how to: LEVEL UP (MENTALLY)

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  • Опубликовано: 12 янв 2025

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  • @BreenyLee
    @BreenyLee  6 лет назад +4950

    Thank you guys for watching. Please LIKE & SHARE so this message can reach more people who need to LEVEL UP!! 🗣️❤️

    • @sm16875
      @sm16875 6 лет назад +13

      Are you wearing contacts? If so, what brand and color is it from?

    • @louisbenhura
      @louisbenhura 6 лет назад +7

      Word !!!! that’s a word in season, Breeny 🙏🏾👍🏾

    • @paigec7975
      @paigec7975 6 лет назад +21

      Thank you for this!!, this came at a perfect time, recently just changed my number and all and now I’m ready to actually level up mentally, financially, physically.. and step into my purpose 🙌🏽🖤👏🏽

    • @amayaraymond4486
      @amayaraymond4486 6 лет назад +3

      Yasssss Breeny speaking the truth 🙌🏾

    • @naturalcooking525
      @naturalcooking525 6 лет назад +3

      yes please make more videos like this. I admire you so much.

  • @kekoakaawa8879
    @kekoakaawa8879 5 лет назад +3847

    “ If you reject me, then it’s meant to be...as long as God doesn’t reject me.”
    Brilliant

    • @animebarbie7680
      @animebarbie7680 4 года назад +17

      Amen ♥️🙏🏽

    • @candace6893
      @candace6893 4 года назад +12

      He’ll never! let us stop straying from Him!

    • @gloriapetreska4008
      @gloriapetreska4008 4 года назад +6

      Loved this! ♥️🙏🏽

    • @Anneceline123
      @Anneceline123 3 года назад +1

      ❤🤌🏾Amen

    • @annaann2910
      @annaann2910 3 года назад +3

      ...*** God💗 never rejects anybody ***💞***.... 😚

  • @elliedougherty7399
    @elliedougherty7399 5 лет назад +11940

    Lmao did RUclips suggest this because my FBI agent heard me crying

    • @thanamesny7807
      @thanamesny7807 5 лет назад +317

      I put tape over my camera bc I don't want the nsa man watching me to fall in love with me.

    • @hellasickbabey2286
      @hellasickbabey2286 5 лет назад +23

      Me too

    • @jasmineday994
      @jasmineday994 5 лет назад +105

      Lol yes !! I was just crying and this came up I’m like omg thank you God

    • @kadiesowa7681
      @kadiesowa7681 5 лет назад +21

      Lmao 😂

    • @stephaniepragnell7320
      @stephaniepragnell7320 5 лет назад +30

      Shit I had a bad day, never thought this wtf 😯

  • @thegenerouslifestyle8095
    @thegenerouslifestyle8095 4 года назад +3759

    “When you don’t know your worth, you allow other people to put their own pricetag on you”
    -T.D. Jakes

  • @TarotbyLayla
    @TarotbyLayla 3 года назад +1799

    “We accept the love we think we deserve”

  • @cocoshawnelle2451
    @cocoshawnelle2451 5 лет назад +2905

    “Know your value and then add tax” LOVE THAT lol

  • @artdaily5179
    @artdaily5179 5 лет назад +4197

    I had to pause this video and rethink my life

  • @xfaroutzx3637
    @xfaroutzx3637 6 лет назад +2241

    Dr Phil said it years ago “You teach people how to treat you” the way people treat you is a reflection of what you’ve permitted.

  • @lifewithabigail7777
    @lifewithabigail7777 3 года назад +974

    If you reject me, it's meant to be. As long as God don't reject me. I needed this sooo much Breeny Thank youu♡

  • @anaibanezzz
    @anaibanezzz 4 года назад +1960

    " KNOW YOUR VALUE AND THEN ADD TAX"

    • @LOVEbelOwable
      @LOVEbelOwable 4 года назад +6

      No one should put materialistic things & God together, this is not what Jesus would want. Repent for your sins & accept Christ into your lives before it's too late & "level up" the right way by building a relationship with Jesus & read your King James Version Bibles

    • @exudimoniia7671
      @exudimoniia7671 4 года назад +15

      @@LOVEbelOwable can you not bring god into everything?

    • @stella5926
      @stella5926 4 года назад +9

      @@LOVEbelOwable it's just an anology for self value. God would want us to practice self value 🤦‍♀️

    • @dianemary
      @dianemary 4 года назад +8

      @@LOVEbelOwable she isn’t talking about materialistic things in that sense. Also God would want us to be abundant and love/value ourselves WE ARE HIS CREATION. Watch the video and she says this in her own words. ☺️

    • @olivia9059
      @olivia9059 3 года назад +5

      @@exudimoniia7671 the RUclipsr literally brought God into this first...

  • @itsci
    @itsci 4 года назад +3690

    I feel like parents should talk more about this with their children and instill this in them often not just at the awkward phase.

    • @Anisha..Alayna
      @Anisha..Alayna 4 года назад +12

      I always say this💯💯💯💯💯

    • @severinec6221
      @severinec6221 4 года назад +24

      You are absolutely right! I do it to my boys. These things are not taught in schools.

    • @melmel7011
      @melmel7011 4 года назад +48

      I teach my daughter to do something because she actually wants too, not just to copy and please friends. I actually scold her when she changes her mind on something just to fit in or be liked by another person. She is young and doesn't understand what I'm trying to teach her but I know someday she will appreciate it.

    • @len1045678
      @len1045678 4 года назад +4

      I was saying the same exact thing too while watching this video

    • @ashleynichole1097
      @ashleynichole1097 4 года назад +3

      Exactly!! I shared this with my children

  • @natashaxnichole
    @natashaxnichole 6 лет назад +4022

    Girl this is the energy for ALL of 2019!

  • @healingforbrowngirls
    @healingforbrowngirls 2 года назад +259

    Leveling up is mental FIRST. When I first began my self love and healing journey I made a promise to myself that I would NEVER consciously allow another person to mistreat me ever again. "Know your worth then add tax!" And I've been TAXING 👏🏿

  • @breanna4930
    @breanna4930 6 лет назад +3547

    "I don't care who rejects me,as long as god doesn't reject me then I'm good"🙇💯

  • @charleechmielewski2441
    @charleechmielewski2441 4 года назад +1319

    "People will treat you, how you treat yourself" YES.

    • @Ms_essense
      @Ms_essense 4 года назад +3

      I felt that part deeply .

    • @LOVEbelOwable
      @LOVEbelOwable 4 года назад +8

      No one should put materialistic things & God together, this is not what Jesus would want. Repent for your sins & accept Christ into your lives before it's too late & "level up" the right way by building a relationship with Jesus & read your King James Version Bibles

    • @latoyiab79
      @latoyiab79 4 года назад

      @@LOVEbelOwable Amen

    • @adyjimipark7620
      @adyjimipark7620 4 года назад

      I'm 1k th like

  • @sharigetzfit6042
    @sharigetzfit6042 5 лет назад +1861

    You attract different types of people when your self value shifts. My dad always told me you attract what you feel about yourself. So so so true. Love yourself more than anyone else will ever love you..

    • @writerforlifeify
      @writerforlifeify 5 лет назад +51

      Simply put, you attract what you radiate.
      In LOA terms, you attract what you're a vibrational match for. Your external environment is only a reflection of your internal emotional landscape; on a moment to moment basis, your life is essentially showing you how you feel about yourself.

    • @lady56725
      @lady56725 5 лет назад

      Shari GetzFit period.

    • @jennifer3744
      @jennifer3744 5 лет назад +18

      That comment fucked me up and opened my eyes. I radiate negative energy that comes from a place of unhappiness and self hate. No wonder I attract so much negativity omg

    • @lovelydanielle7908
      @lovelydanielle7908 5 лет назад

      @@writerforlifeify >ini out hiujjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjuuuuuujjuuuujuujuuuuuuoi8g

    • @writerforlifeify
      @writerforlifeify 5 лет назад +11

      @@jennifer3744 If you constantly find yourself in the company of blamers-complainers, basically people bitching about everything under the sun, then that is your (external) signal confirming the drop in your own vibration (that's LOA speak for mood or energy). But when you find yourself among happy peeps, within earshot of positive conversations, you know that your own energy has shifted--your environment is reflecting the rise in your vibration. So get happy! Experiment. See what happens. Happiness is as much a choice as misery.

  • @7150zara
    @7150zara 11 месяцев назад +11

    Rewatching this after 5 years. We miss you Breeny❤

  • @color2066
    @color2066 5 лет назад +864

    “If you reject me, it’s meant to be” YES! This perspective is 11/10

  • @heartfeltgood
    @heartfeltgood 5 лет назад +1948

    I felt so worthless and this is what i needed to hear right in this moment

    • @aliciaparkes2573
      @aliciaparkes2573 5 лет назад +29

      heartfeltgood you’ve got this!! 🙏🏻✨

    • @DreamChaser415
      @DreamChaser415 5 лет назад +38

      Its work for some of us. Let's put in the work to feel worthy. I'm tired of feeling unworthy. We are worthy

    • @vanessaalayass5988
      @vanessaalayass5988 5 лет назад +11

      We are all worthyyyy guysssss!!!!!!!!!!!🔥

    • @FaithCruzito0508
      @FaithCruzito0508 4 года назад +2

      Stay strong keep fighting

    • @candace6893
      @candace6893 4 года назад +2

      God bless you! i need this as well!

  • @roseprints6795
    @roseprints6795 4 года назад +3318

    i’m watching this everyday until it sticks

    • @bxtchesmia_3842
      @bxtchesmia_3842 4 года назад +111

      roseprints that’s a good idea, I have a fucking bad problem facing rejection and caring too much about what people think

    • @officialbismah
      @officialbismah 4 года назад +33

      @@bxtchesmia_3842 Same here since I was 11 years old my friends took advantage of me till 16 now i am 17 and no one does because of what I did,I have realised what my kindness had did,When I stop being nice and giving a shit then I realised the girls around me started to respect me more,I set boundaries like "Don't force me to go out with you guys when I don't want to"."I'm not skipping class,My education is more important".I used to get ignored all the time when I spoke so when I sat down and stayed quiet for once,not being the fun me,just sitting there they would listen to me then I just realised to never force yourself just leave the friends you don't need anyone but yourself.
      I don't get taken advantage of anymore
      If you need anyone to talk to about it then drop your instagram we can talk about the issue.

    • @bxtchesmia_3842
      @bxtchesmia_3842 4 года назад +4

      Official_Bismah that’s good that u finally stood up for yourself and people were respecting you more and I actually don’t use Instagram but I use snap so

    • @roseprints6795
      @roseprints6795 4 года назад +9

      agitatedmarie _ i felt that i used to ALWAYS sell myself short and now people can’t even get a response out of me

    • @bxtchesmia_3842
      @bxtchesmia_3842 4 года назад

      roseprints wdym?

  • @Musiclove22178
    @Musiclove22178 Год назад +28

    “When you know your worth, you HAVE STANDARDS. YOU HAVE EXPECTATIONS.”
    This is very reassuring for me. Thank you!

  • @carleerose
    @carleerose 4 года назад +1495

    You aren’t arrogant at all, you just have self respect ❤️

  • @Milizxe
    @Milizxe 5 лет назад +1276

    "Know your value, and then add tax."
    "People will only do what you allow them to do."
    "People treat you how you treat yourself."

  • @beautifullykayla
    @beautifullykayla 4 года назад +1324

    I gave up porn, shaved my head, dyed it blonde, and started eating healthier. Definitely been leveling up since quarantine started😅

    • @akilasmith6063
      @akilasmith6063 4 года назад +115

      Wow, I like this. You are so disciplined.

    • @Ashaimanidoll
      @Ashaimanidoll 4 года назад +132

      Girl I been learning Spanish , and working on my flexibility for yoga 🦋

    • @Ashaimanidoll
      @Ashaimanidoll 4 года назад +98

      Oh and I turned vegan sis 🤣😂🦋

    • @theinfamousninapink
      @theinfamousninapink 4 года назад +40

      Get it girl 🙌🏾

    • @officialbismah
      @officialbismah 4 года назад +68

      Ive been doing exercise in the park,Making new friends online,getting to know myself by asking myself questions,eating healthier,learning spanish and how to sing hope it goes well for me

  • @paigebrooks1727
    @paigebrooks1727 3 года назад +76

    “I found my value in who wanted me” this hit HARD

  • @shiannemcpherson1836
    @shiannemcpherson1836 5 лет назад +1913

    I’m gonna watch this video every day for the rest of my life.

  • @rosariocampos6412
    @rosariocampos6412 5 лет назад +734

    World is suffering from low self-esteem, prayers they grow spiritually.

    • @summaiyarobi4915
      @summaiyarobi4915 5 лет назад +1

      So true it should be a prpr recognised disease

    • @wiktoriawabnyc
      @wiktoriawabnyc 4 года назад

      This is so true

    • @wiktoriawabnyc
      @wiktoriawabnyc 4 года назад +1

      Yes, that's why I created my channel to motivate others and help them gain confidence💕

  • @jsscflores66
    @jsscflores66 4 года назад +1814

    Whoever says , “that’s why you’re single”
    No , ma’am. I am single cause when the one that knows my value won’t try to get me on the cheap. Not everyone can afford me. 👏👏👏 I needed this. Yes, LORD.

    • @imchaerin418
      @imchaerin418 4 года назад +13

      Great mindset honey, kepp it going 💪💗

    • @user-kx1xu9xj9u
      @user-kx1xu9xj9u 4 года назад +9

      yes sis know your worth!💞💅🏾

    • @LOVEbelOwable
      @LOVEbelOwable 4 года назад +5

      No one should put materialistic things & God together, this is not what Jesus would want. Repent for your sins & accept Christ into your lives before it's too late & "level up" the right way by building a relationship with Jesus & read your King James Version Bibles

    • @checkmattee222
      @checkmattee222 4 года назад +1

      I have the same opinion boo.💆🏾‍♀️💕

    • @meineschnursenkel2092
      @meineschnursenkel2092 3 года назад +11

      @@LOVEbelOwable you think Jesus would want you to be treated like shit? The money thing is a metaphor, but i dont think God would be happy if you thought that you, His creation, were not worth anything

  • @sthenyanda3270
    @sthenyanda3270 3 года назад +228

    When she said, "I use to give myself to the highest bidder", I felt that! when she said "A" bidder... I re-lived it, all of the shame and guilt and worthlessness I felt everytime I allowed myself be played and clowed because I had no idea what I was worth ! Im still learning to know my worth and I'm so glad I started

    • @christset
      @christset 3 года назад +2

      Why do these people come in to your life? it's because they see your worth and they want to take your worth that u can't see and they wont tell u either. and this usually happens on a subconscious level . The moment u set boundaries, they will become upset then try to use emotional blackmail on you so as to turn u into a peoples pleaser but u must stand your ground and say NO . u wont feel good at first, but eventually u will , and your eyes will suddenly open and these same people will eventually fall in line. Eevery now and then the stubborn once will try and test u again but u must stick to your principle. People will come into your live with emotional black mail but always repel them with your principles, your principles should always remain the same .

    • @Daliciosoo
      @Daliciosoo 3 года назад +2

      @@christset thank you for your knowledge I love you I can’t wait to install this on my sister and nieces

    • @sthenyanda3270
      @sthenyanda3270 2 года назад

      @@christset It took me a while to get this response and it came at the perfect time. This week I'm being tested and somehow I decided to check my emails and this popped up. Thank you Chris for the reminder

    • @christset
      @christset 2 года назад

      @@sthenyanda3270 You're welcome, all glory be to God and breeny for talking about this.

    • @christset
      @christset 2 года назад +1

      ​@@sthenyanda3270You're welcome, all glory be to God and breeny for talking about this. Always set boundaries and have principles is what i do. something like " i am a country and these are my personal rules and principles and i control anybody that want to have access into my life" if u dont like my rules, stay away from me if u like my rules and principle then come into my country which is me .

  • @nikigracevlogs
    @nikigracevlogs 6 лет назад +3129

    The way you used the car analogy to show our self worth! It hit me hard still

    • @latoshastanfield5523
      @latoshastanfield5523 6 лет назад +3

      Yeah that was genius

    • @helenasoldevilla8208
      @helenasoldevilla8208 6 лет назад

      Q

    • @ANicoleTeacher
      @ANicoleTeacher 6 лет назад +8

      NikiGrace Vlogs I agree! I can’t wait to clean my car

    • @jenlotus17
      @jenlotus17 6 лет назад +6

      so true. the way we take care of things we love -we can take care of ourselves better and set boundaries.

    • @rossiethomas
      @rossiethomas 6 лет назад +2

      The same with me. Hit me hard as shit

  • @Yammie
    @Yammie 5 лет назад +682

    THEY 👏🏼DON’T 👏🏼GO👏🏼ON👏🏼SALE
    Coz they are worth what they are worth! SIMPLE

    • @Dina_Tolen
      @Dina_Tolen 5 лет назад

      - OYAMA BOTHA - Yeeessaaaaaaaaa👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @victoriaring3846
    @victoriaring3846 6 лет назад +1064

    Gal. I'm 69 yrs old and this is THE BEST advice !!!!

    • @manalsaadali
      @manalsaadali 6 лет назад +12

      I'll need you as a mentor in my life Victoria.

    • @thorisomolefe2276
      @thorisomolefe2276 6 лет назад +18

      Victoria Ring, if that's you in your picture, there's no way you're 69. You also seem like a really cool and amazing person, do you have a platform where you engage younger females because if you do, I'd really like to join and subscribe.

    • @BreenyLee
      @BreenyLee  6 лет назад +22

      Yes ma'am!! ❤️

    • @victoriaring3846
      @victoriaring3846 6 лет назад +14

      @@mrki731 That was totally uncalled for. Coward. Keyboard courage...... tells a lot about you.

    • @mrki731
      @mrki731 6 лет назад +1

      @@victoriaring3846 Okay sorry, I'm deleting my comment. Apologies. I just find this video such a lie and superficial.

  • @chloelameez5470
    @chloelameez5470 11 месяцев назад +6

    I watched this video 4 years ago when God was transitioning my life and it was definitely God sent. I came back to it today amazed at how important this video was. May God bless you abundantly Breeny 🙏🏼🫶🏼you’re touching nations

  • @JolieDea
    @JolieDea 6 лет назад +673

    I pray that this woman finds the man that she deserves 🙏🏾💖

    • @ariannymercedes8526
      @ariannymercedes8526 6 лет назад +7

      Jodie Bellot yes!!💘

    • @mystique4100
      @mystique4100 6 лет назад +8

      I cant wait to see it i love her

    • @susan7374
      @susan7374 6 лет назад +28

      If I'm a man, I would definitely go for her. Not because she is gorgeous (which she really is), but her energy that she emit to the world and kind enough to empower other people. A real man will not back off from a strong woman, he will support her in her life mission.😊

    • @sweetlove1eritrean279
      @sweetlove1eritrean279 6 лет назад +2

      Jodie Bellot amen

    • @Kassiusday
      @Kassiusday 6 лет назад +3

      Susan YES A TRUE MAN AND FULL OF CONFIDENCE AND GENEROSITY : in ancient EGYPT ( Pharaoh time ) MAN & WOMAN WERE SITTING AT THE SAME LEVEL !! It was matrimonial society and not patriarcal as everywhere today !!!

  • @Banana-gd6bv
    @Banana-gd6bv 4 года назад +1320

    PLEASE READ:
    Know your worth... learn your worth. Most of you guys may be motivated to truly value yourself, and that’s a great thing, but what most people dont understand is that it takes time and effort to do this. You can do this through JOURNALING. It really helps you face yourself and understand yourself so that you can understand your value
    TIPS for journaling:
    1. Write all your feelings and thoughts (be specific) and reflect on it after some time has past. It’s totally different when you read it again. You gain perspective on the actual situation.
    2. Through some time and reflecting you start to get to know and understand yourself more. When this time comes, define yourself. Because if you dont, you’ll start to believe people’s presumptions about you.
    - Define what true beauty is to you
    - Define what your priorities in life are
    - Define what you will and wont accept from others
    - Define the people you trust so you know who to turn to when you need true constructive criticism. It’s important to be wary of who you pick. It can either make or break you.
    - Define your beliefs and values, but still be open to learning new things.
    If you agree please like so more people can read this^^

  • @hannabrynildsen6999
    @hannabrynildsen6999 6 лет назад +354

    This is what i want my whole focus to be in 2019. To take care of my skin, hygien, hair etc. To start to dare dress up, learn how to do makeup and my hair. But more important to cleanse out all of those negative thoughts i have build about myself, and learn how to really love myself and find my own happiness. I want to feel happy, beautiful, sexy, strong and smart. I want to start to go out on more fun but also be happy with staying home with my cat drinking tea. I want to travel. I want to fall in love, with myself, with life, with others and with a good guy. Cause i deserve that. I really need to learn this, and i really need to learn that other people don't have to accept me for me to be good enough, and that my soul/ inside is what supposed to matter and shine even on the outside

    • @jasminewilson116
      @jasminewilson116 6 лет назад +14

      Hanna Brynildsen I love reading this, I have some similar requests and I pray it all works out for you as it will! Have a blessed New year ❤️

    • @tantilizing01
      @tantilizing01 6 лет назад +7

      You can do this Hanna, you deserve it!

    • @lindarie815
      @lindarie815 6 лет назад +4

      Yes luv! And 2019 is the perfect year to do it...all the best!

    • @kateystukalov3304
      @kateystukalov3304 6 лет назад +2

      Amen amen amen! These are some of my top resolutions as well! We are worth more than we will ever know by someone who died to know us

    • @jamilamckinnon8683
      @jamilamckinnon8683 6 лет назад +2

      100% feel this! 🙌🏾

  • @justinaikwen8481
    @justinaikwen8481 3 года назад +136

    I have been struggling with low self-esteem for years, seeing this video lecture has changed my perception about myself. Self respect is key.

  • @GimmickMemes
    @GimmickMemes 5 лет назад +255

    "Oh you like me? Okay well what do you have to offer?" *damn* how the tables have turned

  • @RubenWhitter
    @RubenWhitter 4 года назад +744

    They're not trying to get average people to buy it. I needed this.

    • @iretiolaadeleke219
      @iretiolaadeleke219 4 года назад +3

      Some will argue that the social media empowers… What are your thoughts? WATCH THIS TOO!!
      ruclips.net/video/G4PguTjEvkE/видео.html

  • @SkittleStripedZebra
    @SkittleStripedZebra 4 года назад +593

    "People will treat you how you treat yourself." A sentence has never hit so hard with me. That's just changed my perspective on everything.

    • @catalinamartinezveloso6064
      @catalinamartinezveloso6064 3 года назад +8

      @Mistake Maker that's because you must be a good person and confident. But insecure and mean people doesn't think that way, they will look for another insecure person to feel better about themselves.

  • @hindwidad2723
    @hindwidad2723 2 года назад +72

    You are so right. I've been in relationships where I accepted the bare minimum because I didn't know my worth. I'm slowly realizing what I deserve and that it would be an honor to be with me. Not because I'm arrogant but because I am a good person with so much to offer. I refuse to settle for less. I have a way to go but I know I will get there. 😌 New subscriber right here!

  • @mrxanderboy
    @mrxanderboy 4 года назад +667

    And I'm here a year later. You really changed my life in a good way. I have lost weight and leveled up. I also learned how to value myself. Thank you

    • @allasondracamacho411
      @allasondracamacho411 4 года назад +19

      Omg that’s so good !! Same girl ❤️ keep it going !!

    • @ImJustMarye
      @ImJustMarye 4 года назад +11

      Yesss this touched my whole soul today 💛

    • @LOVEbelOwable
      @LOVEbelOwable 4 года назад

      No one should put materialistic things & God together, this is not what Jesus would want. Repent for your sins & accept Christ into your lives before it's too late & "level up" the right way by building a relationship with Jesus & read your King James Version Bibles

  • @christina-qo6bg
    @christina-qo6bg 5 лет назад +462

    Because luxury brands don‘t go on sale ... omg perfect example🙌🏽

  • @siphesihlenkosi3894
    @siphesihlenkosi3894 5 лет назад +567

    I literally got out of a shitty relationship a few hours ago.. then I came across this video, literally confirming that I made the right choice. I stopped selling myself short and it’s great to hear someone else say, yes girl! That’s right!

  • @blaiserianne5055
    @blaiserianne5055 3 года назад +95

    You just changed my whole perspective on life.

  • @teaireab6503
    @teaireab6503 6 лет назад +387

    "People will Treat you how you TREAT YOURSELF"...on that note Let the Leveling up process BEGIN!!👸👏👏

    • @beautyinthedark7406
      @beautyinthedark7406 6 лет назад

      Teairea Boles 2019🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾😎

    • @corinaweber9014
      @corinaweber9014 6 лет назад

      YES!!!!!💐🌸💮🌹🌺🌻🌼🌷

    • @ruthextra5
      @ruthextra5 6 лет назад +1

      Teairea Boles sorry can’t agree because because people treat you the way they want to treat you not the way that you treat yourself they treat you the way that you allow them to get away with it has nothing to do with how they feel about you or how you feel about yourself is how they feel about themselves that reflects how they treat you I had to learn that the hard way

    • @Kendra_KG
      @Kendra_KG 6 лет назад

      Thank you! 🙌🏾

  • @AshleyMadisonsRight
    @AshleyMadisonsRight 6 лет назад +3171

    Who else feeling 2019 gonna be a good one?

    • @ginab464
      @ginab464 6 лет назад +7

      👏🏾

    • @swankyari
      @swankyari 6 лет назад +6

      😯🙋

    • @latoyagriffin1410
      @latoyagriffin1410 6 лет назад +18

      Yes, indeed! I'm ready to dive into even more of a self-improvement journey. I started veganism this year but I kinda slipped off the wagon. But I will do it strictly with more sleep and exercise as well as do a career change with getting into Real Estate. It's definitely all about me!

    • @ghanagirl2763
      @ghanagirl2763 6 лет назад +5

      whoop whoop

    • @lixiaji4646
      @lixiaji4646 6 лет назад +4

      Meee

  • @agdollsnikki
    @agdollsnikki 5 лет назад +2356

    love how she includes God in it

    • @youthuprise3883
      @youthuprise3883 5 лет назад +22

      That part...💡

    • @Bigblackdad83
      @Bigblackdad83 5 лет назад +9

      Yess💞💞

    • @ieh451
      @ieh451 5 лет назад +35

      I hate that. I didn't click on the video because i wanted to hear about God. I'd be going to church then..

    • @angelaknox
      @angelaknox 5 лет назад +5

      Me too :)

    • @stellarstar9340
      @stellarstar9340 5 лет назад +6

      Nic totally!! Same! 👌🏻🙋🏻‍♀️🤗💓💞🙏🏻😇👏🏻👍🏻💯🌟💖🥰🙌🏻😊✨❣️‼️❣️

  • @soklysim2689
    @soklysim2689 2 года назад +78

    Here 3 years after this has been posted. Needed to let you know you’re helping so many people on this earth with this video, it’s timeless. 💗 I need this to start my day. THANK YOU.

  • @priscillaxsafi
    @priscillaxsafi 6 лет назад +294

    I don’t think you understand how I AM GRATEFUL FOR YOU AND YOUR CHANNEL..... thank you for being you

  • @hzlkelly
    @hzlkelly 4 года назад +1864

    God wanted me to discover this channel because my future husband is meeting a levelled up woman

    • @Itismytime-Amen
      @Itismytime-Amen 4 года назад +24

      Amen!! I’m with you on this!!

    • @jessicasurvivor1768
      @jessicasurvivor1768 4 года назад +10

      You are more than a level up woman. She’s just an option for entertainment.

    • @lalayatem3758
      @lalayatem3758 3 года назад +7

      Amen! God’s will be done!

    • @Phoenixqueen_26
      @Phoenixqueen_26 3 года назад +4

      I love this comment soo much ❤️❤️😭

    • @nawal8155
      @nawal8155 3 года назад +1

      @@Phoenixqueen_26 same it touched sum

  • @stratonchallenga1185
    @stratonchallenga1185 5 лет назад +259

    "why are you surprised when someone tell you,you are gorgeous"...I love this part 🤝

  • @jasmineslayyyter
    @jasmineslayyyter Год назад +13

    “If you reject me, it was meant to be.” The way the Holy Spirit confirmed my fear of rejection with that truth!! ❤

  • @Rosie1255
    @Rosie1255 5 лет назад +186

    A guy ghosted me today and this is exactly what I needed to hear again. Thank you for not wasting my time and making room for the person who deserves to be there

    • @artsyhyd
      @artsyhyd 5 лет назад +11

      Rosie1255 be strong! I was being ghosted too but I reminded myself of my worth and ignoring him completely. We should be grateful that the trash took itself out, so we didn’t have to do the dirty work.

  • @melissenaozoguz5461
    @melissenaozoguz5461 5 лет назад +232

    'When you don't know how much you are worth, you will sell yourself cheap.'

  • @Roseyyyyyyyyyyyyy
    @Roseyyyyyyyyyyyyy 6 лет назад +344

    *You can’t have self-worth and self-value and still want to be liked by everybody!*
    *Know your worth and add tax to it!* 💅🏾💅🏾💅🏾💅🏾💅🏾💅🏾💅🏾💃🏾💅🏾💅🏾💅🏾💅🏾
    This video is right on time! Thank you so much!

    • @prettygorgeous7989
      @prettygorgeous7989 6 лет назад +3

      Rosey Florestal facts

    • @evamaria644
      @evamaria644 6 лет назад +11

      It is a Christmas gift to you young ladies and a good confirmation for us older women. If you follow the word of God especially proverbs then you will automatically level up. However, It is very lonely at the top because of so many women who are selling themselves at bargain basement prices.

    • @Roseyyyyyyyyyyyyy
      @Roseyyyyyyyyyyyyy 6 лет назад +2

      Marie Evans Thank you so much!!! I will read the book of Proverbs! ❤️ God bless!

    • @trendytees2542
      @trendytees2542 6 лет назад +1

      People pleases always suffer big time. Cause they compromise a lot to make the world love them.

    • @estherbeamsforaballad3342
      @estherbeamsforaballad3342 5 лет назад +1

      @@evamaria644 wise words. "If you follow the word of God, especially Proverbs, then you'll automatically level up". OMG! I'm glad I scrolled through the comments and saw yours. That was such a straight forward revelation, the way you put it. As Christians, sometimes we take the bible for granted but the gems we find on those occasions we read, you just reminded me but in a more focused way. Will start reading again asap thank you ❤

  • @ninaaaaishere
    @ninaaaaishere 3 года назад +400

    Not a big believer in the Christian god. However, the message and impact still remains. Thank you.

    • @Jennifer_177
      @Jennifer_177 3 года назад +15

      Jesus loves you

    • @pastelpinksparrow9436
      @pastelpinksparrow9436 3 года назад +1

      Christian God is the same as Muslim and Jewish except they also worship Jesus

    • @leahluvvanderson3131
      @leahluvvanderson3131 3 года назад +24

      @@pastelpinksparrow9436 No we actually believe Jesus is God. We believe God is three persons in one God. Jesus, the Father, and the Holy Spirit. So it’s not the same.

    • @pastelpinksparrow9436
      @pastelpinksparrow9436 3 года назад +6

      @@leahluvvanderson3131 3 Gods in 1 God? But that makes absolutely no sense unless God has multiple personality disorder.

    • @leahluvvanderson3131
      @leahluvvanderson3131 3 года назад +30

      @@pastelpinksparrow9436 God isn’t like us. How God operates he is supernatural literally meaning above the natural. Our logic and laws do not apply directly to Him. He created the earthly realm but He resides in the heavenly realm. This life is not just physical but it is also spiritual. This is why I say God doesn’t operate the same way we do. What we see as foolish is actually wisdom from God because it is above our natural laws and way of thinking.

  • @Aynahssti
    @Aynahssti 4 года назад +665

    I’m sitting here judging myself for staying up late on RUclips when I could be drawing out business plans.... and then I come across this video. I know I’ve grown because I was able to listen to this message and be receptive of it. I did not block out the reality and let the devil win! If you’re reading this, YOU got this girl💪🏽💕

    • @iretiolaadeleke219
      @iretiolaadeleke219 4 года назад

      Some will argue that the social media empowers… What are your thoughts? WATCH THIS TOO!!
      ruclips.net/video/G4PguTjEvkE/видео.html

    • @saltemosalinfiito
      @saltemosalinfiito 4 года назад

      Thank you for this commentttt :) god bless you

    • @terenceambang
      @terenceambang 4 года назад

      ur beautiful

    • @shylosymone3714
      @shylosymone3714 3 года назад

      Good vibes to you and yours as well sister-Queen!!

  • @angelaadamson-lowe89
    @angelaadamson-lowe89 6 лет назад +144

    ....when I raised the bar and set clear boundaries, all of my so called friends disappeared...Good!!

    • @gabbyshantous8149
      @gabbyshantous8149 6 лет назад +13

      Angela Adamson-Lowe had the same thing happen to me 😂 my best friend of 10 years got upset because I would no longer allow her to emotionally drain me with all of her problems

    • @kstarrify
      @kstarrify 6 лет назад +2

      wth??..yeah they vanish like ninjas in a cloud of smoke....that sucks too. I kinda had that happen and I dont think I intentionally offended anyone. Smh

    • @kstarrify
      @kstarrify 6 лет назад

      @@gabbyshantous8149
      Same thing here...but you know what they try to come back so be ready..

    • @angelaadamson-lowe89
      @angelaadamson-lowe89 6 лет назад +2

      @@kstarrify yes they do. Try come back through the back door but they'll try to be slick with their phuckery this time coz they now know you're woke. Slam the door again on them and for good.

    • @kstarrify
      @kstarrify 6 лет назад +2

      @@angelaadamson-lowe89
      Facts!..see you at the top sis

  • @Jetyfrancis
    @Jetyfrancis 5 лет назад +583

    Know your worth.....then add local and Federal Taxes, Shipping and Handling, Cancellation and Processing Fees.....
    Love you 😘 from Costa Rica.

    • @mavis5949
      @mavis5949 5 лет назад +16

      🤣🤣🤣🤣cancellation fees tooo?? Come on!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤧

    • @xmangel6052
      @xmangel6052 5 лет назад +2

      You're from Costa Rica??! Eres Tica? Me too... yo tambien. Un Tico viviendo en California, EEUU. And Jety, you're beautiful! ❤️ yo me enamoro de Morenas/Negritas... ❤️❤️ Me encantan...

    • @katdesignsstar9286
      @katdesignsstar9286 5 лет назад

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Jetyfrancis
      @Jetyfrancis 5 лет назад +1

      @@mavis5949 Lol.....donot let no one ways your time.....

    • @mavis5949
      @mavis5949 5 лет назад +1

      Jety True!😆

  • @femmelle
    @femmelle Год назад +3

    No you don’t understand. I had this in my watch later list. I decided to sit and wait in the car while my brother ran in. You hit my soul a few times it brought tears to my eyes BECAUSE IM GOING THROUGH my spiritual awakening with God. Like the way it’s snowing outside and I’m in a car, you’re in a car. I watched it to the very last minute. Perfect timing for my brothers return. Completely meant to be. Thank you for this video and for you. I wish you all the best ❤

  • @forever6606
    @forever6606 5 лет назад +247

    "We only accept the love we think we deserve "

    • @j.sadness3516
      @j.sadness3516 4 года назад +2

      - The Perks of Being a Wallflower

    • @Th3lite
      @Th3lite 4 года назад +1

      Truth.

  • @justinebullner5645
    @justinebullner5645 4 года назад +359

    "People will only do what you allow them to do" - damn!!!

  • @mosman3486
    @mosman3486 4 года назад +69

    If there is no enemy within, The enemy outside can’t do no harm......

  • @lolarobinson1451
    @lolarobinson1451 3 года назад +65

    We'll said.... Young women all over should hear this message, " know your worth", I tell my daughter that all the time, don't waste your time with people who are not worthy of being in your space.

  • @kianaamari4082
    @kianaamari4082 5 лет назад +740

    “As long as God doesn’t reject me, I will always be good” say that then boo!!

    • @simonngatia7454
      @simonngatia7454 5 лет назад +2

      Exactly

    • @jihane9738
      @jihane9738 5 лет назад +8

      god does never reject us he's the most merciful the most forgiving just return to him whenever you feel lost and he'll show you your way

    • @jennifersmith4757
      @jennifersmith4757 5 лет назад +2

      Me too!! Speak truth Sis🙌

    • @maeva7509
      @maeva7509 4 года назад

      And he will never reject her :)

  • @CurlyProverbz
    @CurlyProverbz 6 лет назад +207

    Know your worth and then add tax! Yes sis preach....

  • @abrahamherzl9904
    @abrahamherzl9904 5 лет назад +220

    "Self worth problems come from feering rejection" imma keep that in mind from now on 👌👌

  • @breana3575
    @breana3575 3 года назад +35

    I prayed that God would give me direction. I was accepting the bare minimum and so lost and i stumbled upon this video. Thank you for letting the Lords words shine through you!! I know my worth, and I’m adding tax ✨✨ to us Queens!

  • @chilandomuyaule301
    @chilandomuyaule301 5 лет назад +422

    The universe is really trying to communicate something to me. “Biss, Boss up”

    • @gimusic5047
      @gimusic5047 5 лет назад +4

      Chilando Muyaule Lol, God is using her incredibly right?! Amazing video.

    • @stephaniegonzalez51
      @stephaniegonzalez51 4 года назад

      @@gimusic5047 PERIOD

  • @mariannimoh9514
    @mariannimoh9514 6 лет назад +245

    I really like this girl. God seriously brought this girl to my page today. As women, we all need to strive for the best. Be very strong and independent and spoil ourselves. Be independent but dependent of God alone. This is the best way that I think God has to end my year. LOL. Writing this in my journal. I love this girl. I hope she does more talk about God and drawing close to him and getting our worth and value from him. This generation needs to hear it

    • @talandrawheelington6735
      @talandrawheelington6735 6 лет назад +8

      Marian Nimoh
      I'm working on my relationship with the most high, it's steady and I'm moving forward.. thanks for the advice. I like her doe.. she seems down to earth with a funny cool girl personality. I can dig it!

    • @asiaanderson1900
      @asiaanderson1900 6 лет назад

      Yes sister, I’m totally in agreeance with you, this message is literally right on time!

    • @patricia3578
      @patricia3578 6 лет назад

      Amen

  • @imjennzee
    @imjennzee 4 года назад +955

    Just Sharing What I've Learned :)
    1. Know your value, know your worth. LV doesn't go on sale. Chanel doesn't go on sale. Know your value and add tax!
    2. People always want to get a discount. E.g. When you're buying a car, oh there's a scratch here, model is kinda old etc. If you don't know your own value and what you can bring to the table, you will believe them and downplay yourself.
    3. People will treat you the way you treat yourself and by the standards and boundaries you have set. E.g. The way you maintain your car and when you communicate clearly to them no eating in my car. They will look around and see what you tolerate and what you accept and follow suit.
    4. Not everyone is going to like you. Your gates don't have to be open to everybody. You only let a few people in to your circle, after they have proved that they are worthy of your love and attention. You are not desperate to have people like you.

  • @wellingtonramsey8499
    @wellingtonramsey8499 Месяц назад +2

    5 Years later and this is still meaningful.

  • @davidmoore5004
    @davidmoore5004 5 лет назад +208

    I'm a guy and I'm blown away by her confidence I needed this thank you!

  • @nunubian9419
    @nunubian9419 5 лет назад +346

    Lol girl I've been single for 8 years because of standards and im happy with that, I dated several people but never committed cuz i know my worth and what i can offer. I always say ”ill stay single for another 8 years if i have to, im not accepting just anybody”. I feel like its nothing wrong with being single, to know what love is and how to receive/ give it you have fully love yourself. The best kind of love is self-love and self-care.

    • @charlenedeshazier1414
      @charlenedeshazier1414 5 лет назад

      Nu Nubian best comment in this section 💯 this mindset will never fail you & at the end of the day you’re HAPPY! It’s ok to be by yourself.

    • @Shtotagdetotryot1
      @Shtotagdetotryot1 5 лет назад +4

      I’m single and I don’t mind being single for the rest of my life. I have standards and I know my value and no man is allowed into my heart until he meets them PERIOD

    • @stinewatson3875
      @stinewatson3875 5 лет назад +2

      @@Shtotagdetotryot1 same i have been single my whole life and i have very high standards. ur valuable and dont let ANY man treat you any less than a queen

    • @gummypoppa
      @gummypoppa 5 лет назад

      Honestly I have never had the “need” to date somebody, never thought about it, never cared really. I like meeting new people, connecting with them, making friends and all that but never really cared about a partner for life. I don’t know if this is weird or not but I don’t really care to be honest. lol

  • @hollygamble15
    @hollygamble15 6 лет назад +473

    I was so depressed and felt suicidal because of how little value I applied to myself today. I REALLY needed this so much, thank you! I feel better tonight. I let someone mistreat me last night and this video helped remind me that this person has no place in my life any longer for this. I appreciate the beautiful energy you're putting out into this beautiful world.

    • @17thUnicorn
      @17thUnicorn 6 лет назад +16

      Warm hugs:)

    • @JamaicanQueen876
      @JamaicanQueen876 6 лет назад +9

      I feel u love..been there... we need to level up...know ur value and add tax...nuff luv and big hugs

    • @Authoritygirl
      @Authoritygirl 6 лет назад +7

      Sending love your way! ❤️❤️❤️🤗

    • @kajahdias8902
      @kajahdias8902 6 лет назад +7

      god bless you

    • @MiriamKay
      @MiriamKay 6 лет назад +7

      I can only imagine what you are going through but please don't let this situation break you. You are worthy and deserving of greatness so please don't give up.

  • @Maya-lc3ob
    @Maya-lc3ob 3 года назад +18

    Thank you for sharing this video. I believe God enabled me to watch it for a reason. As a Muslim, it’s inspiring to be reminded that our worth comes from the creator not the creation.

  • @nadiag366
    @nadiag366 5 лет назад +152

    "You dont have to be open to everyone, your gates dont have to be open to everybody.. boundaries keep you protected.." 🔥👏⚡

  • @tabblowe
    @tabblowe 6 лет назад +183

    When you mentioned self worth with luxury items. I almost ran.😂 PREACH SIS!

    • @candicerenee94
      @candicerenee94 6 лет назад +1

      She Moves With Grace hello !!!😭🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽❤️

  • @michaelaharrell9590
    @michaelaharrell9590 6 лет назад +178

    “Know your worth, then add tax” best thing I’ve ever heard! So amazing thank you!❤️❤️

  • @JMeyer1112
    @JMeyer1112 3 года назад +5

    I agree with you 100 percent I also believe that as a woman its important not only to have boundaries but also to deny access to you. Ladies some people dont deserve your love and kindness. Thoughs who do will show it

  • @tracybby00
    @tracybby00 5 лет назад +469

    I just left my boyfriend of 5 years who was cheating on me during our whole relationship . I don’t know how this video popped up on RUclips but wow I really needed to hear this . I was regretting leaving him but I know my worth

    • @bella-dd8fe
      @bella-dd8fe 5 лет назад +3

      Tracy Andino I’m so sorry gurl that must hurt. Have a gentle loving relationship and love your own and life your own life💕

    • @hannahmichelle3381
      @hannahmichelle3381 5 лет назад

      What was his astrology sign, just curious lol

    • @tracybby00
      @tracybby00 5 лет назад +1

      Hannah Michelle Sagittarius

    • @hannahmichelle3381
      @hannahmichelle3381 5 лет назад +3

      Tracy Andino that explains a lottttttt don’t date one again 🥺

    • @tayagayle6724
      @tayagayle6724 5 лет назад +1

      Tracy Andino good for you girl. Stay strong ❤️.

  • @SaharaAP
    @SaharaAP 6 лет назад +537

    I'm getting a Naomi Campbell vibe. Im loving it!!!

    • @puller10mill62
      @puller10mill62 6 лет назад +3

      Sahara AP Exactly!

    • @lacykate1294
      @lacykate1294 6 лет назад +12

      This woman looks leaps and bounds more aware of her worth than any celebrity I’ve ever seen in my 32 years !

    • @majojo9598
      @majojo9598 6 лет назад +2

      Ryt in the beginning i thought it was Naomi

    • @kabrinabell8037
      @kabrinabell8037 5 лет назад

      Yassss😍

  • @jeancrown5524
    @jeancrown5524 5 лет назад +362

    When you said boundaries keep you protected and then linked the bible verse: "Guard your heart above all" Proverbs 4:23, this was anointed, real talk...impressive

  • @josieandchristian
    @josieandchristian 3 года назад +9

    It’s 1:30 in the morning and I just hopped out the shower in my feelings feeling down on myself . Lately I’ve been slipping I self sabotage so much coming in here and hearing this message helped me stop crying and feeling worthless thank you for reminding me I am God’s daughter .

  • @Kayla_Sage
    @Kayla_Sage 6 лет назад +937

    Last year i tried to commit suicide. I’ve really come a long way! ❤️i now know my worth and value. Enough is enough! I don’t know who needs this, but pick your head up and make a change in yourself! It’s time to be happy!💘 much love

    • @F0reverblessed
      @F0reverblessed 6 лет назад +7

      Kayla Simms Absolutely! Am glad you realized your value! You are enough 💕

    • @stargazerlilly608
      @stargazerlilly608 5 лет назад +9

      I’m glad you’re here. 🥰💕

    • @Itsadivinething
      @Itsadivinething 5 лет назад +4

      Kayla Simms glad you are still here ❤️

    • @SacramentalASMR
      @SacramentalASMR 5 лет назад +12

      I'm battling with this state of mind rn, but I'm trying to push through. This gives me hope. Thank you for sharing your story.

    • @annikapeglow4225
      @annikapeglow4225 5 лет назад +3

      Kayla Simms so good that you are here ❤️ you are beautiful and strong! Keep going and lots of love ❤️

  • @sammshots
    @sammshots 5 лет назад +387

    "know your value and then add tax" damn i never thought to add tax to my worth, imma start doin that LOLOL

  • @Ramathalove
    @Ramathalove 6 лет назад +352

    Please do more of these video, I am at a stage of my life where I am cutting a lot of people out and wanting to build a relationship with God and learn about who I AM

  • @HeyItsMaori
    @HeyItsMaori 3 года назад +79

    I love the car analogies. Thank you for always bringing God into the conversation.

  • @aloroha
    @aloroha 5 лет назад +316

    I'm going to listen to this everyday until it sticks in my subconscious

    • @anatatulescu3067
      @anatatulescu3067 5 лет назад +8

      Aly listen to it while you sleep it’s like a short cut it’ll take a few weeks If ur brains not stubborn ✨✨✨

  • @MooseElectric
    @MooseElectric 5 лет назад +255

    I’ve said “PERIODT” at least 500 times watching this

  • @aishahjaved3949
    @aishahjaved3949 6 лет назад +458

    This made me cryyy! In a good way! Im getting over a breakup. He lost interest in me. I loved him with everything i had. Its time to value myself.

    • @F0reverblessed
      @F0reverblessed 5 лет назад +40

      Aishah Javed Yes! It’s time to focus on yourself and remember the lack of him recognizing your value does not take away anything from you! ❤️

    • @duniaassad695
      @duniaassad695 5 лет назад +14

      Girl he's the one who loss u remember that not u who lost him

    • @happylindsay4475
      @happylindsay4475 5 лет назад +1

      @@duniaassad695 Amen sis!

    • @05NismoGirl
      @05NismoGirl 5 лет назад +10

      Girl, same!!! I feel you on this, but it's his loss, not ours. He'll never find someone like you, and he will search for it. Trust!

    • @aishahjaved3949
      @aishahjaved3949 5 лет назад +1

      @@05NismoGirl thank you so much for the support!

  • @Elizabeth-mf3dn
    @Elizabeth-mf3dn 2 года назад +9

    Breeny, I remember watching this video when I was unemployed after losing my design job during lockdown and now I’ve been almost a year at my new job making the most money out of all of my siblings at this age ❤ God will answer your prayers if you do your part and believe in yourself

  • @meep_111
    @meep_111 6 лет назад +401

    what you tolerate, you get more of.

  • @ashsparkle4283
    @ashsparkle4283 6 лет назад +496

    Literally was crying my eyes out a while ago over a boy who probably isn't even bothered....I don't know my worth or value. I'm always so insecure and don't know myself or worth. I can't even accept compliments, when I get them I want to cry because I don't believe them. I really needed this video Soo much!!! Thank you, thank you, Thank you!! I liked and subscribed! I'm totally watching this again and checking out your other videos. Much love and respect 💕💕💕

    • @julrid_8170
      @julrid_8170 6 лет назад +15

      Girl I know this feeeling! I finally called out this guy who would just hmu whenever he was in town to fuck, and he was like “whaaa? I would never! We’re friends!”
      And then he stopped talking to me, lol. It felt good to finally tell myself to stop and stand up for myself.

    • @GoldenGraham25
      @GoldenGraham25 6 лет назад +18

      Heal that broken little girl in you. Go back to the beginning. Confront those fears. Pray for wisdom and guidance daily. The journey will be tough, lonely, and revealing.... but you will understand your purpose and power in God. I also suggest celibacy if you've been sexually active. Start with a set goal. You'll be able to detect and stand up to BS. Create new standards. List the things that hurt you, things you'll no longer accept (from people, in general/ and relationships). Write down characteristics you want to see in yourself as a woman in the future.
      For me, I want to be: FULL of wisdom (that comes straight from God) Courageous in the midst of struggle, comforting/loving...., FUN.... I don't want to be so uptight in life. I want my spirit to be light (for myself and others), knowledgable and studious (a teacher to my loved ones and community). I want to make a difference in the lives of those I encounter. I don't want to be angry/vengeful/etc. I want people to know that I don't accept BS. I'm honest and caring. I expect the same or I will release you. To experience my presence is a blessing. Not because of who I am but because God is with me when I enter the room.

    • @christysmith8204
      @christysmith8204 6 лет назад +1

      Julrid _ you’re worth is so much more than that “in town to fuck” boy.

    • @mzsweetlips1
      @mzsweetlips1 6 лет назад +1

      I am going through the SAME THING we got this love..

    • @SharlenesJourney
      @SharlenesJourney 6 лет назад

      Me too !!!

  • @isic71
    @isic71 5 месяцев назад +2

    I come back to this video every year as a reminder

  • @skymccreless8716
    @skymccreless8716 5 лет назад +302

    This is the realest shit, I've ever heard. The way you speak, just motivates me to focus on myself. Thank-you so much.

  • @aliyahlarose6152
    @aliyahlarose6152 6 лет назад +70

    -people will only do what you allow them to do. This is accurate!

  • @amechimogekwu4735
    @amechimogekwu4735 6 лет назад +187

    I swear it was when i started to know my worth was the time that God showed me my soul mate.....women really need to learn this ..thanks a lot Sis for this 😘

    • @thiery1417
      @thiery1417 6 лет назад +12

      Amechi Mogekwu Everyone, and I mean everyone needs to know their worth, not just the ladies. Our ‘brown skinned’ young men desperately need to learn this especially in a world that hates the brown skinned man.
      Btw, there is no such thing as a soul mate. A partner is only as good as he continues to care and provide for you and as long as you look beautiful and desirable to him. You managed to attract AND keep that man because him and other men were attracted by your new confidence and femininity That ‘cocktail’ will always draw in men like bees to honey :)
      Only Christ is your ‘soul mate’ fir life! He is the ONLY man who will NEVER leave nor forsake you for a prettier or younger woman when you are old. Now that’s what EVERY woman needs to know.

    • @freedom123-j8j
      @freedom123-j8j 6 лет назад +2

      @@thiery1417 very well said👏

  • @SharkWitchMeruna
    @SharkWitchMeruna 2 года назад +3

    Been on a mental health journey and getting a dog for me has been a huge help. Mostly bc they’re better than men and love us regardless. She makes me want to be better. Like the quote “Be the person your dog thinks you are.” 💙