How To STOP Looking Frumpy In Winter

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  • Опубликовано: 12 янв 2025

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  • @AnnaBeyOfficial
    @AnnaBeyOfficial  Год назад +136

    Unlike today's trends, I think an elegant style can be worn by any woman, with any body. That's why I want to teach you how to access your truest elegant style with my course The Elegant Stylist. On offer for a limited time only! DON'T MISS OUT ➡ www.elegantstyle.me
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    • @just_melinda
      @just_melinda Год назад +3

      I agree. I hate fashion today, with oversized, shapeless clothes.

    • @CynthiaRothschild
      @CynthiaRothschild Год назад +2

      DEAREST ANNA , HELLO. MOST , ABOUT 99 PERCENT OF MY CLOTHES ARE " HEFTY BLACK TRASH BAGS " MATERIALS . BECAUSE OF THIS , I HAVE SAVED MILLIONS OF DOLLARS . AND MY REAL ANIMAL FURS CAME FROM ALREADY DEAD ANIMAL FROM THE WILD . AND MORE MILLIONS FROM THAT . ANNA , MY DEAR , HAVE YOU BEEN AS FRUGAL AS I DO ? ANNA , REMEMBER , ITS NEVER EVER TOO LATE TO START , OKAY ? DON'T CRY 😢😭 ME A RIVER .

    • @GLT2024
      @GLT2024 Год назад +8

      Bahaha, do NOT correct Melania on her style. She is absolutely the queen!

    • @Mubblz
      @Mubblz Год назад +1

      According to my kibbe it’s actually better I wear skinny pants and wide leg pants will have me looking like a little girl trying to wear her moms clothes 😅

    • @ceasarsaran8573
      @ceasarsaran8573 Год назад +4

      I completely disagree with the monochrome outfit. I think wearing one color head to toe like Melania pictures looks great.

  • @christianaal.9761
    @christianaal.9761 Год назад +605

    I love that Anna goes straight to the point and doesn't say the same thing for 10 minutes straight. On the contrary her speech is very dense. Kudos for the communication skills.

    • @AnnaBeyOfficial
      @AnnaBeyOfficial  Год назад +79

      This is the nicest compliment a RUclipsr can get! 😍 Thank you 🙏

    • @p.b.4464
      @p.b.4464 Год назад +11

      I agree completely!

    • @thenottakenone
      @thenottakenone Год назад +22

      No intro, immediately on the topic. That’s why I’m a subscriber

    • @ginnynolo9025
      @ginnynolo9025 Год назад +5

      I love that too!!!

    • @starfishw7138
      @starfishw7138 Год назад +1

      Agreed. She keeps things moving

  • @milica4277
    @milica4277 Год назад +585

    I missed Anna's videos. She is like a virtual online sister who gives me advices on how to look.

    • @bellathereader1328
      @bellathereader1328 Год назад +7

      Wouldn’t it be great to actually have a sister like Anna!❤

    • @vienicestyles
      @vienicestyles Год назад +6

      I feel the same way. I believe Anna is my bestie in my head. 🥰 🤗

    • @liacorker5786
      @liacorker5786 Год назад +5

      for sure!! and also a great way to train my listening in English, great class!! I'm Brazilian and I love training English with Anna!! Elegant accent too 👏👏

    • @ezgiruzgar8103
      @ezgiruzgar8103 Год назад

      @@liacorker5786voaaahh me tooo i am listening also for practice anna!!

    • @ladymoon425
      @ladymoon425 Месяц назад

      Has Ana stopped making videos ? I just found her & started watching her.

  • @mmadi
    @mmadi Год назад +328

    You know the thing I respect about you the most, is the fact that you can admit to your own mistakes. Just like in this video, where you admitted to taking back a recommendation that you yourself made. Just like in other videos where you talk about your life before you decided you elevate it. Major respect!

    • @dovi57
      @dovi57 Год назад +4

      I am so happy I did not buy that Sezane sweater😂 I had concerns it will look too bulky on me due to my bust

    • @eliushi6220
      @eliushi6220 Год назад +1

      @@dovi57 I have that problem too with many sweaters and sweater dresses.

  • @Chericherry4
    @Chericherry4 Год назад +254

    I love Melania’s matchy-matchy look! It works for her bc she’s not copying anyone else.

    • @spilltheteawithme2241
      @spilltheteawithme2241 Год назад +31

      Hundred percent agree Matchy matchy does look classy classy

    • @ohsostylish60
      @ohsostylish60 Год назад +28

      Amal’s look is a great example, however a bad example is Melania to criticize! She gets the colour combinations right all the time and understands what complements what. That takes knowledge and courage!

    • @ohsostylish60
      @ohsostylish60 Год назад +9

      Just a note on fur - fur has been around for many decades. There is nothing wrong with buying ethically sourced fur coats (do your research before buying) Some of the most elegant, and educated women will source the most beautiful fur coats that last the test of time AND pass them down to future generations. It’s these millennials and new money people that have no idea how to wear it and it can look cheap. Anna, consider the history of the garments when you talk about this! Viva fur forever!

    • @StrawberryPavlova1
      @StrawberryPavlova1 Год назад +11

      I think Melania is extremely elegant and feminine.

    • @renarettinger8523
      @renarettinger8523 Год назад +7

      I was wondering if anyone else was thinking the same thing. I thought she looked 💯

  • @jodybucci285
    @jodybucci285 Год назад +51

    I agree with your comments about oversized clothing - for most of us it is completely unflattering and make us look bigger and sloppy.

    • @frostflower5555
      @frostflower5555 Год назад

      I regret buying this sweater that was kind of wide at the waist and too long and made me look frumpy with a skirt that I was embarrassed wearing it. lol

  • @Lafemmefutile
    @Lafemmefutile Год назад +90

    Exactly - I’m 5’3 with a shorter torso with minimal hourglass - I do for long dresses - romantic style - high waist pants, « cropped » tops, etc… I realized all the oversized fashion looks terrible on me, does nothing for my height or my figure. I also had to realize I needed to get into shapewear and wear slimmer looks instead of hiding in large things just because I don’t have a super flat stomach - I’m a size 4-6. Body image can have you dressing wrong when you don’t really have to.

    • @missamandaloo116
      @missamandaloo116 Год назад +8

      Short torsos don't look good in high waisted pants and some cropped tops though.

    • @zilam98
      @zilam98 Год назад +1

      shapewear is essential when trying to wear more slim fitting tops and dresses

    • @mindyann8903
      @mindyann8903 Год назад +6

      Says who ? Every body type is different. I’m the same exact size and height as the lady commenting; crop tops and high waisted pants are my go to because it really accentuates my waist …. Gives me a waist line. Almost every stylist recommends these looks on me. I also have long limbs so that has a lot to do with it as well. What might not work for some or even the majority will work wonders for others.

    • @JadoreMilan
      @JadoreMilan Год назад +1

      Same! I’m 5’2 with a bigger bust. So my waist has to be shown at all times or i just look big even though I’m average weight lol. Crop tops and high waist look the best on me or bodycon dresses as long as the material is thick & not cheap looking

  • @sharonalexa
    @sharonalexa Год назад +16

    I love Melania’s matchy matchy aubergine outfit. Swoon! I am size 18 & love wearing large sweaters. Life is short so I wear fashion that warms my heart.

  • @MadamoftheCatHouse
    @MadamoftheCatHouse Год назад +369

    I actually like Melania's colour matching. She uses strong bold colours so matching some items avoids colour clashing and sensory overload.

    • @shaynac-rd9iu
      @shaynac-rd9iu Год назад +46

      😊I like it too, its put together looking instead of messy. Especially with so many handbags having patterns

    • @abidemna4950
      @abidemna4950 Год назад +39

      Me too I love her style always on point .. I assume she is with stylist..

    • @susanmclaughlin4266
      @susanmclaughlin4266 Год назад

      I’vee Lamre Mel Aladdin’smeeel

    • @vanillacookie900
      @vanillacookie900 Год назад +29

      I love her style.. and also it is much easier to combine different neural shades. She is wearing a lot of stronger colors and they need to match to look polished. I guess it comes down to taste.

    • @gblikestosew
      @gblikestosew Год назад +1

      I like some of the looks but not others!

  • @Sarah_Spang
    @Sarah_Spang Год назад +186

    I actually think the matching colors look much more cohesive and refined than the mismatching shades and tones that were in some of the other examples. Whenever you talk about someone going from trash outfits to elegant and elevated, Melania always pops in my mind. Her style is so beautiful and sophisticated. I always love your videos, Anna! You have the best tips, even if we don’t always see eye to eye 😊

    • @StrawberryPavlova1
      @StrawberryPavlova1 Год назад +8

      I completely agree with you ❤❤❤

    • @Whitstik1
      @Whitstik1 Год назад +7

      I agree

    • @mikatekonkuna3453
      @mikatekonkuna3453 Год назад +10

      I agree with you. I liked most of those matching outfits more elegant than those mixed ones.

    • @talktosummerofficial
      @talktosummerofficial Год назад +5

      I agree with Anna...the exact matchy-matchy looked harsh as opposed to refined

    • @tatianac333
      @tatianac333 Год назад +6

      I agree with you! I thought those outfits were super elegant and almost high fashion

  • @rubyrosemary1210
    @rubyrosemary1210 Год назад +33

    I'm a larger gal and I can attest to the mistake of trying to cover my flaws by wearing baggy tops. I finally got over my fear and started wearing fitted garments. Much better!

  • @dtgb8546
    @dtgb8546 Год назад +20

    Agree with Most of what you said except Melania comment. She is one of the most elegant ladies out there. I remember seeing her in in a really casual outfit t shirt jeans and utility jacket and she made ordinary look extraordinary!

  • @enmodelife
    @enmodelife Год назад +142

    Skinny silhoutte pants/jeans will never completely go out of style - at least not according to a recent InStyle Magazine article. It's ok if something doesn't flatter your body type and you personally don't want to wear it, but we have all known for decades how everything comes in and out repeatedly. Just like the denim dress Anna is wearing in the video is very reminiscent of a dress style from the 80's (this is something you can google yourself if you're curious).

    • @deborahsauter9794
      @deborahsauter9794 Год назад +38

      Flares and Bell Bottoms look so bad on most people. Everyone should know that Skinny Jeans are a perennial fashion STAPLE on a well proportioned woman.

    • @zilam98
      @zilam98 Год назад +4

      @@deborahsauter9794 if i have to wear skinny bottoms, i can only wear them during winter and with boots. and not skinny JEANS, but more like thicker leggings for warmth. i've tried a pair of skinny jeans before, and i never felt comfortable in them. so yeah, skinny jeans are NEVER a fashion staple for me. i guess i'm not a well proportioned woman too, so probably i'm in the minority since skinny jeans are apparently a perennial fashion staple 😆😆😆

    • @deborahsauter9794
      @deborahsauter9794 Год назад +1

      Who said skinny jeans are for EVERYbody?@@zilam98

    • @ellylilly8836
      @ellylilly8836 Год назад +16

      I'm a bit heavier now (UK 14) and I find skinny jeans look great on me. I'm tall & proportional. Yes legs look thick , but they are thick 😂

    • @mindyann8903
      @mindyann8903 Год назад +5

      Lucky !!!Thick legs are IN ! I lift very heavy to make my legs thick like JLo ! ❤️

  • @EA-tf5jq
    @EA-tf5jq Год назад +53

    I found your channel a month ago. I was searching for "how to give yourself a makeover" videos. As a college student, I currently wear extremely casual clothing like cargo pants, oversized tshirts, baggy jeans, sneakers, and hip-hop jewelry - this kind of style is considered cool in my college. On top of everything, I have multiple piercings on my ears. Even though this kind of style is considered cool, I see so many students wearing the exact same style, whether they are girls or guys. Even though I work out every day and have a toned hourglass body, I feel just like another guy because of my clothing style. I used to wear feminine clothing until a few years ago.
    In the last 30 days, I've watched all the videos on your channel and attended all the free workshops as I can't afford the paid content yet. You've inspired me to become a woman once again. I feel so much better mentally. I have applied so many of your tips in my life. I also started reading self-help books and I’m focusing more on my studies these days. I'm also working on building an elegant and classy wardrobe from scratch as I plan to donate my current clothes since I don't feel like myself in them. I'm shopping at thrift stores because I have a tight budget.
    Dear Anna, you've changed my life and my mindset! I'm so grateful for everything you've taught me so far! I can't thank you enough! 💖

    • @payattention31
      @payattention31 Год назад +1

      You’re on the right track!

    • @zilam98
      @zilam98 Год назад +3

      dressing like how Anna has advocated in her content will prepare you well for career after college. you won't struggle as much with office/work wear

    • @aleeshamucharwa9127
      @aleeshamucharwa9127 Год назад +1

      You’re doing so well , I’m proud of you
      Im 23 now and l used to dress the way you just described but after watching Anna’s videos l don’t look at my Jordans the same anymore 😂

    • @midtownkitten483
      @midtownkitten483 Год назад +2

      When my friend graduated from college I told her it was time to ditch the college clothes (cargo pants, t shirts, flip flips) and start dressing like an adult. She was taken aback but took it to heart and slowly began building a new wardrobe from the clearance racks at Banana Republic. Months later she thanked me and said she liked her new polished and feminine look and she was enjoying the compliments she began receiving from others.

    • @frostflower5555
      @frostflower5555 Год назад

      My mom taught me that those types of clothing is for inside the house only and you just don't go out looking like you're in pajamas in public or at work.

  • @kpopobsessed2973
    @kpopobsessed2973 Год назад +493

    Anna isn’t pregnant but she never fails to deliver

  • @island661
    @island661 Год назад +48

    I'm 5'3 and petite. Straight legs and wide leg trousers make me look FRUMPY.

    • @juliebray5250
      @juliebray5250 Год назад +6

      Yep. I’ve tried on tons and most make me look frumpy and add on weight too 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @island661
      @island661 Год назад +3

      I look like I'm wearing "mom jeans". 🤣

    • @martinkathleen8981
      @martinkathleen8981 10 месяцев назад +2

      Same here. Not a good look for me!

  • @77aggiem
    @77aggiem Год назад +70

    I absolutely love the oversized, good-quality v-neck cardigan this autumn... 👍 Nothing wrong with it if you style it correctly in my humble opinion.

    • @ceasarsaran8573
      @ceasarsaran8573 Год назад +2

      Im there.

    • @LeisureLizard
      @LeisureLizard 2 месяца назад

      If my cardigans say that I’ve given up on life, I’m okay with that.
      It definitely says fashion isn’t my life.

  • @Bopzibeel
    @Bopzibeel Год назад +17

    I literally just proved a point on oversized clothes yesterday. I'm a smidge under 5 foot, size 10/12 European and hourglass shaped. My sister is three inches smaller in height and size 14/16, also hourglass shaped. She wears oversized clothes and frankly looks like a walking barrel in them. I took her with me to H&M and into the changing room to try on her styles to show her how her style looks on me. I looked awful in them and shapeless. Then I dressed her in my tailored but slightly retro style and tutored her in fit and figure. It was a game changer. You can be any size you want but don't wear oversized clothes head to foot. It looks untidy and as if you're trying to hide. Huge thanks to H&M staff at my store who were absolutely fantastic! Retail staff are legendary.

  • @karolinak828
    @karolinak828 Год назад +38

    I love matchy matchy and Melanie Trump style!

  • @Kashanka23
    @Kashanka23 Год назад +9

    I love Melanias looks in this video i can't see a problem there 😮

  • @CassieleighL
    @CassieleighL Год назад +332

    Usually you're on point, but I disagree about the matchy-matchy thing. I think all those examples you showed looked great! I like the intentionality of it.

  • @koteto999
    @koteto999 Год назад +12

    Thank you for speaking up against the animal cruelty of the fur and leather industries! I’m not an elegant lady but I do love learning about it, I love your tips!

  • @EmmaAnimalWelfare
    @EmmaAnimalWelfare Год назад +77

    As a 'clear/bright Spring' seasoned girl, the matchy-matchy in bold colours is a really fun look for me that I love. Monochromaxima!!

    • @deborahsauter9794
      @deborahsauter9794 Год назад +6

      Yes, matchy always looks more INTENTIONAL ! It is no longer insulted in fashion circles.

    • @EmmaAnimalWelfare
      @EmmaAnimalWelfare Год назад +1

      @@deborahsauter9794 I think there's always a fine balance with it looking effortless and trying too hard - if you already wear a lot of separates of one particular colour it can look so well put together if you block them. It takes a bit of courage in a bold colour (like bottle green, red, or royal blue), but wear it with confidence and good makeup/hair and most people will look at you in a positive light I think feel.

  • @EteriTerashvili
    @EteriTerashvili Год назад +72

    Anna is a definition of learing and un-learning and I love that journey for her and for us, the ones who also take some tips from her.

  • @molinarimoney
    @molinarimoney Год назад +13

    Regarding dresses with drop waist - as someone with very long legs but a very short torso, the drop waist is one of the only styles making me look proportionate. So just know your proportions and how to work with them.

  • @jeniferbfly
    @jeniferbfly Год назад +9

    Love the matchy matchy! The photos shown were elegant and put together.

  • @tetanbrannen9276
    @tetanbrannen9276 Год назад +18

    Thank you!!! You are the first influencer to bring up what we all know- the oversized trend is not flattering on anyone under size 2. I don’t even like it.

  • @shannonshunk8897
    @shannonshunk8897 Год назад +19

    Thank you, Anna, about talking about the current trends. It is a relief to hear you say this trend (over size) is not for everyone. I am only 5'3" and "thick". I love you and your channel. You are a guiding light in the darkness of fast fashion. ❤

  • @petyailieva5685
    @petyailieva5685 Год назад +27

    Although I am not looking to changing my lifestyle (I am more of a street-style person) and I am mostly watching Anna's videos for fun, I am now realizing how watching those influenced me and actually made my outfits so much more elevated. It's amazing.

  • @ri-oj1ul
    @ri-oj1ul Год назад +19

    100% right on the oversized clothes. I’ve always stuck to form fitting clothes because anything loose made me took 10x bigger than I was (i had an athletic but hourglass body maybe size 4). Then I lost maybe 15 lbs (size 0) and for first time in my life loose oversized clothes work!

    • @DebbieW-h7z
      @DebbieW-h7z Год назад

      To each their own -at your size 4 or a zero I doubt it really is a big deal. Some people like it and if it gets them put together and out of the house, carry on. The worst case scenario is not that you look 10x bigger than you are (especially if starting at a size 0).

  • @jco0401
    @jco0401 Год назад +8

    I disagree-Melanie always looks classy & tailored! Just fabulous ❤

  • @malgorzatagoralewicz2403
    @malgorzatagoralewicz2403 Год назад +4

    Thank you Anna for speaking openly about animal cruelty. You are not only beautiful, elegant and smart but also kind ❤

  • @Forever30byci
    @Forever30byci Год назад +12

    I really think the most of the looks she showed as flampy were fine. It’s a lot to do with style too. I don’t necessarily think fitted is better than oversized pieces… just saying! Love you Ana 😘

  • @mrsbettytracy6669
    @mrsbettytracy6669 Год назад +11

    I finally discovered why I like how a slightly dropped waist looks on me: I have longer than average legs with a short torso. So for me, that slight drop balances out my proportions. Like you say, it's all about knowing what works for your body.

    • @frostflower5555
      @frostflower5555 Год назад

      read my comment about it, I love drop waist dresses. Those are so classic and very hard to find for years. They make bodies look so much nicer if they are cut right and not too tight.

  • @MrsLyds
    @MrsLyds Год назад +5

    I agree on the matching but Melania looked amazing on those two pictures

  • @Amy-hs1qe
    @Amy-hs1qe Год назад +17

    I'm 63 and I agree with virtually everything here. I've found that I've had to up my game as I've gotten older and being polished and classic but not boring is always the goal. That being said, I'll never get rid of my leggings - they're just too comfortable and easy.

  • @mikeletaurus4728
    @mikeletaurus4728 Год назад +14

    Miss Bey, I cannot thank you enough for speaking with frankness about fur and your perspective on it. I wish you every success, and I am grateful for your RUclips content. You are almost always on point, and there aren't many beauty/fashion channels which can claim that. Thank you and every good wish to you.

  • @gehanghobrial2449
    @gehanghobrial2449 Год назад +6

    I agree with you on everything. I always listen to your advice carefully and take it to an action with my simple budget, and that makes me feel good about myself. I don’t have to shop expensive clothes to feel expensive, just choose what works for me body and makes me look elevated.
    I love your channel and I always look forward to hearing from you.

  • @cyberqueen7784
    @cyberqueen7784 Год назад +13

    Ever since I started watching your channel, you’ve given some great advice that I try to keep in mind every day! I don’t like oversized clothes anyway, so I don’t have to worry. I do prefer elegant styles that flatter my body.

  • @bnb0510
    @bnb0510 Год назад +74

    I actually think wide trousers make people look hefty unless you’re stick thin… 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @eliushi6220
      @eliushi6220 Год назад +2

      I agree it doesn't look good on anyone.
      I love a cigarette tailored pants or jeans.

    • @StrawberryPavlova1
      @StrawberryPavlova1 Год назад +10

      Wide trousers make me look like I'm a walking BOX 😂

    • @bnb0510
      @bnb0510 Год назад +4

      @@StrawberryPavlova1 right! That’s my point. I honestly don’t really think anyone looks great in them. Idk

    • @rosyapplekitchen635
      @rosyapplekitchen635 Год назад +2

      And tall too, i am thin but short and I look awful even in straight trousers/jeans

    • @Lavender687
      @Lavender687 Год назад

      @@bnb0510 💯 😂😂

  • @StevePhillips-z9l
    @StevePhillips-z9l Год назад +31

    Anna Bey, hearing you explain how wearing fur [hair and skin torn from innocent animals] looks cheap is just what fashion fans need to hear! You are so right - looking classy need never involve cruelty, and wearing fur to prove your worth is so passé.

  • @Nadia-18
    @Nadia-18 Год назад +5

    The intro is hilarious. I love your sense of humor through very clear messages and you have the best facial expressions, being disgusted and cute at the same time is not an easy thing to do :D

  • @GuDa-f5e
    @GuDa-f5e Год назад +18

    I found all the "wrong" pictures fabulous...

    • @deborahsauter9794
      @deborahsauter9794 Год назад +2

      Yes, Anna : your critiques were OFF!

    • @IloveCamels335
      @IloveCamels335 Год назад +2

      Me too! From Melania to Rosie - all great looks ☺️ Better than the jeans dress I would say 😇😇

  • @abeal49
    @abeal49 Год назад +11

    my skinny trousers are to be worn with high boots while slogging through mud and so on
    There is a photo of Princess Catherine with her skinny trousers inside tall boots, while in Balmoral. She looked marvelous dressed that way in Scotland.

  • @ingaguliyeva
    @ingaguliyeva Год назад +132

    Thank you Anna for speaking out against fur! It is absolutely cruel what they do to those poor animals. Like you said, there are so many more ways to look elegant.

    • @ninatouchdown2500
      @ninatouchdown2500 Год назад +1

      No there isn't! Says my cat ❤😂

    • @Mady299
      @Mady299 Год назад +4

      Fur made from wool like Max Mara teddy bear, honestly I like it and it's very warm.

    • @deirdreloughran8258
      @deirdreloughran8258 Год назад +3

      I love faux fur I make no apologies for my fur coat and platform doc marten boots

    • @Jaz-wx4vo
      @Jaz-wx4vo Год назад +10

      What about leather? Is it any less cruel?

    • @jojojes1352
      @jojojes1352 Год назад +2

      Hi @@Jaz-wx4vo Leather is a by-product, the animals are not bred & slaughtered specifically for their pelt. The fur trade is imho, abhorrent. There is absolutely no reason for anyone to wear real fur for fashion when there are fabulous alternatives. It's just a selfish, blinkered mindset. If those people saw 'their' fur coat being ripped from the screaming animals it belonged to one would hope they would have a huge change of heart... but many just don't care about anything but themselves.

  • @deborahsauter9794
    @deborahsauter9794 Год назад +49

    Melania's outfits look much better than average. What a silly critique on monochromatic classics!

    • @juliesharp5077
      @juliesharp5077 Год назад +1

      I agree with ana. The clothes were too obviously matched. Better that somebody looks pleasing without the observer knowing exactly why. It will be subtly matched

    • @deborahsauter9794
      @deborahsauter9794 Год назад +3

      @@juliesharp5077 Almost monochromatic, planned outfits look much more EXPENSIVE!

  • @penelopesanchez1679
    @penelopesanchez1679 Год назад +9

    I love the oversized cardigan!

  • @lydiabell6218
    @lydiabell6218 Год назад +1

    I am glad you talk about the weight, scale, overall proportions, the size and other factors in considering what is suitable for one's figure. I, for example, have an oversized b...tt and oversized thighs (at least in my opinion) and therefore NEVER wear pants. Instead I prefer all types of A-lines skirts, preferably midi-length, which makes me look slimmer on my relative not quite petite figure..I do wear some pencil type skirts, but mainly in a dark color, since light colors emphasize the size. I am glad midi-length skirts are in right now, since I love to wear them with boots. I appreciate your educated suggestions and opinions.

  • @CristinaPerez-ib2uu
    @CristinaPerez-ib2uu Год назад +15

    Thank you for raising awareness about animal cruelty! Luvya!!!

  • @tplayspiano
    @tplayspiano Год назад +42

    Thank you for your ideas, I have always hated the pants tucked into boots look. Both myself and friends have been gifted real fur coats from important women in our lives. These coats not only have sentimental value, they were made decades ago, are extremely warm - I have no guilt wearing them. Faux fur today is quite glamorous and lovely, an option our mothers and grandmothers did not have. It would dishonor them to throw their lovely coats in the landfill.

  • @robinsnest4306
    @robinsnest4306 Год назад +7

    I think Melania is so classy! Love her style! She’s gorgeous.

  • @Gabistruwwelliese
    @Gabistruwwelliese Год назад +2

    Love the video. Gotta say, as a Brazilian, skinny trousers if not too tight match our feminines style because here it is a good thing to have voluptuous curvy legs.

  • @StrawberryPavlova1
    @StrawberryPavlova1 Год назад +8

    I love Anna's videos and have been a follower for many years.
    I disagree about the points made about fitted jeans and Melania Trump's style. I am short and petite, wide legged jeans make me look like a box - whilst fitted jeans are very flattering and can be so versatile. Matching/harmonising your shoes and bags is actually a timeless fashion basic law for coherence.
    I love that Anna spoke up about fur ❤🙌🙌🙌

  • @agam406
    @agam406 Год назад +1

    I love cardigans! My temperature sensitivity makes them the best choice for me. Furs - I never liked the look of them. Recently I've tried to find boots that go with skirts, but they are all too tight and I'm not that fat, my calves are not wide.

  • @susanmclaughlin4266
    @susanmclaughlin4266 Год назад +3

    I love matching. Older women like myself love matching.

  • @hazydreamer7965
    @hazydreamer7965 Год назад +11

    Anna´s style is elegant. We women do not pay attention to our clothes daily - sometimes never - but we ought to do it. Not like a friend of mine, who answers: " Colors and prints not matching? Who cares, I am in the city center only for 2 h. No one knows me." It is often amazingly difficult to get this message through. We do not need to look like the top models
    on a glossy magazine, -just put together and clean, ironed, and somehow stylish. All the best.

  • @EvelynT.
    @EvelynT. Год назад +6

    I would never buy a new fur that’s just cruelty but I won’t stop rocking my grandmother’s vintage furs. I would rather wearing it than throwing it away. I am super supportive to the vintage/second hand industry in general.

  • @Maybesure
    @Maybesure Год назад +6

    Thank you for being honest and keeping us bigger gals in mind. I totally agree with everything! When will I get the courage to wear wide leg pants though? I feel so huge in them…

    • @claudiadriesler7285
      @claudiadriesler7285 Год назад +1

      Me too... I tried it, and started wearing skinny jeans again.

  • @stephaniecoleman9689
    @stephaniecoleman9689 Год назад +132

    thank you for speaking up against fur as elegance! many years ago I bought a Korean vintage rabbit fur coat, rationalizing that because it had been bought/worn before I wasn't contributing to fur markets. When I looked inside, I saw the stitching where they attached each of the skins. On this small short jacket, there were probably 10+ rabbits used. It was disgusting and made me feel the exact opposite of luxury. I had a small animal graveyard around me. Bleh. It's gone now, but don't make this same mistake!

    • @zilam98
      @zilam98 Год назад +2

      ❤❤❤

    • @catlillith
      @catlillith Год назад +8

      When I was a child, I always thought the animals' fur was shaved; I never in my wildest dreams thought the poor animals were killed. If some people want to wear fur, they should let their own body hair grow no more shaving, waxing, etc.

    • @zilam98
      @zilam98 Год назад +7

      @@catlillith not just outright killed. some are even skinned alive for some reason

    • @catlillith
      @catlillith Год назад

      @@zilam98 poor animals. The only animals that deserve to be skinned alive are the so called "humans" killing the animals and the "humans" wanting the fur.

    • @agata8587
      @agata8587 Год назад +4

      Unfortunately happens sometimes that actually also sheep are skinned alive in their back for profit more in some terrific farm for wool production, be aware of that and choose "mulesing free" wool clothes, please ❤

  • @jlea2480
    @jlea2480 Год назад +6

    Finally someone calling out the oversized look!

  • @joan8178
    @joan8178 Год назад +9

    Thanks, Anna. No wide leg pants for me! Re fur...i have many furs, all bought 2nd hand. I wear them for warmth as I run very cold. They are light and the warmest. I love animals. These precious fur garments keep me warm & well.

  • @anitagabriel4533
    @anitagabriel4533 Год назад +16

    Love this content and also the fact you mentioned animal cruelty behind fur industry. Many content creators too scared to speak their truth! Thank you

  • @annisabaksh4533
    @annisabaksh4533 Год назад +12

    Thank you thank you for shedding the light on animal cruelty, I was so afraid you were going to promote the wear of real fur. I have seen videos of how those animals are treated and it makes me cry each and every time.

  • @christinequintana881
    @christinequintana881 Год назад +2

    I inherited a vintage white rabbit stoal that has been in my family for several generations. I would never buy a new piece but I can not let that one go. Too many family memories and I feel connected to the past when I wear it. All of my current pieces were purchased as faux. When we know better, we do better. ❤

  • @alexandram5052
    @alexandram5052 Год назад +10

    I would like to see videos about more casual looks but elevated at the same time, just outfits that look "effortlessly" chic and classy. Many of us just have regular jobs or work from home and not all of us dress so elegantly when going out in mall or park, or with friends.

    • @coyoter9691
      @coyoter9691 Год назад

      Would like some tips on this too. I don't go many places where I can dress overtly elegant. I'm usually going to casual places. How to look elevated and chic on the more casual outings (without looking too done up). The park to go on a walk is a place I usually feel frumpy. I'm not big on wearing activewear, so what else would be appropriate to look nice (for example, if you're on a date to a park).

    • @frostflower5555
      @frostflower5555 Год назад

      That's the problem. The stores don't have too many coordinated classical casual clothing. It's either rags or too fancy items. What happened to the looks from the 70's and 80's and 90's when classical clothing was everywhere? And leggings should be banned from public and considered pajama wear.

  • @stur5252
    @stur5252 Год назад +1

    I agree that a lot of these things that we've been conditioned to accept as must-haves or essentials at some point, especially by luxury brands, don't actually look very good, or only on certain body types. Thank you for saying it out loud.

  • @mahee144
    @mahee144 Год назад +3

    Thank you anna for pointing out style for normal weight ladies or over weight plus size. Fall fashion seems to be made for skinny girls we feel left out and end up wearing baggy clothes. I m grateful to you for talking about normal people 🙏 waiting for ur more videos ❤

  • @lorrainerobitaille69
    @lorrainerobitaille69 Год назад +1

    I have a full fur coat and it was second hand and it keeps me warm in the winter and I am keeping it for that reason !

  • @nardatira5095
    @nardatira5095 Год назад +12

    I totally agree with you, ANA. I stopped using skinny jeans after one of your past videos . I'm Latina, and I'm curvy, and I recognize that skinny jeans don't suit me, I look unstetic 😢and bigger.Thanks, Anna, for all your suggestions ❤have a wonderful week!

  • @amytaff1775
    @amytaff1775 Год назад +2

    I love how straight forward you are. You offer comedy which we all need! 🥰

  • @neiceyd5312
    @neiceyd5312 Год назад +3

    I like the matchy-matchy.😊

  • @jdo4715
    @jdo4715 Год назад +5

    Love your practical advice. The sweater dress advice is spot on.

  • @denicevstaaf7506
    @denicevstaaf7506 Год назад +12

    I love you Anna, and absolutely soak up your tips and courses, but I have one suggestion. I hope this tip is taken in the same spirit that I am delivering it, which is to be helpful, not hurtful. A tip I learned in Interior Design school was that the vocabulary will make you sound like a professional- or not. For example, a professional interior designer would never say "couch." It is a sofa. Along the same lines, I have heard this term spoken several times, which always makes me pause. When describing the thickness or drape of the fabric, the key term is fabric, not material. Thanks again for such great content Anna. I know you are always looking to improve therefore, I thought I would offer something to level up your vocabulary even more.

    • @deborahsauter9794
      @deborahsauter9794 Год назад +5

      Also, the word SATIN - can be EITHER silk or polyester. Satin refers to the WEAVE , not the FIBER content.

  • @jucxox
    @jucxox Год назад +47

    I think the issue is that fashion is becoming so ugly, and shapeless. It’s very hard to find tasteful clothes when they are not easily sold. Most fast fashion looks like potato sacks.

    • @toomuchsoysauce
      @toomuchsoysauce Год назад +2

      So true. The "slob look" is in. Someone should remind women that the burlap sack look never looked good.

    • @lonelyplanet2021
      @lonelyplanet2021 Год назад

      True

  • @Jonnaberg
    @Jonnaberg Год назад

    Ohhhhhh I love the oversized cardigan. Can’t stop, won’t stop hehe. And can’t stop, won’t stop watching Anna’s vids.

  • @iahelcathartesaura3887
    @iahelcathartesaura3887 Год назад +4

    Those of us who came of age in the late 70s, 80s and early 90s, or if that's when we gained our style sense, are often stuck on the matchy matchy thing.
    It was expected back then, very strongly! And was the only way to look classy and elegant at the time?
    And the more unique & difficult-to-find the color, the classier & wealthier it looked.
    Now we have to look more mature, elegant, realistic, classic - and less like a careful, monochrome cartoon 😅 Thank you, Anna!

  • @forooghkhodadadi3453
    @forooghkhodadadi3453 Год назад +2

    Hi Anna , I do like your subjects and the method you teach us how to be an elegant lady. However, in my opinion being an elegant lady is not only related to our clothes. The most of your videos are about this topic. I personally follow you to learn more about other aspects of elegancy like speaking, listening, presenting, introducing ourselves, even teaching in an elegant way
    ❤❤❤❤
    Thank you so much. I greatly appreciate your efforts to make us understand how to have a good lifestyle and classy manner

  • @lauravterrazas
    @lauravterrazas Год назад +4

    I love oversized cardigans and quite honestly I think I pull it off in a non frumpy way. Cozy, casual chic. 😏

  • @vi5574
    @vi5574 Год назад

    Dear Anna! Since I started watching your videos a few months ago, I sure did overthink my style. And nowadays, I get so many compliments for my Look! So greatful.

  • @anitamiko9975
    @anitamiko9975 Год назад +4

    Yesss on squashing the fur trend. Thank you! Never even looked good, and always left a bad aftertaste for those wearing as well as seeing it. But I disagree on the wide leg trend. Short ladies very rarely look good in the wider trousers trending now. Skinny pants are here to stay for some of us! And I found your choice of denim top in this video surprisingly “frumpy” given your normal tasteful figure fitting attire. Also, I personally loved all the photos you showed of people over matching. I’m surprised to hear that it appeared trying too hard. Unless you have 3+ items that match colors, you’re not overdoing it. All the photos had only 2 items of the same color.

    • @zilam98
      @zilam98 Год назад +1

      would have to disagree with your point on skinny pants. i've never looked good in them, and i'm only 4'9". i've always looked more polished and sophisticated in wide legged dress pants, even to a point of being palazzo pants that they look like maxi skirts

    • @zilam98
      @zilam98 Год назад

      i'm in my 40s now, and i've preferred wearing wide legged trousers ever since finishing college and started working. even off work, i'd still prefer to wear wide legged/bootleg dress pants than jeans. i just find jeans, even the dark wash ones, not as versatile to most events than dress pants

    • @zilam98
      @zilam98 Год назад

      granted, i don't do "dirty" work like how farming people would prefer wearing denim for the work they do, but when i'm outside in the elements for my current work, i prefer to wear wide legged scrub pants. so comfy and less maintenance than even any pair of jeans

  • @The_lastman
    @The_lastman Год назад

    It’s funny, as a man watching these videos. Very spot on analysis. And great advice. More modest elegant style really does complement a women in the ways you mention. And honours the dignity more than the trends.

  • @mac2807
    @mac2807 Год назад +7

    Grammatically speaking... it's either 'most frumpy' or 'frumpiest' or 'frumpier', not 'most frumpiest' or 'most frumpier'. I'm not criticizing, believe me, but I thought you would like to know since you are about elevating us to be the best we can be. Using correct grammar also 'elevates' us. xo

  • @MotoM0nk
    @MotoM0nk 10 месяцев назад

    V neck cardigan is tricky but the photos you shown of celebrities weren't that bad at all. Kudos for taking your words back from prev video - very few do that!

  • @katarzynaj434
    @katarzynaj434 Год назад +11

    Anna, just a question. What is the moral difference in wearing fur coat vs leather boots? Seems that there is a lot of support towards one of them and respecitvely a lot of dissaproval to the other, but I personally do not see any difference between cow's leather and mink fur
    Greetings

    • @druidriley3163
      @druidriley3163 Год назад

      Leather is a by product of the meat industry. Fur from non-meat providing animals is not.

    • @MsSisi9898
      @MsSisi9898 Год назад +2

      Exactly what I've been pondering. Also, consuming animal products on a daily basis, while unconditionally disaprove of wearing fur...like okay...where's the logic here? 😄

    • @wallybistrich3474
      @wallybistrich3474 Год назад +1

      Production of fur: bad animal treatment and only the fur is used.
      As long as animals were eaten it makes sense to use the whole animal, for example for leather production. -
      Vegan leather production is very often not very ecological.

    • @kateya0
      @kateya0 Год назад

      @@wallybistrich3474 I dont think that animals to be eaten are treated better than animals for fur 😃 in order for fur to look good, animal has to be healthy, with shiny hair. Fur is expensive for a reason. In order to kill animal for food, just google chicken farms and how small those cages are. Millions of them killed every day for fastfood, so there are the worst conditions - because food has to be cheap

  • @Bonnie9s
    @Bonnie9s Год назад

    I missed your videos , I don’t know why RUclips didn’t show me them. Thankful for this video, this weekend I just cleaned my wardrobe, and I need to go shopping, now I have my guru Anna back ❤

  • @Alyona-ty4pp
    @Alyona-ty4pp Год назад +4

    When it's -40C-50C nothing will keep you nonfrozen but natural fur. Maybe it's about an ego in warm countries but they're some places in the world where it's cold.
    Btw, what's about the the cut-off sleeves on this jean-dress today? It should be included in today's list.

  • @VictoriaTaylor-jl1mp
    @VictoriaTaylor-jl1mp Год назад

    This was excellant info. Thanks for calling out how all the trends don't work for everyone. Making note: body shape, fabric, too much matchy. You have such an eye. I trust your knowledge.

  • @SA61977
    @SA61977 Год назад +6

    Melania Trump is undoubtably one of the best dressed fashion icons of our era. She's beautiful, elegant and poised and her co-ordinated outfits project old money!

  • @silviapurse2266
    @silviapurse2266 Год назад +37

    Bravo about your fur opinion Anna, couldn't agree more. This isn't acceptable when animal cruelty is involved.

    • @mikaylafarmers5901
      @mikaylafarmers5901 Год назад +8

      Whilst I agree that an all out fur look can appear cheap, I think it can still be worn elegantly (like a beautiful vintage fur coat). I also think its important to think about the source of your fur, and making sure you are not buying the skin of an endangered animal. However don’t see much ethically wrong with wearing skin from pest species (in Australia it’s rabbit and fox) or animals where the meat is being consumed as well. Humans have relied on animals for resources for thousands of years, so I think its a big statement that animal products should be avoided totally.

    • @sadkitten1649
      @sadkitten1649 Год назад

      @@mikaylafarmers5901 But you also have to think when people wear fur nowadays it almost 100% of the time looks tacky. And it doesn’t matter where the fur is sourced from or if it’s an endangered animal or not, because people won’t know that. People will associate you with a certain stereotype that way, and not only that but furs have been out of fashion for decades. It’s better to avoid furs in general as it also ages people who wear it.

    • @alinastefana4138
      @alinastefana4138 Год назад +4

      @@sadkitten1649 I disagree. I think a vintage fur styled properly can look chic and give a certain vibe. A lot of people (including fashion people and celebrities) still wear fur and, while I completely disagree with purchasing new garments, they don’t look tacky or aged. I personally love animals very much and I hope they will stop being treated like objects in the law but the herd mentality drives me crazy, both in fashion and elsewhere.

    • @jodyjackson5475
      @jodyjackson5475 Год назад +2

      All my fur coats are farmed And(unapologetically) extremely warm)

    • @jodyjackson5475
      @jodyjackson5475 Год назад +2

      @@alinastefana4138well stated facts

  • @FCox-cy2zq
    @FCox-cy2zq Год назад

    Thank you 😊 💓 for your fur comments....I am a subscriber for life! God Bless you for having a voice for the voiceless. ❤

  • @angelavonborstel185
    @angelavonborstel185 Год назад +8

    I really wish you'd do a video specifically for plus sized women in mind. I am 5' 11" L/XL and my mom is 5' 10" 2XL. Finding tall clothes is horribly difficult but that combo with size is very difficult.

    • @eliushi6220
      @eliushi6220 Год назад +1

      I would like to see that too.

  • @JoGreen-c2t
    @JoGreen-c2t 2 месяца назад

    Frumpy v neck sweaters 'this is somebody who has probably given up on life' 😂 omg. This made me laugh so much and it's actually made me evaluate all my knitwear. You are always so succinct and love your delivery. I've been a follower for at least 7 years and somebody recently described me as always presenting as elegant !😘. But I think I am a bit 'match match' for your liking 😆

  • @susansmith7804
    @susansmith7804 Год назад +19

    Thank you Anna for pointing out animal cruelty, and that we do NOT need to harm animals to look expensive or try to impress others. I think the opposite is true for people who still wear fur, they look like terrible people. I have also been trying to use beauty products from companies that don't test on animals, another barbaric practice that needs to be outlawed! Enjoy all of your videos so much! Thank you for all the good advice 💜

    • @zilam98
      @zilam98 Год назад +2

      when it comes to cruelty free cosmetics/skin care, i usually rely on the Leaping Bunny list. i dont rely on the PETA list since PETA does not require annual renewal of being a cruelty free company. nor does PETA require that companies not only be cruelty free at product level, but also at ingredient level where it really matters. Leaping Bunny has more stringent requirements for companies to sustain their cruelty free label

    • @The_Naughty_Kitten
      @The_Naughty_Kitten Год назад

      ❤💚♥️

    • @druidriley3163
      @druidriley3163 Год назад

      Another poster on here pointed out that cashmere is cruel, wool is cruel, silk is cruel. So that pretty much takes out all natural fabrics except cotton and linen blends.

    • @nelly8592
      @nelly8592 Год назад

      But unfortunately she sometimes make advertising videos with Lilysilk or any other silk whitch is also a very huge animal cruelty (PETA report about silk production).

    • @nelly8592
      @nelly8592 Год назад

      Yes, I did it. And I think if she points out animal cruelty with fur, she should not advertise Lilysilk.

  • @valeriamancost
    @valeriamancost Год назад

    Anna you is amazing! I start follow your channel today! Thank you for help us to be more elegant! You is Swedish, this explains the elegant woman you is! I lived in Sweden and now I’m living in USA and Swedish society is more well dressed then Americans! I became your fan.

  • @gloombla
    @gloombla Год назад +4

    I actually like Melania’s style .. it reminds me of the classic Elena my outfits of the 1960 I love it

  • @beautybygoddessjeanette1793
    @beautybygoddessjeanette1793 Год назад +1

    My advice is never copy anyone else , be authentic and you are always going to nailed it, you know what it looks good on you so wear that.

  • @deborahsauter9794
    @deborahsauter9794 Год назад +67

    Anna, Frumpy means bad outfit composition commonly seen on out of shape, stylish, old women. Your "matchy, matchy" examples were off target. The monochrome looks are no longer DESPISED in current fashion. (Melania's style is always exemplary.)

    • @virgierutledge3004
      @virgierutledge3004 Год назад +8

      Melania's fashion is respectable and beautiful for a First Lady and mother. I will never be able to dress like that but appreciate her thoughtful and interesting attire. I despise red carpet Hollywood or Royals style. Love Anna's style.

    • @druidriley3163
      @druidriley3163 Год назад +4

      @@susanw620 Well, except for the " I don't care" jacket worn to a children's fundraiser. 😑

    • @Some_guy_passing_by
      @Some_guy_passing_by Год назад

      I actually really loved her lime green and brown combo outfit. It's beautiful.

  • @theodoratodorova6437
    @theodoratodorova6437 Год назад +1

    Love n missed Anna’s videos. Thank you for all the amazing tips!
    One thing I would like to point out is ,when talking about fur ,about animal cruelty n etc ,lets talk about stop buying high end and not only high end leather bags an etc. Nowadays I notice that ppl are all against animal abuse n etc ,reject fur but go for the luxury leather bags. Lets reject the leather bags n goods too.

  • @lb7183
    @lb7183 Год назад +29

    Thank you for speaking up about fur, it's truly tragic that some people still view it as luxury while it is indeed pure cruelty.

    • @CS-jk1mt
      @CS-jk1mt Год назад

      When I was on holiday in Greece, I saw a lot of fur shops in the tourist area :(

  • @abbyklake
    @abbyklake Год назад

    4:59 - someone finally said it!!! I completely agree, omg, THANK YOU! I feel so validated now hahahaha