Sir sir sir itni deep bate bahut hi badhiya example d a nice video Kash aapke videos pahle mile hote life change hoti sir history would have been different.
I know people who are suffering in marriage for 20-25 years and still suffering. It is not bad times , sometimes the husband or wife is psychotic and it is better to divorce the psycho husband or wife. They don’t change .
Yes.......he is not talking about that type of people.... people getting divorce for silly reasons , have no patience, financial problems...etc..etc..this video belongs to .. those 95% of people...ok
Sir I am really thankful to you for the inspiration.I m facing many problems due to health issues of my husband,even after 28 years of our marriage.Today morning I was totally fed up, after seeing this video I feel much better.Ye waqt guzar zayega. Thank you so much.
Samay accha ata hai to kharab bhi aata hai. Kuch thoda lamba chalta hai par kat zarur jata hai. be brave and fight the battle of life. Zarur jeetengi aap
Thank you very much sir, after delivery i am facing lot of issues... Fights with mother in law .... Not able to handle myself and others as well.... I used to keep quite in my 5 years of marriage... After delivery had some arguments with mother in law , then husband started his own drama my mother bla bla bla .... Feeling lil better after your video.... But one thing i don't know whether i m doing right or wrong i have stopped talking to my mother in law because she trys to control even on phone and give instructions and guidance according to her ... But as i am a working woman , new mom and wife ... I can't follow her guidance and her rituals and way of living ... Also generation gap is a reason.. She is always shouting in the house i did that , 3 bachhe pale ghar banaya Duniyadari pta ni kya kya .. Aur bahuo ko sabse jyada trouble krti wo .... Subah 5 bje uth jati Aur bolti tum bhi utho .... Bina nahaye kitchen me mat jao , khana mat banao , Agr fresh hone gye to aake kapde change kro ... Jb naha k garam garam banaoge tabhi mai khaungi ... Subah ka sham ko ni , sham ka subah ni ... She had countless drama and nakhra Esa lagta h jese kisi janam ka badla le rhi ho hmse .... Merese ni hota manage Husband hamesa bolta h meri maa h ye wo wahi drama ... Ek din subah 5 bje utha k mujhe boli chai banao mere liye ... bahot gussa aaya mujhe Bolti h mera ghar h mene banaya h .. Naak me dum karke rakh deti h ... Aur kuch kaam ni krna hota ... Uske hisab se dinbhar kitchen me khade rho ... Jb bole utho jb bole so jao jab bole beth jao .. To mene baat hi krni bnd kr di .. Ab apna ghar aur apna bachha apne hisab se chala rhi hun ....aur apni capacity k hisab se ... Mujhe bolti h padhne likhne se kuch ni hota .. I am working with bank of america as data engineer... Abhi mujhe farak padna bnd ho gya h ... and i am happy 😊 Chahe koi mujhe achha bole ya bura bolta rhe ... farak ni padta
In some cases , I have seen that the problems start from saas side but time ke saath vo saas to bol bol kr sb kuch bigad degi aur chup hojati h fir husband wife ek dusre se hi ldte rhte h humesha kisi na kisi baat pr
Can u tell how to check on these personality disorders? My husband stops talking every 15-20 days without any reason. And on asking he would I don't have anything to say. What to do I don't understand.
I'm already 30 now. Me and many of my classmates are still not married. I had financial and some minor health issues. So I could not marry in time. But my friends did not have any issues but they are still not marrying. I suggest people to get married before at least 27 and average 25. That'll help you in your love life.
Sir, very nice advice of bad roads and slowing down to second gear. You are doing a great work to make the young people of this country understand deeper aspect of life. Thank you so much for your gyaan
Very true. Everyone has to go through bad phases in life be it career or marriage. Sometimes if you marry again then the second person turns out to be even worst. This has happened to someone ..
Mahatma ji Though you ask for comments after every discourse but as far as I think you do not need any. Since observations/solutions are indisputably correct! Are of the highest order, Even on subjects which are never ever covered or dreamed of by anyone!🙏
Absolutely right advice sir... Marriage is never a smooth ride... It depends on the patience and commitment of the couple to not let the marriage break down.
I was also going through d phase in my married life..which u described.... but after watching ur video got motivated to fight d bad times n not escape from it...
Tq sir 7 yrs after marriage struggling for having children, but still continuing with my husband, hoping he will change ,only to keep my father happy as mother passed away iam single child and father stays alone
U wer bang on about the "tik tok generation" Which has a short attention span, lacks endurance and has a quick temper, be it a job or marriage they wanna leave it all at the drop of a hat, I don't know woh konsi wonderland/khyali duniya mein jeete hain
Thank you so much I m going manopause as well as rough marriage at same time. I feel like all my life is slipping out of my hand. Your advice did not help me solve my problem but gave me patience to bear the situation. And patience is only solution which ll help this situation 🙏🏻 Thank you so much sir🙏🏻 today u gave me advice like my father.🙏🏻
The main question here is himmat kab tak rakhein? Jab day 1 se kharab ho aur improvement ka koi scope nahi dikh raha. Kabhi kabhi ek ganda fruit saare fruit kharab kardeta hai to us fruit ko fek Dene mein hi samajhdaari hai..
Whatever you are speaking out is good to listen to But mostly it's the wives who have to put with all the insults, humiliations, threatenings and beatings. Today, times have changed and the girls are not interested in suffering such marriages
Sir I very well agree with the RIGHT PEOPLE BUT WRONG TIME (KAAL) concept ... Sometimes astrological planets are such that they can cause situational grievances.. And it is expected that since the time situation is DIFFICULT for the other person, the spouse should be understanding and adjust for the time being.. I am in favour of this statement. But my question is.. What is the limit? Like to what extent should one tolerate? For example if I know that my spouse is of a very calm nature but in the bad times if they becomes aggressive and offensive it can be understood. But if the spouse cheats on the other JUST BECAUSE THE TIME IS BAD... If they do something UNETHICAL which goes against the foundation of marriage DUE TO BAD TIME(because I understand that circumstances can actually play with your mind) .. Even in these situations should the other spouse tolerate? So what should be the DEAL BREAKER in this situation?
Sir sir sir itni deep bate bahut hi badhiya example d a nice video Kash aapke videos pahle mile hote life change hoti sir history would have been different.
क्या हुआ बहन सबको भाई बोल दिया क्या
आप काफी हद तक सही है.
99 percent marriage problems से गुजरती है.
समय और समस्या अलग अलग होती हैं
पर होती जरूर है.
I know people who are suffering in marriage for 20-25 years and still suffering. It is not bad times , sometimes the husband or wife is psychotic and it is better to divorce the psycho husband or wife. They don’t change .
This is not ID of sir.
This is absolute fraud
Fake ID spotted
@sango883reported
Yes.......he is not talking about that type of people.... people getting divorce for silly reasons , have no patience, financial problems...etc..etc..this video belongs to .. those 95% of people...ok
Sir I am really thankful to you for the inspiration.I m facing many problems due to health issues of my husband,even after 28 years of our marriage.Today morning I was totally fed up, after seeing this video I feel much better.Ye waqt guzar zayega.
Thank you so much.
Bilkul🚩 Check apki konsi mahadasha chal rhi h..so that u can know kitne time k liye chalega ye sab🙏
Stay strong meditate to remain calm to make right decisions. Take care.
Samay accha ata hai to kharab bhi aata hai. Kuch thoda lamba chalta hai par kat zarur jata hai. be brave and fight the battle of life. Zarur jeetengi aap
Divorce के लिए late
Shadi se pehle hi advice mil gaya, how to manage up-downs in marriage life, 🙏
Marrying means to halve one's rights and double one's duties
Arthur Schopenhauer
Thank you very much sir, after delivery i am facing lot of issues...
Fights with mother in law ....
Not able to handle myself and others as well....
I used to keep quite in my 5 years of marriage...
After delivery had some arguments with mother in law , then husband started his own drama my mother bla bla bla ....
Feeling lil better after your video....
But one thing i don't know whether i m doing right or wrong i have stopped talking to my mother in law because she trys to control even on phone and give instructions and guidance according to her ...
But as i am a working woman , new mom and wife ...
I can't follow her guidance and her rituals and way of living ...
Also generation gap is a reason..
She is always shouting in the house i did that , 3 bachhe pale ghar banaya
Duniyadari pta ni kya kya ..
Aur bahuo ko sabse jyada trouble krti wo ....
Subah 5 bje uth jati
Aur bolti tum bhi utho ....
Bina nahaye kitchen me mat jao , khana mat banao ,
Agr fresh hone gye to aake kapde change kro ...
Jb naha k garam garam banaoge tabhi mai khaungi ...
Subah ka sham ko ni , sham ka subah ni ...
She had countless drama and nakhra
Esa lagta h jese kisi janam ka badla le rhi ho hmse ....
Merese ni hota manage
Husband hamesa bolta h meri maa h ye wo wahi drama ...
Ek din subah 5 bje utha k mujhe boli chai banao mere liye ... bahot gussa aaya mujhe
Bolti h mera ghar h mene banaya h ..
Naak me dum karke rakh deti h ...
Aur kuch kaam ni krna hota ...
Uske hisab se dinbhar kitchen me khade rho ...
Jb bole utho jb bole so jao jab bole beth jao ..
To mene baat hi krni bnd kr di ..
Ab apna ghar aur apna bachha apne hisab se chala rhi hun ....aur apni capacity k hisab se ...
Mujhe bolti h padhne likhne se kuch ni hota ..
I am working with bank of america as data engineer...
Abhi mujhe farak padna bnd ho gya h ... and i am happy 😊
Chahe koi mujhe achha bole ya bura bolta rhe ... farak ni padta
In some cases , I have seen that the problems start from saas side but time ke saath vo saas to bol bol kr sb kuch bigad degi aur chup hojati h fir husband wife ek dusre se hi ldte rhte h humesha kisi na kisi baat pr
Toh gaadi achhi Karo na. Understanding banao pati se. With love n patience
👌👌👌👌👌👏👏
When you leave your ego , you can understand other person and his /her problem very easily………
It is not always a ego issue. Sometimes it is a personality disorder. People who are narcissistic, suspicious, paranoid, they don’t change
@@wowser2153 very true. And it takes forever sometimes to realise this.😢
Can u tell how to check on these personality disorders? My husband stops talking every 15-20 days without any reason. And on asking he would I don't have anything to say. What to do I don't understand.
I'm already 30 now. Me and many of my classmates are still not married.
I had financial and some minor health issues.
So I could not marry in time.
But my friends did not have any issues but they are still not marrying.
I suggest people to get married before at least 27 and average 25.
That'll help you in your love life.
Fully agree
Sir, very nice advice of bad roads and slowing down to second gear. You are doing a great work to make the young people of this country understand deeper aspect of life. Thank you so much for your gyaan
Very true. Everyone has to go through bad phases in life be it career or marriage. Sometimes if you marry again then the second person turns out to be even worst. This has happened to someone ..
Better not to marry again. Why repeat it
@@understanding-why Kindly see a psychiatrist. Don't spoil somebody's life just for sex
Ya thats why those playboys become playboys forever 🤷🏻♂️
@@manjular3678 yup i rather live with cats and dogs 😅
@Ash The Duke Faith, Prayers too help one to go thru married life
Mahatma ji
Though you ask for comments after every discourse but as far as I think you
do not need any.
Since observations/solutions are indisputably correct! Are of the highest order, Even on subjects which
are never ever covered or dreamed of by anyone!🙏
Namaskar Mr. Sangwan, excellent and wise advice
Absolutely right advice sir... Marriage is never a smooth ride... It depends on the patience and commitment of the couple to not let the marriage break down.
Absolutely right sir
U are very kind hearted, like Swami Dayand ji. U are like a true harwani, a well wishers of humankind.
Could not agree more... Thank you 🙏 for sharing.
Very very nice video sir... thank u so much 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Wonderful insight 👍
Good example and equally good advice.
Very nice advice, good examples
Advice full of wisdom🚩🙏
Much needed words sir....thank you so much 🙏🙏
Such deep wisdom
Enjoyed , liked your suggestions and advice.
Thanks and Best Wishes
Sir your efforts are truly commendable,nice content.
Excellent👍👏👏👏 your example is super👌👌👌👌👌
I was also going through d phase in my married life..which u described.... but after watching ur video got motivated to fight d bad times n not escape from it...
I always trust your advice🙏🙏
U always give best advice
Right advice at right time
Bhaisahab.. kya gyaan hai iss aadmi mein. Ekdum top class. Erudite who can speak in the common tongue
very true example i like it thank u
Wonderful and amazing suggestions Sir
Thank you🙏🙏
Very nicely explained
I vl share this with my sis daughter who is going through rough patch in marriage
🙏🙏🙏🙏 thanks is a very small word to express my gratitude towards d life solving approach & ur guidance sir
Your knowledge and understanding is very astonishing.
Thank you sir 😊
Saadar Naman aapko Sir. Bahut badiya advise di aapne.
Nice topic. Need of the day
Iam following many of yours advices hoping one day my life will be successful
One of the best video , I ever witnessed on this subject matter !!
Bahut Acha Sir! Himat a rahi hai
Need this vedio.. thankyou
Interesting as always ☺️
Deep and practical.
Good stuff, simply explained, alas! life had been so simple.
Very well said…I could have gone on listening to it 🙂
Thank you so much
Good video
Very true 👍👌
Everything you said is true.
👍
Really appreciate u sir for this video going through such kind of phase,much needed for me
Excellent!
Tq sir
7 yrs after marriage struggling for having children, but still continuing with my husband, hoping he will change ,only to keep my father happy as mother passed away iam single child and father stays alone
Leave husband and go live with father. Get new husband
Sir you have quoted the right thing
Thank U
Facing issues in marriage lekin himmat mili .. thanks
Such a gem you are...muje is video ki jarurat thi ...I'm going through gaado vala phase in my married life as well as carriar
Wonderful example
Well done, Sangoji
Very helpful 👌
VERY PRACTICAL VIDEO KEEP POSTED SIR, UR SMILE IS ALSO VERY GOOD
U wer bang on about the "tik tok generation" Which has a short attention span, lacks endurance and has a quick temper, be it a job or marriage they wanna leave it all at the drop of a hat, I don't know woh konsi wonderland/khyali duniya mein jeete hain
Good advice for the youngsters!!🤝👏👏👏
Practical knowledge video sir👌👌
Real awakening ofyouth
V nice .thank u sir..
Thank you sir
Great clarity ❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you
Appreciated Sir 🙏
Sir hats off to u
Aap sach me bhot gyani h🙏👍
Very true sir
Yes sir you are right
Thank you so much I m going manopause as well as rough marriage at same time. I feel like all my life is slipping out of my hand. Your advice did not help me solve my problem but gave me patience to bear the situation. And patience is only solution which ll help this situation 🙏🏻 Thank you so much sir🙏🏻 today u gave me advice like my father.🙏🏻
Good video sir
aaapki fluent english and hinglish is awesome
Nice video sir
Good advice
Sir egarly waiting for ur numerology series no: 1 please make one vedio on that topic also 🙏🙏
The main question here is himmat kab tak rakhein? Jab day 1 se kharab ho aur improvement ka koi scope nahi dikh raha. Kabhi kabhi ek ganda fruit saare fruit kharab kardeta hai to us fruit ko fek Dene mein hi samajhdaari hai..
Right. But very difficult decision, specially if new problems pop up suddenly after many years of marriage then what to do.
Best video so far 😊
Loved your expressions, rather I personally find the information very well versed.
Can you please put English subtitles so my foreign friends can understand ty 🙏🏼
Man gaye sir
Excellent sir
Whatever you are speaking out is good to listen to But mostly it's the wives who have to put with all the insults, humiliations, threatenings and beatings. Today, times have changed and the girls are not interested in suffering such marriages
Sometimes it is better to leave , otherwise it ends in murder or suicide
Useful video
Ji Sar aapane bilkul sahi Kaha
Sir I very well agree with the RIGHT PEOPLE BUT WRONG TIME (KAAL) concept ... Sometimes astrological planets are such that they can cause situational grievances.. And it is expected that since the time situation is DIFFICULT for the other person, the spouse should be understanding and adjust for the time being.. I am in favour of this statement.
But my question is.. What is the limit? Like to what extent should one tolerate? For example if I know that my spouse is of a very calm nature but in the bad times if they becomes aggressive and offensive it can be understood.
But if the spouse cheats on the other JUST BECAUSE THE TIME IS BAD... If they do something UNETHICAL which goes against the foundation of marriage DUE TO BAD TIME(because I understand that circumstances can actually play with your mind) .. Even in these situations should the other spouse tolerate?
So what should be the DEAL BREAKER in this situation?
Sangwan Sir, please make video on this aspect too
Extreme narcissistic situation
7:33
So right
Fully agree 👍
Apke videos mein aise special signs ❤ 🙏 hona chahiye
Superb.
Indeed excellent ...:)
Salaam hain aapko sir
Sir you are too good 👍
Aap ke words, bolne ki style bhoot ki interesting hai,
Super awesome