Perfect Patty OFFED Gavin! 😮 | Why Did I Get Married Too
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- Опубликовано: 26 окт 2024
- Join Heit & Cheri for a discussion of the final scenes in the 2010 film, Why Did I Get Married Too, in which Gavin and Patricia's divorce fighting leads to tragedy.
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The fact that Pattie's story ended with a man instead of her shown being healed never sat right with me. Tyler always shows people getting into the next relationship instead of actual growth and I hate that.
That and the fact that she went from a dark skinned black man to a racially ambiguous man. TP seems to think that the black woman's healing process has to include leaving a black man and getting with a light skinned/ racially ambiguous man.
Agreed that ruined the movie for me seeing her cause his death. Then she just moves on. Like that
A mixed race man !!! Portrayed as the savior. The dark skin man portrayed as the antagonist. Tyler is greedy. He dont want help writing or casting.
When I was with my abusive ex and we finally broke up since then I have been abstinent. I became a reborn Christian got baptized and now I’ve been single for almost a year.
I’ve gotten therapy and I’ve found hobbies and friends .a man is the last thing I’m looking for right now and for a while probably. 😂 people just gotta stop assuming that a man is going to fix everything.. not all of us need sheriff Troy in our life lol😅😂
@@CarsonDouglas That's how he became a billionaire. Not having any writers.
Perfect Patty did it. She might as well get a tear drop tattoo 😂
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At this point she needs two
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You might as well say Peppermint Patty did it! If she never went down to his job to do that DIRTY DEED he wouldve never lost that showdown with that U-Haul!
She went to that man's job to make a fool of him, and distracted driving is super dangerous, and her little humiliation ritual caused his death imo
Her saying "fix it" before all the couples kiss was a mess hahahahah. Then The Rock😍 shows up🙄😮💨🤣😂
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This goes deeper than that one scene. Since the first movie, Patricia has always put on this persona that nothing is wrong, and they are perfect, and they had issues that needed to be worked out that she never talked about with her husband. It doesn't help that she's also out here giving advice on marriage that she's clearly not following. She's helping people with their marriages while hers is falling apart.
Jai White And Angela Was Just The Opposite. Argued The Most But In Reality Was The Most Put Together. Brilliant Writing.
@@BrianRenardDavismore like accidental writing, Angela and Marcus were the comedic couple with petty issues compared to everyone else, so they come off looking better, but they’re not really
@@ninjanibba4259 Pretty Much
This relationship was so tumultuous and volatile. Fighting over who's at fault for the death of the baby. Janet and Malik bodied these portrayals. 🎭
Gavin became unhinged. The way he thew her down and burned those baby pics was disturbing. Plus, he looked like he wanted to put hands on her in his office. His lack of emotional control by speeding off in a car without looking both ways got him killed.
Are you serious?
Patti was CLEARLY the unhinged one....telling all her friends business in books, pushing her girls away right in front of them, frantically (and ANGRILY) wrecking her ENTIRE HOUSE (emotional instability much?) and popping up on his job....does this sound SANE TO YOU?!
To be honest that is rough. My daughter died on my ex wife's watch. It took a hell of a lot of meditation and prayer to not go off on her and downright blame her. You say lack of emotional control but there was no emotional control ANYWHERE in this movie anyway
Facts. She didn't run him into the street and she had nothing to do with HIM not looking both ways and HIM being irradic. If it were flipped yall would swear she was too emotional and it's not his fault.
He also threw alcohol at her in a drunken, rage. Two sides of the, coin. She could’e done things, differently. But he isn’t an angel, either.
Majority of Janet’s emotions were genuine in this movie. During the filming of this movie Michael Jackson passed away. Tyler encouraged her to display her anger and rage into her character. Not too much on Janet baby she still talented and a Jackson 💯
Years later, when I lost my own brother, I gained so much more respect for Janet. I can’t imagine going through that loss and using it in my job. I remember this was not even a month when MJ passed when she filmed those scenes. I couldn’t even imagine, even 8 years after losing my brother, pulling a performance like that. 😢
I never realized until yall mentioned it that Patricia only monetized her "grief" instead of actually healing. I would put money on it that whatever she wrote in that book, she downplayed her part with very little accountability. It showed during the hospital scene and the memorial service. She did exactly what she did when it came to her son..bottle up her emotions and used it to make a profit. For her to be a psychologist, she's the one that ACTUALLY needed therepy the most. I know too many people like her irl. Just like Debbie Morgan said in Eve's bayou: she can see everybody elses issues, but she's blind to her own life. Unfortunately, Tyler Perry and his target audience are surface level (low to mid vibrational) at BEST, so this talking point might go over a lot of people's heads.
Just take a moment and think about the people in your lives who LOVE Tyler Perry and all of his content. What type of people are they? It's definitely something to be studied, thats for sure.
Everything after "Debbie Morgan"....is a whole word and its about time someone said it!
They were portraying the idea that she buried herself into her work to avoid the hurt of dealing with what happened. Many people do that.
Well put now I gotta do research
@ebonyeverything2751 Yes! And it made Patricia a huge hypocrite. People who do that are only running from the issue instead of actually dealing with it and working THROUGH it. Grief isn't something you heal from. You learn how to COPE because it's a daily process that never fully goes away.
She never dealt with her emotional issues..she took it out on. Gavin up to the time he died. Then just moves on???
Not defending her character but saw it as a sign of a new beginning. Life isn't fair a lot of times and while it can be argued she "killed" two people closest to her and may not seem like she should get a happy ending, one could interpret as her living on and learning to be happy again. Living for her husband and son.
@@aireyb5785 I could see that. But when I first saw the movie, I really felt bad for Gavin. Seems like she was just unnecessarily cruel to someone who was really trying their best to get their marriage back on track, but I understand where you’re coming from.
They BOTH took their grief out on each other.
@@ebonyeverything2751 eventually he did after she shut him down no communication no sex then push todivorce the man
KILLED HER HUSBAND
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Y’all went in on both Patricia AND Janet 😂
Heit “This is supposed to be a happy ending. I’m not happy about this ending”.
Cherie “No ma’am, you don’t deserve a Rock”.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 I love it!
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This is a hill I will die on. Patricia inadvertently killed Gavin by aggravating him antagonizing him ultimately causing him to be distracted like you said him not looking for oncoming traffic, which caused the truck to crush into him. In the first movie I didn't blame her for the child's death because that was honestly an accident but I do blame her for this.
But how do you forget to strap in a baby? She didn't forget to strap herself in.
@@teamamerica1090 what I interpreted from that scene in the first movie was she secured the strap but it wasn't tight enough or it wasn't locked insecurely but she recalled her strapping him in. Not that she didn't strap him in at all. I still consider that a horrible accident especially since it was raining.
Patti dont need to be around ANYONE as they get into a vehicle!
@@ParentalDiscretionIsAdvised That I can agree with 😂😂😂
@@ParentalDiscretionIsAdviseddamn, tru but damn ! Keep other humans and vehicles away from her!!!
I appreciate y’all breakdowns. But. Yeah. The first. Why did I get married. Was leagues better than the sequel..the ending was too rushed with “fix it” and magically all problems solved
Then she’s been cold and cruel to Gavin for two movies and she just gets a happy ending after causing his death with her pettiness?
In my opinion. It's BOTH their faults.
Patricia is at fault because she showed up to his job and acted out and Gavin is at fault because he jumped in the car and sped off without looking both ways.
Yes, its both of their faults but the reason goes BACK to losing their son. She bottled it up, he couldnt, he went to the friends instead and because it gotten back to her (in a spiteful way), that is what caused all of this! Everything else between the deaths are byproducts of them NOT TALKING TO ONE ANOTHER ABOUT THE PRIMARY ISSUE!
Not at all, you still need to look both ways before you cross an intersection
I love your takes on why did I get married.. we might need you guys to talk about colored purple or the family that preys
Thanks! We have a few videos on TCP on this channel and our other channel. Suggest an aspect of the film you'd like us to discuss and we will see what we can do! 😊
Please do a take on The Family That Preys.
TP was on fire with TFTP!
800K. I believe Patty was totally responsible for Gavin's death. Only if she didn't go to his workplace and did what she done, so now not only did she lose her son, she now lost her husband.
lol you didn’t watch the video.
@@KissChanel I watched the complete movie along with the video, so I don't understand what I missed.
@@marvinwhittaker1. He said do NOT type $800k
2. “KILLED HER HUSBAND” is what you should’ve typed. They said it during the video 🥴
@@KissChanel My mistake. I probably misunderstood what he said, a simple mistake, no hard feelings.
Perfect Patty messed up!
i will say i think she learned after Gavin’s death about what can happen, how every area of your life can be negatively affected when you don’t take the time to actually grieve. but she definitely did need some daggone therapy!!!
You guys should review the new Tyler Perry movie divorce in the black on prime video
I don’t think she needed therapy for Gavin. Their marriage died with their son. I don’t think they ever loved each other the relationship just made sense.
She wouldn't have chased him if HE hadn't played with her money 🤷🏾♀️
He ain’t play with nothing. Yall woman love taking half in a divorce when yall getting a nice settlement but when a man tries it, then all of a sudden it’s “playing with her money” naw. He getting his half like a woman would get hers.
@@antg2183 why should a MAN act like a WOMAN in a divorce? Be a man charge it to the game and move on don't act like the women you can't stand bc then you as a man just become one of those bitter women. 🤷🏾♀️
@@brittanyreed997 Hell naw we preach equality right? If yo lazy a** can take half a man’s money in a divorce then yall should HAPPILY give half yall money in a divorce OR we should just get rid of alimony in general.
Cant ask to have the responsibility of man and then wanna cry when you have to be equal to one.
@@antg2183but she wrote most of that book. It wasn’t a collaboration. If that’s the case, he should’ve asked for percentage before she released her book(and before they divorced). Negotiation and contracts are important. So nobody assumes, anything.
If it’s okay for men to take womens’ money, then men need to stop calling women gold diggers. At that point it’s fair game.
@@user-pd4qj8pb6z Doesn’t matter if she wrote most of the book.
Don’t most athletes shoot most of their jump shots? Or most lawyers win most of their cases? Or most doctors preform most of their surgeries? And they still gotta give women alimony etc etc?
And the reason men call women gold diggers is because men usually have to pay out alimony, women often times (even if they are the bread winner) do not.
So naw he should’ve been entitled to half her book money because like all women when things are bad and yall can get a payout, yall gladly do so he should’ve got his payout too.
I agree about Janet’s acting. Same performance she did on Poetic Justice and For Colored girls. Patty was a psychopath.
I don’t think it’s fair that men can push women so far and then when the woman snaps, that’s why he wants to act like she’s crazy. Basic narcissist 101.
He threw her down, restrained her, put all of his weight on top of her, bit her face, threw alcohol on, burned a picture of their child, broke into the house, took all of her money.
I’m not saying Gavin has no right to be upset but his reaction to the divorce was completely unhinged and downright embarrassing. And now that Patricia snapped and reminded him what kind of person she can be in front of his employees.. He wants to act all high and mighty. Nah boo-boo kitty. Show them who you really are.
I’m not saying Gavin deserved to die because he didn’t, but Pat didn’t deserve to be abused and she doesn’t deserve to be criticized for wanting to embarrass him. But then again, this is one of the reasons why Jesus tells us to not take revenge and leave it up to Him.
I agree. People are mad that she got her lick, back.
Definitely her fault. If she hadn’t shown up with her antics, he would’ve still been in the office.
I agree 👍🏾 💯 their marriage ended when their child died. 😌😌😌I dont think they wanted to fix it because they argued every day and all the time. I do think their relationship was the ammo for Patty to give relationship advice to her other friends.
Patricia now has to deal with the death of a 2nd person due to fatal car accident. Each time she had a huge role to play in each persons demise. The lesson for her is basically to forgive herself, and free herself from that guilt.
Pat was the most vicious character all along besides mike it was signs of it even in the 1st movie
Me and my mom went to go see this movie and I was mad for a week after seeing this ending. Patty took the man out and skipped off with ashy behind Rock 🤨🤣
I love Rock but he looked thin and pale here.
I understand the ending didn’t sit right with everyone yall wanted her to heal but with how Tyler took it the rocks character was more like a redemption for patty kinda like God putting him in her place while casually saying “Don’t F this one up” it’s crazy Ik but that’s how I took the ending of the movie 🤣🤣🤣
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“Perfect patty offed Gavin” is wild lol she contributed he’d be in his office and his mind would be more sound so he’d be more aware of the road.
Damn I didn’t even think about the fact that she got it all at the end. She got her coin and a new man …. Omg and even more coin off him after she 💀 her husband. Mind blown
Patty was the problem
No she isn't responsible for his death, but she is a catalyst. She didn't force him to rush out like that. However, her actions triggered the whole event.
Tyler seemed like he ran out of budget for this film and thought bringing in a gay man in a cake and having Patti provoke her husband that then led to his death would speed things up. We were missing some connective part. There is a gap in the whole story arc. Patti withheld love for her husband out of guilt because of the crash that killed their child. It was like she was punishing her husband for her mistake. She never took real responsibility to me.
Hope you guys make a video for Divorce in the Black 🖤. I would love to get your text on that "interesting" film
PERFECT PATTY TOOK HER SON & HER HUSBAND BY BEING CARELESS & PETTY
I love Janet's acting
she provoked, harassed, and chased him away from his place of employment which led the victim into oncoming traffic under duress in an agitated, possibly fight/flight response in any other circumstance she is the aggressor and liable in a wrongful death case. Actually, very easy to look at objectionably when see through a legal lens and not emotional/pc/woke lens. Court cases like this happen daily unfortunately.
I dig ya'll channel. Will ya'll ever do a episode on Harlem Nights or the new Beverly Hills Cop movie on Netfilx ?
Yes, we have the new Axel Foley movie coming up. It will be on our other channel. Harlem Nights is on the radar too! 😊
@@HeitCheri fa sho ! I'll be on the lookout for 'em. Keep doing y'all thing and I'll keep supporting. 💯
Patty was very toxic. First
Huh ? Malik was a alcoholic. The definition of toxic, is drinking poision !
@@CarsonDouglashe was drinking grieving I don’t think that’s his regular lifestyle
I don't blame Pat; Gavin should've been driving responsibly, mad or not.
If Patti wouldve waited until he gotten off to give him that "cake", he never wouldve driven off when and how he did. Granted an accident can happen at any given moment, but there were other ways she couldve handled this outside his job! They owed one another their burdens
You do know that emotions influence the way you drive by hindering your awareness. So just imagine how pissed off he was at Pat and trying his hardest to get away from her only to have her follow him and give him more shii. he’s fighting to stay calm while trying to drive it’s her fault
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I def blame her. She followed him. She should not have followed someone that was trying to get away from her. He should of just called security and got her crazy behind out of the building, and file a restraining order.
I agree. If a woman shouldn’t a hit man, that means she is controlling her emotions. By that logic; Gavin should’ve controlled his, own.
“YOU ARE NOT GONNA TOUCH A DIME OF WHAT I HAVE GAVIN!!!!”😂😂😂😂😂
That scene was not meant to be funny at all but it ended up being hilarious
Same thing I thought about Puff. He was too quick to monetize Big's death. It's been 27 years and it still don't sit right.
I actually really enjoyed Janet in this movie It’s right after Michael Jackson had just passed and she was really tapped in to her emotions in this one I think it’s her best performance
T. P. Wrote Patty to be a psycho psychologist Or whatever like that. Plot twist to the plot twist is her being responsible for her son and husband violent unaliving via automobile. But y’all discussion is better than the whole film
She killed her husband, the ending makes it seem like she didn't love him as much as she pretended to..
The thumbnail got me weeeeeak😂😂😂😂
Why did I get married too? is the BEST tyler perry movie in history before Divorce in the black.
No janet just got him back for how he did her but no one is taking about that ?
It’s still a lot of her fault for never wanting to talk to Gavin and acting like everything is ok . I’m not saying his behavior was good either , but he tried in his marriage more than she did tbh .
She probably went to therapy before the time skip.
"How did I get over it" lol
another video about this lolol Heit will not let this go 😂😂
Hold now don't blame my Patricia 😂i love her!
3:29 would he have been wrong to hit her back ??? Is this not assult and grounds to protect yourself?
He is walking away and she is following to hit and strike him
“The Rock is like every woman’s dream!” Heit you told no lies because I saw this movie when it first came out and once the Rock appeared on screen every woman in the theater jumped out of their seat for joy and screamed. Majority of them middle aged too, but honestly I do believe Patty is responsible for Gavin’s death just like their own son. Gavin lost his boy, respect, marriage, peace of mind and life because of her; not to mention, his wealth and reputation. Patty just threw more salt on the wound, a fine example why marriage is not an option for men anymore.
Gavin was a drunk driver!!!!
@@cherryruthsparks1343 He probably wasn't drunk when Patricia came to his job in the middle of the day could chasing him outside
@@marklouis1890but there is such a thing as a functioning alcoholic.
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"Not my book money"😂😂
He got himself killed. He was very violent with her at their home and this is revenge ultimately he also could’ve looked both ways. Everything has cause and effect. His choices led to all of this
The best acting Janet has ever did due to Michael's death it brought out her feelings in this movie
$800K. If Patty wouldn’t have shown up to Gavin’s job acting a fool maybe Gavin wouldn’t have died.
Yeah it was always weird to me that scene like everyone was just like "Okay yall Patricia's feeling bad lets all stand up and kiss to make her feel better."
With great powerful scorn she did.
800 K….She killed him took his money and wrote a book about it to make even more money. He didn’t have any friends if they would celebrate his life with the person that destroyed his life and reputation.
Tyler’s message regarding Pat n Gavin’s fight over $$ was that he was entitled to her $$ and she should not have fought him over it imo.
So random but I think of James and the giant peach during the memorial 🤦🏽😭
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Hey Heit and Cheri😊 800K
Is it just me or did Patricia use her "doctor" title as a cover for her actual enjoyment of toxicity, in others as well as herself?
It was either that or unhealed trauma made her into someone she actually hated but couldn't "fix."
Anyway, yes, I believe Perfect Patty (no pun intended) drove Gavin to his demise.
$800K first of I had to separate the character from the actress because I will not I won't not no I chant not 😂😂😂allow any Janet Jackson slander lol but I agree Patty caused Gavin's death and the twisted mind of her winning through all this like uh let's us not forget their child died in the car accident while she was driving so you was never seen as the villain even after to bringing her soon to be ex husband to the same fate is proof that the woman is hero in Tyler Perry films which can have a hate it or love it concept but you guys once again did another great 👍 episode 👏👏
I love Janet in For Colored girls, I think Janet did a good job.
I hate how her advice to her friends was always advice that applied to HER marriage. Which she didnt really take herself l.
I’m at the part where you’re talking about the hit of the car accident I’m like did he have a seatbelt on? I love your takes on movies got me like hmm yeah I think Perfect Patty had something to do with this as well first the baby now Gavin she’s like a black plague ain’t she?
I always said he died at her hand, then had the nerve to get with another man at the end. I never forgave her or Tyler for that mess lol!
You STOLE all my money?!!! That’s karma baby ..:..NOT ME/PATTY 💯💯💯💯🤷🏽♀️😂😂😂😂
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I'd say Pat contributed to it. Had she not came to his job, & caused a scene, that woulda never woulda happened.
Yall dont get tired of talking abt the same movies?
Bro why y'all picked the most sus thumbnail of Gavin though 🤣🤣🤣 nah, real shit though. Looking at this nowadays vs 2010. Gavin was foul running to the fellas about that entire situation in the first one, Patricia here fucked up with alienating dude when all he wanted to do was talk through their problems when shorty just wanted to keep up this mask of that perfect marriage
The thumbnail! 😂😂😂
I don’t know if she killed her husband but I do know she wanted that 800k
Patty did it.
This title made me click off the video I was watching 😂
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Janet should’ve pulled that stunt with Carl in for colored girls 🤣😭 Gavin sucked but she did too much
You mean gay in the closet ghost😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
I agree with Cheri! #NotTheRock #800k lol
So she helped killed her child and her husband.... damn
$800k good take on the movie
She contributed to his death. Period.
KILLED HER HUSBAND (don’t know how this comment got deleted before)
It may have gotten caught in the filter, but I see it posted now! Thanks for weighing in! 😊
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She's a horrible actress "how dare you try to take AHHLL (breath) my money.
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Gavin did it on purpose he was done
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