Seeing comments from girls who are trying to flirt or confess their interest to a guy is really nice to see for me. It feels so refreshing to know you're also going through the same stuff! Good luck to all of us.
There's a book called Casanova Optimization of Attraction, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
Time stamps for who needs it: 0:26 - don’t get ahead of yourself 0:59 - sharing is caring 1:56 - sincere compliments 2:28 - don’t be scared to tease them 2:58 - talk about the future 3:36 - have some inside jokes 4:23 - remember to really flirt
Another tip: First know her/his mood. Cuz if they angry, they'll read your message in a wrong tone. Happened with me few times, and it was awkward explaining them that I wasn't angry.
Timestamps : 1 Don’t Get Ahead of Yourself 00:27 2 Sharing is Caring 01:00 3 Sincere Compliments 01:57 4 Don’t Be Scared to Tease Them 02:29 5 Talk About the Future 03:00 6 Have some Inside Jokes 03:39 7 Remember to Really Flirt 4:23
@@thegamingshiba as a french person, I think "it is what it is". Anyway, happened to me like 5 months ago, I got friendzoned, and then accidentally forgot to keep contact with her lol
A tip for sharing music: don't just randomly send songs with zero explanation or context. that doesn't come off as flirting, at least to most adults. give me a REASON as to why you're sharing that song or artist. make sure I am open to listening to it. and pay attention to if there's reciprocation. are you asking me to send songs I love in return? this kind of flirting is very give and take, not just spamming random music you love. it will backfire if you don't put thought and connection into it, like most things. The #1 important thing to pay attention to is how the person you're flirting with is reacting to you/talks to you- which I know can be difficult through text sometimes. if they are not showing interest, you need to back off and let go after a time. if you're not sure, being straightforward is good because you should always look for someone who is open and honest about their feelings. if they're unsure for too long, you deserve someone who IS sure of themselves. be good to others as you'd be good to yourself and vice versa.
@@EldritchMephi never once said someone who isn’t sure of themselves doesn’t deserve love m8. But people who do know what they need in a relationship deserve someone who’s on the same page. Everyone “deserves” love, always. Most people are made with love inside, to foster for themselves and share with others❤️
@@shyper17 Alright: I think we're, as a planet, still not fully done suffering the consequences of the Cold War. The rise of religious fundamentalism in the Third World in the wake of anti-commie armed militants turning their guns on the West (and anybody not sufficiently pious) is not stopping there and is, thanks to several decades of international terrorism, echoed in both the First and formerly-Second World as both ethnic nationalism and opposing strains of religious fundamentalism finds support, fueled by the outrage felt against the terrorists. People try to fight fire with fire, and only succeed in producing more fire. And it's going to get worse. That we haven't really replaced the bipolar international system of the Cold War with a stable alternative since its end contributes to this instability and fosters extremism across the world as the battle lines remain uncertain. Meanwhile, the 99% aren't particularly happy about the increasing concentration of wealth, but are increasingly powerless to act against it in the current available paradigm as political polarization divides people over controversial topics and the ever-affordable politicians on both sides of any given debate happily jump into the pockets of wealthy patrons. Political parties increasingly emphasize things that they can never agree with their opposition on rather than the compromises that can be reached, because it's easier to get people to vote against what they fear rather than for something they sort of want. With this trend continuing, I suspect that that an ordinary person voting is going to increasingly become about as relevant to politics as choosing to support one sports team over another. But with ordinary people on each side increasingly unable to see the other side as fully human. I predict that all the above factors will give rise to more and more brutal dictatorships and brutal technically-not-dictatorships across the globe. If you're safe from one factor, you're not safe from the others. Meanwhile, pollution and climate change continue to grow worse and to disproportionately affect the poorer parts of the population. When major climactic shifts occurred in ancient times, they were the sort of event that could easily wreck empires as food shortages became commonplace. And civilization has famously been described as three missed meals away from collapse at any given time. Which may be an exaggeration, but it's not too far off the mark. What does human decency matter if discarding it means you and those you love can live another day? For my picture of the not-too-distant future, just take Cyberpunk 2077, but add heaping spoonfuls of virulent racism, religious fundamentalism (which almost always accompanies truly reprehensible sexism), and authoritarianism. And rising sea levels. Let's not forget that one.
The ladies need to watch this video and learn it by heart so that they can communicate properly without feeling exposed or vulnerable. Ladies who already have this knowledge; well, you have won 🏆🏆 congratulations !!
i dont know how u time these so perfectly but i legit spent like an hour this morning thinking of how socially awkward i am when i text someone im interested in. Well was intrested in. Currently dont have anyone lol
I really needed this - I struggle to talk to my crush irl and texting is the easiest way to express feelings for myself. Im working on moving past my anxiety regarding talking to people but (until then) these videos are really helpful!
Don’t worry you’re maybe struggling but you can still be with her and maybe one day you’ll get over the anxiety and if you don’t That’s fine just find someone who can understand that and look past it
@@joylechanceux4805 thank you so much for the kind words - I’ve literally started tearing up. You have no idea how much I needed to hear that. I hope that I can get over it one day, like you said, but it just feels so impossible sometimes. Once again thank you, I very much appreciate it❤️❤️❤️
@@FettuccineWithUke glad to hear I also have anxiety and I managed to get over it a little bit so yeah I can tell you it’s possible Good luck with your crush I hope she likes you back
@@joylechanceux4805 it’s reassuring to know that someone who went through something similar is getting better, it gives me hope that one day I can too. Maybe I’ll return to this comment if she likes me back! Thanks for taking the time just to encourage me, it means a lot❤️
@@joylechanceux4805 It is reassuring that someone else is overcoming a similar problem, you have no idea how grateful I am that you took the time just to encourage and reassure me - as I have been doubtful about getting better. If it all goes well maybe I'll return to this comment and give an update!
Not even close, expending this much energy into a intrapersonal interaction has reinvigorated my desire to go out and have real, more natural interactions in the "wild". There's too much room for people to hide in anonymity. It's a massive waste of time, if someone is interested they'll immediately let you know, otherwise, go on a hike, knock out some chores, or just stare at the sky.
Whelp, good to know I was doing this step by step when i reconnected with a friend two months back. Havent seen her in 11 years. But we've decided to start a long distance relationship. And she is coming to visit in less then a week! Wish me luck! We both were able to bond over how similar to what we've been through with our ex's, we both were cheated on.
Flirting and really establishing a proper connection with someone your interested in over text does have it's challenges. Your not able to pick up on small details or behaviors compared to if you were talking to someone irl. However you made a lot of great points such as having many inside jokes with someone you like. And when it comes to flirting itself, yes sometimes you should really emphasize it to get the message across. Overall you provided some great tips! Fantastic work @Psych2go!😁
Timestamps 1). Don't get ahead of yourself 0:25 2). Sharing is caring 0:59 3). Sincere compliments 1:55 4). Don't be scared to tease them 2:28 5). Talk about the future 2:57 6). Have some inside jokes 3:36 7). Remember to really flirt 4:22 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
I remember the days when AIM was the only way I could talk to women, and now that we have texting, I just can't do it at all anymore. Something inside of me won't allow it.
“Avoid being creepy” Bruh, that’s why I never so much as talk to someone I’m interested in. Nowhere near neurotypical enough to be confident in knowing what is and isn’t creepy. Plus I’m blind to any kind of flirting anyway 😅 so it’s a moot point from the start
Yeah honestly I stopped trying. Fun story: I confessed my love to a girl, she friendzoned me, my mature self took it quite well, but I forgot to ACTUALLY stay her friend lmao, and then she pouted on me and said *I* am the one who is pouting... *I mean if you want to stay friends you also have to start conversations sometimes or else we are not friends at all, cute idiot!* Anyway I feel free of all burdens now and it really was worth it, it's a wonderful feeling
@@dyltan thanks, though I feel like myself is pretty dry, a guy I was friends with randomly stopped talking to me as much,said I was the one who was quiet(I was not) then asked me to prom 3 months later, i agreed since we were still in contact, after it he went back to being off. I still don't know why, but he did the same to my friend before me so, I just don't talk to him much either 😑
@@RiaNancy if you don't talk much to him or initiate conversation, there's a big probability he will stop talking to you out of nowhere, if you did talk to him often, he just weird
Thanks Psych2go. I'll do these things if i ever find someone i have a crush on. Flirting might be hard but once again your video helped me a lot. Thank you for making content like this
@@AutomaticDuck300 I know i should do something to create a relationship. I actully tried few times before but well i was unlucky. After that i didn't even try. Past is always the problem...
@@AutomaticDuck300 I will. Thanks for helping me. I really appreciate that. Wish everyone were helpful, kind, you know. Here almost everyone are kind to each other. We can just talk about anything. We Psych2go fans are like this and it's good to see that there's still kind people in this world. There's still hope
I dont know why but everytime i watch your videos at night it makes me cry of pain because i know i wont find someone that understand me as much as she did and i dont know why but somehow crying of pain feels good i cant figure out why i cry and after that i laugh but im still sad
Oh, these tips can be very effective, thank you! I've got a little question and I can't find a way of answering it She's always busy (she's doing a business degree while I'm studying IT development), and we live really far apart (~5 hours by car). Now, I can't lie, I don't spend all day doing homework (it seems 'simple', logical and natural, it's just that I don't need to study as much at the moment), whereas she's always studying, pushing herself every time. Now, we've talked a lot every summer since covid19, but during school, not so much. Still, recently she sent me messages (I'm on holiday this week, she's just finished her holiday) that were quite flattering, I can't lie. She wants us to go to an amusement park this summer (now that I've got a car and we've got money, it's much easier!), and I'm all for it, but because of the stress of her school, if I don't text her first and we don't talk then, she just doesn't reply. I know it might be stupid, but I don't know if I should continue, check in, just talk, or stop. PS: I'm really enjoying talking to her (and I think she is too) and I'm not forcing myself, but I'm wondering if in this situation I should stop.
Hi There is no yes or no answer These decisions happen in everyone's life and it all depends on what answer we get from looking at the relationship And unfortunately, we will find out later how mature our decision was But in general, Because there is no deep feeling of love between you (based on your explanation): See what you want from the relationship. What do you get out of it? What is the ratio of the good feeling you get to these thoughts you said and which one has more weight. And finally, share all these problems with her and listen to her words to reach a good decision together. wish you the best❤
Finally dared to flirt and tease him a bit after making sure he's still up for another date (after some time apart due to sickness) aaand now I'm on read for days...nevermiiiind lol
I just told my crush that she looks pretty, I have zero interaction with her before,I just jump straight into it cuz I don't know what I was thinking. She hasn't responded yet...maybe I fked up haha 😅 but it's nice I managed to gain the courage
Aww don't you worry too much! You were indeed brave and everyone likes compliments! It may just be difficult to find a good response or time to reply. There's a lot of reasons in that kind of situation, that don't even have anything to do with you personally. Don't let it get you down ♡
this might just be me but I feel like am I the only girl who kinda likes those awkward moments like I’m not joking if I saw like a sincere and sweet message between him and someone else being like so there’s this girl- then I would freak out
I’ve been doing these ways to talk with my friend (I have a crush on him)‚ but now I want to confess my feelings towards him. I haven’t taken enough courage for now but maybe there’s really a right time for that. I just don’t want him to be confused and think that I’m just being friendly. also‚ thank you for posting this video. At first I was hesitant and unsure about my feelings but after watching this‚ in every tips that’s been discussed‚ he pops up in my mind.
i like your comment. it was heartwarming But if I were to give some advice from my experience as a guy who one day a girl confesses to, I would say: if you are absolutely sure about your feelings Go confess to him and stand by your decision no matter what. Especially if he shared the same feeling. I hope that both of you will be the best person for each other❤❤❤
I'm a guy and I advice you not to propose him until unless he's really a shy guy. If he's not a shy guy then you should make him propose you and then accept his proposal. I'm telling you this because he might think that you're a low value girl and lose interest in you as a lot of girls nowadays are playing hard to get like yk what I mean? But also act like you're interested in him so that he might not think he's wasting his time in pursuing you. (Sometimes, you don't have to propose, everything just falls in a place.)
@@abynevermore5542 You got me all wrong, i told her to show interest in him and act interested. I never asked her to ghost him or act immature or anything sorta
I've been getting along with a friend recently... We did quite many of these things, but something changed out of nowhere. She stopped being consistent to my messages, she stopped joining VC, she stopped joining OUR plans; no more games, no more movies, no more nothing... It's a bit tough, I thought we had something mutual... I'm not giving up to love, but I've given up on her, I still care for her, but I need to move on.
I'm glad this video exists because I'm currently talking with a girl, but she has a BF. Me and her text a lot and I feel I can get along with her, but I also want to keep my boundaries and be respectful to her still.
I feel like this is a safe place to share. I have questions on this topic. So, a bit of backstory, I am in a long distance relationship. It is going well. My only thing is that they asked of me to respect a boundary put in place. The boundary is only texting on three days per week. I feel like we can't fully connect this way. I have respected their boundary fully. I just feel as though I would like to have a bit more communication with them. What would be the nicest way to talk about this with them?
if they can only give you 3 days but your willing to give them 7 days, maybe hes not fully commited to the relationship? I don't mean to be rude, although if my girlfriend would only be willing to tex met 3 days a week then i don't feel like they really want to have anything to do with me. take it easy.
@@xdeep_freeze3684 Thank you. I will think about what you have said. It does help to hear other people's thoughts. I will also talk to them about it and see if we can compromise better. Again, I thank you.
Well done for your courage in coming forward with this! Sadly I agree with the other commentator below! It looks like the person you are writing to is just after a basic friendship and nothing more? If you are happy with that then fine? Personally when I've been in the situation, I haven't dropped that person, that is probably not what they want! But I have just gently tailed off the friendship, and I suggest you then look for someone who was appreciate a closer relationship with you!
No joke. Ready-NEVER speak, write or even think that thought again. Before you go to bed imagine the two of you in a scenario together. Be as detailed in your imagining as you can. Where are you two? What are you’s wearing? Does this person have a particular scent? Imagine how you would feel. Feeling is the key. Can’t stress it enough. FEELING is the key. Don’t write me off as crazy til after you’ve done this consistently for 33 days. Yes-odd number thirty three. 😅 Much happiness to you!
a long time ago I dabbled into the PUA world.. and interestingly, the concepts discussed here are the same. The only diff is that the words used to describe them are much kinder in this vid😅
1:48 I completely disagree. I think it's not a bad idea to share things you like but they "obviously won't". Just warn them that they probably won't like it but let them know that you're into it. It's important to know what you have in common but to know your differences is very important too. Besides you can't always tell exactly that they definitely won't like it. Maybe they will discover new things for themselves or will start liking it because they like you. If they leave because you share it than it's a wrong person
pov: ur using this to flirt with your best friend (but you later realize you have a huge crush on her but she’s straight and has a boyfriend who you’re also friends with and you can’t do anything about it so you just play flirt with her but it’s real for you but not for her) edit: got a girlfriend (different girl) that i’ve had a crush on since we were little!! we live rlly far away from eachother now tho edit 2: her parents found out and they took her phone away and i’m scared they’re gonna tell my parents and i haven’t come out to my parents, let alone tell them because they said i can’t date till after highschool
I have no idea how to flirt, in text or irl. I remember that scene from Gravity Falls where one of the characters Soos says "Your face is good. I'm a Soos." and that's basically my level of "flirting".
This is acually somewhat scary, before I had my boyfriend now (it has been some days I think less than a week) I got recommendations about "how" to get love and all of that, now that I have a boyfriend though, I get recommendations about how to flirt and all of that, I feel like I am being watched 💀 Now I don't think I should put too much thought onto it, I think it is going already pretty well and if I start to think to much about it I might ruin it, but yeah I love my boyfriend so much, we actually already did so many things of this video, I am not sure we have that many things in common (we have some though), but there's just something that just makes me not get tired of talking with him :3 Sorry if I made someone jealous or smth ＞︿＜
Uhh hi there, this is just a video suggestion, please. I have struggled an idea for a show & this year, there were 2 shows that was strikingly similar to my show, and both of them were very popular. Almost nobody knows who I am, and I tried turning my idea into something new, but it didn’t work, what do I do?? This is extremely frustrating to me.
Sigh... I hate myself checking "did he replied", when there's nth, my brain start popping "he is ignoring you" "he dun want to answer you" "he dun want to turn u down that's y he didn't reply". I hate this feeling for like/ care someone.
What's your best way to flirt with someone over text?
I don't flirt at all because I haven't found the one I'd like to marry😔✌️
Can't flirt
You want to know my flirt very well
"You seem sweet my dear, so sweet I can't wait to cannibalize and sink my teeth into your tender flesh." 💋💀🖤🥀⚰
Formal (business) typing style. Entertaining and funny. But after all i got rejected😔
I just go with it
Seeing comments from girls who are trying to flirt or confess their interest to a guy is really nice to see for me. It feels so refreshing to know you're also going through the same stuff! Good luck to all of us.
"confess their interest to a guy" means theyre on the lookout for a new victim to break the heart on, beyond repair.
Who hurt you@@anderstermansen130
@@anderstermansen130 😂 stop it
@@anderstermansen130 Aww, did someone get their feewings hurt when a girl didn't want their sour attitude?
Yeah girls have feeling too that's incredible right
There's a book called Casanova Optimization of Attraction, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
Time stamps for who needs it:
0:26 - don’t get ahead of yourself
0:59 - sharing is caring
1:56 - sincere compliments
2:28 - don’t be scared to tease them
2:58 - talk about the future
3:36 - have some inside jokes
4:23 - remember to really flirt
1:56 - #3 sincere compliments , 3:36 - #6 have some inside jokes
SHEEESHHH THANK YOU SOO MUCH
Thank you for saving me the time
Me going through every tutorial ever like I'm not gonna turn down any offer coming my way anyways 😂😂
Hope this video helps you!
@@Psych2go so nice WOW
My biggest fear
Hey, quit calling me out 😂
Yall are getting offers?
Try not to be creepy. Try not to be creepy. Try not to be creepy.
Text message: HI I LIKE YOUR FACE! 😍
Just as Desmond said to Molly
“Hi I like your face……. Fancy sitting on mines?”
@@amitatal455 I hear Desmond and it reminds me of Spy x Fam xD
I hope you like a restraining order.
Personal experience btw
@@amitatal455who?
Another tip: First know her/his mood. Cuz if they angry, they'll read your message in a wrong tone.
Happened with me few times, and it was awkward explaining them that I wasn't angry.
Emojis can really help establish the tone as well.
@@fe.lipemota i mainly use emoticon lmao >W< >w< >^< ^^ :3 :0 >;3 >:3 >;0
>3
Timestamps :
1 Don’t Get Ahead of Yourself 00:27
2 Sharing is Caring 01:00
3 Sincere Compliments 01:57
4 Don’t Be Scared to Tease Them 02:29
5 Talk About the Future 03:00
6 Have some Inside Jokes 03:39
7 Remember to Really Flirt 4:23
I literally fumbled over text an hour before I saw this. Damn. C'est la vie.
rest in peace soldier, just fumbled about a month ago.
How did you do it? If not a secret
C'est la vie en effet😅
C’est la vie is what every dude thinks when they f it up and it’s scary and funny at the same time lol
@@thegamingshiba as a french person, I think "it is what it is".
Anyway, happened to me like 5 months ago, I got friendzoned, and then accidentally forgot to keep contact with her lol
A tip for sharing music: don't just randomly send songs with zero explanation or context. that doesn't come off as flirting, at least to most adults. give me a REASON as to why you're sharing that song or artist. make sure I am open to listening to it. and pay attention to if there's reciprocation. are you asking me to send songs I love in return? this kind of flirting is very give and take, not just spamming random music you love. it will backfire if you don't put thought and connection into it, like most things.
The #1 important thing to pay attention to is how the person you're flirting with is reacting to you/talks to you- which I know can be difficult through text sometimes. if they are not showing interest, you need to back off and let go after a time. if you're not sure, being straightforward is good because you should always look for someone who is open and honest about their feelings. if they're unsure for too long, you deserve someone who IS sure of themselves. be good to others as you'd be good to yourself and vice versa.
Im not sure of myself like ever, i dont deserve love? Thats mean :(
@@EldritchMephi never once said someone who isn’t sure of themselves doesn’t deserve love m8. But people who do know what they need in a relationship deserve someone who’s on the same page. Everyone “deserves” love, always. Most people are made with love inside, to foster for themselves and share with others❤️
"I dont mean speculating on what how humanity will look like 1 million years from now."
My nerd ass: ah shoot, there goes my chance.
I know right, I was excited to finally have a genuine excuse to bring up my dystopian predictions.
lol SAME
exactly :(
@@darthralinYou have one. I wanna see.
@@shyper17 Alright: I think we're, as a planet, still not fully done suffering the consequences of the Cold War. The rise of religious fundamentalism in the Third World in the wake of anti-commie armed militants turning their guns on the West (and anybody not sufficiently pious) is not stopping there and is, thanks to several decades of international terrorism, echoed in both the First and formerly-Second World as both ethnic nationalism and opposing strains of religious fundamentalism finds support, fueled by the outrage felt against the terrorists. People try to fight fire with fire, and only succeed in producing more fire. And it's going to get worse.
That we haven't really replaced the bipolar international system of the Cold War with a stable alternative since its end contributes to this instability and fosters extremism across the world as the battle lines remain uncertain.
Meanwhile, the 99% aren't particularly happy about the increasing concentration of wealth, but are increasingly powerless to act against it in the current available paradigm as political polarization divides people over controversial topics and the ever-affordable politicians on both sides of any given debate happily jump into the pockets of wealthy patrons. Political parties increasingly emphasize things that they can never agree with their opposition on rather than the compromises that can be reached, because it's easier to get people to vote against what they fear rather than for something they sort of want. With this trend continuing, I suspect that that an ordinary person voting is going to increasingly become about as relevant to politics as choosing to support one sports team over another. But with ordinary people on each side increasingly unable to see the other side as fully human.
I predict that all the above factors will give rise to more and more brutal dictatorships and brutal technically-not-dictatorships across the globe. If you're safe from one factor, you're not safe from the others.
Meanwhile, pollution and climate change continue to grow worse and to disproportionately affect the poorer parts of the population. When major climactic shifts occurred in ancient times, they were the sort of event that could easily wreck empires as food shortages became commonplace. And civilization has famously been described as three missed meals away from collapse at any given time. Which may be an exaggeration, but it's not too far off the mark. What does human decency matter if discarding it means you and those you love can live another day?
For my picture of the not-too-distant future, just take Cyberpunk 2077, but add heaping spoonfuls of virulent racism, religious fundamentalism (which almost always accompanies truly reprehensible sexism), and authoritarianism. And rising sea levels. Let's not forget that one.
I love that you're exposing all the people who claim their "experts" in dating advice with these videos.
They're*
You must first understand the market they are selling you. Then you'll understand the type of people they are referring to with their advice.
She blocked me🤗
Don't even care about her ever again.
She wasn't the one. Don't give up, big dog!
over 😂😂
Yup, that happens sometimes.
It's alright, though. Just take some time to get yourself back up and keep on doing your own thing!
Happened to me before like 7 times, liars
I always ask my lovely Liza if anybody told her she was pretty that day. When she says no i tell her "pleases me to be the first"🥰
I think I'm gonna puke. This is too sweet, I don't want to get diabetes
@@TheMCzorrowhat do you mean
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@@Zeromus0 Your comment was extremely sweet, in fact, too sweet for my liking
@@TheMCzorro❤
The ladies need to watch this video and learn it by heart so that they can communicate properly without feeling exposed or vulnerable. Ladies who already have this knowledge; well, you have won 🏆🏆 congratulations !!
Your channel blows me away. How do you guys manage to pump out such well-animated, well-cited videos so often?? It is incredible. So awesome
i dont know how u time these so perfectly but i legit spent like an hour this morning thinking of how socially awkward i am when i text someone im interested in. Well was intrested in. Currently dont have anyone lol
ur videos really calm me down v much.. it's a very good way to end my day tbh, thanks so much
We're really to hear that! We hope this video can help you out. Don't feel hesitate to share any topic ideas you'd like us to cover more on!
I followed this video's tips and other videos on your channel and just now we became a couple, I want to thank this channel so much
I really needed this - I struggle to talk to my crush irl and texting is the easiest way to express feelings for myself. Im working on moving past my anxiety regarding talking to people but (until then) these videos are really helpful!
Don’t worry you’re maybe struggling but you can still be with her and maybe one day you’ll get over the anxiety and if you don’t
That’s fine just find someone who can understand that and look past it
@@joylechanceux4805 thank you so much for the kind words - I’ve literally started tearing up. You have no idea how much I needed to hear that. I hope that I can get over it one day, like you said, but it just feels so impossible sometimes.
Once again thank you, I very much appreciate it❤️❤️❤️
@@FettuccineWithUke glad to hear
I also have anxiety and I managed to get over it a little bit so yeah I can tell you it’s possible
Good luck with your crush
I hope she likes you back
@@joylechanceux4805 it’s reassuring to know that someone who went through something similar is getting better, it gives me hope that one day I can too. Maybe I’ll return to this comment if she likes me back!
Thanks for taking the time just to encourage me, it means a lot❤️
@@joylechanceux4805 It is reassuring that someone else is overcoming a similar problem, you have no idea how grateful I am that you took the time just to encourage and reassure me - as I have been doubtful about getting better. If it all goes well maybe I'll return to this comment and give an update!
Not even close, expending this much energy into a intrapersonal interaction has reinvigorated my desire to go out and have real, more natural interactions in the "wild". There's too much room for people to hide in anonymity. It's a massive waste of time, if someone is interested they'll immediately let you know, otherwise, go on a hike, knock out some chores, or just stare at the sky.
this is probably true in most cases
I never thought I’d have one of those “PSYCH2GO UPLOADED THIS AT THE WILDEST TIME” moments, but here we are
i am so glad there's a male voice, it's so comfortable to hear
I feel it's needed to be brought up: *I love* Brandon's voice. So gentle. Like a very understanding friend. C:
Step 1 as a guy: don’t text her too much. hangout with her In person. This ain’t gossip girls
Soulrapturing black metal❤
Whelp, good to know I was doing this step by step when i reconnected with a friend two months back. Havent seen her in 11 years. But we've decided to start a long distance relationship. And she is coming to visit in less then a week! Wish me luck!
We both were able to bond over how similar to what we've been through with our ex's, we both were cheated on.
She took it up nicely and sent back my emoji. I think that's good!
I clicked on this video like there’s going to be a woman I can text, let alone flirt with any time in the near future.
me with no special person 🍿😎
If you super enjoy your own company, I’d say you are with the most special ! Peace.
Flirting and really establishing a proper connection with someone your interested in over text does have it's challenges. Your not able to pick up on small details or behaviors compared to if you were talking to someone irl. However you made a lot of great points such as having many inside jokes with someone you like. And when it comes to flirting itself, yes sometimes you should really emphasize it to get the message across. Overall you provided some great tips! Fantastic work @Psych2go!😁
Timestamps
1). Don't get ahead of yourself 0:25
2). Sharing is caring 0:59
3). Sincere compliments 1:55
4). Don't be scared to tease them 2:28
5). Talk about the future 2:57
6). Have some inside jokes 3:36
7). Remember to really flirt 4:22
Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. Sorry this is so late. 💙💙💙💙💙💙
I remember the days when AIM was the only way I could talk to women, and now that we have texting, I just can't do it at all anymore. Something inside of me won't allow it.
What why?
@@entirelyourownworld 42 years of rejection
It was a lot easier to talk to women on AOL back in the day. People were just more open and willing to connect in general.
“Avoid being creepy”
Bruh, that’s why I never so much as talk to someone I’m interested in. Nowhere near neurotypical enough to be confident in knowing what is and isn’t creepy. Plus I’m blind to any kind of flirting anyway 😅 so it’s a moot point from the start
Yeah honestly I stopped trying.
Fun story: I confessed my love to a girl, she friendzoned me, my mature self took it quite well, but I forgot to ACTUALLY stay her friend lmao, and then she pouted on me and said *I* am the one who is pouting...
*I mean if you want to stay friends you also have to start conversations sometimes or else we are not friends at all, cute idiot!*
Anyway I feel free of all burdens now and it really was worth it, it's a wonderful feeling
But it never sounds creepy until after you've sent it😅
@@RiaNancy so true, but honestly I don't care, if you fail just retry, the main thing is to be yourself
@@dyltan thanks, though I feel like myself is pretty dry, a guy I was friends with randomly stopped talking to me as much,said I was the one who was quiet(I was not) then asked me to prom 3 months later, i agreed since we were still in contact, after it he went back to being off. I still don't know why, but he did the same to my friend before me so, I just don't talk to him much either 😑
@@RiaNancy if you don't talk much to him or initiate conversation, there's a big probability he will stop talking to you out of nowhere, if you did talk to him often, he just weird
Hello!!! I love your videos sm thanks for helping me through many things!
We're really to hear that! We hope this video can help you out. Don't feel hesitate to share any topic ideas you'd like us to cover more on!
Thanks Psych2go. I'll do these things if i ever find someone i have a crush on. Flirting might be hard but once again your video helped me a lot. Thank you for making content like this
You’re making it too complicated. Just 2 steps. 1. Let yourself feel how you feel towards them. 2. Talk to them.
Done. It will happen naturally.
@@AutomaticDuck300 I know i should do something to create a relationship. I actully tried few times before but well i was unlucky. After that i didn't even try. Past is always the problem...
@@SMGDL2009 yeah but you learn from your mistakes. You’re not any less of a person. Just change tactics.
@@AutomaticDuck300 I will. Thanks for helping me. I really appreciate that. Wish everyone were helpful, kind, you know. Here almost everyone are kind to each other. We can just talk about anything. We Psych2go fans are like this and it's good to see that there's still kind people in this world. There's still hope
trying to filrt my homie with this one 🔥🔥🔥🗣🗣🗣🔥🔥
Is anyone else just here for the sound effects and occasionally the pretty art?
I dont know why but everytime i watch your videos at night it makes me cry of pain because i know i wont find someone that understand me as much as she did and i dont know why but somehow crying of pain feels good i cant figure out why i cry and after that i laugh but im still sad
Thanks for doing this. People appear to flirt with me often
Oh, these tips can be very effective, thank you! I've got a little question and I can't find a way of answering it
She's always busy (she's doing a business degree while I'm studying IT development), and we live really far apart (~5 hours by car). Now, I can't lie, I don't spend all day doing homework (it seems 'simple', logical and natural, it's just that I don't need to study as much at the moment), whereas she's always studying, pushing herself every time.
Now, we've talked a lot every summer since covid19, but during school, not so much. Still, recently she sent me messages (I'm on holiday this week, she's just finished her holiday) that were quite flattering, I can't lie. She wants us to go to an amusement park this summer (now that I've got a car and we've got money, it's much easier!), and I'm all for it, but because of the stress of her school, if I don't text her first and we don't talk then, she just doesn't reply.
I know it might be stupid, but I don't know if I should continue, check in, just talk, or stop.
PS: I'm really enjoying talking to her (and I think she is too) and I'm not forcing myself, but I'm wondering if in this situation I should stop.
Hi
There is no yes or no answer
These decisions happen in everyone's life and it all depends on what answer we get from looking at the relationship
And unfortunately, we will find out later how mature our decision was
But in general, Because there is no deep feeling of love between you (based on your explanation):
See what you want from the relationship. What do you get out of it? What is the ratio of the good feeling you get to these thoughts you said and which one has more weight. And finally, share all these problems with her and listen to her words to reach a good decision together.
wish you the best❤
This is the channel I keep finding myself coming back to every time I get a new crush >~
Finally dared to flirt and tease him a bit after making sure he's still up for another date (after some time apart due to sickness) aaand now I'm on read for days...nevermiiiind lol
I just told my crush that she looks pretty, I have zero interaction with her before,I just jump straight into it cuz I don't know what I was thinking. She hasn't responded yet...maybe I fked up haha 😅 but it's nice I managed to gain the courage
Aww don't you worry too much! You were indeed brave and everyone likes compliments!
It may just be difficult to find a good response or time to reply.
There's a lot of reasons in that kind of situation, that don't even have anything to do with you personally.
Don't let it get you down ♡
@@panaceax9979 thanks for the kind words, she ignored and rejected me 2 days ago, but I'm over it now, I'm not sad at all, it was a great experience 😅
@@panaceax9979 thank you for the kind words, she rejected me, but I'm cool with it now :)
@@panaceax9979 she rejected me, but I'm all good :))
Bold of you to assume I can flirt.
Cant believe i need a tutorial for this, usually i dont read the manual
this might just be me but I feel like am I the only girl who kinda likes those awkward moments like I’m not joking if I saw like a sincere and sweet message between him and someone else being like so there’s this girl- then I would freak out
Thankyou, (the 😏😏emoji is very powerful)
I’ve been doing these ways to talk with my friend (I have a crush on him)‚ but now I want to confess my feelings towards him. I haven’t taken enough courage for now but maybe there’s really a right time for that. I just don’t want him to be confused and think that I’m just being friendly.
also‚ thank you for posting this video. At first I was hesitant and unsure about my feelings but after watching this‚ in every tips that’s been discussed‚ he pops up in my mind.
Huh nice
i like your comment. it was heartwarming
But if I were to give some advice from my experience as a guy who one day a girl confesses to, I would say: if you are absolutely sure about your feelings Go confess to him and stand by your decision no matter what. Especially if he shared the same feeling.
I hope that both of you will be the best person for each other❤❤❤
I'm a guy and I advice you not to propose him until unless he's really a shy guy. If he's not a shy guy then you should make him propose you and then accept his proposal.
I'm telling you this because he might think that you're a low value girl and lose interest in you as a lot of girls nowadays are playing hard to get like yk what I mean?
But also act like you're interested in him so that he might not think he's wasting his time in pursuing you.
(Sometimes, you don't have to propose, everything just falls in a place.)
@@ashaypallav4158 This type of behavior is exactly the problem of all relationships. Playing lying wearing a mask
And most importantly: being immature
@@abynevermore5542 You got me all wrong, i told her to show interest in him and act interested. I never asked her to ghost him or act immature or anything sorta
The timing of this video being posted is scary, convenient and not by coincidence
Watching this with no one to text😂
❤
I love Brendon’s voice too!
Lovely video❤ I love the positive vibe 😊
Alright, time to grab that note pad and take down everything here to see if I can give it a try!
Why are you so precized at making videos hahaha recently I start making friends through online and luckily you post new video about it
Sweet and soft and soothing voice.
Nice change in the narrator's voice. But the girl, im not sure what her name is, her voice is so calm and relaxing...
Nice work tho guys 👍
This channel has been of great help to my mental health adventure and my life so thank you so much psych2go
Best comment ever. Thanks for your support in our work!
I wish i was confident enough with my self to actully ask somebody out or even just talk with people
I've been getting along with a friend recently... We did quite many of these things, but something changed out of nowhere. She stopped being consistent to my messages, she stopped joining VC, she stopped joining OUR plans; no more games, no more movies, no more nothing...
It's a bit tough, I thought we had something mutual...
I'm not giving up to love, but I've given up on her, I still care for her, but I need to move on.
she dropped the discord relationship in favor of a real one lol
i hope all is well
I'm glad this video exists because I'm currently talking with a girl, but she has a BF. Me and her text a lot and I feel I can get along with her, but I also want to keep my boundaries and be respectful to her still.
Even tho I just got out of a relationship and not sure if I want to flirt with someone immediately, always interesting
love this channel!
Im literally going to get my paratrooper title before I get my first girlfriend 💀
Ayo congrats buddy !
Just say, "Hey, how you doin?" Maybe they'll laugh like my niece does. If nothing else you made someone smile and that is always a plus. 😁
Meanwhile, I’m watching this as I’ve been left on Read for the past few weeks.
I feel that, man. It happens
OOF been there man. It gets better. Trust me
I feel like this is a safe place to share. I have questions on this topic. So, a bit of backstory, I am in a long distance relationship. It is going well. My only thing is that they asked of me to respect a boundary put in place. The boundary is only texting on three days per week. I feel like we can't fully connect this way. I have respected their boundary fully. I just feel as though I would like to have a bit more communication with them. What would be the nicest way to talk about this with them?
if they can only give you 3 days but your willing to give them 7 days, maybe hes not fully commited to the relationship? I don't mean to be rude, although if my girlfriend would only be willing to tex met 3 days a week then i don't feel like they really want to have anything to do with me. take it easy.
@@xdeep_freeze3684 Thank you. I will think about what you have said. It does help to hear other people's thoughts. I will also talk to them about it and see if we can compromise better. Again, I thank you.
Well done for your courage in coming forward with this!
Sadly I agree with the other commentator below!
It looks like the person you are writing to is just after a basic friendship and nothing more?
If you are happy with that then fine?
Personally when I've been in the situation, I haven't dropped that person, that is probably not what they want!
But I have just gently tailed off the friendship, and I suggest you then look for someone who was appreciate a closer relationship with you!
@@xdeep_freeze3684I totally agree with the advice you have given, and have suggested the same!
Sounds like they're married
Love it!!
100 times more nerve wracking when you know if you fumble screenshots will be taken😭😭🙏🏾
REAL.
Imma just doing poetic thing and it works every time both irl and in text
The last one is like the broadest most relative thing ever
Thank you so much for this video.
Let's see....currently doing 5 out of 7 with my crush. I think I may just have a shot! 🥰
Coming off as creepy has always stopped me from flirting via text; maybe thats why none of my talking stages worked out 😂
I also like to know the reason behind loving gore, horror and chaos media and whether it's a red sign.
thank you!
😂 Is it possible to ask someone to go back and redo a conversation now?
I feel so early to be here 😂❤
Can you pls do a video about what to do if your crush hates you 😅
No joke. Ready-NEVER speak, write or even think that thought again. Before you go to bed imagine the two of you in a scenario together. Be as detailed in your imagining as you can. Where are you two? What are you’s wearing? Does this person have a particular scent? Imagine how you would feel. Feeling is the key. Can’t stress it enough. FEELING is the key.
Don’t write me off as crazy til after you’ve done this consistently for 33 days. Yes-odd number thirty three. 😅
Much happiness to you!
@@Cadia369 k I'll try 😁
@@Cadia369 what's it supposed to do tho
a long time ago I dabbled into the PUA world.. and interestingly, the concepts discussed here are the same. The only diff is that the words used to describe them are much kinder in this vid😅
cant wait to try this out!!!
oh wait my phone broke nvm
Ohayou Gozaimasu! 🙏
I have indeed found messages to send but I don’t have a person to send them to anymore so yeah 💀
Stuff must really be bad when I need to watch a flirting tutorial
I just told my crush she's pretty, what should I do next ( I have followed none of these instructions, I just jump straight into it)
Me and my homies bout to be wilding
Make a video on topics to talk about please, I don’t know how to talk to people 1 one 1, It’s really hard for me 😞
Sweet to be first
Thanks for being part of the EARLY SQUAD :D
As someone who is really into K-Pop... I also like metal. I can't believe you would be so careless as to assume such things. :p
1:48 I completely disagree. I think it's not a bad idea to share things you like but they "obviously won't". Just warn them that they probably won't like it but let them know that you're into it. It's important to know what you have in common but to know your differences is very important too. Besides you can't always tell exactly that they definitely won't like it. Maybe they will discover new things for themselves or will start liking it because they like you. If they leave because you share it than it's a wrong person
pov: ur using this to flirt with your best friend (but you later realize you have a huge crush on her but she’s straight and has a boyfriend who you’re also friends with and you can’t do anything about it so you just play flirt with her but it’s real for you but not for her)
edit: got a girlfriend (different girl) that i’ve had a crush on since we were little!! we live rlly far away from eachother now tho
edit 2: her parents found out and they took her phone away and i’m scared they’re gonna tell my parents and i haven’t come out to my parents, let alone tell them because they said i can’t date till after highschool
Jesus 😭
Damn that hurts
omg, that sounds like something I've been through
You people have destroyed the society
I'm Sorry To Hear That :(
But Don't Give Up^^, You Will Find Someone Someday :D
DAMN YOU, YOU ARE TOO GOOD AT GETTING ME TO CLICK YOU PSYCHOLOGIST
Instructions unclear there's sirens outside my door
I have no idea how to flirt, in text or irl. I remember that scene from Gravity Falls where one of the characters Soos says "Your face is good. I'm a Soos." and that's basically my level of "flirting".
This is acually somewhat scary, before I had my boyfriend now (it has been some days I think less than a week) I got recommendations about "how" to get love and all of that, now that I have a boyfriend though, I get recommendations about how to flirt and all of that, I feel like I am being watched 💀
Now I don't think I should put too much thought onto it, I think it is going already pretty well and if I start to think to much about it I might ruin it, but yeah I love my boyfriend so much, we actually already did so many things of this video, I am not sure we have that many things in common (we have some though), but there's just something that just makes me not get tired of talking with him :3
Sorry if I made someone jealous or smth ＞︿＜
Stuff like this tends to backfire on me. It just makes me feel even more isolated.
I hope she says yes😅
Uhh hi there, this is just a video suggestion, please.
I have struggled an idea for a show & this year, there were 2 shows that was strikingly similar to my show, and both of them were very popular.
Almost nobody knows who I am, and I tried turning my idea into something new, but it didn’t work, what do I do?? This is extremely frustrating to me.
Sigh... I hate myself checking "did he replied", when there's nth, my brain start popping "he is ignoring you" "he dun want to answer you" "he dun want to turn u down that's y he didn't reply". I hate this feeling for like/ care someone.
i know this is way too irrelevant but, doesn't the cat at the end of the video looks exactly like sakamoto?
the NUMBER ONE HITS ME LIKE A TRUCK