The Hidden 'Needs' Behind Those Who Excel at Emotional Support

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  • Опубликовано: 29 окт 2024

Комментарии • 9

  • @Merzui-kg8ds
    @Merzui-kg8ds 2 месяца назад +11

    From their mother?! Are we stuck in the 15th century? Children look to all their adult care givers for love, acceptance, and support. Don't dump this all on mothers. Good grief.

    • @EmotionalOdysey
      @EmotionalOdysey  2 месяца назад +3

      The video's focus on mothers was not meant to diminish the role of fathers, grandparents, or other important figures in a child's life. Rather, it was drawing on specific research that happened to examine mother-child relationships. However, I agree that we should be more inclusive when discussing childcare and emotional support.

  • @vangoghsdiary
    @vangoghsdiary 2 месяца назад +2

    Watching this and realizing that I relate to the emotional support person a little too well kinda sucks

  • @Mst-bh9ti
    @Mst-bh9ti 2 месяца назад +3

    This is an absurd distortion. They're essentially talking about people exhibiting personality disorder type behavior. So, I guess we don't want our spouse to excel at emotional support? Re-title this , to maybe the emotions of Borderline Personality Disorder. And such individuals Do Not excel at emotional support.

  • @fightswithspirits915
    @fightswithspirits915 2 месяца назад +1

    Followed by them letting you know how inadequate you are creating lifelong trauma after being trashed and dumped.

    • @MoniqueD.
      @MoniqueD. 2 месяца назад

      The above is quintessential narcissistic behaviour.
      And so, SO damaging. Because they know exactly what to do/say to hurt you the MOST (and then blame /try to make YOU feel guilty for it).

    • @Mst-bh9ti
      @Mst-bh9ti 2 месяца назад

      @@fightswithspirits915 yes, again as I stated elsewhere, very misleading title. They are not talking about people that excel in emotional support. Actually the opposite.

    • @fightswithspirits915
      @fightswithspirits915 2 месяца назад

      @@Mst-bh9ti oh I know. That’s me.

  • @EmotionalOdysey
    @EmotionalOdysey  2 месяца назад +1

    The concept of mentalization first emerged in the early 1990s, initially proposed by British psychoanalyst Peter Fonagy and his research team members, who included British psychoanalyst Mary Target and Hungarian developmental psychologist György Gergely.