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Interesting. I'm an enfp binge watching your videos. I happen to be entering a relationship with an isfp male and whilst I resisted at first we just seem to feel so at ease around each other and enjoying one another company. We're literally around each other round the clock wherever possible, him initiating and pushing for it. Couple of things I've loved is the physical touch and being of service love language we share. I gain so much insight just looking at his facial expressions, feel so much affection in his touch etc and it feels very intimate. I usually feel threatened by se in a relationship as I equate it with thrill seeking that potentially threaten fidelity, but the way I've found it plays out with my isfp is him being physically attuned and attentive to my needs in the moment which I find super endearing. He's making a real effort demonstrating his dedication and devotion to me I'm feeling less threatened by se but rather enjoy our ne se adventure seeing ways when doing things together. My only gripe is him being hard to read not thinking out loud or expressing his emotions readily. I myself being all about authenticity and letting it hang being an open book find it refreshing not to have to second guess people but them being just as open with me. He's trying to open up and express more but I suspect it would go against his nature. Perhaps with me gaining more insight into his personality would be able to be ok with him keeping some stuff to himself expressing it only when he finds appropriate and/or necessary. I find I tune into him alot, watch for micro expressions and we can't keep our hands off each other, an aspect of the dynamic or duo that I'm really enjoying. I happen to be sx/sp and lower in the exrraverted spectrum and less social and more intense than a typical enfp, and often can appear infp like. Haven't applied any consideration to this as part of the equation and how it might alter the experience in this particular typology pair up. Any insights would be very much appreciated. Thank you for making videos that enable us to gain more insight into isfp personality types, of which there are little out there.

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I can relate to this video to a lot.I have cuttoff like 95%people (relative's family)from my and my family life after i lost my father and realised i just become a person who is angery holds grudges to an extent that even thinking about their names or by mistakle seeing their profile pics gives me back trauma and my life where they messed up with my mental health flashes right in my mind .But i have this kind of behaviour for only this particular set of people who are just theirto humiliate me and my family and i did everything in my control cause my mental health and peace matters the most and now when they call for ritual sake of asking how we are doing and digging our life and making us sad i am turing my filght mode on as cant delete contact as i dont ever by mistakely pick up an unknown number call which i might endup recieving from them.and i recrntly met one of those people i just avioded even eye contact and ignored but my face lol showed how i feel about them 😂

Thumbs up from an ENFP

I wonder what the correlation is between Ne and ADHD.

Most INTP encounters i have with male and female are quite similar in the fact that we are humans 😅 but no- some things like them being geeky and me being stylish... Is strange but cool??? At the same time i have no idea, i don't mind them tbh but if they hurt my fucking values... Oh boy.

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I am an isfp woman and feel very validated - i am so naturally observant of what is around me (aesthically as well) & can't help but notice what another may need. I sometimes felt foolish since those around me just didn't see these things.

I'm pretty sure those close minded peopleonline might have been typed wrong

I'm an intp and its kind of weird to me when someone can't come up with reasons forwhy they do things the way they do...im just now starting to understand that people come at hings differently. And a lot of times logic isn't even in the mix. People are so hard to figure out and I'm surtounded by feelers who like to tellvme im wrong but have no good reason why im erong and won't listen to my teasons why I'm not

My children have been who they were since literally the womb.... behaved completely different in their kicking/grinding/moving about. This tabula rasa idea only takes hold in people who have limited experience of children and perhaps few siblings. And Marxists. I'm 90% certain one of my sons is an ISFP. The other one is 100% an ENTP. (I'm an INFJ).

My bf is an isfp and definitely has this. I've learned I have to disengage until he's rational again unfortunately.

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INTJ, here. We jump to conclusions and make ungrounded assumptions a lot. We read between the lines early on but we don't use Se to fill in the gaps with concrete information. We use Fi or for INFJ using Ti to make the assumption/conclusion make sense and seem absolute. Once we officially come to said conclusion, we're stubborn and rigid on being open-minded/optimistic to some extent. It's hard to accept facts and concrete proof when we're dead set.

True words, i never thought after trying jobs in finance, teaching and bpo i would love the job of a real estate agent. The simple nature of the job is what attracts me, Good money for the deserving hardworking people here. You never know what job you'd like. As an isfp you gotta try your luck as soon as possible in as many jobs.

Thanks for the video! It was really insightful.

Thank you for your videos. I find them very valueable and I recommend them to people that can benefit from them. Keep up your channel so more people can benefit from your perspective.

Holy shit this is so familiar

I refer to mine as my "demon" who rears its ugly head from time to time. Mostly it comes out when I'm exhausted, especially if ive had too much alcohol and have been in a rough mental space. It's 100% present if I ever black out - not to say I'm an alcoholic - it's easy for me to pass my limit as a petite woman and friends have described my demon to me in shock. Although some people think its hilarious, because it can manifest as a beast of just being 100% over everything, honest, frank and brutal. I always apologise sincerely to all that bear the brunt of it. I have experienced the rage sober too, but it comes out in bursts and I do tend to either squash it into sadness or to repress it even more and I find ways to mask my rage or "hide out" from others when it happens. I'm 29. I'm beginning to think that my demon exists from years of repressing negative emotions. As an isfp I too have always avoided conflict at all costs, and I believe there is a price to pay for always playing the cool and calm demeanor. I try to see the best in people and have paid the price of being too loving and tolerant by being wounded by those I love the most. I'm becoming more balanced as I age, and I try to communicate more effectively (something I have struggled with mostly in situations that require in depth communication of emotions like serious relationships) but have always and still do feel deeply misunderstood. It causes this deeply repressed ugly demon to thrive. Also the more trauma that accumulates, the uglier it seems to get. All this to say, unless you know me super well or have seen me black out drunk, you would never know it's there. I also lean on spirituality. After my last 'incident' I thought, maybe I need to integrate this "shadow" side of me. I try to not judge it now, and although I am all too familiar with the associated shame, I'm getting better at forgiving myself because I know it doesn't define me, and I know I can help it heal. It's a journey. Thanks for posting this, didn't mean to get heavy. I was looking for some answers and so much makes sense when I consider my cognitive stack haha!

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I think a method has been realized that might help humanity get closer to it's true potential. Which seems to be the purpose for the INFP. The method goes as follows: Combine- - maintained focus on a repeated sound and image only in your mind - breathe full and steady inhales/exhales only through the nose - allow the physical sensations of challenging emotions to fully run their course, if you can when they arise, to help process them -avoid expectations from the process - it helps to practice about five minutes every few hours It's free and pretty easy. You might find it to be effective

I'm still not sure of my type, but I prefer to separate the art from the artist. I also like creating art and I don't tend to create it with any "meaning" or even emotions behind it. I just tend to have a cool idea or vibe and I want to get it out of my system and share it with other people.

This was really well put together, concrete and with examples. Thank you for you explanation 👍

I am drawn to ISFP's for sure and I always feel like a comedian around you guys - You bring out the raw funny in me :)

You are explaining things so clear and thoroughly. You really should have more viewers (I know it's not about that but you deserve to be heard by many). Having a sensor explaining personality theory is making a huge difference in the clarity of the message. A majority of the channels on this topic are made by intuitors and their way of explaining is sometimes overly complex (at least to me as a sensor).

How does consuming energy effect speed of processing new information? I really wish I didn't install tiktok, it's been 6 months and my brain is still 'recalibrating' from loops and loops of information. Ive been mistyped from ENFP to INFJ to INFP and finally ISFP - I really resonate with the things said and I'm happy that I was able to sort of prove it to myself, since I spoke with a friend two days ago about how I thought I 'broke' my brain (and 4 months ago) - I mentioned how I liked experiencing thing with people more than sharing beliefs. I worry that if she hadn't reminded me of what 'emotional intelligence' was and how we come from different backgrounds then I would never been able to rip myself out of whatever stress or grip I had. Also, even though I've typed a lot I think 'blast' is my weakest energy, as I don't actually like talking as much as I like evaluating situations and scenarios, as well as experiencing things. I'm just so relieved that I'm finally coming back from that hell

(INFJ preference) In regards to music artists' lifestyle or involvement in scandals, it doesn't really stop me from liking their music and listening to it. Their music has helped me get through some rough parts of my life so I don't think I would hate them from knowing these things. You can also evaluate based off of technical merit as well-some types of skills or talents that not everyone can produce. I enjoy songs with lots of layers (melody, harmony, bass, other instruments, drums) so I can discover more layers on re-listening. For the songs I like I usually get an earworm and start looking up the lyrics and meaning soon after so I can sing along in my free time (Jpop and Kpop), which may add or detract from my enjoyment of the song. Though I'd have no problem listening to the songs alone, I might be more consciencious of playing certain songs aloud in certain groups (children, someone who might take offense) and provide disclaimer before doing so (Fe trait?).

As a entp, i do both.. even if someone says game of thrones was amazing.. it depends

Sir, what is your Enneagram type though?

Spot on

That’s very I’m an INTJ. My Ni never shuts off. Mom - ENTJ, ESFP - dad, and grandma - ISFP all have the same functions but different order

My sister is an isfp i am an enfp. She has made that comment to me too, because i was concerned that my lamenting was bringing her down. She says I never drain her energy even if im distraught and complaining about it to her. She is always my shoulder to cry on, too, which I am always so grateful for.❤

Holy shit! I think I have been unknowingly unlocking my Se function. This is my 8th function because I identify as an ENFP now as an adult. As a child, I was more of an INFJ, and when I'm alone for long enough, I start to process information as an INFJ. But recently, after being single for a year after a 16-year relationship with an INTJ ended. I notice myself showing love by seeing how I can help others in real time and immediately in my environment. I washed my cousins trash can, changed a light bulb, washed others' dishes, threw out trash, and always picked up after myself before I left a room. Is that Se?

It might because of the lead Judging function (Fi) and the inferior Te that goes along with it, combined with the ISTP's lack of Te making them less plan oriented, as practicaltyping says. Someone thought I might be ISFP, but I've been typed Si-dom since. Someone said ISTJ and someone else said ISFJ. Even my e-friend who typed me ISFP wondered if I might be ISFJ, but said I seem to lead with Fi. Maybe I'm ii/ee FiSiNeTe.

Thank you for the insight. 👌🏽I’ve always been fascinated by ISFP’s so Im very interested in learning how to not repulse them

Correct! I tried to force me doing certain things. The result was devastating to me.

ISTJ here. I can easily separate the art from the artist and can still enjoy their art even if I disapprove of how they act as a person. As a sensing type, I find that art needs to appeal to my senses in some way. The deeper, underlying meaning behind the art is less important to me. However, a message I do resonate with is a nice added bonus. Now if it's the case of buying products from a company known to exploit its workers, if I can I will try to get the product elsewhere. But if that company is the only one to make that product or sells it for considerably cheaper, I'd probably continue to buy from them. Maybe I'm hypocritical that way. I would guess that lead Fi types would be most inclined to dislike the art if they disliked the artist as a person behind the work. But this is just a general tendency, doesn’t fit all lead Fi types and I know other types who will cancel certain artists based on bad morals.

I don’t really think sensing and intuition play much of a role in this situation. There might be tendencies one way or another but I don’t think Sensing or Intuition have a clear dividing between them. I like a song if I agree with the lyrics or if the music sounds delicious. I think my Fi is the discerning factor. -A Fellow ISFP

Great discussion in this video. As an INTP, I've found that I can distinctly separate the art from the artist and even appreciate art whose message I disagree with. For instance, despite being Taiwanese, I can appreciate Chinese communist propaganda posters. Even though these posters promote messages about invading Taiwan-a stance I obviously don't support-the artistic process behind them fascinates me. I'm intrigued by the motives and systematic decisions that go into their creation; the choice of colors, words, strokes, and characters all reflect a specific intent and system of communication. To me, understanding this underlying structure and what drove the artist to create in such a manner is what really captivates my interest. It's more about exploring the architecture of thought and propaganda through art rather than agreeing with its message.

I enjoyed hearing your thoughts. For me the biggest person that I wrestle with this concerning is Ryan Adams. It is well-documented that he is not the best person (including a whole NY Times expose) but his music has meant so much to me. I can't stop loving the music I connected with in the past. But every time I support him going forward I really struggle with it. Part of my wrestling with this, too, is my belief in redemption for those who attempt to turn their lives around. It is a complex issue.

I'm ISFP and for most of what you said I would say, "same". I still love Harry Potter even though JK Rowling has turned out to be a crummy person. I can totally separate her from the story. There are other times when I find it hard though. I like BTS and my daughter loves all k-pop music and dancing, however, recently I've been learning more about the k-pop industry as a whole. The more I learn, the more I've started to feel guilty for supporting it. I'm actually still not sure what to do about it. It's harder to separate the groups from the industry for some reason.

This is quite a philosophical one

I am an ENFP! Thanks for all the love ❤

Nice to see you again. Interesting video. Has got me thinking 😂

I think his thought should be brought up more in the MBTI community. I suspect many people mistype themselves because they over-identify with their lower "conscious" functions. Welcome back by the way!

I HAVE LITERALLY HAD THAT CONVERSATION ABOUT CONSIDERATION!! This is exactly my position, if i am not a consideration in someone's life, they do not count me as a priority and not consider my position. I 100% understand and agree 😅 I'm personally trying to be more cognizant of the difference of someone not noticing and someone not caring But i will keep mental tallys of how and when they’ll offer me their consideration

It's all about how we feel around people. If I don't feel comfortable enough to be myself around you, no matter how nice you are, I will cut you out so quickly. It's not personal, because like he said I don't hold grudges, but if I don't feel good around you, it's not going to work. And this can be in both the sense 'oh man she's so cool but her insecurity rubs off on me and makes me more insecure' or in the sense 'wow this person is a b*tch who talks smack about everyone to everyone constantly and has been mean to my friends' both of these make me feel bad, even though one is not their fault and one definitely is. Also I understand that this is a flaw, sometimes it's all in my head and I project this discomfort on to them in real life, and it's not their fault, but I can't really reconcile the reality with what's in my head once they make me feel a certain way in my environment.