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That's problematic when it's paired with introverted feeling as then a person helps (especially an INFJ) but ends up trying to do everything because the ISFP will let them.

My love is an ISFP, she focuses on what is relevant and slows down my ENFP restlessness and helps me focus on Si more, because I become more sensing around her. Honestly I have never been more happy. It’s really perfect for me. I always check in with her, and constantly dote over her, with backrubs, I make her coffee in the morning when she wakes and take it to her, I am very aware of her needs. I like that she appreciates my attention.

11:20 the emotion intp women have is anxiety about not seeming emotional enough/ parroting the right emotion. If we were emotionally reactive to everyone, it would probably be anxiety. Ti helps us get a grip and get through our day.

7:53 if we're making a case, it's because we respect your reasoning skills

7:00 ok, so I won't remember to do it without knowing why. The explanation helps me form a memory. I can't remember random things. I need a pattern.

Reasons are hard to put into words or subconscious for ISFP the way feelings are for INTP. 5:20

Ne makes me feel paranoid about others intentions and feel like my girlfriend is cheating on me etc.

So helpful!!!

It quite literally is personal. What you dont seem to understand is that anyone fi first or second so we are talking isfp infp enfp and esfp are narcissists. Not the evil kind, not the estp competitive ego driven narcissist but the flower narcissists. All of you are so obsessed with yourselves that you literally have no idea anyone else exists. You thonk you do only to stroke your narcissistic need to be good but nonebof you are in reality anything other thant totally self absorbed by definition. But i promise you are too self driven to even admit thos is a true fact proven y everything you ever say on all your videos. This is not to insult you as much as to just point out the fact that if you do not want to communicate with anyone it is most definitely personal and aleays will be as obvious logic, that no isfp has, would state. Its your mere inability to do logic and understand reality that keep you in denial. Its called navel gazing.

“I just hit 50 subs” I then check and you have 2k. Congrats man! 😁

I hope you keep up your amazing series! It is so helpful. 😊 As for your question: As an ISFP, I separate art from the artist who creates it. I feel that the best art transports us from our everyday opinions and touches a deeper sense of the human condition that we all share. When an artist has a narrow ax to grind and they try to turn it into an artwork, it generally results in inferior fine art. It becomes propaganda with a limited pallette of emotion and imagination. Some examples of the sensation of transportation for us Se folks: 1) Rage Against the Machine is an incredible punk band. They are also Anarchists. Yet, both major political parties here in the US have tried to use their songs for rallies. Rage taps into a visceral angst that we can all understand. They transport us away from our ideologies and towards a shared catharsis. 2) Imagine the Harry Potter series as one long anti-trans screed, all 7 books of it - Yikes! It would not be the same beloved series. JK Rowling taps into a much more imaginitive part of herself when she writes. She literally transports us by train to a magical realm. -- And yet, if an artist (or anyone really) does something truly heinous, I would be less inclined to purchase their work and financially support them. I think your ENFJ friend is contending with the moral dilemma of the commercial relationship. She may be emotionally pulling away from an artist that she does not want to support. I imagine Fe, Ne or Te could conflate the commercial relationship with the quality of the artwork.

Thank you for your videos. As an INTP I find your explanations clear and easy to understand.

I've trouble asking for help, mostly bc in my mind I feel like no other person can do this task in the way i want it to be done. i just end up being disappointed but I also don't wanna sound rude so i give them fake compliments but internally I'm crying and pissed at myself own incompetentce

Well explained, thanks.

@6:25 for the INTJs in a rush. Good point - nails it for me...

Just love how honest and to the point this guy is. The part about how people automatically dislike an an artist song because of their thoughts, political views,ideologies etc is overly critical to me like who has time to be invested in someone’s life like that,like good gosh that’s exhausting if I like the song I’m just going to enjoy it because I do.

Interesting. I'm an enfp binge watching your videos. I happen to be entering a relationship with an isfp male and whilst I resisted at first we just seem to feel so at ease around each other and enjoying one another company. We're literally around each other round the clock wherever possible, him initiating and pushing for it. Couple of things I've loved is the physical touch and being of service love language we share. I gain so much insight just looking at his facial expressions, feel so much affection in his touch etc and it feels very intimate. I usually feel threatened by se in a relationship as I equate it with thrill seeking that potentially threaten fidelity, but the way I've found it plays out with my isfp is him being physically attuned and attentive to my needs in the moment which I find super endearing. He's making a real effort demonstrating his dedication and devotion to me I'm feeling less threatened by se but rather enjoy our ne se adventure seeing ways when doing things together. My only gripe is him being hard to read not thinking out loud or expressing his emotions readily. I myself being all about authenticity and letting it hang being an open book find it refreshing not to have to second guess people but them being just as open with me. He's trying to open up and express more but I suspect it would go against his nature. Perhaps with me gaining more insight into his personality would be able to be ok with him keeping some stuff to himself expressing it only when he finds appropriate and/or necessary. I find I tune into him alot, watch for micro expressions and we can't keep our hands off each other, an aspect of the dynamic or duo that I'm really enjoying. I happen to be sx/sp and lower in the exrraverted spectrum and less social and more intense than a typical enfp, and often can appear infp like. Haven't applied any consideration to this as part of the equation and how it might alter the experience in this particular typology pair up. Any insights would be very much appreciated. Thank you for making videos that enable us to gain more insight into isfp personality types, of which there are little out there.

I can relate to this video to a lot.I have cuttoff like 95%people (relative's family)from my and my family life after i lost my father and realised i just become a person who is angery holds grudges to an extent that even thinking about their names or by mistakle seeing their profile pics gives me back trauma and my life where they messed up with my mental health flashes right in my mind .But i have this kind of behaviour for only this particular set of people who are just theirto humiliate me and my family and i did everything in my control cause my mental health and peace matters the most and now when they call for ritual sake of asking how we are doing and digging our life and making us sad i am turing my filght mode on as cant delete contact as i dont ever by mistakely pick up an unknown number call which i might endup recieving from them.and i recrntly met one of those people i just avioded even eye contact and ignored but my face lol showed how i feel about them 😂

Thumbs up from an ENFP

I wonder what the correlation is between Ne and ADHD.

Most INTP encounters i have with male and female are quite similar in the fact that we are humans 😅 but no- some things like them being geeky and me being stylish... Is strange but cool??? At the same time i have no idea, i don't mind them tbh but if they hurt my fucking values... Oh boy.

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I am an isfp woman and feel very validated - i am so naturally observant of what is around me (aesthically as well) & can't help but notice what another may need. I sometimes felt foolish since those around me just didn't see these things.

I'm pretty sure those close minded peopleonline might have been typed wrong

I'm an intp and its kind of weird to me when someone can't come up with reasons forwhy they do things the way they do...im just now starting to understand that people come at hings differently. And a lot of times logic isn't even in the mix. People are so hard to figure out and I'm surtounded by feelers who like to tellvme im wrong but have no good reason why im erong and won't listen to my teasons why I'm not

My children have been who they were since literally the womb.... behaved completely different in their kicking/grinding/moving about. This tabula rasa idea only takes hold in people who have limited experience of children and perhaps few siblings. And Marxists. I'm 90% certain one of my sons is an ISFP. The other one is 100% an ENTP. (I'm an INFJ).

My bf is an isfp and definitely has this. I've learned I have to disengage until he's rational again unfortunately.

I’m only hearing positives

INTJ, here. We jump to conclusions and make ungrounded assumptions a lot. We read between the lines early on but we don't use Se to fill in the gaps with concrete information. We use Fi or for INFJ using Ti to make the assumption/conclusion make sense and seem absolute. Once we officially come to said conclusion, we're stubborn and rigid on being open-minded/optimistic to some extent. It's hard to accept facts and concrete proof when we're dead set.

True words, i never thought after trying jobs in finance, teaching and bpo i would love the job of a real estate agent. The simple nature of the job is what attracts me, Good money for the deserving hardworking people here. You never know what job you'd like. As an isfp you gotta try your luck as soon as possible in as many jobs.

Thanks for the video! It was really insightful.

Thank you for your videos. I find them very valueable and I recommend them to people that can benefit from them. Keep up your channel so more people can benefit from your perspective.

Holy shit this is so familiar

I refer to mine as my "demon" who rears its ugly head from time to time. Mostly it comes out when I'm exhausted, especially if ive had too much alcohol and have been in a rough mental space. It's 100% present if I ever black out - not to say I'm an alcoholic - it's easy for me to pass my limit as a petite woman and friends have described my demon to me in shock. Although some people think its hilarious, because it can manifest as a beast of just being 100% over everything, honest, frank and brutal. I always apologise sincerely to all that bear the brunt of it. I have experienced the rage sober too, but it comes out in bursts and I do tend to either squash it into sadness or to repress it even more and I find ways to mask my rage or "hide out" from others when it happens. I'm 29. I'm beginning to think that my demon exists from years of repressing negative emotions. As an isfp I too have always avoided conflict at all costs, and I believe there is a price to pay for always playing the cool and calm demeanor. I try to see the best in people and have paid the price of being too loving and tolerant by being wounded by those I love the most. I'm becoming more balanced as I age, and I try to communicate more effectively (something I have struggled with mostly in situations that require in depth communication of emotions like serious relationships) but have always and still do feel deeply misunderstood. It causes this deeply repressed ugly demon to thrive. Also the more trauma that accumulates, the uglier it seems to get. All this to say, unless you know me super well or have seen me black out drunk, you would never know it's there. I also lean on spirituality. After my last 'incident' I thought, maybe I need to integrate this "shadow" side of me. I try to not judge it now, and although I am all too familiar with the associated shame, I'm getting better at forgiving myself because I know it doesn't define me, and I know I can help it heal. It's a journey. Thanks for posting this, didn't mean to get heavy. I was looking for some answers and so much makes sense when I consider my cognitive stack haha!

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I think a method has been realized that might help humanity get closer to it's true potential. Which seems to be the purpose for the INFP. The method goes as follows: Combine- - maintained focus on a repeated sound and image only in your mind - breathe full and steady inhales/exhales only through the nose - allow the physical sensations of challenging emotions to fully run their course, if you can when they arise, to help process them -avoid expectations from the process - it helps to practice about five minutes every few hours It's free and pretty easy. You might find it to be effective

I'm still not sure of my type, but I prefer to separate the art from the artist. I also like creating art and I don't tend to create it with any "meaning" or even emotions behind it. I just tend to have a cool idea or vibe and I want to get it out of my system and share it with other people.

This was really well put together, concrete and with examples. Thank you for you explanation 👍

I am drawn to ISFP's for sure and I always feel like a comedian around you guys - You bring out the raw funny in me :)

You are explaining things so clear and thoroughly. You really should have more viewers (I know it's not about that but you deserve to be heard by many). Having a sensor explaining personality theory is making a huge difference in the clarity of the message. A majority of the channels on this topic are made by intuitors and their way of explaining is sometimes overly complex (at least to me as a sensor).

How does consuming energy effect speed of processing new information? I really wish I didn't install tiktok, it's been 6 months and my brain is still 'recalibrating' from loops and loops of information. Ive been mistyped from ENFP to INFJ to INFP and finally ISFP - I really resonate with the things said and I'm happy that I was able to sort of prove it to myself, since I spoke with a friend two days ago about how I thought I 'broke' my brain (and 4 months ago) - I mentioned how I liked experiencing thing with people more than sharing beliefs. I worry that if she hadn't reminded me of what 'emotional intelligence' was and how we come from different backgrounds then I would never been able to rip myself out of whatever stress or grip I had. Also, even though I've typed a lot I think 'blast' is my weakest energy, as I don't actually like talking as much as I like evaluating situations and scenarios, as well as experiencing things. I'm just so relieved that I'm finally coming back from that hell

(INFJ preference) In regards to music artists' lifestyle or involvement in scandals, it doesn't really stop me from liking their music and listening to it. Their music has helped me get through some rough parts of my life so I don't think I would hate them from knowing these things. You can also evaluate based off of technical merit as well-some types of skills or talents that not everyone can produce. I enjoy songs with lots of layers (melody, harmony, bass, other instruments, drums) so I can discover more layers on re-listening. For the songs I like I usually get an earworm and start looking up the lyrics and meaning soon after so I can sing along in my free time (Jpop and Kpop), which may add or detract from my enjoyment of the song. Though I'd have no problem listening to the songs alone, I might be more consciencious of playing certain songs aloud in certain groups (children, someone who might take offense) and provide disclaimer before doing so (Fe trait?).

As a entp, i do both.. even if someone says game of thrones was amazing.. it depends

Sir, what is your Enneagram type though?

Spot on

That’s very I’m an INTJ. My Ni never shuts off. Mom - ENTJ, ESFP - dad, and grandma - ISFP all have the same functions but different order