I Lost 180 Lbs - 5 Mind Shifts That Changed Everything | Half of Carla

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  • ❤I Lost 180 Lbs - 5 Mind Shifts That Changed Everything | Half of Carla
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    Continuing from my talk about negative self talk, I wanted to share with you some of the mind shift changes which were instrumental to my weight loss and sustaining my weight maintenance.
    As always I am not a medical professional/therapist and you should always seek medical advice prior to making changes to your diet. The content of this video is my experience only and in no way should be a replacement for professional advice.
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Комментарии • 133

  • @rrooster8218
    @rrooster8218 3 месяца назад +29

    I realized that when I beat myself up mentally and verbally (and do behaviors like binging to self sabotage or deal with pain) that I'm actually continuing to do the job of those who have abused or hurt me.
    Their goal was to tear me down, but even when they aren't here, I'm still doing the job for them. I'm repeating what they said to me or what they convinced me to believe about myself.
    So when I start dwelling on a bad belief about myself that was formed from others...I stop and say, "NO. I'm not doing that job for them any longer! I'm free now and, in my own house, I can choose a different belief" and then I treat myself better. ❤

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  3 месяца назад +3

      That's such a wonderful way of looking at it. Thank you for sharing with us xx

  • @annmariebrophy272
    @annmariebrophy272 3 месяца назад +26

    One minute wasn’t long enough to write down all I would miss if it was gone tomorrow, and for that I am very grateful. Thank you Carla ❤🐈‍⬛😸

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  3 месяца назад +2

      Its a game changer isn't it xx

  • @speedyspeedgirl1778
    @speedyspeedgirl1778 3 месяца назад +8

    Carla, you've sold me on BodySlims by now. I "only" have 10kg to loose but those have been bothering me for a couple of years now. I have kept all of the clothes I used to love to wear and I desperately want them to fit again. Sometimes I get the feeling that if one is already in the "healthy weight" range but on the upper end it's kind of not allowed to want to lose weigh. But no more listening to other people's opinions. I am worth being at my ideal weight and I am allowed to take the help I need to get there just as much as any other person.
    Thank you so much for teaching us viewers that we are worth showing up for ourselves no matter what each person's background is. 💕

  • @zaroliina
    @zaroliina 3 месяца назад +10

    This is so important in so many ways. To be able to think from different perspective is crucial and also be resilient and flexible in your thinking, not just fixed in black and white.

  • @wandaprice8700
    @wandaprice8700 3 месяца назад +6

    Changing the internal script…. Awesome video Carla! Thank you❣️

  • @lynettequintero6029
    @lynettequintero6029 Месяц назад +2

    I just found you, and you are inspiring to me. I am on my own weight loss journey and how I choose to age. I do believe there is power in mindset.❤

  • @cottagekeeper1044
    @cottagekeeper1044 3 месяца назад +12

    I need to watch this every day❤️ I appreciate you taking the time to do this video. I think this could be life-changing.

  • @Madina-bi4kd
    @Madina-bi4kd 3 месяца назад +3

    I like the idea of reframing from 'I have to ________ to I get to________'. I plan watch this video again later with my notebook in hand to write down a few things that I want to remember.
    Thank you !!! 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @lauranorton1323
    @lauranorton1323 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for sharing! I relate to so much of this....

  • @melissaspencer8889
    @melissaspencer8889 3 месяца назад

    Thank you for this. 🐈‍⬛❤

  • @kellyflanagan7632
    @kellyflanagan7632 3 месяца назад

    Very very helpful, thank you!

  • @severinaspiral
    @severinaspiral 3 месяца назад +2

    🐈‍⬛🐾 I’m currently working towards a mind shift and you’ve been extremely motivational. Your story resonates with me so much! Thank you for posting your journey 🖤💖🖤

  • @barbaraellis1816
    @barbaraellis1816 3 месяца назад +1

    This was awesome! Thank you!

  • @cbltrusc
    @cbltrusc 3 месяца назад

    Thank you Carla ❤

  • @lyndafitzgibbon6393
    @lyndafitzgibbon6393 3 месяца назад +1

    Tks Carla great video, ❤❤❤

  • @nancysego4989
    @nancysego4989 3 месяца назад +1

    I needed this video today ❤😊

  • @Wende-sj7fp
    @Wende-sj7fp 3 месяца назад

    I just found your channel today, and I love it. So much truth, so much to work through

  • @sylviaroberts8246
    @sylviaroberts8246 3 месяца назад

    Thank you so much Carla for such an impressive video, so comprehensive. I've booked onto the Bodyslims program for April.... really looking forward to it. 🐼

  • @TransformationinProgrss
    @TransformationinProgrss 3 месяца назад

    I definitely am grateful for so many blessings of my life. Thank you for this video and mindful content.

  • @loosesnowflake
    @loosesnowflake 3 месяца назад +4

    I will watch this video multiple times in the future. 🐈🐅🌺 Wishing everyone the best, let's show up for ourselves.

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  3 месяца назад +2

      Awe thanks so lovely. I love that you spread the love to everyone. xx

    • @beverlysanderson529
      @beverlysanderson529 2 месяца назад

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ I love your videos

  • @carolinemcgrady6556
    @carolinemcgrady6556 3 месяца назад +1

    Thanks Carla ❤

  • @genabrown8740
    @genabrown8740 3 месяца назад +1

    I really appreciate you! Great video! Always a good reminder of mindsets ❤😊

  • @Soaring_Seajay
    @Soaring_Seajay 3 месяца назад

    Perfect video to listen to for my lunch break walk. Thanks Carla! 🖤

  • @fiamac6025
    @fiamac6025 3 месяца назад +1

    Great video as usual Carla. Thank you ❤

  • @annammermaid9702
    @annammermaid9702 3 месяца назад +1

    🧜‍♀️ You’re so inspiring Carla. Thank you.

  • @audrapatterson9395
    @audrapatterson9395 3 месяца назад

    These are very helpful tips! Thank you. Also, you have a beautiful accent that makes these videos really enjoyable. ❤️

  • @angelasavage8146
    @angelasavage8146 28 дней назад

    You packed so much valuable concepts, mindsets and tips into this video! Thank you!!!❤

  • @marlakayjensen
    @marlakayjensen 3 месяца назад

    I love ❤your content! Changing your mindset is everything! Thank you for sharing your journey. You inspire me! ❤
    Your bravery is awesome. People can be so mean, and being vulnerable enough to share what you’ve done is simply heroic. You’re helping to save women everywhere. You’re an Angel among us. ❤

  • @ksmith4399
    @ksmith4399 2 месяца назад +1

    Excellent last point!

  • @katiescape
    @katiescape 18 дней назад

    I am at the start of my own weight loss journey, and one of the biggest mind set shifts I've found to help is 'would this be what a healthy person would do' I put myself into the mind of what my goal would be so in my case, to be healthy, health problem free and active. And I ask myself, would that person eat that? and if the answer is no, I don't eat it. I love how this fits in with your grounding technique and I will be using them alongside each other.

  • @laurasmith8154
    @laurasmith8154 3 месяца назад +1

    🦄after years of a negative self dialogue... It's wonderful to consider to being able to change it to a positive one.

  • @rileytimes
    @rileytimes Месяц назад

    Watching this for a second time to take notes ❤ 🐈‍⬛

  • @katherineraven6381
    @katherineraven6381 3 месяца назад

    🙋🏻‍♀️from 🇨🇦
    loving your honesty about everything
    your willingness to share such personal thoughts, feelings etc...
    which is sincerely helping !!
    😽

  • @katerina373
    @katerina373 Месяц назад

    Wow!! Your are such an amazing human being ❤❤❤!!! Such wise words, big hugs from Boston!🤗

  • @mariemcleod46
    @mariemcleod46 3 месяца назад +2

    It is such a good video to listen to over and over as a reminder, thank you❤❤❤

  • @reneelifetapestry
    @reneelifetapestry 3 месяца назад

    This was a beautiful video, and is very important to remind everyone that weight loss begins and is supported by our minset❤

  • @carolinepeeters8520
    @carolinepeeters8520 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you!!!❤🐈😘🌼

  • @DaileyDoseOfJoseph
    @DaileyDoseOfJoseph 3 месяца назад +3

    I love your view on "privlidge" -- I used to get down on myself for having low income, but then when I looked around I was like, "Sure, I'm broke, but I've got stability to show for it." and now I feel rich. Lol 😺

  • @GCArtist
    @GCArtist Месяц назад

    I know this is an older video, but I watched it this morning, thought about it all day and rewatched it this evening. I felt very seen and this is exactly the push I needed to get a better mindset. Thank you Carla. ❤

  • @emilygopikrishna3307
    @emilygopikrishna3307 2 месяца назад

    🐈‍⬛ 💕 I love all this in theory- just need to actually follow through with action. Like actually do it- not just think, ‘that’s so inspiring! That’s so true! I should try that!’

  • @leighburns2359
    @leighburns2359 3 месяца назад +1

    🐈🐈‍⬛ great video, thank you for sharing these thoughts, I’m finding your videos so inspiring xx

  • @tammyjames6949
    @tammyjames6949 3 месяца назад +1

    Love all your videos!!! 🖤💜🐦‍⬛

  • @galinaivanova6406
    @galinaivanova6406 3 месяца назад +1

    🍁🐈✈️Thank you Carla, for a wonderful message from a tough emotionally mature girl 😎💃

  • @mallymakings2853
    @mallymakings2853 3 месяца назад +2

    💞 Boy oh boy oh boy did I *need* this today. I won’t bore you but please please know I am truly grateful for you “popping up” on my feed today. I’m very excited to watch your other videos. Thank you so very much. Bless your heart. Thank you.xxx

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  3 месяца назад

      Awe thank you so much, and welcome xx

  • @marianhill5801
    @marianhill5801 3 месяца назад +1

    Great video Carla 🖤🖤

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  3 месяца назад +1

      Glad you liked it!! xx

  • @HILARI333
    @HILARI333 3 месяца назад +3

    You look gorgeous, Ms. Carla !!!! And more importantly, THANK YOU for sharing these insights...THIS is what I needed to hear today.... to nudge me out of my inertia blah slump....helps me to increase my gratitude list, honoring emotions, busting through procrastination. These concepts are helping me with many things...... like my artistic, creative life, as well as helping me get in shape. Lots of THANKS for your hard work, and light and love from across the pond. ( from an American with County Cavan family heritage ;) )

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  3 месяца назад

      Awe thank you so much, I'm so glad this has helped you! I was only in Cavan last weekend!! It will be in an upcoming vlog xx

  • @moonlighteternal8024
    @moonlighteternal8024 3 месяца назад +1

    Hi Carla! I LOVED your video! It was very thoughfullly relayed. Thank You! Xx

  • @zabby9755
    @zabby9755 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you Carla!! Great advice! I need to lose half of me too!!

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  3 месяца назад +1

      You can do it! If I can, you can too xx

  • @l3chatn0ir
    @l3chatn0ir 3 месяца назад +1

    Excellent video. This has been a big struggle for me. I start a lot but I never stick to it... This advice has helped change my perspective.

  • @mariemcleod46
    @mariemcleod46 3 месяца назад +1

    Brilliant video Carla, you are truly a great speaker ❤

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  3 месяца назад +1

      Thank you Marie xx

    • @mariemcleod46
      @mariemcleod46 3 месяца назад

      @@HalfofCarla ❤️❤️❤️

  • @bethlong6773
    @bethlong6773 3 месяца назад +1

    I’ve been making good progress but let my emotions or the old internal scripts dictate my actions too often still. As today was one of those days, this video is especially relevant and has helped me realize a few things. Thank you Carla! ❤️🌻

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  3 месяца назад

      I'm so glad this resonated with you and helped in a time of need. Comments like this make it worth my while when some days are hard so thank you Beth xx

  • @amyfrancis9423
    @amyfrancis9423 2 месяца назад

    Carla, thank you so much for sharing your story. All my life I have been overweight with ups and downs. I have joined Weight Watchers numerous times but rarely stick to it so it is a waste of money and time to attend meetings. I want to be inspired by someone's weight loss and I am until I end up giving in to whatever unhealthy foods I eat. I am addicted to sugar and breads. I know I often eat sweets when I am not hungry, probably out of habit and because it is there. My youngest is following in my footsteps and she is only 10. I don't want her to struggle like me or feel insecure about her body. I can walk to the gym I once used to work out in but working full-time made me lazy I guess. I got bored with the gym and do not have anyone to go with but isn't that just an excuse? I enjoy walking and I know that is an option without putting up the roadblock of only walking when I walk my dog. I am 48 years old and I don't want to look my age or worse, older. I dread taking pictures because I was never photogenic to begin with but pictures show the truth of how I look and how I don't want to look. I plan on listening to your podcasts on repeat sometimes to get inspired! Thank you.

  • @cathycalloway5782
    @cathycalloway5782 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you for this video. It's amazing! I have never looked at many of these topics in this way. Lately I have become very apathetic about things in my world. I've felt powerless to change things and so have just been swept along with a 'whatever' attitude. Your words here have really resonated with me. I've taken a LOT of notes and hope to implement these changes. You're wise beyond your years. Thank you for making such an honest and insightful video.
    😸

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  3 месяца назад

      I truly appreciate your comment Cathy, thank you so much. I am so glad this might have triggered even a little change in your thoughts. Perhaps a seed was planted. Might be good fodder for journaling xx

    • @cathycalloway5782
      @cathycalloway5782 3 месяца назад

      @@HalfofCarla Yes, you're right. Thanks you.

  • @ceebeecee56
    @ceebeecee56 3 месяца назад +1

    😻 wise words. Purrrr-fect!

  • @mariemcleod46
    @mariemcleod46 3 месяца назад +1

    So interesting about " not everything happens for a reason" !! I'm definitely having a good thinkbabout this❤

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  3 месяца назад +1

      I'm glad it gave you something to think about. I heard it a while back and it helped changed my perspective considerably x

    • @mariemcleod46
      @mariemcleod46 3 месяца назад

      @@HalfofCarla yes, it really has put things in perspective since you said it, thank you❤️❤️

  • @anncollins7457
    @anncollins7457 3 месяца назад +1

    😊❤. Another great one. It would be great if you could list out the Five things in the comments for future reference. Just bullet points 😊 thank you

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  3 месяца назад +1

      Sure, will do Ann xx (and remind me if I forget 😂)

  • @TransformationinProgrss
    @TransformationinProgrss 3 месяца назад +1

    😊🎉😊🎉😊🎉😊 great video

  • @terrasmiley7076
    @terrasmiley7076 3 месяца назад +1

    😻💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
    LOVED EVERY WORD OF THIS!!!😽💕

  • @simoneclarke5104
    @simoneclarke5104 3 месяца назад

    🐕💖thank you

  • @giorgiaalexanderactingothe1892
    @giorgiaalexanderactingothe1892 3 месяца назад +1

    Beautiful inside and out.

  • @biancocavallo3195
    @biancocavallo3195 Месяц назад +1

  • @Hazelmaediaz1375
    @Hazelmaediaz1375 3 месяца назад +1

    This!! ❤
    🐶☺️🐱

  • @alexbuchholz7072
    @alexbuchholz7072 3 месяца назад +1

    I just signed up for Body Slims for 24th April. I have one question. Will I be given a personal kcalorie allowance? Thank your. I will participate from Spain.

  • @kathleenkearns2124
    @kathleenkearns2124 3 месяца назад +1

    🐱There are no Smushie emojis!! Thank you Carla🍀💚

    • @HalfofCarla
      @HalfofCarla  3 месяца назад

      We need to petition for one to be made xx

  • @toniaberger6709
    @toniaberger6709 3 месяца назад +1

    😊❤

  • @LeisureLizard
    @LeisureLizard Месяц назад

    ♥️♥️♥️♥️

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    @d.kowalczuk6551 3 месяца назад +1

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    @wandaprice8700 3 месяца назад +1

    💐

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    @irinaagafonova5661 3 дня назад

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    @welshpam1958 3 месяца назад +1

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    🐯💯

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    @Preacher68 3 месяца назад +1

    🥰

  • @kelseyb3037
    @kelseyb3037 2 месяца назад

    🧘

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    @akalfredsson7265 3 месяца назад +1

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    @sherrivann5256 3 месяца назад +1

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    @juliannam9521 3 месяца назад +1

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    @lollypop3718 3 месяца назад +1

    💖💖💖💄💄💄

  • @Ana-fy5fv
    @Ana-fy5fv 3 месяца назад +1

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    @kiwikatnz 2 месяца назад +1

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    @tersadailey 2 месяца назад

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    @betsyguffey9304 3 месяца назад

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  • @rrooster8218
    @rrooster8218 3 месяца назад +1

    😸

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    @chamroon 3 месяца назад

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    @SongbirdGaming 24 дня назад

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    @susanmiller7929 3 месяца назад

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  • @WorldsForemostAuthority
    @WorldsForemostAuthority 3 месяца назад

    Interesting that I went through over a dozen of your videos, starting with the first one and none of them show a video of you at 300 lbs...can you explain that?

    • @rosieds4996
      @rosieds4996 3 месяца назад +3

      Your question comes across rather accusatory or like you don’t believe she really lost this weight because you don’t see a video? Most of us don’t like videos taken when we’re overweight so maybe she didn’t do these videos then.

    • @barbiec4312
      @barbiec4312 3 месяца назад +2

      You can see her in the open of this video. 😂

    • @QcArchery
      @QcArchery 3 месяца назад +3

      There's one at the beginning of this one 😅 also, why? Why do you want to discredit what she did?
      You need some introspection on why you are reacting that way.
      Even if she would not have posted something, has it ever crossed your mind that when she was overweight she might not have enjoyed filming herself for self-esteem reasons? She built her success and confidence + she does speak from experience. We can feel it.

  • @MrLochomi
    @MrLochomi 3 месяца назад

    🐈 😅

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    @susannageorge4739 3 месяца назад +1

    🐱

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  • @barbiec4312
    @barbiec4312 3 месяца назад +1

    Thank you ❤

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    @cheryljones9560 3 месяца назад

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