A few days ago, we made a video about borderline personality disorder to help raise awareness about that topic. If you could help promote that video that would be here. Here is the link: ruclips.net/video/yk2V5I78aHg/видео.html
Signs You've Found The One, According To Relationship Experts You Can Be Yourself. ... You Connect At A Deeper Level. ... You Can Talk About Anything. ... You Are Their First Priority. ... Their Relationship History Is, Well, History. ... Your Friends & Family Like Them, Too. ... You Handle Conflict & Turbulence Well. ... You Value Your Time Together.
I wrote a song about this, the chorus is: 🎶How come the song shines brighter when your around, And all of my walls come crumbling down? With you I no longer have need for constant sound, Because I'm not trying to drown you out🎶
@@thatearringgirl5946🎶 all of my pain it seems to fade But when your away I start to drain See me through but I'm ok 🎶 Just Don't cry I'll heal your pain Our wounds gone and we feel the same 🎶
“It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone… but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.” --Kahlil Gibran
One person i managed to forget, and she was a female,( Like me) yep, an older woman... thought she would have loved me back but i was stupid i guess, should have known better. Why would a grown adult love a teenager? well... that was MY logical thinking. Teenagers have nothing to offer, they arent stable or anything, and we're a handful to take care of.. i couldnt have given her much of anything. I was hoping that taking a few mouthfulls of vodka would help me forget , and it did back then. I ended up in the hospital on IV drip that night, & literally my mind forgot about this for 20 plus years of my life, i also forgot about a few other memories..that have to do with and older adult male too. Anyways now.. 20 yrs later tho, it just poped back in my mind and idk what triggered it, but i remember it all now like it was yesterday. I wish it was different, becuase it was pretty cool hanging out with her, we talked allday and stuff, hell, i really dont honestly know what we talked about, me being 14 and her 30, i mean what kind of conversation could we have had lol, but we smoked cigs , just hung out at another older couples house and listened to 80's music on one of those vintage 70 tapedecks things that had a recod player on top. Back then in the 90's people werent on this health kick bandwagon stupid trend thing that we cant show smoking. Everyone smoked ciggerettes and we had asthrays everywhere lol I seriously dont think this Kahlil guy has ever tried getting drunk to the piont of passing out. It 100 percent works! ( You wont remember certain memories for 20 years!) PS : Becuaee of these events i think i know why i like older adults now. I never thought of them in this way tho & i had a few partners my own age when i was younger.
1. You share strength 2. You connect emotionally 3. You challenge each other 4. You really apologize 5. You put in equal effort 6. You've crossed paths before 7. You don't hide anything 8. You share values 9. You openly expressing your concerns 10. You plan ahead
Every single point made in this video fits the relationship I had with my boyfriend. I knew he was the one for me early on and he felt the same way. He passed away in March of this year but I’m eternally grateful that I had the chance to meet and love him.
What you have said is so beautiful, you have to be so proud with your emotional regulation ❤️ i’m in the same boat as you and every day after meeting my boyfriend i would say to my friends, it was great to meet a good man, even if it doesn’t last forever. I hope you are doing well x
1. You share strengths 0:43 2. You connect emotionally 1:07 3. You challenge each other 1:31 4. You really apologize 2:02 5. You put in equal effort 2:27 6. You've crossed paths before 2:51 7. You don't hide anything 3:21 8. You share values 3:48 9. You openly express concerns 4:13 10. You plan ahead 4:42
1. be there for eachother 2. understand and challenge eachother 3. apologize and express concerns 4. equal effort for the relationship 5. transparency on vulnerabilities 6. share values
"Soulmate - a person ideally suited to another as a close friend or romantic partner." It actually is part of its definition lol Tbh, my soulmate is my best friend and I love him dearly, though I'd never date him, no offense to him. (Though, to be fair, he is aroace, which is one of my reasons for not wanting to date him.)
What I primarily get from this video is that "the one" is not just one person but a person you've built a trusting bond with. A lot of these points require two people knowing, trusting and respecting each other. To me, being soulmates as described here means much more the journey you take together and the ways you develop together than fate and coincidence. Very reassuring
I found the one . Sadly he passed away two weeks ago . It’s been difficult because he was a once in a lifetime person . I’ll never meet anyone like him ever again
I really wish for that. That it is easy once. I just feel that I need a big relieve and finally a time where I can relax. Don't has to be "my soulmate", who knows
No not true at all and THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A SOUL MATE, AND "THE ONE" that's a fraud, and disney world fantasy, ain't NONE of that real, only thing that is real is break up, heartbreak, and pain that's it so anything else you hear is a fraud i know it for a FACT
⚠️⚠️ EDIT *SERIOUS UPDATE*: PLEASE READ THE UPDATE IN THE REPLIES TO THIS COMMENT BELOW. THANKS!! ⚠️⚠️ 🚨 TRIGGER WARNING: SEXUAL ASSAULT 🚨 I FOUND MY SOULMATE!!!!! 😁 We're currently engaged and we're planning on the wedding date being October 8th, 2022. 🥰😍😊😊❤❤
N’awww this animator again their art style is too cute. X3 Edit: Whoa thanks for all the likes and guys make sure to sub to Naphia and all of the Psych2gos side channels.
I think I found my soulmate. We reconnected after 51 years. We were in high school together. We fit in literally all 10 scenarios. And fortunately we are both single. We are like peas and carrots we belong together. He's moving across country so we can be close. It seems too good to be true but we're going to ride this out. We've decided it's our destiny to follow this through
Nah he just smokes so much dope that he literally has a pot plant growing out of his head. That also explains why this channel re-uploads the same video two or three times for lonely damaged people that only feel worse when they see this type of crap. Bunch of clickbait trash.
Im convinced people are incapable of actual love in todays society. People throw that word around like i throw toilet paper into the shitter. It means nothing to anyone, even i know im incapable of love. I feel nothing for anyone, i understand no one. I may as well not even be human.
All of these are so accurate. I have been with my now husband for 10 years. We have been through everything together and he has always been by my side and this is exactly how we interact with each other. Communication is so so important in a relationship. When I saw myself with him when I grow old I knew he was the one I wanted to marry. We got married a year ago and had a small ceremony. In 2 weeks we are going to Disney to celebrate our first year of marriage. The funny thing is how I met him.. at a night club. He is faithful he treats me with respect and he is my biggest cheerleader and best friend and I love him so much. I would do anything for him.
My boyfriend and I challenged each other as to who gets abs first around the beginning of the pandemic, since we're quarantined apart. Well, neither of us succeeded. We still laugh about it.
Cute! My boyfriend and I challenge each other in kind of our own game where we get a point when one of us scares the other.... I'm losing, he's winning..... Not even sure what happens when one of us wins yet. 😂
I was in a relationship for 11 years. I always thought that he would be the one for me. But after time we lost this connection we had... After 11 years I found someone that really caught my eye. I knew him for 6 years but we were just friends. That's what I thought. We went on walks together, shared information, played games together and after a while I was hooked on him. My boyfriend was just on his computer, playing his games and never made time for us.. I took all my courage and told this friend of mine that I liked him. He started to cry and told me that he loved me too. He wanted to say it but he couldn't because I had a boyfriend and he didn't want to destroy anything. We are together now and I never felt this happy ❤️
1. They carry a giant battle ax 2. They’re extremely tall and buff in the day but incredibly scrawny and weak at night 3. They can create suns 4. Their name is Escanor
Signs You've Found The One, According To Relationship Experts You Can Be Yourself. ... You Connect At A Deeper Level. ... You Can Talk About Anything. ... You Are Their First Priority. ... Their Relationship History Is, Well, History. ... Your Friends & Family Like Them, Too. ... You Handle Conflict & Turbulence Well. ... You Value Your Time Together.
OMG THE INSIGHT.. YOU'VE OPENED MY EYES AND THE EYES OF THOOOOOOOOOOOOOUSANDS. THANK YOU FOR THE QUOTE!!! (ALSO MY MOTHER SAYS THANK BUT SHE DOESN'T USE RUclips BC SHE'S HANDICAPPED)
Celebrity crush is a crush on your idea if that person, not on them as they truly are. If you met that person, you would be healed quickly from your crush.
I know because the thought of his smile and of seeing him in the morning fills me with warmth. I know because all i want is to talk to him. I know because he is mine and I am his and I love him.
I think that we all have several soulmates across the world. If it doesn't work out with one of them, it doesn't mean you've lost the one soulmate you had. I just means that you will find another one ❤
Thank you m'lady now i think i actually will have another chance to have my soulmate. I felt everything she said in the video for one woman but... Sadly we broke up till then i have never felt any feelings for any woman. But seeing your comment really changed my mindset and made me smile thank you, God bless you.
I think that I have met a soulmate but she is in a relationship wit someone else. Even if we don't end up together this has given me hope that there are like minded people out there that will understand me and make me a better person!
This gave me so much hope! I definitely found a soulmate, but we’re literally an ocean apart so she & I can’t be together sadly since neither of us are in a place financially or life wise where we could afford to come & see each other😞
He didn't know how to cook, but one day I told him that you should learn, next day he told me that he told his mother that some girl has asked him to learn cooking, so he was learning to cook noodles. We were just friends 😂. LOL.
My heart might be bruised, but it will recover and become capable of seeing beauty of life once more. It's happened before, it will happen again, I'm sure. When someone leaves, it's because someone else is about to arrive--I'll find love again. Paulo Coelho
I used to think that, as a woman, having kids was the worst thing in the world. My partner convinced me it wasn't. I love him but found that I would come to love my son more than anything else in the world. The only worse thing in the world is losing your child. My partner almost lost me and regrets wanting kids. He believes kids aren't worth the possibility of losing your life partner. But don't hold back. As a woman, you've been given the blessing of having the strongest bond in the world. Enjoy it with your partner(soulmate) while you can.
my soulmate isn’t a significant other, it’s actually a very close friend of mine. after watching this i’m now realizing how much she’s done for me and how much i love her. having a soulmate is really freaking beautiful and amazing, it just feels so right and happy.
These sings in the video I actually see as emotional maturity. I believe a soulmate is someone, who you truly and deeply connect with, mutually and on a different, special level. There could be more than one too (and they're not all romantic, it could be friendship too). However, how you treat each other is based on the decisions you continuously take in each moment, it is who we choose to be that plays a role in how our relationships play out. Good relationships do not just come with finding the right people, it is also about choosing to put the effort to be a better person and grow together. It is so very important to try being conscious of who we are and what we do.
I am certain I have met my soul mate. I have never had a relationship before I met him and I never knew I could experience love like this. Since meeting him, I am the happiest and wholest version of myself. I am so grateful for him being in my life right now. I truly hope everyone reading this finds their soul mate. Everyone deserves the same happiness, love and connection with another person.
As a romantic I used to believe this and I used to do this. I gave more than could be returned and in the end when I needed something, it wasn't there. Support goes both ways. It's a childish fantasy to think one can invest into someone like this without any sort of return. Yes, you do a lot for them in good faith, but if it's only in good faith then as a solid foundation you are setting the relationship up for failure. Love may not have conditions but relationships do. Some of the obvious are cheating, lying, betrayal, etc, but these are not the only things you can refuse to continue loving unconditionally for. You may not stop feeling love for them, but to be unconditional is an unreasonable task to commit to.
I'm binge watching all the relationship videos...This is my first real relationship, and I don't want to mess it up. We have all the green flags, and our relationship reflects all the points mentioned in this video. We're just so young, and even though we've talked about the future when we grow up, there are days I can't imagine what will happen in between now and then. EDIT: She ended up showing her true colors about three months into the relationship. She never saw me as who I was and apparently dated me out of pity. Said she was never in love with me and she only cared for me like a friend. Said she could never ever marry me because I wasn't born a man. Being a trans guy who thought she supported my identity? That really stung. But yeah - That relationship is over.
Try not to worry too much, it’s okay if it doesn’t work out, especially if it’s your first real relationship. As long as you both always feel loved, supported, and safe with each other you’re doing your best. Always be yourself, never apologize for it. I hope it works out for you, there’s nothing more magical than a first real love, and hopefully your only real love. We’ll all be here for you if it does, or doesn’t work out. Good luck to both of you! ❤️
I am in the exact same scenario. We're both still pretty young, so I'm worried about what will happen .... If things work out or not, I want to cherish every moment and memory I can.
Dont even bother telling people man, it helps nothing. It just makes you feel worse about your social situation and 99% of the time all youll get from people is "youll find the one someday" I just come to the comments section on these shitty ass video topics to trash on the normies and see how many times i can get called an incel in a 10 minute window.
I actually feel like I have found my soulmate🥺 I’ve never had such an easy going relationship. My boyfriend is honestly my best friend & lover all in one. We both admit when we’re wrong & we realise that arguing over it won’t help plus we both don’t mind taking the blame either way. We’re so open emotionally & it’s honestly the best thing. Over all, I love that guy💗
To all the people who believe, love will make you truly happy, that’s not true. It takes love, peace and forgiveness/kindness to truly find the happiness, we have lost. Love filled my heart, but my demons don’t find it enough to be happy.
"You've crossed paths before" *cries in long-distance relationship* ( edit: I just noticed how many likes this got because of a reply LMAIDND , Thank you all so much! to update on what happened between me and my bf we ended up breaking up about a month ago- due to the distance, we couldn't stand not being near each other- maybe one day we'll meet up and give it another try but for now I'm gonna be chill for a bit TwT )
I'm in a long-distance online best friendship... we have the same interests, feel the same emotions, predict the future together, and give each other strength in times of anxiety. Every time the topic of meeting in real life comes up, we say "when", not "if". 💖
"Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same." Emily Brontë This just reaffirmed that he's the one. I've always known it, but the reassurance is quite wonderful. Despite being apart, separated by hundreds of miles, I know that he and I are meant to be, to work it out, to experience life together. I've never had reason to regret or wish I was with anyone other than him, and we complement one another so nicely. I never worry that he speaks with malintent. I love how we're growing up together, but give each other room to grow, to make mistakes and mess up, to forgive, and move forward together. He's the one. He's my soulmate, I'm sure of it.
I found my soul mate 4 years ago. For three years now we've been together. We've seen it all, medical problems, family problems, deaths, friendships, new beginnings and ends. I couldn't imagine my life without him, nor him without me. We're together through everything, for better or for worse, and despite everything that's happened, I could never imagine a happier life.
Me and My girlfriend have been together only 7 months now. I love her more than anything and sometimes just how much we both love one another can be scary because it feels like we are moving so fast but in reality we simply never felt like we had to put up the front that so many people do when they start a relationship. We have gotten a lot of judgement from others who told us that we are too young to know what we are talking about or to know that what we want together is best for us, but it has not once held us back from doing what we want to do. In my opinion there are two things that can also help you know if they are the one. One is that immediate comfort you get from someone. The feeling like you should be married already lol. Sometimes it isn't a great idea to rush too fast into things, but when you feel comfortable around someone and they do too you will start understanding each other deeply very fast. Another way to tell has to do with the first point in the video. No matter how much resistance we get towards what we want to do and how, not once have we ever felt the need to give in to those judgments from others. Sometimes it feels like it is us against the world and how I know she is the one is because that doesn't scare me at all. She is an infinite source of strength and wisdom and support and when someone is right for you I promise you will recognize this early on.
Yes, of course..! Soulmates are not necessarily always blood relatives or lovers.. They can be close friends or any other relationships.. You can find your soulmate(s) in any person who you feel very deeply connected with in a very special and spiritual way. You just don't have one soulmate but actually a number of them.. and you will eventually meet them throughout you life.
This genuinely hurts to watch never had this so it hurts...watching my friends who are in love do all of this hurts. I’m glad and happy they have each other and hope they always stay together but after a while,..watching them, it really does get to me.
I think I found the one. we went through some tough stuff in the beginning, we didnt even have a honeymoon phase because life got really difficult and responsibilities weighed too much and everything was super rocky at first and we both hurt each other really bad because our communication and trust wasn't 100%, but through it all, there was something there. we still did about 8/10 things listed in this video even though we were going through a hard time. we agreed to cultivate it and now, we are finally connecting better and everything feels right, we are on the same page and ever since then, life has been so much better. I'm sure we are doing all 10 things now and im eager about the future
this is EXACTLY how it’s been with my relationship. pretty rocky in the beginning because yes, life got in the way and we both had taken on some of the biggest responsibilities we’ve each had to take on. so emotions were getting the best of us, and our trust and communication weren’t great yet. we both came from VERY different backgrounds, yet we have that connection i’ve never felt before. and it’s so peaceful. arguments and disagreements are healthy!! and we’re communicating and being more open than ever now :) we’re continuing to get better and it’s nice bc i can see he’s really trying too. i believe in instant connections, and i also believe in two people coming together, and equally really wanting to work towards bettering themselves and eachother, yk? :) even if it does end up being somewhat rocky at first. working thru situations only made us closer and more understanding. best wishes to you and your partner!!
Gonna be honest, I'm too bitter to truly believe in soulmates but this video is really helpful reference for writing a good soulmate pair. I'm glad there's short, easily digestible vids like this. thanks again!
The first time I saw my wife I knew I was going to be with her for the rest of our lives because I wanted to do whatever I had to to make us happy if she wanted the same she was 17 I was 19 now I’m going on 34... still together and still make each other laugh and our love grows stronger every day... Don’t be afraid to be vulnerable and never hold anything in that bothers the other, be honest and love them for their faults not just the good things love them for who they are and accept them as they come...❤️
Another fact: Soulmates arent just romantic. Being Soulmates just means you come from the same soul group and exhibit traits mentioned in the video. That doesn't mean it's meant to be haha
1. You share strength. 2. You connect emotionally. 3. You challenge each other. 4. You really apologize. 5. You put in equal effort. 6. You've crossed paths before. 7. You don't hide anything. 8. You share values. 9. You openly express concerns. 10. You plan ahead.
I've been going out with this girl for a few months now and I genuinely feel as though she's the one. I can see a future with her, just sit in silence together and we can talk for hours on end. I know that I'm only a few months in but it seems to me like she's the one!
I feel like i met my soulmate. We've met after playing ping pong together and sucking at it while laughing. After that we became friends and the feelings started to grow,I asked her out and we're making baby steps towards "standard relationship",as she had trouble with a crazy ex and I'm very shy. We've been dating for 2 years and honestly,even if we don't talk everyday,we can talk for hours,make each other(I try to make her sleep earlier but it's complicated lol) and we've been there for each other. I really hope my relationship with my girlfriend will last forever,i want it to be forever.
@@ryomahoshi4529 That's sweet, I was in a 2 year relationship with someone, but unfortunately broke up. Ive known them for 4 years, but been in a 2 years relationship. We still talk and tell each other we love, miss another, etc. Bonds between people is very complicated, and labels aren't always what they seem.
Yes! Soul mates exist! I never thought I'd get married, but then I met my husband in a store and it was love at first sight. A profound feeling that I have never felt before. An unseen rope pulling me towards him. We are meant to be and so deeply in love and best friends. We've been married now for 3 years! Been together for 5 😊 good luck finding your soul mates!
I have to be honest, when I didn’t know about psych2go, I was genuinely uninterested in psychology. Now learning about psychology is a hobby, and even a new career path has opened! ❤️
@@teresa-wx4sc It's not how I feel, it's just the truth. Soulmates don't exist. There is nobody in the world we are meant to be with, everything is just a choice.
Omg this is so wholesome I love it. I'm finally with someone I'm*in love* with, rather than just someone I love, someone I'm codependent with, drinking with, obsessed with... I'm actually very much in love with someone who fits these criteria. Thank you for this affirmation, I needed it today, just to stay grounded and remind myself that yes, this is real and no, it's not too good to be true.
I have a friend, which I met almost 3 years ago... She is from another country so we have only talked on messenger And I'm starting to think that I love her, but I'm so unsure about it, we both like drawing and creating stories, we share our ideas, we support emotionally when someone need it... Basically all the things in the video except for the "crossed paths before" I really love her, but she's probably just kind with me so I don't know if I should tell her and risk our friendship I don't want suggestions, at all, I just wanted to release this from me and let it get lose in this sea of comments, so if you read this, congratulations, you found me, and thank you for your time
I had a best friend wich i now know for 2 years, we are from diferent country too and can only met in real life in 4 years ;-; and she became my girlfriend in february ! We had all the sign except the "crossed path" like you I don't know her but i think she won't give you up if you tell her that you love her, it's not like you said something bad, and if she love you too you won't regret it at all !
Oh man. I've been in this situation before and... it didn't end well. But we were 16 when this happened and our relationship was much more shallow. I was extremely shy back than and she was an extrovert and a socialist butterfly. Talking about art is a sign of intimacy. It might be a good sign of something bigger but again. Even thinking about more than a friendship might put a huge strain on you. It's a tough situation... How old are you two?
dont worry, i met someone like that too. i honestly thought i have moved on. it's kinda annoying on my part thinking that whenever my heart breaks for someone (like new guys i met), my heart yearns for the past love that i have felt almost 4-5(?) years ago, and until this day, i dont even know what "love" means. I never understood it, but all i know that this guy was really special. Hoping one day I would fly to their country and meet him finally. there i would know, maybe, if it was Love i feel or just deep admiration.
@@jeandamienmecanophilefaitd5162 holy fucking Christ...this speaks to me so much! I was 14 when I met my current bf, now almost 4 years ago, and we also met in February and could only meet in four years because he lives in another country. I relate with you! Long term waiting is really hard. But hang in there and put in the time and effort and remember how worth it it is in the end. Good luck to you and your girl!
It hurts like real bad that i was like this with someone once, we were best friends then she became my girlfriend we never saw each other outside of school but the link was there but one day after 1 year of relationship she said that she wanted to see me one day and when i went to see her she was with her dog and all the presents i gave her she gave them all back she said that we needed to live our life like normal people she was the one and it just hurts like nothing else to know that and now we are still friends but i feel a huge void inside now i look pathetic crying in my bed alone in the dark thinking about the good days
Me: I won a kiss my Girlfri... My brain: DONT YOU My heart: DO IT Me: U guys are part of my body fighting against each other, that makes my life broken onto 2 sides dudes :/
The crossing paths one really struck a chord with me, my girlfriend and I crossed paths before and I didn't even know it until recently. I have extremely strong feelings for her even after dating for almost 2 months, I look forward to spending more time with her and getting g to know her. I do think she is my soul mate
Same! My bf and I also crossed paths long time ago and how, regardaless of how we have done it, we would have meet either way. We have been dating 6 months and im so happy and thankful for him... I wish you the best with your gf. and hope you have a strong and happy relationship! :)
I’m in my first relationship, and it seems to be going rather well! But it’s in my nature to doubt and worry, so I came here out of curiosity and worry. We’ve hit a low where the things we talk about have begun to become a tiring, but regardless we always express ourselves in an honest way.
My favourite human scores a perfect 10/10 on this chart. We are both middle aged, divorced parents that live on opposite sides of a huge country. We have managed to build an incredible relationship from distance while also planning and preparing for our future together. There are a lot of doubters in our lives but they don’t see what we are doing to make it all work for our future.
I relate to 9.5/10 of these signs (except 6 since I met him online), though #9 I have slight trouble with, cuz I don't wanna be seen as "asking for too much". Due to a past toxic relationship, I sometimes worry about telling him certain things cuz I think he'd get mad or give the silent treatment (he's the absolute sweetest thing tho!)
Don't be afraid! If you can relate to the other ones then I'm sure you can tell him what you want. But I understand with the past toxic relationship, take it slow and easy and hopefully you'll find that he will love you no matter what and won't care :)
@@That1Knife I worry he'll feel not good enough for me if I ask for a lot, and he reminds me all the time he feels good enough for me but I still worry 😭
@@iiantixsocial Hey I feel that, but I say don't worry I'm sure he's right and he does feel good enough, and if he for some reason eventually does it's ok as long as he feels ok and doesn't change anything or make him uncomfortable. I felt not good enough sometimes with my girlfriend but it was fine. I still loved her and wouldn't leave her for anything. And I'm sure he feels great
@@iiantixsocial I really get the worrying anyways, I used to do that sometimes and my girlfriend did a lot, no shame in it if you worry a lot but I will say you don't need to worry.
same! I found my person online as well. But he lived not far from my area, so we were shocked to learn that some of my high school friends were his friends as well. And that our circles overlapped, it was a wonder how we didn't connect sooner. I guess everything has it's time.
I can connect to all of these points with my girlfriend...I know in my heart that she's been who I've been waiting for my whole life. Through the good and the bad, this channel has shown me what I can do to help improve the parts of myself so I can be the best version of myself, flaws and all, for her. Thank you, Psi!!!
I FEEL your PAIN 😭😭 I don't know why my stupid brain won't just stopppp. it's Soo annoying when a Taylor Swift song makes me cry.... Edit: He asked me out😁♥️♥️
Me, an aromantic asexual: **Hugs my cake** I HAVE FOUND THE ONE Edit: a lot of people are talking abt having a soulmate that’s either a friend or one way but still loving, and I just wanna clarify that YOU CAN have a soulmate that is just a friend to you (i have one personally, she’s pretty great), it’s just different from the normal ‘romantic’ soulmate
I am jealous.. Correct me if im wrong but you do still get feelings right? or is that rarely?. I would LOVE to not feel anything, but I feel it too intensly, i feel EVERYTHING way too much, more than the average person and the curse of that is getting my feelings hurt & heart broken alot. I thought to call myself an asexual person......& even aromantic once.. but im obviously NOT either of those since i wear my heart on my sleeve. The sexual attractions are always intense too!, i mean... I mean there are alot of nice looking people around lol , and if they like me and if i loke them , desire can be crazy. I cant help but feel these things..strongly towards anyone who gives me the slightest bit of attention too, i get puppy crushes alot..& it sucks, its like im still in highschool, but im a 30 yr old🤔. Btw i love cake too lol
@@PopCultureFan_, being an aro/ace is super complicated because we don't really know what it feels like to have these attractions, but some do feel small amounts (like me very rarely). The actual definition of aro/ace is a person that feels little to no sexual and romantic attraction, so your all g. Also, as long as you feel comfortable with your label then that is who you are, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise, because your the only one who rlly knows how you feel. I hope this helped
I might not be aromantic but i found a similar word, Biromantic..lol and tbh i love the meaning behind it. They took the sexual part out of it bc its all about romantic feelings instead of just shallow desire....... ...but of course tho, i am still technically alittle of that too lmao
@@-bitterlemonade-9437 my boyfriend is aromantic asexual (I'm also ace) and, with him, I'm in the most loving, fulfilling relationship I've ever been in my entire life. It's not quite time for that yet, but we're constantly planning for our wedding. Anyone looking at us would probably not believe we are aro/ace, and yet we can't help but feel that we absolutely are. Being on the spectrum truly is complicated, huh? At least to explain of course ^^
i’m still waiting for my soulmate whenever God is ready to send him. I do believe that as you grow in life there are people who come and go as they teach you valuable lessons to unlock about yourself based on the choices you make. i’m 16 and i have a long way to go in life , but 2020 has made me understand something spectacular about myself. leaving a narcissistic relationship i found that i fell in love with psychology , built a relationship with God , and learning how to forgive others while also holding myself accountable for my own bs and calling my behavior out. God bless you guys ❤️
I am in relationship with Allah). He is the best healer of souls... I LOVE HIM, HE LOVES ME TOO. So I am happy. I pray to Allah i could find my soulmate♡´･ᴗ･`♡
Met my soulmate when we were 12 & 13. Life separated us. I met and dated many people, none which made me feel at peace and extremely comfortable to be myself. There was always something that didn’t feel right. We recently reconnected with/my person after 15 years. We actually reconnected at a point in my life in which I’ve been doing a lot of personal work, healing and self-love practices, finally starting to accept myself… and it’s like we never stopped talking. The connection is everything-AND MORE, I ever imagined. I feel the reciprocal love and care, I feel seen, heard, valued, free to be myself, no need to hide anything; there are endless laughs and constant feel-good moments. It’s the most genuine, transparent and beautiful feeling I’ve ever regained, I say this because I do remember how beautiful it felt when we were young, we just felt the instant connection and I feel like we were cut from the same cloth. This is my soulmate without a doubt.
Okay so I'm dating someone and I really think they're the one. We can talk openly about anything anytime. He is the absolute sweetest 😊 I say to him sometimes "I think we're gonna last a long time" and he always says "I think so too"
A few days ago, we made a video about borderline personality disorder to help raise awareness about that topic. If you could help promote that video that would be here. Here is the link: ruclips.net/video/yk2V5I78aHg/видео.html
Hi @Psych2Go * hope you're okay
So I have only toxic fake friends and Idk what to do or how to get rid of them
I'd be really happy if you help me😊
Signs You've Found The One, According To Relationship Experts
You Can Be Yourself. ...
You Connect At A Deeper Level. ...
You Can Talk About Anything. ...
You Are Their First Priority. ...
Their Relationship History Is, Well, History. ...
Your Friends & Family Like Them, Too. ...
You Handle Conflict & Turbulence Well. ...
You Value Your Time Together.
Hiya Psych2Go!! Of course, I would love to help your video! It has so many amazing facts and to-knows in it! Thank you and stay safe everyone ♡
Hi
Wow always very moving💟💟
Most definitely promoting this😍😍
Don't lie, we all came here with that person in mind
True lol
omg your brain...
😔 it's true
Not if, like myself, you have no expectation that you'll ever become good enough to date ;P
True
I have never been so jealous of two little beans
lmao oof-
Same hete
So cute
Don't worry, we all are since we're here.
They remind me of the Among Us characters running around lol
Soulmates are those with whom silence doesn't seem uncomfortable
this happens to everyone who spend enough time with each other, and it doesn’t have to be quality time.
I wrote a song about this, the chorus is:
🎶How come the song shines brighter when your around,
And all of my walls come crumbling down?
With you I no longer have need for constant sound,
Because I'm not trying to drown you out🎶
@@thatearringgirl5946🎶 all of my pain it seems to fade
But when your away I start to drain
See me through but I'm ok 🎶
Just Don't cry I'll heal your pain
Our wounds gone and we feel the same 🎶
Quote by uma thurman
💯💯💯
“It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone… but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.”
--Kahlil Gibran
Gibran❤️
One person i managed to forget, and she was a female,( Like me) yep, an older woman... thought she would have loved me back but i was stupid i guess, should have known better. Why would a grown adult love a teenager? well... that was MY logical thinking. Teenagers have nothing to offer, they arent stable or anything, and we're a handful to take care of.. i couldnt have given her much of anything. I was hoping that taking a few mouthfulls of vodka would help me forget , and it did back then. I ended up in the hospital on IV drip that night, & literally my mind forgot about this for 20 plus years of my life, i also forgot about a few other memories..that have to do with and older adult male too. Anyways now.. 20 yrs later tho, it just poped back in my mind and idk what triggered it, but i remember it all now like it was yesterday. I wish it was different, becuase it was pretty cool hanging out with her, we talked allday and stuff, hell, i really dont honestly know what we talked about, me being 14 and her 30, i mean what kind of conversation could we have had lol, but we smoked cigs , just hung out at another older couples house and listened to 80's music on one of those vintage 70 tapedecks things that had a recod player on top. Back then in the 90's people werent on this health kick bandwagon stupid trend thing that we cant show smoking. Everyone smoked ciggerettes and we had asthrays everywhere lol
I seriously dont think this Kahlil guy has ever tried getting drunk to the piont of passing out. It 100 percent works! ( You wont remember certain memories for 20 years!)
PS : Becuaee of these events i think i know why i like older adults now. I never thought of them in this way tho & i had a few partners my own age when i was younger.
TRUE.... i felt sad on that day
One word:
*Alzheimer's.*
Not true
1. You share strength
2. You connect emotionally
3. You challenge each other
4. You really apologize
5. You put in equal effort
6. You've crossed paths before
7. You don't hide anything
8. You share values
9. You openly expressing your concerns
10. You plan ahead
Thank you!
omg my crush might be my soulmate
thank you and now i conclude that his not the one. 🙂
literally my best friend, but she's already in a relationship, with a guy that treats her like shit
._.
💞💞💞
Every single point made in this video fits the relationship I had with my boyfriend. I knew he was the one for me early on and he felt the same way. He passed away in March of this year but I’m eternally grateful that I had the chance to meet and love him.
I'm so sorry for your loss... It must've been hard losing him. :(
I'm so sorry for your loss, I'll keep you in my prayers! 🙏♥
What you have said is so beautiful, you have to be so proud with your emotional regulation ❤️ i’m in the same boat as you and every day after meeting my boyfriend i would say to my friends, it was great to meet a good man, even if it doesn’t last forever. I hope you are doing well x
I’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t imagine losing my partner, you have immense strength ❤️ sending warm energy your way
I'm so sorry for your loss. i hope you are doing better now and you are healing. lots of love to you. please take care of yourself
There is nothing harder than when you know you've found your soulmate but the circumstances just won't allow you being together😥
SWEET HOME ALABAMA
It hurts 🙁
Sucks I can relate, maybe things might work out in the future?
Then they’re not your soulmate….
I can relate
I didn’t come here to find out if they are “the one”, I came to see if I am “the one”.
That should be a sign, and same
He's beginning to believe.
@Celtic Revival / Adfywiad Celtaidd take my damn like
The prophecy is true !
Super_Reincarnated yes bro yes
1. You share strengths 0:43
2. You connect emotionally 1:07
3. You challenge each other 1:31
4. You really apologize 2:02
5. You put in equal effort 2:27
6. You've crossed paths before 2:51
7. You don't hide anything 3:21
8. You share values 3:48
9. You openly express concerns 4:13
10. You plan ahead 4:42
Tessa thanks
4 days ago????
Bruh why does it say four days ago-
a god
Thanks
I'm not crying because I haven't found them,I'm crying because of the beautiful animation
truly 😭❤️
Crying moment😄
this is just so me right now
heh same
Your heart is soft , which actually is good ,thankgod
1. be there for eachother
2. understand and challenge eachother
3. apologize and express concerns
4. equal effort for the relationship
5. transparency on vulnerabilities
6. share values
"At the touch of love, everyone becomes a poet."
-Plato
Hey how are you! We meet again!
That's so true, speaking from my current experience
truth 😅💖
Damn, that's actually relatable
I think it's a good sign that these points apply to my closest friends - cause soulmates don't just exist in romantic relationships
So true! I feel like people often forget that having friends that you can love and trust in this way is normal and so important
Very true, I see this in my closest friendships
"Soulmate - a person ideally suited to another as a close friend or romantic partner."
It actually is part of its definition lol
Tbh, my soulmate is my best friend and I love him dearly, though I'd never date him, no offense to him. (Though, to be fair, he is aroace, which is one of my reasons for not wanting to date him.)
Congratulations to all people who actually found their soulmate ❤️
Thanks! I found mine today :) , I hope you find yours too ^^
@@Iliketoeatpussy. congrats
Thankss found mine a while back and im dating him (I have for 2 years and almost 3 months now)
thnx
Thank u :(❤️
What I primarily get from this video is that "the one" is not just one person but a person you've built a trusting bond with. A lot of these points require two people knowing, trusting and respecting each other. To me, being soulmates as described here means much more the journey you take together and the ways you develop together than fate and coincidence. Very reassuring
I found the one . Sadly he passed away two weeks ago . It’s been difficult because he was a once in a lifetime person . I’ll never meet anyone like him ever again
May his soul rest in peace... Stay strong dear, it must be so hard to lose someone so close to you... Sending prayers, love and light over to you..
💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗
:(( sorry to hear this:(( keep fighting❤️
I'm sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how it feels. They do say you have more than one soulmate. Maybe in time you will find your second soulmate.
That must be so hard for you. I know this comment is from 7 months ago, but I just want to say that I’m sending you love and light 💕💕💕
8 planets
195 countries
7 billion people
_And I fell in love with someone who didn't exist_
ME TOO
woah hello person called zuzu im called zuzu too :)))
😭
I feel ya bro, the struggle is real.
Them anime teads are just better than the real deal sad to say.
I fall in love with fictional characters every other day... :')
I found my soulmate 6 years ago. 💕 one month ago he asked me to be his wife. 🥰
Congrats! 😁
That's wonderful I'm happy for you 🤗
Congratulations
Congratulations hope you live very wonderful life with your soulmate
@@darkumbreon6489 Because you didn't find it
For me if you found your soulmate you don’t need these because you just know. Everything is easy and falls into place ✨
I really wish for that. That it is easy once. I just feel that I need a big relieve and finally a time where I can relax. Don't has to be "my soulmate", who knows
No not true at all and THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A SOUL MATE, AND "THE ONE" that's a fraud, and disney world fantasy, ain't NONE of that real, only thing that is real is break up, heartbreak, and pain that's it so anything else you hear is a fraud i know it for a FACT
Every relationship takes work.
⚠️⚠️ EDIT *SERIOUS UPDATE*: PLEASE READ THE UPDATE IN THE REPLIES TO THIS COMMENT BELOW. THANKS!! ⚠️⚠️
🚨 TRIGGER WARNING: SEXUAL ASSAULT 🚨
I FOUND MY SOULMATE!!!!! 😁
We're currently engaged and we're planning on the wedding date being October 8th, 2022. 🥰😍😊😊❤❤
Cngroadulatino.
Congrats!! 💕
🤜😄🤛😘
Thanks guys!!! 🥰🥰🥰
Congrats
Yes, I found my soulmate. His name is Oxygen 😍
Is that actually their name or is this a joke? I honestly can't tell. 😅
@@mxmangobutt a joke 💀
😆😆😆 mine is pudding
😂😂😂😂
At least he's always there for you 😂
N’awww this animator again their art style is too cute. X3
Edit: Whoa thanks for all the likes and guys make sure to sub to Naphia and all of the Psych2gos side channels.
Whats the speciality of being a member
I know!!!! *w*
ruclips.net/video/PSsFqpyax0s/видео.html
I really like their artstyle!!!!! >w
For real ❤️
I think I found my soulmate. We reconnected after 51 years. We were in high school together. We fit in literally all 10 scenarios. And fortunately we are both single. We are like peas and carrots we belong together. He's moving across country so we can be close. It seems too good to be true but we're going to ride this out. We've decided it's our destiny to follow this through
Congrats, I wish you all the best!
after 51 years? damn bruh
All the very best to you both 🙏🙏
hows it going?
I hope I don't have to wait that long for my soul mate.
Hey pysch2go, I noticed that the main character has a leaf on it's head all the time. Is that like a growth mind set? I think that's pretty cool 😊😎
Nah he just smokes so much dope that he literally has a pot plant growing out of his head.
That also explains why this channel re-uploads the same video two or three times for lonely damaged people that only feel worse when they see this type of crap.
Bunch of clickbait trash.
B҉l҉o҉o҉d҉i҉e҉d҉_҉M҉i҉s҉t҉r҉e҉s҉s҉ strange feller lol
@@Grey_Ape59 👁️👄👁️
@@Grey_Ape59 Hey u don't have to be mean ok. It's NOT TRASH. Just because u haven't found "the one" doesn't mean u have to b so salty.
Yeah it can be interpreted like that. Nice😍
Love can only be found through the act of loving
How come you get 30 likes 11 minutes ago when my comment which was 20 minutes ago gets no likes?
Im convinced people are incapable of actual love in todays society.
People throw that word around like i throw toilet paper into the shitter.
It means nothing to anyone, even i know im incapable of love. I feel nothing for anyone, i understand no one. I may as well not even be human.
B҉l҉o҉o҉d҉i҉e҉d҉_҉M҉i҉s҉t҉r҉e҉s҉s҉ but like what happened to you?
B҉l҉o҉o҉d҉i҉e҉d҉_҉M҉i҉s҉t҉r҉e҉s҉s҉ who hurt you????
r/technically the truth
"You really apologize"
Me to almost anyone: *I'm sorry for existing-*
Same
😂😂😂
My soulmate gets on to me for that
Ahaha meeeee 😭😭
hahaha
All of these are so accurate. I have been with my now husband for 10 years. We have been through everything together and he has always been by my side and this is exactly how we interact with each other. Communication is so so important in a relationship. When I saw myself with him when I grow old I knew he was the one I wanted to marry. We got married a year ago and had a small ceremony. In 2 weeks we are going to Disney to celebrate our first year of marriage. The funny thing is how I met him.. at a night club. He is faithful he treats me with respect and he is my biggest cheerleader and best friend and I love him so much. I would do anything for him.
Seeing stories like yours gives me hope that I will find my girl one day
@@Sravan.Allopi Primely, you should be secure you are similar to the mentioned man
Can we take a moment to appreciate The Animation! It's just so good!
its becoming good also bcuz of the voice
YESSS LITERALLY IVE BEEN A FAN FOR SO LONG AND THIS IS MY FAVE
Totally, plus the voice
And cute.
Shall we all take a moment to appreciate the girl's voice? It's such sweet and gentle 🥺✨
My boyfriend and I challenged each other as to who gets abs first around the beginning of the pandemic, since we're quarantined apart. Well, neither of us succeeded. We still laugh about it.
Cute! My boyfriend and I challenge each other in kind of our own game where we get a point when one of us scares the other.... I'm losing, he's winning..... Not even sure what happens when one of us wins yet. 😂
😂
I was in a relationship for 11 years. I always thought that he would be the one for me. But after time we lost this connection we had...
After 11 years I found someone that really caught my eye. I knew him for 6 years but we were just friends. That's what I thought. We went on walks together, shared information, played games together and after a while I was hooked on him.
My boyfriend was just on his computer, playing his games and never made time for us..
I took all my courage and told this friend of mine that I liked him. He started to cry and told me that he loved me too. He wanted to say it but he couldn't because I had a boyfriend and he didn't want to destroy anything.
We are together now and I never felt this happy ❤️
"hes just a friend"
Me and my girlfriend watched this together and we both realized we tick all the boxes :)
Also, she finds the art style adorable, as do I :)
Annie is it 👀
Cool
Awwww
🙌🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾❤️
You found the one for you brother
1. They carry a giant battle ax
2. They’re extremely tall and buff in the day but incredibly scrawny and weak at night
3. They can create suns
4. Their name is Escanor
5. They will knock out the entire demon clan in 0.05 seconds
u mean Flexanor lol
Yoooo seven deadly sinsss
This is my dream comment.. thank you good sir. Thank you. 🙏
Amanda - Porn STARS ღ*GO MY PROF!LE* ღ EUUUUUUUU!! WHAT THE HELL???! THERE ARE KIDS ON THIS PLATFORM
Signs You've Found The One, According To Relationship Experts
You Can Be Yourself. ...
You Connect At A Deeper Level. ...
You Can Talk About Anything. ...
You Are Their First Priority. ...
Their Relationship History Is, Well, History. ...
Your Friends & Family Like Them, Too. ...
You Handle Conflict & Turbulence Well. ...
You Value Your Time Together.
Thanks
you're doing god's work
Thxs
Damn, I had nine out of ten. Didn’t work out. Shame
ruclips.net/video/PSsFqpyax0s/видео.html
My partner and I hit all these points. We got engaged last month. 🥰 I already knew, but it’s always nice to have validation.
The woman's voice in this video is so calming and nice ❤️
She's my favorite VA on this channel :)
@@effervescent4765 same
Ikr
"Before you find your soulmate, you must first discover your soul" Charles F Glassman.
OMG THE INSIGHT.. YOU'VE OPENED MY EYES AND THE EYES OF THOOOOOOOOOOOOOUSANDS.
THANK YOU FOR THE QUOTE!!! (ALSO MY MOTHER SAYS THANK BUT SHE DOESN'T USE RUclips BC SHE'S HANDICAPPED)
@@ClumsiePanda Take care
@@selfhelpchampion9664 take care of me.. :(
take care
of me Bob*
Psych2Go: "You've found the ONE."
People with celebrity crushes:
*cries in confusion*
Celebrity crush is a crush on your idea if that person, not on them as they truly are. If you met that person, you would be healed quickly from your crush.
NAKXKWKS NOT ME CRUSHING ON FICTIONAL CHARACTERS
@@luvvz7 relatable 😂
Found my soulmate, we were friends for 13 years and now we live together. I don't think I have ever loved anyone as much as I love him ❤
This is how I feel with my current partner. I’m like oh THIS is what everyone means when they say when you know you know.
Don’t really have a person or a soulmate yet but these videos make me feel like I’m not single and it’s a good and sad feeling at the same time
I totally agree. Having ac crush on someone doesn't help either.
I love how the main character has a leaves on their head. For me it represents growth❤
I know because the thought of his smile and of seeing him in the morning fills me with warmth. I know because all i want is to talk to him. I know because he is mine and I am his and I love him.
I think that we all have several soulmates across the world. If it doesn't work out with one of them, it doesn't mean you've lost the one soulmate you had. I just means that you will find another one ❤
Thank you m'lady now i think i actually will have another chance to have my soulmate. I felt everything she said in the video for one woman but... Sadly we broke up till then i have never felt any feelings for any woman. But seeing your comment really changed my mindset and made me smile thank you, God bless you.
@@chrischeesee Oooh your comment really made my day. I'm sorry you've broken up with her but I promise you will find another love ❤
I think that I have met a soulmate but she is in a relationship wit someone else. Even if we don't end up together this has given me hope that there are like minded people out there that will understand me and make me a better person!
This gave me so much hope! I definitely found a soulmate, but we’re literally an ocean apart so she & I can’t be together sadly since neither of us are in a place financially or life wise where we could afford to come & see each other😞
@@itsnygeria oh no that's so sad 😔 but you will find a way to make it work 😉✨
he hated vegetables until i told him to eat them coz they are healthy....he started eating vegetables and is now used to them lmao
Ho did you make him eat vegetables.my love just eating instant food all day.any ideas pls help
That's true love
He didn't know how to cook, but one day I told him that you should learn, next day he told me that he told his mother that some girl has asked him to learn cooking, so he was learning to cook noodles.
We were just friends 😂. LOL.
I’ve found the one and she’s amazing 13 months together and it’s been great
Congrats
Congrats bro! :D
C o n g r a t s
congrats homie
Aw yay :D
My heart might be bruised, but it will recover and become capable of seeing beauty of life once more. It's happened before, it will happen again, I'm sure. When someone leaves, it's because someone else is about to arrive--I'll find love again.
Paulo Coelho
A soulmate is a person who just cheers you up as soon as you see them and sharing silences with them is enjoyable too.
Lately he's been trying to convince me that kids aren't the worst thing in the world. It's working : , )
Volenter at an elementary school it is amazing if you are trying to like kids they tend to like you I did it in asexual but I love kids
I used to think that, as a woman, having kids was the worst thing in the world. My partner convinced me it wasn't. I love him but found that I would come to love my son more than anything else in the world. The only worse thing in the world is losing your child. My partner almost lost me and regrets wanting kids. He believes kids aren't worth the possibility of losing your life partner. But don't hold back. As a woman, you've been given the blessing of having the strongest bond in the world. Enjoy it with your partner(soulmate) while you can.
Kids are great, if you are a balanced parent.
The problem with kids, is there are billions of us already. Eating, this lovely world.
Same fam, same.
😂😂😂
my soulmate isn’t a significant other, it’s actually a very close friend of mine. after watching this i’m now realizing how much she’s done for me and how much i love her. having a soulmate is really freaking beautiful and amazing, it just feels so right and happy.
These sings in the video I actually see as emotional maturity. I believe a soulmate is someone, who you truly and deeply connect with, mutually and on a different, special level. There could be more than one too (and they're not all romantic, it could be friendship too). However, how you treat each other is based on the decisions you continuously take in each moment, it is who we choose to be that plays a role in how our relationships play out. Good relationships do not just come with finding the right people, it is also about choosing to put the effort to be a better person and grow together. It is so very important to try being conscious of who we are and what we do.
I am certain I have met my soul mate. I have never had a relationship before I met him and I never knew I could experience love like this. Since meeting him, I am the happiest and wholest version of myself. I am so grateful for him being in my life right now. I truly hope everyone reading this finds their soul mate. Everyone deserves the same happiness, love and connection with another person.
Imagine ur soulmate being a fictional character
I cant imagine
Oh same. It’s sad.
My soulmate might be myself
it's called Fictiophilia
Sad
Oh, that's probably me... Still haven't fallen in love... WITH REAL PERSON
The one is whoever you can give to unconditionally without wanting anything in return.
As a romantic I used to believe this and I used to do this. I gave more than could be returned and in the end when I needed something, it wasn't there. Support goes both ways. It's a childish fantasy to think one can invest into someone like this without any sort of return. Yes, you do a lot for them in good faith, but if it's only in good faith then as a solid foundation you are setting the relationship up for failure. Love may not have conditions but relationships do. Some of the obvious are cheating, lying, betrayal, etc, but these are not the only things you can refuse to continue loving unconditionally for. You may not stop feeling love for them, but to be unconditional is an unreasonable task to commit to.
That way you will only end up used and abused.
If the person gives you nothing back, it's obviously not the right one. Both partners should show the same effort.
I'm binge watching all the relationship videos...This is my first real relationship, and I don't want to mess it up.
We have all the green flags, and our relationship reflects all the points mentioned in this video.
We're just so young, and even though we've talked about the future when we grow up, there are days I can't imagine what will happen in between now and then.
EDIT: She ended up showing her true colors about three months into the relationship. She never saw me as who I was and apparently dated me out of pity. Said she was never in love with me and she only cared for me like a friend. Said she could never ever marry me because I wasn't born a man. Being a trans guy who thought she supported my identity? That really stung. But yeah - That relationship is over.
That’s so cool - good luck to you!🤗
Try not to worry too much, it’s okay if it doesn’t work out, especially if it’s your first real relationship. As long as you both always feel loved, supported, and safe with each other you’re doing your best. Always be yourself, never apologize for it. I hope it works out for you, there’s nothing more magical than a first real love, and hopefully your only real love. We’ll all be here for you if it does, or doesn’t work out. Good luck to both of you! ❤️
I am in the exact same scenario. We're both still pretty young, so I'm worried about what will happen
....
If things work out or not, I want to cherish every moment and memory I can.
Could read some Dr. Laura books too to seek the desk 👍❤️
same here
Why am I watching this, I've never been in a relationship?!
No matter who my soulmate really is, and no matter how hard I really try, I always end up being left feeling rejected and disappointed.
One day you'll find someone, just wait, i was too very unlucky at love but sooner or later you will be dating someone. Best luck my friend.
that's tough
Dont even bother telling people man, it helps nothing. It just makes you feel worse about your social situation and 99% of the time all youll get from people is "youll find the one someday"
I just come to the comments section on these shitty ass video topics to trash on the normies and see how many times i can get called an incel in a 10 minute window.
@@OpenWorldGamer- it is.
@@angelmatesmolan thank you.
I actually feel like I have found my soulmate🥺 I’ve never had such an easy going relationship. My boyfriend is honestly my best friend & lover all in one. We both admit when we’re wrong & we realise that arguing over it won’t help plus we both don’t mind taking the blame either way. We’re so open emotionally & it’s honestly the best thing. Over all, I love that guy💗
HOW IS IT GOING?! :))
To all the people who believe, love will make you truly happy, that’s not true.
It takes love, peace and forgiveness/kindness to truly find the happiness, we have lost.
Love filled my heart, but my demons don’t find it enough to be happy.
"You've crossed paths before" *cries in long-distance relationship*
( edit: I just noticed how many likes this got because of a reply LMAIDND , Thank you all so much! to update on what happened between me and my bf we ended up breaking up about a month ago- due to the distance, we couldn't stand not being near each other- maybe one day we'll meet up and give it another try but for now I'm gonna be chill for a bit TwT )
Never before have I related to a comment more than this
i feel you
I think i'm still inlove with my longdistance realtionship that i met for the 8nd time a year ago🥺
I'm in a long-distance online best friendship... we have the same interests, feel the same emotions, predict the future together, and give each other strength in times of anxiety.
Every time the topic of meeting in real life comes up, we say "when", not "if".
💖
same *sad potato noises*
"Whatever our souls are made of, his and mine are the same." Emily Brontë
This just reaffirmed that he's the one. I've always known it, but the reassurance is quite wonderful. Despite being apart, separated by hundreds of miles, I know that he and I are meant to be, to work it out, to experience life together. I've never had reason to regret or wish I was with anyone other than him, and we complement one another so nicely. I never worry that he speaks with malintent. I love how we're growing up together, but give each other room to grow, to make mistakes and mess up, to forgive, and move forward together. He's the one. He's my soulmate, I'm sure of it.
I found my soul mate 4 years ago. For three years now we've been together. We've seen it all, medical problems, family problems, deaths, friendships, new beginnings and ends. I couldn't imagine my life without him, nor him without me. We're together through everything, for better or for worse, and despite everything that's happened, I could never imagine a happier life.
Me and My girlfriend have been together only 7 months now. I love her more than anything and sometimes just how much we both love one another can be scary because it feels like we are moving so fast but in reality we simply never felt like we had to put up the front that so many people do when they start a relationship. We have gotten a lot of judgement from others who told us that we are too young to know what we are talking about or to know that what we want together is best for us, but it has not once held us back from doing what we want to do. In my opinion there are two things that can also help you know if they are the one. One is that immediate comfort you get from someone. The feeling like you should be married already lol. Sometimes it isn't a great idea to rush too fast into things, but when you feel comfortable around someone and they do too you will start understanding each other deeply very fast. Another way to tell has to do with the first point in the video. No matter how much resistance we get towards what we want to do and how, not once have we ever felt the need to give in to those judgments from others. Sometimes it feels like it is us against the world and how I know she is the one is because that doesn't scare me at all. She is an infinite source of strength and wisdom and support and when someone is right for you I promise you will recognize this early on.
Can my bestfriend be my soulmate? Like... everything is so relatable to us
Yep! Soulmates can be platonic relationships! Doesn't have to be romantic.
This was a good question
Why not?
Yes, of course..! Soulmates are not necessarily always blood relatives or lovers.. They can be close friends or any other relationships.. You can find your soulmate(s) in any person who you feel very deeply connected with in a very special and spiritual way. You just don't have one soulmate but actually a number of them.. and you will eventually meet them throughout you life.
Yes. My ex wife is. We are still best buddies, we understand each other. Even though, she couldn’t do intimacy, or even say I love you.
This genuinely hurts to watch never had this so it hurts...watching my friends who are in love do all of this hurts. I’m glad and happy they have each other and hope they always stay together but after a while,..watching them, it really does get to me.
When you’ve found the one but neither of you can drive or have rides for plans and meet ups
Know the feeling
Feel ya
same ;-;
Yaaaaasssss!!! Totally relate!!!!
as a 14 year old, it sucks
I think I found the one. we went through some tough stuff in the beginning, we didnt even have a honeymoon phase because life got really difficult and responsibilities weighed too much and everything was super rocky at first and we both hurt each other really bad because our communication and trust wasn't 100%, but through it all, there was something there. we still did about 8/10 things listed in this video even though we were going through a hard time. we agreed to cultivate it and now, we are finally connecting better and everything feels right, we are on the same page and ever since then, life has been so much better. I'm sure we are doing all 10 things now and im eager about the future
So,how it's going?
@i don't have a name for now still going really well so far
@@savagekid94 happy to hear this!
this is EXACTLY how it’s been with my relationship. pretty rocky in the beginning because yes, life got in the way and we both had taken on some of the biggest responsibilities we’ve each had to take on. so emotions were getting the best of us, and our trust and communication weren’t great yet. we both came from VERY different backgrounds, yet we have that connection i’ve never felt before. and it’s so peaceful. arguments and disagreements are healthy!! and we’re communicating and being more open than ever now :) we’re continuing to get better and it’s nice bc i can see he’s really trying too. i believe in instant connections, and i also believe in two people coming together, and equally really wanting to work towards bettering themselves and eachother, yk? :) even if it does end up being somewhat rocky at first. working thru situations only made us closer and more understanding. best wishes to you and your partner!!
same boat. thanks for sharing!
Gonna be honest, I'm too bitter to truly believe in soulmates but this video is really helpful reference for writing a good soulmate pair. I'm glad there's short, easily digestible vids like this. thanks again!
The first time I saw my wife I knew I was going to be with her for the rest of our lives because I wanted to do whatever I had to to make us happy if she wanted the same she was 17 I was 19 now I’m going on 34... still together and still make each other laugh and our love grows stronger every day... Don’t be afraid to be vulnerable and never hold anything in that bothers the other, be honest and love them for their faults not just the good things love them for who they are and accept them as they come...❤️
Another fact: Soulmates arent just romantic. Being Soulmates just means you come from the same soul group and exhibit traits mentioned in the video. That doesn't mean it's meant to be haha
Reid Garwin i dont know how to feel about this in case she rejects me doe
I found my soulmate, he is the most caring, handsome, funny boyfriend one can ever imagine 🥰❤️🔥
That could be just infatuation.
1. You share strength.
2. You connect emotionally.
3. You challenge each other.
4. You really apologize.
5. You put in equal effort.
6. You've crossed paths before.
7. You don't hide anything.
8. You share values.
9. You openly express concerns.
10. You plan ahead.
I've been going out with this girl for a few months now and I genuinely feel as though she's the one. I can see a future with her, just sit in silence together and we can talk for hours on end. I know that I'm only a few months in but it seems to me like she's the one!
I feel like i met my soulmate. We've met after playing ping pong together and sucking at it while laughing. After that we became friends and the feelings started to grow,I asked her out and we're making baby steps towards "standard relationship",as she had trouble with a crazy ex and I'm very shy.
We've been dating for 2 years and honestly,even if we don't talk everyday,we can talk for hours,make each other(I try to make her sleep earlier but it's complicated lol) and we've been there for each other. I really hope my relationship with my girlfriend will last forever,i want it to be forever.
Thats so nice! You should try to talk to her about the future! Goodluck!!!!
this is so sweet! im happy for you!
Aaaah thank you^^
@@ryomahoshi4529 That's sweet, I was in a 2 year relationship with someone, but unfortunately broke up. Ive known them for 4 years, but been in a 2 years relationship. We still talk and tell each other we love, miss another, etc. Bonds between people is very complicated, and labels aren't always what they seem.
That is so nice💖🥀💟💗🌞
Yes! Soul mates exist! I never thought I'd get married, but then I met my husband in a store and it was love at first sight. A profound feeling that I have never felt before. An unseen rope pulling me towards him. We are meant to be and so deeply in love and best friends. We've been married now for 3 years! Been together for 5 😊 good luck finding your soul mates!
My best friend is definitely my soulmate, we might not romantically love each other but we definitely love each other as sisters.
I have to be honest, when I didn’t know about psych2go, I was genuinely uninterested in psychology. Now learning about psychology is a hobby, and even a new career path has opened! ❤️
I’ve found my soulmate.. I can’t believe he’s mine
Woah congratulations!
Same! I’ve found my soulmate and I can’t wait
to marry her one day!
I believe I've found mine :) I feel like Jim Halpert from The Office though I genuinely would marry her tomorrow if it wasn't too soon
Soulmates don't exist.
@@teresa-wx4sc It's not how I feel, it's just the truth. Soulmates don't exist. There is nobody in the world we are meant to be with, everything is just a choice.
I don't know if we've crossed paths before but everything else is true and describes our relationship perfectly.♥️
igaz szavak
When you have no one in mind but still click this nevertheless
I've found my soulmate and I hope everyone finds yours. It's the happiest feeling when you can share everything, and be truly you with your partner.
Me after knowing someone for months that has these signs:
*Is this a friend?*
*ive been broke so many times, don't know what to believe*
Omg this is so wholesome I love it. I'm finally with someone I'm*in love* with, rather than just someone I love, someone I'm codependent with, drinking with, obsessed with... I'm actually very much in love with someone who fits these criteria. Thank you for this affirmation, I needed it today, just to stay grounded and remind myself that yes, this is real and no, it's not too good to be true.
That means now I 100% know I've found the one-
Thank you! All of you! Wish me luck!
Angelynn Animations good luck!
Update us when you get bored and bounce or he cheats on you 👌🏻
@@Grey_Ape59 He wont xD
We love eachother a lot ^w^
@@lilyanrs it is a he xD
@@lilyanrs im not one of you PC dingus'
Chances are it was a he, lets get real.
The heart is strong to love in the first place. But it is even stronger to love again after it has been broken. ❤️
I have a friend, which I met almost 3 years ago... She is from another country so we have only talked on messenger
And I'm starting to think that I love her, but I'm so unsure about it, we both like drawing and creating stories, we share our ideas, we support emotionally when someone need it... Basically all the things in the video except for the "crossed paths before"
I really love her, but she's probably just kind with me so I don't know if I should tell her and risk our friendship
I don't want suggestions, at all, I just wanted to release this from me and let it get lose in this sea of comments, so if you read this, congratulations, you found me, and thank you for your time
I had a best friend wich i now know for 2 years, we are from diferent country too and can only met in real life in 4 years ;-; and she became my girlfriend in february ! We had all the sign except the "crossed path" like you
I don't know her but i think she won't give you up if you tell her that you love her, it's not like you said something bad, and if she love you too you won't regret it at all !
Oh man.
I've been in this situation before and... it didn't end well. But we were 16 when this happened and our relationship was much more shallow. I was extremely shy back than and she was an extrovert and a socialist butterfly.
Talking about art is a sign of intimacy. It might be a good sign of something bigger but again. Even thinking about more than a friendship might put a huge strain on you.
It's a tough situation...
How old are you two?
dont worry, i met someone like that too. i honestly thought i have moved on. it's kinda annoying on my part thinking that whenever my heart breaks for someone (like new guys i met), my heart yearns for the past love that i have felt almost 4-5(?) years ago, and until this day, i dont even know what "love" means. I never understood it, but all i know that this guy was really special. Hoping one day I would fly to their country and meet him finally.
there i would know, maybe, if it was Love i feel or just deep admiration.
@@jeandamienmecanophilefaitd5162 holy fucking Christ...this speaks to me so much! I was 14 when I met my current bf, now almost 4 years ago, and we also met in February and could only meet in four years because he lives in another country. I relate with you! Long term waiting is really hard. But hang in there and put in the time and effort and remember how worth it it is in the end. Good luck to you and your girl!
Wishing you best. 🤗
It hurts like real bad that i was like this with someone once, we were best friends then she became my girlfriend we never saw each other outside of school but the link was there but one day after 1 year of relationship she said that she wanted to see me one day and when i went to see her she was with her dog and all the presents i gave her she gave them all back she said that we needed to live our life like normal people she was the one and it just hurts like nothing else to know that and now we are still friends but i feel a huge void inside now i look pathetic crying in my bed alone in the dark thinking about the good days
Me: huh I kinda like this perso-
My brain: STOP
Me: why
My brain: JUST BECAUSE
Me: Understandable
Me: I won a kiss my Girlfri...
My brain: DONT YOU
My heart: DO IT
Me: U guys are part of my body fighting against each other, that makes my life broken onto 2 sides dudes :/
The crossing paths one really struck a chord with me, my girlfriend and I crossed paths before and I didn't even know it until recently. I have extremely strong feelings for her even after dating for almost 2 months, I look forward to spending more time with her and getting g to know her. I do think she is my soul mate
Same! My bf and I also crossed paths long time ago and how, regardaless of how we have done it, we would have meet either way. We have been dating 6 months and im so happy and thankful for him... I wish you the best with your gf. and hope you have a strong and happy relationship! :)
i am just curios, are u still together 7 months later?
I’m in my first relationship, and it seems to be going rather well! But it’s in my nature to doubt and worry, so I came here out of curiosity and worry. We’ve hit a low where the things we talk about have begun to become a tiring, but regardless we always express ourselves in an honest way.
My favourite human scores a perfect 10/10 on this chart.
We are both middle aged, divorced parents that live on opposite sides of a huge country. We have managed to build an incredible relationship from distance while also planning and preparing for our future together.
There are a lot of doubters in our lives but they don’t see what we are doing to make it all work for our future.
That's awesome!
I wish you two all the best!
@@scrotymcboogerballs6756 ✌🏽❤️
i hate the fact that shes so far away from me...im so angry and sad for that :(
Ouch
we share the same pain.....
I cant facetime when my parents are home but we text and I love him
@@bruinsfan902 why cant you call him when your parents are home?
Long story short my parents aren't suposed to know
I relate to 9.5/10 of these signs (except 6 since I met him online), though #9 I have slight trouble with, cuz I don't wanna be seen as "asking for too much". Due to a past toxic relationship, I sometimes worry about telling him certain things cuz I think he'd get mad or give the silent treatment (he's the absolute sweetest thing tho!)
Don't be afraid! If you can relate to the other ones then I'm sure you can tell him what you want. But I understand with the past toxic relationship, take it slow and easy and hopefully you'll find that he will love you no matter what and won't care :)
@@That1Knife I worry he'll feel not good enough for me if I ask for a lot, and he reminds me all the time he feels good enough for me but I still worry 😭
@@iiantixsocial Hey I feel that, but I say don't worry I'm sure he's right and he does feel good enough, and if he for some reason eventually does it's ok as long as he feels ok and doesn't change anything or make him uncomfortable. I felt not good enough sometimes with my girlfriend but it was fine. I still loved her and wouldn't leave her for anything. And I'm sure he feels great
@@iiantixsocial I really get the worrying anyways, I used to do that sometimes and my girlfriend did a lot, no shame in it if you worry a lot but I will say you don't need to worry.
same! I found my person online as well. But he lived not far from my area, so we were shocked to learn that some of my high school friends were his friends as well. And that our circles overlapped, it was a wonder how we didn't connect sooner. I guess everything has it's time.
We reconnected after 2 years and it just seems so perfect. I pray things work out.
I can connect to all of these points with my girlfriend...I know in my heart that she's been who I've been waiting for my whole life. Through the good and the bad, this channel has shown me what I can do to help improve the parts of myself so I can be the best version of myself, flaws and all, for her. Thank you, Psi!!!
Yet again I’m back here and STILL know my crush dosent like me 😭
That's a big ooooooooooof right there 👁️👄👁️
I FEEL your PAIN 😭😭 I don't know why my stupid brain won't just stopppp. it's Soo annoying when a Taylor Swift song makes me cry....
Edit: He asked me out😁♥️♥️
Then move on from that crush.
same
RedRoseSeptember22 if only it were that simple 😔✌️
Me, an aromantic asexual:
**Hugs my cake** I HAVE FOUND THE ONE
Edit: a lot of people are talking abt having a soulmate that’s either a friend or one way but still loving, and I just wanna clarify that YOU CAN have a soulmate that is just a friend to you (i have one personally, she’s pretty great), it’s just different from the normal ‘romantic’ soulmate
I am jealous..
Correct me if im wrong but you do still get feelings right? or is that rarely?. I would LOVE to not feel anything, but I feel it too intensly, i feel EVERYTHING way too much, more than the average person and the curse of that is getting my feelings hurt & heart broken alot. I thought to call myself an asexual person......& even aromantic once.. but im obviously NOT either of those since i wear my heart on my sleeve. The sexual attractions are always intense too!, i mean... I mean there are alot of nice looking people around lol , and if they like me and if i loke them , desire can be crazy. I cant help but feel these things..strongly towards anyone who gives me the slightest bit of attention too, i get puppy crushes alot..& it sucks, its like im still in highschool, but im a 30 yr old🤔.
Btw i love cake too lol
@@PopCultureFan_, being an aro/ace is super complicated because we don't really know what it feels like to have these attractions, but some do feel small amounts (like me very rarely). The actual definition of aro/ace is a person that feels little to no sexual and romantic attraction, so your all g. Also, as long as you feel comfortable with your label then that is who you are, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise, because your the only one who rlly knows how you feel. I hope this helped
Same xD
I might not be aromantic but i found a similar word, Biromantic..lol and tbh i love the meaning behind it. They took the sexual part out of it bc its all about romantic feelings instead of just shallow desire.......
...but of course tho, i am still technically alittle of that too lmao
@@-bitterlemonade-9437 my boyfriend is aromantic asexual (I'm also ace) and, with him, I'm in the most loving, fulfilling relationship I've ever been in my entire life. It's not quite time for that yet, but we're constantly planning for our wedding. Anyone looking at us would probably not believe we are aro/ace, and yet we can't help but feel that we absolutely are. Being on the spectrum truly is complicated, huh? At least to explain of course ^^
i’m still waiting for my soulmate whenever God is ready to send him. I do believe that as you grow in life there are people who come and go as they teach you valuable lessons to unlock about yourself based on the choices you make. i’m 16 and i have a long way to go in life , but 2020 has made me understand something spectacular about myself. leaving a narcissistic relationship i found that i fell in love with psychology , built a relationship with God , and learning how to forgive others while also holding myself accountable for my own bs and calling my behavior out. God bless you guys ❤️
I am in relationship with Allah). He is the best healer of souls... I LOVE HIM, HE LOVES ME TOO. So I am happy. I pray to Allah i could find my soulmate♡´･ᴗ･`♡
@@mynameisnotavailablehere lol , uu thought uu did sum ?
@@liamfbia ?
Met my soulmate when we were 12 & 13. Life separated us. I met and dated many people, none which made me feel at peace and extremely comfortable to be myself. There was always something that didn’t feel right. We recently reconnected with/my person after 15 years. We actually reconnected at a point in my life in which I’ve been doing a lot of personal work, healing and self-love practices, finally starting to accept myself… and it’s like we never stopped talking. The connection is everything-AND MORE, I ever imagined. I feel the reciprocal love and care, I feel seen, heard, valued, free to be myself, no need to hide anything; there are endless laughs and constant feel-good moments. It’s the most genuine, transparent and beautiful feeling I’ve ever regained, I say this because I do remember how beautiful it felt when we were young, we just felt the instant connection and I feel like we were cut from the same cloth. This is my soulmate without a doubt.
Okay so I'm dating someone and I really think they're the one. We can talk openly about anything anytime. He is the absolute sweetest 😊 I say to him sometimes "I think we're gonna last a long time" and he always says "I think so too"