How to stop being jealous FOREVER: #1 ROOT CAUSE OF JEALOUSY REVEALED
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- Опубликовано: 8 фев 2017
- Overcoming Jealousy forever - the root cause revealed so we can heal the root instead of endlessly fighting the symptoms.
Only when we know the real cause, we can heal the root and there for automatically liberate ourselves from every other jealousy-symptom too, like f.e. having emotions of anger, resentment, inadequacy, helplessness and disgust. etc.
Only if we know what the real root of the problem is, we will know how we can solve our jealousy completely and for once and for all.
Jealousy is another word for fear of losing someone, something or a status.
To end the root of the problem together with all it symptoms for once and for all, and there for to shine the light onto our ‘dark’ jealousy or fear, I came up with a drawing to show you.
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For me, jealousy stems from fear of the deep intense grief of anticipating and/or experiencing and/or remembering the loss of something (or worse)someone precious. I definitely struggle with this.
Me too then u have to just focus on your good deeds goal and not think of jealousy
I see girls with other boys it's just not right but I will never be jealous ever again ❤
I have issues with jealousy in terms of relationships...i cant trust guys not to be cheaters and i fear they are going to leave me for someone better.
Me too
Becki did this video or the videos from his blog help you in the long run? I see your comment is 9 mo old, so I guess you had time to try these advices here in order to solve your jealousy :).
Wall of control
Overthinking
Obsessive Action
Temporary FIX
Lost Identity Prison
ThankYou for this wisdom 💝
I have not ever really felt jealousy that I can recall. At 67. Even when my best friend and husband starting having an affair I just said to myself. They deserve each other let me go find someone else.
That must be miserable not to be confident in your heart and reject jealousy.
Yes in so many related or apearence of others can add up if one is not building there own foundation of ecceptance Jealousy kicks in with confusion aloneness with the abuser and the victim.
Another liar. Everyone feels envy. It is an emotion of the body. It manifests itself giving you an unpleasant sensation over your body. I'm 64 and I have never met a person who does not feel envy. Envy is par of the body. What you have to do is when one feels it one has to stop it from taking control, as otherwise envy will make you speak, move and the like. However, everybody feels envy because it is part of our bodies.
@@jesusbermudez6775 thnx!
@@RawOlympia Thanks to you.
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Lord, I lay my heart and my desires before you. Search my heart, know my thoughts and see if there is any grievous way in me. Show me where envy has caused me to pursue more over pursuing you. Realign my heart with your will for my life in the name of Jesus Christ Amen.
Brother these are so much more helpful than all the "how to avoid/recognize X toxic person/behavior" videos. Those helped me find you, but I really like the focus on fixing OUR issues rather than looking at everyone else's flaws to explain our problems. SO GOOD.
Thank you for your kind words! 🙏 Means a lot.
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I am watching this video with tears in my eyes...As my bf met his ex crush ... N it's really difficult for me... N i hardly have any frnds to share this.. so typing it here... In order to just tell everything i feel...
My fear and jelousy distroyed my life. I lost my husband and our house because of fear.
Im so sorry.i isolated myself all my life and feel so sad.becuz of this ..can i talk to u?
I think the mask is the solution
Pam, you can talk to me
@@constantinecouponz3140 hello.i live in wpb.im sorry to b personal.but id like to talk to u.lwt me know if u want to.
@@pamdewall4588 of course!!!
My husband is always flirting with other women and this annoys me . I think this is because I feel soooo insecure ...
If I can heal myself , then his behaviour dosn' t have any control over me
I think it’s disrespectful to flirt with others when you already have a partner - and even worse if it is in front of your partner. It only shows your partner doesn’t care about making you feel safe and secure with him; it shows he doesn’t care about showing the world you two are a team and that he respects you and your relationship. If you are insecure he should be on your side instead of trying to make you more insecure - this situation sounds unhealthy, damaging and toxic. Please try to respect yourself more than let a partner/husband think it’s ok to treat you like this ... and even worse than just thinking it’s ok to treat your spouse like this to actually treat you and your relationship like this in front of others. All the best.
Fliter in front of you!!!!...very sad relationship..
@@TL-ch1xd I hate so many men like this..bless you
I know this is an old comment, but what your husband is doing is extremely disrespectful and toxic. You shouldn’t feel like any of that is your fault.
From a man’s point of view
This is a great illustration of jealousy... thank you. 🙏🏽😇💞
Thank you for this vid, it opened my eyes right away after trying long time to run away from my fears instead of fighting, and fixing them.
You are welcome Samir!
I love this video! Great work! 💕
I think jealousy is just an insecurity to interact with people. If someone makes you feel small, weak, feeble or belittle you in subtle ways, then its not jealousy it the other person being inconsiderate. You should tell them or stop letting it happen.
Theres a difference between someone being belittling, an overt behaviour, and us feeling jealousy based on our feelings about something.
This is hard to grasp. It would be nice if you had tangible examples.
Tangable????the distractions are the things we search for. To remove the pain.the pain.
This makes so much sense. Thank God your video popped up on my feed. Will share will anyone who may need this. Thank you 😊
Thank you for sharing 🙏
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Scrolling just moments after this particular video played. And I'm not even gonna lie. The moment this man opened his mouth, I was immediately taken aback. I did *NOT* expect him to have such a thick accent. And, for some unknown reason, I didn't expect him to have ANY accent at all. Which is odd, for a number of reasons. Lol.
I am jealous of men sigh
Im feeling so sad today...
I can never be a man...
I been having jealousy for a week or so.I don’t have a life so I jus be here nothing else to think about no distractions jus distress and anger.I hate myself... 😢😭😭😭
U have to stop overthinking
fuck off, try having it your whole life, i know
Just amazing expressive words of positivity and healthy thinking.
GOD bless you Always Brother.
Meditate. 🙏🏼
Yes, works like nothing else! :)
In our world many people watch but few acknowledge. 💝
"Create out of JOY" 💝
Don't do it around jealous people?
But how do you actually remove your fears? Thats the hardest part.
You work on it building other thoughts against it and eventually your not the one riding the fear but the fear it self fades slowly.
@@trafficjon400 Pure bull shit.
You overcome the fears by exposing yourself to them. Now because they are fears they are going to try and make you run away. However, by constantly exposing yourself to them their strength diminishes and they no longer affect you.
I get angry, plus im afraid of my boyfriend take the piss when im honest in my feelings and loyal to him so i espect the same, plus i think i suffer of low confidence...im just afraid of being hurt.. 🙄😐😭
U must not overthink or worry then u will be happy
Thank you
You are welcome!
Thank you 💚
Please listen carefully !!!
A perfect video on compensation reality, but the truth is that fear is on a spectrum- We feel different degrees of it depending on circumstances. I advocate for lessening the fear, but we should accept an element of fear in trying to get anything to go a certain way. What makes your video awesome is that you were talking about high degrees of fear and their common cause. My advice is not to think of ever routing out fear, so much as to lessen it (with the same advice you've given here). People trying to avoid fear are afraid of it, you see? Let them have some, it'll give them courage. But always blocking out pain and feeling threatened/jealous for what you will lose is no way to live, so we're on the same page there. Thanks for the excellent video!
This is an interesting presentation
This is a wonderful video. I clicked on it planning on watching it later. I didn't want to watch it but I needed to. However, I couldn't click out because you are engaging and explained it in such a helpful manner.
And if u are lacking self love
Indeed, other words for 'lack of self love' are 'being disconnected from our core', because unsolved issues have been stuck between our distractions and core. The key lies in solving our unsolved issues until we feel re-connected with our core and therefor self love too. ❤️💎🙏🍀
this is the best presenting ive seen in a very long time! thanks for this.
Thank you.
I’m jealous of my boyfriend’s ex wife...... that he still loves her, that he gave more to her, that he treated her better than he does me.... most is unfounded, but I can’t stop hating her although he hadn’t seen her for three years... 🙈
Daisy Roots what happened meanwhile? Sorry but your comment seems like the beginning of a story and it makes me curious what follows 😂.
Man this is helping me overcome my jealousy and controlling thank u
How was it helpful? He just said fix the root problem, he didn't even give examples of how to do that
Has anybody checked out these videos was it a waste of time? Thank you for this it made sense
Highly recommended. Must watch
Thank you Leonel Molbert!
I am jealoud of my friends success. I am an artist(art) and seeing my friend get write ups in in magazines or getting gallery shows , solo shows etc makes me super jealous.
This is valuable content
Thank you! 🙏
But what if you don’t know what the root is? If you don’t know what the unsolved issues are? If it’s been decades under the mask and your memory has gaps and you just don’t remember the root. Only know the pain.
Then you need to do some soul searching. I would start by first practicing becoming aware. Whenever you feel a trigger, ask yourself what thoughts/ feelings are flashing through my mind?
If you can't think of thoughts, then ask yourself- if my feelings could talk, what would they say?
@@crys313 thx. I will try. I’m keeping a journal now trying to find this root but it’s buried under so much toxic crap that it’s like roots all over. But don’t know where the main root is. I know early childhood is the timeframe but still it’s difficult to remember. Any ideas on how to remember suppressed painful memories?
Thank you
Great wisdom ... wonder if u r a believer? Ty ya 😊
Ok..I see..the feeling of pain is like feeling of inadequacy..had to watch twice cause feeling of pain 😩 is like..I am not hurting..😆
U attract those kind of people.....
We do indeed receive the exact button-pushers, until we have solved the unsolved feelings being triggered when someone pushes our buttons. ❤️💎🙏🍀
Maybe you have to act like that, too. Mirror them if u dont want to be the victim anymore ..?
We do have the tendency to mirror or to do the same what we don't like. However the solution lies in making a 180° u-turn and focus on ourselves instead of on the other. What triggers our unsolved emotions that arise in relation to that person. Then learn how to solve our unsolved emotions, until the only thing left to be experienced are the untouched and unharmed independently fulfilled blank slate we actually are. For more info, make sure to watch the 4 free videos @www.alive-academy.com ❤️💎🙏🍀
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I don't think I get jealous I use to.
I wish u would elaborate on what unsolved pain means...that is where 🤔 I don't follow you...is it what I am not addressing..give examples so I can wake up or realize it
easy to understand.
hard to do.
but if i know that he is spending more time with the other female than me, idk if that is jelousy or envy. i dont think i am worse than that female, i just wish he would spend more time with me... its no about my self esteem i think. is that jelousy? his theory kinda makes sence tho, something to think about
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Im jealous of people who are not victim
Because others have abused them, too
Hoor ik daar een Vlaams accent?
So they get jealous
Endless
Well that would be stupid ...
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I just feel deluded. That's it
Deluded means someone inacted their power upon you. You are ultimately moving from a sense of powerlessness. I would look into where does that sense of powerless come from, and work on healing that.
Idk
But think im not
Like an ilness
Maybe they dont love themseves enough
Indeed, like a mentioned underneath your other comment, other words for 'lack of self love' are 'being disconnected from our core', because unsolved issues have been stuck between our distractions and core. The key lies in solving our unsolved issues until we feel re-connected with our core and therefor self love too. ❤️💎🙏🍀 Make sure to watch the 4 free videos regarding flushing out the unsolved issues once and for all @www.alive-academy.com
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Am trying to understand wat do it means when people been breaking in ur homes for years and cars and then hire others to do or say malicious things towards you and your kids in public💯..THEY SAY IT IS NOT JEALOUSLY THEY SAY AM JEALOUS OF THEM BUT I DONOT SEE MYSELF AS SUCH BC AM ALWAYS WILLING TO HELP OTHERS IF I CAN AND I ALWAYS STAY TO MYSELF..I DONOT FEEL NO JEALOUS FEELINGS AT ALL IN MY BODY OF NOONE OR WAT ANYBODY ELSE HAS...IF I CAN ASK A PERSON CAN THEY FIX SOMETHING FOR ME THEY WOULD SAY AM PICKY AND THAT IS WHY NOBODY LIKE DEALING WITH YOU BUT I WILL WATCH THE SAME PERSON I ASK FOR HELP GO HELP ANOTHER PERSON💯SO WHY ARE THEYS BOTHERING ME SAYING AM JEALOUS OF THEM AND AM NOT EVEN ACTING LIKE THAT...AM CONFUSED💯...AM TRYING TO UNDERSTAND WHY? LIKE OTHERS TOOK MY LICENSE TO SEE IF I WOULD BE JEALOUS OF OTHERS OR OTHERS WILL TRY TO MAKE ME JEALOUS BY DOING SOMETHING FOR SOMEONE ELSE AFTER I HAVE CALL THEM REPEATDLY..SO AM TRYING TO FIGURE OUT ARE THEY DOING THIS TO SEE IF I WOULD GET JEALOUS OR BE A JEALOUS PERSON BC OF THEY ATTITUDES TOWARDS ME OR BC THEY ARE JEALOUS OF HOW I HANDLE THINGS..AM CONFUSED AND STILL TRYING TO FIGURE OUT..DO I NEED TO CHANGE MYSELF FOR THEM TO STOP DESTROYING MINES....I DONOT KNOW WAT TO DO I TRIED EVERYTHING???
Kasheena does not"PLAY GAMES"GOD SAY DO UNTO OTHERS AS THEYS DO TOO YOU"I DONOT DO SUCH BEHAVIOR TOWARDS OTHER ITEMS NOR HOMES OR CARS OR WATEVER THEYS HAVE..I ONLY BOTHER OTHERS WHEN THEYS BOTHER ME#bait
Yes,the feelings is involved.
As a BTS fan (ARMY) I totally need this video..
My ex-boyfriend Samir in India🇮🇳... him always jealousy to me feeling is difficult 😔
I don't have boyfriend another man of nothing...
I love very it's his Samir
But my from Brazil 🇧🇷
Maybe they are victim, too
I Don’t Fancy Any Women
Can I say you're really cute
Thats why people spread negativity
11 mins for what
just another 11 minute advertisement. people are seeking these videos looking for help for dark an painful time, end everyone just wnats to sell you something. thanks for nothing!
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