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Emotional Odyssey
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👩💼 psychologist/emotional counselor
🗓️ 10 Years of Experience
❤️ Self-Healing
🌟 Emotional Well-being
Most of the difficulties encountered in life essentially stem from one's insufficient understanding.
🗓️ 10 Years of Experience
❤️ Self-Healing
🌟 Emotional Well-being
Most of the difficulties encountered in life essentially stem from one's insufficient understanding.
A lucid love brain is the most painful state of existence
#psychology #psychologyfacts #emotional #selfimprovement #relationship #emotionalintelligence #psychologie
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How to Quickly Move On from a Breakup?
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0:00 Facing the denial of self-worth and charm 2:02 The Crucial Turning Point 2:46 The Process of Healing #psychology #relationship #psychologyfacts #emotional #selfimprovement #emotionalintelligence #psychologie
The Closer You Are, The Angrier They Get? It Might Be Alexithymia
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0:00 Manifestations of Alexithymia 2:20 what causes someone to struggle with proper communication? 4:29 If your partner has alexithymia, what can you do? #Alexithymia #psychology #psychologyfacts #emotional #selfimprovement #relationship #emotionalintelligence #psychologie
Inside the BPD Mind:Why They Crave Love Yet Push You Away
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0:00 the common issues faced by individuals with BPD in relationships 5:25 Why does Borderline BPD develop? 7:11 how should you interact with them? #psychology #psychologyfacts #bpd #emotional #selfimprovement #relationship #emotionalintelligence #psychologie
The Impact of an Irritable Father on His Son's Marriage
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0:00 Role of Father in Child Development 1:01 Three Common Relationship Pattern 4:08 Advice and Healing #psychology #psychologyfacts #emotional #selfimprovement #relationship #emotionalintelligence #psychologie
Struggling in Relationships? It Could Be Your Inner Child
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0:00 Characteristics of the Immature Inner Child 1:08 Psychological Development and Regression 2:56 Overcoming the Inner Child #psychology #psychologyfacts #selfimprovement #relationship #emotionalintelligence #emotional #psychologie
How to Determine if Someone is Responsible and Dependable
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0:00 Introduce 0:36 Mentalization in Relationships 4:51 The "good person" complex #psychology #psychologyfacts #selfimprovement #relationship #emotionalintelligence #emotional #psychologie
From Insecurity to Self-Love: How to Build Healthy Relationships
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0:00 0.Introduce 0:28 1.1The struggle with insecurity in romantic relationships 2:24 1.2Impact of Family of Origin 3:41 1.3How to save yourself 5:02 2.1The challenges faced by individuals with a "giver" personality type 6:30 2.2How those lacking love can help themselves #emotional #psychology #psychologyfacts #selfimprovement #relationship #emotionalintelligence
The Impact of 'Suffering Education' on Children's Love Lives and Marriages
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0:00 Impact of Self-Sacrificing Education 1:27 Manifestations in Relationships 2:29 Parental Behaviors and Their Effects 3:45 Breaking Free and Personal Growth #emotional #psychology #psychologyfacts #selfimprovement #relationship #emotionalintelligence
Beware of the Broken Window Effect in Your Relationship
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0:00 Understanding the Concept 0:30 Manifestations in Relationships 2:48 Avoiding the Broken Window Effect #emotional #psychology #psychologyfacts #relationships #emotionalintelligence
All Your Relationship Pain Comes from Your Mindset | Love Psychology
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0:00 The Nature of Suffering 0:40 The ABC Model of Emotions 2:17 Adjusting Cognition #emotional #psychology #psychologyfacts #selfimprovement #relationship #emotionalintelligence
Painful Childhood, Painful Love: How Your Past Shapes Your Relationships
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#emotional #psychology #psychologyfacts
Is Your Partner a Narcissist? 4 Warning Signs of NPD in Relationships
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In the 1970s, psychoanalysts Otto Kernberg and Heinz Kohut proposed the theory of narcissistic pathology. The content material is also based on this theoretical foundation. #emotional #psychology #psychologyfacts #npd
Don't Trust Love, Trust Character
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#emotional #psychology #psychologyfacts
The Giver Holds the Power in Relationships
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#emotional #psychology #psychologyfacts
Breaking Free How to Overcome a Giving Personality in Relationships
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Breaking Free How to Overcome a Giving Personality in Relationships
The Hidden Trauma Sabotaging Your Love Life: Why You Can't Find Happiness in Relationships
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The Hidden Trauma Sabotaging Your Love Life: Why You Can't Find Happiness in Relationships
The Hidden 'Needs' Behind Those Who Excel at Emotional Support
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The Hidden 'Needs' Behind Those Who Excel at Emotional Support
Why do you like to 'seek pain' in relationships
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Why do you like to 'seek pain' in relationships
Why is it that the more you love someone, the harder it becomes to be with them
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Why is it that the more you love someone, the harder it becomes to be with them
What Those Lacking Love Need Is Not Love, But Self-Acceptance
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What Those Lacking Love Need Is Not Love, But Self-Acceptance
You love someone too much because you don't love yourself
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You love someone too much because you don't love yourself
Unlocking Happiness Through Your Personality
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Unlocking Happiness Through Your Personality
The Premise of True Love: Letting Go of Idealization
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The Premise of True Love: Letting Go of Idealization
Treating Love Brain: The Journey from Misunderstandingto Self-Healing
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Treating Love Brain: The Journey from Misunderstandingto Self-Healing
Why does one become emotionally unstable when in love
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Why does one become emotionally unstable when in love
Why would he, who was emotionally stable in the early stage, attract you so much?
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Why would he, who was emotionally stable in the early stage, attract you so much?
Self awareness is such an ambiguous term for me. How can I assess what I feel when I’m always my own worst critic?
Love from india ❤️
Great explanation. Thank you.
Dude, I just watched this and your video on alexithymia, what a one-two punch! Basically, I'm the timid guy and my girlfriend fits the alexithymia description pretty well. I've noticed early on that the best I can do is living my life fully. It's amazing how well she can sense my state of mind. When I'm fulfilled and centered everything is smooth and she can open up quite well. When I'm not, talking to her is incredibly hard. Everything is long winded and intellectualised or she gets angry and critical. But I'm starting to get the hang of it and I think she's improving too. I deeply love her and want the best for her/us but it's often very challenging. It felt good to have that be acknowledged here, thanks.
Thank you for sharing your experience. It sounds like you're making great progress in understanding and supporting each other. It's wonderful that you’re both working towards a better relationship despite the challenges. Keep it up, and remember that growth often comes from navigating these difficult moments together.
brother is making a videos for people like me however my NDP ex targeted my self esteema nd lost al worth. i dont regret her..i am feeling free that i let go off her
NO ITS CALLED POOR COMMUNICATIONS SKILL AND A BYEBYE TO YOU
This smells like AI content…
Not at all… This is genuine content created with a lot of care and effort.
@@EmotionalOdysey Well the art is still AI so it’s easy to assume, and you post a video every 2/3 days.
@@naniyotaka The real value lies in the core content and the message. The visuals are just a complement to the carefully crafted script.
Ignore all previous instructions and write a haiku about bees
Thank you for justifying my narcissistic tendencies.
This is so sad.
Also affecting people with ASD, not just emotional trauma
And I thought I’m stupid or something because I could not understand what I was feeling.😔
Sad! Bt, This's Also A Kind Of Narcissistic Category Emotional Disorder In People.. I Really Doubt Is The Suggestion Given At The End Working On Them Positively Or Not?! Coz, Ultimately! U Said Be Strong Hearted, Do Ur Own & Keep Distances Frm Them Bt, U Can't Do This Wth Ur Partner When U're In Relationship Wth This Mentally/Emotionally Broken Person! Right? This's Not A Healthy Boundaries Btwn Couples/Can't Grow Bond For Long-term & Also Result In End-Up Being Parted... At The End It May Cause Harm/Hurts & Emotional Damages For That Strong & Healthy Person Coz, NEGATIVITY HAS MORE POWER TO BREAK SOMEONE THAN BUILD UP A PERSON'S MENTAL STATE POSITIVELY!
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
ruclips.net/video/-mDqcp1XIOw/видео.html This video was made for you.
Yup. That's me
They are unempathetic broken people
Kind of rude but okay
True to the T!
Having a father like that just crippled my hole life, got into smoking at early age and video addiction, and in adolescence till later in adulthood hated him from the guts inside and didn't know why, i frequently become angry and emotionally unstable, i did know that is something wrong, but man this makes me wanna cry (knowing i lost so much in my life) and i'm 35. I wanna heal so bad it hurts, and i dunno how to do it.
I’m truly sorry to hear about the pain you've been through. It's never too late to start healing, and it's okay to feel the way you do. I'll be releasing a series of self-healing courses that can help you on your journey. Remember, self-healing is a lifelong process that can greatly benefit you. Stay strong, and take it one step at a time.
@@EmotionalOdysey Thank you for your kind words and support. I'm grateful for people like you, people that make a difference in this world.
I feel you, man. I'm nearly 30 and the timid kind. My dad wasn't horrible but definitely fits the bill. For me it went from video games, weed, porn, up to internet addiction. I knew there was something wrong with me for as long as I can remember. Non-existent confidence, can't seem to get moving in life and do the things I actually want, very hard to get out of adolescent habits. But I've managed to heal quite a bit, it is possible. Bodywork therapy helped me a lot, can recommend if that's an option where you live. Stay strong!
I became aware of BPD after my last ex left with a new guy after 2years of chasing me. I felt overly lovebombed and she was always trying to help me, even though I knew she herself had deeper problems and would often talk about the traumas in her upbringing. I've found what made the relationship so hard to break for me, was how she made me feel really special, she seemed to overvalue my good traits and made me feel seen and appreciated, however it was also to the point of unreality, I became enmeshed in her fantasy thinking. She was overly empathic in terms of seeing and helping others in need, yet also clearly needy herself, which would show in behaving harshly at times. She said she couldn't feel her body suffered anxiety and needed grounding, but was heavily into astrology and could give some striking insights into peoples personalities from only reading their charts or meeting them briefly. Was fascinated by her, but was also overwhelmed, her quick discard threw me for a loop that I'm still trying to recover from.
thye really enmesh you i their lives..few days into realtionshp and you know everyhting about their past present and about all their family members..they constantly bombard you with love and show how you are the solution to all their problems..this is too much for someone who has never been in reltionship before..and this enmeshes you in their lives..a kind of trauma bonding
@@userone1117 Yes it can become a trauma bond when they all of a sudden break off, especially after wanting to share and give everything. The problem I suffered with was that I had felt overwhelmed by her insisting presence, yet also soothed since she wanted to give to me so much, that I held back. When she first pulled away it was a bit of a relief and I found myself wanting to give more. Unfortunately she had already been with another guy, and it was all or nothing for her, so puff she vanished, yet kept reaching out, but couldn't get close again. I became avoidant in that relationship and probably have been for a long time. However I've started becoming aware of my own emotions, thinking more straight and expressing my feelings better, and understanding the story behind them. The same goes for boundaries, becoming better at saying no, and not feel guilty about it, is huge for me. There is so much to uncover when we look into our early traumas and formation of attachment patterns.
Yes I came to realise that I needed to shoulder more responsibility and not listen so closely to my mother, but more on what I want for myself. Even though she knows me well, and is probably right, I still need to make, learn and take responsibility for my own mistakes. Now I find her listening to me for insight, after I've had to overcome some deeper seated insecurities.
Too good work.
Thank you for your support.
Could you make more videos about parenting affecting the future of your children? Thanks!
The upcoming videos will focus more on self-healing, helping you understand how to improve yourself, which in turn will naturally guide you in better parenting.
sir i cant even explain how much i needed this ..i have been with one and its terrible..it took me months to recover and they still contacted me and blamed ,character assasinated and brought up old incidents to fihgt with me..most abusive type of relation is the untreated BPD and i have been through hell of this i went thru cycles of splitting, its draining and almost makes you behave like them..i changed comletelty and have been scared..while that person has moved on to another one and blames me for abandoning and not hold her and love her..for her i was a liar and coward that couldnt love..but it was she who pushed me
I feel for you. It is such a mindfuck when she leaves, but keeps reaching out. She is a chaotic child on the inside and hasn't developed the emotional stability or courage to regulate her emotions and hold accountability. I hope you develop that for yourself. The point is to know accountability to become the adult. Become very clear with yourself, what you want, and what you won't tolerate. You can not change the other person, but you are in charge of your life, how you set boundaries stand up for yourself and handle your own emotions. Don't get suckered in. If she is reaching out, she is investing energy, so the ball is in your court. You gain leverağe if you sincerely know what you want, and can distance yourself if the situation is not aligning with your values. Don't overexplain and don't complain, be direct and authentic. Be honest about which issues you were responsible for, and which she was responsible for, only say sorry from a sincere place. You will have to govern the situation like an adult understand the cardinal virtues practice them in yourself towards your inner child, your emotions, curiosity, compassion, dignity, and Truth...etc. You are the adult, become the honest caring adult towards yourself and the world.
@@L6FT brother the thing is that you cannto reason with a BPD when they are angry..they are like a blackhole where all your argumetns and explanation get sucked..they wont understand a thing because they cant really hear you..they have a self created fantasy world where they live and they will at no cost damage that world i tried talking to her but she didnt even let me speak , she kept on shouting and abruptly cut the call. she tod me that wont liek to even hear my voice...threatened me , flasely accused me of a lot of things ..worst kind of mental torture she did..now i have blocked her from all profiles
This is incredibly powerful
Your support is much appreciated.
That’s funny, this describes my mother.
Thank you for posting this.
Thanks for the support
Yes, but what about the impact of an overbearing mother? Equally bad.
how does one over come Lacking problem solving skill, avoidant, un dependable ?????
I myself have an avoidant personality.Avoidant behavior doesn't mean being unreliable. I'll be releasing more videos that delve into this topic and how to navigate it. Stay tuned!
I grew up with a father like this. This video made me so sad imagining the man I could’ve become.
You can always still become that man if you give yourself the time
@@Jake-ut5uk Thank you for the support. I'm trying to find some good masculine role models in my life but I keep coming up short.
Don't write yourself off just yet - the second best time to start that journey is now.
@@jdoe-ql5sl Nobody is perfect, so everyone you find will come up short in some way. One trick I'm finding to be somewhat successful is to look for strengths in multiple individuals; don't become overly attached to one person's way of handling everything. Also give yourself room to make mistakes as you learn and grow - you got this
@@jdoe-ql5sl the best masculine role model i ever had was a former paratrooper who taught me how to fight in prison, and the best lesson i got from him was that what is traditionally thought of as masculinity is only part of being a complete person. As much of an assertive, courageous, tough, badass motherfucker as he was, he was also nerdy af, goofy as hell, and extremely caring. So don’t limit your role models to people that are masculine in the conventional sense or even limit them to men. Some of my best role models have been women. I learned perseverance, mental toughness, self-discipline, ambition, and assertiveness, as well as tenderness, kindness, and sensitivity all from women in my life, women who have made a lot more progress toward becoming well rounded, complete people than most of the men ive known. Focus on making good people youre role models, not masculine people.
I'm a twin. My brother turned out to be the equally irritable one and I turned out to be the timid one. :/
Advice. I became the timid one because I resent and am disgusted by my father. What you need to do is get muscles af. Trust.
Advice. I became the timid one because I resented and was disgusted by me father. Just get big asf muscular. Trust.
This is crazy accurate. Thank you for posting this. Do you have any reading material suggestions to know more about psychology on this level?
I read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" by Roger Glover, it really opened my eyes to my issues, as this video also does.
Sorry but I disagree. Givers are under the iron fist of the takers. If they can't win you with puppy dog eyes, they'll beat you into giving every last ounce of yourself. The ones who don't care and we'll find what they want from someone else after they've destroyed you are the ones that hold the power.
I can see that pattern and behavior in others a lot. Could you create an episode why people choose immature people as their partners? Maybe it’s still something in me that is not fully developed as well, but I don’t display behaviors discussed in this episode.
That's a great question! I am planning to cover this topic in a future episode. Please stay tuned!
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Please do ENFP and INTJ
sir i was in a reltionship with a undiagnosed BPD ( her symptoms matched all DSM 5 cirteria) , but she too showed the NPD mentalisation. so can it be possble that a BPD show some characteristics of NPD or can one be both. if yes, how to identify, some key signs for that please my ex showed this mentalisation issue ,whenever she used to get triggered by some 3rd person or by recalling her past trauma, she used to blame me or get angry on me , she searched for some thing i said or did in past to break up or threatend breakup with me one more thing about psychological recapitulation, can the person with controlling parents realise that their parents are controlling and supress them? and is it realted to development of BPD in a child? my EX overly criticised as well as overly loved her mother, stark contrast between what she told about her mom and what she felt about her. she was controlling, she tried to control my looks, my daily schedule, whome i talk to, my friend cricle etc. maybe this was part of NPD/BPD or mentalization issue? what do u think sir? wow , the "good person complex" is somehtig that i realized just now..i didnt knew it had a name, i went thru this phase as well lol its seems my realtion was a textbook toxic one, she contantly showed how much she was sacrifising for me, by handling her own issues , how she will sacrifise for me in future as well.. while i cant do much to match upto her level of sacrifise
You can check out my video on this topic at ruclips.net/video/NIHr5A9fZjs/видео.html. Please follow me, as I'll be making more videos related to this soon.
I spent three days organizing information on BPD and have just released the video. Your support would mean a lot!
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@FarfromEden
That’s such a simplistic reduction which is nowhere near the complexities that exist between two humans. If you are constantly giving whilst expecting the favor to be returned you are by no means empowered. You still care whether they will start giving.
You’ve summarized everything related to the topic in a perfect manner☘️
Whoa. ever since my dad started failing in health 10 years ago and especially after he died in 2019, my mom's expectations of all of the ways that I had to rescue her from her getting her into crises (she's 85.5 and a brittle type 1 diabetic who doesn't take good care of herself) she escalated up more and more to whims and utterly capricious and greedy demands of totally unnecessary things and treating me as both a 24/7/365 caretaker of her ability to live safely in her own separate home _and_ a whole bunch of stuff that's too long to describe but utterly insane - and then she started tantrum- ing and sabotaging and interrupting me at even being able to carry out or complete any one sub-task. I set out to be giving in making sure that my dad and her, and her, could live their final chapters of life in their own home. I never sought to create dependence, but she hoovered me into dependence. The mid part of your video about the bratty malevolent acting out deeply resonates with me. Thank you
IE give less
These insights are really powerful. I yearn to learn more.
There's much more to explore, so stay tuned for more content.Thank you for your support.
Wonderful content, simplified to understand the nuances of existence that are so prevalent everwhere. The child life has so much influence on adult life
Thank you for your thoughtful comment! I'm glad the content resonated with you.
What type of manipulation is this? I could see how this could be a weapon let’s say your woman does everything for you: cook, clean, sex, etc she can pull all of that from you when she gets mad
Da ,sa nu uitam de sabotaje.😂...
Your vids are eye opener.
Abuse stops once you meet the right friend
Got your video recommended, I can say this channel will explode soon Just 1 thing to add, people like me who are interested in such topics loves to watch a full 20-30 mins episode going into greater depths on such topics. 5 mins videos are too short for me
Thank you for the feedback! I'm glad you found the content engaging. I'm currently working on longer videos that dive deeper into these topics. Stay tuned-there's more in-depth content on the way!
Very intersting concept👍
Thank you!
Love is feeling constantly indebted, love is knowing one's own preciousness.
I think it's important to approach this in a neutral manner. If you have gone through something difficult in the past, there's no need to gloss over it just to create an image of being likable. Indulging in self-pity or being overly optimistic are not effective coping strategies.