Another take : it becomes harder to live with them because the more deeply connected you are with someone, the higher the emotional stakes become and the more "risky" every single moment with them becomes. This is especially a problem because both societal expectations and our natural pair-bonding response push us into thinking that loving someone means living with them and being together ALL THE TIME. And maybe that works for some, but for the rest, yikes.
You're right, deeper connections can raise emotional stakes and make relationships feel riskier. Society's expectations often pressure us to be together constantly, which isn't ideal for everyone. Finding a balance that suits both partners is key. If this video helps even one person gain a new perspective, its purpose is fulfilled.
@@EmotionalOdysey One of the nicest, happiest couples I ever met lived a twenty minute drive from one another and didn't get together every day of the week. In fact, they just kept on acting like they were dating, asking each other out and everything. I am not sure that would work for me, but it worked for them!
The concept of negative transference in video materials. It originated in 1895, when Austrian psychologist S. Freud discussed it in his book 'Studies on Hysteria'.
Another take : it becomes harder to live with them because the more deeply connected you are with someone, the higher the emotional stakes become and the more "risky" every single moment with them becomes. This is especially a problem because both societal expectations and our natural pair-bonding response push us into thinking that loving someone means living with them and being together ALL THE TIME. And maybe that works for some, but for the rest, yikes.
You're right, deeper connections can raise emotional stakes and make relationships feel riskier. Society's expectations often pressure us to be together constantly, which isn't ideal for everyone. Finding a balance that suits both partners is key. If this video helps even one person gain a new perspective, its purpose is fulfilled.
@@EmotionalOdysey One of the nicest, happiest couples I ever met lived a twenty minute drive from one another and didn't get together every day of the week. In fact, they just kept on acting like they were dating, asking each other out and everything. I am not sure that would work for me, but it worked for them!
The concept of negative transference in video materials. It originated in 1895, when Austrian psychologist S. Freud discussed it in his book 'Studies on Hysteria'.
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