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Everyone fears their daughter dating bad men
Noone is concerned that their sons will become those bad men
TEACH YO SONS TO RESPECT WOMEN!!!
Heck or even worry about their son's dating a bad woman it can happen and people pretend like it cant
@@B.O.Xproject teach respect to everyone tbh
And never too young to teach kids about consent and boundaries, like as general contepts not even as a sexual thing at all
I'll tell you who are doing the best job of teaching sons to respect women: Pagan fathers and feminist mothers (or better yet, Pagan feminist mothers married to Pagan feminist fathers).
@@B.O.Xproject no one pretends it doesn’t happen. It just isn’t talked about as much. Maybe because there’s a difference on how common it happens between the two?
Yet everyone is concerned that their sons will become the woman now. Heteros are so weird.
We as a society need to stop proving Sigmund Freud right because this is ridiculous
Also happy Pride Month! 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
Happy pride! ❤️🧡💛💚🩵💜
And we (as a society) also need to stop slut-shaming, objectifying, and dehumanizing girlfriends/wives.
As someone who took a psychology class I completely agree 👍
Considering how profoundly wrong Freud was about most things...anything that people do that proves Freud right is not likely to be a good idea.
Also, yes, Happy Pride.
And be proud of your happiness.
Can't spell "homeowner" without "meow", therefore all homeowners must be cats.
How dare you bring this to my attention, you swine! I'll not be able to unsee this.
Brilliance ❤
They're six cats in a trenchcoat. They've never been human!
"wElL tHiS iS mY hOuSe, bUt mY cAt mIgHt dIsAgReE" - Jon Arbuckle
"I gave him his first son." Seriously not how it works. He's the one who didn't have a son. It was all on him.
The whole women are responsible for the sex of a child has to go back to the garbage can it came from.
like I only bring the X chromosome, the sex of the baby is literally on you
seriously, when will men learn that the sex of the baby is on them. Did no one learn from Henry the VIII
Lmao my biology in like 9th grade used to joke about this.
@@alex_runarin not henry 💀💀💀💀
@@alex_runarin omg yeah, I remember that whole Henry thing 💀
The guys who are all set on beating up any guy who looks at their daughters are really telling on themselves for the way they have treated woman in their life
Or how their friends treated their SO's without stepping in..
the most ironic part is that if another dad treated their own son that way they'd be appalled LOL. it's only their daughters they dont like being looked at that way, any other girl? go right ahead son
these people are fucked lol
its like they are pretending to beat up the future version of themselves
yup, it gives off real "I am sexually attracted to my daughter and I hate every man that looks at her because I'm jealous" vibes
@@Maybe_OliviaI don’t know if that’s it. I read it more in a “I know how men think (aka all men think horribly of women and just want to use them) and I want to protect my daughter from that.”
It doesn’t give emotional incest vibes, it gives everyone is just as awful as I am toward women vibes
"you can't spell woman without man"
And you can't spell slaughter without laughter.
It means nothing, bestie 😂 the straights are not okay
Or funeral without fun...
Or Jesus without ඞ
you cant spell man without ma
can't spell homeowner without "meow". ergo, all homeowners must be cats.
cant spell class without ass 😌
Other words you can't spell with out MEN: Excrement, Meningitis, Omen, Torment...
Mental illness, disappointment, menstruation etc
Why the hate?
i@@ag7075 it's not hate, it's to show how dumb such comparisons are.
@@ag7075 We’re just going with the flow, following the logic of people trying to make crap sexist.
@@ag7075you think op is hate but not the men that are doing the same thing. Classic
The pregnant woman’s body language when her husband was throwing things.🥺 Notice how she cowers when he moves towards her 😢
My ex once told me I was like all other modern girls and he wanted a woman like his grandma. Have fun canoodling with Shirley's ashes, Kyle.
I SCREAMED 💀
NOOO I HAD A CREEPY EX NAMED KYLE, TOO, BUT HE HAD A THING FOR KIDS AND R-word
NOOO I HAD A CREEPY EX NAMED KYLE, TOO, BUT HE HAD A THING FOR KIDS AND R**E
@@yourmother2425 Kyle’s need to be stopped
@@yourmother2425 Kyle’s need to be stopped
sexist reactions by dads at gender reveal parties never fail to make me sad and leaving me to imagine how my dad may have negatively reacted to both me and my sister 😭
My husband had 3 seconds of an upset reaction when we discovered we were having a daughter and I said "what's wrong with that" and his reason was "I don't want to clean poop out of a vagina" and I lost it.
@@Keyonne88 .. WHAT.
@@Keyonne88😰
It’s not sexist it’s called gender disappointment both parents can get it and it’s a legit psychological thing. I wouldn’t necessarily think your father had it and just assume he had a typical reaction.
@@abrown507 Personally, I find that parents are often disappointed to find out they’re having a girl, but the minute they have a boy, they’re over the moon in excitement. It can and often does stem from sexism. China is even having a crisis because they aborted all the girls.
What's so funny about the "can't spell x without y" is that as soon as you look at almost any other language, that argument - which is stupid enough in itself - falls apart immediately
English isn't my first language so when I listened this I'm like "Well, I know really common words that use "x" and not "y"
Chocolate - Xocolata
Car - Cotxe
You can't spell "Frau" without "Mann"! Wait...
They wanna beat up their daughter’s boyfriends because they’re either jealous that he’s “taking her away from him” (sometimes because she takes on the wife or mother role in the family and they don’t want to lose the labor she provides) and/or because they know how they treated women and how their friends treated women when they were younger. Which is odd because you know they don’t call out their homies or check themselves for mistreating women or being straight up abusive. At least that’s how my dad is 👌
Your dad and my dad should grab drinks together sometime lol
*Bonus* if he’s also extremely misogynistic when it comes to women “stepping out of their role” for example mine thinks women (not some like as a WHOLE) shouldn’t be in the military or play sports because it’s “a man’s job” and he thinks we should all stay in our place *(which to him is making babies submitting to our husbands and doing all the housework)*
He also thinks he’s smarter and on top of the world his ego is bigger than his brain
It’s so bad my 13 year old brother called him out and told him he was wrong 🧍♀️
AND he defends any man that complains about their wives like if they don’t do their laundry/make them dinner or sum shit he acts like it’s a form of oppression when a man’s wife won’t do all the things he himself can do 💀
My dad told me when I was in high school of my freshman year that I couldn’t date. I asked him if my brother would be allowed to date when he got to that age and he said well we haven’t gotten there. 🙄 fr just sexism.
2:10 I feel like society has normalised this disturbing thought of “No one will be like my mother” or “No one will be worthy.” and it needs to be stopped.
exactly… buster from arrested development is a really good example of this
I do try to be, to every lover of mine, every good part of my mother, and every good part of my father, and to avoid being every bad part of them.
Not because I want to be my boyfriend's mother, or my girlfriend's father (or girlfriend's mother, for that matter, since a lot of the women I've been with have been bisexual, like me).
But because I want to use the people I knew best as a child as models for who I should be (and not be).
I'll tell you one thing: they were great models for how to be affectionate with your lover. Oh, my, they were SO fond of one another, and never shy about displaying it, and I was delighted by that (no, never embarrassed). I loved Gomez and Morticia on *_The Addams Family,_* because they were the TV parents who were the most like mine, that's how makey-outey they were.
@@arcadiaberger9204 same! My parents are best friends and also painfully romantic. Love them sm
@@misschanandlerbong753 My parents had their flaws, definitely, but the example they set of PDA and the occasional HPT was pure gold.
It’s cause so many moms are in love with there son🤮
"Guns don't mind if you go to sleep after you use them." Y I K E S
As one of the straights, thank you for checking up on some of the worst of us. As we have seen in this video, some of us are NOT okay… -_- Anyway… Happy Pride Month, everyone ❤️
Thank you for taking this video in the spirit in which it was intended, and for responding with something more productive than, "Not *_ALL_* straights!"
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a LOT of legal things change after marriage in the us
like the right to visit a partner in the hospital, which you don't have unless youre family or married (maybe depending on state, idk)
its a huge issue and part of why lgbt+ marriage is so important
because homophobic/transphobic family can take care of someone who passes and their partner isnt even allowed to visit, and then their family can bury them under a deadname and all this awful stuff
common law marriage was abolished in michigan in the 1950s, so you MUST be legally married to have any kind of rights with a partner
@@SkwithOv only 15 states and Washington DC recognize common law marraige, and even then a few have some rediculous requirements (like for some the relationship had to have started in the 90s like lol wut), so yeah it's completely befuddling we don't have it across the board. Also another reason I'm a huge proponent of, if you can afford it, meeting with an estate planning attorney with your partner/spouse to get all your affairs in order, like your will and who has your POA, before you die, in case LGBTQ+ gets reversed by the Supreme Court (which I hope to whatever higher power that it won't but sometimes you've gotta be pragmatic)
i hate when ppl say "marriage isn't that big of a deal, just be life partners" bc of this, i understand sometimes people say it to discourage people from rushing into things but i hate the whole "marriage is stupid it doesn't change anything"
@@jasperjazzie same
and it's funny because i'm not planning on getting married, i've been with the same person for 11 years this month and lived together since 2016, in michigan with no common law marriage
marriage isn't for everyone, but it should be available for anyone who wants it
and those life partner/marriage rights should be available for people in long term relationships regardless of marriage status
@@SkwithOv yeah but I think its more meant for this type of men who act like they're prisoners in a marriage they hate, like,dont get married if you're gonna act like its the worst thing ever happening to you?
People who want someone who remind them of their family is very weird. I remember one time I was chatting up this girl at a party telling jokes and we had some very good first impressions then I found out she had the same name as my mom and it totally ruined the attraction factor for me, we’re still friends though.
My younger brother has dated two different people with the same name as mine... yes, it is weird and a weird situation to be in
@@bellablue5285 My sister's boyfriend has my deadname, and I have a little of basically all of the emotions about that :D
Yes, this.
I could never date a guy or girl with the same name as a family member.
same. even in like shows and stuff, i cant even be delusional attracted to characters if they have the same name 😭😭
@@TarisLuna It is actually almost a tradition in my family to be with someone with the same name as a family member, not sure why. My mom married my dad who shares a name with her father and brother, my aunt married someone with the same name as her brother, my brother is dating someone with the same name as me, and I am planning on asking this nice girl out who happens to share a name with my sister.
Yes its weird, but it just all sort of happened.
“You women will really throw your whole relationship away” the IRONY when that is exactly what the man is doing when they choose to cheat 👏 I can’t tell whether to be mad or laugh at this 😂
Straight people don't hate your partner challenge (Impossible)
I guess I'm not straight then! I love my partner, even though we've been through some really rough stuff. Both together and apart.
@@DigiVixen that's great to hear! Good for you.
It's so so strange, I'm a pansexual man and have had girlfriends before, I have never once hated my girlfriends, I guess a lot of straight men are just on another plane of existence
The word "men" has no etymological connection to "amen". The sequence of 3 letters is a coincidence. That said, I fully support "awoman" because it's funny.
Amen actually comes from the Hebrew word אָמֵן (Ah-main) and means something like "it is the truth", which is why it's a custom to say it after things like prayers in the first place; so you can show you agree with whatever was said. Not only does it have nothing to do with men, it also has no actual meaning in English because it's never been an English word. That being said, I'm in full support of saying awomen just to piss people off and have a little giggle at the same time lmao
Family guy made an "athem" joke and that's also funny. There's a prayer word for everyone
As one of the straights that wants to get married and have kids someday. Thank you for calling us out. You shouldn’t have kids at all if you aren’t going to love, cherish, have healthy boundaries and understand kids in general. Kids are human and therefore you should show grace and understand toward them and their individuality and have a healthy degree of maturity about it.
We were all kids once and so instead of being toxic, cruel or controlling teach your kids to be better selves and respect all genders and people.
Teach your sons to be kind and respectful toward women.
I wish you the best. I'm sure you'll start a wonderful family some day
@@Smiley_Fruitcake thank you :)
As one of the straights who is married and has a daughter, you'll do awesome :) If you truly believe in your values, they'll shine through in your parenting with ease.
Exactly everyone treats kids like trophy’s these days. Hopefully (if you do want to have children) that you will be a good parent
I believe the same. The good news is I recently decided to start trying to become a parent. Wish me luck!
My husband was all like " i dont care about the gender, i just hope its healthy" and the perfect men through my first pregnancy , when we found out our second baby will be a girl he called me all names under the sun, a wh*re etc. He did a 180 , I couldnt recognise him anymore. I was just 20 and I f*ing found excuses for him, due to my conservative upbringing as well. It obvisiouly didnt get better , so at 24 years old with 2 small children, pregnant with the third (girl as well), I finally fled to a womens shelter after he broke my skull and almost killed our son. I am now 27 and trying to get my bachelors degree, whilst carying for the kids alone without any help or support. So to make it short, please take red flags seriously, get out quickly, never forgive violence (Spoiler: It starts with screaming ).
I agree about the screaming. Yelling is one of my biggest fears and triggers.
Sorry and glad you made it out
holy shit
i am so so glad that you got yourself out of that horrible horrible marriage. really, congratulations!
i know it must not be easy for you now, there can be a lot of hardships you must face through daily but atleast you are alive and safe. that's what matters.
i hope everything becomes better for you and you and your kids are all safe, sound and happy.
We are doing better now, I actually just finished my bachelors and now going to get a masters as well. Its not easy, since I had to learn so much. I was never allowed to have a bank account or a phone/Computer and even friends, so its all new for me. And my son obviously has scars from the experience, random outbursts and violence against me, his sisters or other kids. He is in full time therapy and I hope with him turning 8 next year, to finally be able to get him in school, he wasnt able to, since his social skills are really bad.
After the birth of our second baby I wasnt allowed to leave the house anymore, so I (and the children) spent all time alone locked in at home, until I fled, so 4 years with no sun, in darkness since I wasnt even allowed to open the windows and curtains, I deeply regret what happened, especially for my son, to know he practically had no childhood, never played with other kids, never been to a playground etc. Everyday filled with fear how his dads mood this day was and witnessing me getting beaten up. At the end he tried to get in between and tried to protect me, which resulted in him getting hurt really bad, but his only concern was if I was safe, that broke me and was the reason I finally mustered the strenght to get out .
I still cant believe how I got in this situation, it happened so slowly from love-bombing, to isolating me from everyone until I had noone left until the real abuse after the second pregnancy.
When I met my Ex-husband I was just 17 (he was 40, but lied about his age until the marriage certificate was signed) , my parents where really harsh as well and I never had acess to phones or the internet, my time was basically at home or school and I didnt really have friends there as well, since I didnt know about what was "In" and was never allowed to do anything. He was the first person to show interest in me, telling me how incredible and "mature" I was and wanting to spent time with me, ironically he wanted to "help" me get away from my parents since they were so strict.
Sorry I didnt want to write such a long text, but I kinda had to get it out. @@saki2955
@@rosebudsintherapy1454 it's absolutely fine with me. i am glad you felt comfortable sharing it with me. thank you for that.
and i am so deeply sorry this happened with you. neither you nor your children deserve any of this. i don't know if you believe in karma, but if you do i hope that gives you some satisfaction that you would recieve justice.
i'd say it admirable that you are aware of how you were wronged in your life and what are the signs of it. being educated about it is very important. i'd say if you haven't, then do check out about your rights in the country you live in.
i wish you all the very best and the best of luck for your life ahead.
@@rosebudsintherapy1454holy crap. I’m so glad you’re okay now.
Ok, as an autist, I can’t stop myself from jumping around and screaming in joy when I’m happy, however, I never become violent when I’m happy 😭 that’s just.. uh..
Second autistic human here. I jump, scream, screech, and slam my hands together when excited but that clip is insanity.
I get some extreme tendencies when I get strong emotions (negative or positive), but I usually just punch my pillows to cool it off, it's not that hard to not... destroy things... y'know?
also autistic, btw!
@@katescosmos yeah exactly!!
@@PrettyBoySpence_ literally 😭
Another autist- maybe its because all of my ‘stuff’ is directed in at me, but I cant imagine being happy and then destroying the things around me? I jump around in the same spot, flail my hands, or just wiggle in general (usually accompanied by vocal stimming), but not punching things?
Only time I ‘punch’ is when im having a meltdown and even then, its aimed at me/my chest
Such a strange concept? Happy = destroy
“The emotional incest in straightville”
Shoutout to my dead dad who had a two way emotional oedipus complex with his mom (my grandma)
😨
Sweeeeet home Alabama....
Not to be rude but what does "two way" mean in this context?
@G2. A I think it means the grandma reciprocated 🤢
@@rachecologyI’m not looking up whatever that means😁
My dad was the "My kids will never date and I'll make their boyfriends disappear" type of dad but, little does he know, my fiance is a trans man. I found a loophole.
Your fiance is still a man though?? I'm a trans man and if my partner didn't see me as a "real man" I would be so devastated.
I personally read it as the father not seeing him as a real man, still bad but expected considering his backwards views
@@BonesMerriman-ip9pi I'm saying my dad doesn't see him as a real man.
@@thelittlestpika OH okay, didn't realize you meant it like that. Thanks for clarifying!
@@BonesMerriman-ip9pi think they meant their dad doesn't see them as a real man or he came out after they got together. So several loopholes there possibly. Nvm I see their clarification comment.
I had one boyfriend about a year and a half ago. My dad makes knives, and the one time I brought him to the house, my dad showed him his forge while holding a massive machete. The boyfriend got scared and broke up with me. Anyway, I'm a lesbian now, so my homophobic father won't have to worry about me dating men anymore :)
Men: We have to propose because I don’t wanna be a pussy and let my girl propose first
Also men: Damn, can’t believe I’m getting married and becoming a slave!
PICK A NARRATIVE DUDE
Mr and Mrs comes from Mister and Mistress . There's also Mistrum shortened to Mm, Mistrum or without the suffix would be Mist if you prefer, which is the gender neutral form of Mister and Mistress.
As Er is a masculine suffix
And Ress is a feminine suffix
Rum is the gender neutral one
Eg. Hunter and huntress
And no Mistress does not mean woman of the master as far as I'm aware, it's just the female version of Mistrum
The word woman does not come from the term "of men" as that is just misogynistic propaganda.
The words man and woman come from the Germanic roots of wermann and wifmann (pronounced weef-man)
Wermann - man
Wifmann - woman
Man was the gender neutral term of a person when both wifmann and wermann was still in use.
Wermann meaning male person were the origins for words like werewolf - plainly meaning Man Wolf.
We just got lazy in our language and shortened words as our language evolved.
Girl was a term for a child who hadn't reached puberty regardless of sex or gender
mistrum is an amazing title and I am bringing it into my life, thank you so much
@@Romanticoutlaw yeah I saw a a tiktok from a linguist or Latin researcher talk about it.
I had to share it and I use it for myself
"Boys" used to be "gay girls". Language is funny.
I’m sorry why did I find Mm so funny 😭🍾
@@celinejansenvanrensburg2349 I honestly thought it would have been the other way around
Fun fact: in many non-anglophone societies, women don't need men at all!
I think the strawberry/drowning one is actually the plot of a very dark mafia romance novel😅
It is. The book is quite dark.
straight up
The concept is horrific but ngl its a little sexy
@@cottagecreations2431it wouldn’t be without the set dressing. If that was in a book or tv show or movie without the “oohhh it’s weirdly sexual” flavoring to the directing, nobody would think it’s hot. They’d look at it and go “those people are fucking crazy”
@beedoesthings8037 oh yeah, I understand that, it's all about context
having such protective parents just makes me wanna hide my boyfriend from them and not share the most important things of my life with them which is what you’d think they’d wanna know abt
My dad went from joking about how he was going to be sitting on the roof with a shotgun when I come home from my first date, to threatening to get rid of everything I have and ship me off to an all girls boarding school. He is no longer apart of my life 😊 Some parents don’t see their kids as people who deserve full happy lives of their own, just objects to keep “clean” and out of other peoples hands.
So what’s gonna happen when his 6th baby mama also gives him a son; because trust and believe that if this man already has 5 baby mothers, what’s to stop him from having 6, or 7, or 8? Women need to stop thinking they’re better than one another. The excitement over having a new son is only going to last for so long. Eventually he’s gonna get bored and start treating her the same way he treated all the other 4 women because that’s how toxic men are.. And I’m not saying that to be spiteful, I’m saying that because it’s the truth. You can’t cure that ugly spirit of his with a new baby boy.
Also, walking out on them doesn't mean child support stops?? Like you "bagged" a guy that has to make 4 payments a month before he even thinks about bills how is that a brag??
It's not Adam and Eve
It's Madame and Eve
And
Adam and Steve
Congratulations to the 4 of them.
Happy pride month!!! 🏳️🌈🏳️🌈🏳️🌈
Happy pride to everyone
Shout out to
The _gays_ (me) 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
happy pride!!! ^__^
Happy Pride...and be proud of every happiness you have.
happy pride :)) 🏳🌈🏳🌈🏳🌈
Ahhh I love checking on the straights and wondering what the hell is going on on straightville? happy pride guys!🏳️🌈
straightville, as opposed to gaytown? Happy pride, my friend!
@@Awidferd Never straight ville. I was actually going to visit gaytown tomorrow!
@@astarriknight I live on bi lane
@@queeraustraliantheaterkid oh fun!! mind if I pay a visit?
Hi, I come from Aceville.
4:40 Really makes you wonder why they are so scared of the boyfriends of their nonexistent daughters while for that to happen they will need to be someone's boyfriend at some point
me being a pan woman: yay this doesn't apply to me ☺️
me remembering that i've dated men like this: 😔
Happy pride! :) 🩷💛🩵
@@Awidferd happy pride to you too ❤️🏳️🌈
The thing with parents being overprotective of their daughters is that in reality, they wouldn't do sh¡t if their daughter went through a breakup and even if they did, they would literally set their daughters up for "fatherless behavior". But hey, at least ya'll got revenge. 🤷🏻♀️
"Madam without Adam" oh we're just going full crazy pants, ah yes this French origin word was only created with Gods second specialist boy in mind
"Why you as dad think it affects you?"
Well, it's because they see the boys as them in the past and their most likely afraid their daughters will end up in a bad situation.
So either we teach the boys not to be assholes or give the daughter a heads-up that...that boy could a Andrew Tate boyfriend.
That’s not an excuse to threaten gun violence tho 🥲
My brother is 13 and I feel like the one parenting him trying to steer him away from the path my dad went down I don’t want him to be in his fifties and throw a fit because his wife didn’t reheat his leftovers YALL SEND HELP🙏
Hmmm. I’ve always wondered why the whole calling someone “daddy” in a lustful context icked me out so much. Well, 7:00 made it crystal clear to me. Thank you :)
It’s just for the power dynamic though
@@laluneroi I mean I call my boyfriend daddy and I’m not attracted to my actual dad AT ALL. I had an ex call me daughter and I was grossed out cause I don’t want to imagine that so you’re just wrong
I feel the same way when guys see a girl with big b00bs and go “mommy” like what’s that about?why are you thinking about your mom??😭
@@Maggie-eu7im why is it only disgusting if he calls you daughter? When you're implying that exact thing by calling him daddy? 🤔
You can't say one thing is fine and attractive and then turn around and say something that means the exact same thing is icky and disgusting.
the real kicker here is which parent you have the most trauma from. “mommy” doesn’t squick me out because i have mommy issues. my dad was great so “daddy” makes me wanna puke.
I am bisexual, I'm married to a straight man and I don't get this shit either. I am so happy, he is so happy, we are so happily married and we've been together for almost 12 years. He is a wonderful person, husband and father, we have great communication and talk about things if they are bothering us, I currently stay home, but I am involved with all important matters and he supports me in everything I want to do, as I do for him as well. I will never understand this mentality of honestly "the boomer humor" of "I hate my wife" and "Marriage sucks" no one made you be here buddy, not in the western world at least, which is where so much of this dialogue comes from and I hate it. It's gross.
So these "tough guy dads" at some level know they send their daughters out into a patriarchal world that will probably at least try to cut her to pieces.
How is their fix not to train their daughters to be able to stand up for themselves in verbal and physical confrontation?
If you're such a fighterdad teach your daughter to throw her own punches.
Trying to hold on to a fleeting masucline power by bullying a teenage boy for the crime of being in love with their daughter is just so unspeakably sad.
15:28 I'd also like to add that these don't apply to every language! English, in the grand scheme of things, is an incredibly new language. For example, I'll go through this list in German.
You _can_ spell "Frau" without "Herr"
You _can_ spell "Frau" without "Mann"
You _can_ spell "Frau" without "Mann"
You _can_ spell "Sie" without "Er"
You most definitely _can_ spell "Frau" without "Herr"
Of course, the prayer one remains the same, but my point stands. And sorry for the lack of variety, German can be repetitive 😅
That makes no sense u literally can’t spell “Frau” without “Herr”
@@gh0stpuppi333 No, you can't spell Frau WITH Herr, you'd have to shoehorn in another 4 letters somehow.
You can't spell "människor" without "men you shoes"...
You can spell Mujer (Woman) without Hombre (Man).
Happy pride, queers, dears, and people with steers! 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
@Rachel Python As a Demi-Queer young woman, my heart melts from feeling included. And here's my treat to you. 🍇🍐🍪🍟
I might be dumb but whats a steer?
@@eliasnarcise7688 You mean Queer? It's an umbrella term for people who don't identify with being heterosexual and/or cisgender {Ex; bisexual, lesbian, gay, transgender, ect}.
@@eliasnarcise7688 it's a male cow, I mostly just needed another word that rhymed with queer but this way it includes cowboys and such 😂
@@catrakitten thank you for the tasty treat! Here's some bread I baked for you! 🍞
The fathers being possessive over their daughters as far as dating feels super incesty to me.
7:35 Yes to this! If asserting boundaries is seen as insolence, that’s a them problem and not a you problem.
Who's going to tell the "you can't spell amen without men" that the word amen has nothing to do with men?? It's a Hebrew word that basically translates to "verily" or "it is true," the word men being in there is a coincidence if you could even call it that
Thinking of sending this to my friend who never wants kids
I'm trans enby, getting bisalp and ablation in few days bc pain and dysphoria,, I was childfree even before realizing I'm Trans and the whole pregnancy thing is my worst nightmare. People should only have kids when they're ready to love them ➡️UNCONDITIONALLY⬅️
Sigmund Freud partying in his grave 💀
3:00 I just saw my cousins gender reveal an hour ago and I need people to know how excited he was just to have a kid. Also another cousin is having another kid. They’re both just excited that they’re having kids and it’s so wholesome and cute. (I’m really excited and want people to know.)
Awwww
As a transmasc nonbinary asexual in America, it's FUCKING terrifying to live here but they keep us so incredibly debt ridden that it's a pipe dream to ever be able to move anywhere else.
& as a straight man I really agree with u I wish I could move 2 Switzerland because America is turning into Nazi el swabin land & I hate it 😢
Ok, I know no one asked, but the language one is really funny since they're just wrong about everything. Starting off with "amen," it's just a Hebrew word meaning 'let it be done'. In Hebrew its not pronounced as "a-men", the word "men" has nothing to do with that word. The female/male one is another easy debunk. 'Male' comes from the Latin 'masculus' which was later shortened in old French to masle, and then the s was dropped leaving male. Female comes from an entirely different Latin word, 'femina'. Shortened in old French to 'femelle'. The two aren't related. Man/woman is a long explanation, but put simply: Man used to be gender neutral in its proto-germanic origin literally meaning person, male or female. Woman comes from the term wifman, later dropping the f and leaving wimman, and it's spelling changed to the woman we know today. Man (gendered) used to be werman, but unlike wifman it lost the entire beginning and was shortened to just 'man' following the Norman conquest. And human comes from the Latin humanus, so again, unrelated. A simple Google search could have told them that but weaponizing ignorance is more conservative style anyway
The item comparing women to guns is pretty gross. Unsurprising, in a country like America who have a long-standing love affair with guns (& misogyny!), but still gross nevertheless.
On the Beyoncé thing when people say that it piss me off REAL BAD!! Beyoncé and Jay Z have a very inappropriate age gap he started dating her when she was very young and He was really her only relationship she was ALSO raised Christian in which they tell you forgive your husband for everything he does you can’t leave him and now she has like four kids with him she wouldn’t want to leave him anyway to break up their marriage because she has children on the line it ISNT that she’s a billionaire or that she’s successful it’s that she was number one she was groomed he what is the only super serious relationship she’s ever had in which she dated him for literal decades before marrying him like Beyoncé is a fucking victim I need you to stop acting like just because she has money and agency to leave that she knows she isnt like her sister punch the shit out of him in an elevator for a reason :// Play some people say that it really jumps out beyond do not respect or even sympathize with abuse victims just bc you CAN leave don’t mean that you are in the right mind to do so like cardi b wanted to leave her husband for cheating in practically the entire hip-hop world gaslight her into taking him back he was stalking her showing up to her performances with the Roses talking about I love you and now she’s back with him and has a child just because someone has money doesn’t mean anything
Speaking of silencers: Outside of video games and hollywood, "silenced" guns are still pretty loud. And rather you want to call them "silencers" or "sound suppressors," really doesn't matter I don't think; the first of its kind was literally called a silencer. Just don't call the magazine a clip.
And yeah, the gun culture we have here in the States is pretty absurd. I mean, I like guns but that's only 'cause I think guns are cool.
1:45 Somewhere, Freud has a beaming smile after reading the text lol
And by ‘somewhere’ you mean ‘in his grave where he belongs’
Happy Pride Month! 🌈
Wishing everyone across the spectrum a great month and a great year ahead. 👏🏽
Its so sad to think she doesn't know the real reason why men prefer gun over woman. Its because they can actually fit in the guns hole.
That's f-king disgusting!! 😱🤮
Is it bad that I was thinking the other way around just because it's extra cursed?
Who cares
this comment made me take psychic damage
You've lost your mind
No, the striaghts aren't okay
This video made me want to take a moment to be grateful for my parents. Sure, they have their moments, like the time they said we shouldn’t hate on JK Rowling, we should have a conversation where we say our opinion while not telling her nicely why she’s wrong because that’s mean. Despite that one time, their relationship is the healthiest one I’ve ever seen and I’m glad I grew up with it. They take turns watching the kids and making dinner, they both have their own jobs and personal time with their own friends, while also spending time as a family. They don’t argue often, and when they do, they work it out like adults. They support my bi ass and make a welcoming environment for my friends and siblings, they’ve supported me and my siblings with our various mental health issues, and they promote healthy eating in a safe way. They genuinely love eachother, despite grey hairs and getting old, and they’re eachother’s best friend. Seeing straight people like my parents restores my faith in humanity (other than the JK thing).
That's what I'm striving for in my relationship and the way my partner is makes me believe it's possible, ultimate end goal
It took me sitting my mom down in front of national and international suicide statistics before she finally accepted and stopped questioning how I'd go 0-100 on hating someone after learning about their transphobia
As an autistic queer with auditory processing disorder, thank you for the subtitles. Hope you have a good Pride
11:59 I hate when people word it as “gave him a son” as if the person with 2 X chromosomes has any way to contribute the chromosome for a boy 🙄
That was my first thought
happy pride month!
this year is gonna be the best one cause 1. i'm starting T this week. 2. i'm going to NYC pride(my first pride parade cause of covid) and
⚠️TW⚠️
mention of SH
3. as of June 1st, im a year clean and a year since i went to the mental hospital. i've been doing really well and im living my best life(well as good as i can bring a trans teen in texas)
Proud of you ❤
So happy for you!! Wishing you the best with T and I'm so proud that you are healing! 💞💞
I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!! PROUD OF YOU BABE!!!!! YOU ARE AMAZING!!! HAPPY PRIDE 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵
In the US, it depends on state. Some states have commonlaw marriage after 5 years, some 10, and my state doesn't recognize it at all. You are single here until you get married and if you say have kids, they make it a pain to share assets because the state just wants you to get married
Broke: "make this shot and I'll let you make out with my gf". Woke: "make this shot and I'll let you make out with me".
It's not gay if you have socks
the only valid "I got something that'll help with that" moment was when I was having really bad period cramps and my partner says "you know... I can do a cool trick that'll make it stop for 9 months" funny as hell
Happy pride everyone! Let it be the most fabulous and glitter filled one you've ever had! 🎉 🌈🏳️🌈💜✨
Gleeterrrr hehehehhehehehe ✨ ✨✨✨✨✨✨👹✨✨🏳️🌈❤️
What's with all the 'no-kids' shaming? Some people want kids, while others don't. Big whoop. And Happy Pride Month, Fruit Loop Fairy and folks! 🤨🙄🤷🏽♀️🥳🌈🏳️🌈🍓🍊🍋🍐🫐🍇
A happy froot loop :)
@@Awidferd I was calling Queer Kiwi 'Fruit Loop Fairy' because of her hair.
@@catrakitten slayyy
Amen literally just means "So be it. Or Let it be so."
It's so odd that anyone would try to make it more than just that.
2:43 I’m so obtuse that I thought the partner had a therapist’s number saved just in case. I’m expecting too much lol
I really thought the same thing so you're not alone.
11:58 -- my bio father wanted nothing to do with me, his firstborn child (a girl) but the boy born 6 months later to a different mom? Absolutely involved from Day 1 (and he wasn't in a relationship with brother's mom either.) He did eventually grow bored of being involved after a year or two, but def viewed my half-brother differently than me.
Not that woman with the “I’m the 5th baby mama with a son tho” thing, holy crap, talk about no self respect. It’s amazing.
And for the guy with the whole “7 panties and 3 bras” problem, well you have under 6 figures, a regular car, and an apartment (and this is hopefully for that matter) vs. jay-z with millions and multiple awards, a music label etc.
Tbh I doubt the guy who made that post had more than seven pairs of underwear himself.
As a straight person I’ll say, we’re not ok. None of us are ok
About the guns: You know, I would really like to buy a silencer for some men
Wondering if you have a ghost or if the plushies are actually alive 🤣. They move so often during your videos. Can't be coincidence 😂
Just accidently came across this channel and then noticed the Leebit and other skzoos in the back and instantly subscribed
Be less concerned that your daughter might date one day and start being concerned about what you're teaching her to expect and accept from men in her life. 5:00
"It's my wife's job to abuse my son's girlfriends!"
The overprotective dad thing is fcking annoying. My dad doesn’t know I’m gay and whenever I go out he’ll ask my mom if I have a secret bf that I’m seeing which upsets me because I never lie about where I am or who I’m with and hate being accused. Also whenever he meet my male friends he’ll do the scary dad thing (he probably thinks I’m with them but pretending we’re friends) and it makes shit awkward because I dont like them like that and they dont like me that way! We are just friends. It’s why I hate when people (especially men) say things like “guys and girls can’t be just friends” like some of us have platonic friendship with guys so stop trying to scare my friends away. I’m 21 ffs. Then relatives always find it so adorable when dads are over protective but it just feels weird and invasive.
the gun post made me remember this one reddit story of a girl that found out her boyfriend's friend group pays vagingo RENT if one of the guys gets with the ex of another member of the group, and she found out cuz her ex and boyfriend became friends and the boyfriend sent him the rent money
Gross, dude.
As a girl to a father that makes these casual gun jokes it really does make me anxious more than feeling loved and protected like I think they want to portray
Even when I came out as gay my father said it was only fair he would threaten a girlfriend if not a boyfriend. This was not something I wanted to hear and definitely not in a society where I would be called slurs or potentially threatened on the streets to hold a partners hand. It would be nice if the parents actually took the time to see how their daughters feel about the mysoginistic "jokes" and all the better if they stopped completely
17:26 I believe it actually comes from master and mistress, but I could be wrong
5:47 This is from a book, there’s a bunch of weird genres and this is one of them. So while it might be a straight relationship, I don’t think it can really be dragged down in this video sub-genre because it’s fiction
19:50 I think something that is different in the US to what we experience here in Australia (/NZ/UK) is that marriage is hugely not viewed as a legal ceremony, but a religious covenant and massive social change. So saying that it's just a legal doesn't apply to the mindset of the people writing these (very scary) post-marriage mindset posts as to them there is a huge amount the changes besides just "having a party and eating some cake" haha! For a huge amount of people in the South, which is where I grew up, marriage is seen as ENTIRELY different to the single life in that you are supposed to be a. living separately and not sharing finances, b. not physically intimate and c. having a very shallow social/emotional relationship in comparison to married life. For many people, and likely those making these posts, married life is a HUGE difference with an all new set of social expectations/rules that many were totally unprepared for, which can leave many people feeling disoriented, dissatisfied or trapped, especially if they marry young or without understanding which is again, very popular in the US, much more so than in other Western countries.I remember genuinely thinking growing up that marriage was the be all end all of my life, and that marriage would fundamentally change who I was as a person (and I have been encouraged to and therefore idealised getting married very young!) I know you said you didn't really understand why it's seen as such a big deal, but to someone like me who is Australian but grew up in the Southern US, this difference is REALLY clear! I love your videos and enjoyed this one very much, thanks for posting!
Need someone to make a “why women prefer guns over men” list, just so we can watch the “guns > women” men get upset 😁😁
You can put a silencer on a gun but not a cissy that's an asshole
I'm pretty sure that the strawberry allergy and drowning thing is a writing prompt or a fanfic from booktok. It certainly reads like that to me anyway. Still quite cringe of course, but not as bad as a real couple trying to kill each other.
3:39 THE LEEBIT FELL OVER TwT
HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!!!!!!!!!
I love your name omg
Happy pride! ❤️🧡💛💚🩵💜
@@Awidferd ty
The fact men want to protect their daughters from other men is mind melting
I'm going through a tough time and your videos always ground me. You're really amazing, thank you so much for creating content here on youtube. Please take care of yourself and do self-care, im guessing videos like this can influence you a lot negatively. So please be kind to yourself. ✨
The only time breaking things when you're happy is appropriate is when you're a cartoon himbo
21:20 my husband and I dated for 8 years before getting married and lived together for just over 2 and a half years. I didn't expect anything to change after we got married. We viewed it as a formality for our parents sake who are both older but we were already very commited to building a life together. However following our marriage I felt closer to him, more connected than before and he said he noticed the same. I think maybe the significance of making that ceremonial commitment to each other meant way more to us than we could have predicted.
So when these people act like being married is a burden, I'm like.... then why bother? Like marriage is not easy, it's a commitment that requires a lot of work and effort like any relationship. It shouldn't be taken lightly... so why not respect that commitment you made to your partner? It's really bizarre to me.
And to be fair, I do not think marriage is required to have a fulfilling and committed relationship. I just noticed a change in my relationship that I didn't expect following our wedding.
leebit fell and then magically stood up, hes so real for that
I think I solved the problem. People who don’t wanna date women should just date men
I always find it so strange when fathers the first thing they think when they see their daughters boyfriend is violence. Like never in my life have i ever seen something so ridiculous and silly. I'm happy that my father just shrugged it off and was happy i had a partner, all dads should be like him.
Oh god, I've had actual nightmares about someone eating something I'm extremely allergic and then kissing me, are you kidding me? Like, I don't wanna die?! These people are unhinged and scary.
5:14 I watched the live action ‘The Little Mermaid’ and now I think that TikTok was made by King Triton.
9:44
if you blah blah you can makeout w/ my gf-no
if you blah blah you can makeout w/ me -yes
Yessss 👏🏼 the whole thing of when kids are like 5 and you ask them if they have a boyfriend/girlfriend is just weird