1. You try to solve your own problems, but ask for help when you need it. 2. You know people don't owe you assistance. 3. You're attentive to your finances. 4. You don't rely on others' opinions on you. 5. You accept constructive criticism. Edit: omg 425 likes!!! Thank you
@@jahnavibhargava2572 I've been trying to get out of my mothers house ...but the terrible pay puts you in a bad position...doesnt mean that I'm not independent.. I really want to get out .
1. You try to solve problems by yourself 2. You are aware that people don’t owe you support 3. You are attentive to your finances 4. You don’t care about people’s opinion on how you live your life 5. You do well with getting constructive criticism
@@Psych2go hey please I need your help. I get obsessed easily and I find myself begging to others for attention many times (I have an abusive family). How do I stop it can you make a video on how to stop being obsessed
Whatever this was me as well just distance yourself and keep repeating to yourself in your head im my own person and i can do it myself whenever theres a problem make sure not to ask you can later on after youve stopped being obsessive i also think you might be co dependent so just you know stop relying on ppl
i have all these signs and i am a pretty independent person, but sometimes i wish i had someone to be with me when i need it when i get tired of always dealing with my problems alone.
Me: *sees the title and clicks* I already know I'm a pretty independent person. I had to be because of how I was raised. My mother kind of neglected me and my brothers, so I had to figure things out. But thankfully I don't live with her anymore. I'm safe and happy. Edit: I should clarify that I'm still in highschool and live my dad. All contact has been cut off with my mother. I haven't talked to, seen, or heard from my mother in 3 years. I don't even know where she is or what she's doing. There's so many things that happened that a child shouldn't have experienced, but I did. I'm not too comfortable talking about all of it, but bottom line; I'm safe. That's all that matters.
I have been an independent person since I was 21. I got my first apartment when I was 24. I am 28 now. I have friends but I still do things by myself when I feel like it.
I can definitely see myself as an independent person. I’m always use to working alone on certain things. I can also take care of myself as well. And your drawing is evolving. Amazing! 😊😊😊🙂
I'm still working on being independent, financially, emotionally, mentally, physically, but I can see the gradual improvements more each day in small ways. I'm happy with my progress. Can't wait when I can feel true independence.
6 Ways to Become More Independent, Less Codependent👇 Get to know yourself. “You can't be independent if you don't know who you are,” Challenge your beliefs and assumptions. Become assertive. Start making your own decisions. Meet your needs. Learn to soothe yourself.
@@yourbeloved5251 you do get he is just doing that for subs right with his name basicly begging for subs and "wholesome" text it's actually pretty misleading
I'm an independent dependant.. I rely on my mom for support, and a roof over my head, as I cannot get a job, due to mental and physical disabilities. I do however, cook, clean, and fix up the apartment. If I could work from home, I'd still need help making and getting to appointments, as well as getting groceries, as my anxiety keeps me from leaving the apartment by myself, and making calls.
1. You try to solve problems by yourself, but you don't hesitate to ask for help when you need it. 2. You know that people do not owe you assistance. 3. You're attentive to your finances. 4. You don't rely on the opinions of others regarding yourself and your livelihood. 5. You accept and are receptive to constructive criticism.
I lived with my parents for 2 years after I finished college. Despite a degree, I did not find a stable job until I was 29! Yes, it is embarrassing and took that long. I'm not particularly gifted nor do I have a super brain. I also suffered from clinical depression for years. All I did was continue to talke small steps forward. And if a f*ck up like me can do it, you can too. Head up, mate.
I don't think living with your parents is flag for immaturity/ dependancy. You can't made a one for one that independent means able to have your own place. Some aren't in a financial place to live alone. Like the area they live has a high cost of living and only a few jobs would guarantee able to afford the rent by yourself. And some could make the argument that having a roommate isn't independent because you're relying on the other to do their part. Financial and otherwise.
@@7184610369 You don't have to be embarrassed about it. I understand that in the West you usually go out of your parents' house quite early. But in Asia, well in particularly China (because I'm not 100% sure on other countries but I reckon it's similar), people often stay with their parents for a long time as well, often until they're married (or they go to a different place for college). There really shouldn't be such a stigma on people living with their parents at an older age as long as you help your parents out during those extra years
Yeah I am an independent person, i resolve problems myself and i like writing, drawing, or thinking to myself to express my feelings, and it is like i am in in my own universe, i dont need people’s help usually, because i have tactics to solve them myself. Who else is like this?? Is it just me???
self reliance, a lack of a need for validation, and mental point of origin are the main 3 things to not only be independent but build a confident independent life.
I'm a extremely independent person! Always have been. I lost everything I knew at age 13 because my house caught fire. My mom, sister, & 8 month old niece died. I lost every material thing I owned, & ended up moving to a new state and ultimately having to have myself placed in foster care. I at a young age very quickly learned to only depend on myself & be independent 😢. No one going to look out for you the way you will. No one owes you anything!
I got 4 out of 5. I'm 34, I still don't have financials I want, but I'm actively taking steps to achieve it. I went back to school to be a doctor at the age of 30 (I'm 10 years older than most of my classmates), in addition to a formal education I do self-studies (everything from marketing to relationships to psychology). I'm also building connections and trying out various side hustles. It has not been easy. I lost thousands of dollars on my latest business attempt (the pandemic is not to blame) and destroyed my credit score. I also failed several classes, even though I studied A LOT, and had to retake them. ...Life has its ups and downs...when a young man asked, "What should every adult have by the age of 30?" A wise man replied: That should be a positive attitude about your future. As a 66-year-old I can tell you that your next 30 years will probably be far better than your previous one. It certainly was for me. And, who knows? I may still have an even better thirty years in front of me yet to go. After all, my father is doing great and he is 93.
This made me feel very good! I'm 21 one and one of my biggest goals currently is being financially independent! And I really resonated with all of these signs! Let the future come!!!
1. You try to solve your own problems, but ask for help when you need it. 2. You know people don't owe you assistance. 3. You're attentive to your finances. 4. You don't rely on others' opinions on you. 5. You accept constructive criticism.
Me to a tee! Growing up in certain ways MAKES you be independent, self-reliant & self-sufficient! AND it’s a good feeling too! Also means you don’t owe anyone anything 😃Great video 🤩
Thanks for watching! :) If you liked the video, you might also like our video on signs you're more mentally strong than others! Have you watched it before?
I feel so thankful that i watch this video, this video gets me more knowledge about independent. Lately i experience being downfall because of the people surrounds me. It is very hard for me facing the struggles and difficuties at the same time but ill always pushing myself to be calm everyday and facing the problems at the same time. And now i decided to be an independent, i want to see myself improving each day. I decided that i dont need to depend on others just to make my day happy and i realize that i need to distance myself between them and now I feel so blessed that finally i overcome those challenges that i owe lately and i really thankful to God that finally it feels me okay without them.🥺🥰
10 years ago I was scared to leave my home and I relied on everyone around me, but as the years went on I gained confidence and learned to stand on my own two feet. I'm happier where I am now as I've become independent, but I still need to work on myself a little more.
I guess I'm quite an independent person as I'm very quiet and very introverted. I prefer to keep things to myself and help myself as there's not really anyone to help me. I don't care about what people's opinions are on me and don't care if I get criticised.
It's so relevant to me exactly!!! I think the independent person can be both introvert and extrovert. Frankly, I am extrovert who was raised from the warm family. As the youngest kid of the family, all members keep supporting me a lot. But my youngest brother concerned about my future. Then my family started to reinforce me to reliance on my own. At the beginning, I feels sorrowful, why they didn't help me as they did before. After more than 20 years of living as independent person, I feels so proud and confident to solve any problems no matter what how complicated it was. When get back to my beginning of self-reliance, I really appreciated what my family did to me. I know how hard they have to keep ignoring my feellimg and convincing me that I can do it. Now if I were them, I will do it absolutely. 😤
Aww, this helped me understand my little brother more. As the middle oldest child I grew up to be very self reliant and independent. I couldn't understand why my little bro was so dependent at first. Now that he's older he's really growing into himself and is becoming much more independent and proud of his accomplishments. Best wishes to you!
I'm more independent now as i was a year ago. Had a toxic relationship and needed help to get out of it. My family and friends helped me a lot and i was so thankful, that they listend to my worries and how i feel. I try to ask for help more, because i tend to bottle things up or tried to solve them on my own and it didn't work verry well... Even saving money is no problem for me, but i get a lot of financial help from my parents - i'm thankful for that too, but i want to earn it and i have a lot to solve psychological bevor i get a job aside from my studies. I also learned not to rely on others opinions. Sometimes it's hard to deal with criticism, but i'm working on that. One step at a time is okay. Have to have more patience with myselfe and don't rush things ^^
Great video! I actually grew into my independence before I needed to- my parents were fully supportive of me while I was doing a low-pay internship, but I wanted to become fully independent already. I lost a lot of weight because I couldn’t afford food (telling my parents I was fine, that I didn’t need any money). Eventually I broke down and told them the truth and they were like “Why didn’t you tell us!! You know we would send you grocery money!!” I felt very blessed to have them 😭
I love the idea how that little-plant-on-the-head man open the book titled with the topic of this video, like he is one of us, the audience. And at the end close the book, and go handle with something need to be handle, independently.
Really needed this! I'm going off to college, anxiety and nerves are trying to get to me, but I am excited to experience an independent environment. Now I can only pray that I mature for my own growth. This video is very encouraging. thank you!
i just cut the world off for a while recently...havent spoken to friends in a long time trying to do me right now...might reconnect in the future or might not we'll see...leaning to be independent as i go
@@pikalee3492 I've always put people first and that made me miserable now im in the pursuit of my own happiness im just trying to make myself smile doing stuff i enjoy havent paved it all out yet but as i said just learning as i go
I have always been independent since I was like a toddler since my parents always had arguments so I taught my self things like tieing my shoes or being able to do my hair by my self ngl I feel proud of this doing it since the first day
I do not ask for help when solving my problems anymore. It is not the case that I am able to deal with it all on my own, but, I remember when I was getting depressive some ten (10)years ago, I went to my uncle who I trusted was on top of issues for help and all he said to me was that it was a "state of my mind" so there was no cause for me to complain. Three (3) years after my discussion with him, my situation worsened and had to be taken to a psychiatric hospital and when I came back, the news all around was my Uncles and Aunties discussion that my doing drugs was what led to my hospitalization. Meanwhile, I do not even take alcohol, smoke,sniff or inject myself even with drugs that are legal in my country. This situation has left me more shattered to the degree that I feel people won't give me the help I need even when I ask for it.
When you bring to us the basic behavioural concepts we possess, it helps us to recognize our own credits that we haven't ever considered so far. Thank you psuche2go
I noticed that there are random frames where things change colors. Such as a tool changing from pink to gray. Also, I'm not very independent. I can work on that though
I highly recommend this channel for teenagers to watch,im 14 and it helped me grow up to be a great person and role model to others,im still getting to know myself from this channel but I started watching Psych2Go since I was 12 (I think)helped me improve my english too(since English is not my first language)I discovered so many things about me that I didn't know even existed in the first place,like im actually experiencing too much bipolar disorder symptoms(not claiming i have it since i haven't been diagnosed)but im too much of a coward to tell my mom about how sorry I am for yelling at her to stop doing stuffs bc they annoy me and that i possibly need help,anyways,Psych2Go is literally the best channel to watch growing up💖
I wouldn't say I'm completely an independent person but over time I am slowly becoming more independent every year, its tough some days but I'm getting there
• 0:51 : You try to solve your problems by yourself but do not hesitate to ask for help✨ • 1:30 : You know that people do not owe you assistance✨ • 2:07 : You're attentive to your finance✨ • 2:28 : You don't rely on the opinion of others regarding yourself and your livelihood ✨ • 3:05 : You accept and are receptive to construction criticism✨ ~ *hope this helps* 🍀 *have a great day everyone!!*
I believe I’m independent since I was a child - let’s find out for sure. My husband sure isn’t. It’s very tiresome. I have learned though that it is okay to ask for help if you are overwhelmed.
funny how this came up the moment i decided to take a break from my social medias because of my excessive dependency. i rarely comment on videos, but having just realized that those restless nights venting on every server that i am in bothers everyone pried my eyes wide open. i realized that this may be the reason why no one is paying attention to me anymore. that i should stand up on my own two feet and that i don't need attention from other people to make me feel more valid. i was so dependent on people and social media that it has been slowly eating me away mentally and emotionally, and it caused me a lot of loneliness and frustration and other things. i'm still working on everything, and though this is my second day of my break i could say that i'm slowly getting there. thank you for making this video, i truly appreciate it.
@@_Tae.kook_ I understand, it can be really is difficult. Thankfully it doesn't last forever, believe me. Just try your best to get in the mentality of wanting to change. Be stubborn with it. It may be easier said than done, but hey it's better to try than not.
Me seeing this video: "oh, so i'm an independent person-" My mom: "Why didn't you clean up your room?! And why are you didn't sweep the house, why is it always me. You aren't independent, you have to bla bla bla" Me: "Oh, nvm then.."
I love be independent because I see couple's being cute lovey dovey makes me feel even more glad I'm independent and I don't missed it...being in relationship or friends with guy's. I'am alone I ain't lonely.😁👏😀!!!!!!!! I ain't quite being single or independent because guy's hate it.
The most hardest situation independent person can be is being independent for a long time then fall inlove get used to the situation being with someone and suddenly one day she/he will learn to be independent again.
Guys, these animations 😭😭♥️♥️ Could we name that leafy character something cute? Pleaaaaaase?! Ps- I'm very co dependent 😮 I'll try to be more independent.
It's odd. The largest most crippling pit fall of my life has become my motivation. This is my 14th time moving and the first time living in my own apartment.
I relate to all 5. As the video says, most of this things are because of how you experienced your childhood, and in my case I got to learn to solve my problems by myself because usually my parents weren't available or quite willing to help me. It is kinda tough because the reason that helped me to learn this is the same reason for why I had a severe depression that I'm still going through, just not as intense because I've been getting better with time, thinking and psychological help. But also is the reason of why I can proudly say I am who I am, and the same reason that never let me to give up in life, even in the worst situations I've been through. Now I'm trying to get my official independence, living alone, getting my own food, transportation and job, but all to pursuit my dreams, not just for the sike of getting money and do nothing else with my life. Recently I've gotten to a lot of big scale failures where I've had to change literally all of my life plans, only this last 3 months I've had to do it more than 5 time because I'm still on my family's hands, and as I said before, they don't really care for me so it has been a real Rollercoaster this whole last time (specially with the global crisis we're going through right now). But I gotta keep going, I have to do this to get to the day that I can finally say I've done what I've ever wanted to, and have succeeded in life. But there's still a long way to run....
So umm I already knew from a young age that I was kinda independent, I grew up in a toxic family, my mother neglected me I was also a middle child so I was practically invisible. I honestly don't remember my childhood that much but I do remember that I kinda raised my little sister she was always with me and I fed her, bathe her, played with her, and did all the things a mother does with her child. My family was also emotionally unavailable so I dont show affection that much and I have a fear of intimacy. Ok that's enough rambling for now :')
I really love your voice, narrator! Whoever the narrator is, I think they should become an ASMRtist or do voice work on the Calm app, if they don't already do that.
So I am texting my friend this moring she was being very ''depressd''. She self diagnosis herself with depression. I do not like what she is doing its getting me feel mad. Please pyshc2go help and if you ever happen to you feel welcome to repley. Thank you have a wonderful day!
Independence is all about being in the middle. Don't be too withdrawn and ask for too much help when you should be able to handle it yourself, but don't carry ALL the load by yourself when its going to make you feel pained inside. A healthy balance is what its all about.
So basically that's someone who's not even a Human Being cuz as far I know NO Human Being is 100 percent completely independent and "independence" seems kinda of overrated somehow
@@monabohamad2242 I interpret it moreso as not solely relying on other people. Needy people aren't the healthiest of people and often strain relationships of any kind due to insecurity.
I LOVE amanda's voice. Its so soothing. And the content is informative and stimulating. I realize I have some work to do but am encouraged to maken changes. Thanks Amanda and Psych to go team. Please keep up the good work!
I was feeling so dependent. And then I realized that I am pretty independent. I am asking for help when I need it. I am accepting criticism. Anyway. I am an independent person.
# 5 is one of the most important. If you can't take real criticism, not just keep you down kind. You think your perfect, and knew everything about something. No one is that, however you can get better and maybe find an even easier and better solution to the problem than ever. But always give credit to everything and everyone in your final amazing achievements. Much love light and knowledge that is infinite, we can never know it all at once.
I feel like I relate to all of them but number 5 because I have been infantilized my whole life and my parents (who care for me but in the wrong way) will never agree to what I’m saying or give real constructive criticism and I never know whose criticism to trust
The thing is I'm already an independent person but my parents don't like because they're thinking that doing things in my own way without their opinions or guidance is a rebellion. So, I just play dumb around them.
I can't entirely say that I am an independent person now, but at some points, you mention in this video make me realize I almost there. Btw the animation you made and your soft voice made a lot of inspiration. Thank you ❤
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I love that you guys are making psychology more accessible.
Aww. Thank you for the kind words! It means a lot! Though we are running out of ideas and need some! Feel free to suggest any that comes to mind!
@@Psych2go Signs I need to start maturing?
@@Psych2go Overcoming shynessssssssss
Psych2Go childhood abuse please
@@Psych2go I- Did I hear that somewhere else before?
1. You try to solve your own problems, but ask for help when you need it.
2. You know people don't owe you assistance.
3. You're attentive to your finances.
4. You don't rely on others' opinions on you.
5. You accept constructive criticism.
Edit: omg 425 likes!!! Thank you
6. You don't live with your parents
Welp
Jahnavi Bhargava well not really, not everyone can move out there parents house. But that doesn’t mean there not independent.
Number 1
Thanks for putting this together! Let us know if we've missed any! :)
@@jahnavibhargava2572 I've been trying to get out of my mothers house ...but the terrible pay puts you in a bad position...doesnt mean that I'm not independent.. I really want to get out .
Me: *sees title*
My introverted quarantined self:
*Clicks*
Lol yup
whomst has awaken The ancient one my ambivert quarantined self:
XD same here
Thanks for your support! What did you think of the video? :)
-P2G Monica
@xX_damit_alaska_xX cewl good job 👍👍
1. You try to solve problems by yourself
2. You are aware that people don’t owe you support
3. You are attentive to your finances
4. You don’t care about people’s opinion on how you live your life
5. You do well with getting constructive criticism
Thanks for the list! What other points would you like to add in this list that we might have missed? :)
@@Psych2go hey please I need your help. I get obsessed easily and I find myself begging to others for attention many times (I have an abusive family). How do I stop it can you make a video on how to stop being obsessed
Whatever this was me as well just distance yourself and keep repeating to yourself in your head im my own person and i can do it myself whenever theres a problem make sure not to ask you can later on after youve stopped being obsessive i also think you might be co dependent so just you know stop relying on ppl
i have all these signs and i am a pretty independent person, but sometimes i wish i had someone to be with me when i need it when i get tired of always dealing with my problems alone.
3 and 5 are the only ones on this list that I struggle with.
“Maturity is when you stop complaining and making excuses, and start making changes.”
― Roy T. Bennett
Well seem like all ot Britain and the Netherlands are babies since we complain about the weather so often 🙃
Then im anything but mature
Guess I’m not Mature then 😳
Absolutely right 🙂🙂🙂
Love it! This one goes on my favorite quotes. 😁
When I was younger I didn’t like being seen as needy or dependent and truthfully I still don’t.
Your profile picture. Are you a fan of the anime "fairy tail"?
Omggggggggggg helloo fellow fairy
Michael Crouson yes sir 🤪
Jahnavi Bhargava hi!🙂
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*You’re a very intelligent and adorable human! Stay healthy during quarantine*
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This made my day better, thank you
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Why do I see these types of comments everywhere?
@@nemmnemms bots
Can you do a video on “How Does Having No Friends Affect You?”?
Sure! That would be quite interesting!
Psych2Go Holy Crap! Thank you!
Back to the Future fan88 first, love your username, second, I also need this topic made as a video.
@@Psych2go thank you
Psych2Go yes please I would like to know too
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Me: *sees the title and clicks*
I already know I'm a pretty independent person. I had to be because of how I was raised. My mother kind of neglected me and my brothers, so I had to figure things out. But thankfully I don't live with her anymore. I'm safe and happy.
Edit:
I should clarify that I'm still in highschool and live my dad. All contact has been cut off with my mother. I haven't talked to, seen, or heard from my mother in 3 years. I don't even know where she is or what she's doing. There's so many things that happened that a child shouldn't have experienced, but I did. I'm not too comfortable talking about all of it, but bottom line; I'm safe. That's all that matters.
i’m sorry you went through that and i hope you are doing well now :)
@@hannah5092 I am thank you.
That’s gud :)
so sorry you had experienced that :( i'm happy you're doing better now. sending you lots of positivity!
-p2g monica
@@Psych2go aw, thank you so much! You all have helped me a lot throughout this past year. Thank you for everything you do🥺♥️
I have been an independent person since I was 21. I got my first apartment when I was 24. I am 28 now. I have friends but I still do things by myself when I feel like it.
Lucky you.
Congrats! I've been on my own since I was 19 and I love it too! Wasn't always easy but I love the journey and growth. ☀️
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I can definitely see myself as an independent person. I’m always use to working alone on certain things. I can also take care of myself as well. And your drawing is evolving. Amazing! 😊😊😊🙂
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I'm still working on being independent, financially, emotionally, mentally, physically, but I can see the gradual improvements more each day in small ways. I'm happy with my progress. Can't wait when I can feel true independence.
Proud of you!
6 Ways to Become More Independent, Less Codependent👇
Get to know yourself. “You can't be independent if you don't know who you are,”
Challenge your beliefs and assumptions.
Become assertive.
Start making your own decisions.
Meet your needs.
Learn to soothe yourself.
*dear stranger reading this, may your parents live more than 100 years*
Your welcome you got 1 sub
@@yourbeloved5251 you do get he is just doing that for subs right with his name basicly begging for subs and "wholesome" text it's actually pretty misleading
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@@bakatoaster6000-yt why???
I'm an independent dependant..
I rely on my mom for support, and a roof over my head, as I cannot get a job, due to mental and physical disabilities. I do however, cook, clean, and fix up the apartment. If I could work from home, I'd still need help making and getting to appointments, as well as getting groceries, as my anxiety keeps me from leaving the apartment by myself, and making calls.
1. You try to solve problems by yourself, but you don't hesitate to ask for help when you need it.
2. You know that people do not owe you assistance.
3. You're attentive to your finances.
4. You don't rely on the opinions of others regarding yourself and your livelihood.
5. You accept and are receptive to constructive criticism.
Me, a college dropout who's been unemployed and living with their parents for a year: hUh, I wOnDEr wHat 5 sIgnS I dOn'T ShoW?
I lived with my parents for 2 years after I finished college. Despite a degree, I did not find a stable job until I was 29! Yes, it is embarrassing and took that long. I'm not particularly gifted nor do I have a super brain. I also suffered from clinical depression for years. All I did was continue to talke small steps forward. And if a f*ck up like me can do it, you can too. Head up, mate.
I don't think living with your parents is flag for immaturity/ dependancy. You can't made a one for one that independent means able to have your own place. Some aren't in a financial place to live alone.
Like the area they live has a high cost of living and only a few jobs would guarantee able to afford the rent by yourself. And some could make the argument that having a roommate isn't independent because you're relying on the other to do their part. Financial and otherwise.
It just means your time has not come yet ;)
@@7184610369 You don't have to be embarrassed about it. I understand that in the West you usually go out of your parents' house quite early. But in Asia, well in particularly China (because I'm not 100% sure on other countries but I reckon it's similar), people often stay with their parents for a long time as well, often until they're married (or they go to a different place for college). There really shouldn't be such a stigma on people living with their parents at an older age as long as you help your parents out during those extra years
With the way the economy, and quite frankly the world, is going, we are going to be living with out parents into our 40s, because the system is fucked
All the women, who are independent 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Yeah? What about them? Also, why are we excluding all the independent men, even though we were talking about independent PEOPLE
Mr Diamond I was quoting a destiny’s child song.
@@joeyjointjebaiter1275 no one asked unfortunately for you. She said ladies as in females. Independent men are nice but calm ya ass down
Nicole on EQ LOOOOOOL they got so pressed💀💀💀
@@nicoleonfeels and you didnt put it in quotation marks?
Yeah I am an independent person, i resolve problems myself and i like writing, drawing, or thinking to myself to express my feelings, and it is like i am in in my own universe, i dont need people’s help usually, because i have tactics to solve them myself. Who else is like this?? Is it just me???
Me lol I'm also an INFP
self reliance, a lack of a need for validation, and mental point of origin are the main 3 things to not only be independent but build a confident independent life.
I'm a extremely independent person! Always have been. I lost everything I knew at age 13 because my house caught fire. My mom, sister, & 8 month old niece died. I lost every material thing I owned, & ended up moving to a new state and ultimately having to have myself placed in foster care. I at a young age very quickly learned to only depend on myself & be independent 😢. No one going to look out for you the way you will. No one owes you anything!
I used to be independent, now I’m trying to find it again.
I got 4 out of 5. I'm 34, I still don't have financials I want, but I'm actively taking steps to achieve it. I went back to school to be a doctor at the age of 30 (I'm 10 years older than most of my classmates), in addition to a formal education I do self-studies (everything from marketing to relationships to psychology). I'm also building connections and trying out various side hustles. It has not been easy. I lost thousands of dollars on my latest business attempt (the pandemic is not to blame) and destroyed my credit score. I also failed several classes, even though I studied A LOT, and had to retake them.
...Life has its ups and downs...when a young man asked, "What should every adult have by the age of 30?" A wise man replied: That should be a positive attitude about your future. As a 66-year-old I can tell you that your next 30 years will probably be far better than your previous one. It certainly was for me. And, who knows? I may still have an even better thirty years in front of me yet to go. After all, my father is doing great and he is 93.
In general, being independent is so liberating, you get to create without someone looking over your shoulders.
~Raheem Jarbo
"Emotional hurt is the price a person has to pay in order to be independent."
- Haruki Murakami
This made me feel very good! I'm 21 one and one of my biggest goals currently is being financially independent! And I really resonated with all of these signs! Let the future come!!!
1. You try to solve your own problems, but ask for help when you need it.
2. You know people don't owe you assistance.
3. You're attentive to your finances.
4. You don't rely on others' opinions on you.
5. You accept constructive criticism.
Me to a tee! Growing up in certain ways MAKES you be independent, self-reliant & self-sufficient! AND it’s a good feeling too! Also means you don’t owe anyone anything 😃Great video 🤩
Take care of yourself. You're worth it.
Already do
Nice a video that I can truly relate to. Not so much the last point, but everything else explains me in a nutshell.
Thanks for watching! :) If you liked the video, you might also like our video on signs you're more mentally strong than others! Have you watched it before?
I never knew I was independent to be honest. I thought I wasn’t because I can be shy.
Of course I’m none of these. But when it comes to the “bad” videos such as “10 reasons why you’re co-dependent”, I’m 13/12.
Smh.
Lmao! It just means you are our perfect audience ;)
Lol I can relate 😂
I feel so thankful that i watch this video, this video gets me more knowledge about independent. Lately i experience being downfall because of the people surrounds me. It is very hard for me facing the struggles and difficuties at the same time but ill always pushing myself to be calm everyday and facing the problems at the same time. And now i decided to be an independent, i want to see myself improving each day. I decided that i dont need to depend on others just to make my day happy and i realize that i need to distance myself between them and now I feel so blessed that finally i overcome those challenges that i owe lately and i really thankful to God that finally it feels me okay without them.🥺🥰
10 years ago I was scared to leave my home and I relied on everyone around me, but as the years went on I gained confidence and learned to stand on my own two feet. I'm happier where I am now as I've become independent, but I still need to work on myself a little more.
A video that always start with "thank you" to remind us become a grateful person💕
I guess I'm quite an independent person as I'm very quiet and very introverted. I prefer to keep things to myself and help myself as there's not really anyone to help me. I don't care about what people's opinions are on me and don't care if I get criticised.
Same here :)
I'm the same don't ask anyone to do anything I can't do myself.
It's so relevant to me exactly!!! I think the independent person can be both introvert and extrovert. Frankly, I am extrovert who was raised from the warm family. As the youngest kid of the family, all members keep supporting me a lot. But my youngest brother concerned about my future. Then my family started to reinforce me to reliance on my own.
At the beginning, I feels sorrowful, why they didn't help me as they did before. After more than 20 years of living as independent person, I feels so proud and confident to solve any problems no matter what how complicated it was. When get back to my beginning of self-reliance, I really appreciated what my family did to me. I know how hard they have to keep ignoring my feellimg and convincing me that I can do it.
Now if I were them, I will do it absolutely. 😤
Aww, this helped me understand my little brother more. As the middle oldest child I grew up to be very self reliant and independent. I couldn't understand why my little bro was so dependent at first. Now that he's older he's really growing into himself and is becoming much more independent and proud of his accomplishments. Best wishes to you!
I'm more independent now as i was a year ago. Had a toxic relationship and needed help to get out of it. My family and friends helped me a lot and i was so thankful, that they listend to my worries and how i feel. I try to ask for help more, because i tend to bottle things up or tried to solve them on my own and it didn't work verry well...
Even saving money is no problem for me, but i get a lot of financial help from my parents - i'm thankful for that too, but i want to earn it and i have a lot to solve psychological bevor i get a job aside from my studies. I also learned not to rely on others opinions. Sometimes it's hard to deal with criticism, but i'm working on that. One step at a time is okay. Have to have more patience with myselfe and don't rush things ^^
People keep saying 2020 is the worst year, but it made me develop so much. I more independent I'm not fully but I'm getting there
Great video! I actually grew into my independence before I needed to- my parents were fully supportive of me while I was doing a low-pay internship, but I wanted to become fully independent already. I lost a lot of weight because I couldn’t afford food (telling my parents I was fine, that I didn’t need any money). Eventually I broke down and told them the truth and they were like “Why didn’t you tell us!! You know we would send you grocery money!!” I felt very blessed to have them 😭
Good parents are a blessing ❤️ sometimes our pride or stubbornness makes it difficult to ask for help ☀️
I only know the 4 signs
1.strong
2. Independent
3. Black
4.woman
1. Strong
2. Independent
3. Woman
4. Who
5. Dont
6. Need
7. No
8. Man
Yessss
I love the idea how that little-plant-on-the-head man open the book titled with the topic of this video, like he is one of us, the audience. And at the end close the book, and go handle with something need to be handle, independently.
"Nobody owes you anything" seems to get me in trouble sometimes lol
I am really independent.
Really needed this! I'm going off to college, anxiety and nerves are trying to get to me, but I am excited to experience an independent environment. Now I can only pray that I mature for my own growth. This video is very encouraging. thank you!
I'm a 14 years old girl and I'm independent!
Who among you know that you are already independent yet still watched this? İ’ve been pretty much independent since i was 10. İts liberating. 🙂
I passed my expectations of being lazy, independent and introvert. With flying colors
That’s good to know! How many signs did you resonate with?
i just cut the world off for a while recently...havent spoken to friends in a long time trying to do me right now...might reconnect in the future or might not we'll see...leaning to be independent as i go
That's great that you are taking time for yourself ☀️
@@pikalee3492 I've always put people first and that made me miserable now im in the pursuit of my own happiness im just trying to make myself smile doing stuff i enjoy havent paved it all out yet but as i said just learning as i go
these always come at the perfect time
Yes they do
At 2 AM?
The middle of the night is a good time for them to come to me but it's daytime for me right now so you poor soul
Love the little animated stories that go along with each point!
I have always been independent since I was like a toddler since my parents always had arguments so I taught my self things like tieing my shoes or being able to do my hair by my self ngl I feel proud of this doing it since the first day
I do not ask for help when solving my problems anymore. It is not the case that I am able to deal with it all on my own, but, I remember when I was getting depressive some ten (10)years ago, I went to my uncle who I trusted was on top of issues for help and all he said to me was that it was a "state of my mind" so there was no cause for me to complain.
Three (3) years after my discussion with him, my situation worsened and had to be taken to a psychiatric hospital and when I came back, the news all around was my Uncles and Aunties discussion that my doing drugs was what led to my hospitalization.
Meanwhile, I do not even take alcohol, smoke,sniff or inject myself even with drugs that are legal in my country.
This situation has left me more shattered to the degree that I feel people won't give me the help I need even when I ask for it.
I love her voice!!!!!! She can narrate a horror story and I’ll still hear it and fall asleep peacefully!
Thank you for your kind comment :)
Horror runs on deception. So no, you will not sleep.
When you bring to us the basic behavioural concepts we possess, it helps us to recognize our own credits that we haven't ever considered so far. Thank you psuche2go
I noticed that there are random frames where things change colors. Such as a tool changing from pink to gray. Also, I'm not very independent. I can work on that though
Good catch!
Nothing like making a huge topic like psychology simple and accessible with adorable animated characters
To anyone reading this, have an amazing day 💜💜💜
Thanks you too and have an amazing day
Could you please do how to stop being irritable
Love you guys your doing some really great things
Love the new art style :D
Hope you notice this :)
I highly recommend this channel for teenagers to watch,im 14 and it helped me grow up to be a great person and role model to others,im still getting to know myself from this channel but I started watching Psych2Go since I was 12 (I think)helped me improve my english too(since English is not my first language)I discovered so many things about me that I didn't know even existed in the first place,like im actually experiencing too much bipolar disorder symptoms(not claiming i have it since i haven't been diagnosed)but im too much of a coward to tell my mom about how sorry I am for yelling at her to stop doing stuffs bc they annoy me and that i possibly need help,anyways,Psych2Go is literally the best channel to watch growing up💖
Mann this is speaking to me
I see!! How many signs did you relate to?
Her voice yall. Its so soft and smooth. Utterly peaceful to listen to.
Ohmygosh! This is one of those times when the art style goes perfectly with the narrator!
Yess what did you think of the video contents? :D -P2G Monica
Psych2Go It was super informational, I love the animation, and it was just overall amazing. You guys really got me into psychology.
I wouldn't say I'm completely an independent person but over time I am slowly becoming more independent every year, its tough some days but I'm getting there
Funny thing how I'm in vacation at my aunt's and my uncle's, and they trying to make me more independent and this comes out lol
I'm independent but life circumstances always stand in the way of my independence
Although I have physical disabilities, I'm a very independent person😎✌
• 0:51 : You try to solve your problems by yourself but do not hesitate to ask for help✨
• 1:30 : You know that people do not owe you assistance✨
• 2:07 : You're attentive to your finance✨
• 2:28 : You don't rely on the opinion of others regarding yourself and your livelihood ✨
• 3:05 : You accept and are receptive to construction criticism✨
~ *hope this helps* 🍀
*have a great day everyone!!*
I believe I’m independent since I was a child - let’s find out for sure. My husband sure isn’t. It’s very tiresome. I have learned though that it is okay to ask for help if you are overwhelmed.
funny how this came up the moment i decided to take a break from my social medias because of my excessive dependency.
i rarely comment on videos, but having just realized that those restless nights venting on every server that i am in bothers everyone pried my eyes wide open. i realized that this may be the reason why no one is paying attention to me anymore. that i should stand up on my own two feet and that i don't need attention from other people to make me feel more valid. i was so dependent on people and social media that it has been slowly eating me away mentally and emotionally, and it caused me a lot of loneliness and frustration and other things.
i'm still working on everything, and though this is my second day of my break i could say that i'm slowly getting there. thank you for making this video, i truly appreciate it.
I can never get over the art, it's my favourite
Thank you! They are getting better aren't they?
@@Psych2go yep I always love watching your videos for the art and of course for the information's too
I really love this channel. Helps people and is accessible. Also explains pyschogy easy.
I'm nowhere near independent :(
I see. What do you plan to do next to change that? :)
I actually don't know, no matter how much I think of a solution I always cower away from it
@@_Tae.kook_ I understand, it can be really is difficult. Thankfully it doesn't last forever, believe me. Just try your best to get in the mentality of wanting to change. Be stubborn with it. It may be easier said than done, but hey it's better to try than not.
I always try to solve my own problems, but sometimes I have a hard time asking for help, it's really a bad habit I'm still fighting with.
Me seeing this video: "oh, so i'm an independent person-"
My mom: "Why didn't you clean up your room?! And why are you didn't sweep the house, why is it always me. You aren't independent, you have to bla bla bla"
Me: "Oh, nvm then.."
@Angel Starwind lmao yeaa, but i still love her
I'm independent person but I still have to work on my finances ☺️
I love be independent because I see couple's being cute lovey dovey makes me feel even more glad I'm independent and I don't missed it...being in relationship or friends with guy's.
I'am alone I ain't lonely.😁👏😀!!!!!!!!
I ain't quite being single or independent because guy's hate it.
The most hardest situation independent person can be is being independent for a long time then fall inlove get used to the situation being with someone and suddenly one day she/he will learn to be independent again.
Guys, these animations 😭😭♥️♥️ Could we name that leafy character something cute? Pleaaaaaase?!
Ps- I'm very co dependent 😮 I'll try to be more independent.
It's odd. The largest most crippling pit fall of my life has become my motivation. This is my 14th time moving and the first time living in my own apartment.
I’m independent in pretty much everything except cleaning the bathroom 🤢🤢
I relate to all 5. As the video says, most of this things are because of how you experienced your childhood, and in my case I got to learn to solve my problems by myself because usually my parents weren't available or quite willing to help me.
It is kinda tough because the reason that helped me to learn this is the same reason for why I had a severe depression that I'm still going through, just not as intense because I've been getting better with time, thinking and psychological help. But also is the reason of why I can proudly say I am who I am, and the same reason that never let me to give up in life, even in the worst situations I've been through.
Now I'm trying to get my official independence, living alone, getting my own food, transportation and job, but all to pursuit my dreams, not just for the sike of getting money and do nothing else with my life.
Recently I've gotten to a lot of big scale failures where I've had to change literally all of my life plans, only this last 3 months I've had to do it more than 5 time because I'm still on my family's hands, and as I said before, they don't really care for me so it has been a real Rollercoaster this whole last time (specially with the global crisis we're going through right now). But I gotta keep going, I have to do this to get to the day that I can finally say I've done what I've ever wanted to, and have succeeded in life.
But there's still a long way to run....
I love your tenacity! I hope you reach your dreams! ☀️
@@pikalee3492 ohh ty!, I hope you do as well :)
Why are 2 people 2days early
So umm I already knew from a young age that I was kinda independent, I grew up in a toxic family, my mother neglected me I was also a middle child so I was practically invisible. I honestly don't remember my childhood that much but I do remember that I kinda raised my little sister she was always with me and I fed her, bathe her, played with her, and did all the things a mother does with her child. My family was also emotionally unavailable so I dont show affection that much and I have a fear of intimacy. Ok that's enough rambling for now :')
*literally 99% wont see this but if you do, God bless you, stay safe and have a wonderful day read my name btw*
Thanks, 1000 Subscribers without any videos 👍
Thank you so much, you as well!
I subbed
God bless you too and stay safe as well
Whyyyyy
I really love your voice, narrator! Whoever the narrator is, I think they should become an ASMRtist or do voice work on the Calm app, if they don't already do that.
So I am texting my friend this moring she was being very ''depressd''. She self diagnosis herself with depression. I do not like what she is doing its getting me feel mad. Please pyshc2go help and if you ever happen to you feel welcome to repley. Thank you have a wonderful day!
Maybe you can suggest to her to do meditation...either still or moving meditation will help to a certain extent.
Independence is all about being in the middle. Don't be too withdrawn and ask for too much help when you should be able to handle it yourself, but don't carry ALL the load by yourself when its going to make you feel pained inside. A healthy balance is what its all about.
What’s up with the dates of these comments >_>
Yea ik its weird 🤔
*ITS TIME TRAVELERS!!! IM NOT CRAZY ITS TIME TRAVELERRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRS*
@@FernandowoTM :O
Comment: 12 minutes ago
Video: 8 minutes ago
@@FernandowoTM *gasp*
Also, not relying on/thriving off of friendships, relationships, blood relations, etc
So basically that's someone who's not even a Human Being cuz as far I know NO Human Being is 100 percent completely independent and "independence" seems kinda of overrated somehow
@@monabohamad2242 I interpret it moreso as not solely relying on other people. Needy people aren't the healthiest of people and often strain relationships of any kind due to insecurity.
Who else feel like her voice is so peaceful and charming... Or it was only me ...
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Now, regardless to the fact i dont like to ask for help always, i want to thank you for this 😤
I LOVE amanda's voice. Its so soothing. And the content is informative and stimulating. I realize I have some work to do but am encouraged to maken changes. Thanks Amanda and Psych to go team. Please keep up the good work!
I was feeling so dependent. And then I realized that I am pretty independent. I am asking for help when I need it. I am accepting criticism. Anyway.
I am an independent person.
# 5 is one of the most important. If you can't take real criticism, not just keep you down kind. You think your perfect, and knew everything about something. No one is that, however you can get better and maybe find an even easier and better solution to the problem than ever. But always give credit to everything and everyone in your final amazing achievements. Much love light and knowledge that is infinite, we can never know it all at once.
I feel like I relate to all of them but number 5 because I have been infantilized my whole life and my parents (who care for me but in the wrong way) will never agree to what I’m saying or give real constructive criticism and I never know whose criticism to trust
The thing is I'm already an independent person but my parents don't like because they're thinking that doing things in my own way without their opinions or guidance is a rebellion. So, I just play dumb around them.
No need for a therapist when you have this channel. And it is free. Like it.
That's right..
I can't entirely say that I am an independent person now, but at some points, you mention in this video make me realize I almost there.
Btw the animation you made and your soft voice made a lot of inspiration. Thank you ❤