(RANT) Why The Hold Kody Had Isn't Strong Enough To Break These Women Apart
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- Опубликовано: 6 июл 2024
- Sorry for the delay but the Flu is still out here kicking butts. I know this because it is kicking mine. LOL
This is a follow up video to the one I posted yesterday regarding Christine and Janelle's relationship. Kody has been the fly in their ointment for yeas. He has successfully made every disagreement an attack on him and "the family." Fortunately, the OG3, specifically Christine and Janelle are no longer playing his game. As a means of control Kody has attempted to strip these women's value. However, they recognize their value and are beginning to seek people who recognize it as well.
Let's have the conversation.
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It’s so odd to me that Kody would throw away his years long belief that Easter celebrations were wrong because he didn’t want Robin to leave FOR A DAY to visit her mom and celebrate. Seems very creepy.
Creepy, pathetic & extremely controlling!!
It is so true what you’re saying about someone settling for you. My first husband settled for me. He thought because I was young, he could mold me into the woman he desired. I could never be the woman he wanted, so he started becoming more and more abusive.
People get angry when I tell them, that he settled for me but he did. They think I am putting myself down but I am not. I am simply acknowledging the fact that I could not be the person that he wanted me to be. He should’ve continue to look for the person he wanted instead of settling for me.
My now (2nd) husband appreciates me for who I am. Which truly is a blessing.
I always hear men say women want to change them. I have not seen that. All I’ve seen is men think that we all have that “make me happy, clean my house and clothes, act like a porn star, cook well, mother me, keep your figure after 3 Kids, and agree with me. Who wants to change who?
I understand. I settled for my husband. I was young. I thought he could be who I expected. He never was. It wasn't that I didn't love or care for him but the intimacy of life, the things that keep you connected sadly wasn't there and got worse over time.
Thank you for pointing out Kody didn't realize those 3 ladies value! They each one had a value that was under appreciated. I hope Janelle & Meri can find someone. 🙏
I don’t think it matters as much to Janelle. Maybe someone in Realty
Or church. Travel with. Meri I can see meeting someone. I hope both those ladies break down their indoctrination so they can feel at ease.
I hope so, too.❤
They will ❤if I did they will ❤
Ok I cannot be alone with thinking that James should either be some type of counselor …. With kids in school or adults especially adults getting out of bad situations… or some type of life coach. He’d be brilliant with that!! I don’t know what the man does for a living but that is deff his calling. He’s got such an amazing way he looks at situations from all angles and being able to logically move forward. I’m just saying I wouldn’t be mad if that was the man that my son went to in school to help him decide where to go to school or what he should be doing, outside of what we discuss at home of course, but you know schools always have the counselors for high school students… I’d request him!! Shit if he was a therapist or something back when I was 18/19 years old getting out of that relationship I was in and being afraid to thinking it would fuck my son up for life not having his parents together THATS the person I would have wanted to go to to help me
I was just thinking that on the last video. Is James a therapist? If he isn’t, he should be.
Totally agree. He’s someone you could count on to be a trusted advisor in life.
Absolutely James would make a great Counselor.
I have been thinking he must be a counselor all along! He definitely knows his stuff
100% commonsense approach to life ❤
That's what I have been saying; Janelle needs to be financially prepared to leave. Plus as petty and immature as Kody is, she has to be careful what she says on camera.
Yes Janelle is a tactful person. When she stated that there has been no "outright abuse" in the relationship - many people would disagree - that could be problematic for Robyn down the line. If Robyn tries to leave Kody and accuse him of mistreatment, there is now camera evidence that his other wives were at one time, comfortable and stable with him.
Yes, Agreed❤
This is what I will NEVER understand. Janelle had User Robyn's number from the get-go. It was obvious to every one of these ladies that Kody was 100% swept away with User Robyn (and he was a user himself). So why on earth did Janelle hand over her money to these two grifters? IT MAKES NO SENSE. She had to know from the moment Robyn became the legal wife, that this would happen. She even said as much to Kody. I guess this was just Janelle being "easy" again. I dunno.
She still believed in Kody and her😢
Her BELIEF SYSTEM aka RELIGION REQUIRED her to stay.😏🌸🫰🏾
@@notnow_stopitagain5800 I don't buy that. She divorced her first husband in spite of her Mormon beliefs. I'm a Baptist. My church does not in any way condone divorce. However, the Baptist Church hadn't gone through the things I had gone through with my first husband. And in no way was my church going to dictate to me whether or not I could divorce him. I think she uses her faith as a way to stay tethered to Kody.
@@becky9103 I agree 100% Janelle uses excuses to stay tethered to Kody because Janelle still wants sex from Kody. I think Janelle is worried that she’ll never get another man as attractive as Kody, simple as that
Totally agree I am not sure why Janelle signed over money for Kody and Robyn for their house I thought Janelle was more sensible then that.
Robyn wants to identify as a polygamist. So Kody strings the rest along so she can.
😂 She needs hormones...
Because she wants other wivesto earn money. And, have other women he can abuse. That way, all she has to do is service her best customer. Robyn's mom taught her how to be a side chick.
Love these video drops, just what I needed. James, you are my therapist. The last thing you said really applies to me, thank-you for telling me that, I will live my life and not care about others opinions of me, that is my biggest problem.
Yes! He is fantastic!!!
I get more valuable insight and advice from James than I got from a therapist I saw for 2 years.
Kody met Meri and wasn't interested, he put her in the back burner said he wanted to be friends, but when he couldn't find anything, he settled for her. Then, for religious reasons, we were looking for another wife. He thought Janelle was cute, but she really didn't care much for a husband. It was a religious transaction. Same thing with Christine it was to rise up the church ladder. So no, he didn't value them. I think that was Christine's thought, but I don't think she told Kody until she got to Flagstaff. But definitely her plan.
Sometimes you need a shoulder to cry on but sometimes you need someone to tell you what's what!
I agree that Christine and Janelle were/are in different places with their perception of their relationship/break ups.
I would add that it took Christine literally 13/15 years to get to the point so she can give Janelle a little more time to catch up for goodness sake. LOL
Christine has literally been getting to this point from the moment Robyn came into the picture whereas Janelle’s spot was more secure for a long time. Christine was literally replaced when Robyn came on to the scene. Before Robyn: Mari was the frst wife; Janelle was the “easy- going, friends with benefits, bring home the money wife; Christine was the youngest, fun to be around , take care of the children, still having babies wife.
Mari will always be the 1st wife, Janelle remained the easy-going, good with money wife until she got an inconvenient RV and dared to defend her kids that grew their own opinions.
Christine lost her role literally as soon as Robyn entered their lives. Robyn was younger, Kody preferred to be around her, she didn’t want Christine to watch her kids, she was still able/willing to provide babies. Christine tried to rationalize, accept, understand etc for a LONG time and it took years for her to finally come to terms with the fact that she isn’t the problem Kody’s lack of love for her is.
It is INDEED a PROCESS to leave a marriage…
Christen needs to REMEMBER just how long it took her to walk away if she wants to be a GOOD sister wife & afford some GRACE to Janell…
imo.😉🌸🫰🏾
Christine and Robyn are the same age.
@@borountree4539 google says Robyn 45, Christine 51, Mari 52, Janelle 54, Kody 54. The show had always described Robyn as 10 years younger.
James, Janelle straight up told Christine like 2 seasons ago to secure her 💵 💵 before she leaves. I don't remember which one revealed it last season. Janelle makes no sense what she's done to herself financially especially having gave that advice. She's on the same absurd fool scale as Meri at this point. What happened to her "separate account don't share with Kody" that she said when they were on stage at the college?? Edit: Janelle also admitted early this season she never minded all the money, houses, etc etc Robyn got. Umm what?!
😳😳🥴😵💫
She didn't mind what R had as long as she got what was promised. Ungrateful KB & R.
Their day is coming.
Excited for the lives, definitely keep up these pre-recorded opinion videos up so that we don't lose these amazing takes
Awesome to see you, James! Yes, yes, yes to the lives! Still THE "REAL REALITY" MAN!
Thank you for saying these things. I think people are being too hard on Janelle over her staying or leaving Kody. 30 years of your life, regardless of how bad the marriage was/is, is a huge part of your life and starting over at 50+ isn't easy.
A live would be awesome! Looking forward to chatting with all you excellent folks 💛
I also think that the producers are having them sit around and honestly knowing this family .. they’re probably telling Christine to talk about this and that. However I do hope that they don’t allow the show and Kody to get in between their friendship because though it may have started out as a “situation-ship” as James calls it, they’ve developed a real friendship and a mutual respect for each other
Yes. Janelle and Christine don’t let TLC ruin you guys!
Koty said the OG3 were a situation. Did he include the OG13? Situationships by the Kotycoaster 😂
I would love to see the OG3 build on the land. They could make them vacation homes and bring their future husbands and kids too. They would be so PO’d 😂
I LOVE a James rant! You make my day!
Excited for your Lives! I'm glad you're feeling better. Everyone Have a Wonderful weekend!
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Hope you feel better soon James! Love your rants and all of it, you should go live with your audience and then we can KIKi with you live it would be hilarious💕💕💕💕
My heart breaks for Janelle. She doesn’t deserve what Kody and Robyn are doing to her and her kids.
As for Coyote Pass, at the time of filming that was definitely a factor I’m sure. As of now she has helped pay off multiple lots that are now only in her and Kody’s names.
Question: even tho Robyn’s name is not on the lots, does the fact that Robyn is Kody’s legal wife mean she still has a claim on the land if Robyn would later divorce Kody? If Robyn ends up divorcing Kody, could Robyn walk away with the property in a divorce settlement leaving Janelle nothing despite Janelle’s name (and money) being on the deed(s)?
@@JMP829 that’s the million dollar question! Arizona is a community property state, so even though her name is not on the property, we don’t know what legal rights she still holds. 🤷🏻♀️
@@craftilady , thanks for info. That was my impression too
@@JMP829 she can claim whatever is Kody's. Janelle, being on the deed, would still be entitled to her portion. If that happened, a judge would likely force sale or make them pay her the value of hers. Janelle's name being on the deeds means Janelle owns hers. Kody owns his, by default his legal wife robin can lay claim to anything of his.
@@dixiehopson2818 , thank u for your answer!
Janelle called it friends with benefits.
YESS!!! Let’s all get together and do a live reaction / watch party 🎉🎉🎉
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I will watch anything you do. Lives or whatever. I’m here for it!
I just want your unfiltered take on everything! A live will be great- I hope I can make it
Christine needs to shut her mouth and stay out of Janelle's relationship. Let Janelle figure it out.
Oh James you having a live after the show would be awesome. And so many have channels that cover the Brown's and other reality shows. You would get the scoop and you know we would absolutely love talking with you after the show. You would be fresh from the show and have the on the spot fire about the craziness. We love you giving us your views because we all have almost the same feelings and fire over the craziness. Looking forward to a live Sunday night
Janelle , Meri and Christine need a REALLY GOOD LAWYER. So they can get back what they have worked for over the years.Surely the show could something for them.
I'm glad that Christine had a house. Being a stay at home mother doesn't garner a paycheck. Janelle said in earlier seasons she'd rather be out working than be at home with the kids. Being a stay at home & and working from home, mom, you don't leave work your 24/7. Although Janelle contributed financially, she trusted kody. Christine peeped game and said in season 1 I feel like he's leaving his family behind. And you can't fulfill emotions
So glad you are back!!!! I was looking for a video from you just yesterday! Hope you are fully recovered!
Can’t wait to see your live reaction!
LIVES! Yessir!! I wait for your reactions, and catching your real time less-filtered takes would be awesome! Exciting 🎉
Yepp! I Prefer Listening to you then I never have to listen to Ko-Tea and/or Sobyn the Robyn. Thank goodness for you!
Janell never thought she would leave but she is the person who told Christine to get herself in a good financial space So janelle just didn’t take her own advice
James, you are the best Sister Wives commentator on RUclips! Excited for your live!
Excited for the lives! Love your content! You don't miss anything brother!
Glad to see you're feeling better, James!
I’m glad you spoke about their value. I also noticed the similarities between the one house and what Darger wanted for his next home. I’ll probably be in the replay crew for the live. Looking forward to it.
Thank u Mr.James for starting the lives !! So looking forward to them I am retired and 66 and I am so glad that I can listen to someone these days that grew up in the same era and years that I did.u are a wonderful
Person and explains it like it is.
Thank you so much !!
Lives! Yes, please!🎉
I would love to see a live reaction! That would be so fun!❤ Bring out those receipts on the live wire!🎉
Yeah he doesn't care if he's loved he wants LOYALTY and RESPECT.
Obedience
Compliance not
Defiance ...kooter
I agree I've always thought Janelle was trying to get some of her money back before leaving Kody...
But surely Christine is only talking to Janelle about leaving Kody in front of camera for TLC obligations? We've seen them on their social media having fun off-roading, hiking, cooking together, visiting Disney etc when I'm sure Kody's name didn't even come up once. Christine in reality is probably sick of talking about Kody but TLC needs content with her and Janelle for the show & they think fans want to hear the ladies talking about the Kody 'situation'. Janelle isn't ditching Christine anytime soon. Their friendship has a strong history long before their situation with Kody went bad.
At the time Christine was telling Janelle to leave Kody, she had offered to have her move in with her! So Janelle would have been taken care of financially and had a play to live with her kids.
Actually, it was the other half of a duplex she was living in. Janelle would have to pay rent.
OH!! Thank you for clarifying that!@@tonicarter5444
Yes, please do a live after the show. I enjoy your views.
'most likely the young lady broke up with them let's keep it real' LOL 🤣🤣🤣
Good show tonight, James. Lots to think about!😊
You're so good. Happy to be here from the beginning, you're my favorite SW reaction channel by far.
Mine too.
Kody treated all of the OG 3 with indifference, they presented viable businesses to him in Vegas with a business plan and he never entertained it, Robyn tells him of her dream to have a jewelry line and he is all on board, even after investment experts told him it would be hard to do, he was thinking with his heart (or lust) and not with his head, the business bombed but family money was used, the family's money paid for the plastic surgery to fix Dayton's eye and scars, yet he had the nerve to accuse Ysable of caring about looks when it came to a 50% curve in her spine, Kody is not the man he thinks he is, he is a horrible one.
I want Janelle and Meri demand Kody withdraw equity from the mansion to pay them back.
I know this is off subject but I just need to write to get it out of my head……. Christine had to raise money to pay for Isabelle’s surgery and Kody is sitting in the McMansion with thousands of dollars of art on his walls, roll x watches on Robyn and his arm, matching horse and donkey wedding rings, dirt bikes, 4 wheelers, new trucks, sports cars…… where is the fear of God’s wrath!!!! the “I DONT CARE ABOUT YOU(spirit wives and their kids) ATTITUDE” really is so far gone from WHAT WOULD OUR GOD DO……. Kody IS NOT A Godly man and NO ONE SHOULD EVER FOLLOW HIM because he would lead each and every one of you off a cliff and stand there and be happy with his accomplishments…..!!!!!!!!!! I’m trying not to wish hell on him, I really am trying not to!!! PLEASE GET HIM OFF TELEVISION = Tell-a-lie
CANT WAIT! See you live!!!
Excellent take, James. Thank uou for hitting so many points right on the head!
I’ve heard it said, that unlike women, men rarely marry for love. Instead, they marry the woman who is available when they are ready. Do you think this is true?
I’m looking forward to lives.
No. I think people are different. Not all men or all women share the same motives
Men marry mommies. Or they’re mature and marry like m😅need to have a prosperous family.
17:14 ❤ I love the Story and the comparison between the subject matter about the Wives. James you hit another Home Run! 🎉
I’ve never tried a live , but I’m there ! I’ll Set up my notifications!
I would love to see that live on Sunday James!
Heck yes I can't wait til you go live, and we could all live chat together!! 🎉 🍿 🍿 Idk if you could do it as it airs, or how about on Mondays? Please keep doing these prerecorded videos too if you can!
Always enjoy your content and always learn something.
Living with the real world consequences is exactly what people need to remember when offering advice to another. I'm in a situation that I can't leave because of finances. I literally cannot afford to go. When a close friend flippantly told me to "just leave" as if it would be a piece of cake I looked at her and asked if she planned to give me the money to do so. Then I thanked her for her generosity. She went silent as a church mouse & never gave me her "free advice" again.
Love the expression “flat pockets”!!
Hope you're feeling better, James!
Man, he told the world on national TV that he was not attracted to Christine when they wed, Janelle had a good settlement from her divorce from Adam( Meri's Brother), she had a house and a good job + money. HE married Christine for her religious clout, her grandfather was who started the AUB.
Yes , Christine needs to reign it in a bit....But she is not being villainous ....what she is saying , is done with love
Doubt I will get to watch sister wives tomorrow but am really looking forward to you going live!
Nice shirt! Royal blue is my favorite!
Yup! Kody didn’t care about his first three wives. That’s why he always said “no” to what they wanted. Then little miss Robyn walks in and everything changes.
Omg, James! The entire situation is just sickening! I hope the show is cancelled
Love to see your commentary live!
He wanted to build a commune. This man wants to run a group of people to follow him. All of his kids and wife’s have split.
Looking forward to your live
Sessions. Always enjoy your perspective and insight.
For once, Robyn should have heard NO! I don't get it. Janelle knew she was funding Robyn's high-end lifestyle while she was a friend with benefits. Why didn't she tell Kody/Robyn uh no, I need my money this time. I need a home and I have 6 kids who may need help. Kody sure as hell won't help.
Not the polygamist party town 😂😂😂 going to the club just picking up polygamists 💀💀💀💀💀 wise and a riot. I like that in people
James, you are wonderful
Yes please on the live episode.
I wish Christine had sold her part of coyote pass to Janelle instead of Kody and Robyn.
Get well soon my friend!! Wooooooh! Content Two days in a row 😊! Much needed
Yes, lives please and thank you!
Of course if you build it I will come, I can't imagine a better after show than one you would do. I will watch out for it.
That’s a message we ALL need James. Thank you!
I’d pay large amounts of money to see you go head to head with Kody in a debate. Keep up the good work!
This was so incredibly well done!!!!
You are so right on & say it right on!!!
I wish you could say this to them and the kids!!!
You say what I wish I could, so I THANK YOU!!!
Keep up thee work! You need to get your Head Shrink Lis.
SUPER EXCITED to see your FIRST live! Been waiting for this for a while! Let's get it!
Well said!!
I have a soul mate friendship. But she and I are not the same politically or religiously. But she Knows me, she supports me, she loves me and the most caring person I know. And visa versa. So it’s possible
Yay, so glad your finally going live. Would really enjoy a live reaction as well😊
Excited to see ur live!!
I'm so excited for you to do a Live! I really hope it's at a time when I can participate and I get the notification. I have my notifications for your channel set to "All", but we all know how RUclips can be sometimes. lol #HBOspecial
I am excited for your Live reaction!
Just heard on a post cast that Kody was responsible for Dayton’s 4-wheeler accident and that one of the older boys found Dayton and this is probably why Kody doesn’t want the older boys around because they could tell the truth. Robin covered it up on TLC.
Yes! Looking forward to seeing you go live!
Yes yes yes LIVE!!!!
Love the analogy of worth ❤
Value, appreciate Your Take James 💜
As usual you are100% spot on James!!!
Yass can't wait to see you react live!
Love to see you go live 😊