some people should not be parents
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I am so serious when i say the parents of that 9 year old girl need to have all of their devices looked through, THROUGHLY. Parents who sexualize their kids, any gender, need to be restrained. I've never seen it end well
Yeah it smells like sexualizing the child has already occurred
Yup. 100% a kink to them
As soon as I saw that photoshopped picture my heart sank
@@krazyworld6433
😂😂😂age is only a,##
@@bobbyknight3589jail is only a place
I was cut off from my medication because my doctor left the state and the hospital didn’t set me up with a new one like they were supposed to. When I ran out I had a week long manic episode. I was so dizzy I couldn’t drive. I couldn’t eat. I was laughing out loud for no reason. It was hell.
Taking away your kids medication is abuse. Straight to jail.
Second this. I had that happen to me once with my anti-psychotics (back when I still took them). I found the meds after two days of searching (they were in some socks in my mom's bedside cabinet, damn bitch) but I still had terrible rebound psychosis and ended up in a ward almost.
Tampering with medication should definitely be a felony
Not to mention, depending on the medication, it is DANGEROUS to stop cold turkey.
@@alliet.7582 Very true. Antipsychotics for example can cause baad brain zaps. Benzos can cause seizures if you quit cold turkey. Anti depressants can also cause brain zaps and even be painful sometimes when you quit cold turkey, I've heard.
I had similar experience just withdrawing from anti depressants. It was so awful. I definitely sympathise.
took my parents forever to get me the medication I needed even tho they were noticing symptoms from early kindergarten, but now that I'm one year from being an adult I finally get to have a little less pain in my life, yaaay :')
The mom who stole her kids' meds and hid them is so fucked up... I have a friend whose mom takes her ADHD meds in order to stay up late and work... First of all, my friend needs her medication and second, have coffee! Have an energy drink! There are so many other ways to stay up late besides putting your child in literal danger!
That's so horrible wtf
What the actual hell-
Bruh...Even from a selfish perspective that is just dangerous to do medically for yourself. WTF??
Call the police on her. She’s doing drugs without a proscription (and drugs she *DOESNT OWN*)
Thats actually deplorable
Could you even imagine being 14 and knowing your mom breastfeeds your 7 yr old sibling? Can’t imagine what the other kids are going through
Maybe she did the same to the older kid until the new baby was born!
@@jgr_lilli_ yeah! They’re all gonna need help when they get older
im hoping that was a troll
If this kid is 7 and not independant for bathroom I bet they also are homeschooled. School would have taught them even if the parents refuse to, or they would have straight told the parents they can't get schooled if they can't go to bathroom
I just got to that part and vomited at the 'refused to potty train him' part. What the actual Hell. And damn, I'm very jaded so it's difficult to get under my skin
Nope the school would just tell the parents to send about 4 outfits and pairs of clean underwear per day in a plastic bag in their bookbag. I know this because my child was diagnosed on autism spectrum and wouldn't use the restroom. They just made us send extra clothing to school with her. They refused to let her wear pull ups, even though her doctor said letting her just have accidents in her pants was unhygienic and not healthy.
@@lorisreality8681 That is so messed up. I struggle with accidents as an adult, and it is beyond embarrassing to deal with. But as an adult I'm able to clean up when needed, have a quick soak in the tub or jump in the shower, etc. How they're treating your daughter seems...barbaric. I feel for her
Exactly this. My kindergarten worked with my family to potty train me, theres no chance an elementary school would allow a kid to go un-trained
@@lorisreality8681 Yeah but that was for medical reasons the mother never mentioned her kid was special needs so she is just a lazy selfish person
I totally agree with the food thing. The only time a food is "BAD" is if you are allergic or it has bad chemicals that make you sick. (Which can happen without a full-blown allergy.)
Also, most allergies and intolerance are not for life. For example, doctors now recommend seeing allergists for peanut allergies because they're treatable and banning peanut products now that it can be treated isn't necessary. Crohn's disease and Celiacs are rare but are examples of life long conditions that require food restrictions. However, food allergies that last a lifetime and are lethal are the exception and can be treated or outgrown so frequent retesting is necessary.
Nutrition is important, not food, nutrition. McDonald's is horrible for you and you don't want to be so lax that you're letting a kid eat all fast food and junk food, that's just as damaging as restrictions. Instead teach health, nutrition, and moderation of junk food. McDonald's is a once a month treat, but because of how processed and junk it is. But homemade burgers and fries are different, and healthy! Black and white thinking is never good.
That says these parents are terrible.
You probably won't see this but it's comforting to hear an adult say that parents and their children are equals. When I was growing up my mom always told me that I wasn't on her level. She even told my 21 year old sister that she is still a child during an argument. But the thing is that's not even the tip of the iceberg of what she said to me and my siblings. I honestly can't wait to grow up even more and move out. But thank you.
I completely agree, I also felt comforted. I'm 22 and sometimes my mom acts as if I was still underage (she sometimes tries to control what I do, like if I want to go out or whatever) and it makes me so upset because when I finally thought I had the independence that I wanted after turning 18 (keep in mind that my mom is one of those parents that tells you that after you turn 18 you are an adult and have to do stuff by yourself and blablabla, the hypocrisy of it all), she came up with new excuses to try to keep controlling me (she couldn't use the "you're still a minor and I'm your parent" excuse anymore).
Thankfully she's not as crazy as these insane parents. She's been more and more accepting as time passes by (every time she's less and less mean), but she eventually needs to finally understand that I stopped being a child a long time ago.
I wish my relationship with my mom wasn't like this and was more ideal (there's some other stuff that could be better/improved, but that's another story), but I'm thankful for the fact that at least it could be so much worse and it isn't.
I hope your situation isn't as bad as these stories. Anyway, I hope you get out of it as soon as possible. ✨
Omg, I feel you and the commentor above me so much!! My dad always says "there is so much you still have to learn", and yes, I am 21, but he puts it in my face like he is saying I know nothing in life and he does, so I should just shut up and listen. I lately have been thinking on stop using pads during my periods and changing to tampons (to use the cup later, apparently it helps with the transition). He is so against it, saying even doctors have proven that it takes the virginity of girls away, etc (which first of all, it does not, second of all, I lost my virginity a few months ago and can't even tell him, so yey). But yeah, his believes are the thing that should forever be respected and all, if we try to think or have an opinion on our own, we are rude ane disobediant and all the bla bla
My mom can be like this as well. We got in a massive argument before my senior year of high school purely because I only wanted to take one AP class so I had more time to focus on college applications. Even entering college, she pressured me to join the honors program when I didn’t want to, and didn’t seem to get that I was burnt out and wanted to take a step back. Even now that I’m in my mid-20s, anytime I try to set boundaries or disagree with her about something, I’m being “disrespectful.” And then she wonders why I moved across the country
My grandma told my mom the day she gave birth to my little brother (3rd of the family) that they were now equals. Because they had the same number of kids. My mom was gobsmacked. 😮
my whole family could fit perfectly in this subreddit
oof thats gotta suck
dam mine too, hope you can get out soon, I'm finally in college and its making me soo happy
@@universal_stupidity i'm working on an escape plan bc even once i turn 18 they'll force me to stay so i can't just pack my things and tell them i'm moving out lmao
@midnightmakesart thats fair, but i hope you understand how controlling that is. I would suggest getting out however you can and going low/no contact atleast for a while, but I know its generally more complex than that
@@universal_stupidity i understand that they're really controlling i mean they give me no privacy, won't let me buy anything without their permission and won't even let me get a part time job bc i "wanting to make some money during summer break isn't a good excuse" and i'm mostly terrified that they'll beat me to a pulp if they catch me trying to leave. they aren't afraid to hurt me. they sometimes hit me/chase me around the house for fun (well at least my mom. my grandparents just tell me i'm worthless). gotta love how i'm more comfortable around complete strangers than my own family lol (sorry for the long reply btw)
The mom having sex with her kid in the bed is so disgusting. And its very possible her kid has been awake during that before but was just too scared to speak up, especially since they screamed for them to stop. It sounds to me like the kid was frustrated with them having sex repeatedly with her in the bed but didn't want to confront it
23:15 This definition of emotional abuse as isolation actually gave me chills. I hadn’t ever heard it phrased with such specificity before, but it nails the thing on its head. Holy shit. I was extremely lonely and isolated as a child and it STILL affects me adversely today. It’s like I don’t even know how to be a real person. 😭 🥺 Fuck parents, man. Why can’t they just treat children like people?! Were they never children themselves?!
The 16 year old who goes to bed at nine and doesn't have a phone - to be honest, what safety issues are there? Where would he get into trouble? He's homeschooled and doesn't have friends. Mom probably has him chained to the radiator in the attic, when he goes out of state with Dad he probably gets walked around with one of those toddler leashes. The only reason he'd be calling for help is to get away from THEM and they definitely won't allow that. Poor kid.
still better than those teenagers undergoing srs, and "top surgeries"
@@firasjemil213What a lovely, baseless, prejudiced claim that has no scientific backing whatsoever.
Would love to inform you that gender confirming care, which even cis people (including kids) go through, is considered life saving treatment as it has significantly more pros and less cons than letting a person suffer without it - lack of treatment often times leads to self-harm and sewerside, btw.
Don't come to a Queer Channel and try to spread nonsense claims because you can't stand other people happily living in a way you disagree with for literally no reason other than you being severely uneducated.
@@firasjemil213 This bait is so obvious that even a fish would avoid it 💀
@@firasjemil213 omg!! your balls are falling off
@firasjemil213 bro has 227 comments on this channel 💀
People be damn crazy. And the first one is why you dont have a bank account your family can access
Taking away $100 because they didn't send a picture of their room seems like a excuse to take money away from them. I hope they get their own bank account asap😟
I absolutely LOVE kids. I just got done working at a summer camp, and it was one of the most fun and fulfilling jobs I’ve ever had. Kids are amazing, intelligent, imaginative, and just a very bright presence to be around.
The fact that people don’t appreciate their kids-or sometimes even mistreat them-makes me so sad and upset. Kids are lovely. Be good to your kids, play with them, love them, and teach them well. They deserve it.
you'd probably be a great parent :)
@@oksanavolkova3336 Thank you! I’ve been told that by several people, and it always makes me so happy to hear. I don’t know if I’ll ever have kids, but if I do, I hope to be the best parent I can possibly be. And even if I don’t, I’ll probably work with kids in some context for the rest of my life.
the thing that makes me the saddest is kids having to be the adults doing the adult talk like the person taking the depression medicine and parents being like " i hid it i hid it you wont take it i read on ionternet blsa blah" maam you are supposed to be the nurturing parental figure, not the spoiled shit kid of this family relationship, your kid would love not to take medicine, they NEED it, and as the kid said, at LEAST let them be off the medicine slowly.
every kid leaving the toxic traumatising enviroment such parents have creatred for them deserve the world
My relationsip with my mom is complicated, she tends to view the world in a rose tinted way even though her life wasn't easy and pretends that everything, including herself, is perfect. The second i started to realize i was my own person and tried to explore what that meant she restricted what i did and when i did it (it only kind of worked). This caused me to feel guilty whenever i did something she didn't like, like wearing anything she didn't think "looked nice" or she thought was "frumpy" (the frumpy outfit in question was a band t-shirt, ripped jeans and a flannel.
This trend of not liking it when i try to express myself has recently leaned to the fact that i came out as aroace and she immediately denied it and said "no, you just haven't found the right person yet" and now regularly talks about me giving her grandkids, which is weird as hell. Im 18 and i can't do anything without feeling incredibly guilty even though i know i shouldn't and even my dad (my parents are divorced) is starting to tell me to become more independent and break away from that control, as well as all of my friends. I try as best i can, but because of the fact that my mom pretty much encouraged me to second and triple guess everything i do, i struggle to find my footing as an almost adult.
(Sorry, just needed to vent)❤
Nothing wrong with venting. You'll find your way though the difficulties, just hang on.
your mum sucks, I'm sorry you have to deal with that. Sending supportive vibes through the screen
(Also I'm aroace too! You're valid and you don't need a partner to be fulfilled 💚🤍🖤💜
You don't owe her children if you don't want them for yourself. You're a valid ace/aro with a very cool fashion sense. Keep your head up! You are more capable than you think
you sound like me
Oh man, Savannah would have a field day with Almond Moms but I wouldn’t want her to be triggered.
I just looked up what an almond mom is, and YIKES. You’re definitely right, but I wouldn’t blame her or even people who don’t/haven’t struggle(d) with food if they wanted to socially distance from the subject
as The Click says, sometimes you think people should need a license to parent
(yes practically it wouldn't work but still)
I think they do something like that in like Switzerland or something actually
I remember one of my cousins once telling me and my mom about her "adult time", which was already wierd enough. But when she added the fact that they did it with their two year old in the room I was like 😟
And her reasoning was "He's to young to know what it is anyway." Girl 😐.
I grew up an only child of a single parent, so I dont know if its a normal occurance to see something like that between you parents, but is still disturbed me none the less.
I was 15 and on anti-depressants that were making me miserable, and instead of taking me back to the doctor to get my meds changed/adjusted, my mom decided I was just going to quit them cold turkey by taking me across the country for my 16th birthday for two weeks without them. Literal hell.
Bluey has the perfect take on playing with kids. It shows such value in taking a step back and seeing the wonder of the world through their eyes. Yes sometimes it's boring, but I have neurodivergent siblings with special interests and I have to sit and listen to them talk and talk about a book or a videogame or the etymological root word in one of the names of a character in lord of the rings sometimes. Its not always thrilling exactly, but the point is taking the time out of your day to show them that you care about them and their interests, because they matter to you. Relationships aren't always the glory part that makes you feel good, sometimes its about putting your wants aside to invest in someone you care about. And this is doubly so with parents, its so important, because if you dont you're teaching them that you don't think spending time with them and the things they care about are important. As someone who had an emotionally neglectful mother who never played with me, and a dad who never really knew how to play aside from giving me a block of wood, a hammer and a tin of nails, or catch sometimes, it fucking hurt. And it effected the way I socialized growing up because I thought if i couldnt maintain someone's interest that meant the bad that i felt was just normal and because im not worth spending time with.
Play with your kids, jesus christ.
the retirement home gonna be full afte all this
i think breastfeeding can be damaging to children past a certain age. something to do with the teeth but im not sure
Nah, bottle feeding is bad for their teeth, at night if they sleep with the bottle. But if you brush their teeth before bed, and teach them once they're old enough for that level of dexterity, then their teeth should be fine. Breastfeeding is always ok, until school age
@@audreydoyle5268 im just repeating what i saw someone say but again, im not sure
I wouldn't wash a fork for my dad when I was 16, bc it was in the plastic sink insert with old water in it, and I JUST CAN'T touch that kind of stuff. He ripped the plastic tub out and stomped on it then took the plates off my car and hid my keys...
Reading through this thread, I'm so glad my mom seems sane compared to some other parents, but only marginally bc I have PLENTY of stories about her that would be right at home on this thread 😂
The ramen thing is always so so funny to me bc in my country we have “soup in a bag” which is powdered “soup” with some pasta/noodle thing in it and you dump it into water and get soup from it. It’s the exact same concept as ramen but my entire family raves how ramen is so unhealthy and “fattening” food while in the same breath saying I need to eat more “soup” and I’m like …… bestieeee
6:39 THAT HIT ME LIKE A TRUCK WHAT!?!? ADMITTING TO MENTALLY STUNTING A CHILD ON PURPOSE JUST BECAUSE SHE FELT LIKE IT!?!?
Seeing these insane people have made me that much more grateful for my mom. She's honestly amazing.
I was forced out of therapy and was taken off 50milligrams of hydroxizine by my parents bc they thought i deserved the consequences of being SA'd by someone and harrassed every day by that person for turning them in. It was awful
Bro holy shit, I'm so sorry
@b0xbrain it's ok I'm away from the person now
Damn... I have borderline like you... And the story you told about having to give your friends your treats from your lunch box, because you felt pressure to do so because if you didn't you felt like they wouldn't be your friend anymore.. That fucking HITS HOME. I used to use my allowance to stock up on candy and other sweets to dole out to people who I wanted to like me... It was like a bargaining chip; so terrible for my self-esteem as a child, I swear... I just... can relate.
I really love your insight on these sort of takes. Your videos always help me find the right words to express how I also feel on all those shitty people's posts that give me the ick.
7:21 when I was around 4 or 5, I want to say. I taught myself how to go to the bathroom, because I wanted to be a "big girl" and my little sister was the baby. (We are 15 months apart)
I see absolutely no reason why I seven-year-old wouldn't already know whether she taught him or not, so I agree with you and my conclusion is that she is stopping him
Children learn from their surroundings - they're curious af. Its why they come in with you when you go to the bathroom, theyre trying to get a grasp for what youre doing lol. (which is why u set boundaries at that age)
I have no doubt in my mind that kid knows how already from books, TV, and no boundaries but feels unsafe in doing so or has been forced to mentally regress.
CPS needs to be called asap.
@@esterbun9356 100%
6:15 i would've called child protective services IMMEDIATELY because that is selfish to an insane degree. like who in their right mind stops their child's development like that ON PURPOSE???
That playing with kids one makes me sad for them, and confused for the parent. I have a theee year old daughter and playing with her is literally the most fun and happiest thing I’ve ever done in my life.
Also, Bluey is everything. :-D
17:07 yeah i had to hide food from my mom. Now im dealing with an ed :)
The bunny in the background falling over at 20:13
Ikr it fell over twice
8:23 like dude Adopting exist but she’s probably the type that believes “adopted children aren’t ur real children” 🙄☠️
the thing about the parent not wanting to play with their kids is so sad to me since i have parents who didnt like playing with me very much. like sometimes when i was younger they would play dolls with me, or maybe the occasional board game, but most of the time they wouldnt. either they were too busy, or didnt feel like it, or didnt want to because it was something they didnt understand. i have so many board games and card games that ive wanted to play and never have because my parents literally never want to try anything new because they "wont understand" the rules. i tried to get my dad into playing ace attorney with me only for a week later to say he never liked it and thought it was boring to my face, we played clue as a family and it was fine until my dad accused me of cheating (not in a joking way either), and so now most times i don't even try to ask them to do things with me. i wish they would put the tiniest amount of effort in to at least *try* to understand the games i want them to play, to spend time with me, but they don't. like. if you're going to have a kid then maybe you should. idk?? engage with them and play????
especially since they can force me to go out with them because "its good to get out of the house" and i can't say no, but the second i want to play a game its an instant refusal. like ok. cool.
Honestly, my relationship with my mom has been going down hill for a while , i remember, in elementary, i was awake in the middle of the night playing on my ds, my mom walks in, yells at me, and then knocks all of my stuff over saying "you might aswell have a reason to be up" 💀
26:02 I don't know where I would be if my parents hadn't played with me and my siblings, time spent with them literally makes up most of my childhood memories that I can still remember.
AMEN on no food is good or bad. That's how you get an eating disorder. All food is food and we need food to nourish us, and sometimes food is fuel and sometimes food is culture, and both are valid.
Big mood on the relationship question food being strained. I was forced to share so much and being imposed food restrictions, every time I bought food home from a restaurant I'd go out of my way to hide it and eat it in secret. Like I couldn't have this treat for myself unless I hid it. I never shoulda had to do that.
Parents and their flawed logic
The antidepressant situation shocked me. i used to have a very weak immune system. I could get seriously ill literally from wind blown over me. In days when it was -5 and lower my parents would literally let me stay home until it gets warmer or school ends. And mental health is health too
Punishment and negative reinforcement are different. Negative reinforcement is when you reward someone for not displaying undesirable behaviour, and is an effective method of changing behaviour.
Punishment, by contrast, is when you harm someone in response to undesirable behaviour. It trains the victim to hide the behaviour, not to change it.
now im not a darwinist HOWEVER.. maybe some people should be forced to not have children
Ah, eugenicist comment spotted. bruh
Education > restriction
Eugenics is fucked up, don't even go there. Don't even think about going there. Nothing, and I repeat nothing good is in that direction of thinking.
@@yms4355 didnt think it was an unpopular opinion that people who abuse children shouldnt be allowed to have children but goddamn
I'd say the child in bed isn't sexual harassment, it's sexual abuse. Exposing children to sexual acts at a young age like that, even unintentionally, is classified as sexual abuse. I'd argue the breastfeeding mom also falls under that umbrella.
My mom took me off my anti depressants after a month of being on it because I kept forgetting to take it without being reminded and didn't think to set alarms or put it in like a week capsule thing. Mind you I was a fresh new teenager at 14.
It's so crazy. Every time there's sum weird shit, we both say "why are u thinking about that?" At the same time every time.😂😂😂
I can't believe people would actually admit to most of these?? And that they just don't seem to understand that what they're doing is fucked up.
Right? Like you literally post about you and your wife were having fun time in your bedroom while your daughter is there and not seeing why that is wrong... common sense to the roof.
I also hate playing with kids, I get super awkward and just don't know how to interact with them, and also get bored. HOWEVER, I remember loving to play with my parents when *I* was a kid, and that's the only reason I'd need to play with my kids if I had any.
I will always say this about food better to eat something then nothing.
I’m banned from Olive Garden because my mom stole my medication and withheld it from me after I was removed from my home and moved to my grandparents. How does Olive Garden come into play? In an attempt to get my Effexor back to avoid the severe withdrawal syndrome it’s known for, I tried to have a conversation over a meal. She immediately jumped into insulting me so I got up to leave and she “hugged me” from behind (grabbed me) so I turned around and told her to let me go. She refused and tried to choke me out so I punched her. She tackled me in the parking lot. I have a medical condition that causes low muscle tone (cataplexy) so when she tried to choke me AGAIN I slipped my head down and bit her arm as hard as I could until she let me go. My friend who was with me saw the pills in her purse so I snagged them and threw them across the parking lot and said “RUN! GO GET THEM!” And my friend got them. The cops came and my mom somehow still claimed she had not stolen my prescription medications from me. So I asked the the cops to look at what I “stole from her”. They were so confused why she was acting like this and accusing me of this when my name is literally on the FUCKING BOTTLE.
I’ve experienced simple withdrawal from my antidepressants, and while it wasn’t quite as extreme as savs reaction, withdrawl symptoms still aren’t fun.
The bit about “stealing” the AirPods unlocked a memory of my parents screaming at me when I was 12 that I had stolen my step dads wedding ring and the entire family screamed at me and shamed me for an entire day just to find out that dummy had accidentally set a pop can on top of it and never bothered to move it to check.
Oh my god this reminded me of my prom night. I was the most boring square never did literally anything had one goody two shoes friend in all honors classes 4.3 GPA kind of kid. Never went to a single party. Never even sipped alcohol.
I went to prom and I come home and my mom spends about 45 minutes ripping into me about drinking at prom and I was so confused bc I had never touched alcohol in my life (I was 17 at the time too so it’s not like other people my age weren’t, but she knew me and what kind of kid I was well enough to know I wouldn’t drink and drive home). And then she kept yelling at me and tearing into me for lying she knew I had been drinking she could smell it on me (I wasn’t near anyone who was drinking I literally drove directly from my school gymnasium to my mom’s house and it was before 1 am lol). Anyway she took my car keys that I bought and paid my car insurance and gas for, and she told me I can’t have them if I’m going to drunk drive (understandable but again I had literally never drank in my life). And she just kept tearing into me to The point where it woke up both my siblings in other parts of the house (upstairs AND the basement) and they were like jfc yell at her in the morning it’s almost 2 am.
Well in the morning i was really calm and apologetic like hey I’m sorry I promise I wasn’t drinking idk what to do to make you believe me idk why you think this bc I literally wasn’t, idk why you don’t trust me or know me at all. And she just went “oh yeah I remembered I sprayed lysol in your room while you were gone so I was smelling that”
And she didn’t even apologize. No. She was messing around in my already tidy bedroom when I wasn’t home and then yelled at me for almost an hour to the point where she woke up everyone else in the house, just bc she was too busy invading my privacy and too dumb to remember that she sprayed lysol everywhere. That was very infuriating at the time. Mostly bc she didn’t even apologize for it. And she didn’t even give my car keys back for a few days so I ended up having to walk to and from school in 100 degree weather in May on the following Monday/Tuesday (which like I know is not a big deal but it’s a big deal when you’re 17 and you don’t HAVE to do it but your mom won’t admit that she made a mistake). She still hasn’t said sorry 😂
Also the irony is now that I’m in college and legal drinking age she always asks me why I don’t go out to bars and why don’t I go to Halloween parties and why don’t I want to come to her place and drink wine and watch TV with her. Like damn I didn’t know a couple years made that much of a difference.
Nah, breast feeding at 7 is absolutely wild, because how has he not ripped his mothers nipples off?, and that’s gonna cause dental issues !!
30:15 excuse me, that’s absolutely fucking dangerous. i’m on antidepressants and a couple months back there were some issues with my insurance so i couldn’t visit a doctor to get a refill for two days. it was HELL. i was shaking, cried for no reason, my anxiety went through the roof and i had these weird bodily sensations where it felt like i got electric shocks straight into my brain. and i was lucky. technically you could get serotonin syndrome from just stopping antidepressants which can lead to coma and even death if not treated.
that’s straight up abuse.
As a kid my parents wouldn’t let me sleep in the bed with them as a kid so I would sleep on the floor. I could hear them and figured out early on about how babies are made because of it. I’m not scarred or anything but it was very strange.
The way your kids room lioks is up to them, but we do have a say if it gets too bad. Dishes get lost, it stinks and can attract pests. That dude is insane for taking 100 bucks but a parent does have a reason to care how that room is kept (within reason)
And they still think we're the problem 😂😂
10:30 WITH THE KID IN THE BED???😭😭 That's illegal, right??
don't photoshop your kids ever? but what if they have a spiderman costume and you wanna photoshop them on the ceiling or on the wall D:
You get a pass lol
Okay but me as an older sister I dislike playing with my younger sister not like silly imagination games but “oh let’s play mincraft! But it’s real life!!!!” She has access to actual mincraft
Re the facebook posting mother - I've really got to wonder why she needed "proof" that the teen thinks she's a good parent
Why is no one addressing that the mom that still breastfeeds and hasn't potty trained her 7 y/o said she'd post a pic of his diaper rash?
If ramen is most of what you can afford, try to also get frozen vegetables if you can afford them. Eggs are also good. If you do not have access to a refrigerator or freezer, canned vegetables are fine but try to get unsalted - you will get a lot of sodium and it’s not great if you have issues with high blood pressure (I am very upset by people trying to police my sodium intake when I lose sodium very rapidly and get severely nauseous without enough sodium. Different people need different things). It helps you get some additional nutrition that won’t be available in just the noodles and doesn’t require extra time to prepare like rice and beans might take. There is 5 minute rice and canned beans which can be a good option when you’re very broke too. Source: a broke human who likes food.
I used to share my mother’s computer and one day she wrote a post very similar to that one on my Facebook too when I found out I deleted my Facebook account and she got mad until today I just use social media if she doesn’t have an account on it
not video related but- OH MY GOSH YOU'RE A STAY TOO?
People tend to forget that until pretty recently, every person in the family shared the same room.
When it was cold, or they were poor, they shared the same bed.
Families continued to grow.
7:28 public schools wouldn’t let him attend until he is esp because he’s not disabled
Correction: only photoshop your kids into ridiculously fun environs, like riding the family dog as if it's Falcor form the Neverendibg Story, or scaling an anthill as if it's Mt Everest or something like that. Otherwise 100% agree.😅😅 (For people's birthday's I used to do stuff like that on FB. I was broke🤷♀️😅) Damn, now the song is stuck in my head *again*.💚😂
Oh yeah & one year I took a photo of my kid making a really silly face and one of those wooden drawing maniquins with toy accessory props & used the photocopier to make silly invitations for his birthday party. No photoshop required. (I've actually never used Photoshop, only MS Paint. It takes a lot more work, but like I said, I was broke)
Under 16, I definitely go into their rooms. Teenagers are sketchy af lol but mine are 19 and 20 so I don't even go in there anymore. If they want to live like a hoarder, they can do it down the hallway and don't bring that mess into the rest of the house😂
Im not a parent but I get why you'd want your kids room clean. If its a little disorganized or messy it's not a problem. But genuinely having like empty food containers, dishes, stuff all over the floor to the point you can barely see it, laundry piled two feet up on the floor. That stuff is disgusting and attracts bugs plus mice (happened to me and my brother).
My mom banned ramen from the house after I ate so much of it. Didn’t have any health issues from it or anything, she just decided that I ate it too much. This was when I was going to high school online and had to provide my own lunch and dinner most days. I love my parents and we have a great relationship overall, but after my sister moved out, there was absolutely no structure and I basically had to finish raising myself. It was always a big deal to have a home cooked meal until I started cooking more consistently for everyone. Now that I don’t cook as much anymore, we again rarely have home cooked meals and often have to fend for ourselves. It’s not a huge deal but it can be really frustrating at times. Parents NEED to be consistent and kind when it comes to meal times
People should really start treating children like they're actually humans instead of possessions would be nice
I know in practice a license to parent would probably go horribly wrong but fuck, sometimes i wish it were a thing
Also family channels (any social media platform) should be banned
Gonna paraphrase a joke from one of my fave comedians, Steve Hofstetter.
I’ve never raised a kid before… I’ve also never flown a helicopter before, but if I saw one in a tree, I’d still be like “Dude fucked up.”
I love this so much oh my God
LMAO LITERALLY
I have a similar one. "I don't need to be a skydiver to know the guy doing it without a chute is doing it wrong."
@overlordfemto7523tell me you didn't get it without telling me you didn't get it
@overlordfemto7523????????
Breastfeeding a 7 year old is absolutely not normal. That mom seriously needs therapy because keeping your child in a pseudo-baby stage is not healthy for her or her son
yeah wtf
It's giving Bates Motel.
Time to emotionally stunt my child
@@ErutaniaRose 😭😭😭
I actually don't have a problem with a seven-year-old who breastfeeds (they're going to be eating solid food as well, since a child that size can't live on the milk of one woman alone), but fucking *_diapers . . . ?_*
As a parent, why would you not want to potty train your kid? Once they know how its a huge weight off your shoulders, this isnt good for anyone and the fact that the father hasn't done anything to help shows either hes lost in the sauce as well or he doesnt care bout his kids. DCF, CPS all of the child agencies should be on them now
I get the vibe the dad's probably not in the picture anymore
I'm genuinely wondering how she even did that? Kids usually want to stop wearing diapers at a certain point, I never directly potty trained my kids and let them tell me when they wanted to stop wearing diapers. Both of them stopped wearing them during the day by the time they were about 2,5 years old. You'd have to actively force your kid to keep wearing diapers when they already don't want to anymore.
My sister's chool age kids still wear diapers and run around naked. Her nearly adult children still dont flush the toilet and throw their trash and fpod on the floor.
Parents like this should be sued due to negligence ... is a cathegory of child emotional abuse
Back when I lived with my parents we had a neighbour with a 7 year old in diapers. He was healthy.
No issues, but when he was younger and came home from kindergarden (where he wore no diaper the whole day!) He would demand a diaper and his mother would put him in one.
She once asked me to watch him, while she was at the dentist and I told her I would do it, but I would NOT change diapers on a 7 year old.
She agreed
I told him the same and he nodded.
My neighbour left and the son went into the backyard to play.
Half an hour later he told me he needed a chance.
I looked at him and said "Tough luck" and ignored him.
His sister came home an hour later and she changed him!
Not only did this freaking 7 year old soil himself and wore a soggy diaper for one and a half hour, no the whole family apparently was totally fine with this situation.
I never did watch her kids again.
Didn't got paid either but didn't care tbh
do they even love their kids? all people deserve parents but not all people deserve to be a parent.
They don't.
They dont. And when they get old they will tell there kids "You owe me for taking care of you growing up"
ngl my parents too @marshalmarrs3269
they are gonna complain about having 'ungrateful kids' to their friends @@witchy90210
not surprised. many people have kids cuz society told them its mandatory... it wasn't their desire.. poor kids @@catrakitten
The Mom breastfeeding a seven year old sounds very narcissistic
She's breastfeeding and not potty training for her own gratification
That poor child is going to need significant therapy as an adult
Yes, Savanah talks in the video like it does no harm, but I'm pretty sure there is psychological harm in breastfeeding a child this old. They are way too self-aware for that.
Call CPS for all the children involved PRONTO.
Mmm cheesecake...
IKR like when did flashing children, depriving them from nutrients (Are they using a diaper because his intestines are fd up?) and having elementary school children sucking on adults nipples become socially acceptable? I'd make a neighbor like that face the wall.
@@jackiearnoldsI don’t think there is, unless the child isn’t actually okay with it like the mom says.
The American Academy of Family Physicians has estimated that the natural weaning age is between 2-7 years and the World Health Organization says breastfeeding should continue up to two years or beyond.
Some parents only get by because their kids literally don't know they have rights too.
Taking $100 out of someone's account that they worked for is stealing. Period.
My dad said he would hold my money for me as a kid...he had $350 of my money. he was going on holoday for a week adnd locked my money is a safe.. i called him and asked essentially "wtf...i want my money...where is it?" "It is in my safe and ypu cannot have it." It is MY money I made by delivering papers. He insista i cant have it. I break open his safe. All tbat is in there is MY money. He comes homes and assaults me and threatens to call.police for theft....again...it was MY MONEY lol
@@AaronHendu did u write this drunk 😭😭 but besides that, thats really fucked up. i mean, first of all, YOU made that money by working. its YOURS. secondly, he said he was holding YOUR money for you but later shows his true intentions with it by saying its his and LOCKS IT AWAY?? and if that wasnt bad enough, he literally assaults you, aka commits a crime, because he tried and failed to steal your money, another crime. and to top it all off he threatens to call the police on YOU 💀💀💀???? hes a terrible father and person altogether, i hope youre low-no contact with him and safe now
@@AaronHendu you are the one who should have called the police he tried to steal from you and assaulted you both of which are crimes
my dad had me get a job and work full time the moment i graduated high school (~50 hours) he said i was allowed to have 100 dollars from my weekly paychecks and the rest would go to rent. my paychecks were 500 a week after taxes, so he was making 1600 dollars a month off of my labor
Exactly, if I was that kid I'd switch to something my parents wouldn't have access to asap, since it sounds like this person is out of their house
I just wanted to point out with the part where the parents were 'getting it on' with the kid in the same bed, there's a good chance she *has* woken up to them doing it before/had been awake for a while and just didn't want to say anything. Asking them to stop has the implication that she was aware of something happening for at least a little while
even if she isn't entirely sure of what's going on, one day she'll realize and that's honestly worse than knowing the whole time
The yelling stop too means she was upset by it :(
Imo, parents should NEVERRR do it while their kids are in the house, even in a different room
@@B.l.u.w.i.e I agree, that was the breaking point for my relationship with my mother, thereʻs was already so much strain but that was the last straw. I still have no contact with her.
@B.l.u.w.i.e thats ridiculous. Absolutely ridiculous. And if everyone on the planet agreed with that then most families would be single child households cuz they wouldnt have much time alone to be able to have more children. Sure, dont have sex when your kids are in the room lol. But to never have sex when your kids are even in the house? Yeah, no. You're basically asking intimate couples to forego sexual intimacy simply because they now have a kid.
And anyone who argues, well do it when the kids are in school.
1. Most parents work while their kids are at school. So good luck there.
2. Most kids dont even start going to school until 4 or 5, depending on if they go to preschool or not.
For those arguing well send them on a sleep over.
1. Again same situation with the age thing.
2. Not all kids have friends that invite them to sleep overs.
3. Not all parents have outside or familial support to just send them to grandmas or something.
Like as a parent, of course be respectful. Don't go making it sound like an overt porno ecgoing through the walls when your kid is in THEIR OWN bedroom. But just as much as kids deserve the privacy and all that may entail of their bedrooms so do parents. And essentially expecting parents, and what I would like to assume is a loving couple, to wait for the next 4 years before having opportunities to have sex again at all is the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard in my life.
How can someone be turned on knowing their 4 year old child is right beside them..?
My husband and I didn’t get intimate with the baby in the ROOM once the baby was big enough to sit up, let alone with baby in the bed. My kid slept in my bed until they were like 6 (night terrors, it was rough), and we never once were intimate in the same room. There are so many other rooms in a house, I mean ffs even moving to the floor would be better.
I actually think the line of when to stop being intimate with a child in the room becomes blurry for some people. It's not an excuse because 4 is definitely way too old but I can imagine it's hard for parents to pick a moment when it becomes inappropriate and then they just don't think about it until sth like this happens. Again, I do not agree with having sex in front of toddlers but I think it's a lot pore common than we think.
@@marlyd tbh the best decision would probably be to never do it at all. Yeah maybe a very new baby isn't really aware, but they will be soon
@@marlydI think never is the best option and again how could someone be in the mood when they know there’s another person who isn’t consenting in the room. We already know babies can be traumatized they aren’t objects and their consent matters too
I can’t even let a dog or pet be in the room, let alone a CHILD there’s something wrong with them
My parents had loud sex my whole life, moved as soon as I could. I remember waking up once to my mom begging for sex in the middle of the night (i was sleeping with them that night), but my dad thankfully told her no even tho she kept insisting. Just hearing about parents thinking abt banging while their kids is at home is a major trigger to me, its a terrible feeling in the chest I cannot explain. Im 25 y old today and that still haunts me… fuck look at me trauma dumping on a random youtube video
Hey, I'm so sorry your parents made you go trough that... There is NO excuse to put any adult activities as a priority to children's safety. i.e Drugs, sex, violence etc. Your comment made me realize something about my past. Thank you. I hope you heal well. You're so valuable. xo (And your description about the chest-feeling hits so close to home!)
Hey, I recon RUclips comments arn't a bad place to trama dump. You get to express what you need to, and other people are sort of a bit sheilded, because stuff like that is easier to read than hear, and probably no-one who knows you in offline will see it.
I hope you're doing ok, that sounds so messed up
I've literally had this same experience but my mom would do it with my boyfriend or even some friends over 🫠. Then she would come out and we all had to act like nothing happened. I had to stop bringing people around because it would happen 95% of the time. I've moved out now and have gone low contact.
I relate so much. I remember one time my parents took my phone and headphones and they were having loud sex so I learned the cup song on my old phone I snuck back. I also confronted them at one point because they were waking me up and asked if they could be more quiet and my mom said I was creepy and pervy for listening and laughed. Then they started playing movies during it but they told me theyd play movies during it so then I'd still know. Also one time when I was like 9 my mom left a dildo in the bathroom sink and they blamed me because it was their bathroom, even though they knew about and were ok with me going to their bathroom. All of this happened when I was 14 and younger and only mostly stopped when I was 15
I remember when they were really loud id try to fake cough by their door so id hopefully turn them off, or id beg my brother to knock on their door and ask them something so they'd stop
@@haventpickedanameyet2527”creepy and pervy”!? Are you kidding me!? Who calls a under 14 child a creepy pervert when it’s so obvious that you weren’t trying to listen! Also even if it’s your bathroom, you shouldn’t leave s3x toys out in the open if you have kids. I’m honestly really sorry you had to deal with honestly pretty jerky parents no offense
The fact that anyone can just have a child but you have to visit multiple doctors, have referrals, and get a mild psych evaluation to have an abortion is absolutely wild. If I wanted to have a child right now, I could just do it, but if I want to not have a child because of a situation out of my control, it's illegal?
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Holy shit, FACTS
It really shows you where the values of religiously zealous, bigoted conservatives lie. They view "life" as a gift, even if it's a very fucked up, miserable, and abusive kind of life...
Fr!!!
So true!!!!
These stories are proof that many parents should not only NOT have kids but should be in prison. Your children are not toys or playdough for you to shape or play with when you feel like it and to ignore when you don't, they are people, treat them as such.
i'm sure you meant to say aren't instead of are but i was very confused the first time i read this
The way my mouth DROPPED when the mom took her kids ANTIDEPRESSANT- you are MORE CONCERNED with your daughter sleeping through her alarm than the risk of ENDING HERSELF
sadly, some parents think it isn't real :/ I have a core memory of my parents arguing over my depression diagnosis at 18 when I was still on their insurance and living in their house during first years of college, and i will never forget that my dad said he didn't want to have to pay for therapy. my mom said she didn't want to have to pay for my funeral.
Or hurting herself.
Yup. My mom when I was forced by my older sister and a teacher to tell them that I had been dealing with severe depression…her response was ‘you haven’t seemed depressed’. I had been suicidal for months at that point.
i think it’s also really important to note that when kids grow up in hyper-restrictive homes (ie with technology/internet usage, food, etc), they don’t learn the VERY important skills of restraint and moderation.
i dont understand what you mean by that, could you explain further?
@@neussd8752 I think they mean that because they didn't have free access they never needed to develop the skill of self limiting the time spend on technology (for example). The ability to control desires needs to be trained like any other skill
@@neussd8752
Let's use food as an example:
Kid A has a restricted household, kid B doesn't
When kid A and kid B are now Adults Kid A has no self control, they binge eat unhealthy foods because their parents restricted it leading to them lacking self control and lealding to them having an unhealthy unbalanced diet
Kid B has self control, they may treat themselves but they have a healthy balanced diet unlike kid A
Kid B learned moderation and restraint unlike Kid A
@@purplealpaca9278I agree with you but I’d like to add that when it comes to food, it‘s not only about restraint. I recovered from a binge eating disorder and I used to think my problem was discipline. Throughout my entire teen years, I would try to restrict myself and always fail and then hate myself for not having the “willpower“.
Turns out, healthy eating habits shouldn‘t require any willpower.
I‘ve been practicing intuitive eating for several years now (sounds fancy but it just means not placing any restrictions on your diet and listening to your body).
In the beginning I didn‘t realize what I was doing, I just did it cuz the diet-weight gain-guilt cycle was ruining my mental health and I just stopped caring about what I ate.
So for a while I would continue to eat insane amounts of chocolate but with less and less amounts of guilt. And eventually I started craving it less and less.
I‘m now at the point at which I rarely even crave chocolate anymore. Most of the time the food I‘m most excited for is stereotypically healthy food.
Having to restrain yourself in order to eat healthy is in itself a sign of disordered eating (not necessarily a full blown eating disorder but concerning).
Eating a healthy balanced diet shouldn’t really take any discipline. We‘ve just normalized disordered eating far too much in our society :(
agreed, I wasnt allowed anything in my childhood, no videogames, no phone, no tv, no drinks or snacks. Nothing. Then as soon as I turned 18 I started getting all of the things I was never given in such big measures as if I was trying to get back all the years that I had been denied those things. I still struggle a lot with depending too much on phone and computer, I struggle a lot with staying away from videogames (my form of escapism) and scrolling through socials, and I'm currently struggling with an energy drinks addiction. Turns out all the big talk my mom did about not allowing me anything "for my own good" just made everything worse lmao
The mom that's restricting her kid's food is insane. My parents literally said to me? "Oh my god you've never had ramen? We are going to the store right now, you need to try it."
Ramen isn't going to kill your kids.
@@crookshanks5827 I never said they forced me? I had always wanted to try it, and I told them so.
Also, I never said I was so so healthy.
How did your parents not know if you’d had ramen or not?
And you know what? Restricting them so much is just gonna make them eat it more once they find out it's tasy af
@@blazonglover8192 Look if your raising a kid you're not gonna remember all the years and all the foods they have tried and not tried.
@@blazonglover8192 I go to my friends houses and try things there as well.
Parents see their kids rooms as an extension of their own living space, not as in this area is completely my child’s space
Teaching your kids how to organize their things, clean their room, and take care of things that are important to them (as well as not leaving food and stuff in there for bugs) is a good skill to have. Not taking money away for not doing it, but helping them do it, explaining it, and helping them build life skills is important. Kids need help to learn these skills, it doesn’t just come naturally
Equally in that specific post the person had been TO WORK so their parent had access to their bank account.
I have no idea how that works in other countries, I'm pretty sure in the UK once you're over 16 you'd have to give access to an adult but that might not be the same everywhere.
So this parent is taking money the child has earned from WORKING, over a bedroom, not pocket money/an allowance the parent has given them for doing chores. Also $100 is not a small amount.
It IS an extension of my space given its in my house…
That said, they deserve privacy but they’re not a lone state who can do what they want
@@SunnyMorningPancakesin most states in the US a parent can take money out of your account because they have access to it, but they also can only do so to pay for things for the child. In most states if a child has a job and a parent is taking money from that job to spend on anything other than a child's direct needs the child is entitled to sue for it back.
Yeah, my Dad was very much of the "This house and everything in it belongs to me, and you should count yourself lucky I allow you to board here" school of thought.
man, my mom might have had me before she was ready and she was still very much in the process of becoming an emotionally mature adult while raising me, but at least she made an active effort to fix her mistakes and work on herself as she went. And she understood me and my sis were whole-ass separate people who would need to be able to stand our own as kind, confident, whole women one day. She wasn't ready to start a family, but at least she tried her best to do right by us. We went through some ups and downs in the parent-child dynamic, but we're close now.
I feel that because my mom had me at 19 and my brother at 21. Parents need to learn as they go, but she never refused to take me or a doctor or give me medicine! These people are just abusive in a way that a person should know is wrong!
Same here! Mom had me at 18, sister at 20 and even though she was still very immature at those ages, understandably so, she did everything she could to make life as good as it could be with what we had. She grew up with us in a way. I feel so bad for the kids in these Reddit posts because hooooly shit. This parents are just… something else :///
Same! My mom had me at 21, basically raising me by herself cause my dad was a fucking ass. She definitely wasn‘t ready and I can tell as she really only starts to live now that me and my siblings are older and more independent :( I feel sorry for her :/
On the 7 year old who isnt potty trained story- you'd be surprised how true something like that can be and how damaging it is, my boyfriend has a 12 year old half brother who was raised by his mom (not my boyfriends mom) and he still doesnt know how to use the bathroom, we find literal feces on the floor when he visits and he doesnt go to school, he just sits in his room and plays video games, its horrifying and i wish there was something i could do but cps has been called and they just genuinely suck in our area so nothing has been done
I'm sorry to hear that. Is there any other agency you can call, maybe from your state or city? Or maybe him not being at school could be considered neglect? I'm not familiar with the system in the US, but it is very sad when you care about someone and can't help them.
@@jackiearnolds Honestly everything has been tried and unfortunately I think he might not be saveable anymore, as heartbreaking as it is to say
@@evvieleigh8497 looking forward to the documentary they're gonna make about him in 5-10 years/s
Have you talked to any other adults about this? Cause this sounds really scary
At this point a custody battle would probably be the way to go if you can.
I'm 17 (almost 18) and my parents still have fun with me. Like, we have an hour daily where we just do the randomest quizzes, weekly board game nights, and make up silly little competitions about everything like who washes their hands first. It doesn't matter that any of us are "tOo oLD foR fUN" or whatever bullshit someone can spout. It's fun because it. just. is.
Play is normal behavior in almost all animals, even in adults. Nothing wrong with letting loose and having fun, y'know?
Normalise it for humans too
Sadly, a lot of people think like this they have this thing where they think that when they get old having fun is for kids
this. this this this. everyone needs to hear this.
My mom would shut down behavior a typical kid would do. For example: be really excited over simple things, jump and dance around, laugh too loudly, squeal happily, show big enthusiasm, and whatnot. She would tell me, a lot, I'm embarrassing her; being an embarrassment.
So now, with traumas, I have trouble expressing myself as a person. I have trouble articulating my emotions, thoughts, and feelings. Whenever I'm genuinely excited, I don't sound or even look excited. Even when I'm happy, it's roughly the same thing.
It is what it is.
YES, YES, SO MUCH YES!!! Play isn’t just for children, adults can and should play if they feel the urge. Not only is it not a bad thing, it’s actively a GOOD thing. It helps reduce stress, it can be good exercise if it’s physical, and it’s a good social activity. I may be 22 with the joints of someone twice my age, but dammit sometimes I just wanna play tag
If people can't take responsibility in taking care of a child, then they shouldn't conceive one at all.
Preach😔✊️
exactly
ikr.. kids are innocent.
people act as if parents should have a gold medal by just bringing a child into this world @SunshinePIRRATA
i hope you get out of this situation and find a safe place...can't you press charges for abuse [ you have your psychologist as your evidence] @SunshinePIRRATA
Re: the parents not taking kids to the doctor. I think the most common reasoning is along the lines of "doctors just want to make money and will treat my kids in ways that will keep them sick" or parents just straight-up thinking they know more than the doctors. I guarantee you, if that one mom was real, she was 1000% anti-vax as well, the "natural remedies" thing was a dead giveaway 💀
This way of thinking is so strange to me. Since our healthcare is like government funded the thought of doctors only wanting my money so they give me worse treatment would never even cross my mind.
That's what you get with for profit healthcare I guess. Distrust in essential care.
The funny thing is tho, doctors have enough work to do already why add more? They aren’t going to run out if they don’t make people sick
She wouldn’t need “home remedies” if she got her kid out of diapers.
@@lunarhail3559Exactly! 😂
Sometimes it can also be due to past personal experiences with bad doctors, as was the case with my grandmother when my mom and her siblings were kids.
Genuinely emotionally devastating to me that I will never get to carry a baby to term but people like this somehow get to raise children
I am so sorry 😔 as a new mom who had a kinda bump pregnancy, I agree those parents shouldn't be ones in the first place
Same here. I was told a few months back the likely hood of me getting pregnant and going full term is less than 0. :( but there’s ppl out there like my cousin who isn’t even all there can have kids. It’s disgusting
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Same here. I have that thought every time I see a child abuse, etc situation. Like my boyfriend says "If God is real he's got some fucked up priorities." To have a child be born and raised in a horrible environment and the people who would make excellent parents aren't allowed. It's disheartening and used to bother him and I 20 years ago or so but not as much now that we are in our 50s and have our siblings' kids to spoil but it still comes back and stings now and then.
@@Ami_E_Bowen"meh it's a test blah blah" no it isn't, what does that prove? That the child can survive being abused? Like wut
7:05 For the mom breastfeeding her 7 year old child, there are actually problems like "if a child continues to breastfeed frequently, for long durations, or with poor latching techniques, it can potentially affect the growth and development of their jaws and teeth. This can result in bite problems such as an overbite, underbite, or crossbite (eastmeadowdentist)" and she is also not bringing her kid to the doctor (which prob includes dentist).
A lot of these parents will end up dumped in nursing homes and will wonder why.
and also deserve it
@@MsKaz1000so much so the nearby vicinity gets whiplash because of the fact it didn’t happen sooner
Please don’t leave them there, us nursing home employees already got too much on our hands to handle 😭
My parents: We'll support you no matter what.
Me: * is nonbinary *
My parents: You're just confused. Love the body we gave you, damn it.
Listen to your parents! They tell you that because they love you. You need to learn to Love, accept your body and don't try to change it, because you'll ruin it"
If your parents don't agree with you, or don't allow you to do something you wanna do because they know it's harmful, it doesn't mena they don't love you. This is very western/white mindset. Why do you people hate your parents. I'm glad i'm muslim. Because we love and care for our parents, even if they're strict, even if they don' agree with us. Because allah told us so. you whites, you leave your parents in old folks houses where they get abused and neglected and d i e alone and miserable
@@firasjemil213…that’s a joke, right?
@@firasjemil213 Swallow a cactus.
@@firasjemil213 ?
My mother one created a video of dumping out my trashcan, closet, and UNDERWEAR drawer as a form of punishment, calling me a slob, and making fun of the size of my boxers, then posted it on her social media's in which had nearly 2k followers(she was a product tester). Nearly all of my friends' parents showed it to them, and it spread so quickly that my entire school had seen the video. I was made fun of to the point of breaking down in the bathroom, and I still occasionally get comments on my socials about it. She definitely didn't deserve to be a mom.
you deserve so much better than that and im so sorry that wasnt the case angel. i hope youre far, far away now
i feel like spreading pics of your kid's underpants should be some kind of crime cuz what the hell..
I am so sorry, also what the hell is wrong with the parents here. It sounds like you may have a millennial or young gen x age gamete donor there and I am so sorry my generation is failing your generation so horribly if you are the age I am guessing you are. I wish you to find supportive decent people to be your family now.
Normalise buying assets and not producing children. Making them feel like their value is attached to conditional love is not a good look.
A loser with a yacht is still a loser but at least the yacht wont be suffering.
A lot of these people shouldn't even have plants
My mom said a virginity to a woman's husband is an honor and I'm just here like........that sounds nasty and entitled. And now I'm asexual.😂 Unrelated but it's funny how that turned out
I ran out of antidepressants while my dr was on a trip, and the office kinda fxed up and I was unable to eat for 2 weeks while pretty much surviving on sips of water because literally everything I ate came out both ends violently. I didn't even know you could crap white. I lost 15 pounds and now I have a phobia of coming off medication 😂 NEVER go off daily meds without your dr's advice! Your body can becomes dependent to a scary degree. I was ignorant and literally thought I was dying. I would've taken my butt to the hospital if this ever happened again and I couldn't reach my dr. This isn't even going into the night terrors I had with my anxiety! I was pretty much passing in and out trying to friggin live😂