I am an infp, in an 8 years relationship with an isfp. We are very similar and kinda share the same strengths and weaknesses. We understand each other deeply, but we tend to avoid things that we don't like to do, this means that we do not accomplish enough in life. I also notice that I (INFP) am more frustrated about this, because I tend to think more about the future. However it is important not to blame the partner for the same faults that we have and try to grow together!
SUCH A GOOD VIDEO TALKING ABOUT THE DIFFERENCES BETWEEN THE TYPES!!! so many videos about ixfp DIFFERENCES are soooo annoyingly stereotypical!! youre actually going into depth about the differences and not just going "isfp no daydrem beep boop infp daydream beep boop" because im an isfp that daydreams alot. so finally finding a ytber that talks about it right !!!!! its great! i agree with absolutely everything you say!
I'm an INFJ who's dating a ISFP. His fi seems to strong that no matter how much logic i put into it, he's unshakable. And that's bothering me and I want him to bend a little bit
Hey man, hope you are doing well. We talk a little bit before, don't know if you remember me. Anyway, seeing that you know a lot about your personality, I was wondering if you could please advise me on how to approach your personality with communication about a certain conflict? It is a long story and I don't want to bore you with the facts. but my ISFP friend (girl), we have been having some dispute over the last couple weeks and being INTJ, I am very blunt and direct, without sugar coating things and I can see this does not sit well with her. Obviously, she alone is not wrong in this matter, I have my faults, but she gets really emotional about the situation. So much so, that tonight she turned her back on me walked away and drove off. I was not very happy about this. Having an analytical brain, I Analize things and started picking up that she is pulling away (certain trends). Now, as an INTJ or maybe just for me, I hate wasting time and do not like beating around the bush, if you do not want to be friends anymore, just tell me, it will sting, but this is not my first split with friends, I can handle it and I am not made out of glass. She keeps saying there is nothing, but there have been trends. So, I do not know, she seems pretty over it, which I am also fine with, I value her friendship and would still want to be friends, it is a small will, but it is still there, but in order for me to do so, we are going to have to resolve this by communicating. Otherwise, I cannot and will pull away myself. Thanks, appreciate your comment if you can, if not, thanks for taking the time to read my story.
This is really hard for me to answer without having a a long, face to face conversation. There are also a number of variables like her age, the degree to which she is self aware, how much she cares about personal growth, and her life experiences. A couple of things I will say though. Communication without emotion feels like dead information to me. If she is “emotional,” it is probably because she does not consider the information communicated unless it is done with both words and feelings. Feelings, when displayed, say as much or more about what is going on in the human mind as just the words do. If you communicate without emotion, she may see you as disinterested. If you do not receive her emotions or make her feel like you think they are a deficiency, she will probably go crazy. Also, if she is very young, inexperienced, or unaware, she may not realize these things about herself. She just knows the whole thing makes her upset but may not be able to pinpoint why. It took me a lot of years and having an INTP daughter to begin to see myself more clearly.
Also, ISFP can actually be very insightful and wise. But if you are a person who discounts someone’s opinions because they are expressed with too much emotion, which can appear childish at times, you may miss out on the nuggets of wisdom that are being shared with you. Also, when she has ideas, they will be very personal but also very fragile to her. Shooting down her ideas without making her feel like you have really considered them will probably make her feel unvalued. As far as sugar coating things goes, directness has a very useful place in this world. But often it is just an excuse to be a jerk. At least that’s the way I see it. I have learned to be far more direct. But I have always appreciated tact because, to me, using tact says, “I care about you.” Tactlessness says, “you are irrelevant to me and I care more about being right than I care about you and your feelings as a person.” Just food for thought. Wisdom is found in the balance of both.
Hey man, thanks for taking the time and sharing some of your insightfulness. I appreciate all your points; I would like to comment on two. I definitely did shot down her ideas, most of the time, as I interpreted them as irrational in some cases, I did however (not saying it justifies anything), always apologize, when I have all the facts that I am incorrect, as it is a matter of principal to me. added to your of mentioning of bluntness, when it comes to psychology, I don't believe that anything is really (not that I can think of now) is black or white, like science (though even some things we can't prove as of yet, due to the lack of technological advancement), it is mostly open for interpretation, grey if you will and it is sometimes difficult to pinpoint something. Now, why am I telling you this? provoked @@myisfpjourney7813
It can happen, but it doesn’t necessarily mean that it will 100% of the time. If you can find a fellow Fi with shared or similar values it works out fine - in fact, it can even feel magical having someone on the same wavelength as yourself 😊 (an ISFP in a positive relationship with an INFP)
Dear Reader, I want you to know today that Jesus Christ loves you. The fact is, He loves you so much that He made the ultimate sacrifice for you! You see, God is a perfect, just God who will not tolerate sinful people coming into heaven, and the problem is that we are sinful by nature. No matter how much good we do, it will never be enough to meet God's perfect standard. The good Lord knew this, and He loved us so much that He came down to earth, lived a sinless life, and died to take the sin of the world. Romans 6:23 "For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord." All you have to do is ask the Lord to forgive your sin and tell Him that you accept His gift of salvation as the ONLY way to eternal life. Please consider salvation today; you never know when your time may be up. Remember, Jesus loves you! I hope to meet you in heaven one day!
@@andromaxbse6459 Hello! Sorry for the late response! My answer for you would be yes Jesus is a real person, and I would encourage you to read the book of Luke in the Bible to learn more about Him and His sacrifice. I will be praying for you 😊
@@andromaxbse6459 No jesus IS NOT REAL. He WAS a real historical figure 2022 years ago, but now he is a “figure” catholics and christians worship. But he was an illusionist.
How do you feel about this video: ruclips.net/video/ulwToney1AU/видео.html by CS Joseph on isfp and infp relationships? I am an infp female married to an isfp male and still working through my thoughts haha wanted to get someone else's opinion
I am an infp, in an 8 years relationship with an isfp. We are very similar and kinda share the same strengths and weaknesses. We understand each other deeply, but we tend to avoid things that we don't like to do, this means that we do not accomplish enough in life.
I also notice that I (INFP) am more frustrated about this, because I tend to think more about the future. However it is important not to blame the partner for the same faults that we have and try to grow together!
Very relatable.
mm relationship with similar type is a double edged sword: easy communication, but less opportunity to be challenged to grow in our weaknesses
Exactly
SUCH A GOOD VIDEO TALKING ABOUT THE DIFFERENCES BETWEEN THE TYPES!!!
so many videos about ixfp DIFFERENCES are soooo annoyingly stereotypical!! youre actually going into depth about the differences and not just going
"isfp no daydrem beep boop infp daydream beep boop"
because im an isfp that daydreams alot. so finally finding a ytber that talks about it right !!!!!
its great! i agree with absolutely everything you say!
Recently found you! Came from Joyce! As an INFP, I completely relate to what u said in the video!
I'm an INFJ who's dating a ISFP. His fi seems to strong that no matter how much logic i put into it, he's unshakable. And that's bothering me and I want him to bend a little bit
Awesome! I’ve come to the right place…
Totally agree 😢😢
Hey man, hope you are doing well. We talk a little bit before, don't know if you remember me.
Anyway, seeing that you know a lot about your personality, I was wondering if you could please advise me on how to approach your personality with communication about a certain conflict? It is a long story and I don't want to bore you with the facts. but my ISFP friend (girl), we have been having some dispute over the last couple weeks and being INTJ, I am very blunt and direct, without sugar coating things and I can see this does not sit well with her. Obviously, she alone is not wrong in this matter, I have my faults, but she gets really emotional about the situation. So much so, that tonight she turned her back on me walked away and drove off. I was not very happy about this.
Having an analytical brain, I Analize things and started picking up that she is pulling away (certain trends). Now, as an INTJ or maybe just for me, I hate wasting time and do not like beating around the bush, if you do not want to be friends anymore, just tell me, it will sting, but this is not my first split with friends, I can handle it and I am not made out of glass.
She keeps saying there is nothing, but there have been trends. So, I do not know, she seems pretty over it, which I am also fine with, I value her friendship and would still want to be friends, it is a small will, but it is still there, but in order for me to do so, we are going to have to resolve this by communicating. Otherwise, I cannot and will pull away myself.
Thanks, appreciate your comment if you can, if not, thanks for taking the time to read my story.
This is really hard for me to answer without having a a long, face to face conversation. There are also a number of variables like her age, the degree to which she is self aware, how much she cares about personal growth, and her life experiences. A couple of things I will say though. Communication without emotion feels like dead information to me. If she is “emotional,” it is probably because she does not consider the information communicated unless it is done with both words and feelings. Feelings, when displayed, say as much or more about what is going on in the human mind as just the words do. If you communicate without emotion, she may see you as disinterested. If you do not receive her emotions or make her feel like you think they are a deficiency, she will probably go crazy. Also, if she is very young, inexperienced, or unaware, she may not realize these things about herself. She just knows the whole thing makes her upset but may not be able to pinpoint why. It took me a lot of years and having an INTP daughter to begin to see myself more clearly.
Also, ISFP can actually be very insightful and wise. But if you are a person who discounts someone’s opinions because they are expressed with too much emotion, which can appear childish at times, you may miss out on the nuggets of wisdom that are being shared with you. Also, when she has ideas, they will be very personal but also very fragile to her. Shooting down her ideas without making her feel like you have really considered them will probably make her feel unvalued. As far as sugar coating things goes, directness has a very useful place in this world. But often it is just an excuse to be a jerk. At least that’s the way I see it. I have learned to be far more direct. But I have always appreciated tact because, to me, using tact says, “I care about you.” Tactlessness says, “you are irrelevant to me and I care more about being right than I care about you and your feelings as a person.” Just food for thought. Wisdom is found in the balance of both.
Hey man, thanks for taking the time and sharing some of your insightfulness.
I appreciate all your points; I would like to comment on two. I definitely did shot down her ideas, most of the time, as I interpreted them as irrational in some cases, I did however (not saying it justifies anything), always apologize, when I have all the facts that I am incorrect, as it is a matter of principal to me.
added to your of mentioning of bluntness, when it comes to psychology, I don't believe that anything is really (not that I can think of now) is black or white, like science (though even some things we can't prove as of yet, due to the lack of technological advancement), it is mostly open for interpretation, grey if you will and it is sometimes difficult to pinpoint something.
Now, why am I telling you this? provoked
@@myisfpjourney7813
damn, this is so much like my relationship. Me being INFP, my SO being ISFP. We've even put off marriage for 5 years because of that laziness :/
High Fi from both can clash.
Inferior Te
It can happen, but it doesn’t necessarily mean that it will 100% of the time. If you can find a fellow Fi with shared or similar values it works out fine - in fact, it can even feel magical having someone on the same wavelength as yourself 😊 (an ISFP in a positive relationship with an INFP)
Dear Reader,
I want you to know today that Jesus Christ loves you.
The fact is, He loves you so much that He made the ultimate sacrifice for you! You see, God is a perfect, just God who will not tolerate sinful people coming into heaven, and the problem is that we are sinful by nature. No matter how much good we do, it will never be enough to meet God's perfect standard. The good Lord knew this, and He loved us so much that He came down to earth, lived a sinless life, and died to take the sin of the world.
Romans 6:23 "For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord."
All you have to do is ask the Lord to forgive your sin and tell Him that you accept His gift of salvation as the ONLY way to eternal life.
Please consider salvation today; you never know when your time may be up. Remember, Jesus loves you! I hope to meet you in heaven one day!
Is Jesus real?
@@andromaxbse6459 Hello! Sorry for the late response! My answer for you would be yes Jesus is a real person, and I would encourage you to read the book of Luke in the Bible to learn more about Him and His sacrifice. I will be praying for you 😊
@@andromaxbse6459 No jesus IS NOT REAL. He WAS a real historical figure 2022 years ago, but now he is a “figure” catholics and christians worship.
But he was an illusionist.
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How do you feel about this video: ruclips.net/video/ulwToney1AU/видео.html by CS Joseph on isfp and infp relationships? I am an infp female married to an isfp male and still working through my thoughts haha wanted to get someone else's opinion