6 Tips for Successful Dating
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- Опубликовано: 14 июн 2024
- In this video, we're going to talk about how to unlock your dating potential and improve your dating life. We'll cover topics like how to get out there and meet new people, how to make your dating profile stand out, and more!
Whether you're just starting out in the dating world or you're feeling stagnant, this video is for you! We'll give you tips on how to improve your dating life and unlock your dating potential. So come learn about the things you can do to improve your dating life today!
We also made a video on the green flags of dating here: • 6 Green Flags on Datin...
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We know that some of you have asked for subtitles, so we started adding them. If you like it, let us know!
I love that y'all added subtitles 💙💙💙💙💙
the things i need thanks
personally, I prefer RUclips subtitles cuz it's optional and now customizable
Would have been nice if we could turn them off and on. But thanks all the same ^^
Do a video about touch starvation
Timestamps
1). Know yourself 0:29
2). Go at your own pace 1:16
3). Think of each step as practice 1:55
4). Communicate and be honest 2:42
5). Watch out for red flags 4:31
6). Tell someone you know where you are and be aware of your surroundings 7:02
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
Tysm, have a wonderfull day
@@Potato_Of_Regrets not a problem happy to help
Nice job, for Timestamp Comment post.
The problem is just overthinking. Ya overthink every little thing. 😅 Just be calm, friendly and interested and you'll be alright. Find someone as weird as you, as normal as you, on the same wavelength as you and you'll be in a partnership in no time.❤
I used to have crippling social anxiety before i started working. So bad that i couldnt go up to someone and the words i wanted to say would be blocked in my throat cause it felt like i was having an allergic reaction to talking. You know the feeling. It feels like your throat is closing up and you start sweating and your breathing gets short. 😅 I was down bad. But when you really put your mind to it and you keep trying and trying eventually you will get better. The only trick here is not giving up hope nor giving up on yourself. Keep seeking out your own happiness and you'll find it.
Thank you for sharing about your social anxiety! How are you doing now? Do you feel like you are much better at dealing with social anxiety? If you could give anyone your personal favorite tips, where would you start?
@@Psych2go I am 1000% better at it. Funny thing about anxiety is that I learned the most important thing is to remember anxiety is apart of your natural adrenaline function. (The fight, flight and freeze instinct) There is no magical way to get "rid" of anxiety, you can only control it. The best tips i can offer are these:
1. BELLY BREATHING
Breathe with your stomach, not your chest. This deep breathing technique is the same breathing we did as infants when we first popped out the womb. It is super soothing and can calm the shakes you experience. (I did this when i was having an anxiety attack just sitting in silence in my room)
2. GROUND YOURSELF
Use your senses. Focus on what you see around you, smell, hear, feel. Touch the things around you. Grip them with your hands. They are real. Name the things you sense. Grounding yourself can remind you that you are not on a plane of nothingness. You're alive.
3. MANTRAS
Remind yourself with positive words that nothing can harm you. "I am safe. I am real. I am here. Nothing is going to hurt me. This is not an emergency." Mantras are great coping mechanisms to assure yourself. These are phrases that can help ground you. I repeat these over and over again until I come back to reality.
Anxiety is so tough to deal with and the only thing tougher than it, is you. We all have the capability of overcoming this anxiousness. Our greatest tool is believing in ourselves that we CAN do it. The more we work on it, the closer we get to controlling it. I have done these things for well over 5 years. Nonstop training and exposure therapy, just on my own. It has also helped when I can focus on others and be mindful that they exist too and I'm not going through this on my own.
@@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed there is an enjoyment and self accomplishment on talking, moving and expressing yourself with ease and honest that is so fresh and carefree that others feel good at it too, and once i felt like that i really wanted and desired to control and free myself of my social anxiety, cuz i knew that this is the one thing that everyone else more or less have been experiencing in their daily life, and i value its importance so much. I no longer want to feel limited since then, we just need to be wise about our decisions, needs, actions, but we should try to go outside those fear/limiting walls cuz they are not completely rational at all.
@@ChristinaMoralesMindfuqed I was the exact same as you. The feeling of being anxious, it's awful. Since I started working a couple years back I've slowly got better and better since, had to force myself to interact with more people and go out(mostly there now but not quite). I realised you've just got to chill out and talk to people openly whether that's dating or not. What's the worst that can happen if two people don't see eye to eye? You just won't build a relationship/friendship with that person then find someone else more similar.
1) know yourself 2) Go at your own pace 3) Think of each step as practice 4) Communicate nd be honest 5) Watch out for red falgs 6) Tell someone you know where u r and be aware of surrounding
Thank you for posting this advice
It doesn’t matter what the beginning of your story is like. The pages before you are blank. You are the one who gets to decide what is written. It is a story you will constantly revisit as you shape your path. You will discover interests hidden around the next corner, or the next.
So keep going. Tumble into this realm as often as you like. Write your story. Start where you are. And change the ending.
no.
How so if every girl is creeped out by me?
@@Matthew_080 I'd say focus on yourself first. You don't have to rush into relationships just so you can say that you are in one. I usual see it like this:
"If you try to catch fish by going into the water hands first, you will not catch any good ones, if any at all. However, if you practice on your own technique and give it time, the fish will start biting until you get the big one."
Thank you, I need all the help I can get
I don't want to self sabotage a future relationship
Quit dating, years ago, because Contemp was all I got. So, honestly looking inward, I'm not capable of having a relationship. Some of us are made to do it alone, no matter how much those feelings creep up. Being strong enough to stay the course, not break down, and be yourself are all difficult, but necessary.
naw if u made to be alone those feelings wont creep up. usually ppl meant to be alone show signs during adolescence, sometimes even younger. if its a struggle it aint it. ppl crave companionship in nature, so the exception being not craving companionship is out of the ordinary.
Same here. Some of us are just supposed to be alone.
I am nearing my mid twenties and I have yet to enter the dating world but some of these tips were helpful! I enjoy the relationship content
0:00 intro
0:29 1. Know yourself
1:16 2. Go at your own pace
1:55 3. Think of each step as practice
2:41 4. Communicate and be honest
4:31 5. Watch out for red flags
7:02 6. Tell someone you know where you are and be aware of your surroundings
7:36 outro
I failed at step 1 👍
@@watynecc3309 ok then don't use it
Tysm
Me and my partner started as friends for a while so by the time we started dating I was already pretty sure he was a good guy. And over a year later I can confirm he is the best guy 😊
Aww, so cute. Hope you will be forever together❤.
🎉🥰
Awww that’s great!! Wish you the best in the future with them 👍🏽
@@fahmidatanjim4094 me too! The man is a dream come true
@@norapeace6526 thank you so much, I feel lucky to have him as a partner
my mom has always said
"before you can love anyone else,
you have to be able to love yourself"
And that's very true
So i will stay single forever. I accept that.
I thought these words are just empty and pretty words but now I agree it is true.
I’ve somewhat given up entirely on dating mainly because of my anxiety of talking to new ppl and getting to know them along with my overthinking. I can’t really see myself being entirely comfortable with another another person
I give up 😂. You try too hard it never works out. You don't do anything you miss out. Just live your life. Maybe this relationship thing is not for everyone, and that's ok.
I agree. Dating or being with someone romantically is definitely not for everyone.
@@sparklefairy34 you will definitely be better off getting to know yourself 👍
@@Farmer151 and “dating yourself” as well😊 seduce yourself, take yourself out on a date, & fall in love with yourself.
@China Springs yep, I totally agree. I'm sure many persons in relationships don't even know how to do that or are allowed, lol.
That's a true statement
The subtitles are a nice addition. Well done, Psych2Go!
it's so true, i get ghosted so much T.T
It sucks being unattractive in the generell eye/in the average society.
Yep it sucks
The subtitles omg This is so much better thank youuuuu
I may not be dating now, or in any near future, but when the time comes I will have so much youtube video knowledge that I'm gonna be a dating genius.
(I know that videos like this can't replace real experience, but it's just fun to watch this channel even if don't necessarily need these that kind of information)
Same❤.
Knowledge is power, even if it's random. Also, it could be a nice icebreaker :D
What was the best dating advice you received from a RUclips video?
i really love your videos, they are very fascinating but also helpful at the same time.
your voice is so calm, making the video 10x better
Hii~
I find this so well-written, thank you so much 💙
Good points to run but what about the positive ones to stay? It isn't just feels right.
Thank you so much!! This video is very useful
Nice quality of this video, keep it up Psych2Go! ✨🔥
To anyone facing all the challenges of dating and starting a new relationship... my most positive vibes!❤
WE WILL GET THERE BROTHERS! STAY STRONG AND LET'S KEEP LOVIN'!
💪
Imo dating has changed from "I date this person because I love them and want to be with them." to "I date them because I want to sleep with them."
Obviously I could be wrong but that is how I see it...
Every single second of this episode was so interesting and important that I can't pick the most important tip. All are the useful and valuable at the same level. I'm waiting for part 2 :)
Glad you enjoyed it!
Tip #1: Know yourself
Me: Ah, dying alone it is
These tips are very helpful 👍
Why am I vicariously enjoying such videos despite being single my entire life?🧐 🤔
You'll get taken someday cause it takes time for you to meet someone for you
@@genesisanderson6052 ha! I wish.
@@uselessvader You will okay and don't loose faith in that
@@genesisanderson6052 yeah! We’ll see. Only time can tell.
Wish me luck & looks👀😬🤞
@@uselessvader Alright than
These are super helpful, just decided to start dating again after about 6 years and have been super nervous
Take your time in that relationship cause there's no need to rush in it and be yourself too
I’ll have these tips on my list whenever it’s the right time.
Same
Dating sounds super hard ! Like for real. I've mastered calculusand I can tell that's super easy compared to dating.
Yo thanks for your tips, Psych2go. I combined this with some other psychological tricks and me and my crush we are kinda closer now. Even tho we just first met february this year, i think i can do it if i persist.
Those empty silences are why I'll request my 'date' to bring along a friend
To try and fill the empty silences and to make her hopefully more comfortable since she's around someone she knows. For the first meeting of course, later will depend on how we feel
All of you also need to know that not every relationship will be perfect! It takes breakup after breakup to learn
True
About no. 2... I think I was doing it well on my own pace, but after when I found a crush that I like, she suddenly looking for someone else, and she had feelings on me before... and I got that twice in a row with other girl later on. 😅
This is helpful thank you
Glad it was helpful!
Could we possibly see a video on what to do when you’re a guy in his early 30s who has never had a girlfriend and no real options when it comes to dating or finding a potential partner?
Asking for a friend.
i mean what do they wanna do - they have no options? theres always options, unless theyre seriously handicapped. if thats the case, not much that can be done there except cherish what they got. otherwise theres options. but before any of that they need to love and understand themselves first; u dont just jump into a relationship lookin for someone to fill in your void - thats for u to do urself. once they can love themselves - which will show in the outer - then they can look for a relationship. if theyre new and awkward they should start off on the online dating - every1s on there looking for the same thing, so theres no 'initiation' making it all easier. learn from those interactions and if need be or whenever ready move on to real world setting and go from there. thing about it, theres a loooot of ppl out there lookin for romance and having love troubles, more than one might think. so theres a lot of options.
Hope everyone has a great day tomorrow
You too! 🥰
Now I’ve not dated someone before but I do like someone who is single but has 2 cancers but my friend told me that she is doing ok thx god. We both have a lot in common and I think that works is eye contact because it’s really helpful and to just ask one question at a time and be patient with it and let them talk too and then you talk
All your facts is true. Many people experience this one, so they follow what you said. I know you also.
Also trust your guts if the person your talking to gives you anxiety. You two aren't talking anymore. You're body knows, exspesally when you know you have anxiety. Yeah, you don't need that. You need a partner who makes you feel safe. Be a human aquivalint to a blanket.😊
Could you do a video about things to consider before getting back together with an ex?
About three weeks ago, I broke up with my girlfriend, and while I think I had good reasons for doing so (namely, gaslighting and overall toxic behavior), since then, I can't help but miss her and wonder if it was a mistake and that the bad things were mostly in my head,
I love your videos
"Know yourself."
Me: "A NEW MISSION OBJECTIVE!"
PLEASE DO ONE ON HISTRIONIC PERSONALITY DISORDER
0:47
-im not talking money , jack im talking ideals
-excuse me ?
-forget it we both heard enought speeches about higher causes by now , hisory will decide whos right
Very nice video❤
Could you guys make a tips vid for knowing how to know when to ask someone out? I suck at that quick time event
By the time I learnt the skills of dating potential which you can't ignore.
They IGNORED.
Now I am left alone only with the skills..
I mean life skills 😉
Ah, yes. Dating content. My ace/aro ass loved this
PLEASE MAKE AN EPISODE ABOUT POLARIZING PERSONALITIES/ BEHAVIORS❤❤❤❤😅
I Love the Star Wars reference😂😂
I will do everything that helps me get a gf .
"Here's your mission, corporal: get off the plane, make your way to the village in the jungle. Kill all the insurgents, then make your way to one of the shacks, free the president and escort him to the designated position, we'll be waiting there."
"I don't know... Seems unreasonably dangerous."
"You'll get a gf afterwards."
"SIR YES SIR"
thx for that i wanna try this on my crush
Nah, I've just given up on dating and love.
Hopefully I can use this. Assuming I can get to dating that is.
Also:
UwU outro dance UwU
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Hi! I need some help with my relationship, I started dating this guy at school who asked me out but we barely talk and if we do it's really awkward, he acts shy or nervous around me and doesn't act like himself, I don't know what to do because it's really stressefull
2:55 They're so cute 💖
I honestly just given up on dating. Just kinda accepted that I'm either gonna have to drop my standards and force myself in one that even though it doesn't work for us it's the only thing I have or accept that it'll more than likely never happen. Besides I'm probably too ugly and weird anyway
gotta be realistic lol.
It depends on the standards. Also, it is entirely possible to be better off single than in a bad relationship.
Furthermore it is to be pointed out that it is easier to feel undesirable when one isn't feeling like they are getting attention. Unfortunately the expectations of people have just skyrocketed as a result of the internet and all the access to information that such has brought - including in the form of dating apps.
This is as nice as I can put this - but there is a definite disparity that exists in dating - as quite indirectly alluded in the video itself.
I will say this though - beauty may be in the eye of the beholder - but it is entirely possible for the eye to be blind to beauty - having forgotten what to look out for. Not that this is necessarily a comfort.
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Like you
@@PathForger_Life Dating went from "I date them because I wanna be with them" to "I date them because I wanna sleep with them" and its only getting worse...
Plss explain about the behaviour...
I feel a bit stereotyped by the whole heteronomative thing you mentioned 😅. Sure, it happens with other people who are horny or what have you, but when it's a real date, I don't think one would do that unless they're a total, well dick lol. Then again, I don't know if I can relate because despite being heterosexual, I do find certain things that a hetero male isn't suppose to find hot like male genitals (just the genitals, not the guy) and being submissive and wanting to be pegged and dominated by the female. Anyone else can relate?
Edit: Oh, and before anyone says I'm Bi, I don't think I am since I'm not into guys at all despite what I mentioned. I heard that sexuality is a spectrum, but I don't know. Feels kinda odd.
Psych2go, I am having issues with my crush situation. My crush, let’s call her rocky, likes me. But here is the issue. Rocky’s parents won’t let her date till college. I had the idea that if I be honest build up and keep close with her, that after like 8 months I would tell them and get permission. But it might backfire majorly. Can you help me?
YAY
I can't find the key to unlock my potential.
I think Psych2go is in love 💗💗💗
With you! 🥰
Could you make a video about “how to get out of the self isolation” ?
Great idea! If we did a video on this, what would you like us to cover?
@@Psych2go Thank you for replay. I want you guys to cover is that Pre-COVID people who were really outgoing and social are now introverted because of the lockdown. I used to enjoy family gather and hangout with friend but after COVID i don't like to go outside. I want to go out but at corner of my brain something just telling me to go home.
And please aware people that self-isolation dangerous. Sorry if it feels like I just vented but I am pretty sure there more people like who struggle with this too.
0:09 *takes out sword* and it ends here
OK , LETS DANCE !
5:25 You saw that Food Theory didn’t you?
Help me with my life ive been really sad im just feeling like im out of my family. My brother hates me my brother doesnt want me to be his brother and wants me to be dead.I feel like my friends at school is better than my brothers i keep dying inside and i keep hiding my feelings and just shrug everything off please im just really sad
Hey guys, thanks for your helpful videos.
However could it be possible to spread the thematics a bit more ?
We got several related to " love/date/partners/sex etc... " quite in a row and it's important but that's not the only important part of life and I think it would be sain if people in general could focus more on other things...
Thanks again for your simple and clear advices about everything.
Thank you for your feedback. We'd like to ask, what other themes or topics would you like to see us cover?
@@Psych2go
Your mental health care videos are great according to me.
Maybe I didn't see but did you cover topics like :
- Ways/how to deal with illness/diseases ( own / close ones)?
- Ways to treat/educate kids :
It might be off your purpose but there is so much to know about kids and the way to behave with them. As parents or not.
I've read they are like sponges and absorb behaviour/words more deeply than adults to the point it influences their personality. Maybe it could be useful to talk about children particularities like this one.
( Nobody is training adults to get a degree for rising ( or dealing with) kids despite everything, will influence the adult they will become)
Ofc education is personal regarding choices and cultures but there might be basics rules or ways that can applie to everyone.
- About tolerance. With the increasing multiculturalism, we have to deal more and more with the difference of each others.
It is scary or uncomfortable for some people and lead to intolerance or borderline words/behaviour.
On the same wavelength :
- How to deal with people from different religions ( this topic has become so sensitive, it could be nice to have reminders that religion is mainly a personal story and shouldn't be a reason to start thinking/acting bad about someone)
- Ways to deal when kids/teens are bullied/harassed on social media ( from close people / or strangers )
I have many other things coming in head but it's maybe off your purpose or you might have covered them already
Anyway thank you to have taken into consideration my feedback ☺️ and even if everything I've mentioned doesn't suit, I'm glad you can be so open and "reachable" to give to your followers this possibility of suggestion.
Maybe other followers will dare to suggest more if they read how connected you guys are with us. ☺️
Thank you again for your channel 🎁
I’m always shocked when people say dating is supposed to be fun. Like, what about it is supposed to fun? The stress? The anxiety? The cheating? The lies? The active malfeasance? The endless chasing that always ends in tears? The insecurity? The cruel and direct judgements of my looks? The mind games? The gaslighting? Seriously, what part of it is fun?
I feel like there’s something wrong with me. I know I like boys and I have romantic urges, but when I get presented w the opportunity to kiss someone I just can’t do it. No matter how hot they are how much I like them?
what is dating or attraction, and crushes or sexual arousal or sexual tension can you please explain any of this video to me please, because i've never heard of any this information in my life before ???😶😶😶
Do you have any flirting tips for introverted males?
That's a very interesting topic! We'll share this with our team :)
I am early!!
Lol, this is cute, I really like it
Failed right at number 1, completely..
"A successful dating" is either mild engrish, or a mild case of trolling to get people to click and comment (in which case, well done!).
Blue white and yellow flags 2oow
This animation is so cute
❤ first
Wow.
I kinda was first to comment like before psych2Go did
Why the subtitles? not complaining though 🥰
Ounly one who 100% gnose
Is not dating for 10 years a super long time? 4:19
If I feel too busy and distracted in my life, will I have time for dating?
I feel like I have accidentally fallen into this group of guys who don't date anymore.
I do want to date, I guess I just keep putting it off. Weird, since I always pictured myself getting married one day.
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*Am i trippin or is that Leon and Ashley from RE4 in the thumbnail?* 🤔
What should I say if I never had a girlfriend?
Tell them to put the money in the bag or their blood is gonna paint the walls
And when they put the money in the bag run away
The real question is... how on earth do I find someone I can go on a date with-
Just see if you know anyone who is single and be there friend and get to know them first and after a while then take them out to a date
@@bryangonzalez4604 great then it won't happen, since outside of my 2 parents I only know 3 guys in the school who are sitting near me and even they dont have friends + only talk about school duties so I stay single ig 😂
Ooook I think it's safe to say that psych2go has pretty much held my hand for the past year of my life.
No thanks im still busy playing CS:GO as a matter of fact i will be playing CS2
Lmao fair
@@sunbae-nim w bro
@@comicalacurate cs2 w for sure
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LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO 2:26
@2:54 Armin and Levi on a date 😘
the nyit nyats xD
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why do i feel so depressed every time i watch this channel lol
The four red flags are basically just “Your average internet argument” if you think about it.
Why is there always on CC now?
Lots of people wanted subtitles on the video. What do you think? Do you prefer the video with or without subtitles?
Im alone:((
I'm sorry you feel that way:( hope you get better ❤️
You have us! 😊
This may sound weird but Have you ever done a dating video like this but for people with autism? I just have Asperger’s and I feel like it’s going to be near impossible to date someone.