7 PROVEN Ways To FLIRT Effectively Through Texting
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- Опубликовано: 14 июн 2024
- Mastering the art of flirting through texting can be a game-changer in today's dating landscape. Whether you're looking to spark a connection with your crush or keep the flame alive in a long-term relationship, knowing how to flirt through text is a valuable skill.
In this video, we share a few proven strategies on how to flirt effectively through texting. From playful banter to meaningful compliments, these techniques are designed to help you navigate the digital dating realm with confidence.
Learn how to flirt with girls or guys over text, discover subtle ways to show interest, and explore the dos and don'ts of texting your crush. Whether you're a seasoned flirt or just dipping your toes into the world of romance, these tips will elevate your texting game and leave your recipient eagerly anticipating your next message.
#flirting #love #relationship #dating
Writer: Dylan Swanepoel
Editor: Kelly Soong
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
Voice Over: Brandon / @littleghostyofficialtm
Animator: Krisha Que
RUclips Manager: Cindy Cheong
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Pinsky, D. (2019). Doing gender online through flirtation. Digitally mediated romantic interactions among college students. RESET. Recherches en sciences sociales sur Internet, (8).
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What's your best way to flirt with someone over text?
I don't flirt at all because I haven't found the one I'd like to marry😔✌️
Can't flirt
You want to know my flirt very well
"You seem sweet my dear, so sweet I can't wait to cannibalize and sink my teeth into your tender flesh." 💋💀🖤🥀⚰
Formal (business) typing style. Entertaining and funny. But after all i got rejected😔
I just go with it
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
Me going through every tutorial ever like I'm not gonna turn down any offer coming my way anyways 😂😂
Hope this video helps you!
@@Psych2go so nice WOW
My biggest fear
Hey, quit calling me out 😂
Yall are getting offers?
She blocked me🤗
Don't even care about her ever again.
She wasn't the one. Don't give up, big dog!
over 😂😂
Yup, that happens sometimes.
It's alright, though. Just take some time to get yourself back up and keep on doing your own thing!
Happened to me before like 7 times, liars
Time stamps for who needs it:
0:26 - don’t get ahead of yourself
0:59 - sharing is caring
1:56 - sincere compliments
2:28 - don’t be scared to tease them
2:58 - talk about the future
3:36 - have some inside jokes
4:23 - remember to really flirt
1:56 - #3 sincere compliments , 3:36 - #6 have some inside jokes
SHEEESHHH THANK YOU SOO MUCH
Thank you for saving me the time
Try not to be creepy. Try not to be creepy. Try not to be creepy.
Text message: HI I LIKE YOUR FACE! 😍
Just as Desmond said to Molly
“Hi I like your face……. Fancy sitting on mines?”
@@amitatal455 I hear Desmond and it reminds me of Spy x Fam xD
I hope you like a restraining order.
Personal experience btw
Seeing comments from girls who are trying to flirt or confess their interest to a guy is really nice to see for me. It feels so refreshing to know you're also going through the same stuff! Good luck to all of us.
"confess their interest to a guy" means theyre on the lookout for a new victim to break the heart on, beyond repair.
Who hurt you@@anderstermansen130
Not every girl is like that. I got out a horrible relationship just recently, but that doesn't give me this toxic, sexist mindset. You'll find her, don't tire yourself needlessly@@anderstermansen130
@@anderstermansen130 😂 stop it
@@anderstermansen130 Aww, did someone get their feewings hurt when a girl didn't want their sour attitude?
Another tip: First know her/his mood. Cuz if they angry, they'll read your message in a wrong tone.
Happened with me few times, and it was awkward explaining them that I wasn't angry.
Emojis can really help establish the tone as well.
@@patotaku007 i mainly use emoticon lmao >W< >w< >^< ^^ :3 :0 >;3 >:3 >;0
>3
"I dont mean speculating on what how humanity will look like 1 million years from now."
My nerd ass: ah shoot, there goes my chance.
I know right, I was excited to finally have a genuine excuse to bring up my dystopian predictions.
lol SAME
exactly :(
I literally fumbled over text an hour before I saw this. Damn. C'est la vie.
rest in peace soldier, just fumbled about a month ago.
How did you do it? If not a secret
C'est la vie en effet😅
C’est la vie is what every dude thinks when they f it up and it’s scary and funny at the same time lol
@@thegamingshiba as a french person, I think "it is what it is".
Anyway, happened to me like 5 months ago, I got friendzoned, and then accidentally forgot to keep contact with her lol
I always ask my lovely Liza if anybody told her she was pretty that day. When she says no i tell her "pleases me to be the first"🥰
I think I'm gonna puke. This is too sweet, I don't want to get diabetes
@@TheMCzorrowhat do you mean
W
@@Zeromus0 Your comment was extremely sweet, in fact, too sweet for my liking
@@TheMCzorro❤
Step 1 as a guy: don’t text her too much. hangout with her In person. This ain’t gossip girls
Timestamps :
1 Don’t Get Ahead of Yourself 00:27
2 Sharing is Caring 01:00
3 Sincere Compliments 01:57
4 Don’t Be Scared to Tease Them 02:29
5 Talk About the Future 03:00
6 Have some Inside Jokes 03:39
7 Remember to Really Flirt 4:23
A tip for sharing music: don't just randomly send songs with zero explanation or context. that doesn't come off as flirting, at least to most adults. give me a REASON as to why you're sharing that song or artist. make sure I am open to listening to it. and pay attention to if there's reciprocation. are you asking me to send songs I love in return? this kind of flirting is very give and take, not just spamming random music you love. it will backfire if you don't put thought and connection into it, like most things.
The #1 important thing to pay attention to is how the person you're flirting with is reacting to you/talks to you- which I know can be difficult through text sometimes. if they are not showing interest, you need to back off and let go after a time. if you're not sure, being straightforward is good because you should always look for someone who is open and honest about their feelings. if they're unsure for too long, you deserve someone who IS sure of themselves. be good to others as you'd be good to yourself and vice versa.
Im not sure of myself like ever, i dont deserve love? Thats mean :(
@@Mephi_uwu never once said someone who isn’t sure of themselves doesn’t deserve love m8. But people who do know what they need in a relationship deserve someone who’s on the same page. Everyone “deserves” love, always. Most people are made with love inside, to foster for themselves and share with others❤️
“Avoid being creepy”
Bruh, that’s why I never so much as talk to someone I’m interested in. Nowhere near neurotypical enough to be confident in knowing what is and isn’t creepy. Plus I’m blind to any kind of flirting anyway 😅 so it’s a moot point from the start
Yeah honestly I stopped trying.
Fun story: I confessed my love to a girl, she friendzoned me, my mature self took it quite well, but I forgot to ACTUALLY stay her friend lmao, and then she pouted on me and said *I* am the one who is pouting...
*I mean if you want to stay friends you also have to start conversations sometimes or else we are not friends at all, cute idiot!*
Anyway I feel free of all burdens now and it really was worth it, it's a wonderful feeling
But it never sounds creepy until after you've sent it😅
@@RiaNancy so true, but honestly I don't care, if you fail just retry, the main thing is to be yourself
@@dyltan thanks, though I feel like myself is pretty dry, a guy I was friends with randomly stopped talking to me as much,said I was the one who was quiet(I was not) then asked me to prom 3 months later, i agreed since we were still in contact, after it he went back to being off. I still don't know why, but he did the same to my friend before me so, I just don't talk to him much either 😑
@@RiaNancy if you don't talk much to him or initiate conversation, there's a big probability he will stop talking to you out of nowhere, if you did talk to him often, he just weird
Soulrapturing black metal❤
Your channel blows me away. How do you guys manage to pump out such well-animated, well-cited videos so often?? It is incredible. So awesome
me with no special person 🍿😎
If you super enjoy your own company, I’d say you are with the most special ! Peace.
ur videos really calm me down v much.. it's a very good way to end my day tbh, thanks so much
We're really to hear that! We hope this video can help you out. Don't feel hesitate to share any topic ideas you'd like us to cover more on!
Really enjoyed how this video breaks down the nuances of flirting over text without overstepping boundaries. The reminder to be respectful and light-hearted as foundational rules is so important. It reminds us that effective communication, especially in a romantic context, is built on respect and understanding.
I love that you're exposing all the people who claim their "experts" in dating advice with these videos.
They're*
You must first understand the market they are selling you. Then you'll understand the type of people they are referring to with their advice.
I never thought I’d have one of those “PSYCH2GO UPLOADED THIS AT THE WILDEST TIME” moments, but here we are
I feel it's needed to be brought up: *I love* Brandon's voice. So gentle. Like a very understanding friend. C:
I followed this video's tips and other videos on your channel and just now we became a couple, I want to thank this channel so much
i dont know how u time these so perfectly but i legit spent like an hour this morning thinking of how socially awkward i am when i text someone im interested in. Well was intrested in. Currently dont have anyone lol
Not even close, expending this much energy into a intrapersonal interaction has reinvigorated my desire to go out and have real, more natural interactions in the "wild". There's too much room for people to hide in anonymity. It's a massive waste of time, if someone is interested they'll immediately let you know, otherwise, go on a hike, knock out some chores, or just stare at the sky.
I met a woman in 2014/15. She was the first woman I spoke to that wasn't my wife in over a decade. I told her a lot of things about me and we shared a lot of laughter and flirted a lot. We used to write notes to each other because people where we worked would talk if they would see us together and we didn't want anyone knowing about us. We used to text too. I was fool to think I could find something I lost in someone different. I used to love when she'd shave her head, too. I was wrong for thinking any other woman would want me, and I was wrong for thinking it because I was married to top it all off. I ruined our friendship by trying to tell her how I felt through text. I suck so bad sometimes...
Lovely video❤ I love the positive vibe 😊
I remember the days when AIM was the only way I could talk to women, and now that we have texting, I just can't do it at all anymore. Something inside of me won't allow it.
What why?
@@entirelyourownworld 42 years of rejection
It was a lot easier to talk to women on AOL back in the day. People were just more open and willing to connect in general.
Flirting and really establishing a proper connection with someone your interested in over text does have it's challenges. Your not able to pick up on small details or behaviors compared to if you were talking to someone irl. However you made a lot of great points such as having many inside jokes with someone you like. And when it comes to flirting itself, yes sometimes you should really emphasize it to get the message across. Overall you provided some great tips! Fantastic work @Psych2go!😁
Hello!!! I love your videos sm thanks for helping me through many things!
We're really to hear that! We hope this video can help you out. Don't feel hesitate to share any topic ideas you'd like us to cover more on!
Whelp, good to know I was doing this step by step when i reconnected with a friend two months back. Havent seen her in 11 years. But we've decided to start a long distance relationship. And she is coming to visit in less then a week! Wish me luck!
We both were able to bond over how similar to what we've been through with our ex's, we both were cheated on.
love this channel!
Thank you so much for this video.
This is the channel I keep finding myself coming back to every time I get a new crush >~
Sweet and soft and soothing voice.
❤
I love Brendon’s voice too!
i am so glad there's a male voice, it's so comfortable to hear
Love it!!
She took it up nicely and sent back my emoji. I think that's good!
Thankyou, (the 😏😏emoji is very powerful)
Timestamps
1). Don't get ahead of yourself 0:25
2). Sharing is caring 0:59
3). Sincere compliments 1:55
4). Don't be scared to tease them 2:28
5). Talk about the future 2:57
6). Have some inside jokes 3:36
7). Remember to really flirt 4:22
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
Thanks for doing this. People appear to flirt with me often
thank you!
I LOVE YOUR VIDEOS!!!
I really needed this - I struggle to talk to my crush irl and texting is the easiest way to express feelings for myself. Im working on moving past my anxiety regarding talking to people but (until then) these videos are really helpful!
Don’t worry you’re maybe struggling but you can still be with her and maybe one day you’ll get over the anxiety and if you don’t
That’s fine just find someone who can understand that and look past it
@@joylechanceux4805 thank you so much for the kind words - I’ve literally started tearing up. You have no idea how much I needed to hear that. I hope that I can get over it one day, like you said, but it just feels so impossible sometimes.
Once again thank you, I very much appreciate it❤️❤️❤️
@@D.Fettuccine glad to hear
I also have anxiety and I managed to get over it a little bit so yeah I can tell you it’s possible
Good luck with your crush
I hope she likes you back
@@joylechanceux4805 it’s reassuring to know that someone who went through something similar is getting better, it gives me hope that one day I can too. Maybe I’ll return to this comment if she likes me back!
Thanks for taking the time just to encourage me, it means a lot❤️
@@joylechanceux4805 It is reassuring that someone else is overcoming a similar problem, you have no idea how grateful I am that you took the time just to encourage and reassure me - as I have been doubtful about getting better. If it all goes well maybe I'll return to this comment and give an update!
Just say, "Hey, how you doin?" Maybe they'll laugh like my niece does. If nothing else you made someone smile and that is always a plus. 😁
trying to filrt my homie with this one 🔥🔥🔥🗣🗣🗣🔥🔥
Alright, time to grab that note pad and take down everything here to see if I can give it a try!
I'm glad this video exists because I'm currently talking with a girl, but she has a BF. Me and her text a lot and I feel I can get along with her, but I also want to keep my boundaries and be respectful to her still.
I dont know why but everytime i watch your videos at night it makes me cry of pain because i know i wont find someone that understand me as much as she did and i dont know why but somehow crying of pain feels good i cant figure out why i cry and after that i laugh but im still sad
Nice change in the narrator's voice. But the girl, im not sure what her name is, her voice is so calm and relaxing...
Nice work tho guys 👍
I wish i was confident enough with my self to actully ask somebody out or even just talk with people
Why are you so precized at making videos hahaha recently I start making friends through online and luckily you post new video about it
Thanks Psych2go. I'll do these things if i ever find someone i have a crush on. Flirting might be hard but once again your video helped me a lot. Thank you for making content like this
You’re making it too complicated. Just 2 steps. 1. Let yourself feel how you feel towards them. 2. Talk to them.
Done. It will happen naturally.
@@AutomaticDuck300 I know i should do something to create a relationship. I actully tried few times before but well i was unlucky. After that i didn't even try. Past is always the problem...
@@SMGDL2009 yeah but you learn from your mistakes. You’re not any less of a person. Just change tactics.
@@AutomaticDuck300 I will. Thanks for helping me. I really appreciate that. Wish everyone were helpful, kind, you know. Here almost everyone are kind to each other. We can just talk about anything. We Psych2go fans are like this and it's good to see that there's still kind people in this world. There's still hope
Even tho I just got out of a relationship and not sure if I want to flirt with someone immediately, always interesting
Is anyone else just here for the sound effects and occasionally the pretty art?
this might just be me but I feel like am I the only girl who kinda likes those awkward moments like I’m not joking if I saw like a sincere and sweet message between him and someone else being like so there’s this girl- then I would freak out
I also like to know the reason behind loving gore, horror and chaos media and whether it's a red sign.
The timing of this video being posted is scary, convenient and not by coincidence
Imma just doing poetic thing and it works every time both irl and in text
I feel so early to be here 😂❤
I’ve been doing these ways to talk with my friend (I have a crush on him)‚ but now I want to confess my feelings towards him. I haven’t taken enough courage for now but maybe there’s really a right time for that. I just don’t want him to be confused and think that I’m just being friendly.
also‚ thank you for posting this video. At first I was hesitant and unsure about my feelings but after watching this‚ in every tips that’s been discussed‚ he pops up in my mind.
Huh nice
i like your comment. it was heartwarming
But if I were to give some advice from my experience as a guy who one day a girl confesses to, I would say: if you are absolutely sure about your feelings Go confess to him and stand by your decision no matter what. Especially if he shared the same feeling.
I hope that both of you will be the best person for each other❤❤❤
I'm a guy and I advice you not to propose him until unless he's really a shy guy. If he's not a shy guy then you should make him propose you and then accept his proposal.
I'm telling you this because he might think that you're a low value girl and lose interest in you as a lot of girls nowadays are playing hard to get like yk what I mean?
But also act like you're interested in him so that he might not think he's wasting his time in pursuing you.
(Sometimes, you don't have to propose, everything just falls in a place.)
@@ashaypallav4158 This type of behavior is exactly the problem of all relationships. Playing lying wearing a mask
And most importantly: being immature
@@abynevermore5542 You got me all wrong, i told her to show interest in him and act interested. I never asked her to ghost him or act immature or anything sorta
Cant believe i need a tutorial for this, usually i dont read the manual
Let's see....currently doing 5 out of 7 with my crush. I think I may just have a shot! 🥰
Teasing and genuine compliments are like a balanced meal. They go hand in hand and make it really fun to talk to a person, especially if they do it back. I rizzed up my ex partly by being kind and partly by being pure evil lmao. Just gotta be funny and make it clear you're not trying to actually hurt them.
Finally dared to flirt and tease him a bit after making sure he's still up for another date (after some time apart due to sickness) aaand now I'm on read for days...nevermiiiind lol
I just told my crush that she looks pretty, I have zero interaction with her before,I just jump straight into it cuz I don't know what I was thinking. She hasn't responded yet...maybe I fked up haha 😅 but it's nice I managed to gain the courage
Aww don't you worry too much! You were indeed brave and everyone likes compliments!
It may just be difficult to find a good response or time to reply.
There's a lot of reasons in that kind of situation, that don't even have anything to do with you personally.
Don't let it get you down ♡
@@panaceax9979 thanks for the kind words, she ignored and rejected me 2 days ago, but I'm over it now, I'm not sad at all, it was a great experience 😅
@@panaceax9979 thank you for the kind words, she rejected me, but I'm cool with it now :)
@@panaceax9979 she rejected me, but I'm all good :))
cant wait to try this out!!!
oh wait my phone broke nvm
I've been getting along with a friend recently... We did quite many of these things, but something changed out of nowhere. She stopped being consistent to my messages, she stopped joining VC, she stopped joining OUR plans; no more games, no more movies, no more nothing...
It's a bit tough, I thought we had something mutual...
I'm not giving up to love, but I've given up on her, I still care for her, but I need to move on.
Meanwhile, I’m watching this as I’ve been left on Read for the past few weeks.
I feel that, man. It happens
OOF been there man. It gets better. Trust me
Ohayou Gozaimasu! 🙏
This channel has been of great help to my mental health adventure and my life so thank you so much psych2go
Best comment ever. Thanks for your support in our work!
Oh, these tips can be very effective, thank you! I've got a little question and I can't find a way of answering it
She's always busy (she's doing a business degree while I'm studying IT development), and we live really far apart (~5 hours by car). Now, I can't lie, I don't spend all day doing homework (it seems 'simple', logical and natural, it's just that I don't need to study as much at the moment), whereas she's always studying, pushing herself every time.
Now, we've talked a lot every summer since covid19, but during school, not so much. Still, recently she sent me messages (I'm on holiday this week, she's just finished her holiday) that were quite flattering, I can't lie. She wants us to go to an amusement park this summer (now that I've got a car and we've got money, it's much easier!), and I'm all for it, but because of the stress of her school, if I don't text her first and we don't talk then, she just doesn't reply.
I know it might be stupid, but I don't know if I should continue, check in, just talk, or stop.
PS: I'm really enjoying talking to her (and I think she is too) and I'm not forcing myself, but I'm wondering if in this situation I should stop.
Hi
There is no yes or no answer
These decisions happen in everyone's life and it all depends on what answer we get from looking at the relationship
And unfortunately, we will find out later how mature our decision was
But in general, Because there is no deep feeling of love between you (based on your explanation):
See what you want from the relationship. What do you get out of it? What is the ratio of the good feeling you get to these thoughts you said and which one has more weight. And finally, share all these problems with her and listen to her words to reach a good decision together.
wish you the best❤
The last one is like the broadest most relative thing ever
I clicked on this video like there’s going to be a woman I can text, let alone flirt with any time in the near future.
Everytime will happen to see likely in want we best we do
I have indeed found messages to send but I don’t have a person to send them to anymore so yeah 💀
Uhh hi there, this is just a video suggestion, please.
I have struggled an idea for a show & this year, there were 2 shows that was strikingly similar to my show, and both of them were very popular.
Almost nobody knows who I am, and I tried turning my idea into something new, but it didn’t work, what do I do?? This is extremely frustrating to me.
Sigh... I hate myself checking "did he replied", when there's nth, my brain start popping "he is ignoring you" "he dun want to answer you" "he dun want to turn u down that's y he didn't reply". I hate this feeling for like/ care someone.
Coming off as creepy has always stopped me from flirting via text; maybe thats why none of my talking stages worked out 😂
a long time ago I dabbled into the PUA world.. and interestingly, the concepts discussed here are the same. The only diff is that the words used to describe them are much kinder in this vid😅
Sweet to be first
Thanks for being part of the EARLY SQUAD :D
the fact that i cant do these cause my shyness gets the best of me hahwhaha
😂 Is it possible to ask someone to go back and redo a conversation now?
Bold of you to assume I can flirt.
I hope she says yes😅
the NUMBER ONE HITS ME LIKE A TRUCK
pov: ur using this to flirt with your best friend (but you later realize you have a huge crush on her but she’s straight and has a boyfriend who you’re also friends with and you can’t do anything about it so you just play flirt with her but it’s real for you but not for her)
edit: got a girlfriend (different girl) that i’ve had a crush on since we were little!! we live rlly far away from eachother now tho
edit 2: her parents found out and they took her phone away and i’m scared they’re gonna tell my parents and i haven’t come out to my parents, let alone tell them because they said i can’t date till after highschool
Jesus 😭
Damn that hurts
omg, that sounds like something I've been through
You people have destroyed the society
I'm Sorry To Hear That :(
But Don't Give Up^^, You Will Find Someone Someday :D
I'm using social media for like more than 6 years and I can't able to make a friend Everyone just ghosted me because I'm too nice or respectful.. I never wanted to be creepy or intrusive that's why I stopped texting anyone I couldn't able to make a friend flirting is just ... Just impossible for me 😢
I Completely understand this i
It is in my nature to be nice & compliment others!! But weirdly it does put some people off!
Just try to be a bit more laid back and neutral to start with!
DAMN YOU, YOU ARE TOO GOOD AT GETTING ME TO CLICK YOU PSYCHOLOGIST
I just told my crush she's pretty, what should I do next ( I have followed none of these instructions, I just jump straight into it)
Make a video on topics to talk about please, I don’t know how to talk to people 1 one 1, It’s really hard for me 😞
Something i need alot lolol
100 times more nerve wracking when you know if you fumble screenshots will be taken😭😭🙏🏾
REAL.
This is acually somewhat scary, before I had my boyfriend now (it has been some days I think less than a week) I got recommendations about "how" to get love and all of that, now that I have a boyfriend though, I get recommendations about how to flirt and all of that, I feel like I am being watched 💀
Now I don't think I should put too much thought onto it, I think it is going already pretty well and if I start to think to much about it I might ruin it, but yeah I love my boyfriend so much, we actually already did so many things of this video, I am not sure we have that many things in common (we have some though), but there's just something that just makes me not get tired of talking with him :3
Sorry if I made someone jealous or smth ＞︿＜
From my experience, if the one you want to flirt through text doesn't answer back in like 2-3 minutes each time and every single time, you're always the one who starts the conversation then that person is not interested in you. Though there are some factors like their current status, emotion and their past, etc. that will drastically affect the process and ya gotta find a better method or just move on with another folk.
Me and my homies bout to be wilding
First 🎉
Thanks for being part of the EARLY SQUAD :D
Stuff like this tends to backfire on me. It just makes me feel even more isolated.
I have no idea how to flirt, in text or irl. I remember that scene from Gravity Falls where one of the characters Soos says "Your face is good. I'm a Soos." and that's basically my level of "flirting".