually you said no BOYFRIEND til 30. Sara is my girlfriend. We’re going to my room. Byeeee!” And you. can’t. say. sh!t. And I love that scenario actually being a possibility😂
You know, sometimes I feel bad that I havn't been in a relationship in a few years, then I see people like these and it's like "y'know, maybe it's not so bad being single."
it's really not. I heard something a while ago (i have no clue where now). But it was basically someone saying how we treat loneliness like a disease to be cured at all costs, even if it means dating someone you can't stand or who's toxic and bad for you, just so you don't have to be "single and alone." When instead, we really should look at loneliness for what it is. A part of the human condition that we all experience sometimes. being single doesn't mean anything about your character as a person. And there's plenty of fulfilling relationships you can have with people that aren't romantic ones. you don't always need a partner, and this kind of crap is the best example of that
Most people are normal people, lol one thing I recommend is to remember that, the internet is not representative of real life lol, memes and videos of wierd ass people being shitty isn’t the norm
I feel like I’m entering a fun topic for South Asian families: People who shouldn’t have been married and children who suffer in the process and of course the whole “you’re (insert age) so you should think about settling down.” discourse.
As a kid, I said I was going to marry my brother 😃 All I knew about marriage was that you live with the person and that they had to be a boy (because of the rampant h0m0ph0b!a) so I chose my brother because he was a boy and I didn't wanna live with a stranger 😭🤣😂😅
When I was 7 I came up with the brilliant idea of marrying my two (fellow “female” (unrelated but we’re all slightly different now)) best friend for tax benefits. I’m shocked it took me until age 11 to find out I liked girls 💀💀
YOOOO I thought I was the only one who said this as a kid lmao. I was like 6 or so and my dad explained that marriage is when you love someone and want to be with them or something, and my family always openly said I love you to each other, and I considered my fraternal twin like my best friend and said I want to marry him. And both my dad and twin went NOOO and had to explain again lol. Good to know it wasn't just me who said that shit as a kid😭
Yeah, I wanted to be just like my mom as a little kid. Mom was married to dad. Ergo, I would be also married to dad. It was was such a cringe conversation it never left me. 💀💀💀
It’s honestly impressive how they have one, terrible, joke and they still think it’s funny. The problem is it’s not even a joke, I’ve seen plenty of people in my life act like it’s more than enough to simply tolerate your spouse, and it’s honestly sad. These people were taught all their lives that this is what a relationship should looks like
Sry but once you grow a lil older you’ll see that marriage is not having constant butterflies about the other partner, no relationship is perfect. If you get married you’re gonna see some things about your partner that you even hate! But just because daily life with them isn’t perfect every single day, are you gonna divorce them right away? (Obviously you should get rid of them if they abuse you and hurt you)
@@RaidenMustDie3594 So you justify *tolerating* your partner!? You can tolerate a job or tolerate living with your in laws for two months, hell, tolerate some bad habit of your spouse but them as a person? Who you want to commit the rest of your life to... That is concerning. I have tolerated relationships in the past and I was miserable. No sane therapist would suggest someone to do that. Btw. I'm turning 27 in a month so that "once you turn older" talk does not apply here.
The only thing my dad ever made me "sign" was that i would be the one cleaning my own room every week. My mum still cleaned like half of it even after the agreement XD
my golden retriever jumped out of my dads truck so many times. he was always okay, but he was like 150 lbs at a heathy size so it was probably easier to see him.
I had the same best friend (back then we were AFAB and AMAB) since kindergarden to middle school. And through ALL of those years people tought we were a couple and I always felt strange about it. She was just my best friend and i never had a crush or anything and later in the future i would grow to feel very shy towards talking to people about my love life and my partners. Please, leave kids alone
...I caught a glimpse of one of those horrifying giant inflatable baby costumes partway down my block a few months ago and had no idea what it was or wtf was going on. Am I glad I have some context now? I'm not sure.
I have a younger sister and I remember when she was 6 me and gramndma went to pick her up from kindergarten and she said something like "me and *boy's name* promised to marry each other when we grow up! We even exchanged toys to remember this!" with a big smile on her face. I remember at that moment I was super confused (little demiromantic kid who never experienced this stuff even close), so I kinda smiled and tried to sound supportive, but it weirded me out. It's been 7 years since then end everyone forgot about that incident :p Edit: Sister brought it up a couple days later XD
i hope you feel better soon kiwi! though i do really enjoy the lower energy of the video because of that. its nice and chill haha. also love the earrings!
All those parents so adamant against their children dating.... Usually just end up not letting their child develop social skills nor learn how to enter romantic relationships and scalate them in a healthy way.
what i need to see is the two inflatable babies duke it out but in the middle of it the inflatable t-rex comes in takes them both out surprise you are having either a dino or terror or possibly both
i never even thought about that but its so true. dogs would absolutely ask their people questions in the “would you love me if i was a worm” genre. i love dogs so much man 😭
The only thing I was thinking was that my pretend marriages were very serious with my same sex friends. Caused a lot of panic among parents. I had no idea why.
It really bums me out to see those "marriage sucks and is bad" memes. The idea that "husband hates his wife" is a worn trope that everyone understands is just depressing, that's not how a relationship should be. Not that any marriage is gonna be perfect, but these memes have the people proclaiming some kind of deep resentment for their own partners and the bond of marriage in general. If I found out my fiance was insulting me behind my back, I would be very hurt, but these people treat roasting your spouse and being miserable living with them as an immutable fact of life or something.
the age when id genuinely be concerned about my kids dating is like 11-15 bc i feel like thats old enough to be doing adult things (sex and stuff) but not old enough to understand the implications, so i'd be concerned about what's happening, if their partner is abusing them or pressuring them etc.
This is normal, this is why people shouldn't do that whole 'date over my dead body' or whatever crap because your kid will just hide it from you. If you're normal, then they will hopefully talk to you about what is going on, and you will be able to set some (sane) ground rules for keeping them safe AND happy.
As an ex 11-15 yr old, this, please I beg parents to care about their children, who knows how much less of a messed up person I would be if I wasn't given unsupervised internet access at 7 and played porn flash games for multiple years not knowing what they were
Kind of hilarious to hear ppl would actually “date” as kids meanwhile our favorite game was pretending to be tragically orphaned and having to forage for plants to eat and live in our wooden playhouse
Alternative title: "The Affects That Bad Parenting & Lack Of ANY Therapy" I hope my life never ends up as any of these memes, because i know I'm incredibly lonely, but I want to think I haven't gotten to this point
Not long ago, I was doing some cleaning and found the wedding invitation for a friend from 3rd grade and Wolverine….and their baby shower the following week. Great times hahaha
If I ever have kids I might do a gender reveal but only instead of telling everyone the gender it’s just a sign that says “a baby” I would set it up like a gender reveal and everything. Make some people mad
on the not being able to date thing... im 15 and my dad still doesnt let me. ive asked for a reason from him multiple times and the only 'reasons' ive been given are "because" and "you'll understand when youre older"
19:04 These kind of memes piss me off because my mom was would always expect an apology for something. She wanted an apology because my dad used to go to the gym. She wanted an apology because he has friends who are girls. She wanted an apology because he worked late. (he is literally always exhausted because of his job. I doubt anyone would cheat that often, and even if he wanted to, I doubt he would. He can't lay down to do anything without falling asleep) She wanted an apology because he “never did anything around the house”. (he did do stuff around the house. Even though he’s always tired because his job keeps making him stay until around midnight.) She always thought he was cheating, or didn’t care about her. She would constantly read into things too much. She would never let him explain anything, and would never believe him. When he started avoiding her, she wanted an apology for that too. 19:04 This kind of thing 1: makes emotional abuse seem like a normal thing 2: invalidates the emotions from both the wife and the husband If it wasn’t so normalized, maybe my mom would’ve gotten therapy, or looked for some kind of help. And if she didn’t, then maybe my dad would’ve left her BEFORE having two kids with her. And I know it’s just a meme, but it’s not like it’s just one meme that says this. It’s in movies, it’s in books, it’s so normalized everywhere.
@@jtklmn I've dated before, so I'm aware of how awful dating can be, they don't wanna do something and suddenly it's up to you read their mind to figure it out
I actually fkn LOVE the wrestling baby gender reveals 💀 Mainly because of the fact that it’s 2 grown people in what are essentially glorified inflatable fat-suits, trying to punch and kick at each other while they can barely see, since the suits are so crappily made 😭 Like if you look up some of the videos I’m talking about, the suit heads will just FLING backwards whenever its “punched” and it gets me every time because it just looks so ridiculous. Not to mention, in some of the videos the two people wearing the suits will just let lose and go crazy. There was this one I saw that the parents-to-be had this brother and sister dress up in the costumes and they both just went for each others throats once the fight started. It’s also a way to reveal the gender of the baby without anybody getting hurt and the environment stays safe, so it’s okay with me!
I'm an alcoholic who drank to numb abuse I was going through and the drinking joke also ensues a resounding f*ck you from the deepest and darkest part of my heart
@@MaddyLockman if you don't like a joke don't look at it. I find those jokes funny and you don't, because of you very real past trauma which is understandable. How ever just because you don't find it funny does not mean that the people who make then or find them funny are bad people or not funny.
To be fair, the giant inflatable baby fight does sound like it would be howlingly funny to witness. If you insist on having a party to announce the nature of your unborn child's genitals, this is way less boring than a confetti cannon and safer than starting a goddamned forest fire.
Yeah I feel people shit on forms of gender reveals that are totally harmless just for brownie points. They’re nothing wrong with that idea it’s funny and harms no one so why shit on it. At least they aren’t burning down forests
@@emilybarclay8831 people can shit on stuff if they wanna shit on stuff, theres always reasons for not liking something. just because you dont understand how someone can dislike something you may like doesnt mean theyre doing it for "brownie points"
@@jtklmn if you don’t have an actual reason to shit on something other than it’s kinda similar to this other thing and it’s popular to shit on, yeah you’re doing it for brownie points
Men: *let women do most of the housework, care for the kids while handling all social gatherings and a job* Also men: "yOu'Re NEvEr in ThE MoOd anYmoorree"
It is unbelievable to me that people don't apologize or think they're apologizing for "nothing". As someone who has been mentally beaten down and abused by previous bosses, I immediately apologize for anything I think might have upset someone even the tiniest amount. I am told all the time that I apologize too much or that I "don't need to apologize for that" but I'm still going to after everything I've been through. It's a defense mechanism and I do it to stop myself from going through that again and I would rather apologize too much than too little. I don't think you can apologize for "nothing". If you feel like you have to apologize for "nothing" all the time, maybe you're in an abusive relationship and should seek help.
Bro my parents decided that i couldnt date and when a boy asked me out for homecoming they flipped the fuck out. And everytime i so much as mention a boy talking to me they got immediately talk about how he just wants to sleep with me.... I'm 15. I've also dated a girl for year without them knowing the whole time. THEM TELLING ME I COULDN'T DATE JUST STOPPED ME FROM TELLING THEM AND ASKING FOR ADVICE 😃
I was so confused because I initially interpreted 'sucking' as in 'being somehow bad or unpleasant' which would have been a nice positive thing. "I sucked until I got married". I guess I should've known better... 😖
Marriage is such a weird concept. Its like, I love you so much, that I'm gonna make it difficult for you to leave by signing a government certified contract.
My dad and mom (i suspect she knows) don't know about my boyfriend of 3 years because of the whole "you can have a boyfriend until your thirty thing" I've gone to prom with this guy and to every hs dance with him. I spent a week at his home in the summer. My brother can take his gf to Christmas but I because I am not sure if I'm allowed to have a partner I don't even ask. Now, as I'm graduating, I have been wondering for ages when I should tell them. It's a serious relationship. We plan on spending the rest of our lives together and have had 0 fights or arguments throughout the relationship, which I'm very proud of.
the thing that cracks me up abt Straight People saying "oh my small child said they're gonna marry their little friend how cute" is that like. when i was a kid (about......7?) one of my friends ""married"" my dog. tbh it was more like an excuse to have a fancy party lmao
9:26 Our dad always had a rule that we couldn't "date" (go out on dates and stuff), until we got our driver's license. He never wanted us to be in a position where if something bad happened, we couldn't get home ourselves
Boomers hating their spouses is just a symptom of a culture that shamed and belittled people who got divorced. We need to change how we view breakups and divorce - it can be a very healthy change for someone and can take a lot of courage to do.
OMFG worth it indeed, I legit gasped irl when I saw how close your fan cam was!! I got into ATEEZ like 2 weeks after they played my city on the world tour, so jelly T_T
I can't let go of the whole "dogs are more excited to see you the later you are" thing. Like....yeah, if you've been neglecting them all day and they're lonely and hungry and need to go out! Get fucked, Sign Guy.
In regard to being made told to say sorry for no reason, that has happened to me. Not by a partner, but by parents when I got a little too close to the truth of them playing the victim card.
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@@sorceress_eye she is sick
I-my chosen name is Wren-
I love seeing the questionable titles pop up as a notification
Same😂
FR LMAO
It’s so funny when someone else sees it too 😂
LMAO so real
LMAO
15:54
"Dogs don't mind when you call them by another dog's name"
"If a dog smells another dog on you, they don't care"
"Dogs don't leave and take half of your stuff"
this guy cheated on his partner didn't he
My thoughts exactly
Dogs don't ask you to unlock your phone and start crying as she begs who's shalissa
Also, the second line was such a lie lmao my dog always could smell when I pet another dog and she'd get jealous haha
Hilarious, dogs do all of them except the last one.
@@hadleyreynolds4718 Exactly! My dog takes my stuff all of the time!
For the little girls in a photo holding a "no boyfriends until I turn 30" poster... joke's on dad if they end up one with a girlfriend and the other ace/aro/both.
Would make a great "then vs now" post on r/maliciouscompliance in about 25 years.
I've got a new subreddit to check out!
The dog sign made me so uncomfortable.
I grew up with dogs, and I worked with them too.
That sign is 100% inaccurate.
Dogs get sad when you leave them alone too long, and can destroy your house if they feel abandoned because you get home late.
Dogs can get jealous if you've been meeting other dogs.
Dogs can be incredibly clingy and possessive.
Dogs don't like drunks, especially since some drunks are aggressive and will hurt the dog as well.
The dog groomer that put that sign up should be ashamed of themself.
If I saw that sign at a dog groomer, I'd find a different groomer for my dog.
That's what I was thinking too
As someone who, at one point, had a dog who's been severely neglected
If you don't take care of your dog and your relationship with it, it's not gonna like you, or want to be around you, or act the way u want to.
I agree!! My dog was kept by my parents (my mom's dog had babies) because I have high anxiety especially at night and when alone. So my dog is a protector (tho acts like a big cuddle baby 90% of the time) but he HATES drunk people. If you get to drunk (especially if he doesn't know you well) he gets protective and sometimes anxious.
@@frankisnot1148my pops doesn't take care of his dogs. They're untrained, have shock collars, and are kept in a kennel most of the time. I ended up crying when dad took one to get "hunting training" and saw him tied to a pole. He never took the dog hunting. He can't take care of dogs, yet insists on getting more.
If men hate marriage so much then why the hell do they ask in the first place?
It varies depending on the particular guy doing the asking... but from what I can tell, guys who are pressured into it get that pressure from some combination of family, friends, general societal assumptions and expectations, toxic masculinity, and/or wanting a live-in housekeeper/bedmate for only the cost of her room and board. 🙄
@@HumbleWooper I was going to add something, but I think you covered pretty much all of the bases...
@@HumbleWooper or maybe people love eachother when they do it? Marriage is not a never ending fairy tale where everyone always agrees, but they work through it out of love, these things you see on the internet are not representative of real life, lol…go talk to real married couples
@@RaidenMustDie3594 well they didn’t say all marriages were that way, we’re talking about the ones like in the video which believe it or not do exist in reality unfortunately
@@RaidenMustDie3594 we aren't talking about happy willingly married people we talk about people who hate marriage or their partners but still get married.
We also know that they don't represent "real married couples" whatever that shit means, but we also are around those kind of married couples
Dad: No boyfriend before 30
Girl: okay (ends up 28, unmarried with no kids)
Dad: why aren't you married yet you're running out of time!!!!!
Also dad to 12y/o son: "Why don't you have a girlfriend yet, slugger?!"
I went to get an oil change when I was 19 and got this lecture from the mechanic like 🤦♀️
@@sierra4107 bruh I understand if parents do that but why a mechanic 💀
What you gotta do with me bruh
@@Shaytan.666 probably projection 💀
my dad used to make no dating till your 30 jokes at my sister. He started dating my mom in high school they had me (I'm the older one) at 25. Logic checks out.
the same people who are like "my daughter aint dating till shes 30" are the same kinda people who say shit like "oh is that your little boyfriend/girlfriend?" when theyre toddlers and just generally very young children who are close friends with another kid of the same age and opposite gender. the type of dad saying "my daughter aint dating till 30" is the type of dad to take his 5, 6, and 7 year old sons to Hooters and take pics of them all close with the waitresses saying shit like "ooo you boys are gonna be some ladykillers huh!?" theyre also the kind of people who would have an absolute conniption fit if two boys/girls wanted to have a make-believe wedding and play house. beyond that, what if two boys/girls playing marriage/wedding/house together had lgbtq+ parents!? i cant even begin to imagine the horrifying kind and quantity of grooming/p*d0 accusations that would be imposed on them. absolutely sickeningly hypocritical.
TW: discussion of experiences of SA/abuse in thread
Show us one example of a dad who says "my daughter aint dating till 30"and also takes his sons to Hooters? Coz it sounds like you pulled it out of your ass
Exactly
My father had a shirt which said something like "back off my daughter, you're not aloud around her" and I was just 3/4 years old when he had that shirt...
My dad was the type of guy to threaten any guy I brought home with violence. Like I would bring this perfectly nice guy home, all of which were just friends, and my dad would say shit like “Whatever you do to her, I’ll do to you.” and “Aww, you got a new boyfriend? In completely unrelated news, I got a new gun.”
It got to the point where my male friends didn’t want to hang out at my house anymore, because my dad would watch them like a hawk and make vaguely threatening offhanded comments, I asked him to stop multiple times but he would either deny actually meaning the threats and play them off as jokes, or he would say something like “I’m just trying to protect you from this world, boys only want one thing.”
You know, real cliche shit.
Thing is, I haven’t seen my dad since I was 13, so my dad was threatening middle school students, classy move, dad.
My ex stepdad was one of those guys, saying I can't date till I'm super old. He then turned around n started sa'ing me at 10 and told me it was better to learn that from him than some random man one day. So yeah. Those kinds of people are fucked up.
The fighting babies are objectively hilarious. I would totally just buy them to fuck around with my friends
I would love those suits for the spectacle of Collage Age Shenanigans, or if someone was having twins maybe. But people gotta make things uncomfy.
@@Aster_druid Using baby fighting to reveal twins would be clever. The fight would end with them shaking hands and then dabbing or something, idk
@@genericname2747 that would unironically be really funny, sad that people gotta be weird-
Deadass!! 😂
6:46 The contract with the footprints is very unfair, because the dad is much closer to 30 or maybe even there at the time, so he can get a boyfriend way sooner.
Omg perfect
HAAAHAHAHAHA
😂😂😂
in all honesty, the baby wrestling thing is hilarious
Would love to duke it out in those ugly ass costumes with someone for no reason
At least this won't cause massive wildfires 😅
@@spOOkytimes Big true 😂
@bunelli40 omg i completely forgot about it, what was i thinking
this is the only acceptable gender reveal imho
Me and my 2 besties played as 3 wifes when we were like 10-12 years old. I even proposed to one of them(i had a chush on her but didn't realize that yet lol) on my birthday, it was something like "Will you be my best friend forever and forever?" and she said yes! Then i gave both of them "gold" rings LMAO 😭
Still a better love story than twilight
This has made my day😂
@Ville , if it's a choice, when you decided to be straight? 🤨
@@nicusilly Likely because without straight people humanity will go extinct or just become too generic and identical.
That was a poor joke, but in all honesty, why would you be Lesbian? Why did people change the definition of Gay from meaning happy or great or good, to mean same sex relationship?
“When Johnny comes marchin home again Hoo-Rah! Hoo-Rah! We’ll give him a hearty welcome Hoo-Rah! Hoo-Rah! The men will cheer, the boys will shout, the ladies, they will all turnout and we’ll all feel gay when Johnny comes marching home again!” ~ Opening to a song called “When Johnny comes marching home” a civil war era song.
@@HUNKMrDeath-lt7kq Not only can gay people still choose to reproduce even if they aren't attracted to the opposite gender but you also completely forgot about the existence of bi and pan people.
We all know the dog sign is steaming garbage but I still feel compelled to point out that dogs do in fact care if you drink, especially if they've had abusive owners with substance abuse problems before. My ex in laws had a dog like that, she would growl at people who even had just a mild whiff of alcohol on them, and it was the scared kind of growl.
The only way parents not wanting their kids dating makes sense is if the parents are worried about the drama but the parents shown in this video would probably accidentally cause drama just because they’re so weird about it or cause drama on purpose if they think it’s funny.
Or if it’s a concerning relationship (other person who may be bad)
@@Loonlings that’s true, idk how I forgot to mention that in my comment but I’m glad you said it.
Plus
They're babies
So who are they dating?
Other babies???
Oh boy, I had a friend when I was 7-8, and for some reason the adults around us (teachers and parents) have decided that we were a couple, and were pushing us to do "couple stuff", like holding hands and sharing gifts on Valentine's and stuff like that, and saying weird shit about us, and I was so uncomfortable but had no way to articulate why, so my discomfort was perceived as shyness or just outright ignored. And I felt so conflicted when after 2 years that friend's family moved and he changed school. Because on one hand I was sad over losing a friend, but on the other hand I just felt so relieved. I felt so guilty for almost celebrating his departure, cause I didn't want /him/ gone, I just wanted that weird "they're practically married" thing gone.
I also have no idea why out of several of my male friends at that time, they had selected this one particular boy as The Chosen One. It was just so random, made no sense at all
Anyway, don't be weird about kids' "love life", it's not there, you're seeing things 🙃
Kinda reminds me of how my friend's friend group in middle school pressured him and his (fem) friend to date, they both broke up and she later realized she was a lesbian and he realized he was gay lmao
@💘𝓑υׁׅꪀׁׅꪀׁׅᎥ_ƒ💘 Not blaming you for this but people have thrown the word grooming around so much that nobody uses it correctly anymore. It would be grooming if it was an adult that was pushing a kid to normalize sexual or inappropriate things with them, the adult. So when that kid became an adult, their ideas of sex and romance were skewed toward just accepting whatever the groomer adult wants to do. Not pushing a kid to be 'romantic' with another kid. It IS inappropriate and uncomfortable however.
That's awful. My mom tried pulling that stuff with me and one of my friends (luckily not to that extent, just making weird comments about us), but I made it VERY clear that I hated her doing that. Glad she never knew he had a crush on me, then it would have been never-ending.
Honestly I had a similar problem with a male friend when I was like 9/10, I’m 26 now and to this day my parents are still convinced I had a crush on him. I’m a lesbian.
Right, and they talk about "grooming," like its LGBT people pushing this weird shit on kids. but it's not. It's these freaks who won't just let kids be kids. Who gives a damn if 2 different gender kids are playing together. They're literal \children and there's nothing sexual or romantic about it. And adults acting like there is just makes shit weird for kids, and puts ideas in their heads they wouldn't have had otherwise.
My reason for not wanting my daughter to date is i am aroace and child less and plan to stay child less.
So if i was told someone was dating my daughter, something really strange has happened
This is my favorite comment 😂
Kinda like the spam calls hoping to get a gullible grandparent who say something happened to my grandson. I did procreate but my only kid's in kindergarten right now, so...
I AM HOLLERING
I worked daycare for 14 yrs for the ages of 1-4 and the amount of "chick magnet" hetero-pushing outfits they'd slap on little boys was disgusting to me! The same parents wouldn't let those little boys play dress up with the girls in princess costumes and DEMANDED my mother (owner of the daycare) to get "boy" costumes like superheroes. We had so many little boys that wanted to wear skirts (that I'd let them just not photograph) whose parents would get legitimately enraged if they knew they were in a skirt but see nothing wrong with "Lady Killer" on their 4 yr old sons shirt. Smdh...
As someone whose biological father is an alcoholic, and as someone who has disowned him (and planning on changing my last name to my mothers late next year)- alcoholism is the worst thing ever.
I don’t want to drink alcohol ever, i don’t want to be near it. Alcoholism is not funny, it damages lives. I have a phobia of older men because of my biological father, especially ones who are also alcoholics.
I may not have experienced what you have, but I've had some scary experiences when my dad used to drink (he's quit), such as drunk driving, saying horrible things and being overall neglectful. I see experiences like these and it strengthens my thoughts of not wanting to touch alcohol, ever (I also hate the smell and taste of it so it's fairly easier) and people still don't understand that it's a personal choice.
So all this creepy nonsense about children (mainly girls because of course) is fine but taking your kid to a family friendly drag show is bad? I just can't with this backward garbage. I hate the no dating thing for girls and wouldn't want it for boys either but the fact is I've NEVER seen it for boys, it's always about what a future stud he's going to be.
How is a grown man dressed in revealing female clothes, dancing sexually and shaking his ass in front of children, "family friendly"?
I literally saw someone accuse a drag queen of wearing an outfit that was too sexual for children, only for the queen to reveal on Twitter that it was, in fact, a childrens' dance uniform. 🙃 The listing photo of the outfit showed a 12 year old girl.
But apparently, it's inappropriate for a twink to squeeze into the same outfit & put on a wig??
It does happen. Not on shirts but in a lot of sons are the favorite child and mommys boy and such. Theres this thing on tiktok where “boy moms” make weird and creepy tiktoks about their sons
@@batsnghostz Usually when they have shirts for boys they say things like "Future ladies man" or "Lock up you daughters" and gross crap like that.
I guess for boys you get the mums who overly coddle them and think no other woman will be good enough for them, even when they're a full grown adult, which can also be really weird and unhealthy but it's not really the same or as prevalent in society.
The only reason why I don't let my daughters date is because Stardew Valley children don't age past the toddler stage nor do they ever leave your house. Oh you mean IRL children? I don't have any, nor do I plan to.
This is why I turn them into doves
Also what's a stardew valley
it's absurd how hard straight people will fight to NOT get divorced,, like I've been telling my parents to get divorced since I was a teenager,,, I'm 28. they still hate each other and are married. 💀
@Ville not even the point of the comment; get. a. life. already. You're more obsessive than an obsessive fangirl. It's like you literally only exist to be hateful and argue with people over these videos.
@Ville do you do this on a bunch of other LGBT+ channels, too? Is it legitimately all you do all day?
@Anon Rando I don't think answering this person is worth it. They just want attention. It seems like they have really sad and boring life, if that's what they're doing all day
i just don't get why? Why marry someone you hate? Why STAY married to someone you hate? Shit makes zero sense.
@@bottomofastairwell because if you don't stay it'll cost you your money, belongings, and even children as well, it's easier just to distance yourself from someone you might be legally married to but not emotionally
The "daddy say I can't date" reminded me of one polish TV competition. A few families try to renovate flats with money from station in short time. Every episode is another room. Then someone look at their work and one family is eliminated and have to end renovation by themselfs. In this competition were two pair of parents with like 4 years old kids, boy and girl.
I saw one episode of this and they made whole drama/slice of life/whatever is name for that segment about those two kids "being in love", because they liked to play with each other and was saying that they really like each other. In that time I thought it was kinda cute, but don't care. Now I think is very weird and is going to be very awkward if they ever find out about footage on later life, not having contact with each other or being in other relationships...
Lol, what tv show is it. I don't recognize the premise and I saw a lot of them
@@Angela1111122222 Unfortunately I don't know. It was years ago + it's show from Poland. I think it was something with word "remonty" but not sure
@@lilik7323 well I'm polish
Thanks for answering anyway!
@@Angela1111122222 Ups, sorry I didn't expect another polish in comments of New Zealand account.
I tried to find it, but no luck. I'm sure it existed. I clearly remember part were presenters complained about combination of orange fruit pattern with light green tiles and tops of cabinets in one couple's kitchen, which in the end caused their elimination.
@@lilik7323 we're the cockroaches of the world, we're everywhere
Indestructible 😎
It's the whole, "you can't date my daughter" nonsense that really fricking miffs me and part of why I hate certain 'pet' names like babydoll; like excuse, I and others are _NOT_ objects!! We have voices, thoughts, and feelings; why is our input on these dating situations suddenly chopped liver??
Before anyone says, "Well it's to protect you and it's important to save yourself for marriage", I call bull. This isn't protection, and people's sexual experience or lack-thereof does not define who anyone is
EXACTLY! especially the whole daddy’s daughter part. why do you OWN your daughter?? why is that even a thing? it’s creepy and weird. But i have also seen this stuff where women can’t let their son go. they act like they’re already married to them and that is so so fucking weird.
i hate seeing that and i will address it every time but nobody sees the problem!
It's especially not "for the protection" of their daughters because they're the same type of people to constantly pressure their _barely teenage sons_ to chase girls and get a girlfriend.
"I'm trying to protect you because boys only want one thing. (Because I'm telling them to want that one thing)"
@@sluttyMapleSyrup they view women as sex objects, until they have a daughter and they realize that women are people, then they witness other men treating his daughter the exact same way he treated countless women in his past
Right, it's about the dad controlling his daughter's sexuality. Just completely weird and gross.
I think this still has to do with the concept of woman being 'owned' by men. Like, it's the same when you get a boyfriend/fiance/husband and your dad is like "Shes yours now, so you better take care of her" She is Not his and the fact that stuff like this is still being said disgusts me. Even to this day and age, women are the property of the men in their life. First it's their dad and then their s/o. Dads dont want their daughters date because for them it's like they give up their ownership rights over you. And that folks is why its okay for boys to date but not for girls
"Nothing should really change between dating and marriage" is absolutely true and something I never really heard growing up. My mom would talk about how much everything changes but when I got married it was literally just the same. If you don't come at it from a weird patriarchal perspective then it's literally just two people living as equals
the only thing that should really change is how you file your taxes and that other government paperwork crap. that's it. If your relationship changes THAT drastically after marriage, then you probably shouldn't have gotten married in the first place
You get fancy bling when you get married
@@bottomofastairwell yep unless you're super religious and marriage changes smth in your religion, marriage is basically just a paper thing. So the only thing that really changes is paperwork. And of course the change from boyfriend/girlfriend to husband/wife
It can be reassuring tho, to know that you're fully on the same page about how your relationship is going, that you both want to plan your future together and see each other as "the one". But that reassurance probably comes way before the wedding, when you both agree to get married. It shouldn't drastically change your relationship, but it's still an important promise and it feels amazing to have that reassurance and safety (at least from what I've been told) and it makes your relationship stronger.
Oy thing that changes is your toothbrushes in the same cup
the most concerning part of the "dogs don't know when you call them another dog's name" to me is like. how fucking often is that happening to you in your romantic relationships that it's become a recurring problem? how often are you calling your girlfriend/wife by another woman's name??? why the fuck are you even in a relationship if you're basically admitting to both not caring about your partner and also (presumably, but... let's be real; it is what it is) cheating on them frequently enough that you legitimately mix her up with your side bitches, or whatever misogynistic ass term you almost certainly use to describe them? stop wasting her time and stop wasting your own if you're not interested in her long term, anyway.
Look dude chill
@@divine555 no, they have a point
Also, in what context are you going to call your dog by the wrong name??
@@genericname2747 you have two dogs
@@Stoopid420 Fair point. But it's not like you're cheating on the dog.
On the point about dogs, it 100% depends on the dog. Some dogs literally are too dumb to care about anything, but others definitely know more than we give them credit for.
I had two sets of friends as a kid, who were brother sister, one of them, the parents told the daughter that she wasnt "allowed" to date until she was 25, and as a sheltered elementary schooler she believed them until she was in middle school, and they still didnt let her date until she was 17, while they let their son have a girlfriend in kindergarten, and encouraged him and his "girlfriend" to do cute pseudo-romantic things together. they also reprimanded this poor boy constantly whenever he wanted to do dance, or gymnastics, or paint his nails, or put on makeup, or wear silly costume jewelry, or put his hand on his hips sassily, or play with his big sister in any way that was remotely feminine, including things like doing her hair, or doing a spa day thing with her, or build 'lego friends' because "those are the girl legos"
and the other, big bro was allowed to court a girl in 3rd grade, but she wasnt allowed to even have a crush on someone without getting reprimanded until she was grown. If anyone made a comment about her getting a boyfriend, one of them would drop what they were doing and go on some insane speech about how shes not allowed to date anyone.
insane how the misogyny is so blatant.
The sign about dogs was the whole timeline of an abusive alcoholic disregarding their partner and expecting them to be perfect, being a slob, cheating, and then getting a divorce. 😅
Also the ready to go thing I think was meant a whole lot less innocently because they’re comparing women to dogs no way they didn’t mean something creepy
I had better start seeing people mocking men saying "you're gonna be alone with 3 dogs" just like they do women with cats.
@@flowerpower9419 yes, even for a person who loves dogs, it's very demeaning.
No it's just Accurate lol
@@divine555 No, dude doesn't even understand dogs, let alone women
Get well soon, Kiwi. I hope the concert was great
Nice to know i'm not the only one absolutely destroyed by winter/spring sicknesses, get well soon
I do love how conservatives keep using the whole ball and chain joke, and then wonder why "nobody's getting married anymore"
What I love about the boyfriend footprint pact is that if either or both of those girls come out as queer and get a girlfriend: Dad, you can’t say sh!t about it. You made them sign no boyfriend til 30. So when little Ella walks into your house at 15 and says “Dad this is my girlfriend Sara.” you can’t get mad. You can’t say “I said no dating til 30!” cuz she can whip out her phone and pull up the receipts and say “actually you said no BOYFRIEND til 30. Sara is my girlfriend. We’re going to my room. Byeeee!” And you. can’t. say. sh!t. And I love that scenario actually being a possibility😂
You know, sometimes I feel bad that I havn't been in a relationship in a few years, then I see people like these and it's like "y'know, maybe it's not so bad being single."
it's really not. I heard something a while ago (i have no clue where now). But it was basically someone saying how we treat loneliness like a disease to be cured at all costs, even if it means dating someone you can't stand or who's toxic and bad for you, just so you don't have to be "single and alone." When instead, we really should look at loneliness for what it is. A part of the human condition that we all experience sometimes.
being single doesn't mean anything about your character as a person. And there's plenty of fulfilling relationships you can have with people that aren't romantic ones. you don't always need a partner, and this kind of crap is the best example of that
waking up everyday thankful my parents are normal people. my extended family on the other hand…
Most people are normal people, lol one thing I recommend is to remember that, the internet is not representative of real life lol, memes and videos of wierd ass people being shitty isn’t the norm
I feel like I’m entering a fun topic for South Asian families: People who shouldn’t have been married and children who suffer in the process and of course the whole “you’re (insert age) so you should think about settling down.” discourse.
As a kid, I said I was going to marry my brother 😃
All I knew about marriage was that you live with the person and that they had to be a boy (because of the rampant h0m0ph0b!a) so I chose my brother because he was a boy and I didn't wanna live with a stranger 😭🤣😂😅
But nahhhh I don't wanna live with my brother either 😭😭😭😭
When I was 7 I came up with the brilliant idea of marrying my two (fellow “female” (unrelated but we’re all slightly different now)) best friend for tax benefits. I’m shocked it took me until age 11 to find out I liked girls 💀💀
YOOOO I thought I was the only one who said this as a kid lmao. I was like 6 or so and my dad explained that marriage is when you love someone and want to be with them or something, and my family always openly said I love you to each other, and I considered my fraternal twin like my best friend and said I want to marry him. And both my dad and twin went NOOO and had to explain again lol. Good to know it wasn't just me who said that shit as a kid😭
When I was 7 I wanted to marry my dog lol, had no idea why my parents were freaked out
Yeah, I wanted to be just like my mom as a little kid. Mom was married to dad. Ergo, I would be also married to dad.
It was was such a cringe conversation it never left me. 💀💀💀
I love seeing these titles as a notification.
Also get better soon kiwi!
It’s honestly impressive how they have one, terrible, joke and they still think it’s funny. The problem is it’s not even a joke, I’ve seen plenty of people in my life act like it’s more than enough to simply tolerate your spouse, and it’s honestly sad. These people were taught all their lives that this is what a relationship should looks like
Sry but once you grow a lil older you’ll see that marriage is not having constant butterflies about the other partner, no relationship is perfect. If you get married you’re gonna see some things about your partner that you even hate! But just because daily life with them isn’t perfect every single day, are you gonna divorce them right away? (Obviously you should get rid of them if they abuse you and hurt you)
@@RaidenMustDie3594 So you justify *tolerating* your partner!? You can tolerate a job or tolerate living with your in laws for two months, hell, tolerate some bad habit of your spouse but them as a person? Who you want to commit the rest of your life to... That is concerning. I have tolerated relationships in the past and I was miserable. No sane therapist would suggest someone to do that.
Btw. I'm turning 27 in a month so that "once you turn older" talk does not apply here.
@@Shirumoon I literally said to leave a partner if they abuse and hurt you
The only thing my dad ever made me "sign" was that i would be the one cleaning my own room every week. My mum still cleaned like half of it even after the agreement XD
my golden retriever jumped out of my dads truck so many times. he was always okay, but he was like 150 lbs at a heathy size so it was probably easier to see him.
I had the same best friend (back then we were AFAB and AMAB) since kindergarden to middle school. And through ALL of those years people tought we were a couple and I always felt strange about it. She was just my best friend and i never had a crush or anything and later in the future i would grow to feel very shy towards talking to people about my love life and my partners. Please, leave kids alone
...I caught a glimpse of one of those horrifying giant inflatable baby costumes partway down my block a few months ago and had no idea what it was or wtf was going on. Am I glad I have some context now? I'm not sure.
are you aware of what you're doing to us pulling off an outfit like that? and I'm asexual, I can't imagine how the gays are feeling... 😰
LMAO 😂 As demi-pan, I was more distracted by her necklace hook not being adjusted. XD
Honesty having the wrestling inflatable babies for your gender reveal is so funny and kind of iconic. I love it😂
I have a younger sister and I remember when she was 6 me and gramndma went to pick her up from kindergarten and she said something like "me and *boy's name* promised to marry each other when we grow up! We even exchanged toys to remember this!" with a big smile on her face. I remember at that moment I was super confused (little demiromantic kid who never experienced this stuff even close), so I kinda smiled and tried to sound supportive, but it weirded me out. It's been 7 years since then end everyone forgot about that incident :p
Edit: Sister brought it up a couple days later XD
i hope you feel better soon kiwi! though i do really enjoy the lower energy of the video because of that. its nice and chill haha. also love the earrings!
All those parents so adamant against their children dating.... Usually just end up not letting their child develop social skills nor learn how to enter romantic relationships and scalate them in a healthy way.
You know...there are aro/ace people with developed social skills. I mean... romantic relationships aren't the only way to develop those skills😐
Children shouldn't date lol adults are right about that
@@divine555"dating" to children is holding hands. What is so wrong with that?
what i need to see is the two inflatable babies duke it out but in the middle of it the inflatable t-rex comes in takes them both out surprise you are having either a dino or terror or possibly both
i never even thought about that but its so true. dogs would absolutely ask their people questions in the “would you love me if i was a worm” genre. i love dogs so much man 😭
Would you still pet me and take me for walks if I was a worm?
The only thing I was thinking was that my pretend marriages were very serious with my same sex friends. Caused a lot of panic among parents. I had no idea why.
hope you get well! love the content
I’m doing a gender reveal for my 22nd birthday, : sike! It’s not a girl it’s a boy!
It really bums me out to see those "marriage sucks and is bad" memes. The idea that "husband hates his wife" is a worn trope that everyone understands is just depressing, that's not how a relationship should be. Not that any marriage is gonna be perfect, but these memes have the people proclaiming some kind of deep resentment for their own partners and the bond of marriage in general. If I found out my fiance was insulting me behind my back, I would be very hurt, but these people treat roasting your spouse and being miserable living with them as an immutable fact of life or something.
the age when id genuinely be concerned about my kids dating is like 11-15 bc i feel like thats old enough to be doing adult things (sex and stuff) but not old enough to understand the implications, so i'd be concerned about what's happening, if their partner is abusing them or pressuring them etc.
This is normal, this is why people shouldn't do that whole 'date over my dead body' or whatever crap because your kid will just hide it from you. If you're normal, then they will hopefully talk to you about what is going on, and you will be able to set some (sane) ground rules for keeping them safe AND happy.
As an ex 11-15 yr old, this, please I beg parents to care about their children, who knows how much less of a messed up person I would be if I wasn't given unsupervised internet access at 7 and played porn flash games for multiple years not knowing what they were
@@sunnyandthechlo children shouldn't hide endangering themselves from their parents lol
@@divine555 If a parent is overbearing, kids hide everything from them.
0:53 STOP IM SO JEALOUS
Also I love seeing staytinys it gives me hope😭
No literally i want to see ateez live so bad and staytinys give me life we're the coolest :')
oh my gosh i hope you get better soon hun!
Kind of hilarious to hear ppl would actually “date” as kids meanwhile our favorite game was pretending to be tragically orphaned and having to forage for plants to eat and live in our wooden playhouse
I'm sick too 😭 we'll pull through queen
Alternative title: "The Affects That Bad Parenting & Lack Of ANY Therapy" I hope my life never ends up as any of these memes, because i know I'm incredibly lonely, but I want to think I haven't gotten to this point
Not long ago, I was doing some cleaning and found the wedding invitation for a friend from 3rd grade and Wolverine….and their baby shower the following week. Great times hahaha
no boyfriends until you're 30? plot twist: she's gay
If I ever have kids I might do a gender reveal but only instead of telling everyone the gender it’s just a sign that says “a baby” I would set it up like a gender reveal and everything. Make some people mad
3:49 that’s so creepy, Sigmund Freud would’ve loved today’s society 😂
19:29 joke's on anyone who believes that. I learned to say sorry for no reason when I was bullied in primary school.
on the not being able to date thing... im 15 and my dad still doesnt let me. ive asked for a reason from him multiple times and the only 'reasons' ive been given are "because" and "you'll understand when youre older"
19:04 These kind of memes piss me off because my mom was would always expect an apology for something. She wanted an apology because my dad used to go to the gym. She wanted an apology because he has friends who are girls. She wanted an apology because he worked late. (he is literally always exhausted because of his job. I doubt anyone would cheat that often, and even if he wanted to, I doubt he would. He can't lay down to do anything without falling asleep) She wanted an apology because he “never did anything around the house”. (he did do stuff around the house. Even though he’s always tired because his job keeps making him stay until around midnight.) She always thought he was cheating, or didn’t care about her. She would constantly read into things too much. She would never let him explain anything, and would never believe him. When he started avoiding her, she wanted an apology for that too.
19:04 This kind of thing
1: makes emotional abuse seem like a normal thing
2: invalidates the emotions from both the wife and the husband
If it wasn’t so normalized, maybe my mom would’ve gotten therapy, or looked for some kind of help. And if she didn’t, then maybe my dad would’ve left her BEFORE having two kids with her. And I know it’s just a meme, but it’s not like it’s just one meme that says this. It’s in movies, it’s in books, it’s so normalized everywhere.
Your dad was a great dad :)
Keep going struggler, it always gets better
Dude chill out it's just a meme lol and an accurate one too lol
Completely off topic but I love your pfp. two kasa
@@divine555 LMFAOOOOO u again thats so embarassing ur commenting everywhere "ok but its so accurate" ur 15 what do u know
@@jtklmn I've dated before, so I'm aware of how awful dating can be, they don't wanna do something and suddenly it's up to you read their mind to figure it out
I actually fkn LOVE the wrestling baby gender reveals 💀 Mainly because of the fact that it’s 2 grown people in what are essentially glorified inflatable fat-suits, trying to punch and kick at each other while they can barely see, since the suits are so crappily made 😭
Like if you look up some of the videos I’m talking about, the suit heads will just FLING backwards whenever its “punched” and it gets me every time because it just looks so ridiculous. Not to mention, in some of the videos the two people wearing the suits will just let lose and go crazy.
There was this one I saw that the parents-to-be had this brother and sister dress up in the costumes and they both just went for each others throats once the fight started.
It’s also a way to reveal the gender of the baby without anybody getting hurt and the environment stays safe, so it’s okay with me!
I'm an alcoholic who drank to numb abuse I was going through and the drinking joke also ensues a resounding f*ck you from the deepest and darkest part of my heart
person learns what subjective humor is.
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@@unownyoutuber9049 Sorry, can you explain?
@@MaddyLockman if you don't like a joke don't look at it. I find those jokes funny and you don't, because of you very real past trauma which is understandable. How ever just because you don't find it funny does not mean that the people who make then or find them funny are bad people or not funny.
To be fair, the giant inflatable baby fight does sound like it would be howlingly funny to witness. If you insist on having a party to announce the nature of your unborn child's genitals, this is way less boring than a confetti cannon and safer than starting a goddamned forest fire.
Yeah I feel people shit on forms of gender reveals that are totally harmless just for brownie points. They’re nothing wrong with that idea it’s funny and harms no one so why shit on it. At least they aren’t burning down forests
@@emilybarclay8831 people can shit on stuff if they wanna shit on stuff, theres always reasons for not liking something. just because you dont understand how someone can dislike something you may like doesnt mean theyre doing it for "brownie points"
@@jtklmn if you don’t have an actual reason to shit on something other than it’s kinda similar to this other thing and it’s popular to shit on, yeah you’re doing it for brownie points
Men: *let women do most of the housework, care for the kids while handling all social gatherings and a job*
Also men: "yOu'Re NEvEr in ThE MoOd anYmoorree"
It is unbelievable to me that people don't apologize or think they're apologizing for "nothing". As someone who has been mentally beaten down and abused by previous bosses, I immediately apologize for anything I think might have upset someone even the tiniest amount. I am told all the time that I apologize too much or that I "don't need to apologize for that" but I'm still going to after everything I've been through. It's a defense mechanism and I do it to stop myself from going through that again and I would rather apologize too much than too little. I don't think you can apologize for "nothing". If you feel like you have to apologize for "nothing" all the time, maybe you're in an abusive relationship and should seek help.
Bro my parents decided that i couldnt date and when a boy asked me out for homecoming they flipped the fuck out. And everytime i so much as mention a boy talking to me they got immediately talk about how he just wants to sleep with me.... I'm 15. I've also dated a girl for year without them knowing the whole time. THEM TELLING ME I COULDN'T DATE JUST STOPPED ME FROM TELLING THEM AND ASKING FOR ADVICE 😃
Omg ur seats for ateez are crazy😭 I seen them in Newark for both days and it was freezing
I was so confused because I initially interpreted 'sucking' as in 'being somehow bad or unpleasant' which would have been a nice positive thing. "I sucked until I got married". I guess I should've known better... 😖
scary that someone at the dog groomer thinks that raising your voice at dogs is okay
It's too bad that both of the straight men who know how to treat a woman are taken
That's why being t4t is better, transhet men know how to treat women right, most cishet men don't
Marriage is such a weird concept. Its like, I love you so much, that I'm gonna make it difficult for you to leave by signing a government certified contract.
"would you still love me if I was a worm?" have I been watching a fellow Dune enjoyer this whole time?
Love your content! Your hair is so cute today! 💟
"If a dog has babies you can put an ad for them in the paper" omg.....
You can sell human babies too, just need to put them on the dark web
@@genericname2747 ew :(
@@cai3886 I want to clarify that this comment is not serious. Do not to this. Do not.
@@genericname2747 :)
@@cai3886 :)
My dad and mom (i suspect she knows) don't know about my boyfriend of 3 years because of the whole "you can have a boyfriend until your thirty thing" I've gone to prom with this guy and to every hs dance with him. I spent a week at his home in the summer. My brother can take his gf to Christmas but I because I am not sure if I'm allowed to have a partner I don't even ask. Now, as I'm graduating, I have been wondering for ages when I should tell them. It's a serious relationship. We plan on spending the rest of our lives together and have had 0 fights or arguments throughout the relationship, which I'm very proud of.
YOUR DOG IS SO CUTE ❤ thank you for blessing us with a picture
the thing that cracks me up abt Straight People saying "oh my small child said they're gonna marry their little friend how cute" is that like. when i was a kid (about......7?) one of my friends ""married"" my dog. tbh it was more like an excuse to have a fancy party lmao
9:26
Our dad always had a rule that we couldn't "date" (go out on dates and stuff), until we got our driver's license. He never wanted us to be in a position where if something bad happened, we couldn't get home ourselves
im in love with your video titles
16:48 on the contrary, my dogs get very sassy when they smell another dog on me. One side eyes me and the other essentially yells at me
Ever notice you never see any
“Sorry girls, Mommy said I can’t date untill I’m 30”
Shirts or anything
Oh they exist. Not as common but they're out there.
my dog does get mad if she smells another dog on me and she does wake me up at night to ask "If I di3d would you get another dog"
Boomers hating their spouses is just a symptom of a culture that shamed and belittled people who got divorced. We need to change how we view breakups and divorce - it can be a very healthy change for someone and can take a lot of courage to do.
i love u sav!!
OMFG worth it indeed, I legit gasped irl when I saw how close your fan cam was!! I got into ATEEZ like 2 weeks after they played my city on the world tour, so jelly T_T
I can't let go of the whole "dogs are more excited to see you the later you are" thing. Like....yeah, if you've been neglecting them all day and they're lonely and hungry and need to go out! Get fucked, Sign Guy.
Beautiful savannah always love your videos you are an amazing woman love you so much always excited to see your videos
love your hair!😁
Honestly the fighting babies would be the only gender reveal I'd watch. That's true gender. A battle to the death.
hope you’ll feel better soon savannah :(
In regard to being made told to say sorry for no reason, that has happened to me. Not by a partner, but by parents when I got a little too close to the truth of them playing the victim card.
I like how you redyed your hair. Nice to see it more vibrant again.
Hope you feel better soon!! 💐🌸💮🏵🌹🌺🌻🌼
Got so hyped when you said you were drinking lemon ginger, cuz I'm also drinking lemon ginger tea :D