I am worthy of succeeding I have the ability to overcome self sabotage I am worthy of all good things in life I am powerful enough to beat self sabotage I am fully confident within myself I am excited and confident when starting new projects I am successful in everything I do! In Jesus name Amen 🙏
I love to repeat affirmations to myself at least once (but preferably twice a day in front of a mirror). I would highly encourage all of you ladies to do it on a consistent basis. We GOT this!!!
Negative self talk will keep you living below your potential. Your thoughts are not you. Take a step back, acknowledge the thoughts and give yourself grace instead of being hard on yourself.
Self sabotage is an indication of low self esteem. This is why it’s important to be in-tune with yourself and get to know yourself better. Learn your values, strength and weakness. Knowing you are worthy will not only stop you from self sabotaging but it will also exude confidence and attract others on the same frequency! From a self love content creator to another - Great video Breeny! ❤️
If I am procrastinating about something, I think "What would I do if I loved myself?" and I do that. It bypasses the need to actually love yourself already and it gets stuff done, to my advantage.
Some of my favourite words to live by are "if you believe it will work out you will only see opportunities, if you believe it won't, you will only see obstacles". Thank you again Breeny for helping us further heal through the truth! So much love xxx
Self sabotage, for me, looks like avoiding the things that help me. I think it’s been a few months since I’ve watched one of your videos in full, despite how much you’ve helped me for the past few years. It feels like there’s a part of me that doesn’t want to get better. But I rebuke that, & i thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us yet again. You’re like my internet big sis that just wants everyone to be okay.♡
Whew. This was for me. I definitely struggle with negative internal thoughts. I’ve been jealous, judgmental, procrastinated, haven’t loved myself, and been lazy sometimes. I’ve had low self esteem my entire life since childhood. I’m back in therapy to help me with this. I always feel like I take steps forward and then steps back.
Phrases I use to silence fearful and destructive thoughts are: “I was born a winner and was created to dominate the earth.” “I’m a daughter of a king. I can do all things.” “I’m worthy of highest quality of life” Also I practice the art of self-compassion which I learnt through counselling. Very very helpful.
I’m loving the fact that since you’ve sorted your relationship with God and ended the bad relationship with a man, you’re now on fire and wise like never before. Lady speaking fire 🔥
At first, I couldn’t watch Breeny Lee because you spoke to much truth that I couldn’t handle. The truth it was hard for me to watch you, I didn’t use to like the feeling of someone actually speaking the truth. Now, I can tell you I am a forever subscriber and I will continue to watch you because you are helping expand my mental health, so I am forever grateful, thank you Breeny ❤️!!!
Thank you. Since lockdown and bad relationship I developped huge social anxiety, I feel isolated, depressed and bad about myself and your channel help me a lot! ❤️ I decided to start the self-improving journey
Same I’ve been experiencing those same things but for about 2 years now. I want to get out of this dark pit and experience happiness, I have a little bit of faith that I will. I hope this video helps me some 🥺💕
@@reyaalexistv164 I hope you'll find happiness 💕! I suggest you to read Neville Goddard (the law of assumption), there is a lot of conference of him on Yt. He changed my life !
I literally love how you broke this down I’ve been struggling with this for years and I’m finally ready to combat it and live the life I know I deserve
My phrase is: I will not let peoples opinions about me and what I am doing ruin my day, week,month or year, knowing it’s a reflection of their insecurities and failure due to their own self sabotaging thoughts. I will be an example of the result of what persistence and patience can get you in life and they will look up to me as an inspiration and hopefully follow their dreams as well 😁🤞
This is so encouraging! Those limited beliefs and self sabotaging thoughts are the enemy God didn’t create us to think negatively about ourselves. Memorizing scripture and denouncing the negativity with Gods words and truths help me. Thank you for shedding light to this topic
This was the most eye-opening video I've seen about self sabotaging and felt so much from it. I need to allow myself to feel and be calm and relaxed within myself and not allow external events to govern my internal condition.
Wow I literally somehow clicked on this. I have been frustrated because I feel soo many of my family, ex husband and more have changed me. I'm naturally ambitious and I like to do things to the best of my ability. Being a single mum I feel like I want to do soo much I'm just sick of even at 33 people constantly getting involved in my life. I don't know how to stop it, I was really depressed last year for the last 3 months of the year. I find it a positive thing that I always want to better myself and every area in it. I've noticed that I feel because some around me arent like that it bothers them that I am. I'm not sure anymore, it's frustrating when you are trying to be positive and have self love and be your best self and others are your cause of self sabotage
Honestly as a teenager living in such a social media influenced and just the falls of growing up in an environment with alot of toxic minded people I've taught myself and humbled myself to take responsibility and accountability of the fact that some of the bad things happening in my life are my fault and that I should be to learn from my mistakes develop myself instead of painting myself as a victim because in the eyes of people I'll be seen as prey easy to pick on. I'm proud of myself for being able to find comfort in myself and space alone without seeking validation from anyone not even my parents or friends. As much as they hurt me I've learnt to live with the fact that I only need myself and always choose my own peace over anyone's call me selfish but at the end of the day the only person who care about you is you.
Proud of you girl.. You have learned a very important life lesson so early in your life which most people learn so damn late.. Take care of yourself n you don't need anyone to take care of you.. ❤🌼
Such a great talk, a lot of people changed careers in the last couple of years and all the rejections you get at the beginning causes this issue where it didn’t exist before
Thank you for this! Another word for self-sabotage is imposter syndrome. It’s basically where even when someone compliments you on something you brush it off as if it’s nothing. That’s what I battle with but this year I made a promise to myself to stop sleeping on my talents. I will stop letting fear hinder me from elevating even more than I have. I will also elevate financially too.* 💕🙌🏾✨
I am extremely tired of being negative. Always talk crap about myself. Always think I'm stuck in my boring life. I feel like I'm not smart enough to get a better high paying job. I'm Always at entry level jobs. I'm learning new things at my job and anxiety kills me and will always tell myself I can't learn a new task or I'm too dumb. I'm just so tired of Always thinking this way 😪
Although this was created two years ago, I needed this and your voice. I hope where you are in the New Year brings you more opportunities to share your message. Thank you
Love the video! I just spoke to someone about this a couple days ago. Ive definitely learned to replace negative thoughts with positive thoughts and align with the Word. The enemy told me that my new job was going to be hard and I wouldnt catch on. I shut that down and said, " that's a lie cause I'm smart, I can do all things through Christ, and I have knowledge, wisdom, and understanding." I haven't always thought like this I asked the Holy Spirit to nudge me when & if I let myself get caught up in those negative thoughts so I can shut them down asap. Its not easy but I practice saying positive things to myself so I can unlearn the bad things Ive said for so long.
I always attract mean people and situations where people are rude to me and humiliate me. I never understood why because I would never be rude just because, only if someone had it coming I admit. But now I understand life just shows me how my internal life looks like and how hard and mean I am towards myself. This journey trying to love yourself is so tiring and I often give up. But in order to live a happy life we have to learn self compassion.
My phrase will be: Philippians 1:6 ‘He who started a good work in me will see to come lit until the day of Christ Jesus’ thanks Breeny!!🥰 on time video for meeee, God bless you gorgeous😍!!
Yes double mindedness is definitely at the root!!! Being indecisive is so draining and when you meet someone who is decisive they look at you like you’re insane lol I’m overcoming it as we speak 🙏🏽✨
needed to hear this. I’ve been self sabotaging myself so much even people around me are starting to notice & I’ve dug myself into a hole. Having anxiety makes it so much harder to fight this but I’m gonna beat this. Thank you for this. 💕
You are literally the big sister we all need, keep growing and glowing everyone. One day we’ll look up and realize we no longer get in our own way! ☺️🦋❤️
My God Breeny. This came right on time. This is God speaking to me through you. I'm definitely going through a season right now fighting self-sabotage. I even losted about it on my platform. This is something that I truly believe that I need and will heal drom and maybe can set others free from this too. I pray that all of us fighting this will be delivered from it in Jesus name... Amen.
Recently, I had an epiphany that I was in the process of self-sabotaging. I’m so glad I was led to this video. You really put into perspective so many things, and I felt my anxiety and self-sabotage just leave my body. The affirmation I will use when I am having a negative moment will be, “I deserve good things,” because I do. I deserve good things to happen to me, and I deserve good people in my life. Thank you again!
Always delivering the right message on the right time Breeny! I went through therapy years ago, learnt a lot about myself and my limiting beliefs, but old habits die hard, they live under your skin and you should always remind yourself of them again and again!
I see people comment this a lot but I seriously have never subscribed so fast haha, this is THE exact thing i’ve been battling, and you articulated it in such an incredible way. fear of success, self sabotage, shame & self harm- chasing the success but feeling so inadequate once you get it that you throw it away. and that verse in James?!! PHEW GIRL YOU BETTER PREACH 👏🏻👏🏻💕💕
I've had a few moments where my self-sabotaging was hurting my thoughts and I started to worry and envelope panic attacks at everything. Bad grades? Worry. Skipped class? Worried about other people thinking I'm horrible for skipping class, etc. This work so well for grades, school, friends, problems etc. This quote saved me. "If a problem is fixable, if a situation is such that you can do something about it, then there's no need to worry. IF it's not fixable, there's no help in worrying"
I needed this, so many evil thoughts in my head, i m so scared of myself....against all of these i m gonna succes, i m gonna pay my living and go to singing lessons and get the help that i deserve, and get close to God more than ever....and nothing is gonna stop me not even myself
Im watching this & crying… because this is so true about myself. Self sabotage. Please keep these coming. It gives me so much hope & its an eye opener for me.
I’ve been self sabotaging my own amazing relationship and now I know it’s because of my low self esteem, literally crying from this video because of how right you are
"not today Satan, you're under me" I will use this. Whenever I saw your videos after typing glow up videos I would air it or watch for like three minutes and leave but when I saw it today I said she's literally talking to me through just the thumbnail what is stopping me from clicking and Ive watched three videos ATP, taking notes. Binging on knowledge I could've so easily lost. You're bringing me closer to God in a time I almost gave up and you've helped give me a new mindset. I thank God He's using you in His ministry I'm 14 going 15 and the amount of insecurity the devil plagues me and my peers with whilst normalising it is just sad. Once again I do appreciate you and your message please don't stop 💞
Man im so happy I found your podcast. It has helped me really self reflect. I really have a fear of failing to where I try but let self doubt will get the best of me. I am working my mindset and will not let these thought hinder my future!
i needed this, i tend to be shocked when good things happen to me. a phrase i would like to start incorporating is “i am deserving of good things in life”.
"You manage to sh*t on your own excellence." "You don't believe IN yourself, and you don't believe yourself." Oooh, ouch! Girlfriend talks harsh...but truth. Thank you for sayin' it plain - opened my eyes to what my self-sabotage is really about. Btw, I'm procrastinating right now. * Sigh * Breeny's strategy: 1. Confront the lies you tell yourself and write the truth 2. Become an encouraging voice in your mind and not a discouraging voice - #TeamYou 3. Get therapy to help identify the limiting beliefs 4. Create an auto-response - a phrase - in a kind voice, for when the negative feelings of anxiety, fear or dread come up.
I am so loved by God. Nothing i do can ever separate me from his love. I am valuable and honoured in his sight. I am not forgotten ! I am not abandoned ! I am not my thoughts, feelings, desires, past, mistakes...i am a royal priesthood, a chosen generation, the apple of God's eyes. He loves me not bc of who I am or what I've done but bc of who He is !!!!!
I’m praying that you’re ok sweet sis. I don’t know why but you’ve come to mind severally the past two weeks. I pray that you’re thriving wherever God has you right now!! You’re so loved❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I am beautiful and beautifully made, I accept myself. I am stronger than my feelings. I can achieve my dreams, no matter the challenges that might stand between me and my dreams, I know I can do it!
The pool in Dubai example isn't extreme. I tend to think the most outrageous things while having a good time and I stop the breaks mid thought because those negative thoughts aren't my thoughts!
Wow thank you for this, I needed it❤️❤️❤️ self sabotage has ruined so many things in my life but I’m ready to make the change and take charge in my life!
When you said “ain’t shit funny!” I literally sat up straight in my chair ! Thanks so much. I keep a note on my desk that I took last year from one of your videos and I quote “ I gain when I give….I do not lose!” - Breenylee 💕5-4-2021
You’ve dropped some serious insight & knowledge here, thank you! The way you broke this down from a deep subconscious psychological level, this video is on another level. As you level up, we have the chance to level up with you ✨
oh my oh my god like. i saw a clip of this on tt and holy shit i only started looking up self sabotage a week or so ago but damn. like i can’t even say how much i self sabotage myself legit tearing myself apart so i am physically incapable of success. like it hurts ten times worse too when you know yourself so damn well you know what hurts the most etc. i worked so long for an opportunity and i got it. i got it. but i literally made myself incapable of giving it my all bc i hurt myself so badly that i couldn’t work for it. for me working hard is literally me. more than opportunities and success, all i want right now is to be able to work hard towards the things i want.
The doom example you gave really hit home for me. I try to focus on the present moment instead. I recommend people to read about the stoics, or even the daily stoic to help with focusing.
wow! I will scroll for hours and hours to distract myself from my emotions or any pain I may be experiencing. I’ve let my toxic environment and trauma define me in such a negative way….. God led me to this video! thank you so much! God bless🤍
I happened up on your videos and this is the first one that I watched on self sabotage, which is what I was looking for. This is the most powerful video on self sabotage. Thank you.
True words .Im in the learning Prozess. Broke up my toxic long relationship .i gave my best years.now 38 years no kid .now i learn steep by steep be good to myself.
I am worthy of experience good things in my life. I am strong enough to overcome any challenges and that come my way. I am love, light , and peace and never forget who you are.❤
Breeny is blessed. I am unlearning learn and relearning consistently from you. Gotta kick this foolishness outta me and be free. Thanks Breeny, following from Kenya
I love your content so much you would not believe! You have definitely helped inspire me to become a better person this year. I admit, I still don't love myself 100% yet, but I am getting there. I am learning my self-worth and what I stand for and your videos definitely help me recognize how I am a queen. God bless you Breeny and may the Lord continue to inspire you to create new content and inspire your viewers to become better versions of themselves. One other thing, can you make a video on how to view yourself as an adult when you've been infantilized by your parents for 20+ years. I am in my mid-20s and when someone refers to me as a woman, I feel weird inside. Like, I don't deserve that title, but I also get pissed on the inside when someone calls me a 'girl'. I generally just refer to myself as a lady because that seems like a good balance between the two. I know that what I just explained my sound stupid, but I guess that's just the effects of being infantilized for your whole life.
I loved your examples you used for the limiting belief exercise, I relate so much I wrote them down 😭 in this season of learning to love myself I've decided I'm going to commit to myself and start being on my own team instead of self-sabotaging and feeling powerless in my life. This video was just what I needed! 💛
I am deserving of love, connection and light. I am capable of receiving and giving love. I am capable to start and finish study sessions. I am fully believing that I can become rich. I am fully deserving of my success, my Yes and my No.
This video came at the proper time. I am on a self love journey and I know I self sabotage. I just recently went through a tough break up and I’m determined to get myself back and better myself and my #1, better my relationship with God. Thank you for these beautiful reminders I needed to here and learning more in-depth about self sabotage.
My silent saying actually is scripture. Galatians 6:9 “let us not become weary in doing good” what I take from that is if Jesus bring you too it dwell in the good of the ending results, let not your heart be trouble when flesh starts to sabotage the goodness of your journey! Thank you for this message I definitely needed this reassurance! God is doing great things in you!
Thank you for the vid. I noticed a few months ago that there were a few instances in my life where I felt I had sabotaged an opportunity for myself, but I never understood what it was rooted in. You really hit home with the low self esteem because when I did commit some type of act of sabotage it was because I wasn’t secure in myself. I always felt out of place so I would quit...jobs, projects, school. I recently did it but the turn around to notice it was rather quick. Now I’m just trying to work on myself to where this does not continue to happen. ❤️💕
Thank you Breeny! I can always count on your content to give me a an extra boost of confidence and motivation.. as requested my words to counter act negative thoughts will be “I am allowed to have good things happen for me because I deserve it” .
Thank you for ministering to me. I’m in therapy, I’m going through the healing process, but still found my self stuck in self sabotaging. I thank God for you and the way he used you this completely changed my life ❤️💯
I needed to hear this so much. That scripture and the imagery of the crashing waves is exactly what I experience in my mind. I hope God can see me trying but I know I’m the only one in my way.
“Self sabotage is literally self hate” this hit hard.
For real🥺
That spoke out to me too!
Girl this hit me hard as hell. Too hard. The truth is always bitter
We was a
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I am worthy of succeeding
I have the ability to overcome self sabotage
I am worthy of all good things in life
I am powerful enough to beat self sabotage
I am fully confident within myself
I am excited and confident when starting new projects
I am successful in everything I do!
In Jesus name Amen 🙏
Yes believe it🙏🏾 amen
Yaaaassss YES 😎👏🙌
I love to repeat affirmations to myself at least once (but preferably twice a day in front of a mirror). I would highly encourage all of you ladies to do it on a consistent basis. We GOT this!!!
Yes, yes and yes 🙌🏾
*Succeeding is easy for me ..*
Breeeeeny! The way the Lord is using you to speak into my life in this season is CRAZY! Keep it up woman of God you are touching many many of us!
♥️♥️♥️
Literally 😩🤌🏽
Girl , I swear !!!!! I thought exactly the same !
Truth. ✨
Yes I’m obsessed now lol 😭🕊🕊
Negative self talk will keep you living below your potential. Your thoughts are not you. Take a step back, acknowledge the thoughts and give yourself grace instead of being hard on yourself.
Love that!!
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Self sabotage is an indication of low self esteem. This is why it’s important to be in-tune with yourself and get to know yourself better. Learn your values, strength and weakness. Knowing you are worthy will not only stop you from self sabotaging but it will also exude confidence and attract others on the same frequency!
From a self love content creator to another - Great video Breeny! ❤️
Definitely working on learning who I am and transforming into the woman God has called me to be
If I am procrastinating about something, I think "What would I do if I loved myself?" and I do that. It bypasses the need to actually love yourself already and it gets stuff done, to my advantage.
That’s so sweet
I’m going to give this a try!
so sweet yet so powerful, this phrase hit me hardddd
Wow. I needed to read this comment on today. Thank you so much. 💙
Some of my favourite words to live by are "if you believe it will work out you will only see opportunities, if you believe it won't, you will only see obstacles". Thank you again Breeny for helping us further heal through the truth! So much love xxx
Absolutely true
Y’all are dropping gems in these comments
Wow that’s on point
Self sabotage, for me, looks like avoiding the things that help me. I think it’s been a few months since I’ve watched one of your videos in full, despite how much you’ve helped me for the past few years. It feels like there’s a part of me that doesn’t want to get better.
But I rebuke that, & i thank you so much for sharing your wisdom with us yet again. You’re like my internet big sis that just wants everyone to be okay.♡
When I think negatively, I tell myself, " stay in the present". Its helps so much!
Whew. This was for me. I definitely struggle with negative internal thoughts. I’ve been jealous, judgmental, procrastinated, haven’t loved myself, and been lazy sometimes. I’ve had low self esteem my entire life since childhood. I’m back in therapy to help me with this. I always feel like I take steps forward and then steps back.
2 Tim 1:7 For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind.
Phrases I use to silence fearful and destructive thoughts are: “I was born a winner and was created to dominate the earth.” “I’m a daughter of a king. I can do all things.”
“I’m worthy of highest quality of life” Also I practice the art of self-compassion which I learnt through counselling. Very very helpful.
I’m loving the fact that since you’ve sorted your relationship with God and ended the bad relationship with a man, you’re now on fire and wise like never before. Lady speaking fire 🔥
Yessss!!!❤️👏🏻
At first, I couldn’t watch Breeny Lee because you spoke to much truth that I couldn’t handle. The truth it was hard for me to watch you, I didn’t use to like the feeling of someone actually speaking the truth. Now, I can tell you I am a forever subscriber and I will continue to watch you because you are helping expand my mental health, so I am forever grateful, thank you Breeny ❤️!!!
THIS 🙏🏾♥️ thank you for being honest ❤️🔥
Thank you. Since lockdown and bad relationship I developped huge social anxiety, I feel isolated, depressed and bad about myself and your channel help me a lot! ❤️ I decided to start the self-improving journey
Well done and keep going. One step at a time.
@@ChristianaSenibo thank you 🙏🏼💗
Good for you babe ! Keep it up 💕 unlock your greatest self 💕💕
Same I’ve been experiencing those same things but for about 2 years now. I want to get out of this dark pit and experience happiness, I have a little bit of faith that I will. I hope this video helps me some 🥺💕
@@reyaalexistv164 I hope you'll find happiness 💕! I suggest you to read Neville Goddard (the law of assumption), there is a lot of conference of him on Yt. He changed my life !
I am worthy of having the best of life.
THIS IS LITERALLY WHAT IHE NEEDED! Its my biggest blockage in my whole life and I’ve lost a lot bc of it and I really needed this! Thank you Breenie!!
I’m literally failing in school, in health, in life ON PURPOSE for no reason. This is so timely thank you 🙏🏾
I literally love how you broke this down I’ve been struggling with this for years and I’m finally ready to combat it and live the life I know I deserve
I've been self sabotaging since I was a teen and I still do it, I honestly don't know how to stop. But I'll follow what you suggested.
My phrase is: I will not let peoples opinions about me and what I am doing ruin my day, week,month or year, knowing it’s a reflection of their insecurities and failure due to their own self sabotaging thoughts. I will be an example of the result of what persistence and patience can get you in life and they will look up to me as an inspiration and hopefully follow their dreams as well 😁🤞
This is so encouraging! Those limited beliefs and self sabotaging thoughts are the enemy God didn’t create us to think negatively about ourselves. Memorizing scripture and denouncing the negativity with Gods words and truths help me. Thank you for shedding light to this topic
When negative thoughts stumble across my mind I say, 'That is not who I am.'
This was the most eye-opening video I've seen about self sabotaging and felt so much from it. I need to allow myself to feel and be calm and relaxed within myself and not allow external events to govern my internal condition.
My phrase- I am deserving of everything I want and more.
I am capable of doing this and more.
Wow I literally somehow clicked on this. I have been frustrated because I feel soo many of my family, ex husband and more have changed me. I'm naturally ambitious and I like to do things to the best of my ability. Being a single mum I feel like I want to do soo much I'm just sick of even at 33 people constantly getting involved in my life. I don't know how to stop it, I was really depressed last year for the last 3 months of the year. I find it a positive thing that I always want to better myself and every area in it. I've noticed that I feel because some around me arent like that it bothers them that I am. I'm not sure anymore, it's frustrating when you are trying to be positive and have self love and be your best self and others are your cause of self sabotage
Honestly as a teenager living in such a social media influenced and just the falls of growing up in an environment with alot of toxic minded people I've taught myself and humbled myself to take responsibility and accountability of the fact that some of the bad things happening in my life are my fault and that I should be to learn from my mistakes develop myself instead of painting myself as a victim because in the eyes of people I'll be seen as prey easy to pick on. I'm proud of myself for being able to find comfort in myself and space alone without seeking validation from anyone not even my parents or friends. As much as they hurt me I've learnt to live with the fact that I only need myself and always choose my own peace over anyone's call me selfish but at the end of the day the only person who care about you is you.
ayyy good job girl ,🥺
Wow girl 🙏🏾
Proud of you girl.. You have learned a very important life lesson so early in your life which most people learn so damn late.. Take care of yourself n you don't need anyone to take care of you.. ❤🌼
omg i love your mindset i wish i had more friends like you
Wait I just saw another comm3with the same info. Which one of you are stealing comments
Such a great talk, a lot of people changed careers in the last couple of years and all the rejections you get at the beginning causes this issue where it didn’t exist before
Wow you've lost soo much weight already!! Will you do a video on what ur doing?? 🧡🧡🧡
Yes ☺️ make sure you’re following my lifestyle IG: @allthingsbreeny
Right she's looking stunning 😍
Thank you for this! Another word for self-sabotage is imposter syndrome. It’s basically where even when someone compliments you on something you brush it off as if it’s nothing. That’s what I battle with but this year I made a promise to myself to stop sleeping on my talents. I will stop letting fear hinder me from elevating even more than I have. I will also elevate financially too.*
💕🙌🏾✨
I am extremely tired of being negative. Always talk crap about myself. Always think I'm stuck in my boring life. I feel like I'm not smart enough to get a better high paying job. I'm Always at entry level jobs. I'm learning new things at my job and anxiety kills me and will always tell myself I can't learn a new task or I'm too dumb. I'm just so tired of Always thinking this way 😪
The phrase that I am using to stop self-sabotage is “I am in control of MY LIFE”
Although this was created two years ago, I needed this and your voice. I hope where you are in the New Year brings you more opportunities to share your message. Thank you
Breeny is literally the best RUclipsr
“I am on my team” ♥️
“What you’re doing is not going to fail. It will succeed.”
Amen!
Love the video! I just spoke to someone about this a couple days ago. Ive definitely learned to replace negative thoughts with positive thoughts and align with the Word.
The enemy told me that my new job was going to be hard and I wouldnt catch on. I shut that down and said, " that's a lie cause I'm smart, I can do all things through Christ, and I have knowledge, wisdom, and understanding."
I haven't always thought like this I asked the Holy Spirit to nudge me when & if I let myself get caught up in those negative thoughts so I can shut them down asap. Its not easy but I practice saying positive things to myself so I can unlearn the bad things Ive said for so long.
Honestly, you were speaking to me directly. I’ll say to myself ‘I’m fully capable of completing what I started’ thank you Breeny
I always attract mean people and situations where people are rude to me and humiliate me. I never understood why because I would never be rude just because, only if someone had it coming I admit. But now I understand life just shows me how my internal life looks like and how hard and mean I am towards myself. This journey trying to love yourself is so tiring and I often give up. But in order to live a happy life we have to learn self compassion.
My phrase will be: Philippians 1:6 ‘He who started a good work in me will see to come lit until the day of Christ Jesus’ thanks Breeny!!🥰 on time video for meeee, God bless you gorgeous😍!!
Yes double mindedness is definitely at the root!!! Being indecisive is so draining and when you meet someone who is decisive they look at you like you’re insane lol I’m overcoming it as we speak 🙏🏽✨
I neeeedddeedd this! I am the most self sabatoging person I know! It's exhausting! Thank you for this 🙏🏾
needed to hear this. I’ve been self sabotaging myself so much even people around me are starting to notice & I’ve dug myself into a hole. Having anxiety makes it so much harder to fight this but I’m gonna beat this.
Thank you for this. 💕
You are literally the big sister we all need, keep growing and glowing everyone. One day we’ll look up and realize we no longer get in our own way! ☺️🦋❤️
My God Breeny. This came right on time. This is God speaking to me through you. I'm definitely going through a season right now fighting self-sabotage. I even losted about it on my platform. This is something that I truly believe that I need and will heal drom and maybe can set others free from this too. I pray that all of us fighting this will be delivered from it in Jesus name... Amen.
Recently, I had an epiphany that I was in the process of self-sabotaging. I’m so glad I was led to this video. You really put into perspective so many things, and I felt my anxiety and self-sabotage just leave my body. The affirmation I will use when I am having a negative moment will be, “I deserve good things,” because I do. I deserve good things to happen to me, and I deserve good people in my life. Thank you again!
Always delivering the right message on the right time Breeny! I went through therapy years ago, learnt a lot about myself and my limiting beliefs, but old habits die hard, they live under your skin and you should always remind yourself of them again and again!
I see people comment this a lot but I seriously have never subscribed so fast haha, this is THE exact thing i’ve been battling, and you articulated it in such an incredible way. fear of success, self sabotage, shame & self harm- chasing the success but feeling so inadequate once you get it that you throw it away. and that verse in James?!! PHEW GIRL YOU BETTER PREACH 👏🏻👏🏻💕💕
Brenny's make up is just flawless and her accent is to die for and so soothing
I've had a few moments where my self-sabotaging was hurting my thoughts and I started to worry and envelope panic attacks at everything. Bad grades? Worry. Skipped class? Worried about other people thinking I'm horrible for skipping class, etc. This work so well for grades, school, friends, problems etc. This quote saved me. "If a problem is fixable, if a situation is such that you can do something about it, then there's no need to worry. IF it's not fixable, there's no help in worrying"
I trust you feel better now 😍
I needed this, so many evil thoughts in my head, i m so scared of myself....against all of these i m gonna succes, i m gonna pay my living and go to singing lessons and get the help that i deserve, and get close to God more than ever....and nothing is gonna stop me not even myself
I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me!
I searched and watched 6 other videos but none gave me anything. This gave me hope. "I am great and I deserve greatness"
I am capable of completing what I started.
I am worthy of winning. 😩🤝💕
Im watching this & crying… because this is so true about myself. Self sabotage. Please keep these coming. It gives me so much hope & its an eye opener for me.
Sis!!! I can relate
I’ve been self sabotaging my own amazing relationship and now I know it’s because of my low self esteem, literally crying from this video because of how right you are
have i not commanded you ? be not dismayed nor discouraged for i am with you whenever you go.
Can we PLEASE get a makeup tutorial? My GOD you look stunning 😭🥰❤️
"not today Satan, you're under me" I will use this. Whenever I saw your videos after typing glow up videos I would air it or watch for like three minutes and leave but when I saw it today I said she's literally talking to me through just the thumbnail what is stopping me from clicking and Ive watched three videos ATP, taking notes. Binging on knowledge I could've so easily lost. You're bringing me closer to God in a time I almost gave up and you've helped give me a new mindset. I thank God He's using you in His ministry I'm 14 going 15 and the amount of insecurity the devil plagues me and my peers with whilst normalising it is just sad. Once again I do appreciate you and your message please don't stop 💞
Man im so happy I found your podcast. It has helped me really self reflect.
I really have a fear of failing to where I try but let self doubt will get the best of me. I am working my mindset and will not let these thought hinder my future!
i needed this, i tend to be shocked when good things happen to me. a phrase i would like to start incorporating is “i am deserving of good things in life”.
"You manage to sh*t on your own excellence." "You don't believe IN yourself, and you don't believe yourself."
Oooh, ouch! Girlfriend talks harsh...but truth. Thank you for sayin' it plain - opened my eyes to what my self-sabotage is really about. Btw, I'm procrastinating right now. * Sigh *
Breeny's strategy:
1. Confront the lies you tell yourself and write the truth
2. Become an encouraging voice in your mind and not a discouraging voice - #TeamYou
3. Get therapy to help identify the limiting beliefs
4. Create an auto-response - a phrase - in a kind voice, for when the negative feelings of anxiety, fear or dread come up.
She has no idea how helping this is for me and many people like me. Thank you so much for this beautiful content.
Thats true it felt like “wow”
I am so loved by God.
Nothing i do can ever separate me from his love.
I am valuable and honoured in his sight.
I am not forgotten ! I am not abandoned !
I am not my thoughts, feelings, desires, past, mistakes...i am a royal priesthood, a chosen generation, the apple of God's eyes. He loves me not bc of who I am or what I've done but bc of who He is !!!!!
I’m praying that you’re ok sweet sis. I don’t know why but you’ve come to mind severally the past two weeks. I pray that you’re thriving wherever God has you right now!! You’re so loved❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I am beautiful and beautifully made, I accept myself.
I am stronger than my feelings.
I can achieve my dreams, no matter the challenges that might stand between me and my dreams, I know I can do it!
Thank you for this message. I felt it on 10,000 levels. It’s time to live the life we deserve.
Breeny you uploaded here at the right time because this video is extremely relevant to what I'm going through. Thanks for your presence and word.
The pool in Dubai example isn't extreme. I tend to think the most outrageous things while having a good time and I stop the breaks mid thought because those negative thoughts aren't my thoughts!
Wow thank you for this, I needed it❤️❤️❤️ self sabotage has ruined so many things in my life but I’m ready to make the change and take charge in my life!
Oh dear. This came on the right day let me tell you Breeny.
When you said “ain’t shit funny!” I literally sat up straight in my chair ! Thanks so much.
I keep a note on my desk that I took last year from one of your videos and I quote
“ I gain when I give….I do not lose!” - Breenylee 💕5-4-2021
It’s the weight loss for me ❤️
Not me just spiraling and just seeing you up loaded 😭 tysm breeny 💓
You’ve dropped some serious insight & knowledge here, thank you! The way you broke this down from a deep subconscious psychological level, this video is on another level. As you level up, we have the chance to level up with you ✨
oh my oh my god like. i saw a clip of this on tt and holy shit i only started looking up self sabotage a week or so ago but damn.
like i can’t even say how much i self sabotage myself legit tearing myself apart so i am physically incapable of success. like it hurts ten times worse too when you know yourself so damn well you know what hurts the most etc. i worked so long for an opportunity and i got it. i got it. but i literally made myself incapable of giving it my all bc i hurt myself so badly that i couldn’t work for it.
for me working hard is literally me. more than opportunities and success, all i want right now is to be able to work hard towards the things i want.
The doom example you gave really hit home for me. I try to focus on the present moment instead. I recommend people to read about the stoics, or even the daily stoic to help with focusing.
wow! I will scroll for hours and hours to distract myself from my emotions or any pain I may be experiencing. I’ve let my toxic environment and trauma define me in such a negative way….. God led me to this video! thank you so much! God bless🤍
I happened up on your videos and this is the first one that I watched on self sabotage, which is what I was looking for. This is the most powerful video on self sabotage. Thank you.
I am capable of being successful and I deserve to progress in life.
Love how you look 😍 you inspire me
“You is kind, you is smart, you is important” - The Help Seriously the most touching thing I’ve seen in a movie. Such a feeling it gives my heart.
True words .Im in the learning Prozess. Broke up my toxic long relationship .i gave my best years.now 38 years no kid .now i learn steep by steep be good to myself.
i am a effective person that gets things done.
who is worthy of love.
who is worthy of patience and grace.
i will prevail.
I am worthy of experience good things in my life. I am strong enough to overcome any challenges and that come my way. I am love, light , and peace and never forget who you are.❤
Breeny is blessed. I am unlearning learn and relearning consistently from you. Gotta kick this foolishness outta me and be free. Thanks Breeny, following from Kenya
I love your content so much you would not believe! You have definitely helped inspire me to become a better person this year. I admit, I still don't love myself 100% yet, but I am getting there. I am learning my self-worth and what I stand for and your videos definitely help me recognize how I am a queen.
God bless you Breeny and may the Lord continue to inspire you to create new content and inspire your viewers to become better versions of themselves.
One other thing, can you make a video on how to view yourself as an adult when you've been infantilized by your parents for 20+ years. I am in my mid-20s and when someone refers to me as a woman, I feel weird inside. Like, I don't deserve that title, but I also get pissed on the inside when someone calls me a 'girl'. I generally just refer to myself as a lady because that seems like a good balance between the two. I know that what I just explained my sound stupid, but I guess that's just the effects of being infantilized for your whole life.
I loved your examples you used for the limiting belief exercise, I relate so much I wrote them down 😭 in this season of learning to love myself I've decided I'm going to commit to myself and start being on my own team instead of self-sabotaging and feeling powerless in my life. This video was just what I needed! 💛
I am deserving of love, connection and light. I am capable of receiving and giving love. I am capable to start and finish study sessions. I am fully believing that I can become rich. I am fully deserving of my success, my Yes and my No.
Your emotional intelligence is exceptional, Breeny. Thank you for sharing your insight and education with us.
This video came at the proper time. I am on a self love journey and I know I self sabotage. I just recently went through a tough break up and I’m determined to get myself back and better myself and my #1, better my relationship with God. Thank you for these beautiful reminders I needed to here and learning more in-depth about self sabotage.
My silent saying actually is scripture. Galatians 6:9 “let us not become weary in doing good” what I take from that is if Jesus bring you too it dwell in the good of the ending results, let not your heart be trouble when flesh starts to sabotage the goodness of your journey! Thank you for this message I definitely needed this reassurance! God is doing great things in you!
CAN WE GET A MAKEUP TUTORIAL ON THIS LOOK...WOOOOOW ..SIS THIS LOOK OMG 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
Do the internal work to resolve your inner conflicts
Thank you for the vid. I noticed a few months ago that there were a few instances in my life where I felt I had sabotaged an opportunity for myself, but I never understood what it was rooted in. You really hit home with the low self esteem because when I did commit some type of act of sabotage it was because I wasn’t secure in myself. I always felt out of place so I would quit...jobs, projects, school. I recently did it but the turn around to notice it was rather quick. Now I’m just trying to work on myself to where this does not continue to happen. ❤️💕
Self sabotage in my world is the fear of failures. Even when my desire is stronger than the fear I still have the thoughts.
Thank you Breeny! I can always count on your content to give me a an extra boost of confidence and motivation.. as requested my words to counter act negative thoughts will be “I am allowed to have good things happen for me because I deserve it” .
I haven’t watched breenys videos in ages n it’s SOO GOOD TO BE BACK! This video has my name on it
Thank you for ministering to me. I’m in therapy, I’m going through the healing process, but still found my self stuck in self sabotaging. I thank God for you and the way he used you this completely changed my life ❤️💯
I needed to hear this so much. That scripture and the imagery of the crashing waves is exactly what I experience in my mind. I hope God can see me trying but I know I’m the only one in my way.
Girl I’m about to watch this twice!!!
Same