Kody Is Called On The Carpet Over His Daughter, And I'm Calling Him Out (RANT)

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  • Опубликовано: 15 июл 2024
  • TLC's Sister Wives has returned for it's 18th season and the hypocrisy, inconsistencies, and out right lights are being exposed.
    Janelle takes the time to look Kody in the eye and ask him about their daughter, Savanah. Unfortunately, Kody isn't emotionally intelligent enough to realize that Janelle's breaking point is how he treats her children.
    In this video I have to point out the absurdity of Kody always making excuses for his bad behavior. Repeatedly I've heard him berate his "wives" for not being accountable and responsible for their actions. Yet, he continues to ignore his family's needs then when confronted with that fact he deflects and hides.
    Let's have the conversation.
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  • @mommav0107
    @mommav0107 9 месяцев назад +290

    TLC should NOT support Kody any longer. He is hurting people. The balls it took to say Janelle was with him for his body & money…WTF???

    • @caramellatte7247
      @caramellatte7247 9 месяцев назад

      He’s a repulsive narcissist. I could not believe when he said that crap!!

    • @maryshowalter6910
      @maryshowalter6910 9 месяцев назад +50

      What body and what money???

    • @leahchase3699
      @leahchase3699 9 месяцев назад +46

      That was unreal! He is with her for her money and to use her body. Classic narc move to accuse the other person of what you are doing. A-hole.

    • @2WOLFS
      @2WOLFS 9 месяцев назад

      What body? He has a pot belly, flat butt and going bald. And he's a whinner, he whine more than kids do that are spoiled to death. Kody is not the best-looking guy. And I don't care how good looking you look physically, you're personality and behavior are what make a person. Nothing kody keeps his curly perm because he's going bald, look at his hair line, and right in the center of his head. He's going bald. He absolutely lost any butt he had it's flat as a board. There's nothing back there but sagging pants.

    • @susancook1448
      @susancook1448 9 месяцев назад +21

      And for her to produce all those children for him!!

  • @kristinesharp6286
    @kristinesharp6286 9 месяцев назад +31

    He and Aurora were bawling cause they were separate in the same house for 10 days. And she is an adult. Something ain’t right.

    • @karenkincaid5569
      @karenkincaid5569 9 месяцев назад +4

      I have always been suspicious about that relationship

    • @kristinesharp6286
      @kristinesharp6286 9 месяцев назад +1

      Not to be creepy but he misses an adult who is residing in the same building for 10 days but 40 days is no problem for a minor child who he could contact without even having to interact with the mother? @@karenkincaid5569

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад

      I don’t believe that story for a minute. Kody was trying to make a point, that even I. Their home they abused by the strict rules. So everyone else should have been able to do that. Bogus!!!

    • @kristinesharp6286
      @kristinesharp6286 9 месяцев назад +2

      Given the earring scenes and the carrying up the stairs scene I do believe that Robyn’s kids have separation anxiety and the parents clingy. After Kody’s father’s wife’s funeral he didn’t stay with Janelle after violating COVID rules to attend their mom bonus/mom/MIL funeral he went right to Robyn’s house and picked up Ariella and kissed her and kissed Robyn. No self isolating. 4 days not with Sol and Ariella and Robyn was too much. Forget Truely is a year older than Sol. She does not count. Then he finds out there are test kits so the rest of the family can gather if they test so Xmas is not spoiled. Does he really think he is fooling anyone? Kody was a mental mess during his own household having it. 99.6 is not a fever. Telling those girls Robyn still might die after the ER doctor sent her home was awful. Going to ER no problem with that but that should have set the parents telling the kids she was going to be fine. Not that she could still die. And then they blame the one kid they can’t throw out for bringing it home when any of them could have been the first patient. They put the older girls through hell just to carry on the delusional narrative Kody has been putting forth. @@laneneal3510

  • @LinaGenX
    @LinaGenX 9 месяцев назад +101

    It's shocking to me to watch just how much Kody suck at fatherhood, mostly because he is a COWARD

    • @ItsBellum
      @ItsBellum 9 месяцев назад +5

      A prideful coward.....he obviously missed the meaning of what "be the bigger person" means

    • @Avmuhammad64
      @Avmuhammad64 9 месяцев назад +1

      💯💯💯💯💯💯

  • @shanaahhee6406
    @shanaahhee6406 9 месяцев назад +69

    To Kody, the kids are extensions of their mothers so if he’s not speaking or interacting with the mom, then the kids suffer. It’s punishing the mom.

    • @karolegrano5942
      @karolegrano5942 9 месяцев назад +4

      My biological father did that. When he divorced my Mom, he left me and my brother behind. Then he repeated the same behavior when he divorced his second wife and left behind one daughter. He would have done it again, but the mother of his last child beat him to the punch. So that one he took back to his mother to raise. And he never supported any of his children. Till the end of his life, he never felt a twinge of regret. (Or at least he never verbalized it to anyone)

    • @CaligoArye
      @CaligoArye 9 месяцев назад +9

      Exactly. Suddenly when Christine was leaving now it's important to have Truely 50% of the time? No. He just doing that to keep a tether on Christine and avoid child support.

    • @dosbabymama
      @dosbabymama 9 месяцев назад +1

      ​@CaligoArye exactly. He didn't spend 50% with Truely when she lived in the same damn town! No way he should get 50% while she's living in Utah. Not to mention he can't find space for her in a 4000 Sq ft house.

  • @Thatsmyshoe
    @Thatsmyshoe 9 месяцев назад +34

    Look at what a good father you are when your oldest son is making breakfast for the younger kids before he leaves for school. Kody is nothing but a donor.

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад +4

      Ugh…don’t get me started. Those boys upbringing came from their moms. No wonder He doesn’t want kids, he already raised kids.

  • @becky9103
    @becky9103 9 месяцев назад +26

    I'm happy for Savannah that she has four older brothers to look up to as male role models, because her dad just doesn't cut the mustard in the male role model arena. And I'm afraid he never will.

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад

      It’s hopeless at this time

  • @ruffles761
    @ruffles761 9 месяцев назад +25

    Kody's idea of bonding with his children with Janelle is sitting at Janelle's house while messaging Robyn about what is going on at Robyn's house.

  • @lynnebarnes3840
    @lynnebarnes3840 9 месяцев назад +13

    Let's not forget; Janelle owned her own home when Meri and Kidney met her.🤔

    • @Jkm7fh
      @Jkm7fh 9 месяцев назад +2

      “Kidney” 😂😂😂

  • @Sprklngglassslipper
    @Sprklngglassslipper 9 месяцев назад +8

    We all KNOW he didn’t do any business except TLC filming for Christmas. He HAD TIME to call Savannah.

  • @RozaneBeyMcCurdy
    @RozaneBeyMcCurdy 9 месяцев назад +45

    If Kody had ten minutes to contribute his wick to make a kid, he should be able to spare ten minutes for a phone call to each kid. What? Three hours a week? He spends at least that much time flipping his "It's all ego, Baby" hair.

    • @becky9103
      @becky9103 9 месяцев назад +2

      And even more time squeezing lemons!

  • @marilynlopez7575
    @marilynlopez7575 9 месяцев назад +137

    James, I love how your prospective can be applied to anyone. This was a difficult episode to watch because he mentioned feeling used by Janelle. He stated that she is interested in his body. It was beyond insulting after almost thirty years of partnership. It was disgusting and insulting. I can't help but think what he would say and do if it wasn't being filmed for the masses.

    • @tracimcmurray5244
      @tracimcmurray5244 9 месяцев назад +10

      Agreed on all items.

    • @cherylmcnutt9905
      @cherylmcnutt9905 9 месяцев назад +2

      *perspective, not “prospective”

    • @marilynlopez7575
      @marilynlopez7575 9 месяцев назад +2

      @@cherylmcnutt9905 Thank you

    • @Ashakat42
      @Ashakat42 9 месяцев назад

      He has overestimated the value of "his body." He's gross. I can't believe he has be lucky enough to have these women let him get close enough to them to let him produce children.

    • @stephw1702
      @stephw1702 9 месяцев назад +8

      Especially after years of both saying how they were each others best friend and how their relationship wasn't one based on the mushy stuff but more on that connection.

  • @craftyflalady
    @craftyflalady 9 месяцев назад +35

    The minute his kids start questioning him or having an opinion, hes done with them!
    Thats why he likes the young ones. Young children hero worship thier daddys! Once that is gone, so is Kody. He has to have his ego stroked at all times!

  • @SusieQ-mn3qf
    @SusieQ-mn3qf 9 месяцев назад +74

    Savannah is almost an adult. He doesn't need to go through Janelle to see her. Such total crap that Kody utters.

    • @karolegrano5942
      @karolegrano5942 9 месяцев назад +9

      I imagine she even has the ability to drive herself to meet him. Or maybe he should take his 'family' to watch her play sports or whatever she is into. No, no...He can't be bothered.

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад +2

      And Janelle would take her if Kody called. Hands down. He doesn’t know how to be with his own children So sad.

    • @SonyaChavez
      @SonyaChavez 9 месяцев назад +1

      I just wonder what Savannah will think about the ear piercing episode.

  • @suec7123
    @suec7123 9 месяцев назад +14

    He is mimmicing Robin when he says Mean Girls, she is always in his ear with phrases she spews, that we know most men don't use.

  • @sarahshannon760
    @sarahshannon760 9 месяцев назад +49

    He didn’t even call Savanna on her birthday which was in January either! Worst father ever! And he is Delusional to believe that he has a six pack!

    • @grf5
      @grf5 9 месяцев назад +7

      Or great pecks 🤢

    • @jsg5309
      @jsg5309 9 месяцев назад +12

      He did call her on her BDay which is the beginning of December but that was the last time- it’s crazy this happens but it does.

    • @colleen1219
      @colleen1219 9 месяцев назад +15

      Also, what is he talking about after school. She was on Christmas break. If he wanted to to see her he would have.

    • @grf5
      @grf5 9 месяцев назад +5

      @@colleen1219 I think Robyn has put tremendous pressure on him about spending time with the little ones at her house.

    • @sassyminnie
      @sassyminnie 9 месяцев назад +2

      He was admiring his 6 packs and his good looking image

  • @mell682
    @mell682 9 месяцев назад +72

    He has emotionnally messed up so many of his kids that it’s a real tragedy in my book. Forget your heaven kingdom, your job is here and now. Too many of his girls married so young to the first guy who paid attention to them. He’s such a bad male influence for his sons. He’s already leaving a big mess for them to deal with. Tragic.

    • @kittenbrave1003
      @kittenbrave1003 9 месяцев назад +18

      I noticed none of their kids want plural marriages...

    • @JMP829
      @JMP829 9 месяцев назад +6

      ⁠@@kittenbrave1003, the only ones who may are Robyn’s. They will likely believe in a plural marriage, they will be treated like their mom has been treated by Kody but just may find the reality is they will be treated like the OG wives.

  • @ExtraordinaryMachine333
    @ExtraordinaryMachine333 9 месяцев назад +11

    He hadn't called her since her birthday, and strangely enough that's better than Gabe got when his Dad forgot it was his birthday altogether.
    Kody is the limbo champion of Dads, because there is no limit to how low he can go.

  • @LeftyBlue
    @LeftyBlue 9 месяцев назад +9

    When Janelle confronted him about not calling savanna and he hemmed and hawed and stumbled over his words, that's when he should have taken a breath and went,"you know what? You're right. I didn't and I should have"

    • @avajavanyc
      @avajavanyc 9 месяцев назад

      He was going to say "the phone goes both ways" but realized something???

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад

      He just can’t do that. In his mind, that would make him look bad. LOL! He doesn’t know that what he has already done makes him look bad!LOL!

  • @dawnbaker4623
    @dawnbaker4623 9 месяцев назад +15

    The only thing that he's busy doing is Robin.

    • @redds7777
      @redds7777 9 месяцев назад

      Yes he did. Janelle, Christine , and Savannah said that was the last time he had talked to her

  • @colleen1219
    @colleen1219 9 месяцев назад +96

    Disgusted to hear him bring up Saul and Ari the way he did. As if every other person in his family, including the adults. Are mean to those kids. I didn’t realize Robin is a puppeteer. It has nothing to do with them. Everything to do with favoritism. He should’ve had to answer for his horrible relationship with Savannah.

    • @IaneHowe
      @IaneHowe 9 месяцев назад +7

      But it was predictable. it's always Robyn's whatever is more important. As a wife, as her kids. CDC was very clear children had less risk with Covid. Janelle was right kody was going from excuse to excuse. Could, boys now little kids.

    • @karolegrano5942
      @karolegrano5942 9 месяцев назад +14

      When he spoke about the 'babies' he left off Truly. She is only like 16mos older than Solomon. And notice how he said the mansion was a 'basic' expense, because he has to house his children for another 15yrs. What? Are you planning to allow Arie to stay till she is 21? 🧐

    • @colleen1219
      @colleen1219 9 месяцев назад +8

      @@karolegrano5942 oh, he always does. Maturity wise you would never think they were remotely close to the same age. Even the way they are talked about.

    • @amy5700
      @amy5700 9 месяцев назад +8

      ​@@karolegrano5942Ari will probably still be using a pacifier at 21.

    • @rachelk4805
      @rachelk4805 9 месяцев назад +3

      Triangulation in action.

  • @karensiegel6669
    @karensiegel6669 9 месяцев назад +93

    Felt so sorry for Savannah. The gal does not deserve that cruelty Kody displays to her. She will start ignoring him and I wouldn't blame her.

    • @corioberhansli9422
      @corioberhansli9422 9 месяцев назад +9

      Yep just like Truely does now..

    • @ExtraordinaryMachine333
      @ExtraordinaryMachine333 9 месяцев назад +10

      ​@@corioberhansli9422 I wondered if a big part of the reason Mykelti and Ysabel went with Truely was because she would have felt uncomfortable if she went alone. It's so weird that he wants a relationship with Truely now, but not Savanah. She's just a few years older (since only the younger kids are worthy of attention anyway).

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад +4

      She just wants her Daddy😢

    • @kristinesharp6286
      @kristinesharp6286 9 месяцев назад +4

      She is being punished cause he is mad are her brothers. But really a blessing. He is toxic.

  • @Bullshotinbutt
    @Bullshotinbutt 9 месяцев назад +5

    It stuns me how childish he is in his parenting. He loves only those who adore him. That's not parenting, parenting is loving them through it all, being there with them through it all.

  • @gIac1er
    @gIac1er 9 месяцев назад +7

    If I recall correctly, Jenelle was basically forced into buying a camper because Cody would not buy her a house! And then when she got the camper, he refused to stay there because it was “too small “so then she goes into the apartment because she doesn’t want to freeze in a camper in the winter time and he doesn’t want to stay at the apartment because it’s “too small”! Cody always had a place at Janelle’s. He chose not to go there! He is choosing not to have a relationship with his children.PERIOD!

  • @Dwayne46
    @Dwayne46 9 месяцев назад +5

    He always has an excuse for everything and just can’t take responsibility for anything.

  • @thompsoncindy42
    @thompsoncindy42 9 месяцев назад +55

    Kody continues to educate us about how narcissists act. He constantly deflects any kind of responsibility or blame and accuses others of doing the very things he does. He generally as an excuse for everything - excuses which often make no sense whatsoever. He must have been stunned when Janelle didn't beg to be let back into his good graces - after all he's so smart (using big words he doesn't even understand) and so "hot" (in his own mind) and he is the total financial support for the family (not even in his dreams!!). Those stray tendrils on his forehead sprouting from that tiny spot on his balding pate are so distracting - oh, and NOT HOT!! Janelle is seeing Kody as he is choosing to be at this time of his life - he is not the man she knew, loved and married 30+ years ago. When a person finally sees the narcissist for who he is, it is confusing and heartbreaking. They are chameleons and we can never really know them.

    • @ExtraordinaryMachine333
      @ExtraordinaryMachine333 9 месяцев назад +7

      He used the word transmute as much as he could during that episode, and judging by context he had no idea what it meant. What Manosphere influencer was he getting it from?

    • @ParadoxicaLeo730
      @ParadoxicaLeo730 9 месяцев назад +6

      ​@@ExtraordinaryMachine333 he has been using at least one word each week that is directly out of contexts on narcissists. I am convinced he reads what everyone is saying about him, looks it up, and like a true narcissist uses it against others. He and Goblyn have to go.

  • @lindab9088
    @lindab9088 9 месяцев назад +17

    I think Kody left Janelle after their lunch thinking he had woo’d her and she would settle back in to the way things had always been. Her income is important to him.

    • @judyl.7234
      @judyl.7234 9 месяцев назад +2

      @lindab9088 I wonder if he paid for lunch with Janelle. When he had lunch with Christine, she had to pay.

    • @connieg5351
      @connieg5351 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@judyl.7234, 😮🙄🙄🙄 How pathetic! I assumed TLC paid.

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад

      I believe he wants an excuse to not be in one place. Ther was an episode where the women spoke about not knowing where Kody was many times. He wasn’t at the house he told them he was going to. No where to be found. He just used them as excuses also.

  • @justbeingme7719
    @justbeingme7719 9 месяцев назад +6

    I don't think Kody wants a physical relationship with Janelle. He wants her smarts and money. He started turning on the charm after Janelle stated that she wanted to stay separated. And she almost melted. She still loves him. I really think Kody thought that he could treat Janelle like crap and she would stay.

    • @07Flash11MRC
      @07Flash11MRC 4 месяца назад

      According to both Kody and Janelle their physical relationship was very high energy, so he does (did) want her that way.

  • @kittenbrave1003
    @kittenbrave1003 9 месяцев назад +10

    I think Janelle is playing along with Kody to get her money right...so she can leave. I also don’t think she loves or respects him due to the way he has treated her kids... especially Savannah

  • @bonniegropper
    @bonniegropper 9 месяцев назад +6

    Kody can take Robyn's daughters ears pierced but can't take five minutes to call his biological daughter on Christmas.Unreal and very callous on Kodys part.He socks as a dad to 13 out of the 18 kids.

  • @sallyfields2385
    @sallyfields2385 9 месяцев назад +16

    Logan was more of father than Kody could ever hope to be. He got the kids up (at least the ones he had with Janelle and probably while Christine was at work), made breakfast and probably got them to school. Whether that was waiting with them for the bus or whatever. Please correct me if I'm wrong because it's been a while since I've watched the earlier episodes. I remember that Christine home schooled the youngest but didn't the other kids go to school outside the house?
    Also, Truely is one year older than Robin's youngest but he won't spend time with her. While placing importance on spending time with the "youngest" kids meaning Robin's kids.
    He is infuriating! I'm not a violent person but I really just want to smack him into next year!🤯
    Sorry for the rant! I hope everyone has a wonderful day!

  • @anastasiabeaverhausen5467
    @anastasiabeaverhausen5467 9 месяцев назад +5

    “The environment I know my children in” most babies have developed object permanence by 6 or 7 months? His kids cease to exists once he has driven beyond that zipcode and it is utterly impossible to contact them from this other dimension 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @junefriesen4559
    @junefriesen4559 9 месяцев назад +8

    It’s the parent’s responsibility to get together with their children. Even if there is animosity with the other parent. Kody is an extremely selfish, egomaniacal child

  • @frannyfisher8734
    @frannyfisher8734 9 месяцев назад +5

    He acts like he’s the only person who ever got divorced. People manage relationships with their kids even though they’re divorced ALL THE TIME. It’s a normal thing normal people navigate.

  • @kariforrest8334
    @kariforrest8334 9 месяцев назад +6

    He didn’t expect confrontation from her.

  • @kimberlycrowley7948
    @kimberlycrowley7948 9 месяцев назад +14

    He didn't even put his name on the birth certificates...

    • @GIgone3
      @GIgone3 9 месяцев назад +2

      Yeah, so if or when they leave he doesn't have to pay child support. Good thing for DNA

    • @rochellej6412
      @rochellej6412 9 месяцев назад +2

      @@GIgone3 No doubt in my mind 'Sobbin The Pencil Box' is gonna nail this 'hunk' for child support!!!

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад

      Then the unmarried women can get welfare and food stamps. Don’t know who the father is. Kody says it’s bc they see him as a bigamist if he acknowledges them. I say don’t have them if you can’t afford them. They weren’t mistakes. You had them purposely. It’s a cult

    • @raineetoneme
      @raineetoneme 9 месяцев назад +1

      I think that's how they got welfare and government help at the time. Leave his name off documents and it helps the wives get money from the state or government.

    • @GIgone3
      @GIgone3 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@raineetoneme I've heard a lot of polygamy families do that. Which in my opinion that's why it should be illegal, one wife sits high with everything and the rest struggle

  • @Imzadi
    @Imzadi 9 месяцев назад +22

    This is exactly how my father was after my parent’s’ divorce. My father wasn’t interested in connecting with us anymore. I was 5 when he left. I’ve always wondered why men do this. It’s like they associate the child with the mother too much. So strange to me. I’d die before I let go of my relationship with my children.

    • @Platinum907
      @Platinum907 9 месяцев назад +1

      Same with Coco Chanel….absolutely heartless & that abandonment is all them & had nothing to do with your beautiful year old self…. Extra sad because 5 yr olds (all children) naturally blame themselves.

  • @becky9103
    @becky9103 9 месяцев назад +5

    Kody suddenly becomes Porky the Pig when he's asked why he hasn't seen Savannah. "Th-th-th-that's all f-f-folks! I w-w-work at n-n-night. By the way Janelle...why do you hate Sol and Ari?" He makes me want to vomit.

  • @katpillar4131
    @katpillar4131 9 месяцев назад +4

    I really want James to interview Kody in the one on one. 🍿

  • @WannaPizzaMe
    @WannaPizzaMe 9 месяцев назад +19

    One thing that confuses me about this show is before Robyn they were a family living in one house. Since Robyn joined they act as separate families. Why doesn't Janelle and Savannah stay with Kody and Robyn? Meri has always had a huge house to herself, why couldn't Janelle and Savannah have stayed with her? Not Kody is saying he can't spend time with Savannah because he doesn't interact with Janelle... why doesn't he take savannah to his house he owns with Robyn? Family takes care of family. I've had my mother and both my sisters stay with me when they were having hard times. Kody is making this way to complicated.

    • @elizabethflessert6426
      @elizabethflessert6426 9 месяцев назад +9

      I am 100% sure that Jeanelle would rather live in a cardboard box than with either Robyn or Meri at this point in the game.

    • @rachelk4805
      @rachelk4805 9 месяцев назад

      Literally looking around my home thinking about how I can make room for my sister and her baby.

    • @ExtraordinaryMachine333
      @ExtraordinaryMachine333 9 месяцев назад +3

      No one wants to live with Robyn because they'll just see how much better he treats her. And I don't think Robyn wants any of them to live with her, so I'm sure there were always good excuses, even when Janelle was basically homeless and Meri had to switch homes.
      He said he always wanted to have everyone in one home, but his actions don't align with that.

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад +2

      Bc it’s just excuses. Of course that can happen. I’m sure Robyn won’t like it, but oh well! She forgets her 3 kids were taken in.

    • @raineetoneme
      @raineetoneme 9 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@ExtraordinaryMachine333He tried to get them all in one house again. Christine said hell no, she didn't want to be under Meri's thumb again or live with Robin.😂😂😂😂

  • @debrap9829
    @debrap9829 9 месяцев назад +18

    Kody in incapable of love. He only loves himself. I don't think he really loves Robyn. I think she is just a big shot to his enormous ego. Everything in Kodys world is about him. Typical narcissist who is constantly demanding underserved "respect"....love is conditional with him but you had damn well better give him respect, He is so sick and disgusting.

  • @debragale278
    @debragale278 9 месяцев назад +10

    "No grown ass ma. Should ever use the words, mean girl"
    Aaaahahahahahahaha!! Get it! Lol

  • @karenkincaid5569
    @karenkincaid5569 9 месяцев назад +55

    James, I really, really love and admire how you describe extremely complex and challenging relationships and how to approach figuring them out. And your sense of humor is terrific. Please keep making more and more videos. Lots of thumbs up to you.

    • @dstat74
      @dstat74 9 месяцев назад +5

      Yes, he’s so smart the way he breaks down all these layers.

    • @Sandra-Gibora
      @Sandra-Gibora 9 месяцев назад +4

      🎯🎯🎯

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад +2

      Agree

    • @JMP829
      @JMP829 9 месяцев назад +3

      Agree!!

    • @alexx5064
      @alexx5064 9 месяцев назад +4

      his metaphors are so great too-on point fr

  • @youtubeismytimemachine5917
    @youtubeismytimemachine5917 9 месяцев назад +4

    This man damages his image and reputation a little more each week. What kind of bs excuse was that? Kody needs an ass kicking😂😂😂

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад

      I agree. He needs an intervention and send him to grown up schooling

  • @GIgone3
    @GIgone3 9 месяцев назад +10

    I would have gotten up right then told him to f off again and left... but i bet shes trying to get her ducks in a row first. He was gonna blame it on Savannah. What a loser.

  • @bonniegropper
    @bonniegropper 9 месяцев назад +17

    I love how much Kody talks about accountability for others yet doesn't believe that it applies to him.James this is priceless.Thank you James for breaking all of this down for us.God bless you and your family.

  • @wirebandit
    @wirebandit 9 месяцев назад +6

    Sobbin Robyn...tell us how in the entire world your Valentines Day will be awful? Your Christmas looked just fine. She's such a self-made-victim

  • @IaneHowe
    @IaneHowe 9 месяцев назад +4

    Did he do business at Xmas? Nope! Kody shouldn't need a mother's home to have a relationship with his children. Clearly, he has no intention or interest. He could've taken them to the movies, mall, park, restaurant, hiking... when did akody ever spent 2 days in 2 days off Janelle house? Never!

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад +1

      Should have had Savannah’s over with the others. BUG MISTAKE! But as always Kody was soooo mad! Boo hoo

  • @joellepatry493
    @joellepatry493 9 месяцев назад +4

    He only likes his kids when the look up at him adoringly. Once they stop that, he checks out. No more narcissistic supply.

  • @antoninastewart4398
    @antoninastewart4398 9 месяцев назад +7

    Guess what I don't think he even have a job

  • @MsAwesomelyMe
    @MsAwesomelyMe 9 месяцев назад +46

    Truth.. He couldn't just talk to Janelle about their marriage. He kept including other situations and wives. Love your channel. When he said he would alternate days with Janelle and Robyn I almost lost it. 😂 We know he wouldn't give equal time because he hasn't in 12 years!

  • @PWatts-ff2fd
    @PWatts-ff2fd 9 месяцев назад +8

    I love to see you calling Kody out on his crap, man to man! I can't believe that Kody shut out Savannah at Christmas when she was STAYING IN THE SAME HOUSE AS MYKELTI AND THE REST OF CHRISTINE'S KIDS THAT CAME OVER TO THE MCMANSION FOR ANOTHER CHRISTMAS!! That was beyond thoughtless and cruel!! What about accountability Kody? Be a man!!

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад +3

      That was a down right FU to Janelle! That was on purpose. And Robyn telling Meri about it and said she had no control on the decision( but I really wanted the boys and all at my Houes, but…) come on Robyn, you F’dU! Savannah was right there and she watched all the others go over!? OMG! No wonder Janelle is done.

  • @tammypauls1077
    @tammypauls1077 9 месяцев назад +3

    When the kids were little, he probably flew in, wound the kids up and then moved on to the next family. He was all about the fun, but I doubt he did nothing to help raise them. I doubt he's working. Janelle is getting ready to leave his ass, Coby thinks he can flirt a little with her and she will come running back to him. She is done with him.

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад

      His understanding of their religion is; Get as many wives as you can, make lots of babies, of course the women have to help support, be it financially or physically, they nurture the kids and teach them obedience for their father and the religion. He is just the head. The women have to deal with emotions. He’s not responsible. Then he looks good in eyes of the church. See, he had them all under control. What a good man! All in the name of the Lord.

  • @Undefinedde
    @Undefinedde 9 месяцев назад +7

    I don't think Kody was ever a good father. A good dad and mom don't keep conceiving more babies when you can't feed the kids and wives you always have. The women have covered for him all these years. Merri is dumb. Janelle should have already start separating her money froM their. Kody isn't a real man he is a weak selfish man who wants loyalty and respect but never gives any

    • @CaligoArye
      @CaligoArye 9 месяцев назад

      He was the uncle that goofed off with the kids.

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад

      She had in the past and Kody knew it but Janelle was for the good of the family. She still didn’t believe Kody would F her. She should have said fine, but my name goes on everything. That’s why she’s do mad at herself. I think she finds a way out. I’d threaten lawyers and I’d bet Kody would make deals.

  • @DebBrown931
    @DebBrown931 9 месяцев назад +4

    What about Kody refusing to be with Ysabel when she had surgery because of his fear of Covid but he went to officiate his friend’s wedding and was dancing and carrying on with all the people, all the while he’s not wearing a mask.

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад

      Can’t fix stupid🥴

    • @joerudnik9290
      @joerudnik9290 9 месяцев назад

      What about the years Ysabelle was in pain and he didn’t feel she needed surgery.

  • @bridgetteknotts2123
    @bridgetteknotts2123 9 месяцев назад +3

    Why is Kodys heartbreak more important than his childrens? He needs to stop listening to “counselor” Robyn!

  • @auntiedeedee3438
    @auntiedeedee3438 9 месяцев назад +4

    I don't know how Janelle is even thinking about a reconciliation with Kody, He is soooo low vibrational. She talks about missing the conversations they have, ick .. I would be scratching my eyes out.

  • @Tailsof2Spaniels
    @Tailsof2Spaniels 9 месяцев назад +22

    I really hope that Cody watches this because he can only hear this from another man. You are 1000% right about him being a father. He is just making excuses. And I wish Janelle had pushed a little more and said “ That’s a cop out”. But that’s hard to do when you’ve loved someone for a long time and you know their sort comings. Overall my heart breaks for Janelle. It really did.

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад

      So right

    • @JMP829
      @JMP829 9 месяцев назад +1

      Agree. But while I also wish Janelle would respond to Kody that way, it would likely set him off on another rant.

  • @tracimcmurray5244
    @tracimcmurray5244 9 месяцев назад +39

    I regularly watch three channels that discuss SW (and dip in n out of others), but James--you my favorite by far. You are intelligent, aware, made wise by life experience, and FUNNY! 😂 Keep it up, please. I'm noddin, agreeing, smiling, even laughing out loud at your content. Thank you for what you do here.

  • @dramonmaster222
    @dramonmaster222 9 месяцев назад +5

    You know Kody is full of it because when asked why he didn't call Savannah, he opened his mouth and gaped like a fish.

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад +1

      And he didn’t expect Janelle to say something? He didn’t have a response ready? Shows you just how shallow and pathetic he is. Janelle was supposed to be that shut-up, sweet , obeying wife as before. SURPRISE!

  • @fran4636
    @fran4636 9 месяцев назад +12

    You're so right about Kody's excuse tier list. A. The boys B. Christine C. COVID D. Robyn's been rejected E. I'm at work

  • @MrsBilla-nu8qb
    @MrsBilla-nu8qb 9 месяцев назад +9

    It’s interesting that he can’t take any responsibility at all for his behavior. Everything that happens is everyone else’s fault.

  • @laneneal3510
    @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад +3

    I love that the whole thing about the boys coming over was that Kody did not want them to come over and act like nothing really happened without having(apologies) a conversation about it first to clarify everything. But he just saunters in on Janelle like it’s all water under the bridge. And compare stuff about Christine which is a no no for the women to do. This man is the worthy excuse for a human being and we’re seeing it live.😵‍💫

  • @emirom2
    @emirom2 9 месяцев назад +19

    After watching last night’s episode about Kody and his HOTNESS, I’ve been so looking forward to your “take” on it! I about died laughing during last night’s episode! 😂😂

  • @Tailsof2Spaniels
    @Tailsof2Spaniels 9 месяцев назад +15

    I had a great father too. There were six of us kids and he never stopped trying to help us. We all had to have college educations because he didn’t. And he knew it would be better for us and easier for us in life if we had that. He never stopped helping even when he passed at 85. You are absolutely right

    • @jcam5064
      @jcam5064 9 месяцев назад +2

      I love to hear stories of good fathers. Thank you for sharing about your dad❤

  • @BerryHair405
    @BerryHair405 9 месяцев назад +5

    Yes James! If Kody's children were bags of money, Kody would turn into the Monopoly Man with ramen hair. There are zero "six-packs" on this show (except for the beer and skittles). Kody thinks he's a damn body double in Thor. I've worked with people who have spent time in mental institutions with fewer delusions and a better grip on reality than Kody.

  • @JudyBaker-gv9kg
    @JudyBaker-gv9kg 9 месяцев назад +20

    Why aren’t more people on this site? He is funny and insightful.

    • @sonyaspraker5052
      @sonyaspraker5052 9 месяцев назад +3

      Time. They're coming.

    • @rochellej6412
      @rochellej6412 9 месяцев назад +2

      Agree! I drop Jamess' name and channel in my interweb travels whenever I can...
      So I agree...if he builds it...they will come!

  • @Be_An_Esther
    @Be_An_Esther 9 месяцев назад +40

    When I tell you I RAN to catch this video 😂😂😂 I've binged almost all James' videos, I've been DYING for a new upload!

    • @amlacy9127
      @amlacy9127 9 месяцев назад +8

      Tell me about it! I’ve been checking for this all day, haha! ❤️

    • @Be_An_Esther
      @Be_An_Esther 9 месяцев назад +6

      @@amlacy9127 literally same! I love this man so much 😂 his reactions are the only ones I care to actually listen to. I either agree with everything he has to say, or I walk away with a new perspective, which is SO refreshing! It's not just bashing these people *coughwithoutacrystalballcoughcough* it's actually useful input.

    • @judyl.7234
      @judyl.7234 9 месяцев назад +3

      @@Be_An_Esther I really like and respect James also. One reason is that he doesn't bash other content providers. He sets a good example we all should follow. Cough, don't name drop, cough,cough!

    • @Be_An_Esther
      @Be_An_Esther 9 месяцев назад +2

      @@judyl.7234 As a viewer, I have no shame in naming names who I enjoy watching and who I don't particularly care that much for. Can't improve your content if you're only getting yes men, right? 😜 But you're right, James is good about that. He's just an enjoyable personality all around💜

    • @joaniewalley9358
      @joaniewalley9358 4 месяца назад

      Me too boo!

  • @libm2319
    @libm2319 9 месяцев назад +12

    James, can you do a video about how Janelle has clearly always wanted more from Kody but never asked for it and accepted the bare minimum. It's not her independence or strong nature. I think it's the result of her growing up with her cold and emotionally unavailable stepfather and also Meri's rage toward her when Janelle spent time with Kody. Janelle decided not to demand what she deserved because she knew she wouldn't get it -from stepfather or Kody. She's made it so easy for kody with her low standards and no expectations and still he disappointed. Also, I've always found it obvious that Janelle has been Robyn's only real competition for Kody's love and affection from the beginning. Robyn rarely mentions her. Robyn knew the only way she could compete with her was to play needy victim that he had to protect, which turned Kody off from the strength and power he loved about Janelle from the start.

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад +3

      So right. Then asking her to come back bc they had something good, but I have some restrictions. What a dumb ass move. And then his surprised. I don’t think Kody has two brain cells to rub together. He really thinks it’s all about him and these damn women are just not getting it right. What does a man have to do? 🥴🥴🥴

  • @barbarabaldwin8922
    @barbarabaldwin8922 9 месяцев назад +4

    Kody is a toddler

  • @JustMe-oq9zk
    @JustMe-oq9zk 9 месяцев назад +3

    All he would have to do is start texting his children 😡 he's not even trying

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад

      At one point I heard him say em to Janelle; do I have their numbers, then he hesitated says uh, yea. Bc he knew that didn’t sound good. (It’s the mothers responsibility to see to it Kody has those #’s) so that tells me, since those boys had phones, he hasn’t called or text them for God knows how long. Which says the boys were right. It had been months since he’s seen or contacted them. OH THE WEB WE WEAVE, WHEN WE TRY TO DECEIVE

  • @tfrazie
    @tfrazie 9 месяцев назад +4

    Part of the reason I loved and respected my father so much was because I could see how much he loved and respected my mother, his wife. He was so good to her every day of his life.

  • @cathyferran7291
    @cathyferran7291 9 месяцев назад +2

    Did you notice Kody was speechless and couldn't justify why if you were mad at your sons, you dont ignore your daughter who hadn't done anything, she just wanted to hear from her dad on Christmas

  • @MarleneCoffey
    @MarleneCoffey 9 месяцев назад +3

    Kody keeps claiming the little kids need him more, but there is less than 2 years between Truly and Sol, but she never got the same attention. He acts like she is one of the older kids.

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад

      He knows she sees thru him. He thinks if he shows up now all lovey dovey she’ll know it’s fake and it is!

  • @angelarollins8769
    @angelarollins8769 9 месяцев назад +6

    When I heard Kody say he was good looking, my stomach turned🤮 there’s nothing appealing about that poor excuse of a man. I keep hearing Meri has left already, and I’ve heard they’re filming more seasons, I hope not! Meri is concerned about how Robyn will take her leaving to move her business to Utah, all Robyn is gonna do is fake cry and say she doesn’t understand why she wants to leave

    • @CaligoArye
      @CaligoArye 9 месяцев назад +1

      He WAS good looking 30 years ago. He didn't age well at all.

    • @lisadeloach8932
      @lisadeloach8932 9 месяцев назад +1

      Meri has left. The show is a year and a half behind

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад

      I don’t know.

  • @FlyingChancla505
    @FlyingChancla505 9 месяцев назад +3

    Kody paid attention to his kids when they were small and easily manipulated. When they got older and began to get a wider view of the world they began to see who he really is. When they began to question him he checked out. Kody likes to be surrounded by people who believe the bs.

  • @avajavany
    @avajavany 9 месяцев назад +4

    Kody is on performance enhancing meds that's why his anger is off the charts and his head and his face is swollen.
    Life has been easy for Kody with his damn sportscars!

    • @TheJulithegreat
      @TheJulithegreat 9 месяцев назад

      I was wondering how long he's been on something. He's hyper, moody, busy doing nothing.. Probably steroids or meth.

    • @kimberlybrown5348
      @kimberlybrown5348 3 месяца назад

      I noticed his face is quite puffy

  • @amberkeller8901
    @amberkeller8901 9 месяцев назад +9

    When K said to Janelle about wanting to kiss her in the lips. Gag. He’s so fake. It is pure maipulation. H thought he’d say something so fake and she’d fall right back in line. Same sincerity as when he told Christine she’d be his princess every day if she moved to Flagstaff. He really thought he had punished J long enough be ignoring her that she’d be crawling back. He’s so emotionally stunted. It has to be sad to grow up and realize you married a total jackass

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад

      I’m sure that’s what pushed these ladies over to the other side. Hope Meri got it

  • @LollyLlama1956
    @LollyLlama1956 9 месяцев назад +3

    How horrible to thing you might have to spend eternity with Kody and Robyn. Run!!! Save your eternal life!

  • @jblkcns
    @jblkcns 9 месяцев назад +2

    He had everything he said he wanted for the family in Vegas but he blew it up and now refuses to take any responsibility for any of it.

  • @Ashakat42
    @Ashakat42 9 месяцев назад +9

    This season has been validating for me personally. My ex did the same "the phone works both ways." It was nice hearing from other adults that that kind of behavior is out of bounds.

    • @CaligoArye
      @CaligoArye 9 месяцев назад +2

      It's validating for me too. When I stopped making the weekly phone calls my dad disappeared from my life. My brother keeps trying to get me to call dad "the phone works both ways" telling me my dad misses me. My dad is the adult. He should call me if he misses me so much.

    • @Ashakat42
      @Ashakat42 9 месяцев назад

      @CaligoArye I'm so sorry that you are going through that. You deserve so much more. Just know that this isn't your fault and there's nothing that you did or could do to make him do better. His behavior is on him. I wish you the very best in life.

  • @jessican4016
    @jessican4016 9 месяцев назад +2

    Kelly Clarkson has a song inspired by her own relationship with her father who neglected her as a child and a line that perfectly sums up Kody's approach/neglect as a father : "Back then I didn't have anything you needed, so I was worthless."
    Savannah has nothing Kody thinks he needs/wants, so she's worthless to him and he feels no obligation to take any part in her life. That's what makes him so evil.

  • @YvonaLive4Love
    @YvonaLive4Love 9 месяцев назад +19

    Once again YOU NAILED IT JAMES !! Kody is such a poor excuse for a man and father !! I really enjoy ur review of these episodes great job 👏🏼 ❤❤❤

  • @surfagirl
    @surfagirl 9 месяцев назад +24

    The more videos of kody I watch the more he reminds me of my dad. Your videos give me hope that there's good dads out there prioritizing their kids

    • @Ruthy101
      @Ruthy101 9 месяцев назад +6

      Honestly as someone without a dad seeing these videos give me a real good paternal/male example!

    • @eringiselle81
      @eringiselle81 9 месяцев назад +1

      @@Ruthy101💯

    • @jcam5064
      @jcam5064 9 месяцев назад +1

      It is insanely comforting to hear a man with this perspective, and common sense.

  • @cherylmcnutt9905
    @cherylmcnutt9905 9 месяцев назад +3

    Don’t think Kody lives in the past as much as he reaches into the past to find examples of better times because he knows he’s screwing up big time!

  • @cathyferran7291
    @cathyferran7291 9 месяцев назад +1

    What is more sad is that Kody doesn't realize he has sacrificed his kids and wives for Robyn due to his ego needing to be stroked

  • @dawnbaker4623
    @dawnbaker4623 9 месяцев назад +30

    All this rage that Kody is showing is to keep the show on so he gets a paycheck. You can always pick up the phone, Kody, and we all know that's not going to happen as when you get mad at the wives, you also get mad at the kids for no reason.

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад +1

      Bc she tells them bad things about him… she’s MEAN! Jeeze..be a man, be a father and show these kids how it is! Don’t let these women have the last word. Man up Kody! Father up! (I don’t believe the wives bad mouth Kody)

    • @jcam5064
      @jcam5064 9 месяцев назад +2

      @@laneneal3510 exactly. The mothers do not bad mouth the father, they acknowledge the basic truth that he is not treating the children well. Imagine a child who is neglected and mistreated by their father being told by the mother how wonderful the dirt bag is. That would be additional trauma to the children.

    • @debeklund8286
      @debeklund8286 9 месяцев назад

      So true, I think the network is playing it out and editing it to really make Cody look ridiculous to boost the ratings, but BUT … can he really be that much of an a-s h-le on his own

  • @avajavanyc
    @avajavanyc 9 месяцев назад +5

    I always loved Janelle, her quiet subtle way is beautiful, it screws with Kody and Robyn, and she handles things patiently, kindly and with great dignity.
    An example of a true blue person, so is Christine.

  • @hotmama0355
    @hotmama0355 9 месяцев назад +2

    Kodie is ONLY a father to kids young enough for him to still control. When they are old enough to disagree and have a real conversation he’s OUT!

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад

      I believe he knows they will see him for what he truly is. He is socially inept, pomp and circumstance

  • @platanoluver
    @platanoluver 9 месяцев назад +11

    Another great video, James. What a genius observation about the bag of money analogy. It's true. There's no excuse at all for Kody to not see Savannah.

  • @DavidJohnson-dc8lu
    @DavidJohnson-dc8lu 9 месяцев назад +3

    Whilst Savannah shouldn't be anywhere near someone who is as toxic as Kody is, TLC shouldn't be filming someone emotionally and physically neglecting their children, it isn't even remotely entertaining, it is disgusting. Again, this is TLC all over, they dumped Colin in some institution and tried to carry on filming Kate plus 8. The network must be ran by crackheads, because anyone decent would pull this show or tell Kody to shape up. He would shape up if he knew who could lose his income.

  • @susanh103
    @susanh103 9 месяцев назад +8

    The only way for Robyn to be on the same playing field as Janelle they have to sell the big house, move out the adult children and give Janelle her home equity back.Totes been looking forward to James' two cents from episode 6. #PopcornTime

  • @katiehammond7845
    @katiehammond7845 9 месяцев назад +7

    Kody reminds me a lot of my dad. He was great until i turned 13 and started to question him. Packed up my stuff in garbage bags and told my mum hes done. Didnt see him again until i was 18.

  • @cathyferran7291
    @cathyferran7291 9 месяцев назад +2

    Kody is a peacock and when no one is adoring him and pumping up his ego he gets mad and basically ghosts his wife due to the fact that he feels they aren't earning favor

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад

      Yep stroke stroke stroke!

  • @sharonallewe7990
    @sharonallewe7990 9 месяцев назад +2

    Kody doesn’t have a job!! He’s such a liar. He’s probably just at Robyn’s house. Or seeing other women.

  • @atlantaborn
    @atlantaborn 9 месяцев назад +2

    Christine is living rent free in Kody’s head.

  • @judykpremier
    @judykpremier 9 месяцев назад +1

    They're not HER children, they're Theirs! But that truly tells what kind of father he's been, everyone calls them hers.

  • @KimberlytheQueen2023
    @KimberlytheQueen2023 9 месяцев назад +4

    And I'm Out

    • @clairemariefergley
      @clairemariefergley 9 месяцев назад

      most iconic video ending ever! We love James ❤

  • @Mari-go5hc
    @Mari-go5hc 9 месяцев назад +2

    Logan got up every morning and made breakfast for his siblings. Kody couldn't even bother to tuck Christines kids in bed while she worked a night job! And Kody doesn't even work!

    • @laneneal3510
      @laneneal3510 9 месяцев назад

      Don’t get me started!😵‍💫

  • @pamfrank3962
    @pamfrank3962 9 месяцев назад +2

    TLC needs to terminate Kody and Robyn not promote them.

  • @djtonja
    @djtonja 9 месяцев назад +2

    He stuttered because that moment was the 1st time he had even thought of Savannah since probably her birthday.
    She wasn't even a blip on his radar, so when Jenelle brought her up he wasn't prepared to defend himself.