Stop Being Weak And Ineffective.
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- Опубликовано: 11 апр 2024
- It's a common misconception that kindness equates to weakness, and competence is often mistaken for ineffectiveness.
I do my best to unravel the complexities behind these misconceptions and explore how they impact our perceptions and interactions in various aspects of life.
Please join me as I challenge stereotypes and celebrate the strength and effectiveness of kindness and competency.
With admiration, I referenced @ThinkMediaPodcast, who has assisted me along my RUclips Journey.
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Always be kind, until the situation may not allow you to be, never be afraid to stand your ground.
Those who can't understand the concept are the weak ones and feel intimidated by those that do.
Thank you for the comment 🙏🏼
One of my favourite quotes is from Al Capone: Don't mistake my kindness for weakness, I am kind to everyone but when someone is unkind to me, weakness will be the last thing you remember about me"...I have used that saying a few times...because i am easy going and treat folks like i want to be treated but some folks think that you are a pushover and easy to take advantage of...then there's another saying....FAFO...they get the message quickly. Thanks Officer for the words of wisdom...a lesson that is well learnt sometimes the hard way but never forgotten.
I wholeheartedly agree ✌🏼
What you're saying is absolutely correct!! Also people judging because you don't walk the same path or have the same views as them happens often... Not having a professional title and being looked down on is such a shallow mindset.... Had this happen not long ago.. As soon as I said I was a nurse their behavior changed towards me and was much better... I am still the same kind, smart, caring person even if I was selling beauty products or making pancakes at a local dinner... Live and let live I say... Being kind is free 🤍☄️ We all have a story!!! Rant finished ✅️ lol 😆
It was a good rant, I appreciate you sharing 👍🏼
So very very true. Randall never mistake kindness for weakness the meek shall inherit the earth. Meek dosent mean week in biblical times it meant. Great power under control like a sword that is kept in its sheath. Just love your channel. So entertaining and really thought provoking and informative 😊😊
Thank you so much, I appreciate the compliment a lot 🙏🏼
Act on assumptions without seeking the truth The world is full of those toxic humans 70%wild life gone in the past 50years did we assume they could handle the abuse.light shining on that service man whos conviction is so strong for what the Palestinians have been experiencing love him and hi Ideals thank you
Thank you for the input 🙏🏼
Great advice, which, again, confirm my thought - the more I think about people, the more I love cats...
Great saying! 😂
I got it I am under weak shopaholic with anger issues .. I am at the phase of my life enjoying my empty nest shopping for clothes and watching people with temper tantrums and I laugh 😂
I love listening to everything, Randall says. I know this, and a lot of people should hear this, in my opinion. The world would be a much better place. 😀 I stay away from negative people and complainers.
Thank you for all your videos 👍 I appreciate it 🙏
Thank you for watching and your comment, I appreciate you taking the time.
Some people are born like that. In their minds, only positive thoughts about people or situations prevail. Those people always rush to help or do something good for others without any second thoughts. When I was a little girl, my dad and I heard a dog cry at night. The next morning, we went out to the back of our apartment, right beside the garage, and found a big, beautiful German Shepherd dog lying on the cold snow with its front two legs broken. It had fallen from the 4th floor, and the owners had abandoned it. Its legs were so broken that they had ripped the skin. My dad brought it to our house on the 4th floor and tried to do something for the dog. He fed it well and tried to apply something to its legs. The dog always cried whenever my dad tried something. The dog stayed with us for about a week, and my dad tried to find a vet. However, my mom strongly disagreed, and there was a fight in the house every day. When my dad was away on a trip, my mom went to our neighbor to ask for help in bringing a vet. The neighbor brought his friend, who was a vet, and she told us that the dog's legs had already gone bad and that it would soon die. They gave the dog a needle to put it down and took it away to bury it. My dad didn’t believe that the infection had spread to its blood. He thought my mom had killed the dog on purpose while he was away. I cried for a week because I thought we could fix its legs and keep it as a pet. But it was too late to prevent the worst. Its wounds were already infected. There are many people out there who are too kind, and there are people out there who use that kindness and take advantage of it.
Thank you for the well articulated comment Feruza!
This was incredibly meaningful for me. I've been called a "quiet leader" and recently discovered the concept of Sigmas. It had made me successful but now I'm questioning if the same approach would be effective as a police officer... Or if I would need to adjust and amp it up a bit. I'd imagine Being a frontline officer would need to have a powerful personality.
Thanks for the input and I’m glad route found it meaningful. Many thanks.
I used to give people the shirt off my back until one day I realized that the reverse wasn't true. Slowly I started backing away from the "users" and started walking with people who empower.
I still give when I can with no expectations of getting it back but now I listen to my instincts rather than just acting.
I usually stand up for myself and others but there are situations where engaging isn't safe so I just smile and wave then ride away on my wheelchair.
You’re certainly right, thanks for the input 🙏🏼
Another awesome video ! Thank you 🙌
Thank you for watching.
Awesome explanation Randall. Sad that Officers are getting injured protecting our city these days.
That’s for sure.
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I pick my battles mostly stay quiet but go after my family or pets look out scout.
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Correction; a single person can also be a doer too. Don’t leave them hanging, Randy! 😂
Great and wise video. Keep them coming! 🙌🏼
Thank you!
Very helpful another video for life advice people will take your kindness for weakness be aware
Thank you, brother!
@@OfficerArsenault always welcome and always support to you big brother ❤️💙
Agreed
Wow another great video. Sharing some great wisdom here. Thanks officer!
Thank you!
FYI shared this with some teens recently. 👏🏻 great conversation about it. Beautiful dog houses btw! 🙏🏻
Thank you! I thought this video would do better to be honest.
@@OfficerArsenaultMaybe it’s one of those videos and messages that overtime will gain traction. Or at the very least, it will get to the people that need to see it? I do believe in that. I was looking for videos to help youth. I can see a subset of videos you do specifically to be used to help youth? 🤷🏻♀️ just a thought. Thanks!
Thank you 🙏🏼
Wise words, thanks
Thank you.
I bullied because I’m nice that’s sad😢 I treat people like gold because they’re going to snap me apart
I’m a quiet person. I like to observe of what is going on. I learn a lot from watching body language and the tone of people. I like to quietly enter a room and exit the same way. 😂😂😂just because I’m quiet, people think that I don’t know anything. Once someone steps over my boundaries, I set them straight and tell them. You have to be assertive with certain people. 😁
I agree, thank you for sharing.
As I got older I have no patience .. I don’t care if the other person is angry funny .. I be laughing just for fun
Kick your ass if u come back 😊lol my two dogs Rebel and Mossy got off their leash’s about two weeks ran down a old Alabama county road I had one shoe off the only way I got them back I yelled help me and the little A hole came running back to me and then I had to cross the road to get mossy I will never forget it sounds like u had a great dad 💗💗 love your stories
Thank you for the compliment and input 🙏🏼
@@OfficerArsenault any time 🇺🇸♥️🇨🇦
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I pick my battles.. if I battle I make sure I win funny .. why pick a battle if you lose .. oh I have savage side that I tame .. funny anger issues .. some people will run you over if you are too weak. Some people need to take a chill pill they have mental issues.
Nice until my sugar too high eating too much cake then bam 💥 I be a lunatic or if I am hungry and tired all the reasoning goes out the window .. this is why I feed my husband before I argue .. world war three in my house .. he is cranky when hungry and I am cranky too but I control myself
I am kind of nutty ..
Are you halal or kosher? ;)
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Seafood lover 🐟 🦞 🦀
@@OfficerArsenault Pescatarian?
@OfficerArsenault there is so much discrimination and racism in the food chain. ;)
@@OfficerArsenault I hope the red cow thing is asap stat