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what your saying is also not true. most of married couples apni marriage doh rhe hai. Its purely burden because of false or change expectations, likes etc as well as his approch of no marriage for everyone is also bad. One should work on oneself continuously and that's true for most of people their child is their only project in their life but Most of people preferring not to get married is also inspired from bad parents marriages where they mothers are harnessed and father were mostly Workaholic similar reason for remaining single in JKC . India population should decrease most of population lives undernourished, don't get any meaningful work in life, destroyed natural resources, technologies anyway reducing need for population, most of population don't get good education as teacher student ratio gets bad when try to teach bulk population & increasingly without education human resource is getting useless, expensive & poor healthcare both public and private, 10% population providing for subsidies and building infrastructure be it services road, water, electricity, housing, providing for politicians and babus corruption, No money for Research, organisations can get away exploiting labour specially middle class, weak law n order. Take for example here 5crores people fill form for railway clerk whereas Japan total population is less than 5cr and they have 5 trillion economy 30 yr earlier. So quantity is useless unless can be put to good use. 10 crores indian population which can have good education & health care is fare better than 120crores with none of it
Your arguments were good but acharya ji is trying to give a new way of life ,this Indian society is too conservative and orthodox ,it doesn't even understand vedant PPL are getting married just like sheeps ,he wants to break this herd behaviour
All right! What Acharya Prashant says is not very practical but he is not wrong. It is just that society is not ready yet to live a life of that high standards. Most people will miss the point he is trying to make.
Exactly, the example which the Amit Sir is giving about nunu ka papa, that he is the real champ who is fighting with all the struggles for nunu, i want to clarify that acharya ji is simply asking, pls for once ask the champ, how is he feeling inside, he is so full of anxiety and stress yet he is forced to kill himself daily in his job because he has an additional nunu who should be fed with all his requirement. He so dearly wants to get rid of all this struggle but he has created additional responsibilities. And in what state of mind he has created them, early marriage, early child without knowing and understanding the realities of the world, now with these additional responsibilities (irreversible or very hard to reverse) he has created for himself ( pls remember in not a very conscious state), the champ is not left with much freedom to change his situation and live a free life. He is bound to continue living his life, be a slave in some office and even thinking of freedom from this life brings chills to him by the mere thought of not earning enough for his kid and family. Pls for once ask nunu ka papa , is he really happy with the way he is spending or going to spend the rest of his life. Further saying that goal of life is that sustainability and what we will do with all that gyan, my mind is anxious , i am in a very stressful state, and the purpose of gyan is to relieve that anxiety, stress and freedom of the people who are in existence right now. It is certainly cannot be just to rotate the chakra of birth of child. I hope i am able to pass on what i think about this. Thank you.
Any one really exploring spirituality will not go after people like Acharya Prashant! His spiritual ideas are funny and babyish and too bookish He is a joke in front of Real gurus like Sadguru🙏
This shows you don't want proper society around you bhand bankar fir na hai .when you are disabled to take responsibility of any one this is simple way to escape from it.I do agree marriage is a strong consistiuton it should be followed properly.
@@creativehome3869 no sir my comment does not show that I dont want proper society. u need to read it and think clearly for some time. As i already said most people will miss the point U just proved it.
Sir, actually the problem is not marriage itself but the type and kinds of people that you will see around yourself. Nowadays, hookup culture is very prominent in India, and it is known that it is much easier for a girl to find a sexual partner more so than guys. So, the problem comes when two people end up in marriage who have had very different experiences which in turn would have shaped their perspectives. I turned 30 this year and by God's grace, I am doing reasonably well in life and I can tell you that nearly every girl in my age group (late 20s even) has quite a body count. Marriages work when two people are at least semi-interested in each other, but nowadays, many girls (mostly) are just looking to 'settle' with some guy while they themselves have nothing to offer but sex - and even then, that too is not much because they have had coitus with so many people that they are now bored. The problem now comes to boys who have grown up in conservative families or did not have a chance to have a relationship or had no chance for hookups due to being focused in their careers and earning money. When such a marriage happens, obviously it is bound to break. I don't disagree with anything you said, but at the same time, it is a fact that divorce rates in India have gone up in the last few years. Finally, the point you made about the leap of faith - to do that, you need to be reasonably certain about the other person, not that we will not have any problems with them, but at least they will not abandon us when the problem comes. And, it is hard to be sure of anyone those days. Once again, I am not discounting anything you said, but the quality of people has severely gone down in the recent years, so the one who is going to provide or is capable of providing would need to think twice before making themselves available to being exploited in the first place.
@@AnimeshSinghweb Certainly, one needs to have standards to not accept anyone having partners in the past. Virginity in both men and women is a time tested requirement for marital success probabilistically. Moderns are such deniers of truths and hide behind words like compromise, acceptable blah etc...Won't work.
Every girl in your age group should be married under normal circumstances. If you are still unmarried that explains your over exaggeration, since it gets harder to find a partner after 30. You didn't mention if you are married, but I assume no because any married man won't have so much time, and would be happy and busy, not worried about body counts of women around. I rarely reply to comments like this, but I hope this message helps you. Please watch more of Amit sir's content as many doubts that you have he has already cleared in his previous videos, some public and some through his membership/webinars. Regards.
@@MrShagiFpv Okay, so - yes, actually many girls I knew who were not into promiscuity and maintained a decent pre-marital life (no hookups, etc.) got arrange married already in their mid-20s. Now, coming to those in their late 20s, well, I was approached by many girls between 26-32 years, and upon doing some 'friendly' discussions, I figured that they either have had a very promiscuous past and were now just trying to find a 'safe' guy to settle down with, or they've had a breakup so bad that they haven't gotten over their exes. In both cases, they are emotionally used up (exhausted) and that is not the kind of partner you would want for marriage since it depends on both people to keep it going. Individually, I am doing quite well in my life, but I have worked hard to build myself career-wise, and any guy who has worked hard to become someone without any support from parents will not want just any girl to come into his life and f**k it up. Anyways, I am happy and busy individually - but the concept of body count is important, because there is an inverse correlation between the number of partners and the emotional availability of a person. And if you are going to be sticking with someone for life, you will obviously want that they are just as invested in the marriage as you are. Also, I think it is fine to not get married as long as someone isn't sure about it; as for the difficulty in finding partners, I don't know what is the case with girls, but for guys, if you are financially successful and have kept yourself even physically average/above average, you will have no problems finding a girl - given that you know how to make them laugh and talk.
@@AngshumanVI your thought process is partially twisted. Buddy, be careful that way you will never find anyone in life. It's your myth that only your hard work has got you where you are in your life. Success is an outcome of more than just hardwork. And so far as the girl is concerned, you seem to be looking down on everyone else while placing yourself on the topmost pedestal ! Problematic and narcissistic way of thinking
@@AngshumanVI You are absolutely right!! Dating gurus and other people say that the persons past is not important. They didnt meet you back then. But this is a wrong conception. This phrase of forget the past was probably created by gangsters and murderers or rapists The past always predicts the future. Anybody who is habituated to flings and hookups doesnt change to sati savitri or sant mahatma overnight. The past is always an indication of what the other person is capable of doing in the future. So better focus on risk management and knock off people with a bad credit score in the sexual department or finances and character in general. Choose people who display less probability of going back to their original self. A Persons base character never changes.
The truth is marriages have been successful in lndian society only because of wife's unlimited sacrifices and adjustments. Many marriages in previous generations were sustaing due to the sacrificing and adjusting roles of ladies. Today's girls don't want to do that. They know it what their mothers, aunts, and senior sisters have gone through.
So true a woman's role is main in a marriage because a woman makes the house A woman only sacrifices her career for her family, she sacrifices her work, her job life for a Child
@@nikitafernandes461please don't make your life hell, let's come together and fight with this marriage evil,so that we and other future generations can live peacefully like the European people especially the Nordic nations
Namaskar Guruji, I am atheist hindu as you said. I tried to worship, but i saw my mind is more peaceful, productive, happy when i dont worry about god. I had few family issues and it was spoiling my relationships with my wife and kids. All because of relatives, we were great earlier. We took a decision not to talk much with relatives and now we are great. Me and my wife talk like friends, we talk to kids have some fun all together, play with kids. We stopped all unrealistic expectations. We expect our kids to study average. And learn more on thinking, observing, happy so that they wont lose self confidence. Also i encourage them to do experiment and do mistakes rather than being correct.
You are right , our most of the issues in marriage created by unnecessary interference of relatives , always better to maintain a safe distance with them .
I am big fan of you ....very very practical....we need more people like you ........ the so called spiritual gurus deviating from main topic and confusing people...
being a follower of both acharya prashant ji and amit sangwan ji, I agree to this video, bahot km log hote hai jinko shadi nhi krni chahiye. wo apna raasta khud dhund lete hai , naa hi wo kisi ke vdos dekhte hai, aam janta ke lie being unmarried will act as a poison.
Vaai yeh aam janta, yeh poison jo bhi bol rahe ho yeh ek prejudiced opinion hai, enquire and experiment karo toh kuch bhi sambhab hai. Agar kisi ko choti age se hi sikhaya jaaye ki happily jeene ko hai, saadi yaa phir baccha paida karni waloon cheez sab secondary hai, then yeh jansakhya 150 crore tak nehi pohochta jisme ham sab literally daabe huye hai, frustration ka mul karan hai yeh 1.5 billion people, overpopulation, unemployment, garibi, cheezon ka demand, land crisis itna sab kuch jhelne ke baad bhi itna immense suffering ke baad bhi agar koi baccha paida karna zaroori samjhe toh kya hi batana. Khud hi ham prithvi ko maar rahe hai, kisi bhi tark se. Already 480/sq k. Population density hai. Aur kitna chahte ho tum?? Ekdin yeh sab tark dete dete hi yeh nature humans ko hi tabah kar dega, extinct kar dega, woh kya accha hoga?? Woh hi shayad behatar hai tum jaise soch walon logo ke liye.
Marriage is a dead institution in the 21st century. But we have someone defending it, thank you, uncle. Everybody slams marriage, but we need people defending marriage. Hats off uncle. Albeit you are doing it to sell more real estate, which is not as good as equity as far as investment perspective is concerned.
@pandeyrajjesh1 dimwit take. How many of these marriages would have happened or can survive without familial/societal values? How many people are producing helathy children
Everybody wants to be Hanuman, but no one wants to be Shree Rama. Hanuman could fly to Lanka and get Sita back for Rama....But Shree Rama choose to walk it to Lanka fight the battle and get his wife back.. That is why Shree Rama is the Maryada Purushottam... that is why Hanuman choose sharanagati to Shri Rama Nobody wants to walk the Right Path because it is the difficult path.... but we are called to do that.. because that only will we give us fulfillment..because that is our obligation.. our Swadharma ....Hope our youth realize ..This is why we say only the name of Shri Rama is more powerful than Lord Rama himslef..as we are called to follow the path of Maryada Purushottam.... for this reason that Lord Hanuman decided to stay back on earth ...
I just don't know sir what to say 🙏 You really need a standing ovation for speaking so frankly and truthfully! I hundred percent agree with u! I am happily married for the last nearly 40 yrs. Ours was an arranged marriage and we both worked hard to make it work. My son also is happily married for the last nearly 10yrs. I believe in the institution of marriage which in fact is the foundation of a good society. The day that institution deteriorates certainly the downfall of a society begins...You are a gifted speaker who really succeeds in convincing people regarding issues without showing aggression. I really want to salute u 🙏🙏
A good marriage is a huge support in life. And making a marriage good or successful is not that difficult but definitely worth the efforts. Sir agree with you 💯.
1. Population control is necessary for saving earth 2. Marriage is also association. Association with bad life partner is like as hell 3. Selective marriage with good life partner is compulsory for peaceful life 4. Purpose of marriage is firstly spiritual, moral and psychological support for truthful life
आपने शादी से पहले वाली 7 tips जो दी जिसमें एक tip खर्चे के बारे में थी। मैं और मेरे माता पिता शादी पर खर्चा करने को बेवकूफी मानते हैं। हम तो कोर्ट में शादी कर लें। शादी में पैसे उड़ानें से अच्छा घर ले लो, या गाड़ी ले लो। पर अगर सामने वाले कहें कि हमारे एक ही लड़की है। शादी तो धूमधाम से ही करेंगे। एक ही बार होती है शादी। रिश्तेदार, जान पहचान वाले क्या कहेंगे । उस situation को कैसे handle किया जाए?
Are karni hi kyun hai barbaadi(shaadi) ? Jab roz alag alag varieties kha sakte ho to phir wahi ek hi baasi dal chawal khane ki kya jarurat hai. Pata nhi iss modern century mein bhi kaise kaise chutiye log rehte hain jo shaadi ke chakkar mein rehte hain🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 marriage=💩💩💩💩
You r talking sense. Today the youth is confused .Youth should know what to do and what not to do for own Good . Self control , sex education , discipline etc should be worked on .Seek righ information , and learn that there is a right time to do anything . Be , eating, studying , working ,sex , sleeping etc etc .🙏🙏 Patience , being responsible person, morality , values are important to work on before getting married . You r so right Sir , hope the young understand ..🙏👍❤️
@@ashitmukherjee5934 Are you happy with marriage in this inflation period. How about children education expenses, do you afford children admission in 'first class' education classes which cost nearly around Rs. 1crore from nursery to 12th standard period. or you are going to put children into low quality educations. Do you manage to earn smart enough in economic recessions and layoffs. These are the points Acharya Prashant putting in before thinking about marriage.
@@rajendrameena150ghantha Saadi nahni Karo iss se jyada tar kahna ko jaa rahe hein,khud begaluru IIT IIM mein ghumo aur batao ki consumption karna kharap hei,kaun bata Raha hei Saadi hone se kharch jyada ho jayega aur akele rahene se kuch nahni hoga
I agree with you Sir that marriage is a "leap of faith" , no matter how much you know the other person before marriage, your spouse will surprise you in a good/bad way depending upon the situation. But if a person is getting married in late 20s or 30s then both the partners should know each other on a bare minimum level or see if the other person has the potential of becoming a friend and discuss important aspects openly! People in this age group are strong headed and marriage can break easily if they do not connect because Nibhane ki "chah" hogi tabhi nibhaoge!
Soo true.. Many are making it a fancy thing like not attaching with anything..Arey baba No getting attached with anything is also an attachment with something.. Similar as that of not believing in God is also believing in something.. We should we flexible to use our inner intuition to understand what works for us and what not..These things can't be briefed by any books including any Vedas.. Our country is too young for trying those western concepts like open marriage, Live in relationship etc etc..Let us leave those experiments to our children,we need atleast one more generation to witness any drastic changes..
Thankyou Sir for trying to spread clarity in the world of chaos. Your videos are a life changing and can reshape someone's mindset and save him from going a path of down fall. Keep your work going, kids like us do need to be taught true virtue in such manner.
Sir, you have completely nailed this issue... all married and unmarried people should listen to this video... especially people who are considering speration/divorce
@@hemangshrivastava9561so is that a achievement? Being married is also not a achievement but who has better experience and small fun of life.? And what great work you did? Did you fixed crooked laws of India?
You get married so that you have somebody to witness and share your journey with. These are golden words. I never realized this truth. Family ke andar ek doosre ka, bachhon ka journey appreciate karna hi life hai.
Kya tha tumhari journey mein aisa jo share krana hai . Freedom fighter ho kya ho. Ek aam aadmi ki trh hi toh jee rhe ho usko kya golden words mein likhwana chahte ho
I think to go with marriage or remain unmarried is presnol choice.And neither any counceler nor Acharya can change thought.We all as a human being grows up with different situation and all the thought and experience makes a perseption about a particular idea.The people who have grown up in traumatic situation will Always remain against marriage.On the other hand people who have enjoyed life since childhood and observed happy married life of parents will be in support of marriage.
Yes....agree last 18 years se parents ke bhaynkar jhagde or unka divorce or last 3 salo se bhai or uski wife ki traumatic love marriage bhayankar jhgde or unka divorce jhelne ke baad aaj 33 ki ge me bhi main depression Enxiety Panik attack se lad raha hu....! Shadi naam se bhayankar nafrat ho chuki h
Once a girl said i don't want to marry but my parents are forcing me to do so, to which acharya prashant asked,why don't you wnat to get married to which she said just like that. Phir acharya Prashant ne kaha aiso ki toh shadi hoti hi h
Sir, you probably misunderstood Acharya's talk. I guess what Acharya Prashant meant was marry a person with certain level of spirituality n maturity, but don't go after a person with lots of extreme wealth n good looks etc only. A spiritually inclined person will always have the resilience n maturity to understand his/her partner than a person who is rich n good looking but is lacking in maturity and wisdom. What Acharya meant was person literally higher in spirituality, not in wealth etc
Wo murkh...ak high spirituality pe hai to dusra to km ka hoga na....sab high wale dhundenge to high wala kyo krega marriage...use bhi phir aur high chahiye
Many issues are present nowadays.. Earlier complexity in marriage were not that much. Now it's kinda of risky affair.. Aajkal to sbke Phrmaisy program hai.. Todha todha both parties should learn to sacrifice..Iss pr bhi bat honi chahiye ki marriage ko leke confusion itna kyu hua? Bss ye bol dene se ki shadi kr lo shadi nhi ho jati.. Kisi se bhi nhi kr skte.. Qki normal insan h to sonchna to pdega.. Bcz having lifepartner is one time affair.. Coins are not being tossed
Sir, what you said is true since thats how a society works. But what AP said is also true because he works for liberalization of a individuals consciousness. He didn't look down the marriage, he look down the marriages which is unconscious marriage.
So many well put points in a small video. True magic of an experiment speaker.... Immersive sir..... Your videos deserve to trend, i feel sad when i see others copying your stuff and making videos.
Thank you so much Sir!!! Brilliant video for all the youth following AP.. I had been following him for an year approximately and there was increase in bitterness within me. Also, when I went in the outside world for work, I felt like ye baatein baatein hi hain sirf asli dunia boht alag hai aur inki baaton se solution nahi confusion mil raha tha bas ... Sun na band kar dia ab sab thik hai..Osho ko sun sakte hai aur bhi boht tareeke hai life mein light aur khush rehne ke... unnecessarily itna burden carry karne ki koi zarurat nahi
He is clearly saying if you believe in it, do it. If not, ignore it. Where is the problem? Everyone is entitled to their opinion. Millions of successful marriages exists and they are more successful than people who think it's burden. People need to cope with contrasting opinions
Dekho..... Aap ko Acharya Prashant accha nehi lagta.... Iska matlab thodi na hai ki woh galat bata rahe hai?? Yeh nehi. Practical lives mein humans bohot suffer karte hai, bohot hi..... Matlab hadd se zyada ham suffer karte jaa rahe hai...... Kyunki hamari behoshi.... Aur galat tarike kaa jeevanjapan, agar koi luxurious lifestyle ke khushi ko vog raha hai aur dusre haath mein environment, climate and iss nature ko haani pohcha raha hai.... Toh yeh toh sarasar galat hai naa?? Toh Acharya ji yehi kehte hai..... Satya bolte hai woh, insaan galti karta hi rehta hai, seekh nehi leta, aur sab ko majboor karta hai kasht, peera dene ke liye, swarthi insaan hai sab. Inn baton ko samjhane ke liye ek bitterness toh zaroori hai.... Hai naa?? Agar bohot hi shanti se inn baaton ko AP bolega toh kaun shunega?? Pehle se hi haam andhkaar mein dube huye hai. Agar ham ek simple, kam se kam baasnayon se bhara jivan byatit karte toh Acharya jee ko itna bolna nehi padta. 🙏🙏
@@Wimpy-2024Saadi karna chapri hogaya kya, waise bhi ap ke philosophy bahat confusion hei, dehe ka sukh na karke wohna par jaake Raha Jana sahi ho gaya
8:05 --Realistically speaking. 'Giving' to frendship me nhi hoti hai aajkal. Spouse to door ki bat hai. And by the way, largely women marry because of the 'bio clock' and men marry because 'Abe tu aur kya karega!?' Nobody is thinking 'I want my spouse to witness me giving birth and then raising kids and loosing a job and then finding another.' I know you're romanticizing it, but.... for an average man, 'marriage' is not optional, but its also not done out of the choice of heart. Its done because papaji keh rhe hain aur mosi ji keh rahi hain. 😶😶
how can you generalise nobody is thinking on this level? bro i think you hang around average people. You dont know the people with kings mentality, change the 5 person you hang around with
Very true ,great video, sir. When i first started listening to Acharya Prashant I felt depressed, perplexed, and hopeless. I even started questioning my near and dear ones and made big fuss out of everything, which resulted in sleepless nights, anxiety, and bad health. I think its great u gave us a good clarity on this topic.
Sir actually you are right for general public and yes in the smoothly running world people should happily do marriage but Acharya prashant want a mass audience to support his work to save the earth otherwise why the men will sacrifice his life, left IIM and IAS opportunities. He see that family is the unit of consumption and without stopping it we cant get rid of current global crisis. I saw same perspective on marriage by Osho and concluded that spiritual teacher see marriage as hindrance in the path of life mainly. but sometimes they also support those 10% marriage like marriage of kabir, ramkrishna. Now it is up-to the people what to choose and not just follow what one says , i mean if the calling is coming from inside after gaining so much knowledge and experiences that this work can be carried out without marriage as marriage impose various responsibilities then you should do that. same can be said to bhagat singh who choose to die by his own and know one said him to become deshbhakt.
Are bhai world ki tension tu kaiko le riya hai...itti tension hai to PM ko direct bol ki India ke laws ko fix kare....tu bhai apni simple zindagi jeene pe focus kar na bhaia....kaiko itta load le riya hai re tu
उसने कभी शादी के बारे में बात ही नहीं करी उन्होंने तो कभी भी मतलब जब कोई शादी के लिए पूछता भी था तो वह कहते ही थे कि मैं शादीशुदा नहीं हूं तुम गलती कर रहे हो मुझसे puchkar तुम्हारे पास आर्य जी बहुत ज्यादा ज्यादा बोलते हैं उसे चीज पर जो उन्होंने kiya hi nahi
Hats off to you sir... Along with yours, I am watching Aacharya Prashant videos from long time... I respect him very much but the topic which you discussed is just outstanding the same questions were arising in my mind also... And here I must say you are 100% right 👍
😃😃😃 marriage means association..If you accompany with bad life partner....your life will be ruined...Vedant says, association with materialistic person is like as hell.
Disagree... 1. Population control is necessary for saving earth 2. Marriage is also association. Association with bad life partner is like as hell 3. Selective marriage with good life partner is compulsory for peaceful life 4. Purpose of marriage is firstly spiritual, moral and psychological support for truthful life
Agreed. Running away from your responsibilities is easy. Living in this imperfect world and trying to make it work is hard. The institution of marriage has lasted for centuries now.
Being an old soul, I really appreciate your opinion Sir for clearing about Aacharya Prashant's wrong opinion about marriage, as being a girl I feel insecure if men will not marry and every men cannot be a sanyasi then they will get freedom to exploit women, they will have no fear of family and society
@@vijaylaxmi3305 baccho ka kya.. Relationship se janme baccho ki responsibility kaun uthayega..they will have to live with step parents.. Don't just think from one angle there are many variables to this equation..
@@azadjain8534 95% loyal? In which world are you living in. The percentage of disloyals can be much higher than 50%. Everybody seems to be loyal until caught.
Is baba Prashant ki baat muje shru se he bhut confused krti thi ...per jisse bhi bolo koi smjta he nhi h ...finally koi Mila ..jo galat ko galat bol rha h ....thnk u sir ji
You are the antidote. Thank you for coming out to address these issues boldly. Your sarcasm is amazing. Your style of explaining adds special effect. Highest level of delivery. 👏👏👏
Agar aaj koi bhi insaan shadi na kare to lagbhag 80-100 saal me manav human dharti se khatam ho jayge or jab khatm hi hona hai to aaj hi sab khatm ho jao na life ka jhanjat dikkat khatam
Guru ji, you never confuse us. You always give pure clarity on every topic you talk about. Only once I have heard Prashant ji on youtube. After listening to him I immediately clicked on 'don't recommended this channel'. That much clarity we have gained from you that we can easily makeout who talks right and who talks insane. We can choose wise youtubers.
This is a fantastic video. I was desperately waiting for someone to call Prashant's bluff. I have seen many of his videos and disagree with him about 80% of times. I agree with everything you have said in this video, in fact they are my own thoughts. This video should reach as many people as Prashant's videos. He is misleading young people and taking them in wrong direction. Please continue exposing Prashant's bluff. If you want, I have many of my own views of disagreement with him, I can share with you. I am surprised how young people ask him for direction about their marital problems and issues. From a guy who has never married, how can he give any opinion about marriage relationships? He says "I can see what's happening around me". But there are some things in life which you MUST experience in order to understand its gravity. Observation just doesn't cut it. Thanks for this video, finally someone has guts to call spade a spade.
Few more Logical Guru Ji after watching all of your platinum membership content: 1. Suddenly you get respect in society and your family. 2. You not only get Deh ka sukh, you also get on time Tea, Food, clothes, clean house emotional support, moral support and etc. 3. You also get a single partner lifelong to help you each other. 4. You get to know how to handle responsibility for your family. 4. You get to know about sukh and dukh. ऐसे 50 पॉजिटिव reason or hai. और अगर हमारे parents भी शादी नही।करते तो वो कहा से आते हम कहा से आते।
& the myth is nowadays married couple doesn't gets respect . Most people pitty over married couples , rest of the world doesn't even care about the two people as couple. Respect is given more generally for the position of job if anybody is getting these days !!
Exactly .u told the truth .no one can give guarantee of ones ownself or for others.marraige is devotion and its just a skill of handling every situation.
Sir,please don't skip this comment Acharya prashant always focusses on one's liberation. You were saying that marriage is an important constitution of everyone's life but the reality is different *Answer my question* If two parents,who are not enough self-realised raise a child,then mental well-being of the child gets affected,and they evolve that child in their own terms without any conscience[now you may quote about those people who achieved the highest even though his/her parents were not so self-realised,and these kind of people only account for 1 percent of the population,that too achieved success by their own endless efforts with a little support from their parents] Do you think the relationship between parents and children is love❤? Most of the cases,It is just the attachment to each other that drives them together,the parents keep on investing upon the child for his/her needs like health,food,clothes,education etc. This *investment of money upon children creates attachment* This ignorant parents who are only attached to their children force them to follow the career paths which are lucrative in this era which return-invest the money that they have spent upon him/her and people consider this whole phenomenon as love[this is what happens when there is no love and the relationship is mere a attachment] Again these are the children who die by suicide during their youth thinking that they haven't fulfilled their parents' desires And you may argue with an example for love saying how a mother feeds their children by sacrificing her needs--this is also just a attachment which resulted from the social conditioning with which we are surrounded by. This is what happens when the parents aren't self-realised Here don't think self realisation to be any spiritual or a religious term,it is just about knowing one's own self about where he wants to go,and have crystal clear idea on why he is chasing that goal This is my straight question to you,sir-Was your respect towards your elder siblings/parents remained the same after you became financially independent??? You might say no, but when you introspect through the real world,you will come to know how mercilessly few people who became financially independent are leaving their parents in the old-age homes and where has the love gone b/w parents and children there after? The actual reason that there was no love at all between both parents and children[either sides] It was mere a attachment This is how pathetic the relationships are! When you marry without any conscience and this conscience comes from deep self-realisation This is what I have understood from acharys prashant's videos after watching hundreds of them
'If two parents, who are not enough "self-realised"' self realised - that is where Prashant brain washes people. Sorry to be so blunt, but that is my opinion
@@AnimeshSinghweb everything of what you depicted is fine but how can you stay being unwrenched even after watching those senseless parents exploiting their kids for their own benefits?
Marriage is subjective topic person to person varies ,whom should marriage or not totally dependent on their requirements, but we have one common goal to go with high chetana and make our life better ❤
Prashant ji ki kafi baate logical nahi hai, he sounds misogynistic also lot of times. I just skip his videos now. You very correctly analyzed his views. 👍 Thanks Sir.
सही कहा गुरु जी आपने क्युकी आचार्य प्रशांत जी की वीडियो देख कर धीरे धीरे,, मैं अपने अच्छे खासे मैरिड लाइफ में सस्पेंस करने लगी थी मेरे हसबैंड एक बहुत अच्छे इंसान है अच्छे जॉब में है केयरिंग लविंग और फैमिली बैलेंस करना सारी क्वालिटी है मेरे लिए सब कुछ करने के बाद जब वो मुझसे फिजिकल की बात करते तो मुझे आचार्य प्रशांत की बाद याद आ जाती और वो विलेन लगने लगते ,,मैं यही सोचती की ऐसे इंसान जो सबके लिए परफेक्ट है बस मेरे से क्यू लेकिन आपकी वीडियो देखकर समझ आया ये तो हम दोनो को need हैं जो की अच्छी बात समझना है वरना हमारे बीच में कोई और आ जायेगा थैंक यू आर टॉपिक पर वीडियो बनाने के लिए
You are right, for the most part. You are right in saying that when two people who shouldn't marry at all marry each other it ends up in divorce. However, it's even more of a torture when one person who is cut out for marriage marries someone who isn't cut out for it. In this case, neither will divorce happen easily nor can they find satisfaction in it. That's why everybody must think before getting married. Shaadi mein nuksaan aur fayde dono hai. Aur bachelorhood mein bhi nuksaan aur fayde dono hai. It all depends on a person's mindset. A bird can't force itself to swim and a fish can't force itself to fly. ❤
Happy to see a neutral opinion. Otherwise both parties make it look like that Marriage or Non-marriage are Heaven or Hell. Both have their own merits and demerits. There are both happily married and unmarried population and un-happily married and unmarried population. A lot depends on an individual's character too.
Uncle ji Namstey . I have recently come across your channel and subscribed it . Apki sanatan vali example bahut realistic lagi . I have listened to acharya Prashant for long time but was not clear what he actually want for his follower to do. Mainey pehli baar unki vichardhara par dusra perspective suna . Bahut sahi laga . Thank you
Thats good, but if done in a natural way. My Gurudev says, nothing artificial can ever give pleasure. What Prashant is doing is, insulting and humiliating the institution of marriage. This is not just wrong, but extremely hazardous for the society. Why? Any normal person, who has emotional and sexual needs, but is hesitant for responsibilities, he will get seriously misguided by Prashant. Such a person can't become a proper sadhu, to dedicate his time and efforts for spiritual development since his other desires are unfulfilled, and hearing all this negativity, he cant even become a proper family. Hence, न घर का न घाट का। India has seen many stalwart sannyasis and saints, but noone has demonised grihastha ashram like this person.
I also used to watch him . His logic sounds valid but looking at the grumpy and dead faces of the people around ..I decided to avoid that in me. Thanks guru G😊
Namaste, Today I got to know that you were one of the students of Deepanshu Giri Ji and have learned Vedic Jyotish. So this is my humble request that please bring some foundation videos on Vedic Jyotish on this channel clarity for youth. I am hopeful that you will guide. Dhanyawaad🙏
Osho has given more clarity on this, and also he said, " तर्क वेश्या की तरह होता है, वो किसी के भी साथ निकल पड़ता है..। So all listener's, marriage is a very very delicate subject।try to handle it carefully 👍🏼
Normally I don't do comments sir however I want share my opinion and understanding about "marrying someone who can take to a higher state". It is obvious that if you want to marry someone who is financially or by education or by position is on higher state then for that person who is going to marry you who is below his/her state would be something that will not be matching the criteria. It is so simple to understand and is actually adopted in our very society. Fact I think you might missed out here sir is that, "Marrying someone who can take to a higher position/state" isn't about marrying to a person who is in higher state/position. Its about pairing up with a person whose companionship can boost all the good aspects, good vibes, potential, knowledge & creativity of both of companions. Please forgive me if I hurt you.. Namaste n Pranam Sir
Then why Albert Camus after publication of his book go for getting the Nobel prize ?? He is free. Then why he go for it ? He should say there are rubbish iam also free from getting appreciation from what I do
Sir, all your points are very perfect, valid and shuts all the other opposite views. Thank you and please make videos to inspire and show right path to our youth.
Im amazed by the level of clarity u have regarding every phase n part of life.i too had issues with acharya Prashant's thought process n content.thanku sir for clarifying as a 21yr it was an eye opening video🙏
ये आचार्य प्रशांत को कुछ साल पहले तक देखता था... गीता के मूलभूत सिद्धांतों की मुझे अच्छी समझ है इसीलिए जब उन मूलभूत सिद्धांतों से उनकी बातों का विग्रह दिखा तो समझ आया कि जो आदमी गीता के मूलभूत सिद्धांत ठीक से नहीं समझ पाया वो मुझे कौनसा दार्शनिक ज्ञान दे देगा।😅
Woooow गुरुजी ये प्रश्न मेरे मन में भी उठा की अगर सनातनी शादी ही नही करेंगे तो वेद पुराण आध्यात्म पढ़ेगा कॉन सब खत्म हो जाएगा "" lower class "" bagehswar dham में busy h 😜😜😜😜😜😂😂😂🙏🙏🙏🙏 nice clarity
Agree on every point. Westnize ho gaya hai indian mindset of young generations. Don't judge every failed or fight in a marriage as your future. Take proper decision and try to resolve. Social media ko dekh k decide karke marriage expectation and nautankiyan. Dekhlo aadho k divorse ho rhe hai. Coz shosha baji jyada thi Fake and false expectations are wrong on both side of couple. Talk and talk and try to resolve. You cannot rely on friends or gf/bfs all life. You need someone to take care for the whole life you have. Jhagda toh gharwalo k sath bhi hota hai bhai behen mein hota hai. But divorce lena husband wife ka not a solution.
100% agree with leap of faith and when you are ready to give then you should marry. I married on just these 2 factors, and I am very happy I made that decision. :)
Sir its really difficult for educated earning girls to find suitable groom in lower middle class. Most boys in this class r chappri n irresponsible n hav eyes on girls income n inside detest such independent girls who dont give them bhaav but hav eyes on her money.
Every class. It’s the same mentality of Most men across all socio economic strata. Difference is the middle middle and upper middle class boys do have jobs and education. Baaki Basic mentality Wahi hai.
@@gagandeepsharma7972i wanna marry!!…who are you to generalise all boys?…Ek ladki reject krde toh Tera ego hurt ho gya hoga and and ab shaadi nhi krni🤡
@@rahulgupta_1312 usne upar comment dekh kya likha hai "most boys in this class are chapri" Ye generalisation nhi laga tujhe ?? lekin mera comment tujhe generalize lag gya hai is bewakoof ko koi btao most of the boys in middle class are struggling and working hard No one marries a unemployed ye alag hi duniya mein rahti hai
mere dada ji mere paida hone k pehle hi chale gye thee, par unki kami aapne puri kr di.... like a grandfather guide his grandson ,,, love you a lot sir ☺☺
One gets married for emotional fulfilment and companionship which of cours cannot be equal on daily basis. But what does one do when one is faced with exploration and red flags right at the beginning of an alliance? Everyone has expectations form their life which they want to fulfill. Some can be compromised upon but not all. Your core values need to align. Just like in your video about joint families, I have refused alliances because I have had an extremely independent upbringing and they wanted me to give up my career and move cities and stay in a joint family. I am not okay with that. And yes people do change with time. But Sir, your upbringing doesn’t. If someone has been taught to value relationships, then the present times are extremely troublesome for such souls. Because finding people with morals and values is next to impossible. Why would one turn a blind eye and enter an alliance just to take a chance? Ask those people who are facing divorce or have gotten divorced because of this. Now what? I am not saying that don’t get married. But equal give and take and alignment should be there is terms of values, commitment and honesty. Rest today someone likes dal. After 5 years they might not eat dal at all and that’s ok. That’s really not an issue. Rushing into marriage is not advised for anyone. But deliberately rejecting alliances just for the heck of it also is not advised.
Acharya ji ne kabhi nhi kaha shadi mat karo. Kaha hai hosh me karo aur Idhar hosh ka matlab hai bas sex ke liye mat karo, bas financial gain ke liye mat karo, bas looks dekh ke mat karo, akela feel ho raha hai toh mat karo bas. Sole reason hoga toh kabhi khushi nhi milegi. Shadi sab ke liye nahi hai ye aap logo ko accept karna hi nahi hai, Isliye lakho logo suffer karte hai shadi me par just because they like the idea of family and scared of being alone. Acharya ji ye hi samjhate hai jab hosh me karo shadi toh shadi sahi rahegi, Saath chahna galat nhi hai par a kisi pe emotionally depend puri tarah se hona galat hai. Ye family ka gyaan bohot acha hai isko de de ke hi zindagi barbaad ki hai logo ne. Sab ka jeena ka way alag hai Sayad sabko nhi chaiye ye sab jo aap Bata rahe hai par aap partner aur family ye sab itna glorify karte hai ki sab phas jaate hai aur suffer karte hai.
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Yes please we want detailed video on each points given in this video.
Your views are awesome. Yes, you are doing great.
Sir one video porn addiction par banaiye 🙏.
what your saying is also not true. most of married couples apni marriage doh rhe hai. Its purely burden because of false or change expectations, likes etc as well as his approch of no marriage for everyone is also bad. One should work on oneself continuously and that's true for most of people their child is their only project in their life but Most of people preferring not to get married is also inspired from bad parents marriages where they mothers are harnessed and father were mostly Workaholic similar reason for remaining single in JKC . India population should decrease most of population lives undernourished, don't get any meaningful work in life, destroyed natural resources, technologies anyway reducing need for population, most of population don't get good education as teacher student ratio gets bad when try to teach bulk population & increasingly without education human resource is getting useless, expensive & poor healthcare both public and private, 10% population providing for subsidies and building infrastructure be it services road, water, electricity, housing, providing for politicians and babus corruption, No money for Research, organisations can get away exploiting labour specially middle class, weak law n order. Take for example here 5crores people fill form for railway clerk whereas Japan total population is less than 5cr and they have 5 trillion economy 30 yr earlier. So quantity is useless unless can be put to good use. 10 crores indian population which can have good education & health care is fare better than 120crores with none of it
Your arguments were good but acharya ji is trying to give a new way of life ,this Indian society is too conservative and orthodox ,it doesn't even understand vedant PPL are getting married just like sheeps ,he wants to break this herd behaviour
All right! What Acharya Prashant says is not very practical but he is not wrong. It is just that society is not ready yet to live a life of that high standards.
Most people will miss the point he is trying to make.
Exactly, the example which the Amit Sir is giving about nunu ka papa, that he is the real champ who is fighting with all the struggles for nunu, i want to clarify that acharya ji is simply asking, pls for once ask the champ, how is he feeling inside, he is so full of anxiety and stress yet he is forced to kill himself daily in his job because he has an additional nunu who should be fed with all his requirement. He so dearly wants to get rid of all this struggle but he has created additional responsibilities. And in what state of mind he has created them, early marriage, early child without knowing and understanding the realities of the world, now with these additional responsibilities (irreversible or very hard to reverse) he has created for himself ( pls remember in not a very conscious state), the champ is not left with much freedom to change his situation and live a free life. He is bound to continue living his life, be a slave in some office and even thinking of freedom from this life brings chills to him by the mere thought of not earning enough for his kid and family.
Pls for once ask nunu ka papa , is he really happy with the way he is spending or going to spend the rest of his life. Further saying that goal of life is that sustainability and what we will do with all that gyan, my mind is anxious , i am in a very stressful state, and the purpose of gyan is to relieve that anxiety, stress and freedom of the people who are in existence right now. It is certainly cannot be just to rotate the chakra of birth of child.
I hope i am able to pass on what i think about this.
Thank you.
Any one really exploring spirituality will not go after people like Acharya Prashant!
His spiritual ideas are funny and babyish and too bookish
He is a joke in front of Real gurus like Sadguru🙏
This shows you don't want proper society around you bhand bankar fir na hai .when you are disabled to take responsibility of any one this is simple way to escape from it.I do agree marriage is a strong consistiuton it should be followed properly.
@@creativehome3869 no sir my comment does not show that I dont want proper society. u need to read it and think clearly for some time. As i already said most people will miss the point U just proved it.
@@poojasharma-xc9un lol nothing can be said now
Sir, actually the problem is not marriage itself but the type and kinds of people that you will see around yourself. Nowadays, hookup culture is very prominent in India, and it is known that it is much easier for a girl to find a sexual partner more so than guys. So, the problem comes when two people end up in marriage who have had very different experiences which in turn would have shaped their perspectives. I turned 30 this year and by God's grace, I am doing reasonably well in life and I can tell you that nearly every girl in my age group (late 20s even) has quite a body count. Marriages work when two people are at least semi-interested in each other, but nowadays, many girls (mostly) are just looking to 'settle' with some guy while they themselves have nothing to offer but sex - and even then, that too is not much because they have had coitus with so many people that they are now bored. The problem now comes to boys who have grown up in conservative families or did not have a chance to have a relationship or had no chance for hookups due to being focused in their careers and earning money. When such a marriage happens, obviously it is bound to break. I don't disagree with anything you said, but at the same time, it is a fact that divorce rates in India have gone up in the last few years. Finally, the point you made about the leap of faith - to do that, you need to be reasonably certain about the other person, not that we will not have any problems with them, but at least they will not abandon us when the problem comes. And, it is hard to be sure of anyone those days. Once again, I am not discounting anything you said, but the quality of people has severely gone down in the recent years, so the one who is going to provide or is capable of providing would need to think twice before making themselves available to being exploited in the first place.
@@AnimeshSinghweb Certainly, one needs to have standards to not accept anyone having partners in the past.
Virginity in both men and women is a time tested requirement for marital success probabilistically.
Moderns are such deniers of truths and hide behind words like compromise, acceptable blah etc...Won't work.
Every girl in your age group should be married under normal circumstances. If you are still unmarried that explains your over exaggeration, since it gets harder to find a partner after 30. You didn't mention if you are married, but I assume no because any married man won't have so much time, and would be happy and busy, not worried about body counts of women around. I rarely reply to comments like this, but I hope this message helps you. Please watch more of Amit sir's content as many doubts that you have he has already cleared in his previous videos, some public and some through his membership/webinars.
Regards.
@@MrShagiFpv Okay, so - yes, actually many girls I knew who were not into promiscuity and maintained a decent pre-marital life (no hookups, etc.) got arrange married already in their mid-20s. Now, coming to those in their late 20s, well, I was approached by many girls between 26-32 years, and upon doing some 'friendly' discussions, I figured that they either have had a very promiscuous past and were now just trying to find a 'safe' guy to settle down with, or they've had a breakup so bad that they haven't gotten over their exes. In both cases, they are emotionally used up (exhausted) and that is not the kind of partner you would want for marriage since it depends on both people to keep it going. Individually, I am doing quite well in my life, but I have worked hard to build myself career-wise, and any guy who has worked hard to become someone without any support from parents will not want just any girl to come into his life and f**k it up. Anyways, I am happy and busy individually - but the concept of body count is important, because there is an inverse correlation between the number of partners and the emotional availability of a person. And if you are going to be sticking with someone for life, you will obviously want that they are just as invested in the marriage as you are. Also, I think it is fine to not get married as long as someone isn't sure about it; as for the difficulty in finding partners, I don't know what is the case with girls, but for guys, if you are financially successful and have kept yourself even physically average/above average, you will have no problems finding a girl - given that you know how to make them laugh and talk.
@@AngshumanVI your thought process is partially twisted. Buddy, be careful that way you will never find anyone in life. It's your myth that only your hard work has got you where you are in your life. Success is an outcome of more than just hardwork. And so far as the girl is concerned, you seem to be looking down on everyone else while placing yourself on the topmost pedestal !
Problematic and narcissistic way of thinking
@@AngshumanVI You are absolutely right!! Dating gurus and other people say that the persons past is not important. They didnt meet you back then. But this is a wrong conception. This phrase of forget the past was probably created by gangsters and murderers or rapists
The past always predicts the future. Anybody who is habituated to flings and hookups doesnt change to sati savitri or sant mahatma overnight. The past is always an indication of what the other person is capable of doing in the future. So better focus on risk management and knock off people with a bad credit score in the sexual department or finances and character in general. Choose people who display less probability of going back to their original self. A Persons base character never changes.
The truth is marriages have been successful in lndian society only because of wife's unlimited sacrifices and adjustments. Many marriages in previous generations were sustaing due to the sacrificing and adjusting roles of ladies. Today's girls don't want to do that. They know it what their mothers, aunts, and senior sisters have gone through.
Stop eating cooked food....eat fruits...women will be free from kitchen and life will be good or do household chores.
So true a woman's role is main in a marriage because a woman makes the house
A woman only sacrifices her career for her family, she sacrifices her work, her job life for a Child
So true 💯 maam
Nowadays many girls who are working they are not willing to have kids
@@nikitafernandes461please don't make your life hell, let's come together and fight with this marriage evil,so that we and other future generations can live peacefully like the European people especially the Nordic nations
True
Namaskar Guruji, I am atheist hindu as you said. I tried to worship, but i saw my mind is more peaceful, productive, happy when i dont worry about god.
I had few family issues and it was spoiling my relationships with my wife and kids. All because of relatives, we were great earlier. We took a decision not to talk much with relatives and now we are great. Me and my wife talk like friends, we talk to kids have some fun all together, play with kids. We stopped all unrealistic expectations. We expect our kids to study average. And learn more on thinking, observing, happy so that they wont lose self confidence. Also i encourage them to do experiment and do mistakes rather than being correct.
You are wise.
👍🏻👍🏻
You are right , our most of the issues in marriage created by unnecessary interference of relatives , always better to maintain a safe distance with them .
@@anjusingh5082 When you maintain a safe distance, they think you do not want to keep relation with them.
@@ashitmukherjee5934 They should no their limits ( everyone has ), don’t interfere in others matter , neither allow them in your space .
I am big fan of you ....very very practical....we need more people like you ........ the so called spiritual gurus deviating from main topic and confusing people...
being a follower of both acharya prashant ji and amit sangwan ji, I agree to this video, bahot km log hote hai jinko shadi nhi krni chahiye. wo apna raasta khud dhund lete hai , naa hi wo kisi ke vdos dekhte hai, aam janta ke lie being unmarried will act as a poison.
Exactly
That's exactly what acharya prashant said
Rightly said! 🙌
aam janta Mane kya?
Vaai yeh aam janta, yeh poison jo bhi bol rahe ho yeh ek prejudiced opinion hai, enquire and experiment karo toh kuch bhi sambhab hai. Agar kisi ko choti age se hi sikhaya jaaye ki happily jeene ko hai, saadi yaa phir baccha paida karni waloon cheez sab secondary hai, then yeh jansakhya 150 crore tak nehi pohochta jisme ham sab literally daabe huye hai, frustration ka mul karan hai yeh 1.5 billion people, overpopulation, unemployment, garibi, cheezon ka demand, land crisis itna sab kuch jhelne ke baad bhi itna immense suffering ke baad bhi agar koi baccha paida karna zaroori samjhe toh kya hi batana. Khud hi ham prithvi ko maar rahe hai, kisi bhi tark se. Already 480/sq k. Population density hai. Aur kitna chahte ho tum?? Ekdin yeh sab tark dete dete hi yeh nature humans ko hi tabah kar dega, extinct kar dega, woh kya accha hoga?? Woh hi shayad behatar hai tum jaise soch walon logo ke liye.
This is personal with acharya prashant.. 😂😂😂
Love this counter view.. ❤
Marriage is a dead institution in the 21st century. But we have someone defending it, thank you, uncle. Everybody slams marriage, but we need people defending marriage. Hats off uncle. Albeit you are doing it to sell more real estate, which is not as good as equity as far as investment perspective is concerned.
@dimplekataria406 marriage is dead because, you can be involved in relationships without a formal commitment
Hardly 1 percent is unmarried above 40... How come marriage is dead institution? Is there any logic or just immature comment of a unmarried person.
@@dimplekataria406gradually our society is welcoming all these types of live in relationship n all such things
@pandeyrajjesh1 dimwit take. How many of these marriages would have happened or can survive without familial/societal values?
How many people are producing helathy children
dying not dead, correction.
Everybody wants to be Hanuman, but no one wants to be Shree Rama. Hanuman could fly to Lanka and get Sita back for Rama....But Shree Rama choose to walk it to Lanka fight the battle and get his wife back.. That is why Shree Rama is the Maryada Purushottam...
that is why Hanuman choose sharanagati to Shri Rama
Nobody wants to walk the Right Path because it is the difficult path....
but we are called to do that.. because that only will we give us fulfillment..because that is our obligation.. our Swadharma ....Hope our youth realize ..This is why we say only the name of Shri Rama is more powerful than Lord Rama himslef..as we are called to follow the path of Maryada Purushottam.... for this reason that Lord Hanuman decided to stay back on earth ...
I just don't know sir what to say 🙏 You really need a standing ovation for speaking so frankly and truthfully! I hundred percent agree with u! I am happily married for the last nearly 40 yrs. Ours was an arranged marriage and we both worked hard to make it work. My son also is happily married for the last nearly 10yrs. I believe in the institution of marriage which in fact is the foundation of a good society. The day that institution deteriorates certainly the downfall of a society begins...You are a gifted speaker who really succeeds in convincing people regarding issues without showing aggression. I really want to salute u 🙏🙏
A good marriage is a huge support in life. And making a marriage good or successful is not that difficult but definitely worth the efforts.
Sir agree with you 💯.
Right
Define a good marriage if possible?
@@sukantasahoo4278 A good marriage is a compromise for the welfare and peace of the children.
1. Population control is necessary for saving earth
2. Marriage is also association. Association with bad life partner is like as hell
3. Selective marriage with good life partner is compulsory for peaceful life
4. Purpose of marriage is firstly spiritual, moral and psychological support for truthful life
I disagree
ive been watching your videos for the past few months.. the amount of knowledge that you provide is immense. Full respect sir
Right you are.
Yes please we want detailed video on each points given in this video.
आपने शादी से पहले वाली 7 tips जो दी जिसमें एक tip खर्चे के बारे में थी। मैं और मेरे माता पिता शादी पर खर्चा करने को बेवकूफी मानते हैं। हम तो कोर्ट में शादी कर लें। शादी में पैसे उड़ानें से अच्छा घर ले लो, या गाड़ी ले लो। पर अगर सामने वाले कहें कि हमारे एक ही लड़की है। शादी तो धूमधाम से ही करेंगे। एक ही बार होती है शादी। रिश्तेदार, जान पहचान वाले क्या कहेंगे । उस situation को कैसे handle किया जाए?
Are karni hi kyun hai barbaadi(shaadi) ? Jab roz alag alag varieties kha sakte ho to phir wahi ek hi baasi dal chawal khane ki kya jarurat hai. Pata nhi iss modern century mein bhi kaise kaise chutiye log rehte hain jo shaadi ke chakkar mein rehte hain🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 marriage=💩💩💩💩
This is what I looked in my parents and this is what we need. Thanks for making us aware sir. Respect❤
With 140 crore population Indians don't need to force themselves in marriage.😊
Congratulations your bloodline ends here😂 80 sal ki umar me jab marega to chita ko koi ag lgane wala nai milega
@@Rishu_4912Marne ke baad kaun sa pta chalega ki aag lagaya ki nhi ?
@@vaibhavchari8202 mrne ka process hi itna darwana hai btadia to rat ko so nhi paoge
@Rishu_4912 yehi to sabse bada myth hai.. tumhari auladein tumhara sath in future uski bhi guarantee nhi.. Chita ko aag dena to dur ki baat h
@@Rishu_4912tho uske liye Tera poora jeevan thayg karoge kya....sirf chitha jalane Wale ke liye 😂😂😂
You r talking sense. Today the youth is confused .Youth should know what to do and what not to do for own Good . Self control , sex education , discipline etc should be worked on .Seek righ information , and learn that there is a right time to do anything . Be , eating, studying , working ,sex , sleeping etc etc .🙏🙏 Patience , being responsible person, morality , values are important to work on before getting married . You r so right Sir , hope the young understand ..🙏👍❤️
Marriage ke mamle mein Prashant ji is a big zero.
@@ashitmukherjee5934 or Global consumption ko rokne me big hero. which is the root cause of today's Environment change.
@@ashitmukherjee5934 Are you happy with marriage in this inflation period. How about children education expenses, do you afford children admission in 'first class' education classes which cost nearly around Rs. 1crore from nursery to 12th standard period. or you are going to put children into low quality educations. Do you manage to earn smart enough in economic recessions and layoffs.
These are the points Acharya Prashant putting in before thinking about marriage.
@@bhushan326marriage=💩
@@rajendrameena150ghantha Saadi nahni Karo iss se jyada tar kahna ko jaa rahe hein,khud begaluru IIT IIM mein ghumo aur batao ki consumption karna kharap hei,kaun bata Raha hei Saadi hone se kharch jyada ho jayega aur akele rahene se kuch nahni hoga
I agree with you Sir that marriage is a "leap of faith" , no matter how much you know the other person before marriage, your spouse will surprise you in a good/bad way depending upon the situation. But if a person is getting married in late 20s or 30s then both the partners should know each other on a bare minimum level or see if the other person has the potential of becoming a friend and discuss important aspects openly! People in this age group are strong headed and marriage can break easily if they do not connect because Nibhane ki "chah" hogi tabhi nibhaoge!
Soo true..
Many are making it a fancy thing like not attaching with anything..Arey baba No getting attached with anything is also an attachment with something..
Similar as that of not believing in God is also believing in something..
We should we flexible to use our inner intuition to understand what works for us and what not..These things can't be briefed by any books including any Vedas..
Our country is too young for trying those western concepts like open marriage, Live in relationship etc etc..Let us leave those experiments to our children,we need atleast one more generation to witness any drastic changes..
Thankyou Sir for trying to spread clarity in the world of chaos. Your videos are a life changing and can reshape someone's mindset and save him from going a path of down fall. Keep your work going, kids like us do need to be taught true virtue in such manner.
Sir, you have completely nailed this issue... all married and unmarried people should listen to this video... especially people who are considering speration/divorce
@@hemangshrivastava9561According to you, how's your life going? Were you single all the time?
@@hemangshrivastava9561so is that a achievement? Being married is also not a achievement but who has better experience and small fun of life.? And what great work you did? Did you fixed crooked laws of India?
@hemangshrivastava9561 R u happy at present ?
You get married so that you have somebody to witness and share your journey with. These are golden words. I never realized this truth. Family ke andar ek doosre ka, bachhon ka journey appreciate karna hi life hai.
Kya tha tumhari journey mein aisa jo share krana hai . Freedom fighter ho kya ho. Ek aam aadmi ki trh hi toh jee rhe ho usko kya golden words mein likhwana chahte ho
bahut film dekhte ho beta 😂
Aisa kuch karke jao Jo dusre log bhi apko yaad rakhe.. apne liye to har koi jeeta hai ..
I think to go with marriage or remain unmarried is presnol choice.And neither any counceler nor Acharya can change thought.We all as a human being grows up with different situation and all the thought and experience makes a perseption about a particular idea.The people who have grown up in traumatic situation will Always remain against marriage.On the other hand people who have enjoyed life since childhood and observed happy married life of parents will be in support of marriage.
Yes....agree last 18 years se parents ke bhaynkar jhagde or unka divorce or last 3 salo se bhai or uski wife ki traumatic love marriage bhayankar jhgde or unka divorce jhelne ke baad aaj 33 ki ge me bhi main depression Enxiety Panik attack se lad raha hu....! Shadi naam se bhayankar nafrat ho chuki h
Correct bro
Once a girl said i don't want to marry but my parents are forcing me to do so, to which acharya prashant asked,why don't you wnat to get married to which she said just like that. Phir acharya Prashant ne kaha aiso ki toh shadi hoti hi h
Sir, you probably misunderstood Acharya's talk. I guess what Acharya Prashant meant was marry a person with certain level of spirituality n maturity, but don't go after a person with lots of extreme wealth n good looks etc only.
A spiritually inclined person will always have the resilience n maturity to understand his/her partner than a person who is rich n good looking but is lacking in maturity and wisdom.
What Acharya meant was person literally higher in spirituality, not in wealth etc
Wo murkh...ak high spirituality pe hai to dusra to km ka hoga na....sab high wale dhundenge to high wala kyo krega marriage...use bhi phir aur high chahiye
Acharya Prashant confuse kar rahe hein aur kuch nahni
Many issues are present nowadays.. Earlier complexity in marriage were not that much. Now it's kinda of risky affair.. Aajkal to sbke Phrmaisy program hai.. Todha todha both parties should learn to sacrifice..Iss pr bhi bat honi chahiye ki marriage ko leke confusion itna kyu hua? Bss ye bol dene se ki shadi kr lo shadi nhi ho jati.. Kisi se bhi nhi kr skte.. Qki normal insan h to sonchna to pdega.. Bcz having lifepartner is one time affair.. Coins are not being tossed
Bilkul sir ji, you are leading from the front in educating all of us on social,financial and psychological issues.
Shat shat 🙏
I don't completely agree with what sirji said ,marriage should not be forced upon an adult
Sir, what you said is true since thats how a society works. But what AP said is also true because he works for liberalization of a individuals consciousness. He didn't look down the marriage, he look down the marriages which is unconscious marriage.
So many well put points in a small video. True magic of an experiment speaker.... Immersive sir..... Your videos deserve to trend, i feel sad when i see others copying your stuff and making videos.
Thank you so much Sir!!! Brilliant video for all the youth following AP..
I had been following him for an year approximately and there was increase in bitterness within me. Also, when I went in the outside world for work, I felt like ye baatein baatein hi hain sirf asli dunia boht alag hai aur inki baaton se solution nahi confusion mil raha tha bas ... Sun na band kar dia ab sab thik hai..Osho ko sun sakte hai aur bhi boht tareeke hai life mein light aur khush rehne ke... unnecessarily itna burden carry karne ki koi zarurat nahi
AP ke toh face per hi bitterness and arrogancy hai . And his talks is not applicable in practical life you are right .
He is clearly saying if you believe in it, do it. If not, ignore it.
Where is the problem?
Everyone is entitled to their opinion. Millions of successful marriages exists and they are more successful than people who think it's burden.
People need to cope with contrasting opinions
Dekho..... Aap ko Acharya Prashant accha nehi lagta.... Iska matlab thodi na hai ki woh galat bata rahe hai?? Yeh nehi. Practical lives mein humans bohot suffer karte hai, bohot hi..... Matlab hadd se zyada ham suffer karte jaa rahe hai...... Kyunki hamari behoshi.... Aur galat tarike kaa jeevanjapan, agar koi luxurious lifestyle ke khushi ko vog raha hai aur dusre haath mein environment, climate and iss nature ko haani pohcha raha hai.... Toh yeh toh sarasar galat hai naa?? Toh Acharya ji yehi kehte hai..... Satya bolte hai woh, insaan galti karta hi rehta hai, seekh nehi leta, aur sab ko majboor karta hai kasht, peera dene ke liye, swarthi insaan hai sab. Inn baton ko samjhane ke liye ek bitterness toh zaroori hai.... Hai naa?? Agar bohot hi shanti se inn baaton ko AP bolega toh kaun shunega?? Pehle se hi haam andhkaar mein dube huye hai. Agar ham ek simple, kam se kam baasnayon se bhara jivan byatit karte toh Acharya jee ko itna bolna nehi padta. 🙏🙏
Aacharya ji ka raasta kathin hain...mehnat lagti hai...aur aapko chahiye instant noodles toh jaao phir chapprrion ke paas
@@Wimpy-2024Saadi karna chapri hogaya kya, waise bhi ap ke philosophy bahat confusion hei, dehe ka sukh na karke wohna par jaake Raha Jana sahi ho gaya
8:05 --Realistically speaking. 'Giving' to frendship me nhi hoti hai aajkal. Spouse to door ki bat hai. And by the way, largely women marry because of the 'bio clock' and men marry because 'Abe tu aur kya karega!?' Nobody is thinking 'I want my spouse to witness me giving birth and then raising kids and loosing a job and then finding another.'
I know you're romanticizing it, but.... for an average man, 'marriage' is not optional, but its also not done out of the choice of heart. Its done because papaji keh rhe hain aur mosi ji keh rahi hain. 😶😶
how can you generalise nobody is thinking on this level? bro i think you hang around average people. You dont know the people with kings mentality, change the 5 person you hang around with
Aur samjho.
Right. AP trying to change it.
Thats the typical Hippi thinking 😅
@@hemangshrivastava9561 In your old age you will weep in loneliness.
13:10 to 13.24 you literally won my heart ❤️
Absolutely agree with your logical and critical analysis. Enjoying watching your videos and enhancing my levels of order of thinking.
Very true ,great video, sir.
When i first started listening to Acharya Prashant I felt depressed, perplexed, and hopeless. I even started questioning my near and dear ones and made big fuss out of everything, which resulted in sleepless nights, anxiety, and bad health. I think its great u gave us a good clarity on this topic.
Thank you Sir , for clarity on this. Keep guiding us ❤
Sir actually you are right for general public and yes in the smoothly running world people should happily do marriage but Acharya prashant want a mass audience to support his work to save the earth otherwise why the men will sacrifice his life, left IIM and IAS opportunities. He see that family is the unit of consumption and without stopping it we cant get rid of current global crisis. I saw same perspective on marriage by Osho and concluded that spiritual teacher see marriage as hindrance in the path of life mainly. but sometimes they also support those 10% marriage like marriage of kabir, ramkrishna. Now it is up-to the people what to choose and not just follow what one says , i mean if the calling is coming from inside after gaining so much knowledge and experiences that this work can be carried out without marriage as marriage impose various responsibilities then you should do that. same can be said to bhagat singh who choose to die by his own and know one said him to become deshbhakt.
Are bhai world ki tension tu kaiko le riya hai...itti tension hai to PM ko direct bol ki India ke laws ko fix kare....tu bhai apni simple zindagi jeene pe focus kar na bhaia....kaiko itta load le riya hai re tu
Are yaar meena bhai hoke itta complex thoght process leke chal rya hai...kya yaar
उसने कभी शादी के बारे में बात ही नहीं करी उन्होंने तो कभी भी मतलब जब कोई शादी के लिए पूछता भी था तो वह कहते ही थे कि मैं शादीशुदा नहीं हूं तुम गलती कर रहे हो मुझसे puchkar तुम्हारे पास आर्य जी बहुत ज्यादा ज्यादा बोलते हैं उसे चीज पर जो उन्होंने kiya hi nahi
You are contributing a lot to develop the thinking of young generation for good society.
Thankyou so much sir 😊
if u want freedom then u must have family .
Hats off to you sir... Along with yours, I am watching Aacharya Prashant videos from long time... I respect him very much but the topic which you discussed is just outstanding the same questions were arising in my mind also... And here I must say you are 100% right 👍
😃😃😃 marriage means association..If you accompany with bad life partner....your life will be ruined...Vedant says, association with materialistic person is like as hell.
Disagree...
1. Population control is necessary for saving earth
2. Marriage is also association. Association with bad life partner is like as hell
3. Selective marriage with good life partner is compulsory for peaceful life
4. Purpose of marriage is firstly spiritual, moral and psychological support for truthful life
Agreed. Running away from your responsibilities is easy. Living in this imperfect world and trying to make it work is hard. The institution of marriage has lasted for centuries now.
Being an old soul, I really appreciate your opinion Sir for clearing about Aacharya Prashant's wrong opinion about marriage, as being a girl I feel insecure if men will not marry and every men cannot be a sanyasi then they will get freedom to exploit women, they will have no fear of family and society
Jisne gul khilaanay hain woh marital knot mein rehkar bhi khila dete hain.
@@vijaylaxmi3305 baccho ka kya.. Relationship se janme baccho ki responsibility kaun uthayega..they will have to live with step parents.. Don't just think from one angle there are many variables to this equation..
You are right.
@@azadjain8534 95% loyal? In which world are you living in. The percentage of disloyals can be much higher than 50%. Everybody seems to be loyal until caught.
@@hopelove6001 You are right.Teach him.
Is baba Prashant ki baat muje shru se he bhut confused krti thi ...per jisse bhi bolo koi smjta he nhi h ...finally koi Mila ..jo galat ko galat bol rha h ....thnk u sir ji
I love discomfort 🤠
Too much fun Too much adventure 🔥🔥🔥 .
One Can't love anyone more than like an unmarried one
Yes . Life is struggle
Yes😊
Aap shadi karoge ya nahi ? Kya decision liya h
@@ashuvijay7031 nhi
@@anshu0110 aap male ho ya female or aapne budape ka kya socha h or logo ko kya reply Dete ho ?
You are the antidote. Thank you for coming out to address these issues boldly. Your sarcasm is amazing. Your style of explaining adds special effect. Highest level of delivery. 👏👏👏
Marriage is a defunct institution. 💔💔 Stay single stay happy. 🙏🙏
Marriage is very important for survival in society.for support its a practical thing.burhape me koi sath nahi deta
Agar aaj koi bhi insaan shadi na kare to lagbhag 80-100 saal me manav human dharti se khatam ho jayge or jab khatm hi hona hai to aaj hi sab khatm ho jao na life ka jhanjat dikkat khatam
Guru ji, you never confuse us. You always give pure clarity on every topic you talk about. Only once I have heard Prashant ji on youtube. After listening to him I immediately clicked on 'don't recommended this channel'. That much clarity we have gained from you that we can easily makeout who talks right and who talks insane. We can choose wise youtubers.
This is a fantastic video. I was desperately waiting for someone to call Prashant's bluff.
I have seen many of his videos and disagree with him about 80% of times.
I agree with everything you have said in this video, in fact they are my own thoughts.
This video should reach as many people as Prashant's videos. He is misleading young people and taking them in wrong direction.
Please continue exposing Prashant's bluff. If you want, I have many of my own views of disagreement with him, I can share with you. I am surprised how young people ask him for direction about their marital problems and issues. From a guy who has never married, how can he give any opinion about marriage relationships? He says "I can see what's happening around me".
But there are some things in life which you MUST experience in order to understand its gravity. Observation just doesn't cut it.
Thanks for this video, finally someone has guts to call spade a spade.
Kya baat h sirji! You are truly India's Jordan Peterson :)
Few more Logical Guru Ji after watching all of your platinum membership content:
1. Suddenly you get respect in society and your family.
2. You not only get Deh ka sukh, you also get on time Tea, Food, clothes, clean house emotional support, moral support and etc.
3. You also get a single partner lifelong to help you each other.
4. You get to know how to handle responsibility for your family.
4. You get to know about sukh and dukh.
ऐसे 50 पॉजिटिव reason or hai.
और अगर हमारे parents भी शादी नही।करते तो वो कहा से आते हम कहा से आते।
& the myth is nowadays married couple doesn't gets respect . Most people pitty over married couples , rest of the world doesn't even care about the two people as couple. Respect is given more generally for the position of job if anybody is getting these days !!
@@ghanshyam1990 Sir kai Gadhe paise le ke ghoom rahe hai duniya. Please check.
Bhai dukh hi to sahan nahi hote...! Asli problem hi vahi h
I am not convinced with your logic .... atleast till now i am not convinced ....
No doubt Archarya Prashant ji is the best❤
Exactly .u told the truth .no one can give guarantee of ones ownself or for others.marraige is devotion and its just a skill of handling every situation.
Jisko sansar mein magan rehna hai wo isko sune jinko dukho se mukti chahiye wo Acharya Prashant ji ki sune simple
Dukh se to bichara prasant babu bhi mukt nahi he 😂😂😂😂
Sir,please don't skip this comment
Acharya prashant always focusses on one's liberation.
You were saying that marriage is an important constitution of everyone's life but the reality is different
*Answer my question*
If two parents,who are not enough self-realised raise a child,then mental well-being of the child gets affected,and they evolve that child in their own terms without any conscience[now you may quote about those people who achieved the highest even though his/her parents were not so self-realised,and these kind of people only account for 1 percent of the population,that too achieved success by their own endless efforts with a little support from their parents]
Do you think the relationship between parents and children is love❤?
Most of the cases,It is just the attachment to each other that drives them together,the parents keep on investing upon the child for his/her needs like health,food,clothes,education etc. This *investment of money upon children creates attachment*
This ignorant parents who are only attached to their children force them to follow the career paths which are lucrative in this era which return-invest the money that they have spent upon him/her and people consider this whole phenomenon as love[this is what happens when there is no love and the relationship is mere a attachment]
Again these are the children who die by suicide during their youth thinking that they haven't fulfilled their parents' desires
And you may argue with an example for love saying how a mother feeds their children by sacrificing her needs--this is also just a attachment which resulted from the social conditioning with which we are surrounded by.
This is what happens when the parents aren't self-realised
Here don't think self realisation to be any spiritual or a religious term,it is just about knowing one's own self about where he wants to go,and have crystal clear idea on why he is chasing that goal
This is my straight question to you,sir-Was your respect towards your elder siblings/parents remained the same after you became financially independent???
You might say no, but when you introspect through the real world,you will come to know how mercilessly few people who became financially independent are leaving their parents in the old-age homes and where has the love gone b/w parents and children there after?
The actual reason that there was no love at all between both parents and children[either sides] It was mere a attachment
This is how pathetic the relationships are! When you marry without any conscience and this conscience comes from deep self-realisation
This is what I have understood from acharys prashant's videos after watching hundreds of them
'If two parents, who are not enough "self-realised"'
self realised - that is where Prashant brain washes people.
Sorry to be so blunt, but that is my opinion
Agreed
@@AnimeshSinghweb There's no bigger crime in the World Than Giving Birth.
Exactly bhai inko bass inki course bechani hai platinum subscription vali😂😂😂😂 aur inko lag raha hai shadi band padegi toh mera dukan bhi band hoga.
@@AnimeshSinghweb everything of what you depicted is fine but how can you stay being unwrenched even after watching those senseless parents exploiting their kids for their own benefits?
Mere paas words nahi hai aapki taarif karne k liye . Soooooooo truuuuee . Aap hero ho really .bahut sach . BIG TRUTH .
Marriage is subjective topic person to person varies ,whom should marriage or not totally dependent on their requirements, but we have one common goal to go with high chetana and make our life better ❤
Prashant ji ki kafi baate logical nahi hai, he sounds misogynistic also lot of times. I just skip his videos now. You very correctly analyzed his views. 👍 Thanks Sir.
Acharya Prashant is nawt misogynistic! He gives insights into d mysogynism of our corrupted society.
Best analysis Sir ,thanks for the guidance. 🙏🙏🙏
सही कहा गुरु जी आपने क्युकी आचार्य प्रशांत जी की वीडियो देख कर धीरे धीरे,, मैं अपने अच्छे खासे मैरिड लाइफ में सस्पेंस करने लगी थी मेरे हसबैंड एक बहुत अच्छे इंसान है अच्छे जॉब में है केयरिंग लविंग और फैमिली बैलेंस करना सारी क्वालिटी है मेरे लिए सब कुछ करने के बाद जब वो मुझसे फिजिकल की बात करते तो मुझे आचार्य प्रशांत की बाद याद आ जाती और वो विलेन लगने लगते ,,मैं यही सोचती की ऐसे इंसान जो सबके लिए परफेक्ट है बस मेरे से क्यू लेकिन आपकी वीडियो देखकर समझ आया ये तो हम दोनो को need हैं जो की अच्छी बात समझना है वरना हमारे बीच में कोई और आ जायेगा थैंक यू आर टॉपिक पर वीडियो बनाने के लिए
Sir more respect to you.. plz keep bringing such content.🙏🏼
It is very amusing to see that someone is so practical & logical in your age. I wish all elderly people watch your videos & take some inspiration 🙏🙏
You are right, for the most part. You are right in saying that when two people who shouldn't marry at all marry each other it ends up in divorce. However, it's even more of a torture when one person who is cut out for marriage marries someone who isn't cut out for it. In this case, neither will divorce happen easily nor can they find satisfaction in it. That's why everybody must think before getting married. Shaadi mein nuksaan aur fayde dono hai. Aur bachelorhood mein bhi nuksaan aur fayde dono hai. It all depends on a person's mindset. A bird can't force itself to swim and a fish can't force itself to fly. ❤
Happy to see a neutral opinion. Otherwise both parties make it look like that Marriage or Non-marriage are Heaven or Hell. Both have their own merits and demerits. There are both happily married and unmarried population and un-happily married and unmarried population. A lot depends on an individual's character too.
If one is mentally prepared for marriage then go ahead.
Otherwise it is ok to remain single.
My 35 yrs marriage experience
Uncle ji
Namstey . I have recently come across your channel and subscribed it .
Apki sanatan vali example bahut realistic lagi . I have listened to acharya Prashant for long time but was not clear what he actually want for his follower to do.
Mainey pehli baar unki vichardhara par dusra perspective suna . Bahut sahi laga .
Thank you
In kaliyug, if one wants to grow spiritually he or she shouldn't marry so that time can be saved
Thats good, but if done in a natural way.
My Gurudev says, nothing artificial can ever give pleasure.
What Prashant is doing is, insulting and humiliating the institution of marriage.
This is not just wrong, but extremely hazardous for the society.
Why?
Any normal person, who has emotional and sexual needs, but is hesitant for responsibilities, he will get seriously misguided by Prashant.
Such a person can't become a proper sadhu, to dedicate his time and efforts for spiritual development since his other desires are unfulfilled, and hearing all this negativity, he cant even become a proper family.
Hence, न घर का न घाट का।
India has seen many stalwart sannyasis and saints, but noone has demonised grihastha ashram like this person.
Bhaiyaji you are not born to be a sanyasi😂
actually in Vedas it is written that in Kaliyuga don't take sanyas
What grow spiritually?Doing nothing sitting in home,and say grow spiritually
I also used to watch him . His logic sounds valid but looking at the grumpy and dead faces of the people around ..I decided to avoid that in me. Thanks guru G😊
Listening to you regularly has really made a big difference in my life....tahe dil se aapka dhanyawaad sango sir
Myth of Give and take, completely changed.. thank u sir
Namaste,
Today I got to know that you were one of the students of Deepanshu Giri Ji and have learned Vedic Jyotish. So this is my humble request that please bring some foundation videos on Vedic Jyotish on this channel clarity for youth. I am hopeful that you will guide.
Dhanyawaad🙏
How do you know this
Osho has given more clarity on this, and also he said, " तर्क वेश्या की तरह होता है, वो किसी के भी साथ निकल पड़ता है..।
So all listener's, marriage is a very very delicate subject।try to handle it carefully 👍🏼
Sir you are the source of enlightenment for youth like us🔥
Keep showing your blessings like this🙏🏻
Normally I don't do comments sir however I want share my opinion and understanding about "marrying someone who can take to a higher state". It is obvious that if you want to marry someone who is financially or by education or by position is on higher state then for that person who is going to marry you who is below his/her state would be something that will not be matching the criteria. It is so simple to understand and is actually adopted in our very society.
Fact I think you might missed out here sir is that, "Marrying someone who can take to a higher position/state" isn't about marrying to a person who is in higher state/position. Its about pairing up with a person whose companionship can boost all the good aspects, good vibes, potential, knowledge & creativity of both of companions.
Please forgive me if I hurt you.. Namaste n Pranam Sir
The only way to deal with an unfree world is to become so absolutely free that your very existence is an act of rebellion.-Albert Camus
Then why Albert Camus after publication of his book go for getting the Nobel prize ?? He is free. Then why he go for it ? He should say there are rubbish iam also free from getting appreciation from what I do
Sir, all your points are very perfect, valid and shuts all the other opposite views. Thank you and please make videos to inspire and show right path to our youth.
No " Acharya Prashant " was destroyed in this Video 😂........ Anyways Great Video Sir Learned a Lot
I admire you for taking on the powerful when they openly give impractical advice.
Im amazed by the level of clarity u have regarding every phase n part of life.i too had issues with acharya Prashant's thought process n content.thanku sir for clarifying as a 21yr it was an eye opening video🙏
I completely agree with you on this❤
very well said sir....every one should get married and carry it with honesty and love then really it is the pleasure, which can not express in words
@@hemangshrivastava9561 mad respect to you
@@hemangshrivastava9561🫡 respect brother. I wish you good health.❤
After longtime, heard someone support marriage in right way
"144 crore hum aise hi chetna jaga ke nahin pahuche hai. Kuch aur bhi jaga hai humara"
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Sirji bahut naughty hai....
After watching only two videos i am a big fan of yours now.thanku sir .people like u are the last hope of our society
Yes sir we need more videos on this topic
26:40 I like your confidence: "I am the antidote"! 😂😅❤
ये आचार्य प्रशांत को कुछ साल पहले तक देखता था... गीता के मूलभूत सिद्धांतों की मुझे अच्छी समझ है इसीलिए जब उन मूलभूत सिद्धांतों से उनकी बातों का विग्रह दिखा तो समझ आया कि जो आदमी गीता के मूलभूत सिद्धांत ठीक से नहीं समझ पाया वो मुझे कौनसा दार्शनिक ज्ञान दे देगा।😅
मे भी आचार्य जी की बातें सुनना चाहता हूँ
क्या वो गलत अर्थ बताते हैं?
क्या है गीता की असली अर्थ और सारांश??
मुलभुत बात क्या है गीता की जो आचार्य जी नहीं बोलते है, कहाँ चूक हो रही है?
Sir ye taking stanatan Dharma to kitab wala agle is unique... Great observation.
you are the man of wisdom;
Woooow गुरुजी ये प्रश्न मेरे मन में भी उठा की अगर सनातनी शादी ही नही करेंगे तो वेद पुराण आध्यात्म पढ़ेगा कॉन सब खत्म हो जाएगा "" lower class "" bagehswar dham में busy h 😜😜😜😜😜😂😂😂🙏🙏🙏🙏 nice clarity
Kucch khatam nahi honewala hai.140 carore hai ab bas bhi karo
Great Mag, excellent clarity giving video for youth in present and future generation
Agree on every point. Westnize ho gaya hai indian mindset of young generations.
Don't judge every failed or fight in a marriage as your future.
Take proper decision and try to resolve. Social media ko dekh k decide karke marriage expectation and nautankiyan. Dekhlo aadho k divorse ho rhe hai. Coz shosha baji jyada thi
Fake and false expectations are wrong on both side of couple. Talk and talk and try to resolve.
You cannot rely on friends or gf/bfs all life. You need someone to take care for the whole life you have.
Jhagda toh gharwalo k sath bhi hota hai bhai behen mein hota hai. But divorce lena husband wife ka not a solution.
100% agree with leap of faith and when you are ready to give then you should marry. I married on just these 2 factors, and I am very happy I made that decision. :)
Sir its really difficult for educated earning girls to find suitable groom in lower middle class. Most boys in this class r chappri n irresponsible n hav eyes on girls income n inside detest such independent girls who dont give them bhaav but hav eyes on her money.
Every class. It’s the same mentality of Most men across all socio economic strata. Difference is the middle middle and upper middle class boys do have jobs and education. Baaki Basic mentality Wahi hai.
so dont marry even no boy is interested to marry
@@gagandeepsharma7972i wanna marry!!…who are you to generalise all boys?…Ek ladki reject krde toh Tera ego hurt ho gya hoga and and ab shaadi nhi krni🤡
@@rahulgupta_1312 usne upar comment dekh kya likha hai
"most boys in this class are chapri"
Ye generalisation nhi laga tujhe ??
lekin mera comment tujhe generalize lag gya hai
is bewakoof ko koi btao most of the boys in middle class are struggling and working hard
No one marries a unemployed
ye alag hi duniya mein rahti hai
@@gagandeepsharma7972 tabhi mai nit mai betha aur Tu aavara gardi kr rha
mere dada ji mere paida hone k pehle hi chale gye thee, par unki kami aapne puri kr di.... like a grandfather guide his grandson ,,, love you a lot sir ☺☺
Agar log shaadhi nahi krenge to loan lekar sangwan ji ke real estate kaun kharedega
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Wow! U r the guru everyone should follow.
बिल्कुल सही पकड़े हैं जो इंसान अपने फ्लैट बेचने के लिए ही बच्चे पैदा करवाना चाहता है 😂😂
Yes Amit Sangwan ji you are Antidote to the society I understand your words and logic you share with us.
One gets married for emotional fulfilment and companionship which of cours cannot be equal on daily basis. But what does one do when one is faced with exploration and red flags right at the beginning of an alliance? Everyone has expectations form their life which they want to fulfill. Some can be compromised upon but not all. Your core values need to align. Just like in your video about joint families, I have refused alliances because I have had an extremely independent upbringing and they wanted me to give up my career and move cities and stay in a joint family. I am not okay with that. And yes people do change with time. But Sir, your upbringing doesn’t. If someone has been taught to value relationships, then the present times are extremely troublesome for such souls. Because finding people with morals and values is next to impossible. Why would one turn a blind eye and enter an alliance just to take a chance? Ask those people who are facing divorce or have gotten divorced because of this. Now what? I am not saying that don’t get married. But equal give and take and alignment should be there is terms of values, commitment and honesty. Rest today someone likes dal. After 5 years they might not eat dal at all and that’s ok. That’s really not an issue. Rushing into marriage is not advised for anyone. But deliberately rejecting alliances just for the heck of it also is not advised.
Keep following acharya pareshan
How are you going to live a married life if both partners live in different cities? LOL
Isn't this logical?
Beautifully explained about institution of marriage. I have watched this video twice.
Acharya ji ne kabhi nhi kaha shadi mat karo. Kaha hai hosh me karo aur Idhar hosh ka matlab hai bas sex ke liye mat karo, bas financial gain ke liye mat karo, bas looks dekh ke mat karo, akela feel ho raha hai toh mat karo bas. Sole reason hoga toh kabhi khushi nhi milegi. Shadi sab ke liye nahi hai ye aap logo ko accept karna hi nahi hai, Isliye lakho logo suffer karte hai shadi me par just because they like the idea of family and scared of being alone. Acharya ji ye hi samjhate hai jab hosh me karo shadi toh shadi sahi rahegi, Saath chahna galat nhi hai par a kisi pe emotionally depend puri tarah se hona galat hai. Ye family ka gyaan bohot acha hai isko de de ke hi zindagi barbaad ki hai logo ne. Sab ka jeena ka way alag hai Sayad sabko nhi chaiye ye sab jo aap Bata rahe hai par aap partner aur family ye sab itna glorify karte hai ki sab phas jaate hai aur suffer karte hai.
Very well explained! You have summarized it clearly.