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The pastor at my previous church was a woman. The head and children’s pastor are women at my current church. Not only are women pastors completely valid, they’ve delivered incredibly insightful readings of scripture. How DARE The Transformed Wife blame anything on women being pastors. Disgusting. They claim to think Christianity is supreme yet spew hatred for their own religion when it doesn’t conform to their ideology. It has nothing to do with faith and everything to do with promoting a fascism
The biblical version is a Deathcult. A Former Catholic(who never confirmed) but was baptised so Mom could marry Dad(condition of the Pope) as he refused to convert. He was protestant. This used to be a big deal. Growing up, all they talked about was we were living in the End Of Days and being miserable now meant salvation after death. Having fun now meant hell and brimstone later. All I learned was we are ALREADY living in hell. The fiends have moved up here, and taken over, leaving that plane empty. Being dead just means an end to all the pain. I lost my faith at 9 after my mental illness got me thrown out of confession and labelled a child of the devil. I became Pagan later. I pity Catholics who never escaped, it really is a horrible take on faith and does more harm than good.
Also, I love how she's shit-talking women pastors in the very same breath as she tries to teach others about what her interpretation of the Bible is. Y'know, kind of like how pastors do. She's acting like a woman pastor, while saying women pastors aren't valid and shouldn't be listened to.
She really is dumb enough to tell people not to listen to her.
@@starscreamthecruel8026 I grew up in a conservative Mexican Catholic immigrant family here in the US and somehow I ended up becoming hardcore about my faith and it became my personality and identity as well, in the end I lost my faith anyways not because of the feminists or gay folks I was hostile to but because some of my fellow Catholics were saying more batshit crazy stuff than I did.
It wasn’t easy at all because by the time I left my mental health was already deteriorating (thanks Catholic guilt and Purity Culture) and so when I finally left I starting having thoughts of ending it all because I felt I had nothing left to live for but my sister (who became an atheist years before I did, I was the last child to leave this damned church) really helped me and she’s the reason why I’m still here, like you I feel sorry for some of the people still in because they may end up losing more than I did (and I sometimes felt like I lost everything because I nuked most of my social support in the process) and I don’t try to deconvert family that’s still in because it might be more devastating for them as they’ve been part of this Church for more than 50 years in some cases and I left when I was 24, I pretty much think they’re set in their ways at this point.
There’s some things I’ll never forgive the institution for (like the years of pointless repression I had to go through as a teen) and I’m sometimes still resentful of how strong the influence of that institution still is in the country I was born in and in my culture as well, Mexicans are still pretty religious compared to other immigrant groups and some of them might say I betrayed our culture through my apostasy.
From one ex-Catholic to another I wish you the best of luck and healing in your journey.
@@starscreamthecruel8026 See, I find the whole of Roman Catholicism interesting because its a form of Christianity that comes with pride in being a Roman, of the very people who crucified Christianity's messiah.
It's always been a strange thing to me why the very people who worship Christ would be take pride in killing Jeshua and one of the major realizations I came to is because he was their sacrificial Lamb of God. I say this because it was common to sacrifice an animal or person to absolve oneself to their god so it cane of special interest to me that they say Christ's death gives them eternal life.
And it had me realize that they preach the very same things they have since ancient times.
I dont think Christianity has really grown up with the world as we've grown an understanding of it and it shows in the attitudes of a lot of followers.
Women pastors? I'm not religious anymore but thats something I would love to see sometimes!
“Women are the ones who are supposed to be nurturing!!!”
Me, a guy: *quietly turns off my Tamagotchi*
this comment had no right being as funny as it is
you won the internet today Dante
😂😂
man healthcare workers: *evaporate out of existence*
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Turn that back on it! Your baby needs you!
i’m someone in their late teens who currently lives with a mother who thinks exactly like the transformed wife, and its a living hell. i’m queer, and have decided that im not religious, and she goes on and on about me “obeying” her and listening to her because im a minor and she “owns” me. hearing kiwi talk about the fact that children are not supposed to obey and we’re supposed to be treated as people makes me so happy and it just brings me relief knowing people understand that.
That’s horrible, I hope you get out.
You should quote all of the misogynistic bible passages to her about how women can’t own things only their husbands can and women aren’t allowed to teach ect.
My mother is the exact same. I refused to submit and she kicked me out. Fellow late teens unite ✊
My mom is exactly like that and not a day goes by when I don't hate her and [to an extent] myself
I'm so sorry you're going through this, I hope the times comes where you can get out of there and make contact zero with her :(
Stay strong, I know it's cliche to say it but please do. I know it can be hard but you're so brave for being able to stay true to yourself even when someone it's trying to force their way to live on you.
You don't deserve to be living like that, and someday you won't have to deal with it anymore, I hope you're well
"Am I out of touch?"
"No, it's the feminists who are wrong!"
People can be nurturing and choose to be parents and still (of course!) be feminists! I love being a mother, but I don't think that everyone should be forced to have children or make any of the other choices that work well for me. Everyone is different and had different needs and preferences.
You give great vibes, I love that you're happy as a mom, your children are lucky to have you
@Eu L thank you, that is so kind!
World need more mothers like you 😊
One of my friends is really into gender roles and her 6yo has picked it up in the rudest way. I feel like I'm always defending my own 6yo from their ideals. I know kids are rude in general sometimes but it's annoying to hear him constantly be asked why he has a baby doll and why he would want makeup brushes. 🙄
Honestly,,, maybe you should keep her kid away from yours. The other kid is going to effect how your kid feels, and might make your kid ashamed of his interests and hobbies long term
@@Mylittlestcorner I do get that, but they aren't together a lot and I do think it's important for her to be exposed to other ideas as well. Also the baby and brushes aren't super strong interests regardless of other people's ideas, so I'm not too worried about him. I do appreciate the concern though. 😊 It just hurts my heart a little for all parties.
Could literally just tell the truth about raising an involved father who will not restrict himself in expression.
Like. Even accidentally, giving a child freedom in their interests is usually what gets a confident & empathetic kid which honestly should be a goal.
@@teritt that's actually basically what it is! He's just very into art, so we viewed makeup as artistic expression from a young age, and we did actually buy the baby doll before his little sister was born and he's the BEST big brother. People can say whatever they want, but I'm proud of the little human I'm raising. 🥰
@@abysmalagender
See I was right! You’re doing a wonderful job, screw the haters
"Most young women want to play house." Maybe this is just one of the many signs of my autism that was missed in early childhood, but I wanted to set up the house. I did not ever actually want to then play in it. My barbie dolls had a very intricately decorated house with printer cutout posters and CDs and stuff all over their rooms, each doll had ownership over specific accessories and my toy horses, etc. I sewed special clothes for them. I braided their hair. Did I ever just pick up the dolls and act something out? Only if a friend was over and took the lead.
Also, I am a mother. I love my daughter more than anything in the world, and I know that even if I got to redo my 20s a million times I would become a mother. I simultaneously love her and am so glad that I'm her mother, but also don't like the ceaseless responsibility for another human that motherhood has brought, and I have no plans to make additions. One is all I can handle. I don't regret my daughter, I would die for her, but I have the utmost empathy for people who just know in their gut that this isn't their path. Parenthood is hard, and kids deserve parents who don't hold that against them.
I never wanted to play in that sense either. When I was a kid I had these old-style, bigger (kinda creepy) dolls and I enjoyed changing the color of their hair, painting on their face. At some point, I discovered that I could take their heads off. So I took off the heads of several dolls, put them in my backpack, and took them to school. Come break time, I went "hey everyone, check this out! boing!" and pulled one of the heads out of my backpack. I realize that sounds weird, but it was simply about making my classmates laugh. I loved making people laugh. Hell, maybe I should have become a clown, because once I also painted my own face after painting class. I went to the bathroom and gave myself a glorious black mustache and then came back into the classroom, causing several classmates to fall under their desks with laughter.
capitalism: you need two incomes to survive
fundies: I can't believe feminism has done this
😂 fr
My mom firmly believes this. That because women more prominently entered the workforce, the greedy capitalists raised the cost of living because they saw the opportunity.
I'm pretty sure they would have done so eventually regardless of women wanting to live singular lives and support themselves.
@@wintergray1221 While it is true that capitalists do always take advantage of any opportunity, it definitely isn’t the fault of feminism or feminists themselves. Not their fault that their liberation is being exploited by the rich, just like how the liberation of non-white people and queer people is exploited too.
@@wintergray1221 Their argument is that since women entered the workforce, wages have gone down because the number of available workers have gone up. I don't give a crap if wages suck, I'm not staying home.
@@wintergray1221working and lower class women have *always worked*. "When women entered the workforce…" is revisionist history.
As someone who went to a Christian School for over a decade, I have so many weird stories. One of my favorites is the fact that because I wore a short of the band queen, I was gonna go to hell because Freddie Mercury is bi 💀 also they thought I was a satanist because my favorite shape is a star
im sorry but thats hilarious
"Spend more time with your family, women! You're not supposed to work"
"Hey kids, want to go dumpster diving?"
I'm going to take my baby possums dumpster diving (safely!) One day
Lmao, when I was a "little girl" my nonbinary ass was focused on dinosaurs. Jokes on you Lori!!
SAME
ItS tHe PaReNtS fAuLt FoR nOt RaIsInG yOu To LiKe DoLlS!
LEGOs, dinos, drawing, video games, playing with G.I Joes etc.
Because people let me choose.
If we let kids CHOOSE, choose colors, clothes, toys etc, then it proves we are more like than people want to believe.
It has been proven many times.
Still today I dont qualify in any gender.
@@FocusedFighter777and no toy should be gendered it's really silly
the level of hypocricy and deeply internalized mysoginy (and other bigotry) of this woman is astonishing, loved your responses to all of these. and btw when your voice cracked it reminded me of catra's, cute.
Crazies.
And they are brainwashing people.
The threat is real.
They disgust me.
Tate and the likes are the same.
She wants to go back to a time where women work until they get married, and then they stay home to take care of the kids. I would also bet that she would be perfectly fine getting rid of public schools, and have the mother home school.
And... what's wrong with some women wanting that lifestyle? It still happens today some, nothing wrong with it at all lol
@@HenrySimmons1225 Nothing is wrong with wanting to live that type of lifestyle. It becomes a problem when people try to legally force women into that lifestyle.
There's more to life than kids and marriage. Especially with 8 billion people and counting.
I wish I could upvote this 1000 times.
Precisely
I am a working-class kid, so, my grandmother (who lived during the 50s) and then my mother ALWAYS had to work. It was never an option. My family is from the American South, so my grandmother actually picked cotton in the fields, starting when she was nine. Enslaved women of color worked the fields in the American South, quite often, just like the men. You gotta love these people who really believe that life started in the 1950s and that it was like a TV show. Working-class women throughout history worked the farms, ran the shops, cleaned wealthy people's houses, etc. They were expected to work--but didn't actually get to enjoy the fruits of their labor because they weren't allowed to own property. In fact, women were considered chattel, er, slaves. Sooooo, women have always worked inside AND outside the home. It's just now, we get to keep our wages.
As someone who grew up as a closeted trans girl, the shit that account pushes is damaging AF. To this day I still catch myself feeling like I'm some kind of creature.
Whenever I don't just blindly listen to my mother she says 'I wish you were still a child so I just do it for you'. My grandaunts say the devil is making you do it if anyone reacted negatively for what they do or say.
okay but can i just say i absolutely love your vest/sweater thingy it looks so colourful pretty and soft!!
"girls only like to play with dolls" has this person ever met a young child? i was literally obsessed with trains and dinosaurs as a kid before i even knew whats considered "girly" and "boyish" . i just thought they were cool and didnt know or care that its "for boys"
This video reminds me of a book I'm reading called divided we stand. It's about the feminist movement back in the 1960s and 1970s and the anti-feminist movement. It's the same thing today as it was back then just that we have the technology to fact check anyone.
she had me until sober, leave me my wine at LEAST
Hearing about "kids want dolls so they can be nurturing" and remembering how I used to throw my dolls down the stairs
I am Christian, college educated, and leftist. I do NOT claim this extremist NUT CASE! At 15:19, I don't interpret aPoStLe pAuL's life as she does. What I do know is that God DOES NOT want suffering for us, because as in Jeremiah 29:11 in the bible God says _"I know the plans I have for you. Plans for your well-being, not for disaster. Plans to give you a future and hope."_ And unlike tradwife saying "study pauls life...", this verse seems pretty CLEAR to me...God wants us HAPPY.
She literally told a woman who was raped by her husband to stay with him. She’s a monster, who should lose her platform
I love your points about being able to just drop things and go have fun. I’m married and he’s my best friend and we don’t have kids so we can just go do stuff whenever. It’s literally the best thing ever and very rewarding.
my partner might be a stay at home husband and im very excited for him. I love him! but its always his choice. i like coming home to dinner, and a loving partner. If i can support us on one income, and that is what we decide TOGETHER is right for us, i will be thrilled. If he wants to work, then we can figure that out too. (note: we gay as fuck)
"Little girls like playing with baby dolls because God intended them to be nurturing"
Yeah I liked playing with Pokémon does that mean God intended me to run a dog fighting ring??
My mother was brought up Catholic by HER mother - who was super progressive for someone born in the 50s. My mother was taught that god made humanity and wants us to live the life that is best for us and our loved ones. She was taught that everyone is loved by god no matter their gender, sexuality, race, etc. and my mother taught me these ideals as a child. So when I grew up and began to interact with the world I was shocked at how bigoted and strict Christians/Catholics were in overall america. I know that it’s not all Christians but unfortunately it’s the loudest and it can be so draining as someone brought up with the “same” ideals.
Lori really doesn't understand kids, does she? Me and my siblings played with dolls by piling them up into a make-shift bonfire for our camping game 😂 We had one of those traffic carpets where we would play with toy cars (like intended) but these things happened rarely because we fought more than played together in harmony 😅 Even when we had gender specific toys... More often than not we didn't play with them the way Lori seems to think we should
Oooh this gon be good
Heyyy it's the transformed wife! Haven't heard about her in a hot second, but good to see that that particular skid mark of Christianity is still kicking about! Oh wait no... That's a bad thing...
The disrespect is crazy
how would women bring the wages down? A job is less valuable or needed now that a women does it? ;-;
I think the argument is that an increase in available workers make jobs more competitive, reducing the equilibrium price of labor, but it still fails to acknowledge that an increase in women in the workforce creates jobs through more female entrepreneurs and increased demand for products due to increased combined income, the fault of low wages falls upon the avarice of the people paying them
I used to play house all the time. I also loved getting very muddy, was obsessed with dinosaurs, and liked bugs and space and science
ooo yeah lemme just live on one income and afford multiple children in nyc real quick thanks for the advice queen
You can live on one income. It's possible.
I could be wrong, but in America, women were actively paid less than their male counterparts when they entered teaching careers. I believe this was also during some war, but then when the men came back all teachers were basically paid the same terribly low amount and that's why teachers are paid so little.
(Note, I'm too lazy to actually google this fact and hope someone in the comments will shed more light on this morsel of sexism in American history)
Ooh girl I work at Disneyland! I will be quietly excited if I see you lol
I don't see her as nurturing. She seems cold and rather cruel like those evil schoolmarm in movies and books.
She is a evil stepmother of Cinderella
If anything my brother was more interested in playing with dolls than I was 😂
Entering the "climbing up to the heavens to fistfight god itself" era
I just found your channel today and I have to say: your sweater collection is
e n v i a b l e.
Proverbs 31:13 - 22 actually tells us of a strong female entrepreneur who works, pays her employees and provides for her family. Biblically accurate girlboss fr.
"She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands. / She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar. / She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens. / She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard. / She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms. / She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night. / She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff. / She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. / She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet. / She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple."
That is such a beautifully made cardigan.
Look, Ik ppl find this concept WILD. Ppl don’t have the luxury to have one parent home. Even if they’d want to. Maybe, just maybe, if ppl earned a livable wage, one parent could stay home if they choose to
Incredible content as always absolutely brilliant hope you enjoyed your holiday in the states
Breaking free from the typical Christianity or religion in general and making my own view of religion and higher power(s) through logic and faith was one of the best things I did. A God who is all loving, wouldn't send anyone to hell for not believing in them. I wouldn't label myself as any particular religion, but people like JeGaysus really helped me feel better about religion
The Bible doesn't have an issue with women working. Paul worked with Priscilla and Aquila in tent making. Proverbs 31 talks about a woman working and her great value. And various other examples.
I got an ad on this video for like an anti-abortion thing and I it was really disturbing but I made sure to watch the whole thing anyway so that you would get the ad money
Some ppl choose not to pass down the generational trauma or work to get better before even thinking about getting kids. I wish my father had done that tbh, would have done me alot of good.
also did god not also give humans free will? Meaning we should do something Q_:Q
It was more than just being socially acceptable, the divorce rate went up when it became legally easier to get a divorce. (In the United States) I’m not as familiar with New Zealand history.
Lori should take her own advice and not worry about feminism and the left. 😌
I’m a reform Jew and i’m so glad you acknowledge that not every person who is part of a religion acts like this person. I hate when people use religion to be hateful to others when it should be a good thing that brings people together. I also agree that people are allowed to have their own beliefs and people shouldn’t be shamed for believing or not believing in different things. Part of being reform is we adjust to the present and we’re not living in BCE times anymore.
I am obsessed with your jacket. I want to learn crochet just to replicate it 😍
She blocked me years ago and I sort of miss the cringe-scrolling.
I don't get people like that. Telling everyone(well mostly women) to suffer just because they want to live after an old story book, which has been altered and mistranslated multiple times... She sounds so delusional.
I can't even buy most pizzas from my job, even after working for an hour i think i can only buy a value MAX 💀
I am afab I never showed interest in baby dolls..no matter how much they "life like" they made them I showed no interest in them.... When I got little stroller I put my plush monkey in there.
Kids like to play baby doll and house because they like to recreate their parents it’s not that deep
Very nice video. I enjoyed listening and watching
When I was little I hated playing with actual baby dolls, like barbies and stuff were ok, but I didn't like the babies. I always loved dinosaurs and dragons and generally "boy" interests like bugs and fish. So I have never had that innate, "Godly", nuturing feeling girls are supposed to have according to the transformed wife.
I loved my baby doll but now that I think about it I never ever once thought I was her mother I always thought I was her big sister
I've never wanted kids I'm more the Aunt and mentor type
I'll never understand why people think child free people hate kids
A lot of them make great roll models and mentors because they aren't overstressed with their own kids
I really dislike people like this. They’re not christian in practice with all this hate. I actually grew up with a good church. It’s still a good church but that can be hard to find. They are loving and caring. That’s how church should be and how those practicing Christianity should be. I will admit they’re not perfect but no one is and they don’t expect you to be. I wish more more Christians and just people were like that.
Sick buds lol
I’ve been sick for a week
I had to miss a free cookie decorating thing today, which was very sad lol
obviously i can’t say this is true but they always say “they don’t want to have children anymore” i mean yeah but do you think if woman born in 1921 would be able to say “yeah i don’t want to” i don’t think they had the choice to say no
Idk what sais about be that as I kid I really disliked baby dolls. I was doing puzzles, drawing or playing doctor or teacher (both my parents are teachers and I'm currently studying to become a medical doctor)
about 18:12
me who beheaded all of my dolls :
* smiles in satatnist *
Not me getting a mat Walsh add right before this lol
"women don't wanna nurture anymore" yeah? Tell that to me (a woman) and my girlfriend. All we want is to live together and look after some kids, cats and a dog and eachother. I'm regurarly crying about my government being homophobic. Adoption is basically impossible. I just want to better a child's life. I want to nurture.
do these people not realize "don't worry about anything, just obey" is a really fucking creepy thing to say? Like, that's cult behavior. That's authoritarian regime behavior. The sorta stuff you'd see in their favorite go-to for authortarianism, 1984. "Don't worry about it, just obey big brother" is basically what they're saying. And it's SO fucking creepy to hear them basically call for that kind of cult mentality but for an entire half(approx) of society. it's barely removed from "you don't need to read or write, you don't need a bible in a language you understand, just let the preacher tell you what it means". Like, the exact thing that lead to the protestant reformation(and you know these people are some protestant variant 90% of the time)
10:50 “If women aren’t allowed to work and men aren’t allowed to be nurturing, who’s to do those jobs?” Hear me out: enbies 🙌🏼
This crazy old lady reminds me of my mother-in-law 😒
DISNEYLAND AND CONCERT??? TELL ME U DIDNT SEE SKZ THEN SKZ AT DISNEY THATS SO COOL
I work from home, so I am home, and available if someone needs nurtured. My kids, who have their own homes, work out of the home. I think I am following what I as a woman am supposed to do
off topic but i really love your cardigan
Where do you get your sweaters? They are so freaking adorable!!
I also like Bluey 😊
meek and quiet? why...why does that sound gross? why does that make me cringe? not even 5 minutes in and our old friend already makes me feel bleh!
As someone who does know what their belief is but believes in a God/multiple gods, it makes me SO MAD that ppl say such disgusting shit. Why would God want you to suffer?? Does no one realize Satan exists suddenly? He’s causing that suffering and God is the one wanting you to escape such mad shit. I don’t GET IT.
Hey!! in the beginning when you said hey guys gals and nonbinary pals… Taylor said that in the beginning of her show! I thought it was so awesome! 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Taylor tomlinson??
@@princessofhell4639 Taylor swift. ❤️❤️
I love your jumper.
I don't normally agree with your view points, and i didn't agree with all of them in this video either, but you you made many good points.
10:50 No one is doing them, we´re letting the children just die. This is gonna solve so many future problems
I've never been this early!
btw I was always punished for that because *girls shouldn't be so cruel*
that was sooooo ridiculous 🧐🤔
John 8:32, “You shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.”
If your beliefs can only be propagated by keeping people (and especially your own children) ignorant of facts about the world and themselves, your beliefs deserve to be destroyed.
I love your sweater!!!!
just admit it's a kiiiiiiiiinkkkkk
Didn't Jesus preach peace? Since when did being Christian mean not caring about wars?
Unrelated to the video but I love that jumper! I could probably granny square it and pray but does anyone have a pattern?
This lady probably doesn't want there to be school or childcare outside of the home-nobody needs to go to daycare or school if all mothers are staying home and teaching their children themselves.😅😅🙃😐
We've always been farmers. Thats a hard job. Yes. Only wealthy women didn't work.
And before that we were very communal and a group of people would watch over the children together. Not one singular person was stuck in one structure with all of only their own offspring.
Their God is in a strange abusive relationship with them. "Fear me, and obey me, suffer for me worship for me. You are sinful, horrible beings - but I love you."
Lori, I want to be submissive and breedable but not like YOU want me to. smh (im so sorry for this joke)
Is she just living in terrible marriage and beliving that all people should suffer like her?
Also she might hating herself and projecting it into other women?
It's kinda sad
About women flodding the job market: This is a false narrative. Woman always worked. Having a stay at home wife was somthing only upper class families could afford, even 200 years ago. Working-class and middle-class women always worked. Only with the post-war boom of income in industrialized countries, it became possible for middle-class house-holds to have a stay at home mom.
Edit: I commentend in the middle of the video. You obviously mentioned this.
❤
One of the worst things a couple can do is to stay together when they’re not happy or stay together for “the sake of your children” especially when it’s an abusive relationship! My Mom stayed with my late father because of their religious beliefs (we were raised catholic) and because of their parents not wanting the “stain” of having a child who’s marriage didn’t work. My Mom openly admits that doing this was the worst parenting decision she ever made because not were they unhappy but my father was physically abusive towards her and us, and we still live with that trauma every single day, so if this woman wants to stay in a bad relationship that’s fine you do you, but don’t push this shit on other people!
Lori likes to talk about how women should be "raising their own children" but when she was young, she worked full time and had a nanny for her kids
So, in other words, she’s a hypocrite
@@nerdysuccubus7855 about literally everything she says yes
Maybe that's why - she hated raising someone else's kids while getting paid their pocket change, and now she demands people raise their own spoiled brats. 😂 (Absolutely facetious, btw.)
@@EpicFailLawlKat
No you misunderstand, she was the one not raising her own children. She’s the one paying pocket change to the nanny.
@@teritt Ah you're right, I did misread. My bad!
Capitalism is wild💀 I hate being young and having to work my @ss off just to have a roof and eat food
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And barely even that now.
Capitalism significantly contributes to my depression and anxiety, as an Indigenous person who's people were banned from being allowed to redistribute wealth via potlucks, for a long time. 😢
@@MugsisDank If you’re open to explaining, how did indigenous people redistribute wealth through potlucks that so interesting. Like they all come together with the extra food? is it a whole village thing? I grew up in NYC so im very not accustomed to a sense of community lol
@@swobblebobble6362 Back in the day, the chief's family would be given gifts, and would throw a potluck in order make sure everyone in the village is provided for, so nobody goes hungry. In modern times, we usually have feasts when someone passes away. There's a lot of traditional elements to it still, but instead of it being the chief, it's the whole community coming together to ease the burden of losing a loved one.
1:19 ...please tell me I wasn't the only one thinking "If her spirit is so 'meek and quiet' why can't she shut up" 💀
Frr 😭
You're freaking awesome
THISSSS
Someone I used to be friends with, around the end of our relationship she started to really get into the whole "gently feminine" thing, with the idea of needing to be modest (in neutral fashion, word gesture etc) but she was THE LOUDEST person, she LOVED to fight and yell and argue, would flex it all the time.
Omfg you saying that children aren't supposed to be extensions of their parents was SO incredibly cathartic. YES thank you, some validation! My parents often made fun of me for "being harder to train than the dog".
I would be upset if someone said that about me, it's degrading and rude.
@@SpecialBlanket Yeah, that was kinda their thing
That's so disgusting. We should all be happy when a child is harder to train than a dog. When our children were trying us, we'd say "these are the behaviors that will make them great adults (questioning authority is fundamental to getting shit done).
I'm sorry you were raised that way, I was as well.
@@amberinthemist7912 YES exactly! They didn’t want me to leave home, though, so they had no intention whatsoever for preparing me for the world. Jokes on them, though, cuz here I am being as “annoyingly willful” as ever!
That sounds like a great way to get a DNR signed. Harder to put down than the dog
I am male and I ASPIRE to do something that upsets Lori Alexander.
I’m already a failure according to the toxic masculinity I internalized for most of my life so might as well go all the way, when I was a Christian I explicitly called myself an anti-feminist at one point because I saw feminism as an existential threat to my shitty worldview and beliefs (so just like Lori) and yet the campus feminists I was suspicious of treated me better than most of my Christian “friends” ever did and I lost my faith anyways in part because of those friends.
SAME. Im actually having a great time painting my nails and doing all the "girly" things I missed out in my childhood cause I wasn't allowed to do. I think she'd hate me if she knew me. Checkmate.
I think this should be my new daily aspersion. ‘Who should I strive to disturb and upset today?’ What shall I do?
As a young woman, there are many things I can do. I think this mindset can allow me to strive for greater success. Let’s go to collage! Get a good degree in political science! Get a wife! Or own several cats and live by myself with my plants and bookshelves. My happiness, my true actualization, will make SO MANY PEOPLE MAD.
@@I_have_the_cats THAT IS GOOD. VERY GOOD. DO THAT. PLEASE STRIVE TO DO THAT.
@@monus782 im so happy for u!!!
Whenever my best friend would visit my house, we'd play families. I'd be the daughter, his older sister would be my best friend, my little sister would be the dog, and he would be the mum. We literally never questioned it because guess what? Kids can do whatever the fuck they want, and I bet if society thought more like people under the age of 5, everyone would be way happier.
Shout out to your lil sister being the dog!
that’s so wholesome :)
@@oddlemone Me and my best friend were so cute as kids. We wanted to get married and live in a house made of Lego :>>
@@thischannelisdead9 that’s adorable! :)
@Kel Forrest 🦕 that is so adorable omg, me and my best friend to, but we wanted to live in a mushroom cottage in the woods
Edited cause I can't spell lol