Are we still opening up our options? Yes. Will we be desperate pick-meishas while we do so? NOPE.

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  • Опубликовано: 6 сен 2024
  • While I encourage us to open up our options, I don't encourage pick-me behavior or low-self esteem when dating out. It's counterproductive to go with low self-esteem and standards. Let's commit ourselves to doing the inner work so we never fall prey to low-value dusties of other races.
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Комментарии • 12

  • @juned1719
    @juned1719 3 месяца назад +14

    He said he gets along more with black women culturally. He didn’t come off as having a fetish.

    • @DarkSkinITGirl
      @DarkSkinITGirl  3 месяца назад

      Exactly. I don't see the fetish here

    • @Beast-fq7rp
      @Beast-fq7rp 11 дней назад

      He literally say their bodies omg

  • @juned1719
    @juned1719 3 месяца назад +7

    Ladies run an online background check on every man you go on a date with. Some sites only cost a few dollars and you cancel the subscription anytime. Also she’s right do not go home with them on the first few dates and make sure someone you trust your location.

    • @DarkSkinITGirl
      @DarkSkinITGirl  3 месяца назад

      This is very important. It's really not that hard. There are some sick vultures out there. Stay safe, you guys.

  • @thefeminineeye
    @thefeminineeye 3 месяца назад +12

    Great vid. I don't like when people automatically jump to the fetishizing talking point.

    • @DarkSkinITGirl
      @DarkSkinITGirl  3 месяца назад +2

      Thank you so much😘If they wanna talk about fetishizing, then they have to talk about black men because they do it too. They don't usually talk about our beauty beyond our 'private parts'

  • @estherkumi6161
    @estherkumi6161 3 месяца назад +2

    I thoroughly enjoyed watching this video. The key is to vet them and make sure we don't lower our standards for them just because they're from another race.

  • @oweber2160
    @oweber2160 3 месяца назад +4

    Black and Italian families have similar culture just like with the Latinos but please don’t fetishize this dating stuff

    • @DarkSkinITGirl
      @DarkSkinITGirl  3 месяца назад

      Yeah, totally. Pasta and lobsta, but don't worship people who don't deserve worship. In fact, don't worship people, period.