1. There must be some kind of attraction 1:10 2. You should have deeper than surface level interests with them 2:10 3. There should be a strong social connection 3:14 4. Don't change who you are to suit someone you like 4:58 5. Take it easy 5:57
DO NOT feel discouraged because you can't find love in your social circle. Keeping it to your social circle is too limiting. Even as my social circle changes, my interests and my workplace are all male dominated. Also, dating in your social group can sometimes hurt friendships. You can take on more androgynous activities, but all the while be true to yourself. I need to make mistakes and learn from experience, I can't just wait to luck out within my bubble. If I don't ask out strangers, I will get nowhere.
Totally agree. Limited to your own social circle is certainly way too limiting and not the way to go. You need to either expand it or do some cold approaches. I bumped into my gorgeous ex through absolute sheer luck, and my friend meet his best girl because he took the wrong bus. It happens, but for the less lucky ones, it's truly a numbers game, and you've got to be direct early on to not waste time. Took me a while to realize.
I’m turning 30 this year and I’ve never been in a romantic relationship. Besides focusing on improving myself as a person, I haven’t been very aggressive in pursuing a partner. And usually when I do find someone I’m interested in, they’re already in a relationship. I’m hoping I can change that this year, as I sometimes feel like I’m starting to run out of time
Although Im only 23 I have the same problem. I seem to not find the person I want to be with and I'm worried I might make a fatal error that could cost me everything I've been building up for so long. For me I've felt like I don't have much time left myself. This year might be the last. I hope this year for you is this chance to find the person for you and the person you find.
MY-PHILOSOPHY:"INNER-STRENGTH" I have found that simply "loving myself" (inner-child) is a powerful tool against most types of social-dependency/vulnerability.
............................. Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality'). I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)! European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!! They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till. xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists. ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism). Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet. SUMMARY Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler). [Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ). ☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil). Spread the word! Thank you. ___________ Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit; ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level), 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology..
@@peko9896 How can it possibly get even harder? I'm 29 as well and it seems utterly impossible to meet someone who isn't taken already and online dating is a soul-crushing exercise in futility.
It's also important to find someone from within your social circle because screening out the crazies is even more critical now than ever before. Even that is no guarantee that you won't get used for drama or worse.
Someone else in this comment section said that your inner circle ISN'T ENOUGH since it can hurt your friendships when you date and sometimes certain fields can be dominated exclusively by one gender and sometimes you HAVE to talk with strangers.
i dont havy any social live and i also sont believe in being just frienda with other gender (my own experience). its hard to find someone for me. idk what to do since i am introverted but i will be patient
I don't think romantic love is real or special, and I think romantic relationships are a bad thing. I think humans should just stop being in romantic relationships. I feel like this world would be a much better place without romance than it is with it. Romance seems like an ugly thing. Many fathers won't allow their daughters to date when they are in high school or still living with them. It does seem that nearly all fathers are hoping that their daughters never date or get married and remain single for their whole life due to the dangers and risks of romantic relationships. The overprotective father thing is proof that romantic relationships are a bad thing, and that this world would be a much better place without them. If someday that the human race ditches the concept of romance and romantic relationships, and got rid of stuff like dating and marriage, fathers would be happy about it since they wouldn't ever have to worry about their daughters ever dating if that ever happened. People (especially women) should avoid being in a romantic relationship and be single for life since romantic relationships are dangerous.
I am 25 yrs old dude and I have never been in a relationship for my entire life. I feel depressed and sad by seeing people my age and my friends found their partners, love of their life and some even married while i am just always alone. I must be very unattractive :’(. Sure I have all my freedom and alone times but thats what I’ve been doing my whole life. I dont want to no more. My friend said to me ‘ dont worry’ ‘love will find you’ which I still find it hard to believe. Will love actually find me? I am doing everything I can. I want to end my lonely miserable nights.
Thank you for making this. 😊 I have never had any sort of romantic relationship with anyone (not even in school or college; surprisingly, I'm in my late 30s), though I really would like to experience what this whole "being in love" thing is all about... so this video has given me some hope for this year... and something to maybe look forward to!
well lemme tell ya u didnt miss alot with the teen relations, they feel good as long as they last, but most dont last more than 6 months and like 70% or so end due to either one cheating or not caring enough bout the other persons feelings or some other dumb bs xD
............................. Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality'). I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)! European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!! They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till. xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists. ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism). Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet. SUMMARY Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler). [Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ). ☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil). Spread the word! Thank you. ___________ Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit; ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level), 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology.
MY-PHILOSOPHY:"INNER-STRENGTH" I have found that simply "loving myself" (inner-child) is a powerful tool against most types of social-dependency/vulnerability. ............................. EDIT ............................. "Evil" is the antithesis to the virtue: 'humanity'. Humanity is the characteristic that defines the human spirit. Humanity is symbiosis across humans and society. 'Humanity' exceeds 'social-darwinism'. ............................. NEURO-PERSONALITY ............................. "SENSORY-FEELERS" ARE LARGELY RESPONSIBLE FOR SPREADING DISINFORMATION AND HATE TOWARDS ENTJ/INTJ (AGAINST "THINKERS" IN GENERAL)-BOTH IRL AND ON THE INTERNET; DESPITE THOSE NEURO-PERSONALITY TYPES BEING A BLESSING TO SOCIETY AND ALL OF MANKIND! THEY DESERVE BETTER! 😤 'ESFJ', 'ESFP', ISFP and 'ISFJ' are a pathogen to humanity, and 'then' Cluster-B (depending on their neuro-personality). THEIR "FEELINGS 'IS' THEIR REALITY", THEY ALSO HAVE A MALICIOUS-MIND BY DEFAULT (low 'mirror-neurons' results in "SOCIOPATHIC-FEELER"; full of pathological hate, and highly chaotic). WHAT'S MORE, DESPITE HAVING MALICIOUS INTENT THEY ARE ALL EMOTIONALLY-WEAK AND PRONE TO COVERT/VULNERABLE-NARCISSISM (ISFJ especially; they impersonate and spread hate towards genuine INFJs). ............................... Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality'). I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)! European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!! They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-r@pe, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till. xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists. ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism). Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet; while ESFJ-9W1 superficially appears like an ENFJ, they have different 'neurology' and psychology. Both XSFJ are superficial by nature and perceive reality at face-value/surface level. SUMMARY Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler). ESFJ-9W1 superficially resembles ENFJ; different 'neurology' and psychology. [Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ). ☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil). Spread the word! Thank you. ___________ Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit, i.e. ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level, and with malicious intent ISFJ impersonate others). Please research 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology. /End
Me and my crush: 1. There's a lot of attraction I feel in her! 2. I'm totally not into her looks at all, I love who she is as a person 3. There's a genuine connection, we enjoy spending time with each other 4. I'm perfectly who I am and I think she likes it 5. Although I've been heartbroken before, I think I'm ready to embrace a new relationship now!
@@sadia2395 MY-PHILOSOPHY:"INNER-STRENGTH" I have found that simply "loving myself" (inner-child) is a powerful tool against most types of social-dependency/vulnerability.
@@sadia2395 ............................. Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality'). I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)! European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!! They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till. xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists. ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism). Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet. SUMMARY Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler). [Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ). ☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil). Spread the word! Thank you. ___________ Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit; ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level), 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology.
@@sadia2395 ............................. "Evil" is the antithesis to the virtue: 'humanity'. Humanity is the characteristic that defines the human spirit. Humanity is symbiosis across humans and society. 'Humanity' exceeds 'social-darwinism'. .............................
#2 can cause you trouble in the long run, take it from me. People want to feel physically desired and can get uneasy and resentful if you're mostly friends.
I got so lucky with my partner🥰 Wasn't trying to find love, but to my surprise we found each other! After two hours of conversation in public over a silly argument, with him, a stranger, I felt a strong attraction to him almost immediately! I'm 23 and counting him I've only been attracted to two men in my lifetime. And the one before him was a lot less so! I asked him out, we went on a few dates, I probably developed feelings of love around a month in but knew that it was too soon to say it. Two months later of us being together, and maybe about a month or so in a official relationship it still felt like it was too soon to say I love you...But I just couldn't hold it back anymore. After we finished kissing on the couch for who knows how long and cuddling together I was trying to bring myself to say the words for probably about five minutes...I was terrified! Terrified that if he truly did feel the same that I might scare him away because it all felt so sudden how quickly love found us, but literally three seconds before I say the words he says "I love you". I cried a little a whispered back "I love you too!"😭💕 Still together and it will be a year in March
It is definitely pure chance. For some people it's quick and some of us it's taking a lifetime to find our partners. I wish everyone well on their journey.
MY-PHILOSOPHY:"INNER-STRENGTH" I have found that simply "loving myself" (inner-child) is a powerful tool against most types of social-dependency/vulnerability.
............................. Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality'). I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)! European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!! They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till. xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists. ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism). Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet. SUMMARY Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler). [Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ). ☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil). Spread the word! Thank you. ___________ Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit; ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level), 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology.
............................. "Evil" is the antithesis to the virtue: 'humanity'. Humanity is the characteristic that defines the human spirit. Humanity is symbiosis across humans and society. 'Humanity' exceeds 'social-darwinism'. .............................
@@vngaming255: Nowadays women are unbearable, not only in getting one? But maintaining one. They just want to sit on their fat butts and do nothing but wait for you to keep them entertained and interested, they make hardly any effort to try and entertain you, just throw a tantrum if you decide to leave You’re the one who needs to keep HER around and thats disgusting, So you have your love work cut out for you man
@@Psych2go the 5th thing on the list really helped. I really want to get with someone but I never even dated anyone before. Almost all of my friends have been in relationships before so I feel pretty self conscious about never having been in one. I’m still young so I know I shouldn’t worry about it too much but I still do sometimes and sometimes I just need to remind myself to take my time
I've always believed, I need someone to have family with but after 20 years being single, I've stop giving a shit, my mum gave me the wrong values, being forever alone is ok, I only have one relationship goal, get a dog...
MY-PHILOSOPHY:"INNER-STRENGTH" I have found that simply "loving myself" (inner-child) is a powerful tool against most types of social-dependency/vulnerability.
Timestamps 1). Manage your expectations 0:36 2). You should share more than surface-level interests with them 2:08 3). There is a strong social connection 3:12 4). Don't change who you are just to suit someone you like 4:58 5). Take it easy 5:56 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙
And always underestimate people. They are not as kind as you think they are, not as smart, not as caring, and they don’t love you as much as you think they do
I'm 24 years old and still never been in any relationship. Was too focused in career or probably was not ready; and now when I've career I feel lonely. It feels I might end up singke for life but on the same hand not so desperate to date someone who don't share the same values as me... Love is indeed terrifying
I have been studying love ever since high school and observing others, listening to their stories, understanding what made them work and what don't, but as I grew older today, I found that love can be so simple if we stop putting too much meaning to it. Most people that I've met staying for so long with each other said that the best way to explain how they know the other person is the right one is when they feel like home. Many can make your heart race, but only a few can make you feel safe. And that's when you found the right one. It's not just mere compatibility or sharing same sense of humour, it's more of knowing that you can be the ugliest being in the whole world with this person and they'll still stay and treat you the same. That's what love is to me. It's simple, when I meet someone, if they don't make me feel at home, they're not the one.
I think this a good way of thinking about it but at the same time what make you feel like something is like home to you is largely from your experiences from childhood and with your parents. So if you didn't have a good relationship with parents or siblings or that your parents didn't have a good relationship with each other this can cause an individual to feel at home in unhealthy situations
After all the missteps I’ve taken within my relationships from the past couple of years, I think this will help me find the person that is right for me, great video as always
MY-PHILOSOPHY:"INNER-STRENGTH" I have found that simply "loving myself" (inner-child) is a powerful tool against most types of social-dependency/vulnerability.
............................. Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality'). I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)! European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!! They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till. xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists. ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism). Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet. SUMMARY Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler). [Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ). ☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil). Spread the word! Thank you. ___________ Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit; ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level), 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology.
I'm working on myself first. When I graduate in two years and move to a different state, that's when I'll build a new social circle. Hopefully the girlfriend who is right for me will be there. Time will tell.
@@Psych2go Thank you Psych2Go! I love y'all's videos and they were able to help me figure out that I needed therapy. The six months have been a lot of work, but I'm so much better than when I started!
6. Avoid people who are superficial. Physical attraction and money are important, but people who make those their biggest things should be avoided because they will bounce for a better option when one arises.
"I have found that happiness as a goal is highly overrated. Happiness, like love, sneaks up on us while we're distracted doing other worthwhile things.
Thanks for making this video, even though I haven’t watched too much of it yet, I’ve recently been broken up with and heartbroken. I hope to find the right one some day, and I’m sure this’ll help.
MY-PHILOSOPHY:"INNER-STRENGTH" I have found that simply "loving myself" (inner-child) is a powerful tool against most types of social-dependency/vulnerability.
............................. Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality'). I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)! European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!! They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till. xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists. ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism). Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet. SUMMARY Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler). [Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ). ☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil). Spread the word! Thank you. ___________ Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit; ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level), 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology..
I went trough a very rough breakup a month ago and it makes me feel kind of sad that my ex partner got another relationship in just a week, but i also kind of started to feel attracted to someone else and it's confusing but it kind of brings me joy at the same time
It always Really scares me when someone gets out of a relationship and gets into another one right away. It spells codependency or serial dater. You need time to heal! But different strokes for different folks
You honestly, as in absolutely all honestly, believe women had feelings in the first place? Because they dont, they swap partners faster than you can swap your underpants. And they have no feelings about it.
I think the same as you, and finding someone feels so far-fetched and unreachable... But to be fair, no one knows what the future will bring in any aspect of life 😁 Maybe things won't go the way we wished them to, but we can still do whatever is in our control to reach our goals, and to try to enjoy each day as much as possible! (And sorry for the unprompted advice, I just wanted to share some words that maybe could make some sense)
Just better to remain single and ignore these thots, don’t run after them and give them that satisfaction, if you treat her like a celeb? She’s gonna treat you like a fan. Be cool remaining single, these thots aren’t worth the effort
I love the fact that more emphasis has been placed on finding someone in your social circle. It's so much easier to be with someone who is also from your friend group. You already know that you get along with them, and enjoy their company, and if they happen to be attractive it's basically a slam dunk
Sorry, but this is imho the wrong approach. Be your best self, work on it, love yourself, get out and find ways to meet with new people that suits you, and keep your eyes open until you stumble upon someone who is magic to you and you to them. Make sure you have enough time to get to know each other deeply, your values, your mindsets, your RED flags and the Green flags. Don’t ignore red flags within your first year. Ideally make notes of them. After the first year when the chemicals are at a more natural level and you hopefully are in love, reassess the partner and your relationship again. Be brutally honest thinking if you can imagine get married and make kids right away with her and stay together forever. If that feels not right in all your mind and body and soul, then it’s either time to talk about that and see if you can work it out, especially those values that are essential for your happiness. If the problem persist, leave.
At my age, its very very difficult to find love. My social circle is made up of married couples who seem to only know other married couples. It leaves me having to rely on dating apps, which has not produced a lot of results. Dating in your 40s absolutely blows.
The best way to find 'the right person', is to focus on being the best version of yourself every single day, and accept that the other person won't magically make life perfect or easy for you. Just like with friends and family, there will be traits about them that you don't like or things you don't share in common. All relationships require effort, tolerance, respect and gratitude, whether they are romantic, platonic or professional, and all of them can help you grow as a person. Everyone is flawed, lonely, scared and conflicted and life has ups and downs. A couple is like two trees beside each other, growing together (but each on their own separate, parallel path), and sharing the joy, pain and mundane on an adventure upward and forward.
It's so difficult to make new friends when there's no space in my life for going new places, meeting new people, going off-schedule for events with complete strangers involved Let alone being introverted, and having most people generally ignore one's presence, even when spoken directly at
I feel that. You're not alone in that situation. I never get to go anywhere or have any opportunities for meeting new people so I'm just stuck with my small circle of IRL friends and then several circles (some overlap, some are entirely separate) of online friends. And I'm also introverted myself.
I was in two relationships. One of them became toxic and cruel to those around him while the other just fell out of love for me. I’m a gay 21 year old man in college just doing my thing and I still have problems with people just playing me. I would just focus on myself until another man just approaches me with the same agenda of loving me until he falls out of love for me. At this point this is becoming a bit painful but at the same time a learning experience to me. Thanks for reassuring me that I can just take my time and focus on what I’m doing and waiting for that man to prove himself to me before I get into another relationship^^
Never worked out for me. I'm so terrified of romance to the point of borderline social withdrawal. Sharing religious beliefs and political alignments are impossible for me, everything turns into a heated argument that escalates even further. I'd best be left alone, feels more fulfilling.
This video helped me realize that it'll take a long time for me to find a true love, the timing couldn't be better after a break up and all. Thank you for making this video. :D
Make a video on how to tell your crush you like them even if your so nervous to tell them and how to open up to your crush and how to not be shy around your crush
Long difficult journey after highly possible narcistic relationship. First work on myself and support my child and show the most right way of growing up. Love can be so beautiful, but after two horrible events of 4 years and 9 years I have to change myself to protect myself for evil partners 😥..protect myself against people with other intensions. Social and willing as I am, with healty borders.
Bro. This is exactly the video I needed lately. For the past couple months. Hell maybe even years the concept of romance, being in a romantic relationship has always been on my mind. Especially lately. I’ve been lonely and unsure how or what I wanted in someone and this video helped a lot
1. Manage your expectations 0:37 2. You should share surface-level interests with them 2:09 3. There is a strong social connection 2:12 4. Don't change who you are just to suit someone you like 4:48 5. Take it easy 5:56
When you still have a crush on your childhood partner and all these “how to know (something abt love)” videos you just can’t think about it because you haven’t seen them in years:
I needed this today. The taking it easy section of this video hit particularly hard. Love illuding me this long has definitely made it sound like a myth, but I still hope that there is someone for me in my near future.
@@Psych2go That everything comes with time. You shouldn't rush stuff if you want it to last long and be a positive thing you experience. All will come at the right time. And don't change yourself for others in order to stay healthy mentally.
............................. Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality'). I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)! European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!! They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till. xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists. ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism). Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet. SUMMARY Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler). [Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ). ☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil). Spread the word! Thank you. ___________ Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit; ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level), 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology..
............................. "Evil" is the antithesis to the virtue: 'humanity'. Humanity is the characteristic that defines the human spirit. Humanity is symbiosis across humans and society. 'Humanity' exceeds 'social-darwinism'. .............................
MY-PHILOSOPHY:"INNER-STRENGTH" I have found that simply "loving myself" (inner-child) is a powerful tool against most types of social-dependency/vulnerability.
mid of last year i thought i managed to find the love of my life, someone that I have known for years but did not interact much other than the few times she is in the city. unfortunately she was badly hurt from the previous relationship. trying to get close to her by hanging out with the mutual friends that we have. confessed to her at the end of last year and she only sees me as friend and not ready for the next relationship. i still very much in love with her but i understand that she is not ready and still recovering from the wounds of last relationship. I'm in a dilemma of whether to continue stay around as a friend, thus extending the pain of one sided love or completely stay away. after few months of agonizing self doubt, I keep our relationship as platonic as possible. Probably she is not the one for me, at this moment it does feel like finding love seems like a myth. I hope everyone will find the love of their life and they see you the same.
This video was so beautiful and very insightful for those who are trying to find love in their life. Don't give up, there's a person for everybody, patience is important and patience is key... We all deserve to be happy, including you. ♡
I’ve given up on love and I can’t really make it work. I’m just too dysfunctional, too damaged, too broken, too attracted to women who are only the worst for me
I can agree on everything that’s on this list especially 1 and 4 and 5. You gotta have attraction towards someone, and be yourself so you can find your ideal love. You also gotta not be too fast, take it slow. I have a crush on someone and I’m trying to do what’s in the video.
i just hope that no matter what perfect or not he's gonna love me. my heart wants but my mind thinks, and i know its only a matter of time. love this channel.
Could we possibly get a video about the psychology of being in love with multiple people at once, and/or different kinds of love? I feel like there’s a lot of videos on how to know if you love someone or someone loves you romantically, but not much on these topics.
Hi from Philippines southeast Asia! This RUclips channel is the best because when I'm feeling under the rock there's always a video that is right for me and for everybody! 😙
Thank you this made me feel better I am going through a very difficult relationship and healing journey. It is not easy I'm looking for someone who would totally make sense and make me feel completely understood without me trying hard to please in order to stay and me being afraid of offending their feelings. 😶🌫️🥺💔
I learning more about love each day as I think about my feelings towards one man I have grown to know over a year now via online through Discord. He's had an influence on me for me to do better in my life and focus on myself that I have not done in years. I think he could be the one for me but I genuinely don't know what his deeper feelings are towards me. I only know enough to where he likes me as a friend, we both like to talk to each other, we understand and trust each other. I would like to believe he is the right one for me but at the same time, I'm scared to show any deeper feelings because I'm scared of what he would think of me and I don't want to ruin the friendship I have with him. At this time, we both aren't thinking about dating and romance as we're trying to focus on building our lives up. I'm just using this time to learn and embrace my feelings because I want to make sure that my feelings are right with this. I have never felt this deeply for someone before in my life.
I fear if I ever meet someone that I have feelings for, it's not just having fear either they feel the same for me but if they would accept everything that is me. I'm worried that even if I finally found the person for me Im worried that they wouldn't look me as the same if they knew everything of me. I have no advice on what you should do, but so as long if your friendship isn't going anywhere then it's best to be patient if you can and see what happens then. Hope this comment did any good.
@@silvore64 Yes, it did, thank you. That's the other thing that I'm scared of. Is that if I'm enough for them. I have been through some rough things over the years that has made me question my self-worth. With him, he has made me feel that I have worth. He's definitely seen my messages of when I've expressed my stress, when I'm at low points and is patient enough to talk me through it and ground me. A part of me is scared to show the deeper parts to him, and I don't want to end up hurting him. I don't know, I'm taking it one day at a time in terms of the friendship him and I share and trying to make sure I don't do anything stupid. For now, my deeper feelings for him are sealed away but growing a little bit almost every day.
I girlfriend broke up with me about a week ago, we spent 2 years together. The past few months I thought everything was ok but it turns out… she wasn’t the right one for me, I hope in time I can find someone who will stick with me🤞🏻
I want to to try having a partner.. But I actually have a self promise to prioritize on something first. But it might also mean I will be less atttractive.
I totally understand the bit about love being unpredictable. I was kinda crushing on this girl at school for years. When someone else asked her to a dance, I asked this other girl I knew, my friend since fourth grade, to the dance on a whim, and that developed into romance. My former crush is definitely still someone I want to be friends with and spend time around, but I'm so glad that someone got in my way because I'm so much happier with my current girlfriend than I think I could have been with the other girl.
Sure, i take my time...29 years now...tried and failed over and over again..."You're nice but i like you as a friend not in a romantic way" seems to be my curse...
1. There must be some kind of attraction 1:10 2. You should have deeper than surface level interests with them 2:10 3. There should be a strong social connection 3:14 4. Don't change who you are to suit someone you like 4:58 5. Take it easy 5:57 6. Heisenberg? 7:17
Honestly, for me love is pain and quite honestly I'd rather die alone, the whole concept of finding "the one" is just really for the most part a social construct there is no such thing as "the one" just someone who you have great chemistry with. T_T
After applying a few of the tips from your other dating videos, I think I found the one for me! He is actually my best friend and both of us have really strong feelings for each Definitely going to date him soon
Im no profesional, but if you are not happy with who you are, you should think about developing yourself as a person and progress in your character before having any relationship until you feel more complete. PD: part of your problem might be your self esteem, are you sure that you are not happy with yourself, or is it other toxic people that dont like the way you are and make you think like your not okay this way?
It’s better to be hated for who you are than to be liked for who you’re not . Not everyone you come across will like you and that’s ok. Find your peace and be at peace, love yourself and the right person will enter your life and compliment it not complicate it
I don't know if I deserve love, but I crave it so much. I hate love, but yet I crave the feeling of receiving and giving the emotion and I don't have the confidence to talk to anyone about
I understand how you feel. By this point I don't desire and deserve wanting to find someone that feels the same way, I just want to find someone that I want to give my life to and protect them and do anything in my power to give them happiness. If I can do that then I would have no regrets. I hope you find someone that will make your wish true.
its about the same here. I would walk a marathon on red glowing coal, excavate the entire mont everest 200 times over, and drain the pacific ocean, one teaspoon at a time, anothet thousand times over, just to have a cute girl i could geniuenly love, and cuddle with, but i guess things like cuddling, and thats one thing to mention, only is allowed for people who can master a pink sunshine and rainbows relationship from day one. Thats when i learned to just give up.
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash
Not everyone is meant to be together. Divorce can sometimes end up showing you that you were better off as friends or that you both were better off with others. It's just not worth it to stay someplace where you're unhappy.
oh but she will if she gets her way. The only goal for all women is to hurt men beyond repair. Even if it takes years or decades of pretending to care about you, or your children! Women are willing to spend as much as their entire life to make one mans life miserable!
I'm 22, soon to be 23 this March and I met the most wonderful man and he asked me to be his boyfriend. We're both head over heels for each other and we can't stop gushing about each other. We both share so much in common and plan on sharing even more. I really hope that we'll get married and grow old together.
Love is overall a Lottery. No one has the power of dictating to the universe what their mate has to have, or even if they get one at all. That’s why it’s best to simply cultivate good friendships at surface level and go from there. Some will have the dumbest luck in the world and get their beloved lickety split. Others will struggle, stumble and get left behind, despite their very best efforts. It’s best to simply look out for number one, and not be obsessed with the whole “Romeo and Juliet” myth. AND YES I SAID MYTH. Get the facts. Don’t cheat “the man in the glass”. Over and Out!
I started to come to the conclusion recently that love is not so important to me. I enjoy the peace of being by myself. However, I've also developed a crush on a close friend and I don't know if she reciprocates. I walked home with her today. Sometimes she says things that make me wonder if I upset her, and I'm uncomfortable because I don't want to do that. But then maybe this discomfort is what will help me learn to be a better person? I don't know 🤷♀
Well, first things first, I find it very hard to find myself physically attracted to anyone. Like, attracted to them because I like the way they look. I am far more on the personality side. If I like someone's personality, the attractiveness will follow (usually only if they are male because I am straight, after all. Females I would consider good friends if I really got to know them but little more). Which, I will admit, makes finding anyone 100× harder, because then it requires me to actually talk to people. Sure, my mind does sometimes tell me "that might be the one", even before I talk to them because that's how it works (which I will admit helps), but I don't usually have that thought because of the way they physically look. It is usually something... More. Like I'm keeping my options open if ever I did talk to them and found myself liking them Now, to add anything else, if physical attractiveness (like the way someone looks) is the first step of a relationship for virtually everyone but myself, then there is no way someone will like me. I try my hardest NOT to stand out in a crowd and usually give little care to the way I look (disliking jewelry and makeup alike so never putting either on as an example). Oh well, I guess. If I don't find anyone, that's alright. I don't need love, if anything it is simply a want (and not a strong one, at that, though I do fear my time is coming). So anyway, that's what I had to say
I met my current partner 5 months ago and started -officially- dating 3 months ago. Neither of us was looking for someone, but it's grown organically since we met. Earlier tonight, I was terrified to tell her something that was eating me up inside. I was afraid she'd shame me or put me down as that is what I experienced in my previous relationship, however, she did none of that. Instead, she was present. She listened, heard what I had to say, saw me as I was, and didn't put me down or abandon me. I feel free to grow and be myself with her. The only downside is that we're currently doing long-distance. I know that she is worth going through the pains of long-distance for. I'm going to visit her in late June and I'm beyond psyched!!!! I'll finally be able to hug her and hold her hand ❤ I love when Psych2Go puts out relatable videos for what I'm currently going through 😊
Everyone has already commented on how good the video's subject matter is, so I am shouting out how funny the animation was. The 100% evil guy is living his best life with his evil girl. Love that for them
What is this. I have bubbly feelings and chemistry for a girl for the first time since two years ago (my first relationship) and this video drops literally on the same minute. STOP READING MY THOUGHTS I'M GONNA CRY. Edit: wow I have a girlfriend now nice
Can we all pause and appreciate the drawing at 2:58 that is wonderfully ambiguous and shifts into a woman and a man, a man and a woman, two men or two women if we choose to see them?
I'm 28 and never dated once in my life. Earlier in my life, didn't, because I wasn't interested and plus didn't really know my orientation (and didn't have the supports to help me figure it out back then) and also no one had any interest in the socially awkward autistic girl who kept to herself anyways. And now here I am finally realized I'm bisexual (with strong preference in other women; very sliiiight to men ig) but with zero opportunities to even find anyone. Plus I'm still pretty socially awkward and have no idea how to even date. and even then I still don't like the idea of seeking out dates for the sake of it, I want to start off as just good friends. Relationships are shallow and weak if they don't have a strong foundation as a friendship first, imho. So yeah I'm pretty sure I'll be foreveralone. Kinda sucks since I have friends who are in happy relationships and I do feel a bit envious of them, but oh well. I guess I'm just destined to have my "love story book" be nothing but blank pages (or just fictional character crushes) and never experience it. (and, I'm partially okay with it but on the other hand... still wish I could at least experience it once just to see what the big whoop is about it.)
Same. But the reason why I hadn't been dating when I was younger is because of my self esteem issues caused by never being asked out in my formative years. Now at 26, I am still working on my self and at least talking to people but most of my talking stages have never gone anywhere.
@@Reign_255: Working on yourself, lol….why can’t they love you right then and there during your building time? It’s not really love if they’re only interested in you once you have made yourself, otherwise that same hubby wouldn’t have noticed you otherwise
I say that’s the success to a beautiful marriage is that you marry someone with the same interests. Sure you’ll have disagreements here and there because those who get along well have fights sometimes but getting along and having the same interests as your mate is so much better then someone who’s opposite of you.
Been in a relationship for almost close to 5 months. Psych2go thanks for all these tips which I have shared videos with my partner and he and I agree. Personality wise as well, I am a ENFJ and he a INFJ. Similar interests, communication, and sharing our understandings really has helped to be with someone who I can keep exploring my relationship with and most importantly be myself
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bruh as soon as i start thinking about having a relationship, this video drops. i feel scared lol
Psych2go can always read your mind!
LMAO I THOUGHT OF THE EXACT SAME AT THE SAME TIME
@@Psych2goshould I be scared
Bro fr I was literally thinking about that too, than BAAM
SAME BRUH😭😭😭 thinking my New school
1. There must be some kind of attraction 1:10
2. You should have deeper than surface level interests with them 2:10
3. There should be a strong social connection 3:14
4. Don't change who you are to suit someone you like 4:58
5. Take it easy 5:57
Thank you for adding the timestamps!
Thanks!
@@Psych2go Thanks for your channel
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Attraction is found, but love is built.
you try to build love out of rubble and dust!!!
Or metal.
That was the best quote i have ever seen
ohh 😂
DO NOT feel discouraged because you can't find love in your social circle. Keeping it to your social circle is too limiting. Even as my social circle changes, my interests and my workplace are all male dominated. Also, dating in your social group can sometimes hurt friendships. You can take on more androgynous activities, but all the while be true to yourself. I need to make mistakes and learn from experience, I can't just wait to luck out within my bubble. If I don't ask out strangers, I will get nowhere.
Ahh wisely said josh
Totally agree. Limited to your own social circle is certainly way too limiting and not the way to go. You need to either expand it or do some cold approaches. I bumped into my gorgeous ex through absolute sheer luck, and my friend meet his best girl because he took the wrong bus. It happens, but for the less lucky ones, it's truly a numbers game, and you've got to be direct early on to not waste time. Took me a while to realize.
I’m turning 30 this year and I’ve never been in a romantic relationship. Besides focusing on improving myself as a person, I haven’t been very aggressive in pursuing a partner. And usually when I do find someone I’m interested in, they’re already in a relationship. I’m hoping I can change that this year, as I sometimes feel like I’m starting to run out of time
Although Im only 23 I have the same problem. I seem to not find the person I want to be with and I'm worried I might make a fatal error that could cost me everything I've been building up for so long. For me I've felt like I don't have much time left myself. This year might be the last. I hope this year for you is this chance to find the person for you and the person you find.
MY-PHILOSOPHY:"INNER-STRENGTH"
I have found that simply "loving myself" (inner-child) is a powerful tool against most types of social-dependency/vulnerability.
.............................
Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality').
I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)!
European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!!
They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till.
xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists.
ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism). Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet.
SUMMARY
Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler).
[Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ).
☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil).
Spread the word! Thank you.
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Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit; ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level), 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology..
It depends if you want to have children or not. It's true though, that it gets harder to find a partner once you reach 30.
@@peko9896 How can it possibly get even harder? I'm 29 as well and it seems utterly impossible to meet someone who isn't taken already and online dating is a soul-crushing exercise in futility.
It's also important to find someone from within your social circle because screening out the crazies is even more critical now than ever before. Even that is no guarantee that you won't get used for drama or worse.
Someone else in this comment section said that your inner circle ISN'T ENOUGH since it can hurt your friendships when you date and sometimes certain fields can be dominated exclusively by one gender and sometimes you HAVE to talk with strangers.
i dont havy any social live and i also sont believe in being just frienda with other gender (my own experience). its hard to find someone for me. idk what to do since i am introverted but i will be patient
I don't think romantic love is real or special, and I think romantic relationships are a bad thing. I think humans should just stop being in romantic relationships. I feel like this world would be a much better place without romance than it is with it. Romance seems like an ugly thing.
Many fathers won't allow their daughters to date when they are in high school or still living with them. It does seem that nearly all fathers are hoping that their daughters never date or get married and remain single for their whole life due to the dangers and risks of romantic relationships.
The overprotective father thing is proof that romantic relationships are a bad thing, and that this world would be a much better place without them. If someday that the human race ditches the concept of romance and romantic relationships, and got rid of stuff like dating and marriage, fathers would be happy about it since they wouldn't ever have to worry about their daughters ever dating if that ever happened.
People (especially women) should avoid being in a romantic relationship and be single for life since romantic relationships are dangerous.
Compatibility is KEY! 🗝️
It definitely is! What else do you think is important when it comes to a relationship?
@@Psych2go Hey! Love the video btw. Communication matters as well! ❤️
@@danavixen6274 I'd like to add that Comprehension after Communication is the most vital in terms of investing serious and committed relationship :)
I am 25 yrs old dude and I have never been in a relationship for my entire life. I feel depressed and sad by seeing people my age and my friends found their partners, love of their life and some even married while i am just always alone. I must be very unattractive :’(. Sure I have all my freedom and alone times but thats what I’ve been doing my whole life. I dont want to no more.
My friend said to me ‘ dont worry’ ‘love will find you’ which I still find it hard to believe. Will love actually find me? I am doing everything I can. I want to end my lonely miserable nights.
What are the things that you find unattractive from yourself?
Thank you for making this. 😊
I have never had any sort of romantic relationship with anyone (not even in school or college; surprisingly, I'm in my late 30s), though I really would like to experience what this whole "being in love" thing is all about... so this video has given me some hope for this year... and something to maybe look forward to!
well lemme tell ya u didnt miss alot with the teen relations, they feel good as long as they last, but most dont last more than 6 months and like 70% or so end due to either one cheating or not caring enough bout the other persons feelings or some other dumb bs xD
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Keep us updated! Be patient and love yourself! :D
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Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality').
I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)!
European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!!
They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till.
xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists.
ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism). Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet.
SUMMARY
Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler).
[Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ).
☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil).
Spread the word! Thank you.
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Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit; ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level), 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology.
MY-PHILOSOPHY:"INNER-STRENGTH"
I have found that simply "loving myself" (inner-child) is a powerful tool against most types of social-dependency/vulnerability.
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"Evil" is the antithesis to the virtue: 'humanity'. Humanity is the characteristic that defines the human spirit. Humanity is symbiosis across humans and society. 'Humanity' exceeds 'social-darwinism'.
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NEURO-PERSONALITY
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"SENSORY-FEELERS" ARE LARGELY RESPONSIBLE FOR SPREADING DISINFORMATION AND HATE TOWARDS ENTJ/INTJ (AGAINST "THINKERS" IN GENERAL)-BOTH IRL AND ON THE INTERNET; DESPITE THOSE NEURO-PERSONALITY TYPES BEING A BLESSING TO SOCIETY AND ALL OF MANKIND! THEY DESERVE BETTER! 😤
'ESFJ', 'ESFP', ISFP and 'ISFJ' are a pathogen to humanity, and 'then' Cluster-B (depending on their neuro-personality).
THEIR "FEELINGS 'IS' THEIR REALITY", THEY ALSO HAVE A MALICIOUS-MIND BY DEFAULT (low 'mirror-neurons' results in "SOCIOPATHIC-FEELER"; full of pathological hate, and highly chaotic).
WHAT'S MORE, DESPITE HAVING MALICIOUS INTENT THEY ARE ALL EMOTIONALLY-WEAK AND PRONE TO COVERT/VULNERABLE-NARCISSISM (ISFJ especially; they impersonate and spread hate towards genuine INFJs).
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Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality').
I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)!
European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!!
They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-r@pe, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till.
xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists.
ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism).
Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet; while ESFJ-9W1 superficially appears like an ENFJ, they have different 'neurology' and psychology. Both XSFJ are superficial by nature and perceive reality at face-value/surface level.
SUMMARY
Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler). ESFJ-9W1 superficially resembles ENFJ; different 'neurology' and psychology.
[Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ).
☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil).
Spread the word! Thank you.
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Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit, i.e. ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level, and with malicious intent ISFJ impersonate others). Please research 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology.
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It’s not only about finding the right person but also becoming the right person.
its easy to become the right person. But to find one, you have to spend several lifetimes.
@@anderstermansen130 Well, a LOT of people did find the right person in one lifetime, so you are wrong about that one.
Me and my crush:
1. There's a lot of attraction I feel in her!
2. I'm totally not into her looks at all, I love who she is as a person
3. There's a genuine connection, we enjoy spending time with each other
4. I'm perfectly who I am and I think she likes it
5. Although I've been heartbroken before, I think I'm ready to embrace a new relationship now!
Cheers to that happy state 🥂
@@sadia2395 MY-PHILOSOPHY:"INNER-STRENGTH"
I have found that simply "loving myself" (inner-child) is a powerful tool against most types of social-dependency/vulnerability.
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Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality').
I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)!
European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!!
They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till.
xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists.
ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism). Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet.
SUMMARY
Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler).
[Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ).
☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil).
Spread the word! Thank you.
___________
Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit; ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level), 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology.
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"Evil" is the antithesis to the virtue: 'humanity'. Humanity is the characteristic that defines the human spirit. Humanity is symbiosis across humans and society. 'Humanity' exceeds 'social-darwinism'.
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#2 can cause you trouble in the long run, take it from me. People want to feel physically desired and can get uneasy and resentful if you're mostly friends.
I got so lucky with my partner🥰
Wasn't trying to find love, but to my surprise we found each other! After two hours of conversation in public over a silly argument, with him, a stranger, I felt a strong attraction to him almost immediately! I'm 23 and counting him I've only been attracted to two men in my lifetime. And the one before him was a lot less so! I asked him out, we went on a few dates, I probably developed feelings of love around a month in but knew that it was too soon to say it. Two months later of us being together, and maybe about a month or so in a official relationship it still felt like it was too soon to say I love you...But I just couldn't hold it back anymore. After we finished kissing on the couch for who knows how long and cuddling together I was trying to bring myself to say the words for probably about five minutes...I was terrified! Terrified that if he truly did feel the same that I might scare him away because it all felt so sudden how quickly love found us, but literally three seconds before I say the words he says "I love you". I cried a little a whispered back "I love you too!"😭💕 Still together and it will be a year in March
Wow it is beautiful
It is definitely pure chance. For some people it's quick and some of us it's taking a lifetime to find our partners. I wish everyone well on their journey.
MY-PHILOSOPHY:"INNER-STRENGTH"
I have found that simply "loving myself" (inner-child) is a powerful tool against most types of social-dependency/vulnerability.
.............................
Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality').
I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)!
European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!!
They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till.
xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists.
ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism). Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet.
SUMMARY
Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler).
[Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ).
☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil).
Spread the word! Thank you.
___________
Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit; ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level), 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology.
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"Evil" is the antithesis to the virtue: 'humanity'. Humanity is the characteristic that defines the human spirit. Humanity is symbiosis across humans and society. 'Humanity' exceeds 'social-darwinism'.
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I’m scared because I really do want to end up with someone. I know I’m young but I can’t help but worry. I don’t wanna end my lifetime alone :(
@@vngaming255:
Nowadays women are unbearable, not only in getting one? But maintaining one. They just want to sit on their fat butts and do nothing but wait for you to keep them entertained and interested, they make hardly any effort to try and entertain you, just throw a tantrum if you decide to leave
You’re the one who needs to keep HER around and thats disgusting,
So you have your love work cut out for you man
Literally a few minutes ago I was talking to my friends about how I’m scared of never finding anyone😂
We always come at the perfect time! Did you learn anything from our video?
@@Psych2go the 5th thing on the list really helped. I really want to get with someone but I never even dated anyone before. Almost all of my friends have been in relationships before so I feel pretty self conscious about never having been in one. I’m still young so I know I shouldn’t worry about it too much but I still do sometimes and sometimes I just need to remind myself to take my time
I've always believed, I need someone to have family with but after 20 years being single, I've stop giving a shit, my mum gave me the wrong values, being forever alone is ok, I only have one relationship goal, get a dog...
MY-PHILOSOPHY:"INNER-STRENGTH"
I have found that simply "loving myself" (inner-child) is a powerful tool against most types of social-dependency/vulnerability.
Learn to love yourself first. And do not settle with just about anyone. Sheesh.
Timestamps
1). Manage your expectations 0:36
2). You should share more than surface-level interests with them 2:08
3). There is a strong social connection 3:12
4). Don't change who you are just to suit someone you like 4:58
5). Take it easy 5:56
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙
Thanks. Signed your ADHD friend.
And always underestimate people. They are not as kind as you think they are, not as smart, not as caring, and they don’t love you as much as you think they do
her voice so calming😭she makes everything sound so nice
Amanda has a lovely voice!
I'm 24 years old and still never been in any relationship. Was too focused in career or probably was not ready; and now when I've career I feel lonely. It feels I might end up singke for life but on the same hand not so desperate to date someone who don't share the same values as me... Love is indeed terrifying
Yup
I have been studying love ever since high school and observing others, listening to their stories, understanding what made them work and what don't, but as I grew older today, I found that love can be so simple if we stop putting too much meaning to it. Most people that I've met staying for so long with each other said that the best way to explain how they know the other person is the right one is when they feel like home. Many can make your heart race, but only a few can make you feel safe. And that's when you found the right one. It's not just mere compatibility or sharing same sense of humour, it's more of knowing that you can be the ugliest being in the whole world with this person and they'll still stay and treat you the same. That's what love is to me. It's simple, when I meet someone, if they don't make me feel at home, they're not the one.
I think this a good way of thinking about it but at the same time what make you feel like something is like home to you is largely from your experiences from childhood and with your parents. So if you didn't have a good relationship with parents or siblings or that your parents didn't have a good relationship with each other this can cause an individual to feel at home in unhealthy situations
After all the missteps I’ve taken within my relationships from the past couple of years, I think this will help me find the person that is right for me, great video as always
MY-PHILOSOPHY:"INNER-STRENGTH"
I have found that simply "loving myself" (inner-child) is a powerful tool against most types of social-dependency/vulnerability.
.............................
Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality').
I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)!
European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!!
They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till.
xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists.
ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism). Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet.
SUMMARY
Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler).
[Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ).
☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil).
Spread the word! Thank you.
___________
Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit; ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level), 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology.
I'm working on myself first. When I graduate in two years and move to a different state, that's when I'll build a new social circle. Hopefully the girlfriend who is right for me will be there. Time will tell.
That is correct! Focus on you and love will find it's way over
@@Psych2go Thank you Psych2Go! I love y'all's videos and they were able to help me figure out that I needed therapy. The six months have been a lot of work, but I'm so much better than when I started!
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6. Avoid people who are superficial. Physical attraction and money are important, but people who make those their biggest things should be avoided because they will bounce for a better option when one arises.
"I have found that happiness as a goal is highly overrated. Happiness, like love, sneaks up on us while we're distracted doing other worthwhile things.
Hello Sarah how are you doing,
where are you from?
Thanks for making this video, even though I haven’t watched too much of it yet, I’ve recently been broken up with and heartbroken. I hope to find the right one some day, and I’m sure this’ll help.
I'm sorry about your recent breakup. How are you feeling right now?
MY-PHILOSOPHY:"INNER-STRENGTH"
I have found that simply "loving myself" (inner-child) is a powerful tool against most types of social-dependency/vulnerability.
.............................
Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality').
I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)!
European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!!
They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till.
xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists.
ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism). Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet.
SUMMARY
Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler).
[Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ).
☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil).
Spread the word! Thank you.
___________
Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit; ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level), 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology..
@@Psych2go Devastated a bit, but I’m going to recover soon hopefully.
@@rickbolturd I hope you get better. Stock up ice cream though
I went trough a very rough breakup a month ago and it makes me feel kind of sad that my ex partner got another relationship in just a week, but i also kind of started to feel attracted to someone else and it's confusing but it kind of brings me joy at the same time
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It always Really scares me when someone gets out of a relationship and gets into another one right away. It spells codependency or serial dater. You need time to heal! But different strokes for different folks
You honestly, as in absolutely all honestly, believe women had feelings in the first place?
Because they dont, they swap partners faster than you can swap your underpants. And they have no feelings about it.
I’m a year late but I’m replying to check if you still have this opinion, I really hope you dont
I don’t think I’ll ever find someone for me, but thank you for posting this. It gives hope to others
I think the same as you, and finding someone feels so far-fetched and unreachable... But to be fair, no one knows what the future will bring in any aspect of life 😁 Maybe things won't go the way we wished them to, but we can still do whatever is in our control to reach our goals, and to try to enjoy each day as much as possible! (And sorry for the unprompted advice, I just wanted to share some words that maybe could make some sense)
Just better to remain single and ignore these thots, don’t run after them and give them that satisfaction, if you treat her like a celeb? She’s gonna treat you like a fan. Be cool remaining single, these thots aren’t worth the effort
same. Giving up is easier on the heart than to keep trying, and feel more and more miserable every time.
I love the fact that more emphasis has been placed on finding someone in your social circle. It's so much easier to be with someone who is also from your friend group. You already know that you get along with them, and enjoy their company, and if they happen to be attractive it's basically a slam dunk
Sorry, but this is imho the wrong approach. Be your best self, work on it, love yourself, get out and find ways to meet with new people that suits you, and keep your eyes open until you stumble upon someone who is magic to you and you to them. Make sure you have enough time to get to know each other deeply, your values, your mindsets, your RED flags and the Green flags. Don’t ignore red flags within your first year. Ideally make notes of them. After the first year when the chemicals are at a more natural level and you hopefully are in love, reassess the partner and your relationship again. Be brutally honest thinking if you can imagine get married and make kids right away with her and stay together forever. If that feels not right in all your mind and body and soul, then it’s either time to talk about that and see if you can work it out, especially those values that are essential for your happiness. If the problem persist, leave.
At my age, its very very difficult to find love. My social circle is made up of married couples who seem to only know other married couples. It leaves me having to rely on dating apps, which has not produced a lot of results. Dating in your 40s absolutely blows.
Paul, if you think dating in your 40's is bad dear, try doing it in the 60's. It is really sad!
Thank god i know what to look forward to, and things only will get worse! Im 27 in the time of writing.
@paulczubryt8644 message me, who knows...
@@msBbee-oq7im Try dating as an 18 year old young buck... You'll see how difficult it is hahaha
The best way to find 'the right person', is to focus on being the best version of yourself every single day, and accept that the other person won't magically make life perfect or easy for you. Just like with friends and family, there will be traits about them that you don't like or things you don't share in common. All relationships require effort, tolerance, respect and gratitude, whether they are romantic, platonic or professional, and all of them can help you grow as a person. Everyone is flawed, lonely, scared and conflicted and life has ups and downs. A couple is like two trees beside each other, growing together (but each on their own separate, parallel path), and sharing the joy, pain and mundane on an adventure upward and forward.
It's so difficult to make new friends when there's no space in my life for going new places, meeting new people, going off-schedule for events with complete strangers involved
Let alone being introverted, and having most people generally ignore one's presence, even when spoken directly at
I feel that. You're not alone in that situation. I never get to go anywhere or have any opportunities for meeting new people so I'm just stuck with my small circle of IRL friends and then several circles (some overlap, some are entirely separate) of online friends. And I'm also introverted myself.
I was in two relationships. One of them became toxic and cruel to those around him while the other just fell out of love for me. I’m a gay 21 year old man in college just doing my thing and I still have problems with people just playing me. I would just focus on myself until another man just approaches me with the same agenda of loving me until he falls out of love for me. At this point this is becoming a bit painful but at the same time a learning experience to me. Thanks for reassuring me that I can just take my time and focus on what I’m doing and waiting for that man to prove himself to me before I get into another relationship^^
The second point in my opinion is the most important. My parents "fight" all the time over small stuff. But they are absolutely inseparable.
Never worked out for me. I'm so terrified of romance to the point of borderline social withdrawal. Sharing religious beliefs and political alignments are impossible for me, everything turns into a heated argument that escalates even further. I'd best be left alone, feels more fulfilling.
Psych2go uploading the right stuff at the right time for me, as usual 😭
How did you feel about this video? Have you been looking for love?
This video helped me realize that it'll take a long time for me to find a true love, the timing couldn't be better after a break up and all. Thank you for making this video. :D
Make a video on how to tell your crush you like them even if your so nervous to tell them and how to open up to your crush and how to not be shy around your crush
Long difficult journey after highly possible narcistic relationship. First work on myself and support my child and show the most right way of growing up. Love can be so beautiful, but after two horrible events of 4 years and 9 years I have to change myself to protect myself for evil partners 😥..protect myself against people with other intensions. Social and willing as I am, with healty borders.
Bro. This is exactly the video I needed lately. For the past couple months. Hell maybe even years the concept of romance, being in a romantic relationship has always been on my mind. Especially lately. I’ve been lonely and unsure how or what I wanted in someone and this video helped a lot
You and me both
1. Manage your expectations 0:37
2. You should share surface-level interests with them 2:09
3. There is a strong social connection 2:12
4. Don't change who you are just to suit someone you like 4:48
5. Take it easy 5:56
Thank you
2, share MORE than*
Thank you for the timestamps!
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@@Psych2go Welcome!
When you still have a crush on your childhood partner and all these “how to know (something abt love)” videos you just can’t think about it because you haven’t seen them in years:
I hope one day, I get the person who fits my standards 🥺🙏
I've been praying for a good man for my future.
I needed this today. The taking it easy section of this video hit particularly hard. Love illuding me this long has definitely made it sound like a myth, but I still hope that there is someone for me in my near future.
What is important is not taught at school but at least you can find that here to live your life in a better way!
That is very true! What other information have you learn from Psych2go?
@@Psych2go That everything comes with time. You shouldn't rush stuff if you want it to last long and be a positive thing you experience. All will come at the right time. And don't change yourself for others in order to stay healthy mentally.
5.8k views in five minutes? Wow. Also keep up the amazing work, you are really helping me understand myself and the world. Thank you ❤
You are very welcome! Thank you for being apart of the 5.8k views! How do you like this video?
@@Psych2go well I’d say I’m young and I’ve never actually dated anyone, so I am very thankful for this video honestly 😅
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Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality').
I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)!
European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!!
They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till.
xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists.
ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism). Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet.
SUMMARY
Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler).
[Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ).
☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil).
Spread the word! Thank you.
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Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit; ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level), 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology..
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"Evil" is the antithesis to the virtue: 'humanity'. Humanity is the characteristic that defines the human spirit. Humanity is symbiosis across humans and society. 'Humanity' exceeds 'social-darwinism'.
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MY-PHILOSOPHY:"INNER-STRENGTH"
I have found that simply "loving myself" (inner-child) is a powerful tool against most types of social-dependency/vulnerability.
mid of last year i thought i managed to find the love of my life, someone that I have known for years but did not interact much other than the few times she is in the city. unfortunately she was badly hurt from the previous relationship. trying to get close to her by hanging out with the mutual friends that we have. confessed to her at the end of last year and she only sees me as friend and not ready for the next relationship. i still very much in love with her but i understand that she is not ready and still recovering from the wounds of last relationship. I'm in a dilemma of whether to continue stay around as a friend, thus extending the pain of one sided love or completely stay away. after few months of agonizing self doubt, I keep our relationship as platonic as possible. Probably she is not the one for me, at this moment it does feel like finding love seems like a myth. I hope everyone will find the love of their life and they see you the same.
your voice helps a lot during these videos. Its so calming!
I'm so glad to hear that! How did you enjoy watching this video?
true love is unpredictable, and worth it so don't give up on it yet.. there's someone out there waiting for y'all 😭❤
This video was so beautiful and very insightful for those who are trying to find love in their life. Don't give up, there's a person for everybody, patience is important and patience is key... We all deserve to be happy, including you. ♡
thank you
If u are ugly like me there Is no chance.
I’ve given up on love and I can’t really make it work. I’m just too dysfunctional, too damaged, too broken, too attracted to women who are only the worst for me
I can agree on everything that’s on this list especially 1 and 4 and 5. You gotta have attraction towards someone, and be yourself so you can find your ideal love. You also gotta not be too fast, take it slow. I have a crush on someone and I’m trying to do what’s in the video.
lol same
i just hope that no matter what perfect or not he's gonna love me. my heart wants but my mind thinks, and i know its only a matter of time.
love this channel.
Could we possibly get a video about the psychology of being in love with multiple people at once, and/or different kinds of love? I feel like there’s a lot of videos on how to know if you love someone or someone loves you romantically, but not much on these topics.
The fact that this video played itself right as I came in must be a sign that I should stay with my best friend more than my crush
Hi from Philippines southeast Asia!
This RUclips channel is the best because when I'm feeling under the rock there's always a video that is right for me and for everybody! 😙
I'm sorry to hear that, how are you feeling right now?
Thank you this made me feel better I am going through a very difficult relationship and healing journey. It is not easy I'm looking for someone who would totally make sense and make me feel completely understood without me trying hard to please in order to stay and me being afraid of offending their feelings. 😶🌫️🥺💔
i LOVE the art style in the video!!
As soon as my fiance left me y'all posted this, thanks
I learning more about love each day as I think about my feelings towards one man I have grown to know over a year now via online through Discord. He's had an influence on me for me to do better in my life and focus on myself that I have not done in years. I think he could be the one for me but I genuinely don't know what his deeper feelings are towards me. I only know enough to where he likes me as a friend, we both like to talk to each other, we understand and trust each other. I would like to believe he is the right one for me but at the same time, I'm scared to show any deeper feelings because I'm scared of what he would think of me and I don't want to ruin the friendship I have with him. At this time, we both aren't thinking about dating and romance as we're trying to focus on building our lives up. I'm just using this time to learn and embrace my feelings because I want to make sure that my feelings are right with this. I have never felt this deeply for someone before in my life.
I fear if I ever meet someone that I have feelings for, it's not just having fear either they feel the same for me but if they would accept everything that is me. I'm worried that even if I finally found the person for me Im worried that they wouldn't look me as the same if they knew everything of me. I have no advice on what you should do, but so as long if your friendship isn't going anywhere then it's best to be patient if you can and see what happens then. Hope this comment did any good.
@@silvore64 Yes, it did, thank you. That's the other thing that I'm scared of. Is that if I'm enough for them. I have been through some rough things over the years that has made me question my self-worth. With him, he has made me feel that I have worth. He's definitely seen my messages of when I've expressed my stress, when I'm at low points and is patient enough to talk me through it and ground me. A part of me is scared to show the deeper parts to him, and I don't want to end up hurting him. I don't know, I'm taking it one day at a time in terms of the friendship him and I share and trying to make sure I don't do anything stupid. For now, my deeper feelings for him are sealed away but growing a little bit almost every day.
@@purpleserenity137 I'm glad to hear that , I'm happy that you at least have someone like that in your life.
@@silvore64 I'm happy to have a good friend like him. He means a lot to me.
I girlfriend broke up with me about a week ago, we spent 2 years together. The past few months I thought everything was ok but it turns out… she wasn’t the right one for me, I hope in time I can find someone who will stick with me🤞🏻
I was just thinking about one person that I love very much and this pops up-
I want to to try having a partner.. But I actually have a self promise to prioritize on something first. But it might also mean I will be less atttractive.
I totally understand the bit about love being unpredictable. I was kinda crushing on this girl at school for years. When someone else asked her to a dance, I asked this other girl I knew, my friend since fourth grade, to the dance on a whim, and that developed into romance. My former crush is definitely still someone I want to be friends with and spend time around, but I'm so glad that someone got in my way because I'm so much happier with my current girlfriend than I think I could have been with the other girl.
Sure, i take my time...29 years now...tried and failed over and over again..."You're nice but i like you as a friend not in a romantic way" seems to be my curse...
I wanted to see a videeo of yours about being single and choosing to be single, the good parts, the bad parts
That is a great topic! We will let the team know
So I was on the Sosynced again and I got a love from someone with different core values. I feel bad for the person but reality is reality.
I love your voice! It's so calming♥️
Thank you! Amanda's voice is so easy to fall in love with
I have always wanted to be in a relationship. I want to love someone and be loved by someone, but im scared that I'll never find that.
1. There must be some kind of attraction 1:10
2. You should have deeper than surface level interests with them 2:10
3. There should be a strong social connection 3:14
4. Don't change who you are to suit someone you like 4:58
5. Take it easy 5:57
6. Heisenberg? 7:17
take a walk wherefore that is the depth of emotion
Honestly, for me love is pain and quite honestly I'd rather die alone, the whole concept of finding "the one" is just really for the most part a social construct there is no such thing as "the one" just someone who you have great chemistry with. T_T
After applying a few of the tips from your other dating videos, I think I found the one for me!
He is actually my best friend and both of us have really strong feelings for each
Definitely going to date him soon
Not me literally watching this right next to my husband who is already asleep, making sure that I made the right choice lol 😂
I'd rather be alone than going against what I feel.
Okay. So question for number 4. What if you don't like being yourself/who you are, and your aware that other people will not like you for being you?
Im no profesional, but if you are not happy with who you are, you should think about developing yourself as a person and progress in your character before having any relationship until you feel more complete.
PD: part of your problem might be your self esteem, are you sure that you are not happy with yourself, or is it other toxic people that dont like the way you are and make you think like your not okay this way?
Oh, and remember that you can be the most delicious plate of soup and still not be liked by people because of their taste.
Good luck, buddy!
It’s better to be hated for who you are than to be liked for who you’re not .
Not everyone you come across will like you and that’s ok. Find your peace and be at peace, love yourself and the right person will enter your life and compliment it not complicate it
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you just learn to give up then. Learn to give up on women, companionship and the entire concept of love as a whole.😊
Already found my Right Person, but I love this and will probably share it with her.
*"Like that's ever gonna happen."*
I don't know if I deserve love, but I crave it so much. I hate love, but yet I crave the feeling of receiving and giving the emotion and I don't have the confidence to talk to anyone about
I understand how you feel. By this point I don't desire and deserve wanting to find someone that feels the same way, I just want to find someone that I want to give my life to and protect them and do anything in my power to give them happiness. If I can do that then I would have no regrets. I hope you find someone that will make your wish true.
its about the same here. I would walk a marathon on red glowing coal, excavate the entire mont everest 200 times over, and drain the pacific ocean, one teaspoon at a time, anothet thousand times over, just to have a cute girl i could geniuenly love, and cuddle with,
but i guess things like cuddling, and thats one thing to mention, only is allowed for people who can master a pink sunshine and rainbows relationship from day one.
Thats when i learned to just give up.
Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash
@Johnson Llobet well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer
you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.
Not everyone is meant to be together. Divorce can sometimes end up showing you that you were better off as friends or that you both were better off with others. It's just not worth it to stay someplace where you're unhappy.
@Johnson Llobet Uh...spirits and the supernatural don't exist. You're talking to a scam artist.
oh but she will if she gets her way. The only goal for all women is to hurt men beyond repair. Even if it takes years or decades of pretending to care about you, or your children! Women are willing to spend as much as their entire life to make one mans life miserable!
i’m not gonna have a turn in the dance of twin flames. either by choice or by stupidly bad luck, i don’t get to feel that warmth again
Being alone is not that bad. You can do what you want.
Animations were really fun and enjoyable for this video. Props to the people who worked on them.
The thumbnail is sooo beautiful 😍
Thank you for the feedback, we will let our artist know!
I'm 22, soon to be 23 this March and I met the most wonderful man and he asked me to be his boyfriend. We're both head over heels for each other and we can't stop gushing about each other. We both share so much in common and plan on sharing even more. I really hope that we'll get married and grow old together.
so when did you dump his sorry ass?
@@anderstermansen130 we're still together and spending time together rn
Love is overall a Lottery. No one has the power of dictating to the universe what their mate has to have, or even if they get one at all. That’s why it’s best to simply cultivate good friendships at surface level and go from there. Some will have the dumbest luck in the world and get their beloved lickety split. Others will struggle, stumble and get left behind, despite their very best efforts. It’s best to simply look out for number one, and not be obsessed with the whole “Romeo and Juliet” myth. AND YES I SAID MYTH. Get the facts. Don’t cheat “the man in the glass”. Over and Out!
I started to come to the conclusion recently that love is not so important to me. I enjoy the peace of being by myself. However, I've also developed a crush on a close friend and I don't know if she reciprocates. I walked home with her today. Sometimes she says things that make me wonder if I upset her, and I'm uncomfortable because I don't want to do that. But then maybe this discomfort is what will help me learn to be a better person? I don't know 🤷♀
Thanks to this channel. Many many advice I learned and applied irl. So thank you from bottom of my heart. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Surprisingly I found the one already which is surprising because I was not looking but love come and slapped me across my face
Well, first things first, I find it very hard to find myself physically attracted to anyone. Like, attracted to them because I like the way they look. I am far more on the personality side. If I like someone's personality, the attractiveness will follow (usually only if they are male because I am straight, after all. Females I would consider good friends if I really got to know them but little more). Which, I will admit, makes finding anyone 100× harder, because then it requires me to actually talk to people. Sure, my mind does sometimes tell me "that might be the one", even before I talk to them because that's how it works (which I will admit helps), but I don't usually have that thought because of the way they physically look. It is usually something... More. Like I'm keeping my options open if ever I did talk to them and found myself liking them
Now, to add anything else, if physical attractiveness (like the way someone looks) is the first step of a relationship for virtually everyone but myself, then there is no way someone will like me. I try my hardest NOT to stand out in a crowd and usually give little care to the way I look (disliking jewelry and makeup alike so never putting either on as an example). Oh well, I guess. If I don't find anyone, that's alright. I don't need love, if anything it is simply a want (and not a strong one, at that, though I do fear my time is coming). So anyway, that's what I had to say
I met my current partner 5 months ago and started -officially- dating 3 months ago. Neither of us was looking for someone, but it's grown organically since we met. Earlier tonight, I was terrified to tell her something that was eating me up inside. I was afraid she'd shame me or put me down as that is what I experienced in my previous relationship, however, she did none of that. Instead, she was present. She listened, heard what I had to say, saw me as I was, and didn't put me down or abandon me. I feel free to grow and be myself with her. The only downside is that we're currently doing long-distance. I know that she is worth going through the pains of long-distance for. I'm going to visit her in late June and I'm beyond psyched!!!! I'll finally be able to hug her and hold her hand ❤ I love when Psych2Go puts out relatable videos for what I'm currently going through 😊
This was a beautifully made and narrated video 💖 amazing job everyone!
Everyone has already commented on how good the video's subject matter is, so I am shouting out how funny the animation was. The 100% evil guy is living his best life with his evil girl. Love that for them
woah perfect timing i was just thinking about my love life lmao
How is your love life doing?
surprisingly quite good!
What is this. I have bubbly feelings and chemistry for a girl for the first time since two years ago (my first relationship) and this video drops literally on the same minute. STOP READING MY THOUGHTS I'M GONNA CRY.
Edit: wow I have a girlfriend now nice
Thank you, I love your channel and this actually really helped 😊
Glad it helped! What was your highlight of the video?
@@Psych2go I enjoyed learning that if you find the right person you usually share the same likes and dislikes!
Can we all pause and appreciate the drawing at 2:58 that is wonderfully ambiguous and shifts into a woman and a man, a man and a woman, two men or two women if we choose to see them?
I really like the way you cite journals and their authors to solidify your points.
I'm 28 and never dated once in my life. Earlier in my life, didn't, because I wasn't interested and plus didn't really know my orientation (and didn't have the supports to help me figure it out back then) and also no one had any interest in the socially awkward autistic girl who kept to herself anyways.
And now here I am finally realized I'm bisexual (with strong preference in other women; very sliiiight to men ig) but with zero opportunities to even find anyone. Plus I'm still pretty socially awkward and have no idea how to even date. and even then I still don't like the idea of seeking out dates for the sake of it, I want to start off as just good friends. Relationships are shallow and weak if they don't have a strong foundation as a friendship first, imho.
So yeah I'm pretty sure I'll be foreveralone. Kinda sucks since I have friends who are in happy relationships and I do feel a bit envious of them, but oh well. I guess I'm just destined to have my "love story book" be nothing but blank pages (or just fictional character crushes) and never experience it. (and, I'm partially okay with it but on the other hand... still wish I could at least experience it once just to see what the big whoop is about it.)
Same. But the reason why I hadn't been dating when I was younger is because of my self esteem issues caused by never being asked out in my formative years. Now at 26, I am still working on my self and at least talking to people but most of my talking stages have never gone anywhere.
same
being a lesbo is hard 🙄
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Working on yourself, lol….why can’t they love you right then and there during your building time? It’s not really love if they’re only interested in you once you have made yourself, otherwise that same hubby wouldn’t have noticed you otherwise
@@Aven-Sharma1991 Working on yourself is something you do THROUGHOUT your life. You never finish working on yourself. That's my answer to you.
I say that’s the success to a beautiful marriage is that you marry someone with the same interests. Sure you’ll have disagreements here and there because those who get along well have fights sometimes but getting along and having the same interests as your mate is so much better then someone who’s opposite of you.
Sometimes people's love story is platonic or even self love.
Been in a relationship for almost close to 5 months. Psych2go thanks for all these tips which I have shared videos with my partner and he and I agree. Personality wise as well, I am a ENFJ and he a INFJ. Similar interests, communication, and sharing our understandings really has helped to be with someone who I can keep exploring my relationship with and most importantly be myself
When you find the right person at the wrong time and you have no chance with them.