Men Spoil These Kind Of Women! What Makes Him Want To Provide
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- Опубликовано: 15 сен 2024
- Find out how to unlock a masculine man's giving nature so that you can become spoiled and taken care of! Men love giving to the women they love, you just have to know how to bring it out of him!
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I didn’t get my degree to provide for a man. Why do men assume we get degrees for them? It’s not for them.
I got my degree to provide for myself.
I wanted to move out of my parents home. My parents are good people, but I felt like a little girl living there.
When I moved into my first apartment, with my own money, I was able to activate my femininity naturally. I created my own schedule and wore sexier clothing to bed. I couldn’t wear that clothing in my parents home. I could explore who I am. Style my apartment in the decor that made me feel good.
When I had my own money I could level up and really think about the man I wanted. I can’t explore who I am, if I went from daddy’s house to husband’s house. I needed that time in between to heal my childhood trauma and set my personality.
When work at McD’s I couldn’t afford nothing, not even a manicure.
However, when I got my degree and good job, I was able to level up so fast. I worked in a safe air conditioning office. I had health insurance and visited the obgyn. I had dental and got my teeth fixed. I bought better clothes. I moved into the rich side of town. I paid for a personal trainer.
I’m leveled up, but men are intimidated now. I have too many degrees.
Make up your mind, Sir. You want my luxury experience, but don’t want to acknowledge that I obtained it thru my own efforts.
It’s a new era. Instead of dumbing women down, we should be encouraging men to level up.
Catch up Guys!
Being educated is a good thing.
Why do you want to live at the whims of fickle men??? True pick a protector and provider, but make sure you keep your career skills, because 95% of the time you will need to take care of yourself at least after 50.
@@cathylake9072 Okay well find some content regarding fickle men and careers if that suits you. I make this content because there are women interested. You don’t have to indulge.
@@gethimgirls Leading girls who don't know better to make very bad life choices. A man has never been a plan, especially not for a Black woman. In the words of Dorothy Dandridge a token and a man will get a black woman on a bus.
My husband is the provider, I stop working 2yrs ago, yes ladies I love it I feel so FREE !!!
Okayyy, don’t it feel good sis? 🙂↔️
Same here 💗 but do you only have friends who are in the same position as you? How do you make friends with working women? Sometimes it’s hard for me to
Amazing ❤❤
That's so good!
Enjoy ya life sis❤
Every man I've dated has told me his favorite thing about me is how much I show appreciation for him. That is my strong suit! I would love a video on learning to stroke a man's ego in a genuine and authentic way.
Sometimes stroking an ego becomes exhausting. I did it for almost 7 yrs and it became a lot! I loved it. At first…
I will ever ever submit to a man that he himself isn’t first submitted to God ! This is my deal
I agree!
And the choir says Amen❤
Most Christian man are players my dear!
Its like saying , I won't obey the Lord unless others do first.... sounds like self sabotag & disobedience to the word
@@Gigi-mf5tdEven God wouldn’t want to you to submit to the leadership of someone who submits to the world. If you follow a corrupt leader, you are bound to fail. Never follow a man who doesn’t follow God, just like in the garden of Eden when Adam tried to blame God, and God still punished Adam because in judgment day you can’t blame your husband for misleading you as a Christian, you will still be punished to hell if you allow your husband who doesn’t submit to God to mislead you.
Im A Spoiled Wife & I Love It! ❤
Energies need to be aligned and all things will fall into place. We have epidemic of weak man. Strong man has become the minorities. Feminine woman also wants respectful man. Only then she can respect him.
I agree men are leaders therefore set the tone. When i met my husband i thought he was king but he himself slowly destroyed that image of himself with lack of motivation, anger issues, 50/50 mindset. 10 years later my respect for him is so low 🥴🥴. Sometimes when he does take charge i can feel myself melting to more feminine version of myself and then he asks to go half on something so small and i slowly can feel my ovaries disappear 🥴
This!
There is also an epidemic of hyper masculine women.
@@maribee5201 off course what do you expect. If man no longer wanna take the masculine responsibility for woman then woman are forced to use their masculine energy
This is literally the best explanation on how to date your man in a healthy way that celebrates and feeds our divine feminine and masculine natures. Thank you!!
Not being negative. But basically treat men similarly like a child. Rewards, respect and ego stroking. But honestly I think we all need this not just men
Never said just men need anything. But this video is tailored to women who need help operating with men. So of course, I would discuss men’s needs.
@@gethimgirls this video has helped me understand a little better. For years I tried the feminist try to break gender roles approach & it left me f'ing exhausted! 🤣I still believe that I want to continue pursuing my career, but this time around I am not going to put so much stress & pressure on myself. My man is happily allowing me to take a physical, mental, & spiritual hiatus from working right now. I appreciate & love him dearly for this! He told me that this is an investment in our relationship. I cried so hard! Beause for the first time, I am with someone who wants to protect me & provide for me in a known way. 🥲I feel like this video will keep being a reminder of how to prioritize gratitude, love & respect. He makes it so easy to do that. 🥰
@@samurai9319 soooo good! I’m so happy you’re experiencing this 💕 take your time beautiful
And on the other hand we want to be spoiled like little girls.. It's not about treating men like a child.
I like your thoughts and we think the same. I learned this with my dad first. He would give me gifts or money and I would react with such excitement and joked I will always take his money no matter how much I make. He would beam and laugh. I’m always confused when women miss the cues and are offended by men’s bragging. A masculine man’s joy is giving to you.
I love this Rose! You are exactly right 💕
Right a feminine woman gives
Same here my dad also like give me a money or buy me some food even I had my own business 😅
The thing is some men aren’t worthy of this. They will expect this from jump. I agree with this video, but the disclaimer is describing the feminine behavior is reserved for a particular man. Often, men are not in their masculine, hence why women aren’t happy.
Yeah agree there are men that want to split bills with their gf/wife but still EXPECT all of this
And some men are, I don’t think she would advise us to give this treatment or behavior to men that are not worthy.
@@Memomommy I didn’t think so. Not everyone can read in between the lines. You’re making assumptions about others level of awareness. I don’t really get your response because it wasn’t warranted. I’m entitled to give feedback, it was even positive. Women like you love to deconstruct a message and turn it into to something else, not attractive.
@@CC-pu6qn Unfortunately you are one of the ones that can’t read in between the lines. I avoid women like you at all cost who love saying, “but some of these men are not worthy”. The video is about provider men, Men who don’t split bills, but yet you brought up wounded men You didn’t say that verbatim ik lol. You’re one of the ones that have a victim mentality, which I consider a red flag. Keep dwelling on the past or men that split bills. These videos are here to help women recognize high value men and develop our femininity so we can attract healthy men. Keep having that mindset and you will keep attracting 50/50 men. You brought negativity into the comment. This lady wouldn’t advise us to date those men. She never said it once in the video. But I hear you on some people can’t read between the lines I’ll give you that, but all im saying is consider having a more positive outlook on men.
@@CC-pu6qnhey beautiful so this message is definitely not for every man. This is in regards to healthy men who are actually meeting the needs we have. I wouldn’t instruct women to do this for men who are not meeting our standards.
I love first and foremost a man of GOD born again !
A man that’s after the heart of God first works for me if he loves God and his obedient to all his laws his able to respect n honour provide and protect me period
I love this. Thank you from those of us who have become way too comfortable in our relationships and can’t seem to recover from the brokenness we’ve caused.
They definitely want to be understood. But, girl it's so hard to understand a person who doesn't make any damn sense. But, I'm trying even if it doesn't make sense to me to stroke that ego!!
And here’s the thing, I’m not saying you have to be a yes woman. There is a feminine way to express those types of emotion. The ego stroke is when they do deserve it.
You probably have relationship with wrong man
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I feel you when you say don’t make any sense
Ain't Nobody got time for dat! I'm in Love with being Celibate! ❤
Now THIS actually made sense compared to those other superficial channels where all they talk about is looks.
Yesss diva! I’m so glad you resonate 💕
As a woman who has never been with a man who hasn't provided 100 percent and currently 11yrs happily married as a housewife, I completely disagree lol. But I do like the video.
And agreeing to disagree is completely okay in this space. I speak to what works for me and women I work with but that doesn’t mean there aren’t other viewpoints that may work for different people for various reasons. I just hope mine helps some women who may not be in your position yet.
Could you please share a few off your tips or the most important lesson you'd give a lady who wants to attract a provider? Appreciate it 😊
Your delivery is so funny and captivating. I can see why you’re provided for 😂
Please enlighten us, women that are married should be the ones giving these advice
@kemly_ I completely agree. That’s why I did not invalidate her point. But I’ve been married to a provider since January of 2014 and have not touched a bill. So my points are from experience.
Hehe, i think i found Where the problem is or where things changed at.
Let me re-introduce myself to that feminine side of me and ride this wave ❤❤❤❤.
Thank you girl 👏👏🙏🙏
Lol I love to see it ma’am 😂
Gratitude is very important, show appreciation. Listen and support 💯
Oh yes. I am a spoiled wifey 💍 🥰
Yes ma’am you are 💕
I’ve been married for 13 years, I own a few businesses, I birthed his children, I’m a stay at home mom and homeschool.
I agree and never worry about cheating.
My husband cherishes me and treats me like the goddess that I am. He leaves home and brings home the bacon (even though my businesses bring in more income than he earns at his job). I don’t have to lift a finger. He does it because I respect him. I cherish him and treat him like a God. I love him unconditionally and do not take him for granted. I apologize when I’m wrong. I listen to understand with empathy when he speaks to me. I have s3x with him whenever he needs it. I keep my body right and my health in order. I keep our home in order. I feed him and cook for him etc…
What business are you in?
I love that y’all have your balance! 💕 he’s happy and you’re happy. I love it
@@gethimgirls I hope that other women take your advice. It’s solid
@@tammywilliams8569 I own a legal practice and an international school business.
@@tammywilliams8569 legal operations and a school business
Every provider ive met except my Dad. Expects his ego stroked and were not calm men.
You’re UhMazing!!! I 100% agree with you. ❤❤❤ you broke the experience down a blind could learn from you! I really enjoyed this 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽 May the Most High Continue to Enlarge Your Territory!!! I could feel your passion and hear your genuineness! 😍
Everything that you said is facts, it’s just hard to do in this red pill culture we’re in
You definitely have to filter through the men to decide which ones deserve this treatment. All men are not ready. I pray you find the one deserving.
This is so true the red pill culture makes it very hard
It’s very true iam experiencing this right now #spoiledrotten
I love seeing comments like this 💕 I’m so happy for you.
There was a lot of truth to this.😊
first video on RUclips I fully agree with it. Ladies listen to her this is true
I love it! Thanks Tammy 💕
I m a spoiled wifey
Yes ma’am 🥰
and did the video go with what you do or not?
Where does one find a man who wants to provide or talk up himself up and give us the opportunity to appreciate or cheerlead him?
It's the man you don't normally date then..so find the opposite of who you currently date.
@@librascorner2271 the ones I do not respect?🤪
This came right on time in my life. A season of accountability for my actions and approach to my own life’s goals. Thank you. We are in Autumn 🍂, a season’s for this. Peace to everyone 2024❤!
Isn’t it beautiful when that happens? Thank you so much 🙏🏾
Glad to be the first person To❤ comment
I didnt watch the whole video, i had to go to work lol but i agree men want respect obviously but also think some men just brings that out of a woman. I tried to respect my husband but he wont budge with his 50/50 mindset and its the biggest turn off. How do you want to be listened to and thought of as if you are a provider but will go to the store to buy diapers and ask me to send half and you make more money than me?
Yeah he’s not a provider man. I’m sorry to hear that. If you’d like email me, so we can chat.
Tell him:
"Either you:
Provide 100 percent, and I will listen to you, follow your lead, and respect you as the provider
or
We do 50/50 and I have as much equal say, I am also thought of and respected as half provider as well,
because we can't and ain't doing both. Pick one.
How did he even become your husband and the father of your children with such a mindset?
awesome video content. Keep it going.
Thank you so much 🙏🏾
You are SUPER ARTICULATE & ELOQUENT!
Thank you 💕
We need more content! ❤❤❤
Absolutely working on it.
I SPOIL MYSELF
Nobody said you shouldn’t lol
Not based on social status?!
some of them do care about degrees and accomplishments...just saying...
You know someone who’s gotten turned down for not having a degree?
@@gethimgirls yes, but I'm from the South. Down here, some men come from families where education is a status symbol. You must be educated. Those type of men will mess around with you but they will not take you seriously. It's a sign of laziness if you don't have a degree in some circles.
Great video 💕
Thanks Sparkle 💕
I love this advice and I swear to God...i try hard to do this...sometimes. Listen, do you ever have encounters with the guys who try so hard to be extra impressive that it's like the man literally has no understanding of the idea of subtlety? And you try not to grin about it or roll your eyes but like...its so extra and cute that it's hard to take him seriously?
Ugh, I'm so jaded, too, tho. This might be a tell of the kind of men I've dated, but I don't feel like men are trying to prove they can keep me safe. I feel like they try to get me in bed as fast as possible. I know that's not true of every man on earth and I have my own healing to do around that. I've just found it really challenging in the past. I just want to come into a healthier mindset around men and dating.
And you know what Jesse, everything starts with a thought first. Meaning the fact that you’re even evaluating self and realizing that you want to develop a better mindset is beautiful. And men, they do want to get us in bed lol. But that doesn’t mean he isn’t also wanting to show you he’s capable of having you in his life. Both can be true. Sounds like you’re starting a beautiful journey girly 💕
Thank you 🖤
Please Listen Ladies...
I've heard the total opposite b4
Well there are multiple ways to skin a cat but GHG wants men to feel respected and encouraged to provide, not the other way around. We want them to be excited about doing so.
@@gethimgirlswhat’s GHG?
@@StassiPryce it’s Get Him Girl. The acronym.
This information does not apply to every man.
Facts lol
make more vids!
Absolutely.
I would love some help with coaching and just giving encouraging advice
Hi love, go ahead and send me an email at gethimgirls@gmail.com so we can connect privately and see how I can help.
The email is in the description as well. Feel free to reach out.
So, basically you need to be into acting 😂 To pretend he is smarter, sexier and more mature than he is. I’m very authentic and honest, I’d rather put all of these efforts into my own business and friends. My business won’t cheat and isn’t watching corn
No. You have to find a man you genuinely respect. You have to find a man whose jokes are funny to you, a man you can learn from and seek out for his wise counsel.
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Thanks😊
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I need your help
No you don’t. Go outside & live life
You looking for coaching love? Or just some general advice?
@@gethimgirls coaching please
Go ahead and email me at gethimgirls@gmail.com so we can talk and see how I can help.
Not one lie told…….📠📠📠📠📠
I love first and foremost a man of GOD born again !
A man that’s after the heart of God first works for me if he loves God and his obedient to all his laws his able to respect n honour provide and protect me period
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