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Hawk Tuah: From Harmless Meme to Right Wing Symbol
I stay away from heterosexual mess, but this time it came to me. Today, Taylor Lorenz and I work backwards to understand how a 21-year-old bed spring factory worker from Tennessee became a culture war symbol because of a drunken joke about spitting on that thang. None of these words are in the bible.
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The Celebrity Ozempidemic (with Aubrey Gordon)
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Today, we are ALL beating the Ozempic allegations. Use code "fruity" at incogni.com/fruity to get an exclusive 60% off an annual Incogni plan! To uncover and cancel the unwanted expenses you’ve forgotten about, try Rocket Money: www.rocketmoney.com/fruity Support me on Patreon! www.patreon.com/mattbernstein Listen to Aubrey’s incredible show, Maintenance Phase: open.spotify.com/show/3rDR8CfpIEM...
Oli London & the Right Wing Grift
Просмотров 183 тыс.Месяц назад
How does a white gay British guy go from “trans-Korean” troll to a member of the conservative media establishment? It’s easier than you think! Today, Taylor Lorenz helps us unpack the anatomy of the right wing grift - because if all else fails, just become a Fox News star. Support me on Patreon! www.patreon.com/mattbernstein Taylor’s podcast, Power User: www.youtube.com/@TaylorLorenz For a more...
Amy Schumer & the Plague of White Feminism
Просмотров 159 тыс.2 месяца назад
Girlbossing too close to the sun can cause a real trainwreck. Support me on Patreon! www.patreon.com/mattbernstein Thanks to Rocket Money for sponsoring the show. Uncover and cancel your unwanted expenses at www.rocketmoney.com/fruity. Maia's RUclips channel: www.youtube.com/@BroeyDeschanel Maia's podcast, Rehash: open.spotify.com/show/3NiXwyBwwDrKyWW5Zd31uY?si=911cd2285ea2445f Me on Instagram:...
Everything the Media is Getting Wrong About the College Protests
Просмотров 75 тыс.2 месяца назад
Until a month ago, college students in America were dweeby snowflake liberals, too socially anxious to notify the waiter of an incorrect order. Now, they’re allegedly well-connected, well-funded terrorists. Who are the students protesting for Palestine, what do they want, and why is the media obsessed with misrepresenting them? Support me on Patreon! www.patreon.com/mattbernstein Thanks to Blue...
Annoying Gays are Not the Problem
Просмотров 213 тыс.3 месяца назад
Autistic nonbinary TikTokers. Loud, flamboyant gay men. The twink who filmed himself having seGGS in the Senate hearing room. Are gay rights being eroded across the country because some of us are… annoying? It’s tempting to think so, but it isn’t true. Sadly, we can never Blaire White-ify or Pete Buttigieg-ify ourselves to freedom. Support me on Patreon! www.patreon.com/mattbernstein Devon's es...
Drake Bell and the Cycle of Abuse
Просмотров 102 тыс.3 месяца назад
The new docu-series “Quiet on Set: The Dark Side of Kids TV” is shedding light on the abuse that early-2000s child stars faced behind the scenes of our favorite Nickelodeon shows. The doc focuses especially on Drake Bell (of “Drake & Josh” fame), but leaves out half the story. Is a program that claims to be raising awareness about abuse ultimately just perpetuating it? Support me on Patreon! ww...
J.K. Rowling’s Spiral into Madness (with ContraPoints)
Просмотров 517 тыс.4 месяца назад
From “sex is real” to Holocaust denial - if it happened to the wizard lady, it can happen to you. Support me on Patreon! www.patreon.com/mattbernstein Watch more from Natalie Wynn a.k.a. ContraPoints: www.youtube.com/@ContraPoints Find more of A Bit Fruity: abitfruitypod?hl=en Find more of Matt: mattxiv?hl=en
How Love, Simon’s Author was Pushed Out of the Closet
Просмотров 52 тыс.4 месяца назад
In 2018, I called “Love, Simon” a “gay movie made by a straight woman for straight people.” Today, I tell you why I was wrong. Support me on Patreon! www.patreon.com/mattbernstein Huge thanks to Blueland for sponsoring today’s show. Get 15% off a cuter, more sustainable way to clean at www.blueland.com/fruity Find more of Becky: beckyalbertalli Find more of A Bit Fruity: instagram...
Conservatives Don’t Care About Your Kids
Просмотров 126 тыс.5 месяцев назад
A rant. Support me on Patreon: www.patreon.com/mattbernstein Learn more about Trans Lifeline: translifeline.org/ Big thanks to Rocket Money for sponsoring today’s show. Save more and get your life together at rocketmoney.com/fruity. Find more of A Bit Fruity: abitfruitypod Find more of Matt. mattxiv
The 100-Year-Old Myth of Gays “Coming for Your Children”
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I get called a “groomer” on Twitter every day - which is weird, because I want nothing to do with your kids. What is it with queers and kids that gets conservatives so livid? Today, we explore The Gay Agenda’s exhausting past - beginning with the present. First, UK drag queen Crystal tells us how she successfully sued a right-wing activist who defamed her as a “paed*phile.” Then, Chelsey Weber-...
Surviving AIDS in the 80s
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Peter Staley was a 24-year-old, closeted finance guy when he was diagnosed with HIV. Having been handed a death sentence, he quit his job and devoted what life he had left to fighting the homophobic governments that were letting him and his friends die. Peter tells us about living through the darkest years of gay history, the pivotal role of lesbians in the AIDS movement, and the silent mental ...
Bud Light and the End of Rainbow Marketing, For Now
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How the manufactured hysteria over a single can of beer brought an end to the golden age of rainbow Doritos and “Homo Estás” Chipotle ads - at least until we’re profitable again. Support me on Patreon! www.patreon.com/mattbernstein More of A Bit Fruity: abitfruitypod More of Matt: mattxiv
George Santos is a Terrible Person and the American Dream
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George Santos is a Terrible Person and the American Dream
The Detransitioner Panic
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The Detransitioner Panic
Queers for Palestine & The Power of Pinkwashing
Просмотров 141 тыс.8 месяцев назад
Queers for Palestine & The Power of Pinkwashing
Christian Indoctrination in Homeschooling
Просмотров 140 тыс.8 месяцев назад
Christian Indoctrination in Homeschooling
Libs of TikTok, the Anti-LGBTQ Terror Machine
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Libs of TikTok, the Anti-LGBTQ Terror Machine
The Mom Who Invented Gender Reveals Regrets It
Просмотров 66 тыс.9 месяцев назад
The Mom Who Invented Gender Reveals Regrets It
Becoming a Woman (with Miss Benny)
Просмотров 62 тыс.10 месяцев назад
Becoming a Woman (with Miss Benny)
Amber Heard & The Myth of the Perfect Victim
Просмотров 135 тыс.10 месяцев назад
Amber Heard & The Myth of the Perfect Victim
LGBT Conservatives (w/ Contrapoints)
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LGBT Conservatives (w/ Contrapoints)
reacting to TRUMP PRIDE in asmr
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reacting to TRUMP PRIDE in asmr
internalized homophobia SUCKS
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internalized homophobia SUCKS
gay reacts to gender reveal disasters
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gay reacts to gender reveal disasters
j.k. rowling taught us to be good - then she chose bigotry
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j.k. rowling taught us to be good - then she chose bigotry
I'M GAY !? *not clickbait* my coming out story
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I'M GAY !? *not clickbait* my coming out story
reacting to the worst moments of the RNC !
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reacting to the worst moments of the RNC !

Комментарии

  • @Thundermikeee
    @Thundermikeee 43 минуты назад

    At around 1:11:10 there is a mention of "Roman Vomitorium" which made me jump up instantly because it is a pet peeve of mine that people think it was for vomiting. In reality, Vomitoriums were passages in Amphitheaters or similar structures which allow a crowd to exit swiftly. The word comes from a term meaning "to spew forth" which is likely where we get the modern English term vomit from. Here's a link to Wikipedia: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Vomitorium#:~:text=A%20vomitorium%20is%20a%20passage,the%20end%20of%20an%20event. I know Wikipedia is not the best of sources, but for something as basic and well-known as this, it should suffice. I hope we can get a correction in the description, a comment or some other way to prevent the spread of misinformation.

  • @talistheintrovert
    @talistheintrovert 3 часа назад

    Becky I love you queen!!

  • @Audhdmil
    @Audhdmil 3 часа назад

    I just saw a guy with hawk tuah t-shirt (and glitter) at Amsterdam Pride and I’m confused 😅

  • @jenndoesstuff
    @jenndoesstuff 6 часов назад

    Aubrey's offhanded comment about the blood pressure thing just retroactively changed so much of my memories. I was really fat when I was younger and nurses would always struggle so hard to take my blood pressure and have to do it over and over again. I would be in such pain because they would be taking my blood pressure so many times and crushing my arm repeatedly while telling me there was something wrong with the machine. I used to be so embarrassed by it thinking that my arm was just too fat for it to work properly. When I lost weight, the blood pressure cuff suddenly worked perfectly every time and they never had a problem with it. I thought it meant I was just skinny enough that it worked properly. The levels of retroactive irony there could probably be cut with a knife.

  • @jimmypad5501
    @jimmypad5501 9 часов назад

    The reason why Dark Brandon failed was bc it was directly responding to MAGA culture in their own semiotics, and it sucked ass hard! Like, sure you mastered the dark edge lord meme logic, but that will never be “cool” to a normie person 😂

  • @vinceedejer9464
    @vinceedejer9464 11 часов назад

    “What can be, unburdened by what has been” is Kamala’s “There can be a hundred people in a room” moment.

  • @mostlymanka
    @mostlymanka 11 часов назад

    Your Bye Sister coverage is soooooooooooooo goooooooooood. When is part 3?

  • @MEDIEVALBLADE
    @MEDIEVALBLADE 11 часов назад

    I wasn't homeschooled nor do i believe my family is fundamental Christian. But I was raised by evangelical converts and I remember my mother would lord the threat of homeschool and being isolated as a threat anytime she found out i was identifying as anything but straight to anyone. I would come home terrified if I would be met with happy mom who showered me with affection or angry mom who would beat me and threaten to take me away from my only support. I ended going to a Christian school that somehow revitalized my faith (still deconstructing tbh) and encouraged me to enter anthropology. I'm pursuing a degree in political and cultural anthropology and I've been thinking about making a senior dissertation on how Christianity was twisted into a weapon for the far right (also i want a honor cord). This video really inspired me and I'm rambling but it was awesome :D

  • @MatecaCorp
    @MatecaCorp 13 часов назад

    As a the gay it’s so weird to realize that there’s a whole half of the internet I am completely disconnected from (and thank god I’m not in the trashy half). This is the second time I’ve heard anything about the spit girl and the first I’ve heard of “zyn”. On the subject of “zyn” or whatever I feel the need to say that drug use is harmful and people who glorify it are scum (Not calling the people in this video scum btw)

  • @colette-tj2gk
    @colette-tj2gk 15 часов назад

    my inability to grasp this concept was istantly solved with the phrase 'effie stonem is brat'. effie stonem for president I guess

  • @LucyJoachimDelpoiox
    @LucyJoachimDelpoiox 15 часов назад

    when two queens come together to maximize their joint slay

  • @charlesgarwood5724
    @charlesgarwood5724 15 часов назад

    First time seeing your videos. Good job

  • @Fellowtellurian
    @Fellowtellurian 16 часов назад

    I’m terrified of Kamala. 10 months have gone by of a near constant feed of mass murder. Doctors say they have seen nothing like it in their decades of responding to various wars on civilians. And Kamala Harris puts on a smile, calls protestors evil entertains the idea of Shapiro as VP. That’s weird. That’s crazy, that’s sooooo fucked up. And yet we just move on as though genocide is normal and deserved. She’s insane. I’m afraid of her

  • @Strux42
    @Strux42 17 часов назад

    Excellent discussion!

  • @crimsonsmirk
    @crimsonsmirk 18 часов назад

    Honestly, US politics is wild. From the outside, it almost feels like children playing with an atomic bomb, giggling as they start and stop the countdown. While you dissect Harris' "bratness", the rest of the western world is mostly horrified at the realisation that it's still anything but certain she'll win because almost 50 % of US voters actually want that dangerously insane would-be tyrant Trump in office.

  • @trevorbowler4312
    @trevorbowler4312 18 часов назад

    This was an amazing watch. Thank you. ❤

  • @JenniferPreciousFinch1
    @JenniferPreciousFinch1 18 часов назад

    such excellent work, thank you both.

  • @namedhuman5870
    @namedhuman5870 19 часов назад

    We need a quarterly update for this topic. J Rowling's current foaming at the mouth opinion: "a woman cannot complete in women's sports"

  • @TheMarsCydonia
    @TheMarsCydonia 19 часов назад

    Rowling attacked a woman, just two days ago, attacking for currently being "too successful" at attempting to fufill her life's ambition. This attack has led to other attacks of thousands of transphobes which had to go to define women has having XX chromosomes, abandoning Rowling's definition that women are the producer of the large gametes (because the athlete in question produces large gametes while not having any sound evidence of her chromosomes). Transphobia doesn't just hurt trans-women, it hurst all women.

  • @TheKindredTrucker
    @TheKindredTrucker 19 часов назад

    This is a super interesting discussion and I appreciate it! I can't not say, and I'm biased as a person who spent a long time working in the fitness industry and struggling through my own issues ... it's not factual to say that there is no relationship between movement and nutrition, and the results we see in the dimensions and functions of our bodies. I just think it's a lot more nuanced than quantities/ intensity of those things. A lot of times, the conversations leave out the very convoluted systems that have rendered so much of our "food" supply to be not real food. And the conversation around movement leaves out the fact that humans didn't evolve in gyms, and our physical wellness, mobility etc are directly shaped by whole shifts in the paradigm of survival. It's so much bigger than self-control and the morality-based judgments we lob on ourselves and each other.

  • @arturovargas3847
    @arturovargas3847 20 часов назад

    brat summer is not "over" because some republican decided to do "the thing". we dont stop bumpin that, dont sleep dont eat, just do it on repeat.

  • @ruby8698
    @ruby8698 20 часов назад

    “for those of us that aren’t in the know - the way i am - that is a cool thing” 💀💀

  • @chloexsoliel
    @chloexsoliel 21 час назад

    "damn daniel" was the final nail in the coffin of my deadname. After that I was like "okay, time to crack this egg." Not seriously but good lord I hated hearing that.

  • @lexaproqueen9681
    @lexaproqueen9681 21 час назад

    Trying to pit her against queer people is the weirdest thing. Being drunk at music festivals and yelling memeably crass statements is nothing but relatable to us.

  • @bluebestfriend
    @bluebestfriend 22 часа назад

    pretty sure the should be called the bratification of Kamala lmao

  • @SquidSquid7
    @SquidSquid7 22 часа назад

    36:40 damn omg

  • @AlbertoGarcia-wd7sc
    @AlbertoGarcia-wd7sc 22 часа назад

    Don't even trust Kamala for a second. Don't trust (neo)liberals.

  • @thatwouldbefresh
    @thatwouldbefresh 23 часа назад

    the dark brandon meme is very banksy coded

  • @SimonM7TV
    @SimonM7TV День назад

    "how we get them to *have* pokemon go to the polls" is the weird part, just say "how we get them to pokemon go to the polls"

  • @takeysha2332
    @takeysha2332 День назад

    Idk but I'm loving that eyeshadow!!

  • @wohdinhel
    @wohdinhel День назад

    the Dark Brandon stuff has a LOT of layers to it, which heavily involved MANY online political commentators (mostly Twitch leftists) trying to out-edgelord each other. it existed for a VERY long time before the dem establishment finally embraced it. I don’t blame you for not knowing the details - no one should, really - but I personally think it did a lot of damage to republican rhetoric for a while. they had no counter to it, up until very recently when his mental health decline started to accelerate.

  • @amyhemphill5139
    @amyhemphill5139 День назад

    Here's my hot take. Nicely done, Matt

  • @Lo0serx3
    @Lo0serx3 День назад

    i was lucky enough to avoid knowing who Oli is until he was on H3H3, which was hilarious to see him crumble

  • @santillanstudio
    @santillanstudio День назад

    The reasons for the negative reaction are so absurd. I love Love Simon precisely because it's not a "suffering story". For years the classic gay movie recipe was to have a pathetic and almost mute protagonist who was bullied by everybody; had sex in a seedy club or a filthy bathroom; and at some point he got beaten up. At the end of the story, the protagonist ended up dead, thrown out of his house, or in the best case, abandoned by a closet lover (If the scriptwriter was "creative🙄🙄", there was a beating in the filthy bathroom... so gross🙄🙄🙄). I hated those movies, all of them and by year 2000 I was already sick of gay movies. The first gay movie I liked was "The Big Gay Musical" ( Fred M. Caruso and Casper Andreas), because it didn't have any of those horrific elements, had very likeable characters and had a very nice ending. And I love it! I'm glad Love Simon exist, I have a good time whenever I watch it.

  • @juul9812
    @juul9812 День назад

    who's Broey

  • @clementinemorisette2355
    @clementinemorisette2355 День назад

    10:46 I thought you meant Effie Trinket for a sec lol I was like what a DEEP read of the hunger games goddamn

  • @TheBiggestMoronYouKnow
    @TheBiggestMoronYouKnow День назад

    There’s a theory that if your first moments in this world are getting the end of your dck cut off, that’s sexual trauma, and that doesn’t help with mental development either 😅

  • @NoOne-cj9rc
    @NoOne-cj9rc День назад

    Hi

  • @wayfaringspacepoet
    @wayfaringspacepoet День назад

    I feel like I shouldnt have to get into this but re: 1:09:15, Biden passed a law that banned trans minor *surgery*, specifically. Trans surgery on minors is a thing that does not happen. No trans person gets surgery until they reach the age of majority, and only after theyve been on HRT. The law was redundant, and Biden passed it strategically so that Republican lawmakers leave him alone.

  • @Engelen
    @Engelen День назад

    I am extremely embarrassed that I am so brain-broken and chronically online that I know everything about the Dark Brandon meme, and could spot all the context you missed to its origin story 😭😭😭 I don't even live in "the West." 😭😭😭 ("Let's Go Brandon" comes from a live covering of a sporting event, and the poor reporter, bless her heart, heard "Fuck Joe Biden," and since they were on live TV, she tried to cover it up with "Let's Go Brandon." The "Dark" thing is another meme. It was kinda like, your Darkest-Timeline or Bizarro-self would do. Original Biden is painted as senile and weak by the GOP, so Dark Brandon is the opposite of Regular Biden. I guess it is also in parallel with the "Dark MAGA" meme. It originated as a meme from the people that was co-opted by the campaign). I SHOULD NOT KNOW THESE THINGS.

  • @BooksRebound
    @BooksRebound День назад

    "Effy Stonem" was SOO spot on a description of Brat

  • @connorkeefe2483
    @connorkeefe2483 День назад

    Snorting cocaine is more likely to attract petty bourgeois voters than working class ones...

    • @bluebestfriend
      @bluebestfriend 21 час назад

      ... what ...? you obviously don't know how common and accessible coke is in working class (and poor) communities. rich people aren't the only people snorting coke.

  • @f0rm0r
    @f0rm0r День назад

    iirc, Dark Brandon was originally created by regular Internet users to illustrate how out of touch and nefarious Biden seemed, but by the time the Biden campaign found it it was tired

  • @sarahshaw-sehgal1146
    @sarahshaw-sehgal1146 День назад

    Oh my god I'm so fucking online. The "Let's go Brandon" started at a NASCAR race that was being covered by a news station. The hillbillies started chanting "Fuck Joe Biden" and the newscaster said they were saying "Let's go Brandon " (Brandon was one of the race car drivers). The hillbillies then said that it was a conspiracy by the media to cover for Joe Biden. THEN people on the internet started joking about calling Biden "Brandon". When Biden would do good shit or was shady towards Repubs, people would call it "Dark Brandon". As with brat, the DNC stole it and ruined it. Kamala needs to be so fucking careful with the meme shit. Leave it to the people and just be yourself!!!

  • @emi_g1024
    @emi_g1024 День назад

    Can you imagine how different it would be if candidates could only campaign with policy? Like no faces or personality to weigh, no slandering each other… and everyone is given the same budget so you make your decision based on 1. What they will do and 2. If they’re any good with their money

  • @TiredKnitter
    @TiredKnitter День назад

    37:45 I like to think of memes as a form of folk art, like quilting or basket weaving. There are accepted forms and styles, but we use it to make sense of our own environments. It feels inherently inauthentic when those who have official power try to use a folk art that was developed by those who don't have power.

  • @RobertSpitzer
    @RobertSpitzer День назад

    Great episode, and wonderful to see Maia on here.

  • @TracyJohnson-sp9ng
    @TracyJohnson-sp9ng День назад

    Shumer is the next Roseanne

  • @violettefemme21
    @violettefemme21 День назад

    The idea of young people not having had the experience in America of a presidential candidate to be excited about. As a millennial who turned 18 the summer of 2008 which meant the first presidential candidate I got to vote for I was so excited for.. to just ride through that excitement dissipating and then just the feeling of being excited again. I am excited to maybe get the first president who is a woman.

  • @AmericaSucksBalls
    @AmericaSucksBalls День назад

    Im so fucking confused ehat