NEVER LOOK FRUMPY AGAIN: How To Avoid THESE Common Modesty PITFALLS! 😱

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  • Опубликовано: 30 ноя 2022
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    Hello classic crew and welcome to today's video! Today, I'm sharing four common modesty mistakes people make and how YOU can avoid them. I'd love to hear your thoughts, so leave a comment down below!
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Комментарии • 68

  • @traingirl09
    @traingirl09 Год назад +82

    Edith Head said it best, "Your dresses should be tight enough to show you're a woman and loose enough to show you're a lady." Yes!! I fully agree that you can dress modestly, still look attractive, and put together! Dressing modestly does not look like you are look like you are a floating trash bag! Thank you for addressing this since I have heard some people think that dressing modestly means you look boring! So, not the truth! Great video, Abby!

    • @Amourbeauty_mua
      @Amourbeauty_mua 10 месяцев назад

      Yes never look boring and Dowdy

    • @traingirl09
      @traingirl09 10 месяцев назад +1

      @@Amourbeauty_mua, "Yes, never look boring and dowdy." There, I autocorrected for you! You're welcome! 🙂

  • @edbl8356
    @edbl8356 Год назад +13

    Pinterest is honestly great for me getting ideas for modest clothing

  • @munchkinlk83
    @munchkinlk83 Год назад +15

    Thank you! I struggle with this and it's difficult to find great outfits that are nice but not frumpy...or too revealing.

  • @suominainen707
    @suominainen707 Год назад +12

    I would LOVE if you would share links to clothes. It is so difficult to find modest tops and dresses.

  • @kyrawoodruff2344
    @kyrawoodruff2344 Год назад +32

    To add to this, if you really want to understand your body and know what looks good on you, I highly recommend checking out the Kibbe body types. As a soft natural, I figured out why I look boxy in some clothes and stylish in others. It really helps! Thanks for the video, Abby!

    • @jojosherbaladventures8078
      @jojosherbaladventures8078 Год назад +5

      This sounds good. I have been reading a 'Trinny and Susannah ' book from the UK about body types. Very helpful, like when Abby talks about skirt length in this video

  • @juliafaith4033
    @juliafaith4033 Год назад +8

    Nice to know I can still dabble in trends while staying classic.

  • @courtneytautges4997
    @courtneytautges4997 Год назад +3

    I always love these! Super helpful!

  • @ynessriedel23
    @ynessriedel23 Год назад +9

    I want to get your thoughts on hijabi modesty! They do it so beautifully and I wanted to get your thoughts!

  • @annegarland498
    @annegarland498 Год назад +2

    Thank you so much for sharing this information.

  • @pip5284
    @pip5284 Год назад +7

    Great principles and explanations! Personally I'm too tall for heels but can't afford to let that limit my skirt lengths.

    • @ClassicallyAbby
      @ClassicallyAbby  Год назад +14

      You're only too tall for heels if you believe you're too tall for heels! 😂

  • @Spatterdock
    @Spatterdock Год назад +2

    I’ve heard that the skirt to heel length rule came from French fashion? When buying I’d be more concerned about whether the fabric looks worn out because it might not be as durable or clean looking after it’s washed.

  • @l_b8029
    @l_b8029 Год назад +10

    I’ve noticed a mi-calf skirt with a cute white sneaker has become a really common look!
    It’s a really great “flat” shoe choice that doesn’t look dated or frumpy

  • @basswoodbeauty
    @basswoodbeauty Год назад +5

    I wish my homeschooling community had this video when I was a teen 😂 no for real these were great tips! Thanks for sharing!

  • @genesisdeters1886
    @genesisdeters1886 Год назад +1

    Loved this!💜

  • @galwiththebraids
    @galwiththebraids Год назад +5

    There's nothing wrong with wearing clothes from different decades, nothing at all.

  • @reasonablyserious
    @reasonablyserious Год назад +1

    I agree with your point about flats, sadly I'm taller than most man as it is and don't really have that option, so I have to make do without it🙃

  • @AM-bm2xw
    @AM-bm2xw Год назад +2

    I am kind of scarred by frumpy (usually jean) church skirts, lol. So I have trouble wearing skirts, even though I do really think they look more feminine than pants.

  • @d.s.archer5903
    @d.s.archer5903 Год назад +9

    I’m an atheist, but for myself, I appreciate modest dress and no tattoos, ring piercing, etc. for women. Obviously, this has nothing to do with religion (I have none), but solely for sartorial and aesthetic reasons: modest dress for women generally looks tasteful. Perhaps this is why I like Orthodox Jewish women; many of them are beautiful and elegant, almost like queens.

  • @thehorrorofone8662
    @thehorrorofone8662 Год назад +4

    I always wondered how do you think men should dress modestly?

    • @yacitube1
      @yacitube1 Год назад +16

      Her audience is mainly women but I think men are modest most of the day, at least men that work. I rarely see men showing a lot of skin or wearing unbuttoned low cut shirts or
      showing their thighs. Modesty is for everyone. On an extra note, women are normally not lusting over a man wearing short shorts.

  • @elizabethjetty1294
    @elizabethjetty1294 Год назад +4

    I’ve gotten stuck in a rut of wearing jeans and hoodies and I’m so sick of it! Thank you for this video!

  • @snapdrags8663
    @snapdrags8663 Год назад +1

    Girl you are wild for this one 😂

  • @Ria23854
    @Ria23854 5 месяцев назад

    This helped me so much ❤

  • @shieldmaiden8789
    @shieldmaiden8789 Год назад +4

    💯💯💯
    I LOVE wearing heels for special occasions and recently heard someone say it can come across as immodest if they're too high... what do you think, Abby?

    • @ClassicallyAbby
      @ClassicallyAbby  Год назад +8

      It can definitely depend on the heel, but not so much the height! Some really strappy heels can cross over into BDSM-looking, and that's not great. But the height of the heel isn't the marker of modesty!

    • @shieldmaiden8789
      @shieldmaiden8789 Год назад +2

      @@ClassicallyAbby That makes sense! Thank you so so much!!! 👠❤❤❤

  • @gypsiemomm
    @gypsiemomm Год назад +1

    More modest fashion ideas plz!

  • @jimbojackson4045
    @jimbojackson4045 Год назад +86

    "Your clothes should be tight enough to show you're a woman, but loose enough to show you're a lady." - Edith Head

    • @pip5284
      @pip5284 Год назад +14

      NOT from Marilyn Monroe! And she also definitely did not follow this principle!

    • @jimbojackson4045
      @jimbojackson4045 Год назад +2

      @@pip5284 Well, it's attributed to her. IDK if she actually said it or not. But regardless of who said it or if she followed it, it's a great rule to live by.

    • @ionasmith1998
      @ionasmith1998 Год назад

      This is slut-shaming and stupid

    • @audreyf9092
      @audreyf9092 Год назад +3

      @@jimbojackson4045 It definitely wasn’t said by her lmao it would be pretty ironic if it was.

    • @natsby4life842
      @natsby4life842 Год назад +1

      She would never say that. Not only would it be hypocritical, she also was having none of the mysoginistic nonsense. People love attributing made-up quotes to her like it validates them. It takes less than a minute googling this stuff before putting words in a dead woman's mouth.

  • @Meganfcampos
    @Meganfcampos Год назад +5

    Abby we need a closet haul/try on so we can see outfits you love!

  • @nicoledevine85
    @nicoledevine85 Год назад +1

    What current trends do you enjoy for fall and winter?

  • @NikkiSchumacherOfficial
    @NikkiSchumacherOfficial Год назад +2

    It’s not modest to seem like your trying to be modest. I agree!!!

  • @lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv2198
    @lovelylipbonesouwwwwwwwolv2198 7 месяцев назад

    1:53 No baggy clothes
    3:13 Tight on bottom, loose on top; Loose on bottom, tight on top
    3:53

  • @marinatroxell4956
    @marinatroxell4956 Год назад +16

    I was APPAULED to see the horrid and disrespectful comments and videos put all over the internet about you, Abigail. In fact, the whole horrible mess made me cry. I am so sorry. You are beautiful and an incredible person. Thank you for being a spokesperson for the innocent and voiceless. Also, I am a singer and voice teacher w a Masters in voice - YOU ARE SO TALENTED o SINGER!!!! I could watch and listen to you sing all day. I hope to be able to talk with/ meet you one day. You are a modern-day female heroine for our daughters to look up to. Thank you for that!!!

  • @Amourbeauty_mua
    @Amourbeauty_mua 10 месяцев назад

    Thanks you for addressing this the modesty make me feel you have to look frumpy and ugly I don’t wanna be modest though thank you I like the way I dress

  • @IceESole
    @IceESole Год назад +1

    Will you do a review of season 2 of My unorthodox Life?..that show is a mess.

  • @gabisartan9855
    @gabisartan9855 3 месяца назад

    Classically Abby I'm tripping balls please give me some visuals !!!

  • @TheRealCantaraBella
    @TheRealCantaraBella Год назад +1

    I live in Utah and see a lot of unfashionable modesty

  • @almostmybedtime
    @almostmybedtime Год назад +1

    I like dressing modestly, but I think we have very different definitions of modesty. Those pictures you showed in the beginning (around 1:50) look like normal outfits and are quite modest. I don’t really believe in showing your figure like that so I guess maybe that’s why

    • @fumibad
      @fumibad Год назад +2

      I think she meant yes, it covers the figure but it doesnt compliment the figure. So shes saying it is technically conservative in a utilitarian sense, but does not serve beauty or make you look womanly.

  • @bulgingbattery2050
    @bulgingbattery2050 Год назад +2

    You look just like your brother.

  • @Sapioso
    @Sapioso Год назад +8

    She’d be so cute if it was satire. Religious fundamentalists are so cringy.
    Thankful that people like YOU and your BROTHER are helping to make the west less religious by the day😂🙏🏾

    • @jncon8013
      @jncon8013 Год назад +1

      Why disparage someone merely for sharing their thoughts on styling modest dress?

    • @Sapioso
      @Sapioso Год назад

      @@jncon8013 read it again 😂

    • @jncon8013
      @jncon8013 Год назад

      @@Sapioso I did.

    • @Sapioso
      @Sapioso Год назад

      @Fax with Grizz you’re talking about this woman and her brother right 😂🤣

    • @Sapioso
      @Sapioso Год назад +1

      Calling out bigots doesn’t make me a bigot it makes me decent and tolerant.
      Backwards thinking goofball 😂

  • @r.c.9163
    @r.c.9163 Год назад

    I love "baked cookies "!!!
    I can eat 6 million of em!!
    🔥 🍪 🔥

  • @Chillerveli
    @Chillerveli Год назад

    Your time is ticking. Better call mossad

  • @user-oi5bh8vm2u
    @user-oi5bh8vm2u 2 месяца назад

    I swear the happiness I feel when @ *LVGUCI* uploads a video is beyond!!!!

  • @guess_ill_fucking_die
    @guess_ill_fucking_die Год назад +6

    no gazoonkas in this video. i didnt watch. dislike.