Kody's Insecurities About His Relationship With Robyn Are Causing Him To Disrespect His Wives

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    Recently, Kody has been on a binge trying to disassociate himself from the OG3. On first blush, this disrespect just seemed to be on par for Kody, but after thinking about it during the most recent Tell All it occurs to me that he is actually acting out of his own insecurities. He is belittling his relationships with the OG's to ingratiate himself to Robyn.
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  • @BayouBengalBelle
    @BayouBengalBelle 7 месяцев назад +216

    Kody can sit on the confession couch and cry about being love sick but can't shed a tear for Ysabelle regarding her surgery.

    • @colleen1219
      @colleen1219 7 месяцев назад +31

      Then have the audacity to say to her. She should go by herself. To a very risky life changing surgery. Only to try to make himself feel better by asking Isabel. If she’s going to be a bitter old woman because of him not being there. As if she’s responsible for his feelings. To make himself feel better. About his shitty decision. truly deplorable.

    • @baggawells9527
      @baggawells9527 7 месяцев назад +8

      A tear and the 💰💰💰💰!!!

    • @joerudnik9290
      @joerudnik9290 7 месяцев назад

      Yes, Kody wants to showcase to his daughter and the world, that if you are neglected/ disappointed by him, it must be because there is something wrong with you. You must be ‘a bitter old hag’.

    • @Mimi73161
      @Mimi73161 7 месяцев назад +2

      Not one word!!!

    • @smlorrin
      @smlorrin 7 месяцев назад +18

      @@colleen1219 That suggestion that Ysabel go to the surgery by herself was the worst moment of the entire series for me. The fact that he said it in front of Ysabel broke my heart for her. Then he had the audacity to ask her if she was “going to become a bitter old housewife" because he didn't accompany her to the surgery. WTF??? I'll never forgive him for these things.

  • @marywmiller
    @marywmiller 7 месяцев назад +217

    I’ll never understand why the tell all’s spend so much time allowing Kody to give his thoughts and opinions and less time hearing from the women. It is after all called “Sister Wives”.

    • @colleen1219
      @colleen1219 7 месяцев назад +35

      The lie last season about a reconciliation with Meri was my breaking point. Not once were they called out on it. That was deliberately hurtful. To a woman who had already been through so much. Robin the advocate doubling down on it was disgusting.

    • @BerryHair405
      @BerryHair405 7 месяцев назад +17

      Kody has "joked" that he's misogynistic during the debates they did with people that left polygamy...there's definitely a different vibe when Kody did the Mormonism Live interview and his interview with Suki. And I think part of it breaks down to men and women and Kody's unfortunate view of women. He doesn't want or advocate for 'strong women'. Whether he admits it or not he loves that Robyn is helpless. Her job is to protect her children (I guess with a nanny!) and be his wife servant. It's not her job to be a free thinker or to ask him the hard questions - at least not publicly. If he made Meri jump through his mental gymnastics/hoops in order to love her he will do it to Robyn, and Robyn is taking Kody for a ride. I think Kody is very proud of driving several hours to see Robyn; it's that toxic masculinity "look how far I was willing to go to date this model" and that they're doing it in the pubic eye makes it look like they have some sort of sick fetish. If we love someone we can love that person without an audience.

    • @Shebbie68
      @Shebbie68 7 месяцев назад +34

      Because the producers think he is the villain we love to hate. He is just someone we hate. I could do with him riding off into obscurity and hearing he got his comeuppance thru a People Magazine blurb. I really do not care to watch his abuse of these women.

    • @Retired007
      @Retired007 7 месяцев назад +21

      I quit watching when I found out Meri was secretly helping Kody sneak around with Robyn behind the other wives backs. I started watching it again lately. He is as horrible as I thought he was. Meri is so loyal to him, it seems to be at her own expense. I pray she really is finished. Christine and Jeanell are glowing. Robyn is looking rough. She doesn't ever need to talk about the other wives anymore.

    • @BerryHair405
      @BerryHair405 7 месяцев назад +23

      @@Retired007 I think Meri had some twisted thought process of 'if Kody is happy he will be benevolent to all of us' and that's not what happened. Kody attached to Robyn and he doesn't care about the original wives. I don't want to watch Kody and Robyn on Tv at all.

  • @Iamjavonne
    @Iamjavonne 7 месяцев назад +42

    Do you notice Robyn doesn’t profess her undying love for Kody like Kody does

    • @diannepeterson696
      @diannepeterson696 5 месяцев назад +3

      She doesnt love him she loved all the money she thought she could get

  • @colleen1219
    @colleen1219 7 месяцев назад +132

    Sincerely hope they end the show. We hardly know anything about Robin and Kody‘s relationship. That is the way they want it yet. They continue to try to throw the OG’s and his own kids under the bus. It’s emotional abuse at this point not fun to watch.

    • @karenwhinesmore9347
      @karenwhinesmore9347 7 месяцев назад +14

      Yes, I'm sick & tired of Kody & Robyn not sharing anything about themselves or their kids. Instead, they exploit the other women & their kids & fatten pocketbooks. It's disgusting.

    • @stop_and_smell_the_roses
      @stop_and_smell_the_roses 7 месяцев назад +5

      Me too.

    • @bridgetteknotts2123
      @bridgetteknotts2123 7 месяцев назад +11

      I love it that so many people want this show off the air. It’s time. Essentially it’s over! The only sister wives left are C&J! Time for K&R to walk away and live happily ever after in monogamy. This is what they want. Give it to them. Sister wives is no more. Shut it down.

    • @user-iy5tm3ey4t
      @user-iy5tm3ey4t 7 месяцев назад +7

      You are so right. We know nothing about them really. What are they hiding? And what about Robyn's older girls? They seemed so restricted and coached and even a little scared or uncomfortable. It's all so weird.

    • @karen3876
      @karen3876 6 месяцев назад +1

      100% agree Colleen! Especially since he's started threatening physical violence...

  • @threepeasoup8733
    @threepeasoup8733 7 месяцев назад +91

    Robyn displays traits of histrionic personality disorder. That's why she brags about how she had other "options". That feeds Kody's narcissism. He feels like he's a grade A specimen with masculinity just dripping from every pore and she's his gorgeous trophy wife that has a heart of gold. I can't.

    • @virgosbonnet7896
      @virgosbonnet7896 7 месяцев назад +11

      They are 2 birds that flock together.

    • @virgosbonnet7896
      @virgosbonnet7896 7 месяцев назад

      They are 2 bird brains that flock together.

    • @Kristenm28
      @Kristenm28 7 месяцев назад +9

      You hit the nail on the head.

    • @wendyredd9890
      @wendyredd9890 7 месяцев назад +7

      I can't either.

    • @Sassmaster9000
      @Sassmaster9000 7 месяцев назад

      She displays borderline traits as well.

  • @Bahbahlatje
    @Bahbahlatje 7 месяцев назад +30

    I thought it was odd that 12 years into her marriage, Robyn is still talking about having had other options. That is so far in history that it isn’t relevant anymore. I still don’t believe she was the hot commodity that Kody believes she is.

    • @rochellej6412
      @rochellej6412 7 месяцев назад +6

      Agreed.
      She wasn't a hot commodity 12 years ago either.

    • @kathybishop6623
      @kathybishop6623 7 месяцев назад +1

      Their faces.....

    • @seameology
      @seameology 7 месяцев назад +6

      A single mom with debts? Nope. It doesn't matter how msny jeans she's modeled.

    • @kellycampbell6826
      @kellycampbell6826 5 месяцев назад +2

      And 3 kids

  • @vkestrel3519
    @vkestrel3519 7 месяцев назад +32

    Love this take James. Totally agree, he doesn’t want to admit that he had a full functioning marriage with Janelle at the same time as Robyn. He tried to shame Janelle and it backfired.

  • @reesesanders9168
    @reesesanders9168 7 месяцев назад +23

    Robyn likes taking things that belong to others. Preston from her sister, Kody from the first three wives, Kody from the first 13 children, money from Janelle and Meri for her enormous house, family money for nannies, knick knacks, artwork, jewellery and most of all help and time for her self and her children. Robyn is a taker which implies gross entitlement.

    • @jackieb133
      @jackieb133 7 месяцев назад +3

      Could she be trying to get all the things her mother never got as the other woman?

  • @threepeasoup8733
    @threepeasoup8733 7 месяцев назад +62

    Yes! James is spot on. Kody and Robyn's attraction to each other is not equal. Robyn gave this dude a whole new look with the roids, the manbun and the perm. He's not enough for her. Robyn wants to talk about weight gain and stretch marks of the other wives. She looks at least a decade older than her real age.

    • @jewelscheffer-oi2ct
      @jewelscheffer-oi2ct 7 месяцев назад +24

      I believe the original wives are younger looking and more beautiful than Sobbin Robbin

    • @threepeasoup8733
      @threepeasoup8733 7 месяцев назад +13

      ​@@jewelscheffer-oi2ct I agree completely.

    • @karenwhinesmore9347
      @karenwhinesmore9347 7 месяцев назад +9

      Omg yes!!! And WTF is up with those damn eyebrows?? Seriously what happened to her eyebrows? They didn't look like that when she first came onto the family. 🤯🤯🤯

    • @AMYV3
      @AMYV3 7 месяцев назад

      @@jewelscheffer-oi2ct. Yes. I don’t like to talk about looks and hating on other women. But because she’s so cruel to children on so many levels. I’m going to go there. In no way do I find Robin attractive at all !! She’s a butter face.. a lot of men feel a younger woman means he’s still got it. What a boring superficial man. I’d JUMP 🫣🤭 if I was stuck with a me me me me a boring dumb man I need laugher and most importantly great intellect. ( in no way shape or form can I do DUMB MEN nope deal breaker!! )

    • @rochellej6412
      @rochellej6412 7 месяцев назад +4

      Agree!
      Plus another 10 😉😂

  • @Mari-go5hc
    @Mari-go5hc 7 месяцев назад +42

    You hit the nail on the head! We don't know what goes on behind Kody's and Robyns door. Robyn holds all the cards if you ask me. Kody is much more in love with Robyn then Robyn is in love with him, and Kody is well aware of this!

  • @consolo862
    @consolo862 7 месяцев назад +54

    Absolutely! But, can we go back to before Robyn time? Never bringing money to take care of his children? This is a ‘man’ who was just running around without actually supporting his wives and children. The wives were actually the ones supporting the family.

    • @virgosbonnet7896
      @virgosbonnet7896 7 месяцев назад +3

      Kotex had a job. He was a salesman for a firearms company in Utah.

    • @karenwhinesmore9347
      @karenwhinesmore9347 7 месяцев назад +2

      Absolutely

    • @karenwhinesmore9347
      @karenwhinesmore9347 7 месяцев назад +8

      ​@@virgosbonnet7896yeah but that was his money. Do you really think he shared that money?

    • @Sassmaster9000
      @Sassmaster9000 7 месяцев назад +9

      Robyn may be Kody's soulmate or she at least seems like one relative to the other women. But for Robyn Kody is an opportunity and definitely not a soulmate.
      In their courting process and relationship in general, Kody did all of the sacrificing(and much of it at the expense of the other wives and kids). I can't think of a single instance where Robyn sacrificed anything for Kody or his extended family.

  • @dgatsf
    @dgatsf 7 месяцев назад +20

    Robyn was sobbin when she said that Kody is being mean to her, and when Suki asked him why, he said he was doing it to punish himself. This guy is more than just messed up. He is a psychopath. And I believe Robyn was behind the ring melt down.

    • @dgatsf
      @dgatsf 7 месяцев назад +1

      Suki acts drugged or drunk. She doesn’t look healthy. Another person could do it better.

  • @AshleahShortcake
    @AshleahShortcake 7 месяцев назад +17

    In their book Kody said he had to delay marrying Robyn because they couldn't afford the burden of her and her kids, his wives were upset and they wanted the wedding filmed so they had to delay it to make sure it was filmed. That's probably why he was crying 🙄. One of the grossest comments Kody has ever made was "we're gonna be like this" meaning- "I'm not going to be a dad to my kids unless they kiss my wife's ass, even though my wife hates them."

  • @estrogenacres801
    @estrogenacres801 7 месяцев назад +18

    I think Robyn has had this idea from the very beginning. Get Kody to divorce Meri. Marry Kody herself. Now she gets HALF of all his stuff! If she can get it from him before the other women get what's owed to them, then oh well.

  • @borountree4539
    @borountree4539 7 месяцев назад +50

    Kody being lovesick in front of Christine and needing her for emotional support is just so wrong on so many levels IMO. Isn't that something that the basic tenents of polygamy are against? Aren't all wives supposed to be treated equal? The wives have to learn to handle their emotions and overcome jealousy but kody is not doing any of that. He is openly flaunting his feelings for another woman in front of a wife with no regard for anyone's feelings but his own. In this regard kody like Robyn has never practiced true polygamy.

    • @BerryHair405
      @BerryHair405 7 месяцев назад +8

      The more I watch and actively dislike Kody, the more I can understand The Dargers. I don't have any investment in their family but I think because they're healthy and stable they are probably not "good Tv". I think Joe Darger does love all of his wives and they seem like mature adults who agreed to do this together. Kody is a man baby that is horribly co-dependent on these women, and Robyn "translating" for him is an embarrassment.

    • @helixmoore7636
      @helixmoore7636 7 месяцев назад +4

      The males in these relationships never do. Its all about the pencil

    • @debrap9829
      @debrap9829 7 месяцев назад +11

      When Kody was crying and lovesick over Robyn, Christine was very pregnant. Can you imagine how that must’ve felt for Christine? He is pathetic.

    • @stop_and_smell_the_roses
      @stop_and_smell_the_roses 7 месяцев назад

      It was a way for them to say they need polygamy and that everybody in the family, including a pregnant wife, recognizes and honors that it's OK to love many women and be with them when you love them. It was an attempt at
      1) displaying how it's OK and it's just what you do. 2)show that their love is so strong therefore it must be legalized and normalized so love can flourish the AUB way.
      Remember that this groups mission was to petition for legalized polygamy based on their role model of how great it was. They had to uphold that impression. C still upholds that original goal to make it look good, when at a recent event she was smiling and saying, see polygamy is a success.
      That b need some therapy, cause I think she's also alluded to the idea that she's looking forward to finding her person who just loves her. Dang that b need some therapy.

  • @user-wc8em2it6d
    @user-wc8em2it6d 7 месяцев назад +16

    I wish we could flip the coin and ask the ladies how Kody was in the sheets. Respectfully, I have a feeling he’s a lame duck. The love for himself, the reflection in the mirror, it’s impossible for Kody to satisfy anyone… Robyn came along with 3 brats in tow, in extreme debt. I honestly do not believe Robyn had a bunch of dudes trying to date her. I’m not going saying they weren’t attracted to her and wanted a quickie but long-term relationship? Heck No!

  • @runninggreywolf8313
    @runninggreywolf8313 7 месяцев назад +24

    Kootie is saying Janelle wanted him as a "piece of meat", but isn't that exactly what he did to Robber??? She was his "diesel jeans model". Double standard much???

    • @joellepatry493
      @joellepatry493 7 месяцев назад

      He’s slut shaming Janelle. He’s a pig. Women have the right to healthy sex lives, especially with their partners!!

    • @BerryHair405
      @BerryHair405 7 месяцев назад

      This a-hole wants it both ways: He wants to peel off his clothes and run around in the muddy lake flexing like a roid rager, on national television folks, but Janelle doesn't see his "vulnerability". I actually think the pecs and abs comment was more about creating value for Robyn - he's saying "see if Janelle is into my body then I'm a man of value and you should want that too" so disgusting!

  • @GirlFriday68
    @GirlFriday68 7 месяцев назад +36

    James spot on as usual.. Robyn actually said early on and it was easily missed but I was floored.. she said an older “wealthy “ man proposed to her and she let Kody know that, I don’t believe it for a second but Kody did and his insecurities about his money was an added issue he played right into her manipulation

    • @virgosbonnet7896
      @virgosbonnet7896 7 месяцев назад

      Which goes hand in hand with her histrionic personality disorder. They make up lies to get attention and what they want

    • @BerryHair405
      @BerryHair405 7 месяцев назад

      Yes Robyn has owned up to bringing debt into the family but they've shelved that; no interviewer I know of has alluded to or asked about Robyn's lifestyle or shopping habits. Or maybe this is on the "no go questions list" 🙄 what Robyn was telegraphing by claiming that is "I'm expensive" and/or "high maintenance". The OG3 discussed their modest wedding experiences. I think they chose that because they wanted to begin families and it wasn't about shopping or opulence or whatever. Robyn isn't looking at it from the perspective of, "I got into debt and have reformed" she's getting into it from the perspective of "I'm going to keep doing what I'm doing, and of course a good husband (and/or wives) are going to factor my expensive tastes into their budgets" you can wear designer clothing Robyn but you are white trash.

  • @aprilcitygirltocountrywife7440
    @aprilcitygirltocountrywife7440 7 месяцев назад +14

    When Kody was crying about Robyn im sure they were all hurt but you could really see it with Meri. Kody is such an a**!

    • @helixmoore7636
      @helixmoore7636 7 месяцев назад +2

      And yet they chose to be with him longer. Im havijg a hard time wrapping my head around it. I hope they all find a way to ruin him.

  • @barrydawn30
    @barrydawn30 7 месяцев назад +9

    Remember that baby fit Kody threw when Janell asked him to hang a picture on the wall? Meeting anybody else's needs makes Kody feel used.

    • @seameology
      @seameology 7 месяцев назад

      Right? You know he was crap for a husband if he can't even hang a icture without complaining!

  • @Xandreta
    @Xandreta 7 месяцев назад +20

    The mental picture of Janelle “backflipping on Kody, spinning on the fans, and diving off the dresser.” You’re too much 😂😂😂. You and the Reality TV Cringe gals make my day every time I see a video. Thank you! 😂❤

  • @joerudnik9290
    @joerudnik9290 7 месяцев назад +14

    Kody clearly thinks he’s the ‘trophy wife’. ( He wants everyone to believe the wives just used him for his body and those prolific ‘resources’.)

  • @collnss
    @collnss 7 месяцев назад +9

    Kody didn’t want to answer the question for fear of Robyn!

  • @threepeasoup8733
    @threepeasoup8733 7 месяцев назад +40

    I agree with what you have said in previous videos about Kody and Robyn's relationship being more like an affair. The newness has worn off. There's no one left for Robyn to compete with or be compared to. The two are them are a sad sight in my opinion.

    • @jennifergrody
      @jennifergrody 7 месяцев назад +4

      Right she can’t bash the other woman when there is no another woman to compete with.. you are right!

    • @stephw1702
      @stephw1702 7 месяцев назад +8

      Exactly. She created a honeymoon sanctuary for him with a nanny to care for the home and kids. Anytime he had an argument or hard time with another wife, instead of working through it, he ran to Robyn's. Now she will need to keep it all up while also having no one to take the blame.

    • @karenwhinesmore9347
      @karenwhinesmore9347 7 месяцев назад +7

      Absolutely. And now kody has nobody left to bully except for Robyn. She's in for a rude awakening.

    • @seameology
      @seameology 7 месяцев назад +4

      Yup. Hence there will be no more wives. Then others would be new and young, like Kooter prefers. I'll bet my HOUSE she would be ten times more meaner and more jealous than the OG3 and take him to the cleaners. He77 hath no fury...

  • @jennifergrody
    @jennifergrody 7 месяцев назад +25

    100% he has to bashed these woman any way possible because he don’t wanna change his line she told Robyn since day one. He’s told Robyn since day one “he’s done loving these woman”. So if he were to tell Suki Janelle “was great in the bedroom” that would piss off Robyn & he don’t wanna hurt this injured dove AKA: Robyn. Why did he promise Robyn at her wedding he would just leave her if he I don’t love her anymore? That’s because she knew Kody was done loving these others & she didn’t want to do left like this too.. SHE KNEW. He showed he loved her so much he melted down Meri’s ring as proof he was done with her. He was fine with this ring until Robyn came in the picture. He can’t change his story to Robyn because he’s obsessed with her.

  • @katrinaDS
    @katrinaDS 7 месяцев назад +9

    I absolutely agree that Robyn has never been as attracted to Kody as Kody has been towards Robyn.

  • @MrPuglove13
    @MrPuglove13 7 месяцев назад +20

    Everything about kody is reprehensible

  • @susanh103
    @susanh103 7 месяцев назад +8

    Oh yeah Kody thought he'd always have Christine until the day she iced him out like the Queen she is! 👸

  • @AlwaysSharon
    @AlwaysSharon 7 месяцев назад +9

    I too believe Kody loves Robyn but Robyn loves and looks out only for herself. Robyn doesn't want to be Kody's only wife. The fun for her was being top wife and lording it over the other three wives and thriving on their discomfort. "No Meri. You shouldn't go back to school." "No Janelle. You can't open a gym. I want to have a jewelry store." "No Christine. You don't get extra time with Kody. My kids need him." She's not going to stick around. She's already laying the groundwork.

    • @jblkcns
      @jblkcns 7 месяцев назад +1

      Her favorite sentence is "me and my kids" she never cared one bit about that family she infiltrated.

    • @cindidavidson2932
      @cindidavidson2932 7 месяцев назад

      Absolutely!

  • @CARATMom
    @CARATMom 7 месяцев назад +43

    Nobody talks about how Robin looks exactly like Kody’s mother and that his mom was who forced/encouraged his dad to do polygamy.
    Robin was Kody’s mistress. Polygamy was the grift that they participated in to justify it.

    • @Proudmary7
      @Proudmary7 7 месяцев назад +7

      She really doesn't. She just has brown hair like his mom. Robyn has witch like features. His mom doesn't.

    • @virgosbonnet7896
      @virgosbonnet7896 7 месяцев назад +7

      You have to see Kotex’s sisters. One looks exactly like Jenelle and the other looks like Meri. I’ve seen people say that Sobyn looks like his mom but I don’t really see a resemblance🤷🏽‍♀️ Kotex was obsessed with Sobyn because she was about 10+ years younger, skinny and was a diesel jeans model lol.

    • @Kristenm28
      @Kristenm28 7 месяцев назад +6

      She does have the same square face.

    • @Cindy_from_Oz
      @Cindy_from_Oz 7 месяцев назад +5

      😂😂😂Looks like his Momma 😂she sure does. Very square jawed😂

    • @greenfairy4894
      @greenfairy4894 7 месяцев назад

      I don’t think they look alike. I think Robin is quite opposite of his Mother in appearance and personality. I do think Cody’s relationship w his Father and Mother play a very large part in all of this.He has the Mother wound and it shows. His Father was annoyed by Cody and his brother was favored. There is some interesting history in all of this. It’s also strange that Janelle’s Mom became Cody’s parents sister wife.

  • @joellepatry493
    @joellepatry493 7 месяцев назад +16

    Kody’s always put parts of his life in separate boxes. It was obvious from the beginning he was keeping Robyn separate from the OG3. Robyn seemed happy to oblige. She had little interest in having them mother her kids.

    • @joellepatry493
      @joellepatry493 7 месяцев назад +6

      Robyn manipulated him to believe there were all these other suitors. We’ve never been shown proof of this.

  • @crystalIzed333
    @crystalIzed333 7 месяцев назад +10

    I am just so sick of Kody and Robyn just talking out their butts so much 😑 😒 and nobody really calls them out.

  • @roberts9565
    @roberts9565 7 месяцев назад +5

    if Kody says he will not participate if they ask certain things, why doesn't TLC say, "fine. Don't be a part of it. We will pay the others who will talk."?

    • @b.m.t.h.3961
      @b.m.t.h.3961 7 месяцев назад +1

      Yes, and pay them double! That would make Kod and Robber sit up !

  • @karenholmes6565
    @karenholmes6565 7 месяцев назад +45

    Kody sees those who give him unconditional love as being less than. All narcissists devalue you eventually. When the narcissist dumps you it is called "the discard". They often will find people that are needy and clinging that will allow them to hoover and discard them repeatedly. Meri is the person that Kody has done this to. He promises her reconciliation, just enough to give her hope, and then he discards her. Over and over and over again. This is why she does not believe it is truly over. She has been through this cycle over and over again. Kody does not respect people who love him because he doesn't believe he is lovable deep down. Anyone that gives him unconditional love isn't worthy of respect, because he knows that deep down he is a terrible person, and so if these women love him they must be fools and unworthy of him. His hatred of Christine is that she escaped to a new man and that she doesn't give him the narcissistic supply of the hoover. He can't come in and hoover her back to a place of unconditional love.
    Narcissists want pure love. In fact, they romanticize the perfect and pure love. They paint the object of their love as being ideal. And Robyn is this ideal love for Kody. He chased her. Those other women chased him. They loved him even when he showed them how unworthy he really is. But Robyn won't. He knows Robyn won't put up with the same discarding behavior he has inflicted on the others. Therefore he doesn't have Robyn. Robyn will leave him. Robyn has led him on a very long chase. But Kody doesn't really love Robyn. Kody loves that Robyn has higher standards. If he can meet those standards that makes him a superior and better man than the other men he imagines would value Robyn. It is all ego for Kody. He is one of the smallest and meanest men I have ever seen

    • @dianag588
      @dianag588 7 месяцев назад +9

      ^BOOM^

    • @KimLucas-xh9wv
      @KimLucas-xh9wv 7 месяцев назад +4

      Great perspective...right on

    • @cassiehobbs5751
      @cassiehobbs5751 7 месяцев назад +7

      Truth, I think you hit that nail on Kodys head.

    • @helixmoore7636
      @helixmoore7636 7 месяцев назад +1

      If she doesnt do her besr to ruin his life Ill be 😢

    • @helixmoore7636
      @helixmoore7636 7 месяцев назад +2

      Yeah dude. You didnt have any bad times with Janelle. You had no problem knocking her up several times

  • @surfagirl
    @surfagirl 7 месяцев назад +14

    Id much rather watch the og3 and their kids going forward. I don't care about Robyn and kody or their kids

  • @Ellie_Kat
    @Ellie_Kat 7 месяцев назад +29

    I feel so bad for Kody being "used" by Janelle 😮 Poor guy! Should we set up a gofundme for his therapy bills? 😂😂😂

    • @deboraherickson1959
      @deboraherickson1959 7 месяцев назад +3

      LOL Your funny🤣

    • @baggawells9527
      @baggawells9527 7 месяцев назад +3

      That GRIFTER would be ALL for it…and he’d turn up his VICTIM persona even more if it brought him and the ShopaLOT pencil ✏️ sharpener more 💰💰🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

    • @bridgetteknotts2123
      @bridgetteknotts2123 7 месяцев назад +3

      Please don’t give him any ideas. 😂

    • @BerryHair405
      @BerryHair405 7 месяцев назад +1

      Yes! Let's set up a gofundme for Kody's therapy and then collectively watch him say "I'm not willing to change" lol 😂😂😂

    • @seameology
      @seameology 7 месяцев назад +1

      And he also said she uses him for his resources. We AL know that's a lie. It's the other way around! Kooty will never convince anyone of that.
      I think Kooty thinks he's a real man because he can get his pencil wet in a different bed every night.

  • @caroliner3010
    @caroliner3010 7 месяцев назад +5

    Kody doesn't want Robin to know what was happening with Janelle, or she'd flip. Robin is jealous and possessive

  • @MrPuglove13
    @MrPuglove13 7 месяцев назад +9

    If he’s “pretending” to be secure in his marriage to Robyn-AND I’m supposed to believe it……he better get some acting classes. Yesterday.

  • @threepeasoup8733
    @threepeasoup8733 7 месяцев назад +13

    @15:00 😂 I just realized Kody has been treating the OG3 like ex-wives since he got with Robyn.

    • @mytakeonreality
      @mytakeonreality  7 месяцев назад +11

      Yeah he has. He did a TLC "Freaky Friday Swap!" The loyalty and longevity of his previous wives were bestowed to Robyn upon her arrival in the family.

  • @samanthamclargin6001
    @samanthamclargin6001 7 месяцев назад +6

    I agree. I've suspected for a while he is claiming he never loved the other wives because that is what Robyn needs to hear.

  • @Bildgesmythe
    @Bildgesmythe 7 месяцев назад +19

    Kody should start to realize what his future holds😂😂😂😂

    • @helixmoore7636
      @helixmoore7636 7 месяцев назад +1

      I hope Robyn takes him for everything and shares with the wives.

  • @alaskavanrs8264
    @alaskavanrs8264 7 месяцев назад +11

    Omg James. Smack it up, flip it, rub it down, OH NOOOO! We must be the same age! Lol

  • @cynthialopez182
    @cynthialopez182 7 месяцев назад +16

    James you keeping hitting it out of the park with your observations!!! Kody chasing Robyn and abandoning his established family checks all boxes of why his family broke apart.

  • @kimberlyporter9555
    @kimberlyporter9555 7 месяцев назад +7

    Robyn is only secretive because she can't control what people will say about her if she was to be as honest as the other sister wives. She tells people what she wants them to think of her ass. She has no gestalt. Her image is as contrived as Kody. Kody doesn't love Robyn. He's in love at her perceived worth/status. Narcissists are weird in that they only want something if other people want the same thing. They can only covet, envy and be jealous of. He thinks other men are envious of him therefore it makes him happy to think he's envied. Now .... The wives have shattered his image of competency and virility and one of them married up twice over. Robyn is the same. She was only happy when she felt she was taking something away from the other women.

    • @b.m.t.h.3961
      @b.m.t.h.3961 7 месяцев назад +1

      Such a tedious, boring and stupid way to go through life!

  • @antoninastewart4398
    @antoninastewart4398 7 месяцев назад +14

    I think Robin thought the whole time he wasn't sleeping with any of these ladies he was just going there and hanging out because he probably swore up and down he wasn't and probably called them fat and they don't even do what I want and I don't want them that way I don't really think he was allowed to have a relationship with them ladies that's why he never went to their house Robin is so insecure and she wants a monogamy life she never wanted any part of Sister Wives

  • @ilangirl8
    @ilangirl8 7 месяцев назад +6

    Kody used Robyn to get rid of his OG family and Robyn used Kody for his resources. Now Robyn has what she wants and there is no reason for her to stay. He said...his family was in the way of his goals. JMO

  • @nikkiadams5939
    @nikkiadams5939 7 месяцев назад +8

    Mari’s face when they are all laughing about your love sick and need another marriage… very sad 😢

    • @mytakeonreality
      @mytakeonreality  7 месяцев назад +5

      I know. Janelle & Christine put on fake smiles, but Meri couldn't do it.

  • @shelbystaudenmaier73
    @shelbystaudenmaier73 7 месяцев назад +28

    Yeah his deal shouldn't be allowed, you put your life out here, you either answer up everything or you return money ..he'd be answering

  • @SusanSilvis-vn2bd
    @SusanSilvis-vn2bd 7 месяцев назад +6

    Janelle and Kotex were compatible physically, but he had Robyn believing he was only intimate with Robyn.

  • @aurorab295
    @aurorab295 7 месяцев назад +6

    I think it's important to note that Kody's insecure desperation causes a disconnection within himself as well as with Robyn.
    He is incapable of receiving love. He doesn't know what it means to step up and be responsible or accountable.
    If he knew love and was able to give love, the OG3 would've been his heart and home.
    Drama can be addictive.
    Good Luck Kody.

  • @jillymcinid
    @jillymcinid 7 месяцев назад +7

    I wonder what a shell of a man Kody will become when Robyn leaves him. He'll be broken. Good. It's what he deserves. He discarded his original 3 wives and most of his children to chase his dream which was Robyn. After she has basically ruined the polygamy family set-up and bled Kody dry, she'll pack up and leave his as*, taking 50% of everything they own.

  • @karenrnotakaren
    @karenrnotakaren 7 месяцев назад +8

    Did you see Meri and Janelle’s face when he was on the couch crying!?! Hurt, actually all of them.

    • @helixmoore7636
      @helixmoore7636 7 месяцев назад +4

      At that point all 3 should have gotten up and said. " Shes all yours."

  • @ging-a-roo2429
    @ging-a-roo2429 7 месяцев назад +10

    Kody should be so thankful that he has the mothers of his children, they step up and love them with all of their heart. Takes them to the doctor, help them with school and relationships. He is not present in their life.

  • @RozaneBeyMcCurdy
    @RozaneBeyMcCurdy 7 месяцев назад +14

    I'm wondering if Kody really has given up his faith, OR after Robyn found out that she being the TBIC, she is responsible for bringing in other wives, SHE told Kody he didn't believe in polygamy anymore? Also, James, your synonyms for s e x are hysterical. Thank you.
    That "joke" Robyn made about her & Kody not being together was probably the first truth thing ever uttered out of her mouth. It also caused her to smile for the first time in eons.
    As with the OG3, Kody will realize what he had with Robyn AFTER she leaves.

  • @SonyaChavez
    @SonyaChavez 7 месяцев назад +7

    James, I wish she would ask him why he wouldn’t talk about Robyn last season, but it touting how he has only loved Robyn now? What changed?

  • @lajuanawilliams8033
    @lajuanawilliams8033 7 месяцев назад +6

    Robin just keeps denying that she didn't know Cody was out in love with her and all this and she never talks about her love for him

  • @littlehouseinthebigapple5716
    @littlehouseinthebigapple5716 7 месяцев назад +10

    I’ve BEEN said Cody is the main one keeping everyone separate.
    I also think he’s the main gossiper.
    I also think he’s the main ish talker.
    I also think he lies to each wife about the behavior of the others.
    Guarantee he’s the one telling each wife that their kids are not safe with other wives.
    He couldn’t do the job with Christine and Jennelle which is just a function of how close in age all their kids are and Jennelles having to rely on Christine for child care. Once she raised those kids and recognized how they basically are loyal first to Christine, it’s almost like Jenelle had to get in line behind Christine if she wants her own kids 😮.
    But at the bottom, Cody had to keep them all as segregated as possible so he could CONTROL them. It wasn’t till after Christine left that she and Jenelle even talked about some of this stuff.

    • @sandracarter9952
      @sandracarter9952 6 месяцев назад +1

      Yes. Janelle's boys had let her KNOW that Christine was their OTHER parent.

  • @lajuanawilliams8033
    @lajuanawilliams8033 7 месяцев назад +5

    She's going to leave his butt

  • @Alysia.in.Wonderland
    @Alysia.in.Wonderland 7 месяцев назад +5

    If Robyn met Kody when he was just a guy with 13 kids and no TLC show she would have rejected him. Robyn is not attracted to Kody. She probably is tired looking at that sunglass headband on his bald head holding back those 3 straggler hairs he calls bangs

  • @valadia4715
    @valadia4715 7 месяцев назад +6

    I agree James. Kody always wanted the OG3 to be loyal, worship him. He put the wives through the hoops competing for his love. That's why he so anger, because he never thought the wives would leave him. Here come Rodyn his the new shining thing and let's him know all the men were fighting over my diesel jeans😂. So you need to do everything I want to keep me happy because I'm the prize. So now the power dynamics changed for the family and kody is catering to Robyn and ignoring the family. Kody is a nasserist but Rodyn is master Manipulator. Let's see what kody & She-Ra does next.

  • @AMYV3
    @AMYV3 7 месяцев назад +7

    He was attracted to Robin .. ONLY because other men “wanted her” (man.. that lake was definitely OVERFISHED that or every other women was his sister or first cousin 🤭😖).
    For men like him that’s huge !! He’s all about getting what he deserves because he’s so great. So to be chosen over others would be all he cares about at the beginning at least. Remember he was middle aged at that point 🤫🫣😏😝

  • @helenbell1988
    @helenbell1988 7 месяцев назад +16

    I honestly feel that Kody needs to face his faults and stop blaming the OG wives and children ,,. He needs to see what he has done and is doing to his family and face its his fault and many of his kids are kind enough to accept him back ;.. lucky man

    • @AMYV3
      @AMYV3 7 месяцев назад +2

      That will never ever happen. He is wayyyyy too much of a victim to ever do anything but demand an apology from others or have no contact he’s the victim who people have treated him horribly. So sadly. His children will need help to deal with a parent that can’t feel 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @helixmoore7636
      @helixmoore7636 7 месяцев назад

      He needs prison for fraud and robbery of the tax payers

  • @denisebrown4933
    @denisebrown4933 7 месяцев назад +18

    Hi, James - I think you could be right about Kody being insecure about Robyn, possibly because he's in love with her and doesn't want to lose her. But I also think that if he loses Robyn, then he's the last man standing. All his wives will have left him. And that would be a devastating blow to his ego, his sense of self. And I think yes, Robyn could very well be preparing to dump him and will want to hold on to her victim status. So she will blame this on the other wives too. Like, Kody is treating her badly because he's been so broken by the other wives. And I'll bet you she has been holding the threat of her leaving over Kody's head all this time. She must be very sure of his devotion to her, because let's face it - she ain't as cute as she used to be. She's let herself get dumpy and frumpy, so she's not relying on her physical presence to hold him.

    • @KimLucas-xh9wv
      @KimLucas-xh9wv 7 месяцев назад +2

      Yes ma'am... bingo

    • @irisblue2332
      @irisblue2332 7 месяцев назад +3

      Yes. Kody is definitely protecting his ego from the possibility of having ALL of his marriages fail.

    • @avp6730
      @avp6730 7 месяцев назад +1

      Also now she has small kids who adore him, when they grow up they'll have nothing left together and Robyn will leave

  • @LinaGenX
    @LinaGenX 7 месяцев назад +3

    Kody hates making an effort. He never managed his relationships, it was always up to the women, and now it's also up to his adult children, Kody will not lift a finger. Kody said as much this season when he was hanging out with his friends, he said the best thing about plural marriage was that if he felt any discomfort, he could leave and go to another house and be with that woman instead. The OG3 & the OG13 got tired, they no longer reach out to the man who makes zero effort. Robyn will leave him too, she's not going to put up his BS forever

  • @AussieAngel826
    @AussieAngel826 7 месяцев назад +6

    Kody is doing his usual gaslighting and reverse psychology. He wants to stop bedroom romps with her but doesn’t want to stop Janelle giving him her cash. So he claims he wants romance with her only. So she can return to his life platonically but still give him her cash. My guess is Janelle was seduced by him all those years hence why she gave her money away. I don’t know why Janelle was so smug in tell all she has been used too. Part 2 really sickened me. You can tell a lot by someone who kicks someone when they already down. Meri has issues for sure but they all do. Glad this season is ending soon I’m quite over it.

  • @carolynsmart3337
    @carolynsmart3337 7 месяцев назад +4

    I agree with you. He’s attractive to Robyn , but Robyn saw dollar signs and a show, she even said, I don’t care what they look like as long as the person can take care of my children and me . That’s what she cared and cares about, but the minute he can’t give her what she wants ROBYN IS GONE .

    • @b.m.t.h.3961
      @b.m.t.h.3961 7 месяцев назад

      Although where would she go? She's no spring chicken plus a new man would be lumbered with her brood.

  • @rachaelvaughan1017
    @rachaelvaughan1017 7 месяцев назад +7

    Kody said that Janelle wanted to join the family, but when she joined, it was just he and Meri... Janelle created a large portion of the family by having 6 kids so unless by "resource" Kody meant sperm donor, then i have no idea what he was talking about or referring to as far as resource. He thinks hes protecting Robyn or specifically hurting Janelle but i think this ultimately hurts the kids more than anything and it probably damages some of the relationships between the wives children.

  • @donnamoore4494
    @donnamoore4494 7 месяцев назад +4

    If Robyn leaves Kody now she would try to get half before the other wives get the chance since she is the legal wife. No decent judge would allow her anything until the ones that worked for the money get their share first

  • @carolmccallum724
    @carolmccallum724 7 месяцев назад +2

    sobbin is out for the money, she's just bidding her time, and she wanted the other women out.

  • @gayledaniel5901
    @gayledaniel5901 7 месяцев назад +7

    I remember watching an early episode where they saw some high school classmates of Kody and they said he was flamboyant and that everyone thought he was gay. They were surprised when he married. I’m bringing this up because maybe he was picked on? I have noticed how mean and hateful he has gotten versus when he first started.

  • @nikkihippiemomof3
    @nikkihippiemomof3 7 месяцев назад +2

    Kody has thrown everything away for Sobbin Robyn so at this point he can't let anyone separate him from her or he loses. It's defeats the purpose. He sacrificed everything so she's all that's left. Robyn's his prize.

  • @MrPuglove13
    @MrPuglove13 7 месяцев назад +3

    When the $$$ dries up Robyn’s attraction to kody will too. I think he knows it too.

  • @kittenbrave1003
    @kittenbrave1003 7 месяцев назад +2

    Janelle didn't need Kody for physical assistance, repairs, hanging pictures, etc. she has 4 strong, grown, scrapping sons...

  • @stevefrench2303
    @stevefrench2303 7 месяцев назад +4

    That is super interesting James. The whole I had other choices is a joke. Broke 3 kids and only want to be a polygamist. Yep, I’m sure there was a line around the building 😂

  • @lauramckenzie5637
    @lauramckenzie5637 7 месяцев назад +4

    Janelle has said they had no problem in the bedroom. You’re exactly right … Kody could not admit to great sex with Janelle, because of how it would be received by Robyn. Q? How do you use your husband physically after 20+ years? Most men would be thrilled to have a wife who wants them in that way. 🥰

  • @aliciarasley3356
    @aliciarasley3356 7 месяцев назад +2

    I agree with you. He's really uncertain about Robyn, and suddenly he's having to pretend he never loved anyone else... placating her. Do you think she really loves him, or is he right to be nervous?

  • @hoosiermamma2726
    @hoosiermamma2726 7 месяцев назад +4

    Interesting thoughts. You may be onto something. Would love to see Robyn dump him, but she has no redeeming qualities still.

  • @lulugayle
    @lulugayle 7 месяцев назад +15

    Not only is Kody and Robyn's relationship not as good as they portray, I think they have separated and that's why they arrive to events separately.

    • @jennifergrody
      @jennifergrody 7 месяцев назад +9

      Would not surprise me.. he had Meri lie to all of us for all these years & pretending they’re still “married & together”. So what’s to say he “can fake this” too!

    • @seameology
      @seameology 7 месяцев назад +1

      Could be. I'm SURE Robbem' would lie for the paycheck!

  • @lizzie_b
    @lizzie_b 7 месяцев назад +2

    Kody's issue is that he will always see himself as a husband first, and a dad second 😒...If his children don't want to spend time with them as a couple; it's clearly because they don't have a bond with Robyn; Kody could easily spend time with them but he is putting up CONDITIONS for his quality time (You need to show loyalty to us, you need to follow our rules, you need to apologize) Kody wants loyalty like an Emperor wants control. 🙄Thank you for another video James. 💙💙💙

  • @joerudnik9290
    @joerudnik9290 7 месяцев назад +4

    I don’t think sex is really a huge concern for any of the Brown family adults. I think they all enjoy, that ‘other’ people think, he is a CASANOVA. Narcissists enjoy power and money, a lot more than sex.

  • @donnamoore4494
    @donnamoore4494 7 месяцев назад +4

    When Kody was with Christine she had said he is on his phone. Probably texting Robyn

  • @hunterhunterwhathaveudone
    @hunterhunterwhathaveudone 7 месяцев назад +4

    James, I think robyn wanted polygamy in separate homes where she was the favored wife. This is why she got so upset when Christine and meri left, janelle too because it ain't working... she wanted their money, that's all and that's it. I don't think she's attracted to kody at all or in love with him. She wanted to be a kept woman which she has been since she came into the family.

  • @Dmimima
    @Dmimima 7 месяцев назад +3

    So true about Kody trying to hide Robyn from the other women! I never thought of that, but you’re probably right! He didn’t want the OG3 to “poison” her against him!

  • @asshhdoll
    @asshhdoll 7 месяцев назад +2

    This man been breaking his neck & relationships because he’s STILL chasing Grumpy Cat. Awesome take 🤯

  • @marymarmolejo6508
    @marymarmolejo6508 7 месяцев назад +4

    Suki needs to push really hard, if he walks so be it, lets see what he can't take!

  • @maggiebridget126
    @maggiebridget126 7 месяцев назад +1

    I think Robyn will leave Kody sooner, rather than later if she hasn't left him already.

  • @marymarmolejo6508
    @marymarmolejo6508 7 месяцев назад +3

    When Kody calls your biological 13 kids asholes, Suki should have got up and left! She should have said it's time to shut down this asshole now. She should have agreed to interview the OG3, and maybe lying Robbem.
    TLC Cut Kody loose now!
    TLC can say they are taking a stand at we are PROTECTING the children who do NOT have a vouce to NEGATE baby Kotex

    • @jackieb133
      @jackieb133 7 месяцев назад

      That is not how tell alls work.

  • @rosemarys4630
    @rosemarys4630 7 месяцев назад +3

    I find it funny that he dragged Janelle so much but when pushed about it he shuts down. I keep thinking about how he probably thought he was a God in bed until Christine left when he was using it against her as punishment. Then he starts getting scared he won't be able to please Robyn since she was already experienced before getting with him. He met the OG wives before they did anything with anyone else.

  • @jamean3440
    @jamean3440 7 месяцев назад +3

    I agree, James. Janelle wanted children and relations. She didn’t want or need a man in her life trying to direct her. I also think that is why she would consider another plural marriage. Also, she may not want to put the time and energy into a relationship. She has stuff to do!

  • @seameology
    @seameology 7 месяцев назад +2

    One thing Kooty didn't take into consideration when deciding to be on TV. Millions have seen the past and it is still accessible. He can't rewrite history without looking like a liar on TV.

  • @dstat74
    @dstat74 7 месяцев назад +3

    Another good take. At this point I really only want the truth.

  • @Allpep
    @Allpep 6 месяцев назад +1

    I truly think that Robyn's mother taught her how to be the favorite wife. Robyn got all of her chores done and kept her kids quiet when Kody was around. Remember she said she wanted to keep the honeymoon phase their entire marriage...she manipulated her home to be stress free for Kody. No wonder he preferred her home to the others.

  • @ofhismercy109
    @ofhismercy109 7 месяцев назад +2

    "For a guy that's a habitual rake stepper" oh man, lols. James you're the best.

  • @jasminehelen8951
    @jasminehelen8951 6 месяцев назад +1

    I don't get why they let him dictate what he's asked on these tell alls. If he's being paid to be on the show, he needs to be able to answer questions in the tell, all whether he likes them or not.

  • @carolynsmart3337
    @carolynsmart3337 7 месяцев назад +2

    I doubt Robyn had all these men , I believe she told him that to force his hand and I have never heard any man come forward to say they wanted Robyn and all her baggage.

  • @Christy652
    @Christy652 7 месяцев назад +1

    Kody wanted them all to live together in one house in Arizona to the point of having the plans made but when he presented it the wives said no.

  • @Jessica-pn5ri
    @Jessica-pn5ri 7 месяцев назад +16

    I think Suki took the criticism to heart and pushed a little harder this year. She is balancing trying not to make them shut down (especially Kody) and asking direct questions to get better answers.

    • @mytakeonreality
      @mytakeonreality  7 месяцев назад +10

      I heard she had a bit of back and forth with some of the fans of the show. I think you're right.

    • @collnss
      @collnss 7 месяцев назад

      @@mytakeonreality yes she did on Instagram and Twitter/X

  • @jamean3440
    @jamean3440 7 месяцев назад +3

    Btw, Robin is in charge and controlling it all. That’s why she doesn’t film in her house. She wants to control the narrative. It’s not working and that is why she is so frustrated.

    • @milankatz9628
      @milankatz9628 7 месяцев назад +1

      I hate all the filming outside…very abnormal, fake.

  • @ingridmilliebobby-brown7653
    @ingridmilliebobby-brown7653 4 месяца назад

    It's not just the act of having to cowtow to the emotions of their husband's childish whims; it's having to sit through his undeniable willingness to humiliate both himself and these women-- women who have stuck by him through thick and thin-- by default. The game was never about mutual respect, it was about coddling Kody's manchild fantasy world. Kody put that reality on display, and that was the beginning of the end after that. You can't pretend you're a person of stable thoughts and feelings after selling out that profusely. Things just don't work that way.

  • @MajZooo
    @MajZooo 7 месяцев назад +3

    I love your commentary 😂 "He not only stepped on the rake, but he fell in the pool" 🤣