Your channel is one of the best which I came across. It has taught me more things in life than any one else. You are doing great work. Hats off to you Very very realistic
Har cheej me kuch positive hota hai. Feel like a free bird life and be happy. Vaise bhi relations me kuch nahin dhara if they are insensitive to you. Jab jarurat padegi to aap jarur yaad aaoge.
So true relatives only -aag me ghee ka kaam aur chalte bano-Gone are the times when relationships were valued more.Why should we then bother? Better eat kadwa ghut now nd be safe🙏🙏
Guruji ji - These learnings are of paramount importance especially after marriage. I know and have paid the price of goofing it up a lot. I dont think anyone on the entire internet has ever thought of talking about it, let alone of creating a video and teaching it. My only grudge is I found your teachings very very late in life and after a lot of damage already done. Still I am trying to learn and improve on whatsoever is left. I am deeply indebted to your generosity and wisdom. Thank you very much sir for touching such a critical topic 🙏🙏🙏
You have very nicely explained. One must do what suits according to his circumstances. Never get used by anyone. Let people talk. Don't get perturbed. Do if you can do and you can afford to do. Try to maintain a balance but if you are not in a position don't feel bad and never think of justifying. Do your best and just forget
A couageous take. I love the way you bring new topics everytime. Distribute your limited time among relatives on the basis of their relevance to your goals or the happiness they bring. Generally your brothers, sisters parents followed by your wife's brothers sisters and parents. Thats the way to go.
गुरू जी आपका कहना सही है पर एक बात इसमें जोड़ना चाहूंगा की पिताजी के साइड से जितने भी रिश्तेदार है सारे आपके कंपीटीशन में होते है और कुछ न कुछ लेना देना होता है, आपके चचेरे भाई बहन, बूआ जी के बच्चे सारा कुनबा आपके कंपीटीशन में है, कोई किसी से आगे निकल जाए पढ़ाई में नौकरी में तो बाकी अंदर से खुश नहीं होते, और अगर दादा की प्रॉपर्टी बंटनी हो तो देर सबेरे कलेश होना ही है, मां के साइड के किसी भी रिश्तेदार से आपका कोई कंपीटीशन नही होता, कोई लेना देना नही होता, आपकी तरक्की से सारे खुश होते है, ये मामला केवल तब खराब होती है जब नाना की प्रोपर्टी बंटनी हो, लेकिन तब भी उतना जहर नही बनता। मां जीवित हो या न हो नाना जी के घर वाले बच्चे को अपना मान के देख ही लेते है। बाकी आपको क्या लगता है?
Hats off to you sir, you exactly know the point to fix the issue in society. This Is happening largely with working bahu's to attend all the functions.when my MIL has 5 sisters and all stay in same town, every week has 3 functions. And when I deny bahu acchi nahi hai kehna nai Manti ...kaam karna hi kyu hai. Leaving job to attend functions it makes moral low..
Very relatable! The most annoying thing to hear is "now that you are married, you have to give more importance to relatives than your friend circle". Even though we want to travel and do things we like on weekends, we are supposed to visit some distant relative.
Sir, your videos are really worth watching to get rid of unnecessary emotional guilt and focus on important things in life. I have been searching for such topics on the internet to solve my personal life issues but could not find any. But, then your channel appeared and I got a lot of clarity. Thanks
same here I thought this was just an opinionated channel but when I started listening to all his videos he has great points and solutions for topics which we don't even feel comfortable thinking about but keep lurking in the corner of our minds.
Sir what you described is so very true.All are Mahabharat characters only -shakuni sab plotting karte rehte hain-function me jao to -acha tumko chutthi milti hai-na jao to are itna bada sar sooj Gaya iska🤣🤣🤣
I belong to a small town in assam and i have seen non Assamese, mostly marwari and Bengali people in our town Jo log mostly businessman hein. They always maintain a healthy distance with everyone Matlab logo k ghar tabhi jate jab kuch function ho jyadatar nhi hi jate jis wajah se un logo k pas time bhi Bach jata hein or business me bhi wo time invest kr k or tarakki kr skte hai.
Sir aap ne to bahut deep batein bata di hai.This present generation must see all the videos and learn and not make mistakes we made as we wernt aware Koi humko ye keemti.gyan.nahi deta tha yaa pata nahi tha us waqt 🙏🙏
Om Sai ram ji 🙏🙏💐 Bhai ji truely said great words no body wants to talk on this topic after marriage silent movie is going on gussa and frustration is happening inside neither parents and not husband 😂 two or three days drama chalega than waiting for next function happy or sad event nobody wants to change or listen to handle the situation once again thank you to you to realise the importance of this topic 🙏🙏👍💐 aabhar Dil se Bhai ji 🙏🙏
Thankyou so much Sir for this eye opener video . Current generation is confused generation. Youth is stuck in all these things and not able to grow and thank you for guiding us. Noone is talking on this. Thank you 🙏😇
Sir Ji. Your Videos should be included in National Education Curriculum as Compulsory Subject from Class 10 onwards. India will become a 10$ Trillion Economy by 2030 after saving Younger Generations precious time which is usually lost in unimportant Relationships. We are just focusing on unimportant things- Balancing family relationships- which will not contribute to GDP or Your Own Growth!
So practical. Ur approach is a fact of life. Thanks for giving importance to life of boys. Ur great. Spread of ur thoughts may change legislation, and judiciary. I give support to ur mission. Thanks.
Through this channel hope the messages get conveyed to the right generations...(parents, kids, in laws , etc etc) Kyonki khud bolna ye sab apni family mein matlab stress Lena aur rishta tutna
sat Sri akal ,Amit ji your suggestions are very useful to our day to day ,it s give me lot of Gyan to take right decisions in my life your way of talking is just a family member ,really appreciable
Amit Ji suggests in every video he has made how you retain all the learnings of his videos ?.... anyway to do that I am stuck on how to retain all his suggestions in his videos
very well said, sadar charan sparsh.. sir please make a video on LADKA apna rishtedari kaise chalaye. newly married kaise chalaye.. please guide suggest..
Sir 4:40 pr jo aapne bola unme se ek exceptional case mai hu, jisko kisi ristedaar ke ghr jana pasand nhi hai, pta nhi kyu ek to mere ristedaar jyadatr government job wale hain unke waha jao faltu bolte rhte hain ki humari colony to aise hai sb High standard log rhte hain, Gaadi hai ghoda hai gadha hai sb kuch hai beech mai bolenge kisi baat ke Taki aisa nhi lge ki chamka rhe hain, bilkul raddi log lgte hain aise log mujhe
This is Liberating I can very well relate to this situation. Times have changed and we should be practical enough to navigate through our relationship.
Agar bina husband ke kisi ke ghar jaayenge toh pehle puchte hai kyu nahi aaye ?😅 Ab bole to bole kya kare toh kare kya 😂😂😂 Akele jaana normal karna hoga sir yeh bhot zaruri hai 😊
Your channel is one of the best which I came across. It has taught me more things in life than any one else.
You are doing great work.
Hats off to you
Very very realistic
Thanks for such kind words.
Same for me, feels like healing to listen to you.
Sir Relatives are hidden enemies..the bad mouth on back . Very few people are blessed with genuine relatives
Agreed dear
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Sir, you are hitting the sociology of North India brutally...jai hind
Same for Western India
We are in 5% group. No relation with relatives of each side
You are a very intelligent couple
😂
Clapping for you
Being 38 years old,I realize each word of this video is true
The knots in my mind are getting released. Thank you Amit Sir, keep enlightning us with practical aspects of life. Regards
Mera naa to mummy waali side banti hai naa dady waali taraf. Mein aisa kyu hoon mein aisa kyu hoon 🤣
😃😃😃
Har cheej me kuch positive hota hai. Feel like a free bird life and be happy. Vaise bhi relations me kuch nahin dhara if they are insensitive to you. Jab jarurat padegi to aap jarur yaad aaoge.
Same
Tum different nhi ho bas log toxic hein. Ye rishtedar leech hein Jo khun chuste hai.
Wo isi layak honge... 😅 Aap shi ho..
So true relatives only -aag me ghee ka kaam aur chalte bano-Gone are the times when relationships were valued more.Why should we then bother? Better eat kadwa ghut now nd be safe🙏🙏
Funniest line....unke pass time bahut hai bura manne ka...... totally agree
Guruji ji - These learnings are of paramount importance especially after marriage. I know and have paid the price of goofing it up a lot. I dont think anyone on the entire internet has ever thought of talking about it, let alone of creating a video and teaching it. My only grudge is I found your teachings very very late in life and after a lot of damage already done. Still I am trying to learn and improve on whatsoever is left. I am deeply indebted to your generosity and wisdom. Thank you very much sir for touching such a critical topic 🙏🙏🙏
You have very nicely explained. One must do what suits according to his circumstances. Never get used by anyone. Let people talk. Don't get perturbed. Do if you can do and you can afford to do. Try to maintain a balance but if you are not in a position don't feel bad and never think of justifying. Do your best and just forget
A couageous take. I love the way you bring new topics everytime. Distribute your limited time among relatives on the basis of their relevance to your goals or the happiness they bring. Generally your brothers, sisters parents followed by your wife's brothers sisters and parents. Thats the way to go.
Same here
Much needed topic for today.Wish these could be given as part of premarital consel to women and men alike
Yes it should be
This video applicable even in North Karnataka and Maharashtra, where chacha and mama are same as North India.
Uncle ji, how practical you are🙏🙏!
I wish all mummy papa get your mental intellect 🥹
मेरा तो एक ही फॉर्मूला है कि कोई आपसे फूला हुआ बैढ़े उससे पहले आप ही उन रिश्तेदार से मुंह फूला लो टाइम भी बचेगा और इज्ज़त भी बढ़ेगी😁😁😁
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गुरू जी आपका कहना सही है पर एक बात इसमें जोड़ना चाहूंगा की पिताजी के साइड से जितने भी रिश्तेदार है सारे आपके कंपीटीशन में होते है और कुछ न कुछ लेना देना होता है,
आपके चचेरे भाई बहन, बूआ जी के बच्चे सारा कुनबा आपके कंपीटीशन में है, कोई किसी से आगे निकल जाए पढ़ाई में नौकरी में तो बाकी अंदर से खुश नहीं होते, और अगर दादा की प्रॉपर्टी बंटनी हो तो देर सबेरे कलेश होना ही है,
मां के साइड के किसी भी रिश्तेदार से आपका कोई कंपीटीशन नही होता, कोई लेना देना नही होता, आपकी तरक्की से सारे खुश होते है,
ये मामला केवल तब खराब होती है जब नाना की प्रोपर्टी बंटनी हो,
लेकिन तब भी उतना जहर नही बनता।
मां जीवित हो या न हो नाना जी के घर वाले बच्चे को अपना मान के देख ही लेते है।
बाकी आपको क्या लगता है?
Hats off to you sir, you exactly know the point to fix the issue in society. This Is happening largely with working bahu's to attend all the functions.when my MIL has 5 sisters and all stay in same town, every week has 3 functions. And when I deny bahu acchi nahi hai kehna nai Manti ...kaam karna hi kyu hai. Leaving job to attend functions it makes moral low..
Very relatable! The most annoying thing to hear is "now that you are married, you have to give more importance to relatives than your friend circle". Even though we want to travel and do things we like on weekends, we are supposed to visit some distant relative.
Sir, your videos are really worth watching to get rid of unnecessary emotional guilt and focus on important things in life. I have been searching for such topics on the internet to solve my personal life issues but could not find any. But, then your channel appeared and I got a lot of clarity. Thanks
same here I thought this was just an opinionated channel but when I started listening to all his videos he has great points and solutions for topics which we don't even feel comfortable thinking about but keep lurking in the corner of our minds.
Covid has given us this advantage. No one wants visitors anymore. Everyone happy at their own places
Sir what you described is so very true.All are Mahabharat characters only -shakuni sab plotting karte rehte hain-function me jao to -acha tumko chutthi milti hai-na jao to are itna bada sar sooj Gaya iska🤣🤣🤣
Your all topics are completely relatable... much appreciated
I belong to a small town in assam and i have seen non Assamese, mostly marwari and Bengali people in our town Jo log mostly businessman hein. They always maintain a healthy distance with everyone
Matlab logo k ghar tabhi jate jab kuch function ho jyadatar nhi hi jate jis wajah se un logo k pas time bhi Bach jata hein or business me bhi wo time invest kr k or tarakki kr skte hai.
Hats off to YOU! PLS BRING MORE brave and bold content. Indian society needs to hear this
Sir aap ne to bahut deep batein bata di hai.This present generation must see all the videos and learn and not make mistakes we made as we wernt aware
Koi humko ye keemti.gyan.nahi deta tha yaa pata nahi tha us waqt 🙏🙏
😊👏👏👏 generally boy and boy's family gets neglected after marriage
8.34 sabse pehle apne ko khush karo...👌👌👌
Best sentence of the video..
Great topic. GOD BLESS ALL.
Eye 👁 opening message 100 %percent 💯 true 👍 😄
Om Sai ram ji 🙏🙏💐 Bhai ji truely said great words no body wants to talk on this topic after marriage silent movie is going on gussa and frustration is happening inside neither parents and not husband 😂 two or three days drama chalega than waiting for next function happy or sad event nobody wants to change or listen to handle the situation once again thank you to you to realise the importance of this topic 🙏🙏👍💐 aabhar Dil se Bhai ji 🙏🙏
Your topics are valid in practical terms.
Hats off Amit
You are really number one clarity giver
Mind blowing Sir ..... kya video bnai hai . WISDOM !! 🌟✨
The logic , the honesty , best of sir ji.
Sir, you always bring very special topics, which no one ever talks about in our society. Really appreciate your efforts and courage.
Too good !!!! 👍
Har Ghar Ki Kahani 🙏
Thankyou so much Sir for this eye opener video . Current generation is confused generation. Youth is stuck in all these things and not able to grow and thank you for guiding us. Noone is talking on this. Thank you 🙏😇
खूपच छान घर घर की कहानी है.
Good video sir. It is very helpful. I've never thought about this till today. Your perspectives seem pragmatic.
Mummy pe mere tauji logon ne bahut atyachaar kiye hein aur unke bache b humse jealous rehte hein toh tauji se rista kaise achaa rakhe
Thank you Great topic never seen in any RUclips channel except Sango Life Sutras
Sir Ji. Your Videos should be included in National Education Curriculum as Compulsory Subject from Class 10 onwards. India will become a 10$ Trillion Economy by 2030 after saving Younger Generations precious time which is usually lost in unimportant Relationships. We are just focusing on unimportant things- Balancing family relationships- which will not contribute to GDP or Your Own Growth!
Sir great teaching.....as always 👍
Very nice sir ji .i relate with this.and so much clarity you shown to us is very helpful
Totally agree with you sir ......
Very practical approach
Good points. निभा ना सको जिसको, करो मत ऐसा इकरार, नहीं तो पड़ जायेगी रिश्तों में दरार।
Great advice so badly needed.
What clarity u have given shat shat pranaam apko
Thank you so much Amit Ji for sharing the ultimate truth🙏💞💐🙏
Standing ovation !!
Practically True Sir 👍🏻👏👏
To the core ..practical
So practical. Ur approach is a fact of life. Thanks for giving importance to life of boys. Ur great. Spread of ur thoughts may change legislation, and judiciary. I give support to ur mission. Thanks.
Sir, you are simply great.
I wait for your videos … so relatable
Sir your contents are very practical love to watch you
Through this channel hope the messages get conveyed to the right generations...(parents, kids, in laws , etc etc) Kyonki khud bolna ye sab apni family mein matlab stress Lena aur rishta tutna
I totally agree with your advice.
Thanks
nicely and simply explained ... thanks sir
Very well said sir👏👏
Thank sir g for very useful 🙏
Please make video if any couple suffer with infernity.
Sir exactly ye to hai hi, Mummy side waale rishtedar zyada acche lagte hai
Very good advise sir 😀🙏👌
sat Sri akal ,Amit ji your suggestions are very useful to our day to day ,it s give me lot of Gyan to take right decisions in my life
your way of talking is just a family member ,really appreciable
Amit Ji suggests in every video he has made how you retain all the learnings of his videos ?.... anyway to do that I am stuck on how to retain all his suggestions in his videos
I appreciate you bring such videos.
very well said, sadar charan sparsh.. sir please make a video on LADKA apna rishtedari kaise chalaye. newly married kaise chalaye.. please guide suggest..
Excellent Sir.. aap superb ho.
Sir I love your honesty 👍🏻
Amazing sir, aise topic par baat karne ki himmat hai hi nahi hamare samaj me,
सर वह कुंवारे रहने के नुकसान पर तो वीडियो बना दो ?
Sir 4:40 pr jo aapne bola unme se ek exceptional case mai hu, jisko kisi ristedaar ke ghr jana pasand nhi hai, pta nhi kyu ek to mere ristedaar jyadatr government job wale hain unke waha jao faltu bolte rhte hain ki humari colony to aise hai sb High standard log rhte hain, Gaadi hai ghoda hai gadha hai sb kuch hai beech mai bolenge kisi baat ke Taki aisa nhi lge ki chamka rhe hain, bilkul raddi log lgte hain aise log mujhe
Faltu ka appreciate nahi karna chahiye aap khudse appreciation mat mango acha lagega tabhi karenge
Sir Ji... I can relate your points to my life
100% correct sir... it has happened to me the way that you have explained in the video...
Thanks for talking on such topics
Thank you much for making this kind of videos
Great learning, sir!
Absolutely right sir
This is Liberating I can very well relate to this situation. Times have changed and we should be practical enough to navigate through our relationship.
Very brave effort. You will be judged by your own family 👏👏
Big clap 👏👏 to u sir.. u speak brutal truth
Well said Sangwan Sahab👍
Sir aapke Darshan karna hoon guru banana chahta hoon aapko kitni practical knowledge dete ho aap
Aap Mahan ho. Logon ko guru nhi aapke pass baidna chahie
Great Topic
Yes sir each of word TRUE and realateble every person, s life
Each and every video brings Wisdom in our life Guruju ❤😊
Well said
Thank you so much, hats off
Thnku sir for clearing this thing in mind😄
में आपकी बात से पूरी तरह से सहमत हूं और इस बात से गुजरा हूं और अब अपने बच्चों को ऐसे दौर से गुजरते हुए देख रहा हूं 🙄
Very Realistic
9:00 absolutely right! 👍
Agar bina husband ke kisi ke ghar jaayenge toh pehle puchte hai kyu nahi aaye ?😅
Ab bole to bole kya kare toh kare kya 😂😂😂
Akele jaana normal karna hoga sir yeh bhot zaruri hai 😊
Good talk opening our eyes
Bohot sundar video
Boss toh aise hi har samay chida hua rehte hai aapse 😂. Yeh line mai bahut hassi aaya 😂.
But overall a practical video 👍
Ekdam sahi baat kahi sir apne. Yahi hota hai
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏very unique topic liya apne 👍
Too good!!