10 Signs You've Found The Love Of Your Life

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  • Опубликовано: 21 ноя 2024

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  • @Psych2go
    @Psych2go  2 года назад +553

    Announcement! For June, we're creating a new channel where we can make wholesome animations for you. They will follow stories, case studies, cutesy stuff, to make your day a bit more wholesome: ruclips.net/channel/UCm_utEEz35U4u8KNks4akUg
    The best part is that when this channel starts generating revenue, we will donate the profits to a charity of your choice.

    • @varisk3476
      @varisk3476 2 года назад +2

      Thanks

    • @abandonedaccount_901
      @abandonedaccount_901 2 года назад +2

      nicee :D

    • @artmsion
      @artmsion 2 года назад +6

      i love you !!

    • @pod-pod-pod
      @pod-pod-pod 2 года назад +8

      You should pick the most liked comment one the first video on there that's an animation idea
      It would be fun

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +16

      @@artmsion Thanks for the kind words!!

  • @EricMcSheriff
    @EricMcSheriff 2 года назад +2866

    I lost the love of my life two weeks ago to leukemia. She fought hard for 6 months. We had in all 3 and a half years together. Completely deviatited is an understatement. Hold on to those you love and don't take a second for granted.

    • @saria70
      @saria70 2 года назад +150

      i am so sorry. hang in there.

    • @iCookieChan1
      @iCookieChan1 2 года назад +97

      My condolences and heart goes out to you. May she be in a better place TT

    • @susanmeadows627
      @susanmeadows627 2 года назад +61

      I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending deepest sympathy and a prayer. 💔❤️

    • @chanez5567
      @chanez5567 Год назад +35

      May she rest in peace ae may god heal ur heart! Sending a lot of healing energy towards you

    • @patchworkfarms5327
      @patchworkfarms5327 Год назад +26

      I know I'm way late, but I'm so sorry for your loss. 😞

  • @nobi1113
    @nobi1113 2 года назад +145

    1. Your brain experiences changes.
    2. Your pronouns may change.
    3. Willing to fight for your relationship.
    4. Willingness to compromise in a relationship
    5. They support you.
    6. They share a growth mindset
    7. You're in sync with each other
    8. Goal+values are aligned
    9. You've strong physical chemistry
    10. They understand your love language

  • @Akaashi040
    @Akaashi040 2 года назад +128

    1. 0:40 Your brain experiences changes
    2. 1:19 your pronouns may change
    3. 1:51 willing to fight for your relationship
    4. 2:28 willingness to compromise in the relationship
    5. 3:08 they support you
    6. 3:31 they share a „Growth mindset“
    7. 3:56 you are in sync with them
    8. 4:25 goals + values are aligned
    9. 4:54 you habe a strong physical chemistry
    10. 5:17 they understand your love language

  • @maxwelldavis5196
    @maxwelldavis5196 Год назад +101

    1. Your brain experiences changes
    2. Your pronouns may change (we/us)- not he/him- she/her
    3. You're willing to fight for your relationship
    4.willingness to compromise in the relationship
    5. They support you
    6. They share a growth mindset
    7. You are in sync with each other
    8. Goals and values are aligned
    9. You have a strong physical connection
    10. They understand your love language

  • @NathalieLazo
    @NathalieLazo 2 года назад +1364

    The more we work on our own selves, the better we attract, in this case, a better partner and a phenomenal relationship. There’s no such thing as the “right person” (to an extend) we have to become the right person first! You got this, I believe in you and invest into YOU! Best investment you can ever do is in yourself for your family, others, future and lives overall! 💯% back guarantee return on your investment! Have a great day! 🚀🎉❤️

    • @mrj4082
      @mrj4082 2 года назад +23

      Everything you said is 100% true. I've been working on myself to smile more at strangers when I'm on koncerts and I've met this girl last week and we flirted a bit and started talking but I wasn't able to ask her name or insta cos my friends found me when I've lost them

    • @karenwearit
      @karenwearit 2 года назад +6

      YES QUEEN

    • @jasonlazuli2836
      @jasonlazuli2836 2 года назад +5

      Exactly!!

    • @NathalieLazo
      @NathalieLazo 2 года назад +15

      @@mrj4082 Thank you for sharing your experience in smiling to strangers! At least you know now how to stand out from the crowd for pretty girls to notice you! 😁

    • @NathalieLazo
      @NathalieLazo 2 года назад +7

      @@karenwearit THANK YOU LORELEI! 💜💜

  • @highliving-animatedvideos5831
    @highliving-animatedvideos5831 2 года назад +90

    *10 signs you’ve found the love of your life*
    0:40 - Your brain experiences changes
    1:19 - Your pronouns may change
    1:50 - Willing to fight for your relationship
    2:27 - Willingness to compromise in the relationship
    3:06 - They support you
    3:31 - They share a growth mindset
    3:55 - You are in sync with each other
    4:24 - Your goals and values are aligned
    4:52 - You have strong physical chemistry
    5:18 - They understand your love language

  • @nanamikentostie
    @nanamikentostie 2 года назад +120

    Here’s the signs for those in a hurry

  • @dipsikhadutta5013
    @dipsikhadutta5013 2 года назад +70

    1. Your brain experiences changes 0:42
    2. Your pronouns may change 1:19
    3. Willing to fight for relationship 1:52
    4. Willingness to compromise 2:30
    5. They support you 3:08
    6. They share a growth mindset 3:34
    7. You are sync with each other 4:00
    8. Goals and values are align 4:27
    9. Strong physical chemistry 4:54
    10. They understand your love language 5:19

    • @tonimachowdhury2463
      @tonimachowdhury2463 2 года назад +1

      Thank you dear❤️

    • @itzbianca347
      @itzbianca347 2 года назад

      Thx

    • @icysnow57cold64
      @icysnow57cold64 Год назад

      I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other. I think humans should just ditch concepts like dating, marriage, and pair bonding. I feel like this world would be a much better place without romance than it is with it.
      In my opinion, romantic love should not be on the highest pedestal. In my opinion, parents and siblings' family love is the strongest. Family knows who you are. Romance is fake for lots of people, put on a false persona and romance on most parts gets ugly real fast. For the reality of romance is no Disney love story.
      Parents and siblings' family love is one of the strongest types of love there is. If romantic love is actually real, it would be one of the weakest types of love there is.

  • @athiya5722
    @athiya5722 2 года назад +153

    10 signs you 've found the love of your life
    1.0:42 your brain experiences changes
    2.1:21 your pronouns may change
    3.1:51 willing to fight for your relationship
    4.2:28 willingness to compromise in the relationship
    5.3:08 they support you
    6.3:32 they share a growth mindset
    7.3:56 you are in sync with them
    8.4:26 goals + values are aligned
    9.4:55 you have a strong physical chemistry
    10.5:17 they understand your love language

  • @aperson-7408
    @aperson-7408 2 года назад +73

    1. Your brain experiences changes 0:41
    2. Your pronouns may change 1:20
    3. Willing to fight for your relationship 1:51
    4. Willingness to compromise in relationship 2:28
    5. They support you 3:07
    6. They share a growth mindset 3:32
    7. You are in sync with them 3:56
    8. Goals and values are aligned 4:26
    9. You have strong physical chemistry 4:53
    10. They understand your love language 5:18

  • @hellogents8863
    @hellogents8863 2 года назад +78

    TL;DR
    1.) *Your Brain Experiences Changes.*
    2.) *Your Pronouns Change.*
    3.) *Willing To Fight For Your Relationship.*
    4.) *Willingness to Compromise in the Relationship.*
    5.) *They Support You.*
    6.) *They Share a Growth Mindset.*
    7.) *You are in Sync with them.*
    8.) *Goals & Values are aligned.*
    9.) *You have a strong physical chemistry.* (Wink wink.~)
    10.) *They understand your love language.*

  • @noonegirl
    @noonegirl Год назад +55

    1. Your brain experience changes (biochemical reactions)
    2. Your pronouns may change e.g. us and we
    3. Willing to fight for their relationship
    4. They'll show a willingness to compromise in the relationship
    5. They support you
    6. They share a growth mindset
    7. You are in sync with each other
    8. If your goals and values 🎉are aligned
    9. You have strong physical chemistry
    10. The understand your love language.

    • @abrahamleyva4692
      @abrahamleyva4692 Год назад +1

      you fotgot the most important steps
      having the level of life your partner is searching to have
      having no matter how rough the contitions are enough money for them

  • @unusual2821
    @unusual2821 2 года назад +44

    1. Your brain changes
    2. Pronouns may change (us/we instead of me/i)
    3. Willing to fight for the relationship
    4. Willingness to compromise
    5. They support you
    6. Share a growth mindset
    7. You are in sync with them
    8. Goals + values are aligned
    9. Strong physical chemistry
    10. You understand each other’s love language

    • @amyrocks88ss
      @amyrocks88ss 2 года назад +1

      I was so scared of reading this list and thinking she would match all of them or most of them but really...she doesn't ..so I guess it's good...

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад

      Good point!

  • @prarthana7365
    @prarthana7365 2 года назад +48

    1. Your brain experiences changes
    2. Your pronouns may change
    3. They're willing to fight for your relationship
    4. Willingness to compromise in the relationship
    5. They support you
    6. You are in sync with each other
    7. They share a growth mindset
    8. Your goals and values are aligned
    9. You have strong physical chemistry
    10. They understand your love language

  • @sevtyanaadventure
    @sevtyanaadventure 2 года назад +56

    What is love? Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me, no more.

  • @PsychologyRefresh
    @PsychologyRefresh 2 года назад +31

    One of the biggest signs you've found the love of your life is when you want to share everything with them - the good and the bad!

    • @sabinasinchuri8623
      @sabinasinchuri8623 3 месяца назад

      I have felt this way with someone for a month now. We both have completely different morals and ideology in life and politics. We both are different races and our parents would never. I feel like this person will never come to love me the way I love them. I wish we had similar view points.
      I am trying to move on, it is very painful.

  • @Ivemovedlmao
    @Ivemovedlmao 2 года назад +25

    1: Your brain experiences changes (0:41)
    2: your pronouns may change (1:20)
    3: willing to fight for your relationship (1:51)
    4: Willingness to compromise in the relationship (2:28)
    5: They support you (3:07)
    6: They share a “growth mindset” (3:32)
    7: you are in sync with them (3:58)
    8: Goals + values are aligned (4:25)
    9: you have strong physical chemistry (4:54)
    10: they understand your love language (5:19)

  • @nygelpereira6540
    @nygelpereira6540 2 года назад +19

    1) 0:40 ur brain experiences changes
    2) 1:18 your pronouns may change
    3) 1:50 willing to fight for the relationship
    4) 2:27 willingness to compromise in the relationship
    5) 3:06 they support u
    6) 3:32 they share a growth mindset
    7) 3:55 u r in sync with eachother
    8) 4:25 goals and values aligned
    9) 4:54 u have a strong physical chemistry
    10) 5:17 they understand ur love language

  • @lafawnbelle4059
    @lafawnbelle4059 2 года назад +18

    I've found my one and we've been together for over 10 years and we still love being together like when we first met. We've had rocky moments but we worked through them together and we're stronger for it. We are now working towards taking the relationship to the next level and get married.

  • @blasepumpkin764
    @blasepumpkin764 Год назад +21

    Well, 9 out of 10 apply. The sexual attraction portion doesn't often apply to me. I've minor interest in it, however, to hold them, kiss them and snuggle them to death are extremely felt intentions. Been like that for nearly 3 years. She's been my rock ever since we met, never been one to judge me or criticize me, but is always there to help me. She was there during my struggle with alcohol addiction, substance abuse being legal or not, encouraged me as well as drove me to seek help and paid full attention to me when I was indeed administered into a psych ward for a week. She's been there in my good and bad times, and in the most recent events, she was there to hold me and dry my tears away after having my father pass away. She's a truly genuine person, and I know in my heart that I'll always be here for her.

  • @Kakulukia
    @Kakulukia 2 года назад +27

    Whenever I view any of your videos about love, relationships ect. I just get comfirmations about how my girlfriend and I are simply made for each others and I never take a single day for granted with her, and in December we've been together for 3 years.

    • @Westside_69
      @Westside_69 2 года назад +3

      same, I wouldn't lose her for anything, not even infinite money.

  • @vinnzouiyt
    @vinnzouiyt Год назад +18

    8 months ago I smiled at this because I believed I found the one, they’re not here anymore but I still believe with my entire heart that they’re the one, I’m just not the right person for them…

  • @nathi4377
    @nathi4377 Год назад +31

    I've known him for almost a month and we already have this thing going. Both of us are not ready for sex and we want something serious. I love how he supports me and is always there for me, just as I am for him. We're literally the same person and we understand eachother, whatever it is we just get eachother and love eachother. I am falling for him more and more every single day, because of how kind, respectful and smart he is. He's a year younger than me but I can learn so much from him. The way he expresses himself, the way he looks at me and the way he tells me he's there for me and hugs me in critical situations. I had trust issues but I learn to trust thanks to him. I was taught that men treat women like an object but he proved me otherwise and I love every little thing about him. I am so thankful to have such a great person in my life and he IS the one. Thank you for reading this hihi

    • @Racegas
      @Racegas Год назад +7

      This is EXACTLY how I feel about my girlfriend and she read this and said the same. Especially with the men treating women like an object thing.

    • @nathi4377
      @nathi4377 Год назад +1

      @@Racegas it's really sad but I'm glad I'm not the only one!

    • @MaryMackori
      @MaryMackori Год назад +1

      You are so lucky to have found a Keeper❤

    • @veragage
      @veragage Год назад

      I am happy for you, Nathi 🤍🙃👎

  • @catramarrymepls2480
    @catramarrymepls2480 Год назад +15

    Never thought I’d find love, especially not with her. But loving her is the best thing I’ve ever experienced and I wouldn’t trade it for nothing.

  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. 2 года назад +6

    At this point I love the animations as much as I love the information and the soothing sound of her voice 🧡. Love your commitment to spreading awareness for common mental health issues and relationships ☺️

  • @hbudson1248
    @hbudson1248 2 года назад +16

    I've been with this girl for a while now, and I'm feeling very sure she's the one for me. We know each other over a very long distance, but we're both very committed to the idea of moving in together once we're through school
    Honestly...? The idea that anyone could care this much about me, be this committed to something so big is- still a bit surreal. Love is crazy, powerful- it makes you see things about yourself you'd never notice or like otherwise.
    Everyone here in the comments, you can all be with someone incredible one day, don't give up! :D

  • @claudiaromellano23
    @claudiaromellano23 2 года назад +40

    Who else is single af but keeps watching these videos and getting their heart broken? 💀

    • @lovepeace9727
      @lovepeace9727 2 года назад +1

      I will forever love him. There's no way to forget and get rid of this obsession.
      I fucking hate my brains.

    • @popbat
      @popbat 2 года назад

      @@lovepeace9727 I have never related to anything more in my life

    • @Ridwan_Ali2
      @Ridwan_Ali2 6 месяцев назад +1

      Me single I feel in love but girl just never really wants be with me it's hurts but I cope with it

    • @battleboywildboy1374
      @battleboywildboy1374 3 месяца назад

      Not me, it help me.

    • @Leo-tq1vy
      @Leo-tq1vy 3 месяца назад

      😂

  • @thebrucenasty
    @thebrucenasty 3 месяца назад +16

    The love of my life has BPD, and last year when our relationship was growing stronger than ever she self-sabotaged her own life. Thankfully she received the help she needed and we took a break so she could focus on her path of recovery and healing.
    All 10 signs are undoubtedly present in our relationship. Our break is ending soon and we will talk to see if we can get back together. Either way, as long as she is happy, I will be happy for her and us.
    I love you Ellie.

    • @katmanis9714
      @katmanis9714 3 месяца назад +1

      Oh I'm so sorry I hope that the two of you will be back together soon 🙏🏻 I wish you both all the best .

    • @Elizabeth-pn4ug
      @Elizabeth-pn4ug 3 месяца назад +2

      This last sentence says everything ❤

    • @Sengokusan105
      @Sengokusan105 2 месяца назад +1

      Wow this comment really helps me, I have adhd, certain aspects of it can relate to bpd, and I have those self sabotage moments as well, although my partner has been extremely supportive through it all with me, I was overthinking a lot, and watching this vid and your comment cheered me up, many blessings to you and your partner

    • @Richiko06
      @Richiko06 2 месяца назад

      Aww now that’s real love and she needs you more than ever❤

    • @futurefunkzone
      @futurefunkzone 21 день назад

      Hehe I bet it feels warm inside.

  • @oscarmeza113
    @oscarmeza113 Год назад +19

    I've experienced all of them x10. I'm madly in love with her. I feel so lucky to experience such an intense love. We are 1.5 years in, and I'm still falling deeper with time. I hope to one day call her my wife. Nothing would make me happier than to know we would spend the rest of our lives together.

    • @gagerx2
      @gagerx2 Год назад +3

      Go get her king

  • @Lauraabreu1528
    @Lauraabreu1528 Год назад +14

    When even strangers can feel y’all love and connection, you’ve found the one ❤

  • @habunai
    @habunai 2 года назад +8

    Such a huge difference to be in a relationship with "the one" after 4.5 years of being stuck in a toxic one. Didn't even think it would ever happen again but the better person I became, the better partner I attracted.

  • @GothicZeek
    @GothicZeek 2 года назад +10

    I went through some back break ups in my past. Last October, I got dumped by someone I thought cared about me. But from that, someone I didn't even realize had feelings for me, finally told me. We have been together ever since, taking it slowly, one day at a time. He helps me when my CPTSD, anxiety and depression start getting too high, and I constantly encourage him in everything. We both talk to each other every day, strengthening our bond each time. These are 100% true.

    • @ulomagift504
      @ulomagift504 2 года назад

      He helped me over a spiritual warfare,which I've been battling with over years,but thanks to him I'm healed and free

    • @ulomagift504
      @ulomagift504 2 года назад

      *w-asap him if you need his help⏬*

  • @DavidJackson-r5c
    @DavidJackson-r5c 4 месяца назад +8

    Synchronicity is definitely on point as well..also when tou mentioned about sitting together without a word snd its so amazingly comfortable ? Well that in my belief is major..its rare and its a true BLESSING to have someone to share thst with

  • @Cherryyyy8715
    @Cherryyyy8715 2 года назад +9

    Ohh, I'm so happy to have found my one. You guys have really helped me gain more self confidence and self worth.

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +2

      Congratulations too! How did you guys meet?

    • @Cherryyyy8715
      @Cherryyyy8715 2 года назад

      @@Psych2go We met online, and our connection grew! We called regularly and as often as we can, and we both make sure we're doing okay when we aren't.

    • @Dev.Yadav.
      @Dev.Yadav. 2 года назад

      Once a time I also have find my girl I tried being honest with her and everything is fine...but suddenly she ran away! When I showed her the bodies in the basement Shaking my Head🙃

    • @Cherryyyy8715
      @Cherryyyy8715 2 года назад

      @@Dev.Yadav. Partners who slay together, Stay together. Find yourself a girl who will help put more bodies in your basement.

    • @Dev.Yadav.
      @Dev.Yadav. 2 года назад +3

      @@Cherryyyy8715 when silence isn't awkward. You can just be silent together, and it's comforting ;)
      And forgot about that bodies iam just kidding... :-)

  • @ItsGuskaOfficial
    @ItsGuskaOfficial 2 года назад +27

    I find it scary cause i found all of this in my current bf, he really does feel like the one true love of my life but i say scary because now i dont wanna lose him even more 🥺

    • @Psych2go
      @Psych2go  2 года назад +1

      he's a keeper :)

  • @cebg1
    @cebg1 2 года назад +20

    I never was an expressive or emotional person, but when I started dating my now boyfriend, I became a very emotional person, I now easily cry and feel for others, especially happy emotions.

    • @emmay1122
      @emmay1122 2 года назад +3

      Me too! I used to not really show much emotion, I could talk about them qhen someone asks me for help about their issuses etc but never my own, But I'm in a near 2 year relationship and I'm a real soppy romantic n can show a lot of emotion just had to find the right person to express it to now , glad you have it too

  • @DarkEmoNinja
    @DarkEmoNinja 10 месяцев назад +14

    I will always believe she is “the one” for me. She’s made me a better person and she’s shown me that there’s so much more to life than I thought. We are currently on a break due to adult life being difficult and we need to learn how to be individuals now…I’m still hoping for us to find each other again soon.

    • @Nicknero
      @Nicknero 9 месяцев назад +1

      Same dude, same. I've been together with my ex for a year and we are a perfect match in every way possible. We understand each other, compromise for each other, and support each other in every way. But she had to make the difficult decision to break up with me because she couldn't love me anymore and it didn't feel genuine. We remain in good contact (including intimacy) and I hope that some day when her emotional/mental state improves, she can find some love for me again. I truly believe that she is the one for me, and I will always fight for it.

    • @The_PaleRider
      @The_PaleRider 8 месяцев назад +1

      ​@@Nicknerosorry to tell you but u need to move on bro, she ain't worth ur time anymore

  • @Joanna-tx1ss
    @Joanna-tx1ss 2 года назад +4

    I‘m in a LDR rn and this video really encouraged me to keep on fighting! It‘s really hard to be in a LDR but I‘ve realized that he might be “The One” so I’m feeling a bit better now🥺

  • @Aven_Aye
    @Aven_Aye Год назад +25

    Just cried thinking about how much I love her

    • @aakhyasingh6443
      @aakhyasingh6443 Год назад +5

      Hope you both are happy and healthy. Keep loving eachother. Never give up on love.

  • @shanelljohnson5307
    @shanelljohnson5307 2 года назад +8

    I have no business being here but I'm here listening 😅

  • @bear2325
    @bear2325 2 года назад +16

    *Me watching this because I’m an author and have no relationship experience, not because I’m in a relationship*
    -crying in the corner-

  • @mochii6785
    @mochii6785 2 года назад +63

    𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙚!!
    1. your brain experiences changes || 0:40
    2. your pronouns may change || 1:21
    3. willing to fight for your relationship || 1:51
    4. willing to compromise in the relationship || 2:31
    5. they support you || 3:07
    6. they share a growth mindset || 3:32
    7. you are in sync with them || 3:56
    8. goals + values are aligned || 4:24
    9. you have a strong physical chemistry || 4:54
    10. they understand your love language || 5:19
    (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*:・゚✧𝘩𝘰𝘱𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘦𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘺𝘰𝘯𝘦 𝘧𝘪𝘯𝘥𝘴 "𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘪𝘳 𝘰𝘯𝘦" 𝘴𝘰𝘰𝘯~

  • @nightbrite2595
    @nightbrite2595 Год назад +57

    I found him and we’ve been together over 4 years.
    Since meeting we’ve traveled, had many kisses and hugs, a ton of fun dates, and now I live with him (was and am willing to fight for our love against my family)
    We’re getting married in July❣️

    • @uni_voices
      @uni_voices Год назад +1

      congrats!!!!! hope you live happily ever after^^ i hope i find mine too

    • @alyssag8146
      @alyssag8146 Год назад

      Congratulations!!

    • @annmary6733
      @annmary6733 3 месяца назад

      Congratulations! Have a happy married life❤

    • @sheezy2526
      @sheezy2526 3 месяца назад

      Wow that is awesome!

  • @squeakssqueakers4905
    @squeakssqueakers4905 2 года назад +16

    I would just like to point out that while this video will not apply to every situation (trends exist for a reason but there are always outliers) it is fairly accurate.
    As an asexual who has poured my affection into my friends as opposed to a significant other, a lot of these apply to my closest platonic relationships. On the opposite side of the spectrum, a good number of these did not apply to my relationship to my current ex. So all in all, definitely a quality video Psych2Go team!

    • @Cherrycreamsoda1
      @Cherrycreamsoda1 2 года назад +1

      Agree with this... many of my romantic connections have been disappointing but my platonic relationships have so much love poured into them from both sides and it's amazing :)

  • @MaskedViolinist07
    @MaskedViolinist07 Год назад +13

    There is nothing more painful than finding the love of your life and not ending up with them. 💔

  • @accountsofsolon7598
    @accountsofsolon7598 2 года назад +12

    1. Brain experiences changes
    2. Pronouns change
    3. Willing to fight for the relationship
    4. Willingness to compromise in relationship
    5. They support you
    6. Share a growth mindset
    7. You're in sync with them
    8. Goals & values aligned
    9. Strong physical chemistry
    10. Understand you love language

  • @pinkcandy314
    @pinkcandy314 3 месяца назад +5

    Watching movies, cleaning house, babysitting, talking late into the night together... I miss those things. Saying good morning before I leave for work, going shopping, and random hugs through the day. Why did I fall in love with a person I can't have? Why did my love have to leave? Maybe it's just me in love. If the person I love falls for someone else I will let them go so they can be happy. I don't want to hold anyone back from following their dreams. I just want my love to be happy.

  • @rh9377
    @rh9377 10 месяцев назад +18

    I don't know if he "is the one", but with him I feel safe, I feel heard, I feel like I can be myself fully, and I am. And he told me he feels the say with me, he says I have everything that he has ever looking for in a person, but he is engaged with someone else.
    Still, he doesn't take a firm decision, and I don't want to be the "other" woman...
    I don't know anymore

    • @samuelsommar8393
      @samuelsommar8393 10 месяцев назад +6

      Damn, that must be so hard to deal with... I think I would ask him to choose, and if he really wants you - the same way you want him, he will choose you. Best of luck!

    • @J-02634
      @J-02634 10 месяцев назад +6

      Girl you need to walk away and Ik it would be hard but at this point what comes around goes around and if he’s with someone else and did this to you that means you might be in his fiancée’s position next and if he’s willing to leave her for you or something it’s only a matter of time be history repeats it’s self sooner or later

  • @husky0098
    @husky0098 Год назад +10

    I always become giddy and unfocused when around her. I regularly doubt whether I might be obsessed and need to stop but this video gave me confidence that it’s just my anxiety lying to me again, and I do, in fact, love this girl. Thanks!

  • @artems9251
    @artems9251 2 года назад +22

    *closes book*
    "Like that's ever gonna happen."

  • @lizillusion2318
    @lizillusion2318 Год назад +9

    So many of these I can check off for me and my boyfriend. The only few that aren’t are simply because we haven’t had the opportunity to make said compromises or interactions. (We’ve been together for 3 and a half months).
    Our determination and dreams for the future of our relationship is so strong, and we just adore spending time with each other (and vice versa will miss each other pretty quickly too).
    I used to be on the fence about marriage and also terrified of having biological kids, but now, I WANT both so much if I can have it with my current partner.

  • @AngelsOfTheSea13
    @AngelsOfTheSea13 Год назад +12

    Over 13 years of love and still going strong🎉🎉🎉 💪❤

  • @zoey1890
    @zoey1890 10 месяцев назад +9

    We've only been together for like 4 months but he understands my love language so well.

  • @ButterflyCreationss
    @ButterflyCreationss 2 года назад +36

    We’re all watching this with that one person in mind 😂

  • @foreignlovedreams
    @foreignlovedreams 2 года назад +11

    Knowing you are in the right relationship changes everything. You no longer feel that you have to go over and above to win your partner’s affections - you still put in the work to make them feel loved and valued and appreciated but you don’t have to prove it. You fall into a space where you are comfortable with one another and each other’s quirks. Finding a partner that follows through on their words is an unmistakable sign that you are in the right relationship.
    At the end of the day, when the right relationship finally comes along, you will just know, and you will finally realize what you don’t want in a relationship.

  • @Moreofashli
    @Moreofashli 2 года назад +13

    That’s so scary me and my boyfriend literally have all these signs and yeah we’ve had our fair share of arguments and almost breakups (never ended in a breakup🤦🏾‍♀️😂) but we’re never afraid to fight for each other and speak on how much we adore one another which turns into a successful conversation on how we’re going to take the steps to solve our problems that we have within the relationship. Actions always speak louder than words and as much as you can have successful conversations they should not have to constantly be repeated, because one or both parties aren’t willing to change and take those steps! PSA: There are four keys in a relationship communication, COMPREHENSION, patience, and loyalty.
    Live life to the fullest, laugh and spend time with family and friends, and work hard to accomplish your goals. I promise the right person will come when you’re in tune with yourself. Blessings, love, and life to everyone!

    • @veragage
      @veragage Год назад

      Good one! 😭🥺🤍

  • @toxicrune88
    @toxicrune88 2 года назад +5

    That feeling when everybody else has a good partner but you messed up you're only good relationship 😅

  • @Cherrycreamsoda1
    @Cherrycreamsoda1 2 года назад +12

    I have faith that I will find "the one", but I am in no rush. I am very happy with my life right now; in fact I don't think I'm even ready for a relationship. But I know when the time is right there will be a person that I'm meant to be with. Heck, they could even be in my life right now but we're just not ready to be together!

  • @hestikleynhans4926
    @hestikleynhans4926 2 года назад +21

    As someone with depression, BPD, aspergers, anxiety and ADHD, my “the one” is someone who I can stand to be with for longer than 20 minutes at a time. Finding someone like that, must mean they are a keeper

  • @saharudiary
    @saharudiary Год назад +14

    i have these feelings with some one 12000 km away from me! 12 hours time differance and 9 years age gap! that seems impossible right? but we feel so strong together. we want to fight for eachother. to be together. Dont dispair!!

    • @Kat-mu8wq
      @Kat-mu8wq 10 месяцев назад

      I get it.. I find myself attracted to men between 10-25 years older than me.. 😂

  • @dianaaddison1
    @dianaaddison1 9 месяцев назад +6

    I love himmm so much, we been dating nearly a year and trust me the best I ever come across… never met such men in my life … he genuine and very serious about our relationship….. love you babe , lucky to have YOU..

  • @pauloaeri
    @pauloaeri 2 года назад +9

    Watching this video made me realize I have found THE love of my life, and I couldn't be happier 😭😭💘❤ 💗
    If you are reading this and haven't found that yet, be patient! It will happen to you too, but you need to love yourself first, that's the most important thing before finding the love of your life! ❤❤❤

  • @luvbear4432
    @luvbear4432 3 месяца назад +28

    Not me searching for the timestamp comment😭

  • @pavithrabalasubramanian7344
    @pavithrabalasubramanian7344 Год назад +13

    When you have not yet found the love of your life and you know in your heart that you won't find true love in your life but still your hopeless romantic self urges you to watch -

  • @Katrica670
    @Katrica670 2 года назад +5

    #7 "Feeling seen, heard, valued, respected and cherished!" 😊😊❤️😍😍 feeling comfortable with eachother!

  • @kitsunesden8085
    @kitsunesden8085 11 месяцев назад +31

    11. You took your meds and she's still there

    • @E4439Qv5
      @E4439Qv5 4 месяца назад

      12. You wean her off *_her_* meds and _YOU'RE_ still there.

  • @johnkim3858
    @johnkim3858 8 месяцев назад +5

    The practicality of meeting someone seems to be getting harsher every day. The seemingly endless options in dating apps ruin the motivation to work through the hurdles of a relationship. The messed up part is that meeting someone within one proximity like the workplace, school, and gym makes it awkward while still having to be there after a breakup. Good luck not dying alone.

  • @noaeyal
    @noaeyal 2 года назад +9

    I honestly believe i found the one.
    Once you get to experience and express true and pure real love,
    you understand every bad / fake / lack of desire and friendship relationship you had was just a harsh lesson you had to go through to be stronger, mature and appreciate the good love the most. I finally could see rainbows after years of only dark clouds above my head and it means everything.
    Tell your true love every single day how lucky both of you are! Remind them it's not something you can just replace and easily find another.
    It's magic, it's a miracle, no matter how hard love can be as well!
    My bad life experiences with love led me to him exactly when i truly believed no one will ever love me like that. When you find it, never let it go! Love is everything.

    • @ravenstillwaters5195
      @ravenstillwaters5195 2 года назад +2

      Ty for writing this beautifully put information. It gave me hope in this dark nite of the soul experience. 💝

    • @noaeyal
      @noaeyal 2 года назад

      @@ravenstillwaters5195 sorry for the delayed reply! You're very welcome!! There's lots of love .. even in the darkest places

  • @monaural2.988
    @monaural2.988 Год назад +4

    A number of people will go through life cultivating many good and solid friendships, but never quote-unquote “find love”. And that’s not a mark on them…they should not always be pitied. At times it’s easier to deal with the mindset of “Absence makes the heart grow fonder”. This is not a bad nor sad thought process!

  • @myahahaaa
    @myahahaaa Год назад +19

    watching this while I'm single 🧍‍♀

  • @AuGrrr
    @AuGrrr Год назад +21

    The person I'm talking to right now is almost the exact same as me with very similar taste, personality traits, mental states and anything you can think of but we differ very slightly and our main difference is being born in different places and living different but similar lives. Also any difference we have or opinion we have that is different is met with a shrug and we don't really care about what we are different in and just care for eachother. Also we both speak like every love language so it's fun.

  • @Lauraabreu1528
    @Lauraabreu1528 Год назад +12

    I love this video! I experience every single one of these with my hubby 😍 and its so mutual that even strangers feel the strong love

  • @casaundramegan
    @casaundramegan 2 года назад +3

    Its hard to see this when I'm with someone long term who doesnt act these ways. But I always come back to him cuz I love him, I just wish he wanted to make me happy instead of just feeling like he has to to keep me around

  • @sabianroberts
    @sabianroberts 4 месяца назад +8

    I just came out of a long term relationship of nearly 3 years. We had nearly all of these signs. I really knew they were the one, but they still dumped me last week. I am in tears after watching this. We were very intimate and passionate with each other and I always, always fought for our relationship and to defend him. Somehow he still fell out of love.

  • @ladyfl0wers
    @ladyfl0wers Год назад +16

    Aren't those just normal strategies for a working relationship...i mean every relationship and not just "the one" ?!

  • @nadadealer4435
    @nadadealer4435 2 года назад +21

    1. your brain experiences changes 2. your pronouns may change 3. willing to fight for your relationship 4. willing to compromise in the relationship 5. they support you 6. they share a growth mindset 7. you’re in sync with each other 8. your goals and values are aligned 9. you have strong psychical chemistry 10. they understand your love language

  • @sViviftie
    @sViviftie Год назад +9

    Actually, this video makes me feel like now I know why the person I believed to be 'the one' for all those years turned out not to be

  • @LuzAmity-kt7wu
    @LuzAmity-kt7wu 3 месяца назад +40

    "Sex is an important part of a relationship" me and my girlfreind have both came to the conclusion that we are both asexual and do not need to have that kind of physical connection. I love her a lot and i think she is the one

    • @DatCat222
      @DatCat222 3 месяца назад +7

      As a fellow ace, I'm happy for the both of you for figuring it out and wish you good luck in your relationship!! Now just waiting for my future ace partner 💅

    • @AutumnTrujillo-ox2bv
      @AutumnTrujillo-ox2bv 3 месяца назад +5

      as a fellow ace (demisexual), do you like garlic bread?

    • @DatCat222
      @DatCat222 3 месяца назад +4

      @@AutumnTrujillo-ox2bv delicious 😍

    • @LuzAmity-kt7wu
      @LuzAmity-kt7wu 3 месяца назад +3

      @@AutumnTrujillo-ox2bv Garlic bread is GOD

    • @iLOVEaCannibalisticDeerMan
      @iLOVEaCannibalisticDeerMan 3 месяца назад +2

      ​@@AutumnTrujillo-ox2bv Come on, garlic bread is SO good
      I'm Bi and I love it😂

  • @solari_yuh
    @solari_yuh Год назад +15

    I was thinking about breaking up with my bf because our relationship is starting to be one-sided and I’m the one keeping it alive, we’ve been dating for just a few days about almost a week, ever since we’ve been dating he has changed and wasn’t as happy or chaotic as he was back then, it’s probably a good time for me to let go of him before I get hurt even more... Sadly, nothing in this video was related to our relationship. I hope I find someone better in the future and you guys as well☺️

    • @turquoisephoenix6548
      @turquoisephoenix6548 Год назад +1

      I know how that feels, good luck to your future relationships.

    • @SoundsSilver
      @SoundsSilver Год назад

      Boyfriend for a few days? huh?

    • @lizillusion2318
      @lizillusion2318 Год назад +3

      Sounds like for him the only fun was in the chase if his behavior changed that quickly. I’m so sorry that didn’t work out for you, and I wish you luck in your future relationships.❤

    • @solari_yuh
      @solari_yuh Год назад +1

      aww thank you guys, good luck with your relationships too

    • @loriadam1752
      @loriadam1752 Год назад

      lettuce spray

  • @SeaWitchUSN
    @SeaWitchUSN Год назад +18

    I’ve said for years the most seductive words are “we/us/our”. 😔

  • @jessicalovesjesus8423
    @jessicalovesjesus8423 2 года назад +5

    I have this big crush, I can’t stop thinking about him everyday. His smile makes me feel so good. When he’s around me he moves his hair. And he always bothers me to make me blush. My friends think I’m crazy but understand. I just can’t stop telling people. He makes me so happy and my days are better. One day he traded spots with someone just to be by me for a race. I obviously won. He also tries to ‘show off’ in front of me when I go away from him. Anyway have a good day/night. And I hope everyone finds the one they’re looking for. God bless you.

    • @ulomagift504
      @ulomagift504 2 года назад +1

      He helped me over a spiritual warfare,which I've been battling with over years,but thanks to him I'm healed and free

    • @ulomagift504
      @ulomagift504 2 года назад

      *w-asap him if you need his help⏬*

  • @Arikikamk
    @Arikikamk Год назад +8

    My ex was mad at me for persuing a career short term, and never told me till we broke up. We were together for 2.5 years and I didn't feel comfotable at all doing anything physical after a few months and blamed it on me. I was more than happy to end that relationship, because of all the guilt tripping, and the extreme clinginess.

  • @silentpoem
    @silentpoem Год назад +12

    YES! I found him finally!! After lots of trial and error!

  • @Ayarte
    @Ayarte 8 месяцев назад +9

    I finally met my 'the one' 5 years ago❤️ we had to use to many things i had many hardship during our relationship but it made our bond stronger and i can now say that i score 10/10 with him, and knowing that i am the only one that changed his mindset towards few things i belive i am his as well, even if there is a huge gap in age between us❤️

    • @pantelishosni6192
      @pantelishosni6192 8 месяцев назад

      How many years is the gap?

    • @Ayarte
      @Ayarte 8 месяцев назад

      @@pantelishosni6192 16 years, i am 32 and he will be 48 this year

    • @Elizabeth-pn4ug
      @Elizabeth-pn4ug 3 месяца назад

      ​@@Ayartethats not a lot anyway ,who cares about those things, if you're happy

  • @iamsun1111
    @iamsun1111 5 месяцев назад +18

    Sign 11: You just know that they are the one💚🩷

  • @katrina561
    @katrina561 Год назад +17

    I found the one i truly loved but i lost him. May he Rest in peace😢

    • @helenefrench4275
      @helenefrench4275 Год назад

      So sorry Katrina. I sincerely hope he is in peace and watching over you wherever he is. Take care of yourself 🎉

    • @Nola5427
      @Nola5427 Год назад

      I' m so sorry 😪💔

  • @geese-ette.6599
    @geese-ette.6599 2 года назад +5

    Still waiting for the right person :) all of the people I’ve liked before haven’t really turned out, as some end up having problems they go on and on about which is exhausting, some have perfect lives where they don’t need me in them and some I’m just too scared to talk to for fear of ruining something

  • @_sails_2568
    @_sails_2568 2 года назад +6

    Can you do a video on love languages and then separate videos about them, ex: Physical Touch, Quality Time, Acts Of Service, and so on.

  • @jjk1894
    @jjk1894 10 месяцев назад +4

    This video is so true. I have yet to check his love language. Thanks for this video

  • @ceciestunpseudooriginal9837
    @ceciestunpseudooriginal9837 Год назад +23

    There is never the one, there is the one you choose

    • @leonore3349
      @leonore3349 Год назад

      You might also choose multiple ones consecutively. Most people do.

  • @janaworld25
    @janaworld25 2 года назад +4

    Being alone tells a lot of answers 💔

  • @Nessie.00-b1z
    @Nessie.00-b1z 2 года назад +3

    The Ross and Rachel reference>>>>>

  • @riverkoenig9673
    @riverkoenig9673 Год назад +26

    I think these are all signs of simply a deep connection as well, be it romantic or platonic. Not a judgement of the video! Just a mention for anyone wandering the comments feeling disheartened or overwhelmed.

    • @chrisolagrim3597
      @chrisolagrim3597 Год назад

      My favourite song is Love of my life by Queen. Mary and Freddie were soulmates .

  • @DavidJackson-r5c
    @DavidJackson-r5c 4 месяца назад +3

    Yes it confirms a lot.. growing together is such a huge part of it sll..the willingness behind it and discovering what makes it all work together.. like i said its never ending snd that alone is worth ever single bit..

  • @DerMarkus1982
    @DerMarkus1982 Год назад +33

    No Idea why; I just suddenly felt the urge to tell y'all that I like pancakes. Especially those filled with Nougat, Vanilly or Pistacchio -flavo(u)red Ice Cream.😋

    • @itsjust.zainodiaz2913
      @itsjust.zainodiaz2913 Год назад +7

      thank you for sharing that with us, hope you have one of those soon x

    • @Dark_Abyss375
      @Dark_Abyss375 Год назад +1

      It’s because you were meant to give us this wonderful gift now I’m gunna make my pancakes differently 🙌🏻

  • @LaughIsLife4ever
    @LaughIsLife4ever 27 дней назад +2

    We have a very weak physical chemistry. Her love language is Acts of Service. Mine is Physical Touch. But we align with everything else in this video.

  • @Arcibun
    @Arcibun 2 года назад +15

    My boyfriend and I met in Virtual reality and since day one, we clicked. All of these are exactly like us, especially him knowing that my love language is physical love!

    • @anderstermansen130
      @anderstermansen130 2 года назад +1

      thats cool, when did you dump him?

    • @Arcibun
      @Arcibun 2 года назад +9

      Hm? We're still together!

    • @joule1969
      @joule1969 2 года назад +1

      Same! 🥰

    • @joule1969
      @joule1969 2 года назад +3

      We just had our anniversary ❤️

    • @Arcibun
      @Arcibun 2 года назад +3

      Aww, congratulations! How long have you been together?

  • @bugkohl3292
    @bugkohl3292 Год назад +4

    Everyone of these reminded me of her , this helped me a lot I had no doubts in my mind at all that she was the one.

  • @arumon123
    @arumon123 Год назад +11

    I wish I could tell her how I feel, but she has so much going for her and I still have so much I need to do. Idk if we will ever be together but I will cherish every moment we have together even if it's just as friends.

    • @Nola5427
      @Nola5427 Год назад

      Tell her how you feel 🙂

    • @arumon123
      @arumon123 Год назад

      @@Nola5427 she ended up ghosting me shortly after getting into a relationship with someone else.