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Here's the thing. If you choose to give birth at home and then bring your baby to the hospital because they're having trouble breathing, YOU ARE NOT THE PATIENT. The chair/bed setup sounds like standard accomodations for a parent staying the night with their child in the hospital. The doctors and nurses aren't worried about your nutrition because you are not their patient. If you had given birth in the hospital, you would be a patient.
that should be a common sense
I had a baby in my car on the way to the hospital and I was deemed a patient too!!
that's a different story... you gave birth on the way to the hospital @@moiraslater8526
which is risky for the mother as well@@moiraslater8526
@@moiraslater8526That's because your intention was to give birth to a hospital, meanwhile she decided to give birth without any medical supervision and the reason for hospitalization was breathing issues of a newborn child, not health concerns with someone who just birthed the day before
I feel bad for the baby being refused antibiotics. You just know that if something happens to that child, the mother is going to go on a social media crusade about how the doctors killed her baby
Sadly…..
Yup, she'll find SOME reason to blame big pharma for this lmfao
I feel bad for both baby and her. When she eventually realises how insane this is and gets out of this antivaxx Facebook echo chamber, she will blame herself for YEARS when baby ends up with permanent damage or worse. Rightfully so, but still
@@justaperson4656it pisses me off that people like that are allowed to take a baby home with them.. we really need to protect babies from parents like this and all form of wing nut parents that see their children as their possessions to control and neglect. This damn society wonders why we keep finding kids chained up in dog kennels that have been “homeschooled”.. it’s sick that the normal people have not called for more oversight and protection for helpless kids
Antibiotics is bad for the kidneys!
I work at a hospital and we literally JUST had a 5 day old baby who passed from cardiac arrest because the mom decline vitamin K vaccine.. insanely sad.
are there charges pressed for cases like that? Cause I was involved in the care of a little boy once who's parents weren't giving him his diabetes medicine and he almost died. That child got removed from the family and the parents charged with child endangerment and abuse.
I remember a youtuber (it was so long ago I can't remember the exact one anymore) discussing a case where a newborn baby literally had a brain bleed and died because his parents were anti-vaxxers and refused the vitamin K shot, and the parents blamed everyone but themselves for it. It's horrifying to think that you can refuse something like that that can stop an easily preventable death.
Just a clarification - Vitamin K isn't even a vaccine. It's just a vitamin - like a Flinstones gummy. Nothing more complicated than that, but it's absolutely critical for health. So sad that misinformation kills kids. I'm a pediatrician, for context.
Plz tell me the parents went to prison!!!
Hard lesson for the parents to learn. Bummer.
I'd like to note that a 9 month old's monthly milestones ARE saying "ma", and learning princer grasp, and shaking their head when they mean no. This baby isnt delayed, thats literally just a 9 month old being, you guessed it, a developing infant!
9 months old needs are food, being cleaned, being loved and given attention, sleep. That’s it for needs at 9 months.
I'm pretty sure that humans don't even develop memory for a couple years so like it's so insane to get annoyed that they can't grasp sign language
@@LyricTheMusicFoxyeah memory doesn’t develop in the human brain until the age of 3 (36 months)
Blud ain't even a year old yet💀
No fr!! I just took 30 seconds to see when kids start using real words and it’s like a year+. The baby saying “ma” is perfectly normal, what is that mom all about??
If only Christian moms spent less time memorizing every bible verse and spent more time properly raising their kids
Life would be so amazing
If only liberals spent less time killing babies and less time becoming lesbians and cat ladies. 😅
Lmao I wouldn't have 16 years worth of trauma 😂😅
@@eliotasterforrest5026Trauma? For reading a bible?
And reading books on child development and parenting
As someone who was medically neglected as a child I CANNOT BELIEVE this medical neglect started from the MOMENT OF CONCEPTION with absolutely no prenatal care and a complete home birth with no professional supervision is WILD.
I'm literally picturing this lady living in a yurt in the middle of the Arizona desert, because I can't believe how someone in this modern day could live so isolated myself.
I’m sorry for your neglect. Also people were born at home for millennia. It’s fairly recent that giving birth has become medicalized. I wouldn’t call a home birth neglect.
@@annie.hi. it's not about the home birth. It's about the refusal to get any prenatal appointments or let the Drs do anything to ensure the home birth was safe for her and her baby.
@@AngelA-ws7qn at prenatal visits they listen to the heartbeat and ask you questions. If she is experienced at giving birth at home, and who knows, maybe even a midwife herself, she likely didn’t need it. It kind of sounds to me like she chose to stay at home because she didn’t want her birth medicalized and she knows what is necessary and what’s not. At the hospital they were freaking out because she had the baby at home and trying to overcompensate, offering all the things that were the reason she didn’t want to go to the hospital in the first place. It sounds like she was annoyed that they were keeping her baby away from her and bottle feeding it, which was hindering the natural connection that should be taking place right after birth between mother and child. I’m not against doctors and I do go to them, trust them, and listen to their advice and experience, but we also shouldnt trust a for profit medical system (like in the US) implicitly. I had a hospital birth and a home birth. The entire home birth process was way more comfortable than the hospital.
@@annie.hi. Yes, and the infant/maternal mortality rate was a lot higher for millennia as a result. It is perfectly safe to have a home birth only after you've consulted professionals to make sure it's a safe option for you, and typically you have a midwife or doula present just in case something goes wrong. This lady didn't even do the bare minimum and her child is dying as a result, so this is neglect.
The mother who is complaining her 9 month old isnt speaking or communicating yet. AS IF THAT WOULD BE NORMAL FOR A 9 MONTH OLD BABY?
Can you imagine a 9 month old baby just turning to you and saying "Mother, I require assistance."
@@PlatinumAltaria”it appears that I have feces all over my diaper, I require your assistance”
@@PlatinumAltariaoh god that be amazing especially if it had a grown-ups voice😂
Wait, doesn’t the Millennial generation start in like 1981?
She’s complaining about Millennials but she’s maybe barely a year older than some.
Makes me think of a girl I know who thought her amazing 6 week old was already teething. People expect superhero babies.
What makes me most sad is how so many of these stories are a clear result of religion and a lack of proper education. These women were convinced that their worth is based off of a "god" so they have no real sense of self worth beyond breeding. They have babies to fill that role and then raising them with the same lack of knowledge they were previously raised with.
It really is horrifying….
Leftism is the highest form of ignorance!
@@AutisticTeddyBear the left are a bunch of fools
That's why I hate religion. I strongly feel that we would be so much better off and way more advanced as a species if religion never existed. I couldn't help but roll my eyes to some of these because they were ridiculous, especially the one calling Dora The Explorer "witchcraft" and shaming a fucking small child for something completely natural and developmentally normal because all kids explore their bodies and touch their genitals. I did at that age too. Some of these mothers need to get over themselves. Imagine being so brainwashed with fear, you're afraid of kids shows and kids doing normal kid shit. 🤣
@@jessicaK_wolfspirit00You are, probably, incorrect about human advancement. Much of science was discovered as an attempt to prove, disprove, or understand god(s). I'm not a big fan of organized religion, but it has, and still does occasionally, served a purpose.
If her child is 22, thats gen Z. Why are we still blaming things on Millennials? 😂
we're truly the bullied generation
Right?! Also, I've news for her, at 42 she is an actual millennial herself (assuming the post is from this year)! Albeit on the absolute cusp, but still. The irony.
i think some gen x dont know what gen z so they muck it in with millenials
@@hawkeyescoffee6399I was going to say that; unless the post is a couple of years old, she's a Millennial herself. Or *barely* Gen X. Definitely too young to be conflating "Millennials" with "kids these days."
I think for a lot of people 'millenial' kinda fills the space for what used to be called 'the youth' in the 1970s and 80s. basically, 'those younger people... blah. whatever.'
I was so confused when the mom that wanted to circumsize her child against the wishes of her husband brought up the fact that her husband was pro vaccines. Like, are you trying to make the argument that he cares about his son's health and well being, so that's why he's pro vax and anti circumcision? Like what?
I think it's because she was pro preventative care and she thought he was too because he is pro vaccines
no she's trying to explain that it's weird that her husband would be against a medical practice that could improve the health and hygiene of the kid considering he's pro vax. The dad's only argument seems to be that he wants his kid's dick to look like his. Meanwhile circumcision has literally been medically proven to improve hygiene and help prevent infections and diseases and its the reason why every official medical paper confirms it and why many adults do that procedure willingfully,and why majority of people who were circumcised when they were born seem to be glad about it once they grow up.
Circumcision can lower the risks of certain STDs specifically HIV and penile cancer according to the CDC.
At least that's my guess of why she would be comparing that and vaccines.
@@alexanderhenby1362circumcision is also known to cause a multitude of problems as the child grows and develops, though. Safe sex practices and good hygiene are the better option
Also, the husband is the one who has a penis and therefore his two cents on the matter is probably fairly helpful, no? Obviously it should be a joint decision but the mom will never personally know what it’s like to be cut vs. uncut, if I were her I’d be thankful he was there to help me understand a little better.
The baby meconium thing (I know I spelled that shit wrong) is actually something that happened to me. I was on ECMO and don't have a jugular on my right anymore because of it. That shit is serious, how could they deny the baby any kind of care?? I literally almost died and they're eye-rolling on FB about these doctors trying to keep their baby alive. They should NOT be parents jfc.
Don't worry, you didn't spell that literal shit wrong
@@bananakinskywalker4036 LMFAO that's good, it underlined red while I was typing it and I was too lazy to spell check so just I figured it was wrong 😭
My son aspirated his and almost died as well. He was suffocating and had to be put in an oxygen box. I'm so glad he's okay now, but it's certainly not something to eye roll at
Well I'm embarrassed now because at 20 years old I have always thought "jugular" was just like an expression, and not a real physical thing. Well, time to google... 😅
@@DialecticRed nope it's very much a real, major vein in the body, haha! Thankfully people don't really need both apparently!
I'd have other reasons for not supplying a Jeffree Star makeup palette, but it's got nothing to do with it being makeup.
Sheesh, let kids be themselves.
Fr fr, kids should be allowed to have fun the way they want
Thank goodness for Cool Aunts ❤
@@TheLisclark Cool Aunts are the best. ❤️
He can have whatever makeup he wants (from less problematic artists) ✨
@@KiboSanti I agree completely. 😸
I work in pediatrics and I have reported several parents for medical neglect for repeatedly going AMA. It's not much, but it's the only thing I can do in these types of situations.
"Oh my god, why are these doctors being so concerned when i had a BREECH at home birth in a non sterile environment with literally no midwife or prenatal care and my child is at an increased risk of severe health issues?? UGH this is big pharma fascism 🙄🙄🙄"
some parents really need to take a developmental psych class. you learn about when babies should start babbling, when they start talking, when they start to feel certain emotions, how much weight they should gain and when, etc. like i don’t even want kids and i know all of this stuff 😅
It's definitely good to know even if you don't want kids:)
My first comment was on babbling (we just covered that in my child development psych course)
That's my Big Idea To Fix It All. Having a kid? You take the class, which is a comprehensive child development and anatomy course.
It's like jury duty, your boss has to give you the time, you're paid to attend. It's pass/fail, at the end you get a notarized document certifying that you know the developmental stages of s human child, and that you can't stand there claiming you didn't know better if you shake a baby or something.
I think it would really streamline things.
Plenty of parents really need to take a psych evaluation or to go to prison, too, but here we are. It’s astounding how many people are willing to die on the hill that one should get to procreate and do nearly whatever they want with their kids.
I don’t think the woman whose baby was borderline failure to thrive was fat shaming her baby i think it was about the formula vs breastfeeding debate. There are lots of reasons a baby could be failure to thrive and it’s possible her baby isn’t eating or she’s not producing enough milk. She’s likely feeling inadequate because the doctors are telling her she needs to supplement with formula and she feels like they’re telling her she’s failed as a mother so she’s trying to rationalize the babies size to herself so she doesn’t feel that guilt.
My niece has always been tiny and was borderline failure to thrive, she just never ate much she was breastfed and formula fed and we’d constantly have to be waking her up and trying all sorts of tricks to keep her eating. It’s like she doesn’t feel herself being hungry. She had to be put on an appetite stimulant. They definitely weren’t starving their baby but it was and is frustrating to hear that she’s not making enough progress when you’re doing everything you can.
Yeah some people just don't feel hungry until they are like getting a headache from low blood sugar and stuff. I speak from experience, if someone does seem to have something like that going on I do recommend the doc looking into neurodevelopmental disorders when they are old enough to be tested, since it is a common thing in quite a few of those.
Also could be metabolic or genetic (some people's bodies can't process body fat and don't learn this until they get like throwing-up-for-days sick.
And some people aren't failing to thrive they're just going to be an itty bitty person or really skinny / lanky person.
And premies are going to be smaller for their age, and have a delay on when things happen based on how early they were born. Someone born 6 weeks early is going to hit milestones 6 ish weeks past the normal mark for that weight, size, other thing.
Doctors need to be better at letting parents know that there could be multiple reasons their child is struggling with weight or size and that it isn't their fault (if they're doing everything right).
I was failure to thrive because my mom couldn’t produce enough milk and the doctors kept repeatedly saying she had to breastfeed me and pushing it on her. Finally her at home nurse looked at her chart and told her that mothers with head injuries often struggle to produce enough milk and she should just switch to formula. It was wild, though. Like, they made her feel truly ashamed for not being able to breastfeed.
My special needs son was declared failure to thrive because he is extremely picky and I had to come up with differently ways to get him to eat and it can still be a struggle. I feel for that mom. My son had to have weigh ins and the doctor finally didn't want to schedule another weigh and he is 5 now
As a witch myself I want to ask, why would I waste my time with some random mom? 😂 I personally don’t gaf lol and am not out to get Christians 😂 Christians freak me out.
Even on the witchy fora I follow people are always talking about getting cursed and I always wonder how all these people are being cursed. Who do you know that curses and hexes you? Should I be more worried about this? 😅
The only thing worse than people who think they were chosen by god is the people who leave christianity and decide they're a "witch"...
Fr😂
@@PlatinumAltaria a “witch” is merely someone who practices witchcraft. Not really something that’s a big deal..
@@axisavani3186 That would be true if magic was real, but what you are is a nondenominational neopagan, which sounds a lot lamer.
Didn't Jesus do magic? Wasn't that one of his things he was nailed for?
So I think Dora and her weird chicken friend doing silly stuff ain't that bad.
Yup and followers do “healing magic” lol
I guess as long as u don't carry a wand your good ?! 🤣🤣
@@rhipotter6191 wait what about the man with a walk stick? He used the stick to part the Red Sea and they love him right? Dose long stick that’s use for Magic not Count as a Magic wand just because it’s long and used mostly for walking?😂 I don’t get their way of thinking even more now
@@AutisticTeddyBearAnd Kat Kerr...
@@someonerandom256 omg I forgot about her🤣
Very good point there she basically a which in many aspects
I honestly wouldn't be surprised if the Dora thing was just a dream the mom was having, she sounds extremely paranoid.
What that one mum who refused prenatal care and is refusing treatment for her newborn doesn't know is that all those doctors and nurses are on the phone with child protection to negotiate social work involvement to enforce medical care. Keep rolling those eyes and laughing all the way to court, lady, because you're gonna lose medical custody of your kids.
my mom went through an antivax stage when i was 12, im 23 now and had to get extra doeses of the shots because i got them late 😡
"I'm exhausted from having to guess every day what this child needs." So basically you're complaining that your baby acts *checks notes* like a baby?
Yeah, that's kinda how babies be
I kinda imagine this mom screaming at her crying baby: "Why don't you just tell me what you want?!"
"I want to name my daughter Tinderleigh and my husband doesn't like the name"
Leigh is a variation on "Lee" which means a sheltered place, and "tinder" doesn't _just_ refer to a dating site
So to me the name Tinderleigh sounds like a copse of trees (with lots of dry grass and leaf litter and underbrush) that's going to be consumed by-or be the source of-a wildfire basically the moment a spark hits it.
It's funny until you realize that these people are responsible for human lives.
Okay, the formula one I give the benefit of the doubt on cause at least here in America there are way too many doctors who are completely uneducated about breastfeeding and whats healthy/normal for a breastfed baby and will shame/pressure/scare mothers into feeding their babies formula cause they view breastfeeding as inferior.
And in the usa most baby formula has corn syrop, which is very unhealthy so I completely understand why a mother would prefer breastfeed
Labor and delivery doctors are consistently the stupidest people in the medical industry. We used to say if you flunked every class you’d end up a psych doctor, but I genuinely believe that’s not where the dumbasses go anymore. They go to the birthing farm - a corporate hospital that butchers women up and yanks the child out of them in time for the doctor’s supper.
“Wtf that’s not meant to talk” 😂😂
Also to the mum asking about circumcisions - u did research on that fact you can get it done without your husbands knowledge but not if the procedure is actually necessary? Lmao wild
She only wants to hear what she feels fits her POV
it wsn't research it was 'resurtch'... the stuff you do by asking (probably in that same mom-group) 'ladies can I get my son circumcised without my hubby's consent' - there's /always/ someone who will say yes.
Someone told me to stop “doing the months thing” when I described my niece as being 11 months old. I could have said almost 1, but that’s just more accurate.
It's literally an age where things happen so fast.
It's just logical to use months for the age
It's good to use months for the first 2 years but like when they're 3 it's just kinda odd 😭😭
2 years (24 months) and below are important but it would be strange past that.
@@Musicbased39 i'm pretty sure it's common at least for medical professionals to measure children's age in months until they're 3 years.
@@xyzzyx4839 ohhhhh, alright
That mother who's young daughter was pleasuring herself... Obviously, she handled it horribly. But as a mother, I'd be very concerned that she'd begun figuring things like that out at 5. I would definitely speak to her, try to make sure she was safe, that no one had traumatized her or anything. I'd definetely talk to a therapist to ask how I should handle it, being that she is so young. But that seems concerning.
It could go either way. If the girl knows too much terminology or slang for her body that definitely didnt come from tv or parents talking that could be another red flag. But 5-7 is the earliest that kids can discover themselves. It is more common with boys because, well, it is sticking out. But if a girl has more prominent anatomy she can absolutely discover it.
Eh, toddlers learn about the ‘good feelings’, I’ve worked in childcare a looooooong time and it’s not uncommon at all. A gentle redirection about appropriate places is usually all that’s needed (ie you can do it in your bedroom or the bathroom). Older kids you might check just to be sure, especially if it’s sort of new behaviour or obsessive or anything like that. A gentle conversation about your body being your body etc.
I've said it multiple times:
If you think you need to cut a piece off of your baby rather than yeah him about how to wash, you should get an abortion, not a circumcision.
True but my brother is uncut and keeps getting utis and smells awful dowm there hes let us help him clean it but it dosent get better the same thing happed to my friend before he got uncut at 18 cause it just wasnt going well
@@alexisgonzales4689 okay they need to see a doctor.
Not only do men rarely get UTIs, it should only smell if you never clean it. There are actually medical conditions that require circumcision as a treatment.
@@alexisgonzales4689im sorry why/how do you know how it smells like?!
@@froggyspriteare you aware that families do laundry together?
14:04 No, No No. she isn’t planning to name her kid after a dating app. She wants to name her kid after a hookup app, and that’s VERY different.
I’m not saying that 0% of people use tinder to get a relationship. But the VAST majority of its user base is literally just there for random sex with decent looking strangers.
That means tinder has a very different reputation, that would made it an especially bad thing to name a child after.
I’m not saying casual sex should be stigmatized, but it is, and Tinder is known to facilitate it. I feel a child should be able to come into this world, without automatically having their identity associated with something that’s culturally stigmatized
A baby has a couple god-damned teeth in their head at 9 months..IF that. How can they talk?
Insane mother: SAY SOMETHING!
Baby with two indentations in their gums: MAAAAAAAAA
25:13 how can’t anyone want a chunky baby? I don’t want kids and have no interest but a chunky baby, is the cutest
Babies are supposed to be fat and happy! That’s the only age where we can be 100% jelly rolls without criticism.
I POSTED THE FIRST ONE TO THE REDDIT GROUP!!! 😂😅
For some reason when the video started and I saw when it was posted I thought “what if the one I posted….nahhh”. Lolol but here it is 😂 this is HILARIOUS that it’s in this video.
Edit: I just want to add here (I talked about it in the Reddit comments), but I knew that girl and went to school with her for over a year. Me, her, and another girl were a really good friend trio. At the time, she was totally normal and cool. She was sort of on a spiritual journey, but just open dialect about it, nothing crazy. I mean, she even joked and talked about smoking weed. (Which is literally no big deal lol). We went different ways after that year, and her FB posts turned into what it is now. Hopefully she gets out of it for the sake of her kids 🤷🏼♀️
Isn't it funny that some Christians will call any kind of magic satanic when their main dude literally walks on water and transforms water into wine
Lol 🤣 And he came back from the dead so he’s pretty much a zombie 🤔
Yeah its like only God is allowed to do it or a person if he very briefly gives them the power to. The one question nobody can answer is: if satan was just an angel, how come he can give people “powers” too? Like if we follow the Christian logic of God = miracles and Devil = magic. Why is Satan able to hand out power like that?? Did he find something of God’s? Is there an amulet somewhere?
My mom is in a Facebook group for moms and I can confirm, they are crazy
Christians: "Don't practice witchcraft like astrology."
Also Christians: *Chant encantations over a sacrificed animal and honor the resurrection of their murdered prophet on the first Sunday after the first full moon after the vernal equinox.
Also, also Christians: *Chants encantations and eat a cracker and drinks a dram of wine or grape juice as a symbolic gesture of eating the flesh and drinking the blood of the demigod they believe in.
Are you considering the Easter ham a “sacrificed animal?”
@@thaloblue ham, lamb, whatever. I'm vegan, much like she is, so any animal or animal products, yes.
I disagree that the medical professional always knows your baby better. Being in the 14th percentile but still gaining weight should not be considered failure to thrive. The mother said it seems like he eats a lot. Not all doctors are good and I don’t think we should trust them implicitly. She should get a second opinion.
It depends how stupid you are as a mother. If you’re anti vaxx a doctor always knows 100% better than you. If you’re hesitant about an aggressive vaccine schedule, sure, you might know your baby’s adjustment period better than the doctor. If your baby is black and not feeling well, you definitely know better than the doctor because they didn’t even start making charts for what disease symptoms looked like on dark skin until maybe 40 years ago at the earliest, and it is not consistent across all textbooks.
"Souls need to be born for ancestral or karmic reasons... now I'm stuck having 2 kids"
I was driving listening to this and hearing that threw me so hard i fucking hit a barrier. WHAT THE FUCK
Objectively one of the best things you can find when you check your phone just after school
You usually stop counting months at/around 2. Because 15 months, 18 months and 24 months...etc all have very different milestones and skills but after that yeah stop counting 🤣
I feel bad for the son who felt safe enough to ask for a pallet only for this to be his mother’s reaction. He’s not going to feel that security anymore.
my mom posts the worst stuff abt me in these facebook mommy groups... it hurts me...
Like what
@@thaloblue body shaming me, outing me, calling me names, making fun of me
@@rotten_corpsess that’s so disgusting. I am sorry she is dogging you online like that. She’s a complete cyberbully.
With a lot of men, I think being circumcised does help them. I've met a lot of guys who DO NOT Shower enough and know all the places they should scrub. Having that extra skin does require you to start pulling the skin back and cleaning regularly, especially in humid environments. If a parent leaves their child uncircumcised they really need to teach them the proper cleaning methods when they come of age. We have an epidemic of nasty gremlin men here in the states, and a lot of them do benefit from being cut due to their laziness with hygiene
It just makes me sad that we'd rather do unanesthetized elective genital surgery on newborns than teach our sons to wash their dicks.
HA- ain’t that the truth. One of the big reasons my pansexual ass tends to prefer women romantically, in fact. They’re safer, they’re probably cleaner, and they for sure know how to wash downstairs. Really wish parents would properly clean their children, as well as teach them to clean themselves.
My son needed high calorie formula. Meaning I had to add extra to his breastmilk and formula bottles to increase the calories… when it was suggested, I DID IT NO QUESTIONS ASKED , because I trusted the person that tracks infant growth patterns for a living…. And now he’s almost two and completely caught up with his height and weight…. Don’t even want to know what could have happened if I thought I knew better and ignored the medical advice. 🤷🏼♀️
Fat-shaming a baby 🤣🤣
What I told my 5 year old is we do that in private...there is no way to stop it and we don't want to make them ashamed of their bodies
parents who will refuse their child medical care should lose custody. it is medical neglect and abuse.
My parents refused to give me antibiotics until I was weeks into being sick (I was sick for an entire month once), and now I have literal sinus region cysts because of the constant infections, causing me to get a sinus infection every time I get a cold now. Some people need to get a grip on reality.
At 4:04 I got an add for crystals, and the fact it was after a post about witchcraft too ;-;
I wanted the crystals too but I have no money rn….
I come from a country where homebirths are very common. But we also have a whole healthcare system around it. You get a midwife who estimates of you can have the birth at home or if you need a hospital. If you have any complications (even just spotting) during pregnancy you are adviced to go to the hospital.
Hearing you so aggresive against homebirths is odd to me because its so common and normal here... but i do realize that our system is designed a little different
Makes sense! Unfortunately, in the US and a lot of other places, it’s very risky to have a home birth because people aren’t provided with midwives, that’s something you’d have to pay for out of pocket if there are even midwives for hire in your area. Many people do their homebirths on their own without knowing the signs of complications which endangers the lives of mom and baby so I’d assume that’s why the creator is against them in those kinds of systems
So they’ll jail someone to ‘protect the fetus’ (happened multiple times even if the mother was in no way harming the child it’s just becoming a witch hunt) however if you openly neglect or harm your child they will do nothing
here in South Africa the government passed a law in 2002 that allows the head o the health institution to consent for life saving medical care in case the beliefs of the parents go against it.
The one lady wanting to mutilate her baby without her husbands consent for the sole reason of "preventative health" makes me so angry. Maybe she should have spent the time researching how to betray her husband and violate her child on looking up the actual consequences of circumcision. Which are proven to not have any health/hygiene benefits and can seriously impact her son's life in the future.
13:14 tinderleigh is the whitest name i've ever heard (coming from someone that's white enough to be mistaken for a ghost)
I love the parent saying that gen z daughter was a lazy milennial. wild. truly.
8:27 I was around the same age when I started those behaviors and all my mom ever told me was that we don’t do those things in front of other people or in public spaces. We didn’t really talk about it at all after that but she was also respectful of my privacy so I knew I had my own personal space where I could do those things in private. So
1) I understood privacy and my own was respected
And
2) she didn’t make a big deal about it or assign any moral value to it
It was basically like going potty
2:20 no because my ex best friend's mother was like this and was the reason was broke up. Once she made their family have a bonfire and burn all of their dnd stuff
"It's not natural!"
Neither is the internet yet here you are.
42 is BARELY gen x, it's borderline elder millennial lol, and 22 is categorically gen z. like I get that's the least of that lady's delusions but it's hilarious she's blaming the generation she's basically part of lol
The woman with the newborn and antibiotics was so misinformed. PKU isn’t something they “give” babies. It’s a metabolic condition they test for at birth. If a baby has it, they have to be immediately put on a special diet (and will need to follow a special diet for life). If they don’t, they will develop irreversible brain damage. I am glad she at least agreed to that test. All of her views were terrible, but that one was the worst
I know! And it’s a tiny pinprick of blood typically. Sometimes a small urine sample. Nothing major at all.
26:18 tbf i wouldn’t get him the jeremiah starfish pallet either. i’d get him a better one or take him shopping where he can try different pallets out for himself.
Oh Dear, it is the best episode 😄 I love how outraged the shit on the internet makes you feel. It is great! I totally adore you and your attitude ❤ i feel exactly the same as you
World has gone totally craaazy....
Cheers!
I like how she's blaming millennial s for her 22year old. Smh it doesn't mean "person younger than me pissing me off".
Not really related to this particular video but I always feel so safe watching your videos. You're so passionate about what you believe in and defend women and minorities with such conviction, it always makes me feel stronger and helps me stand up for myself. Thank you ❤
Agree. Very eloquent and passionate about what she says.
My mom’s has a valid reason to not like hospitals but has she refused to go to a hospital to get me help I needed? NO. She drove there and had an argument with a nurse who brushed off her complaints as new mother(mind you she had my siblings before me)
I actually think that the lady at the hospital has a point. Obviously she's totally wrong about taking the baby home, but it is so true that pregnant women need more post-partum care, comfortable seating, and an ability to heal. Hospitals NEED to care about her medical issues too.
They might’ve had she been checked in as their patient but it sounds like she wasn’t. Given her post it sounds like she would’ve refused to be checked in and only brought her baby in because his breathing was abnormal. She can’t expect them to treat her as a patient if she isn’t one.
Yeah, but she isn't the number one priority. Her husband can be there to help her with this care if the hospital has to prioritize her baby.
My sister had problems when she was born, and my mother had problems too, yet my mother cared only for my sister when she was born. A REAL mother cares for her child above her own.
Oh absolutely agreed. But a person who has recently given birth shouldn't be put on the back burner either@@ggcrickle
@@jydakota95 That makes some sense, but even if that is the case, it's important the hospital makes sure to listen to her complaints too. If a disabled person checked in their child, they should have accommodations given to them to ensure that they are comfortable. It should be the same way for new mothers. But honestly, it's no excuse for what this mother did.
Ok, I'm down for naming kids whatever you want, so I'm fine with the tinder part of it. But if you met your romantic partner there, maybe don't pick a name that sounds like "tinder -lay"
I've read actual witchcraft books because my mama is a witch and I was bored and it's literally just stuff like "spell to make toddlers not have nightmares anymore". As for the 9 month old babies don't typically start talking until they're 1 year to 18 months. It can happen earlier, I was 3 months, but the first word really shouldn't be expected until 12 months at the youngest.
Can't believe the refusal of care with the newborn. I just had a baby 2.5 weeks ago... I cannot imagine not being at a hospital. Developed preeclampsia with severe features during a 24 labor/ delivery, baby swallowed meconium and amniotic fluid, needed to be vacuumed... Happy to be at a hospital
some kids of different ethnicities are smaller or bigger in size, and some (typically white) doctors will make their assessment on a babies health based off white baby statistics
If it was in my hands, people like that lady that had a (allegedly) breech home birth and went to check his baby's oxygen, would not EVER put a single toe in a hospital. If you don't like modern medicine like vaccines and antibiotics, and you're risking other people's lives with your close minded and dangerous ideology, then you don't deserve to have resources wasted on you.
Those people infuriate me.
Maybe my ancestors and Karma wanted our bloodline to end with me, ever thought about that?
- Hi, I'd like to join your FB group.
- Sorry, we only accept established accounts.
- Ah, understandable. However, may I point out that LEMME IN, LEMME IIIIIIIIIIN
look into why its said by months for the first 2 years its cuz so much changes month to month with millstones
With milestones even my TWINS met them at totally different times. I swear they learned opposite categories and then taught each other lol.
"New age gender neutral" oh lord babenna I'm 30 and my parents raised me neutral.
I have to say that the main reason I hear people give for getting or not getting their kids circumcised is to look like their parent “well I want them to look like dad, so it isn’t confusing to them” so common
i started talking at 5 months, very abnormal. And i cant even imagine being expected to learn sign language at 4 months.
To be fair, babies can learn some signs faster than spoken words, it’s one reason baby sign language is popular in some places. I’ve worked with children for a long time, and if done consistently, even 4-6months old can sometimes start doing the sign for milk or more.
@@MusikGirl23 Yeah i could see possibly see how children would have an easier time making the connection visually rather than by sound
She's actually kind of lucky that an unattended breech birth didn't end in death for her baby. Breech is dangerous.
I life in the Netherlands and one of the great things here is how doctors can temporarily take over custody of the child (the judge decided depending on the situation but usually they agree if necessary) and treat them, parents have no say within the time they don't have legal custody. so if a kid is denied lifesaving medical care the doctors arrange this with the judge (very quickly of course) and take over. afterwards parents get custody back if they deemed overall fit parents but if they are a risk they can lose their kid entirely.
The state of US natal care is absolutely terrifying right now, especially for women of color. I think home birth can actually be a more responsible choice sometimes if you are willing and able to educate yourself and get appropriate assistance from a professional (ex: doula, midwife, ob nurse).
However, if a complication with the birth arises, there may need to be a contingency plan. And the medical professional should be qualified to assess the state of your baby well enough to see if they need to be taken to the hospital for further care, like in this case with the antibiotics.
TLDR: antibiotics good, home birth can also be good for some too
Also I love your earrings so much❤❤ I have the animal crossing switch and it's my all-time fave omg
Antibiotics truly are a wonder. I would've literally died from f-ing tonsillitis as an adult if I didn't get them as fast as I did (the infection levels were so high + my throat swelled up so bad it was hard to breathe). And that was on the first days on antibiotics, imagine if I didn't take anything. And that was as an adult. Imagine if I was a kid. I guess it truly shows how privileged we are - to have so much options available but still complain and try and find some bs problems with it. Poor children.
I mean, neither does Jeffree Star, so I don't see what the issue is
Lol so True he is the most anti-lgbt+ lgbt+ dude
I've never understood the cut arguments because 1. Everything on your body is there for a reason, the skin that is there is protecting a very sensitive part of your body. 2. The procedure is violent and horrible, why would you choose to put your own child through that?
3. Spoiler alert, skin is flexible. It does not prevent you from being able to clean properly
I'm not sure about the rest of the world, but in the USA, hospitals can have cases pushed to an Ethics Committee that if decided on, can pursue Court Order of treatment. The threshold is sooooooooo high, but at least the fate of certain children is not all up to parents or guardians.
I don't even read the title. I just see the notification and click
My parents started leaving me alone for Vaccation when i turned 14, i have a Sibling whos 3 Years older than me, and we had no Problem, then i was on my own for like 1/2 Weeks and i Enjoyed that time and still does when my parents Leave, and im 23. Now
I.. ive never seen a 5 year old do that or heard of it... unless they were abused? 5 is really early to be getting those... feelings
I’ve seen toddlers still in diapers figure things out that feel good. It’s not uncommon and I’ve worked in childcare a long time. Especially when boys are around 3, we are consistently telling them ‘take your hands out of your pants.’
Pretty sure eyeroll lady's baby is no longer with us. Not at that degree of health issues and that narcissistic "mother" refusing basic medical treatment like antibiotics.
Baby race is my favorite Bluey episode 🥹💞 I was like a few weeks postpartum when I saw it for the first time and it made me sob. I still tear up any time we watch it 🥹
Has anyone seen ablaze’s random hit piece on queer kiwi? So stupid and so many ppl are calling him out. He literally started on her in the first place because of her hair and then went from there, evidently he’s a boomer grandpa and her colorful hair and radical ideas are too much for him
The 2nd one wow just wow. Hope she isn’t shouting at the baby and getting frustrated with it 😡
I have an 18 month and he still doesn't say proper words. He absolutely understands us, but mostly he says dadadadadaaaaa for everything. He's fine
my mom was one of those mothers who never let me watch or read Harry Potter growing up, so at age 17 i'm JUST NOW getting to enjoy it fully without barriers- she still won't let me have merchandise of it. She said she bought a Harry Potter game once for someone's birthday and just having the game in a package unplayed gave her 'demonic nightmares' where Jesus told her that Harry Potter is the work of the devil?? Why are some people like this?? It's a fucking children's book- not a scroll written in people's blood and chanted over by a demon.
so glad my pediatric nurse mom became antivax only after i'd grown up and moved out. if she had refused vaccines for me as a kid? that would have sucked so much, seriously. she was a good nurse until she retired and got old and then she fell off the deep end lmao.
also, imagine naming your child after how you met, like, i've known people who met over having the same car...can you imagine if they named their kid after the name of the car?? or people who met on a missionary trip?? "here's my baby singapore, isnt she so cute" "yeah my kid's named firebird." "oh well my child is named mossy knoll" lmfao
My daughter has had to have different kinds of antibitoics over the last 5 years. In liquid form, cream form, and an ear spray form, if not for them she'd be so sick, all of the time.
As a mom in mom groups, I can confirm they are wild and that is the only reason I stay in them.
While everyone has there views there are several benefits of getting the snip, most of it is prevention of urinary infections as there are parents who feel uncomfortable cleaning it as well as people as they grow older, several lower sti infection risk as well, as well as phimosis which can go away with help it can be uncomfortable and painful, and in some severe cases it will need to be snipped anyway which can be traumatizing, but everything is on the rare side and mostly avoidable with knowledge and care however some don’t want to take the risk and chose to cut it so please don’t refer to it as mutilation as there are cases of needed circumcision for health issues, as most babies won’t remember it and would be more traumatized if they have to do it later that’s why many choose to do it at birth
The "I want my son to look like me" is a common argument I have seen regarding circumcision. I always thought it was such a weird rationale.
That lady with the 9 month old who can't talk yet watched "Baby Geniuses" and thought it was a documentary