You are the first person that talks about how to be a high value woman not for the sake of drawing men's attention but for the sake of self growth. I really appreciate your content because it teaches us women on how to improve and be the better version of ourselves🙏😊
Omg those videos are all about being half naked, make up and hair and dressing and body ... very superficial and just for men. I once had to call out some channel and say so what if am not physically like what the channel was selling .. does that mean am not feminine or high value?? It's all about self identity first not looks. Once ypu know yourself everything else will align itself. Goodness those channels irk me 🤣🤣
So many people are stuck on outdated ideas, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest shows you how to use secret techniques to attract almost anything in life. This isn’t just another law of attraction book; it’s the real deal with actionable insights. If you’re ready to level up your life, you need to read this.
1. Self love- being content and happy with yourself. 2. Self respect- respect time, energy, money and body. 3. Self esteem- how you see yourself affects every area of your life.. 4.she has a story of triumph. 5. Self aware- takes personal accountability. 6. She is open, honest and transparent. 7. She is caring and nurturing. 8. She is ill and is still healing. 9. She takes care of her Temple, even when she doesn't feel like it. 10. She is warm and bubbly. 11. She is independent. 12. She does not live above her means. She is not waiting on a man as a meal.She is teachable- she is constantly learning and willing to develop Self. 13. She fears God.
I hope it's never too late to be a high value woman, Im 30 now a single mom,healing everyday, not perfect and starting from the bottom... hope you wish me luck. You gave me high hopes to fix myself now.. thank u❤
“A high value woman has a story to tell and that story doesn’t disqualify her”. Absolutely. Often we tend to hide our stories because we feel it makes us less than. But owing our stories and writing a new empowering end is powerful 💜
I took your 20-minute video and turned it into an hour and a half of learning and studying everything you were saying and assessing myself. I paused the video as I went along and research the traits which you were describing and took notes into more depth so that I can fully understand everything. I am 19 years old and every day I feel like I need to be working to be the best woman I can be for myself, my future, and my own wellbeing. Very excellent video, thank you kindly.
*How you see yourself affects every area of your life!* This is so so true. If you have low self-esteem that will clearly reflect on the kind of people you surround yourself with, how you eat and how you treat your body, how much money you make.. Everything is tight up to our self-esteem. Not an easy pill to swallow since it can be extremely challenging to build it. Always working on it.
I turn 22 in a week, and my goal is to be happy with being single and learn how to become the woman of my dreams and the woman that I envision myself to be in the future. Watching your videos always teach me new lessons and I’m so happy to subscribed to your channel 💕
I enjoy your videos , and I always take 📝 1.Self-Love -being content and happy with yourself. Loving the parts of you that make you who you are. 2. Self respect- to think highly or favorable of , having standards, morals 3.Self-esteem- Thinks highly of self , works towards high self esteem 4.Story of Triumph- has a testimony, 5. Self-ware -take the Ls and learns from them 6. Honest and Transparent - takes accountability 7.Caring -Nurturing 8. Healing- 9. Takes care of her Temple - body ,mind and soul - you are what you eat think , feel , see , hear. Also look presentable 10. Warm and Bubbly- “learn to laugh at yourself” positive attitude 11. Independent - save money , lives wisely , is go getter , seeks to be education, for success 12. Teachable - humble always willing to learn 13. Fear The LORD . Proverb31:30-Obeys the word of God and live to glorify Him
Finally...What a breath of fresh air! For the past 1.5years we've been hearing about how women are average at best, have no hope of finding a decent man, and how independence is a sin! Your video is much needed, to remind all of us of the importance to be the best version of ourselves. God bless you! Xx
It's so sad how this toxic feminine channels makes being ambitious a sin as if we can live a soft life if we don't work hard. Most femininity channels are teaching hook up saliently. I 💯 vibe with Breeny .
I’ve seen so many men saying they want high value women but I’ve never really seen a proper video on it- the fact that everyone leaves out is that you don’t do it for a guy, you do it for yourself.
Be Independent.* THANK YOU for including this. I am very independent, but still appreciate a man who can take care of me. It disgusts me how many men take this word and make it negative towards women, in the sense that it de-values our ability to hold a man or be a good woman all-together. I have learned over time that a STRONG man who is mature and at peace with himself will find an independent woman as a STRONG ally that he deserves, rather than one he can't "control." A woman having independence is so important to her sense of self and values.
As I’m growing and evolving, I realized I was taught how to live but not how to live in my womanhood and what that looks like or what it means. Love this video- it gave me insight on the woman I want to evolve into as I turn 23 this year.
god as i am turning 21 in a few weeks im so glad i found your channel. i feel as it was a calling , i have been saying this even before i turned 20 "what am i gonna do?" i was so deep into getting validation and letting others control how my life turned out because i lacked a teacher to show me these. i forever love my mom and other older women in my life, but it sucks to say that they never showed me the way. i grew up having to learn what it was like to be a young girl on my own. not speaking about the generic parental guidance like my mom feeding me, providing me a home and all that. im speaking about becoming a woman and learning about what's it like to be one. these are the type of videos that really get me through and show me all these things. I wanna live out my 20's like i want them to be. one thing i stand by is that this is my reality and whatever i want can be mine if i value it enought.
You have no Idea how much you have healed me. I honestly don't need any other video. I got what Im looking for. Thank you so much Breeny you are God sent❤. My life can't remain the same after this
I am so thankful that I have found your channel. I cannot honestly say that I can relate to all the points (yet) but I relate to most. So, I am a 25 year old, great woman who working is on becoming excellent. I am going through a breakup at the moment and was not feeling the best today. Thank you for reminding me of my self-worth. (Sometimes I forget my worth when I'm sad.😅)
Breeny, I love this video sis ❤️ I’m just getting out of a 2 year relationship. And one thing I’m learning how to do is value myself and respecting myself and loving myself. I’m happy to be the excellent woman I’m becoming.
Being 19 and trying to get yourself together Is hard but I hate the feeling of being unhappy with myself no matter how much success is coming at me currently , I feel ungrateful and lost and this touched me because I’ve never had a woman role model to teach me these things so for someone to explain exactly how I feel , it’s wow
My God Breeny. You always have the right things to say. I’m currently at a really low self esteem right now and you never fail to slap some sense in me that i’m an amazing woman. Thank you for inspiring me always.
Yes 💕👏🏼 i am in my twenties and i was so ashamed to move back to my mom's house. And it is stupid, i decided to go back to school and currently in process of learning new things and i am happy for this opportunity that i have. But at the same time i was having hard time to accept that i needed to quit my old job for this opportunity. Sorry for my bad english. What i am trying to say is, i don't know how to be humble for myself as i am for everyone else, taking time for myself has always been hard, even tho i know that it is ok to learn new job that i am so happy about and quit old one. It is a going to be about 5-6 years of studying but it is my dream and has always been. I would be maybe about 29ish when i would be gratuated, and it feels old 😅 it would be super if some of you could remember me and my situation, having this anxiety ... thanks ❤
even choosing to go back to study is a bold move and you’re doing that! 29 will arrive anyway- would you rather be 29 with the degree or without? You got this !! ❤️🙏🏽
Every time I question myself about something I've done, whether it was wrong or not,, and then latter comes that feeling of guilt inside of me,, you post a video to answer all my questions and to give me more confidence and support.. Thank you!
Everything you are saying is the new me I have been working on for almost a year. After 29 years of being codependent, I am on my own now and becoming a better version of myself. Thank you for your talks. 😊
This is insanely valuable. God bless you for this. I needed this. As a broke, single 30 year old mom whose father just took his own life, and the father of my son just left me 9 months later. I was crushed and my earth has been shaken to the core. I needed this to get up and start picking up the pieces. I don’t know where to go from here, but this is exactly what I NEEDED to hear.
I love your talks BUT can we just praise Breeny for always looking radiant. Hair and makeup always on point, my goodness. I wouldn’t mind a few tips on that!
Hi Breeny for a while I stopped watching your videos I don't even know why must be the relationship I am in, didn't want to listen to anything that would make me self aware and truly accept my current state but just 8 minutes in I could feel you hitting the parts that I've been trying to avoid being aware of my self work, esteem and respect has drastically gone down, but I am working on it, thank you very much. Much love from South Africa.
For me I don't know why I didn't watch her videos. Now that I am going through a break up. I was looking for videos to level up as a single woman. RUclips recommended her.
Also an excellent woman knows how to say “NO” to protect her time and peace. Understanding that the word “NO” is a full sentence that doesn’t need an explanation. . . Keep being brilliant ladies. ✨
My grandma fully embodies everything in this video ! i’m so blessed to have a high value woman like her in my life, she is my role model :)❤ i’ll continue to learn from her and i hope someday other people will look at me the way i look at her :)
I am 20 and what I have learnt so far is when our self esteem is low we accept people and things that's fed upon us,we think we deserve nothing more when we are given the bare minimum.But once we start loving ourselves we don't tolerate any behaviour that crosses our boundaries,we don't do things that harm ourselves and won't seek temporary pleasure.Mostly let people do what they want to do,Let them.We can choose to accept or ignore it. So self love is the best form of love,When we love ourselves we will meet the right People with good mindset, vibration and energy and we don't even have to try hard. Thankyou for Making such a great video & helping women in becoming their best self ❤❤
How to become an excellent woman: 1. Self love 2. Self respect 3. Self esteem 4. Story of triumph 5. Self aware 6. Honest, open and transparent 7. Caring 8. Healed and still healing 9. Care of her temple 10. Warm and bubbly 11. Independent 12. Teachable 13. Fears the Lord Thank you Breeny, I love what you do here. God bless you
I LOVE how no nonsense you are. You don’t tip toe around things most are afraid to be direct about such as many women using not having enough money for things as a crutch. Be resourceful. If you want change you don’t make excuses. I love your videos girl. Thank you! ❤️
This hit home for me.. I’m 20.. about to be 21 in May.. I feel this major shift.. and I’m trying to walk with it.. this video definitely inspired me. Thank you beautiful girl.. ❤️❤️
whoever talks down on you has nothing to do with you but themself, they’re reflecting how they truly feel about them towards you that’s why we shouldn’t take things personally, remember it has nothing to do with you but with them
Thank you for this video, because I really needed to hear this right now. Especially about a high value woman has a story, but that doesn't disqualify her, because just recently I had two people that I once was close to, try to throw my past up in my face, and make me feel ashamed of it. That's why we're no longer close anymore, because they had their part to play in it too. It worked though, and I did feel ashamed, until I realized that isn't who I am anymore, that I've changed. I also like where you mentioned about fearing, respecting the Lord, because I do. I haven't forgotten what my knees are for, and that's for praying, and the Lord has been there for me when no else was, and will continue to be. I know some people don't believe in him anymore, but I sure do. He led me to this video, and people can laugh, but he knew that I needed to hear it, show He led me to it.
I love how the high value woman starts with SELF first. Nothing comes before you. To have excellence, and to be excellent you have to have some self-love, care, esteem, and awareness. Love to see it ❤️
I’m turning 32 in a few weeks and I just came across one of your video and end up subscribing to your channel….. I must say you have a high energy of an excellent woman and even though I’m a positive person in life, I find watching this particular video more transparent to what I’m seeking… you’re blessed and thank you for this message…. This is from a woman with a story and triumph 🙏🏽.
As a young woman, I absolutely love watching these, I always watch these type of videos while cleaning it’s so inspiring to me. I pray for blessings and success to all women watching this video ❤❤❤
I am a healing woman🧚🏾♀️ I work on my personal development, building STRONG boundaries. Cutting ties with negativity and people that do not VALUE me. I reflect on solitude, meditate 🧘♀️! I am showing myself love and value. I am an excellent woman working on myself. I am a work in progress
I wanna thank you Breeny, and thank all the other amazing women in the comments. As I evolve and embrace myself as a woman who really loves herself and takes care of herself, I feel more and more connected to every other women in my life and in the world. I wish we all were like this, grateful for our body, mind and spirit as women, and that every women could find this video to help herself become more happy and fulfilled. Thank you sisters, I wish you all the best
this video was super insightful and i was really happy to know all of the things on the list align with who i already am or working towards. i have a long way to go but i can honestly say since last year i’ve become so much more aware of the fact that i want to change and grow. let’s keep going yall 💕
Hello Big Sis, Breeny, I can't express how motivated and satisfied every time you upload videos. Been following you for 2 years since I was 19 and taking you as a mentor changed me for the better. You truly speak what I have in my heart and I see and feel that high-value women growing inside me. I'm grateful for your existence I love you❤
Breeny!! This video was amazing and has opened my eyes much! I prayed to God the other day asking him what my issues were because I wanted to grow as a women and this literally answered all my questions.
Not only does an EXCELLENT woman take care of HERSELF, she takes care of HER own.. coincides with being an intrinsic nurturer. whether it’d be children, spouse, family etc Love the video, very refreshing and well articulated points! 🙌🏾❤️
Truly, thank you for the work you do Breeny. This was so uplifting and were grounding reminders when we forget who we women are at the core. We should always strive to do better for ourselves cause we'll then pour this wisdom back onto those around us. Last point really hit different 🙏
I love it when women older than me make such videos and teach me things I desperately need to know. I took notes while listening. Thank you so much. I'll try my best to apply them in my life ❤
Thank you for everything you do Breeny 🙏 I've just finally escaped from a very abusive relationship and you are guiding me towards the light every day with your empowering videos and I wish you every success in life and every desire of your heart because you are helping so many others with your powerful knowledge and wisdom ❤️ God bless you!! 🙏🥰Xx
This video was amazing! As a 21 year old, it feels great to have someone like you providing all of this wisdom to me! Thank you so much! God bless you always! We need a part two big sissss!
Just binge watching Breeny's videos. Can not believe I'd find someone on YT that's so down to earth and in touch, bible based, and has this mental scape. Thanks girl ❤️
I am so in love. I've never had a role model until today, this very moment. Everything you've said start to finish-AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!.... the last point 🔥. I've heard about "Proverbs 31 women" but I'm honored actually seeing one in the flesh, it's hard to aspire to something that's in theory. The Lord is using you and it shows -no I'm not a prophet but jus a Christian who was led here. I'm so in love, even the way you speak 🥺 the excellence shines through. May the Lord continue to bless you.
I loved every minute of this video. Your take on Proverbs 31:30 knocked me out of my seat-- because it’s true. This was amazing and I’m excited for part 2.
It is a good feeling when you begin to understand yourself also to know how to go on living for yourself and not for people to please them It is good to understand that you put yourself before anyone who is not considered selfish
I personally put the point 13 as point 1 before self love. Because I believe in anything God comes first, and if you love and fear him truthfully then it’s going to make it easier for you to accomplish the rest of the points 😃. Anyway love this so much, I think I’ll be watching this every morning as a gentle reminder of being an excellent woman😊. Waiting for PART 2 Breeny😘
Breeny is so eloquent when she speaks! I loved listening to this video so much that it's inspired me to commit to replaying this every day for the next 30 days and checking off one quick thing that I can do to achieve every single point Breeny made. I like that she says that it is okay if we're not 'there' yet, that we have to be realistic along the way and that there is a time and place for all the things we desire; it means we have to enjoy the process before we indulge in the fruit. I really struggle with commitment but, I'm going to try very hard to bring my awareness to this video daily. Every small action adds up, right?!😀
Thank you so much for this. Today is international women's day and we had a hang out with some women and i had friends wishing me happy Women's day whereas i know I'm not yet there. So at the hangout, i was told something that has changed my mindset. And i decided to search and saw this video, thank you so much, it indeed will change me from this little girl thinking to a mindset and aura of a dignifying woman.
The power this video holds is so amazing ❤️ And point 13 has my heart . Being a God fearing woman will literally change your life . Thank you Breeny ❤️
Heyy Breeny, Happy Sunday to you. How was your week? I love love that you always share gems and advice with us always especially the ladies. We appreciate you so much, You're the best 🙌🏾😄 Sending love 🤎
I had been so desperate because everyone tells You "love yourself", but ¿What does that even mean? This video is the first and only one that i have watched (and i have been watching a Lot) that really gave me peace. This is a real gemm, a true guide. Thanks for your time, your power, your work to help women grow to be their best version.
Hey Breeny, loved this video. Thanks for sharing your wisdom with us 💖 after watching I realised there are lots of traits I need to work and build on but I'm also proud to say I hold some of these traits already 🥰 Would you be able to do a video on how to stop competing with other women? I'm in a long term relationship and I am happy with my partner, but I still find myself competing with other women for male attention. Its not that I want the other men, I just want to prove that they find me more attractive than others. I don't want to be this way, but I don't know how to stop this behaviour. I find I have never been able to keep a long term friendship with another female as we always end up competing and comparing ourselves to one another and jealousy is a big barrier, we can never genuinely be happy for each others successes. Please help, I want to love other women and appreciate their beauty and not always see them as a threat 🙏💕 God bless you xxx
This is so profound, my goodness. I wish all women, young & old, could watch this. Self-love, self-respect, and self efficient. Thank you, Queen, for this post❤
I found your channel on New Years Day and your goal for this year was my exact goal: to level up. I love your vibe, look, and attitude. You are a beautiful woman, I love your advice and your outlook. Thank you so much for all that you do on your channel. Last night I started to read a Bible gifted to me from a coworker from my last job. I’m trying to connect myself on all different levels. I got this Bible almost a year ago, but I finally opened it and started to read. My aunt had read her Bible start to finish, and I want to do the same. She said it took her over a year but when she finished, she started all over again, and she felt closer to God. Do you recommend any particular passages?
Reading the whole Bible is an excellent idea but I am recommending you and to anyone reading this to find time and read the book of PROVERBS. I just like all its teaching coz they are all applicable and relate alot to our day to day life. I pray that in every passage(verse) that you read from the bible that it may be a light in your life and that it may answer all your questions and May our GOD HOLY SPIRIT guide you and teach you everything you wish to be Lightened and guided about. AMEN
I absolutely LOVE all these traits! They all carry such volume and speak well of what high value is as a female! I see a lot of these in myself, but everyday is a progress and everyday, it’s about being better than who I was yesterday, not comparing to someone else! Thank you! May the Lord bless you girl! 🙌🏾❤️✨
You are the first person that talks about how to be a high value woman not for the sake of drawing men's attention but for the sake of self growth. I really appreciate your content because it teaches us women on how to improve and be the better version of ourselves🙏😊
Omg those videos are all about being half naked, make up and hair and dressing and body ... very superficial and just for men. I once had to call out some channel and say so what if am not physically like what the channel was selling .. does that mean am not feminine or high value?? It's all about self identity first not looks. Once ypu know yourself everything else will align itself. Goodness those channels irk me 🤣🤣
Fr! All the high value woman are are basically just a guide on how to revolve around men! tbh it’s just sad. This vid is a breath of fresh air
To be my better self,love myself ❤️❤️
Seriously the only video that talked about high value woman 👏👏👏👏
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So many people are stuck on outdated ideas, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest shows you how to use secret techniques to attract almost anything in life. This isn’t just another law of attraction book; it’s the real deal with actionable insights. If you’re ready to level up your life, you need to read this.
1. Self love- being content and happy with yourself.
2. Self respect- respect time, energy, money and body.
3. Self esteem- how you see yourself affects every area of your life..
4.she has a story of triumph.
5. Self aware- takes personal accountability.
6. She is open, honest and transparent.
7. She is caring and nurturing.
8. She is ill and is still healing.
9. She takes care of her Temple, even when she doesn't feel like it.
10. She is warm and bubbly.
11. She is independent.
12. She does not live above her means. She is not waiting on a man as a meal.She is teachable- she is constantly learning and willing to develop Self.
13. She fears God.
🙏🏽😇
Thankiu
Thank you 🙏🏽
13 should have been number 1
Thank you
I hope it's never too late to be a high value woman, Im 30 now a single mom,healing everyday, not perfect and starting from the bottom... hope you wish me luck. You gave me high hopes to fix myself now.. thank u❤
In the same boat sis. We got this
“A high value woman has a story to tell and that story doesn’t disqualify her”. Absolutely. Often we tend to hide our stories because we feel it makes us less than. But owing our stories and writing a new empowering end is powerful 💜
I’m learning that process right now! So true.
I love everything about this video. Thank you Breeny! Excellent gems!! 💎💎💎
Not going to lie this made me hit the like and subscribe.
i agree with this 100%
@@fahdah106 Me too love the video. I will send my daughter, hopefully she follow the teachings❤
I took your 20-minute video and turned it into an hour and a half of learning and studying everything you were saying and assessing myself. I paused the video as I went along and research the traits which you were describing and took notes into more depth so that I can fully understand everything. I am 19 years old and every day I feel like I need to be working to be the best woman I can be for myself, my future, and my own wellbeing. Very excellent video, thank you kindly.
*How you see yourself affects every area of your life!*
This is so so true. If you have low self-esteem that will clearly reflect on the kind of people you surround yourself with, how you eat and how you treat your body, how much money you make.. Everything is tight up to our self-esteem.
Not an easy pill to swallow since it can be extremely challenging to build it. Always working on it.
this! but being honest with yourself about your situation is the first step
Loving yourself is not accepting disrespect or abuse from men or other people
And that includes your family.🏵️🌸🌼🌺🌹🏵️🦋💕
@@maxinesobers2606 true
How do you characterize disrespect in the workplace
@@ivy6179 not respecting your time, bullying, speaking bad behind your back, not getting paid what you Deserve. Many things
I turn 22 in a week, and my goal is to be happy with being single and learn how to become the woman of my dreams and the woman that I envision myself to be in the future. Watching your videos always teach me new lessons and I’m so happy to subscribed to your channel 💕
You’re gonna have such a wonderful journey and learn so much about yourself. Cheers 🥂
Happy Birthday 🎂 🥳 🎉 🎈 in a week!
@@latashaburnard7778 thank you! ☺️
@@popcookie10 Thank you! ☺️
Happy birthday 💕❤️
I enjoy your videos , and I always take 📝
1.Self-Love -being content and happy with yourself. Loving the parts of you that make you who you are.
2. Self respect- to think highly or favorable of , having standards, morals
3.Self-esteem- Thinks highly of self , works towards high self esteem
4.Story of Triumph- has a testimony,
5. Self-ware -take the Ls and learns from them
6. Honest and Transparent - takes accountability
7.Caring -Nurturing
8. Healing-
9. Takes care of her Temple - body ,mind and soul - you are what you eat think , feel , see , hear. Also look presentable
10. Warm and Bubbly- “learn to laugh at yourself” positive attitude
11. Independent - save money , lives wisely , is go getter , seeks to be education, for success
12. Teachable - humble always willing to learn
13. Fear The LORD . Proverb31:30-Obeys the word of God and live to glorify Him
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"...accountability isn't saying I'm blame, it's taking responsibility for the part you played in it"
Amazing words 👏👏
You look gorgeous and it’s not just your makeup, hair, and clothes. Your just glowing 😍
Finally...What a breath of fresh air! For the past 1.5years we've been hearing about how women are average at best, have no hope of finding a decent man, and how independence is a sin! Your video is much needed, to remind all of us of the importance to be the best version of ourselves. God bless you! Xx
Absolutely, we should strive to be the best version of ourselves and there’s nothing wrong with that.
🙏🏾❤️🔥
It's so sad how this toxic feminine channels makes being ambitious a sin as if we can live a soft life if we don't work hard. Most femininity channels are teaching hook up saliently. I 💯 vibe with Breeny .
This message was certainly for me. This year I'm evolving into a high volume woman, an excellent woman. I turned 26 this year and it's time.
Congratulations 👏🏾 And it’s truly your time
happy for you 😍
Yes, it is Time 👏👏
I’m a man but I look forward to sharing this because you are the truth
I’ve seen so many men saying they want high value women but I’ve never really seen a proper video on it- the fact that everyone leaves out is that you don’t do it for a guy, you do it for yourself.
Love this! I truly think I’ll have to cite this video and do one as well! Motivating! ❤️
Love your channel @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol !!! Congrats on your recent marriage
Be Independent.* THANK YOU for including this. I am very independent, but still appreciate a man who can take care of me. It disgusts me how many men take this word and make it negative towards women, in the sense that it de-values our ability to hold a man or be a good woman all-together. I have learned over time that a STRONG man who is mature and at peace with himself will find an independent woman as a STRONG ally that he deserves, rather than one he can't "control." A woman having independence is so important to her sense of self and values.
HOW is it possible for you to be so beautiful!? Inside and out! Breeny, you are everything!
Thank you my love 💕
Value yourself 💯 ✨🙌🏽 follow your passions not a man ✨everything fall in place when we know what our value is✨❤️ I love this video 💕
As I’m growing and evolving, I realized I was taught how to live but not how to live in my womanhood and what that looks like or what it means. Love this video- it gave me insight on the woman I want to evolve into as I turn 23 this year.
Good distinction. And a good time to start defining how you want to live in womanhood.
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god as i am turning 21 in a few weeks im so glad i found your channel. i feel as it was a calling , i have been saying this even before i turned 20 "what am i gonna do?" i was so deep into getting validation and letting others control how my life turned out because i lacked a teacher to show me these. i forever love my mom and other older women in my life, but it sucks to say that they never showed me the way. i grew up having to learn what it was like to be a young girl on my own. not speaking about the generic parental guidance like my mom feeding me, providing me a home and all that. im speaking about becoming a woman and learning about what's it like to be one. these are the type of videos that really get me through and show me all these things. I wanna live out my 20's like i want them to be. one thing i stand by is that this is my reality and whatever i want can be mine if i value it enought.
You have no Idea how much you have healed me. I honestly don't need any other video. I got what Im looking for. Thank you so much Breeny you are God sent❤. My life can't remain the same after this
I am so thankful that I have found your channel. I cannot honestly say that I can relate to all the points (yet) but I relate to most. So, I am a 25 year old, great woman who working is on becoming excellent. I am going through a breakup at the moment and was not feeling the best today. Thank you for reminding me of my self-worth. (Sometimes I forget my worth when I'm sad.😅)
Breeny, I love this video sis ❤️ I’m just getting out of a 2 year relationship. And one thing I’m learning how to do is value myself and respecting myself and loving myself. I’m happy to be the excellent woman I’m becoming.
Being 19 and trying to get yourself together Is hard but I hate the feeling of being unhappy with myself no matter how much success is coming at me currently , I feel ungrateful and lost and this touched me because I’ve never had a woman role model to teach me these things so for someone to explain exactly how I feel , it’s wow
My God Breeny. You always have the right things to say. I’m currently at a really low self esteem right now and you never fail to slap some sense in me that i’m an amazing woman. Thank you for inspiring me always.
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God was right on time with this video ! I was following a Bible study for the book of Esther and the video popped up next!
Yes 💕👏🏼 i am in my twenties and i was so ashamed to move back to my mom's house. And it is stupid, i decided to go back to school and currently in process of learning new things and i am happy for this opportunity that i have. But at the same time i was having hard time to accept that i needed to quit my old job for this opportunity. Sorry for my bad english. What i am trying to say is, i don't know how to be humble for myself as i am for everyone else, taking time for myself has always been hard, even tho i know that it is ok to learn new job that i am so happy about and quit old one. It is a going to be about 5-6 years of studying but it is my dream and has always been. I would be maybe about 29ish when i would be gratuated, and it feels old 😅 it would be super if some of you could remember me and my situation, having this anxiety ... thanks ❤
Keep pushing you are great 💕
You are doing good. I moved in and out of my mom's house. it was our family house.Stay there an get the things that you want and dream of doing 💯💙🙏👑
even choosing to go back to study is a bold move and you’re doing that! 29 will arrive anyway- would you rather be 29 with the degree or without? You got this !! ❤️🙏🏽
i mean this in every sense, Breeny you are the big sis i never had
Every time I question myself about something I've done, whether it was wrong or not,, and then latter comes that feeling of guilt inside of me,, you post a video to answer all my questions and to give me more confidence and support.. Thank you!
Breeny i am so happy to see you get the recognition you deserve. You have being my big sister/mentor since my teen years and i am now 22
Everything you are saying is the new me I have been working on for almost a year. After 29 years of being codependent, I am on my own now and becoming a better version of myself. Thank you for your talks. 😊
This is insanely valuable.
God bless you for this. I needed this.
As a broke, single 30 year old mom whose father just took his own life, and the father of my son just left me 9 months later. I was crushed and my earth has been shaken to the core.
I needed this to get up and start picking up the pieces. I don’t know where to go from here, but this is exactly what I NEEDED to hear.
Breeny has taken this self-love game up several notches. Love to see it. ❤
I love your talks BUT can we just praise Breeny for always looking radiant. Hair and makeup always on point, my goodness. I wouldn’t mind a few tips on that!
"It is the value that you BELIEVE you have that gives you power." ~ Breeny Lee 🔥
Hi Breeny for a while I stopped watching your videos I don't even know why must be the relationship I am in, didn't want to listen to anything that would make me self aware and truly accept my current state but just 8 minutes in I could feel you hitting the parts that I've been trying to avoid being aware of my self work, esteem and respect has drastically gone down, but I am working on it, thank you very much. Much love from South Africa.
For me I don't know why I didn't watch her videos. Now that I am going through a break up. I was looking for videos to level up as a single woman. RUclips recommended her.
Also an excellent woman knows how to say “NO” to protect her time and peace. Understanding that the word “NO” is a full sentence that doesn’t need an explanation.
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Keep being brilliant ladies. ✨
This is a very difficult word for me to say. I am working on it, though.
I like the "To be Independent" part of it most. Breenylee am going to be on everything that you spoke about here.
My grandma fully embodies everything in this video ! i’m so blessed to have a high value woman like her in my life, she is my role model :)❤ i’ll continue to learn from her and i hope someday other people will look at me the way i look at her :)
I am 20 and what I have learnt so far is when our self esteem is low we accept people and things that's fed upon us,we think we deserve nothing more when we are given the bare minimum.But once we start loving ourselves we don't tolerate any behaviour that crosses our boundaries,we don't do things that harm ourselves and won't seek temporary pleasure.Mostly let people do what they want to do,Let them.We can choose to accept or ignore it.
So self love is the best form of love,When we love ourselves we will meet the right People with good mindset, vibration and energy and we don't even have to try hard.
Thankyou for Making such a great video & helping women in becoming their best self ❤❤
How to become an excellent woman:
1. Self love
2. Self respect
3. Self esteem
4. Story of triumph
5. Self aware
6. Honest, open and transparent
7. Caring
8. Healed and still healing
9. Care of her temple
10. Warm and bubbly
11. Independent
12. Teachable
13. Fears the Lord
Thank you Breeny, I love what you do here. God bless you
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I LOVE how no nonsense you are. You don’t tip toe around things most are afraid to be direct about such as many women using not having enough money for things as a crutch. Be resourceful. If you want change you don’t make excuses. I love your videos girl. Thank you! ❤️
This hit home for me.. I’m 20.. about to be 21 in May.. I feel this major shift.. and I’m trying to walk with it.. this video definitely inspired me. Thank you beautiful girl.. ❤️❤️
whoever talks down on you has nothing to do with you but themself, they’re reflecting how they truly feel about them towards you that’s why we shouldn’t take things personally, remember it has nothing to do with you but with them
Thank you for this video, because I really needed to hear this right now. Especially about a high value woman has a story, but that doesn't disqualify her, because just recently I had two people that I once was close to, try to throw my past up in my face, and make me feel ashamed of it. That's why we're no longer close anymore, because they had their part to play in it too. It worked though, and I did feel ashamed, until I realized that isn't who I am anymore, that I've changed. I also like where you mentioned about fearing, respecting the Lord, because I do. I haven't forgotten what my knees are for, and that's for praying, and the Lord has been there for me when no else was, and will continue to be. I know some people don't believe in him anymore, but I sure do. He led me to this video, and people can laugh, but he knew that I needed to hear it, show He led me to it.
I love how the high value woman starts with SELF first. Nothing comes before you. To have excellence, and to be excellent you have to have some self-love, care, esteem, and awareness. Love to see it ❤️
the fit the makeup & the hair 10/10😍 & honestly this was such a helpful video as always
I’m turning 32 in a few weeks and I just came across one of your video and end up subscribing to your channel….. I must say you have a high energy of an excellent woman and even though I’m a positive person in life, I find watching this particular video more transparent to what I’m seeking… you’re blessed and thank you for this message…. This is from a woman with a story and triumph 🙏🏽.
As a young woman, I absolutely love watching these, I always watch these type of videos while cleaning it’s so inspiring to me. I pray for blessings and success to all women watching this video ❤❤❤
Loved this video genuine advice you gives your first person who explained everything clearly
I'm turning 26 this month. I'm on the other side of the field now and it's time to take accountability.
I am a healing woman🧚🏾♀️ I work on my personal development, building STRONG boundaries. Cutting ties with negativity and people that do not VALUE me. I reflect on solitude, meditate 🧘♀️! I am showing myself love and value. I am an excellent woman working on myself. I am a work in progress
i agree with this 100%
you go girllll❤️
I wanna thank you Breeny, and thank all the other amazing women in the comments. As I evolve and embrace myself as a woman who really loves herself and takes care of herself, I feel more and more connected to every other women in my life and in the world. I wish we all were like this, grateful for our body, mind and spirit as women, and that every women could find this video to help herself become more happy and fulfilled. Thank you sisters, I wish you all the best
Honestly I respect every single word you say, every single word is highly valuable for me. Part 2 please
This video is such a refresher :-)
It made me feel proud of myself since I have been so discouraged lately.
I would love a part two, please
it’s almost hard to focus on what you’re saying at times because you are so incredibly STUNNING!
Breeny! You are glowing sis fr! You look so beautiful ❤️
im still young, a teenager, but i want to grow up to be confident, and hold myself with respect for who i am. thank you for this video.
This is the best video I have ever listened to when explaining what a high value woman truly is!
this video was super insightful and i was really happy to know all of the things on the list align with who i already am or working towards. i have a long way to go but i can honestly say since last year i’ve become so much more aware of the fact that i want to change and grow. let’s keep going yall 💕
Hello Big Sis,
Breeny, I can't express how motivated and satisfied every time you upload videos. Been following you for 2 years since I was 19 and taking you as a mentor changed me for the better. You truly speak what I have in my heart and I see and feel that high-value women growing inside me.
I'm grateful for your existence
I love you❤
Breeny!! This video was amazing and has opened my eyes much! I prayed to God the other day asking him what my issues were because I wanted to grow as a women and this literally answered all my questions.
Not only does an EXCELLENT woman take care of HERSELF, she takes care of HER own.. coincides with being an intrinsic nurturer. whether it’d be children, spouse, family etc Love the video, very refreshing and well articulated points! 🙌🏾❤️
Truly, thank you for the work you do Breeny. This was so uplifting and were grounding reminders when we forget who we women are at the core. We should always strive to do better for ourselves cause we'll then pour this wisdom back onto those around us. Last point really hit different 🙏
I love it when women older than me make such videos and teach me things I desperately need to know. I took notes while listening. Thank you so much. I'll try my best to apply them in my life ❤
Thank you for everything you do Breeny 🙏 I've just finally escaped from a very abusive relationship and you are guiding me towards the light every day with your empowering videos and I wish you every success in life and every desire of your heart because you are helping so many others with your powerful knowledge and wisdom ❤️ God bless you!! 🙏🥰Xx
Watched from Nairobi Kenya. I am a 55 year old legal practitioner and absolutely love your maturity and wisdom!
This video was amazing! As a 21 year old, it feels great to have someone like you providing all of this wisdom to me! Thank you so much! God bless you always! We need a part two big sissss!
Just binge watching Breeny's videos. Can not believe I'd find someone on YT that's so down to earth and in touch, bible based, and has this mental scape. Thanks girl ❤️
I had always been critical of fearing God, but your explanation really clarified it. I support it now.
I am so in love. I've never had a role model until today, this very moment. Everything you've said start to finish-AMAZING!!!!!!!!!!.... the last point 🔥. I've heard about "Proverbs 31 women" but I'm honored actually seeing one in the flesh, it's hard to aspire to something that's in theory. The Lord is using you and it shows -no I'm not a prophet but jus a Christian who was led here. I'm so in love, even the way you speak 🥺 the excellence shines through. May the Lord continue to bless you.
Looking amazing girl! Always love your videos and love you ❤️
This video put me in the right mindset about myself. I like the caring and guiding tone
praying for you everyday queen keep pushing and leveling up sending infinite love and blessings
I loved every minute of this video. Your take on Proverbs 31:30 knocked me out of my seat-- because it’s true.
This was amazing and I’m excited for part 2.
It is a good feeling when you begin to understand yourself also to know how to go on living for yourself and not for people to please them
It is good to understand that you put yourself before anyone who is not considered selfish
Yes, we do need a part 2! Loved this video!
Breeny your big sis energy is off the charts. I was almost at the end and couldn’t believe it and so I hit the replay button. We need more ❤️🧠
I personally put the point 13 as point 1 before self love. Because I believe in anything God comes first, and if you love and fear him truthfully then it’s going to make it easier for you to accomplish the rest of the points 😃. Anyway love this so much, I think I’ll be watching this every morning as a gentle reminder of being an excellent woman😊. Waiting for PART 2 Breeny😘
Thought i was alone😇😇❤️❤️but all in all she killed it
Breeny is so eloquent when she speaks! I loved listening to this video so much that it's inspired me to commit to replaying this every day for the next 30 days and checking off one quick thing that I can do to achieve every single point Breeny made. I like that she says that it is okay if we're not 'there' yet, that we have to be realistic along the way and that there is a time and place for all the things we desire; it means we have to enjoy the process before we indulge in the fruit. I really struggle with commitment but, I'm going to try very hard to bring my awareness to this video daily. Every small action adds up, right?!😀
I'm just 16 :') but thank you! 💕 your advices helps alot.
Thank you so much for this. Today is international women's day and we had a hang out with some women and i had friends wishing me happy Women's day whereas i know I'm not yet there. So at the hangout, i was told something that has changed my mindset. And i decided to search and saw this video, thank you so much, it indeed will change me from this little girl thinking to a mindset and aura of a dignifying woman.
You look beautiful as always!
The power this video holds is so amazing ❤️ And point 13 has my heart . Being a God fearing woman will literally change your life . Thank you Breeny ❤️
Yasss Breeny love to see your pretty face!❤
Just turned 29 July 1st. Before I hit 30. I need to completely level up mentally. I’ve been looking for a video like this thank you queen 🙏🏾
Heyy Breeny, Happy Sunday to you. How was your week? I love love that you always share gems and advice with us always especially the ladies. We appreciate you so much, You're the best 🙌🏾😄 Sending love 🤎
You are preaching the Gospel of Womanhood. You are a guiding light! ❤
Awesome video. I learn a lot and will rewatch to carefully take in everything. Thank you.
I had been so desperate because everyone tells You "love yourself", but ¿What does that even mean? This video is the first and only one that i have watched (and i have been watching a Lot) that really gave me peace. This is a real gemm, a true guide. Thanks for your time, your power, your work to help women grow to be their best version.
Hey Breeny, loved this video. Thanks for sharing your wisdom with us 💖 after watching I realised there are lots of traits I need to work and build on but I'm also proud to say I hold some of these traits already 🥰 Would you be able to do a video on how to stop competing with other women? I'm in a long term relationship and I am happy with my partner, but I still find myself competing with other women for male attention. Its not that I want the other men, I just want to prove that they find me more attractive than others. I don't want to be this way, but I don't know how to stop this behaviour. I find I have never been able to keep a long term friendship with another female as we always end up competing and comparing ourselves to one another and jealousy is a big barrier, we can never genuinely be happy for each others successes. Please help, I want to love other women and appreciate their beauty and not always see them as a threat 🙏💕 God bless you xxx
This is so profound, my goodness. I wish all women, young & old, could watch this. Self-love, self-respect, and self efficient. Thank you, Queen, for this post❤
I found your channel on New Years Day and your goal for this year was my exact goal: to level up. I love your vibe, look, and attitude. You are a beautiful woman, I love your advice and your outlook. Thank you so much for all that you do on your channel.
Last night I started to read a Bible gifted to me from a coworker from my last job. I’m trying to connect myself on all different levels. I got this Bible almost a year ago, but I finally opened it and started to read. My aunt had read her Bible start to finish, and I want to do the same. She said it took her over a year but when she finished, she started all over again, and she felt closer to God. Do you recommend any particular passages?
Reading the whole Bible is an excellent idea but I am recommending you and to anyone reading this to find time and read the book of PROVERBS. I just like all its teaching coz they are all applicable and relate alot to our day to day life.
I pray that in every passage(verse) that you read from the bible that it may be a light in your life and that it may answer all your questions and May our GOD HOLY SPIRIT guide you and teach you everything you wish to be Lightened and guided about. AMEN
So many golden nuggets in this video, thank you so much Breeny!
Can we also appreciate how snatched and amazing you look 😍
I absolutely LOVE all these traits! They all carry such volume and speak well of what high value is as a female! I see a lot of these in myself, but everyday is a progress and everyday, it’s about being better than who I was yesterday, not comparing to someone else! Thank you! May the Lord bless you girl! 🙌🏾❤️✨
I am struggling so bad. I go to your videos and appreciate your encouragement but I'm honestly ready to just go to God.
Be encouraged! ❤ God will never leave you nor forsake you. I pray that He restores your faith.
I've been looking for someone like you for so long and now i finally feel like im growing and you're here with me on my journey, thank you honey xoxo