Your channel is one of the best which I came across. It has taught me more things in life than any one else. You are doing great work. Hats off to you Very very realistic
Bhai u are also a relative of some from his perspective u can also be that devil soo its all dependent of person how he take life and relations usko limit pata honi chahiye. Aur kam se kam rakho kisi ki life ghusna choodo aur adhyatam aur self growth aur health pr dhyan deta is good choice for time which we get free .
गुरू जी आपका कहना सही है पर एक बात इसमें जोड़ना चाहूंगा की पिताजी के साइड से जितने भी रिश्तेदार है सारे आपके कंपीटीशन में होते है और कुछ न कुछ लेना देना होता है, आपके चचेरे भाई बहन, बूआ जी के बच्चे सारा कुनबा आपके कंपीटीशन में है, कोई किसी से आगे निकल जाए पढ़ाई में नौकरी में तो बाकी अंदर से खुश नहीं होते, और अगर दादा की प्रॉपर्टी बंटनी हो तो देर सबेरे कलेश होना ही है, मां के साइड के किसी भी रिश्तेदार से आपका कोई कंपीटीशन नही होता, कोई लेना देना नही होता, आपकी तरक्की से सारे खुश होते है, ये मामला केवल तब खराब होती है जब नाना की प्रोपर्टी बंटनी हो, लेकिन तब भी उतना जहर नही बनता। मां जीवित हो या न हो नाना जी के घर वाले बच्चे को अपना मान के देख ही लेते है। बाकी आपको क्या लगता है?
Guruji ji - These learnings are of paramount importance especially after marriage. I know and have paid the price of goofing it up a lot. I dont think anyone on the entire internet has ever thought of talking about it, let alone of creating a video and teaching it. My only grudge is I found your teachings very very late in life and after a lot of damage already done. Still I am trying to learn and improve on whatsoever is left. I am deeply indebted to your generosity and wisdom. Thank you very much sir for touching such a critical topic 🙏🙏🙏
So true relatives only -aag me ghee ka kaam aur chalte bano-Gone are the times when relationships were valued more.Why should we then bother? Better eat kadwa ghut now nd be safe🙏🙏
Sir what you described is so very true.All are Mahabharat characters only -shakuni sab plotting karte rehte hain-function me jao to -acha tumko chutthi milti hai-na jao to are itna bada sar sooj Gaya iska🤣🤣🤣
A couageous take. I love the way you bring new topics everytime. Distribute your limited time among relatives on the basis of their relevance to your goals or the happiness they bring. Generally your brothers, sisters parents followed by your wife's brothers sisters and parents. Thats the way to go.
Very relatable! The most annoying thing to hear is "now that you are married, you have to give more importance to relatives than your friend circle". Even though we want to travel and do things we like on weekends, we are supposed to visit some distant relative.
You have very nicely explained. One must do what suits according to his circumstances. Never get used by anyone. Let people talk. Don't get perturbed. Do if you can do and you can afford to do. Try to maintain a balance but if you are not in a position don't feel bad and never think of justifying. Do your best and just forget
Dot on sir, I am 60 ,learnt it hard way....not forcing my beta..bahu to keep relations which is not necessary...lot of sukun...made whole new list of people who are really important...
I belong to a small town in assam and i have seen non Assamese, mostly marwari and Bengali people in our town Jo log mostly businessman hein. They always maintain a healthy distance with everyone Matlab logo k ghar tabhi jate jab kuch function ho jyadatar nhi hi jate jis wajah se un logo k pas time bhi Bach jata hein or business me bhi wo time invest kr k or tarakki kr skte hai.
Sir 4:40 pr jo aapne bola unme se ek exceptional case mai hu, jisko kisi ristedaar ke ghr jana pasand nhi hai, pta nhi kyu ek to mere ristedaar jyadatr government job wale hain unke waha jao faltu bolte rhte hain ki humari colony to aise hai sb High standard log rhte hain, Gaadi hai ghoda hai gadha hai sb kuch hai beech mai bolenge kisi baat ke Taki aisa nhi lge ki chamka rhe hain, bilkul raddi log lgte hain aise log mujhe
Sir, your videos are really worth watching to get rid of unnecessary emotional guilt and focus on important things in life. I have been searching for such topics on the internet to solve my personal life issues but could not find any. But, then your channel appeared and I got a lot of clarity. Thanks
same here I thought this was just an opinionated channel but when I started listening to all his videos he has great points and solutions for topics which we don't even feel comfortable thinking about but keep lurking in the corner of our minds.
Hats off to you sir, you exactly know the point to fix the issue in society. This Is happening largely with working bahu's to attend all the functions.when my MIL has 5 sisters and all stay in same town, every week has 3 functions. And when I deny bahu acchi nahi hai kehna nai Manti ...kaam karna hi kyu hai. Leaving job to attend functions it makes moral low..
Om Sai ram ji 🙏🙏💐 Bhai ji truely said great words no body wants to talk on this topic after marriage silent movie is going on gussa and frustration is happening inside neither parents and not husband 😂 two or three days drama chalega than waiting for next function happy or sad event nobody wants to change or listen to handle the situation once again thank you to you to realise the importance of this topic 🙏🙏👍💐 aabhar Dil se Bhai ji 🙏🙏
Sir aap ne to bahut deep batein bata di hai.This present generation must see all the videos and learn and not make mistakes we made as we wernt aware Koi humko ye keemti.gyan.nahi deta tha yaa pata nahi tha us waqt 🙏🙏
Thankyou so much Sir for this eye opener video . Current generation is confused generation. Youth is stuck in all these things and not able to grow and thank you for guiding us. Noone is talking on this. Thank you 🙏😇
very well said, sadar charan sparsh.. sir please make a video on LADKA apna rishtedari kaise chalaye. newly married kaise chalaye.. please guide suggest..
Through this channel hope the messages get conveyed to the right generations...(parents, kids, in laws , etc etc) Kyonki khud bolna ye sab apni family mein matlab stress Lena aur rishta tutna
This is Liberating I can very well relate to this situation. Times have changed and we should be practical enough to navigate through our relationship.
sat Sri akal ,Amit ji your suggestions are very useful to our day to day ,it s give me lot of Gyan to take right decisions in my life your way of talking is just a family member ,really appreciable
Amit Ji suggests in every video he has made how you retain all the learnings of his videos ?.... anyway to do that I am stuck on how to retain all his suggestions in his videos
So practical. Ur approach is a fact of life. Thanks for giving importance to life of boys. Ur great. Spread of ur thoughts may change legislation, and judiciary. I give support to ur mission. Thanks.
Sir Ji. Your Videos should be included in National Education Curriculum as Compulsory Subject from Class 10 onwards. India will become a 10$ Trillion Economy by 2030 after saving Younger Generations precious time which is usually lost in unimportant Relationships. We are just focusing on unimportant things- Balancing family relationships- which will not contribute to GDP or Your Own Growth!
Agar bina husband ke kisi ke ghar jaayenge toh pehle puchte hai kyu nahi aaye ?😅 Ab bole to bole kya kare toh kare kya 😂😂😂 Akele jaana normal karna hoga sir yeh bhot zaruri hai 😊
Well informed eye opener . Elders r going to offend. But it’s tru 16:42 e pure like desi ghee message. Thanks for bringing this topic . Never discussed how to shape family tree so that it become very beautiful. You r consultant and u know if u don’t give shape to tree it b eye becomes messy. Nobody has picked this root cause. Thanks
Your channel is one of the best which I came across. It has taught me more things in life than any one else.
You are doing great work.
Hats off to you
Very very realistic
Thanks for such kind words.
Same for me, feels like healing to listen to you.
Sir Relatives are hidden enemies..the bad mouth on back . Very few people are blessed with genuine relatives
Agreed dear
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Bhai u are also a relative of some from his perspective u can also be that devil soo its all dependent of person how he take life and relations usko limit pata honi chahiye. Aur kam se kam rakho kisi ki life ghusna choodo aur adhyatam aur self growth aur health pr dhyan deta is good choice for time which we get free .
Sir, you are hitting the sociology of North India brutally...jai hind
Same for Western India
Clapping for you
Being 38 years old,I realize each word of this video is true
गुरू जी आपका कहना सही है पर एक बात इसमें जोड़ना चाहूंगा की पिताजी के साइड से जितने भी रिश्तेदार है सारे आपके कंपीटीशन में होते है और कुछ न कुछ लेना देना होता है,
आपके चचेरे भाई बहन, बूआ जी के बच्चे सारा कुनबा आपके कंपीटीशन में है, कोई किसी से आगे निकल जाए पढ़ाई में नौकरी में तो बाकी अंदर से खुश नहीं होते, और अगर दादा की प्रॉपर्टी बंटनी हो तो देर सबेरे कलेश होना ही है,
मां के साइड के किसी भी रिश्तेदार से आपका कोई कंपीटीशन नही होता, कोई लेना देना नही होता, आपकी तरक्की से सारे खुश होते है,
ये मामला केवल तब खराब होती है जब नाना की प्रोपर्टी बंटनी हो,
लेकिन तब भी उतना जहर नही बनता।
मां जीवित हो या न हो नाना जी के घर वाले बच्चे को अपना मान के देख ही लेते है।
बाकी आपको क्या लगता है?
We are in 5% group. No relation with relatives of each side
You are a very intelligent couple
😂
Same here 😅
Guruji ji - These learnings are of paramount importance especially after marriage. I know and have paid the price of goofing it up a lot. I dont think anyone on the entire internet has ever thought of talking about it, let alone of creating a video and teaching it. My only grudge is I found your teachings very very late in life and after a lot of damage already done. Still I am trying to learn and improve on whatsoever is left. I am deeply indebted to your generosity and wisdom. Thank you very much sir for touching such a critical topic 🙏🙏🙏
So true relatives only -aag me ghee ka kaam aur chalte bano-Gone are the times when relationships were valued more.Why should we then bother? Better eat kadwa ghut now nd be safe🙏🙏
The knots in my mind are getting released. Thank you Amit Sir, keep enlightning us with practical aspects of life. Regards
Sir what you described is so very true.All are Mahabharat characters only -shakuni sab plotting karte rehte hain-function me jao to -acha tumko chutthi milti hai-na jao to are itna bada sar sooj Gaya iska🤣🤣🤣
Funniest line....unke pass time bahut hai bura manne ka...... totally agree
A couageous take. I love the way you bring new topics everytime. Distribute your limited time among relatives on the basis of their relevance to your goals or the happiness they bring. Generally your brothers, sisters parents followed by your wife's brothers sisters and parents. Thats the way to go.
Same here
Very relatable! The most annoying thing to hear is "now that you are married, you have to give more importance to relatives than your friend circle". Even though we want to travel and do things we like on weekends, we are supposed to visit some distant relative.
You have very nicely explained. One must do what suits according to his circumstances. Never get used by anyone. Let people talk. Don't get perturbed. Do if you can do and you can afford to do. Try to maintain a balance but if you are not in a position don't feel bad and never think of justifying. Do your best and just forget
Dot on sir, I am 60 ,learnt it hard way....not forcing my beta..bahu to keep relations which is not necessary...lot of sukun...made whole new list of people who are really important...
Much needed topic for today.Wish these could be given as part of premarital consel to women and men alike
Yes it should be
This video applicable even in North Karnataka and Maharashtra, where chacha and mama are same as North India.
Uncle ji, how practical you are🙏🙏!
I wish all mummy papa get your mental intellect 🥹
I belong to a small town in assam and i have seen non Assamese, mostly marwari and Bengali people in our town Jo log mostly businessman hein. They always maintain a healthy distance with everyone
Matlab logo k ghar tabhi jate jab kuch function ho jyadatar nhi hi jate jis wajah se un logo k pas time bhi Bach jata hein or business me bhi wo time invest kr k or tarakki kr skte hai.
Good points. निभा ना सको जिसको, करो मत ऐसा इकरार, नहीं तो पड़ जायेगी रिश्तों में दरार।
Sir 4:40 pr jo aapne bola unme se ek exceptional case mai hu, jisko kisi ristedaar ke ghr jana pasand nhi hai, pta nhi kyu ek to mere ristedaar jyadatr government job wale hain unke waha jao faltu bolte rhte hain ki humari colony to aise hai sb High standard log rhte hain, Gaadi hai ghoda hai gadha hai sb kuch hai beech mai bolenge kisi baat ke Taki aisa nhi lge ki chamka rhe hain, bilkul raddi log lgte hain aise log mujhe
Sir, your videos are really worth watching to get rid of unnecessary emotional guilt and focus on important things in life. I have been searching for such topics on the internet to solve my personal life issues but could not find any. But, then your channel appeared and I got a lot of clarity. Thanks
same here I thought this was just an opinionated channel but when I started listening to all his videos he has great points and solutions for topics which we don't even feel comfortable thinking about but keep lurking in the corner of our minds.
Hats off to you sir, you exactly know the point to fix the issue in society. This Is happening largely with working bahu's to attend all the functions.when my MIL has 5 sisters and all stay in same town, every week has 3 functions. And when I deny bahu acchi nahi hai kehna nai Manti ...kaam karna hi kyu hai. Leaving job to attend functions it makes moral low..
8.34 sabse pehle apne ko khush karo...👌👌👌
Best sentence of the video..
Om Sai ram ji 🙏🙏💐 Bhai ji truely said great words no body wants to talk on this topic after marriage silent movie is going on gussa and frustration is happening inside neither parents and not husband 😂 two or three days drama chalega than waiting for next function happy or sad event nobody wants to change or listen to handle the situation once again thank you to you to realise the importance of this topic 🙏🙏👍💐 aabhar Dil se Bhai ji 🙏🙏
This channel is pure genius. Thanks for talking out openly.
में आपकी बात से पूरी तरह से सहमत हूं और इस बात से गुजरा हूं और अब अपने बच्चों को ऐसे दौर से गुजरते हुए देख रहा हूं 🙄
Sir aap ne to bahut deep batein bata di hai.This present generation must see all the videos and learn and not make mistakes we made as we wernt aware
Koi humko ye keemti.gyan.nahi deta tha yaa pata nahi tha us waqt 🙏🙏
Eye 👁 opening message 100 %percent 💯 true 👍 😄
खूपच छान घर घर की कहानी है.
मेरा तो एक ही फॉर्मूला है कि कोई आपसे फूला हुआ बैढ़े उससे पहले आप ही उन रिश्तेदार से मुंह फूला लो टाइम भी बचेगा और इज्ज़त भी बढ़ेगी😁😁😁
@@ashitmukherjee5934 bhai name to asli hi hai
@@ashitmukherjee5934 Bhai wo mere RUclips ka name he jo ki sach he isme jhuth kya hai or mere personal name se kya Karna hai
Hats off Amit
You are really number one clarity giver
Hats off to YOU! PLS BRING MORE brave and bold content. Indian society needs to hear this
Sir m 20 saal ka ladka hu apki 80% bate sahi hoti h
Covid has given us this advantage. No one wants visitors anymore. Everyone happy at their own places
Thank you Great topic never seen in any RUclips channel except Sango Life Sutras
Sir, you always bring very special topics, which no one ever talks about in our society. Really appreciate your efforts and courage.
Your topics are valid in practical terms.
Appreciate you guruji dil se for bringing such daring topics
Good videos...Sir you cover every aspect of life with clarity...and our society need it.
Highly appreciable..
Thankyou so much Sir for this eye opener video . Current generation is confused generation. Youth is stuck in all these things and not able to grow and thank you for guiding us. Noone is talking on this. Thank you 🙏😇
Your all topics are completely relatable... much appreciated
Thank you so much Amit Ji for sharing the ultimate truth🙏💞💐🙏
Clapping for sir👏👏👏👏👏👏
Amazing💐
Thank You Sir💓I am so very much grateful for this🥰✨🌈
Very brave effort. You will be judged by your own family 👏👏
Sir exactly ye to hai hi, Mummy side waale rishtedar zyada acche lagte hai
Sir your contents are very practical love to watch you
Mummy pe mere tauji logon ne bahut atyachaar kiye hein aur unke bache b humse jealous rehte hein toh tauji se rista kaise achaa rakhe
The logic , the honesty , best of sir ji.
Boss toh aise hi har samay chida hua rehte hai aapse 😂. Yeh line mai bahut hassi aaya 😂.
But overall a practical video 👍
Aap Mahan ho. Logon ko guru nhi aapke pass baidna chahie
Good video sir. It is very helpful. I've never thought about this till today. Your perspectives seem pragmatic.
very well said, sadar charan sparsh.. sir please make a video on LADKA apna rishtedari kaise chalaye. newly married kaise chalaye.. please guide suggest..
I admire and appreciate your videos Amit Ji. Such deep thoughts communicated so simply.
Big clap 👏👏 to u sir.. u speak brutal truth
Too good !!!! 👍
Har Ghar Ki Kahani 🙏
Mera naa to mummy waali side banti hai naa dady waali taraf. Mein aisa kyu hoon mein aisa kyu hoon 🤣
😃😃😃
Same
Tum different nhi ho bas log toxic hein. Ye rishtedar leech hein Jo khun chuste hai.
Wo isi layak honge... 😅 Aap shi ho..
Same here i dont like both
What clarity u have given shat shat pranaam apko
Totally agree with you sir ......
Very practical approach
Each and every video brings Wisdom in our life Guruju ❤😊
Very nice sir ji .i relate with this.and so much clarity you shown to us is very helpful
Through this channel hope the messages get conveyed to the right generations...(parents, kids, in laws , etc etc) Kyonki khud bolna ye sab apni family mein matlab stress Lena aur rishta tutna
Amazing sir, aise topic par baat karne ki himmat hai hi nahi hamare samaj me,
Standing ovation !!
This is Liberating I can very well relate to this situation. Times have changed and we should be practical enough to navigate through our relationship.
Mind blowing Sir ..... kya video bnai hai . WISDOM !! 🌟✨
To the core ..practical
Great topic. GOD BLESS ALL.
Thanks
Sab relatives to time dena is impossible..priority is must..nice information sir..
9:00 absolutely right! 👍
sat Sri akal ,Amit ji your suggestions are very useful to our day to day ,it s give me lot of Gyan to take right decisions in my life
your way of talking is just a family member ,really appreciable
Amit Ji suggests in every video he has made how you retain all the learnings of his videos ?.... anyway to do that I am stuck on how to retain all his suggestions in his videos
Well said sir. Thanks for this clarity.
Sir aapke Darshan karna hoon guru banana chahta hoon aapko kitni practical knowledge dete ho aap
Words of wisdom ✨
So practical. Ur approach is a fact of life. Thanks for giving importance to life of boys. Ur great. Spread of ur thoughts may change legislation, and judiciary. I give support to ur mission. Thanks.
Very well said sir👏👏
Practically True Sir 👍🏻👏👏
nicely and simply explained ... thanks sir
Sir Ji. Your Videos should be included in National Education Curriculum as Compulsory Subject from Class 10 onwards. India will become a 10$ Trillion Economy by 2030 after saving Younger Generations precious time which is usually lost in unimportant Relationships. We are just focusing on unimportant things- Balancing family relationships- which will not contribute to GDP or Your Own Growth!
Thank sir g for very useful 🙏
Please make video if any couple suffer with infernity.
Sir I love your honesty 👍🏻
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏very unique topic liya apne 👍
Agar bina husband ke kisi ke ghar jaayenge toh pehle puchte hai kyu nahi aaye ?😅
Ab bole to bole kya kare toh kare kya 😂😂😂
Akele jaana normal karna hoga sir yeh bhot zaruri hai 😊
I wait for your videos … so relatable
I appreciate you sir👏👏👏👏👍👍👍👍
Awesome video sir.....😊😊😊
Great learning, sir!
Well informed eye opener . Elders r going to offend. But it’s tru 16:42 e pure like desi ghee message. Thanks for bringing this topic . Never discussed how to shape family tree so that it become very beautiful. You r consultant and u know if u don’t give shape to tree it b eye becomes messy. Nobody has picked this root cause. Thanks
Damm good sir
These topics are so controversial that starting the topic becomes a situation of passive aggression
Great advice so badly needed.
Thank you sir 😢❤❤❤
Thank you much for making this kind of videos
I appreciate you bring such videos.
Clapping 👏👏
Sir, you are simply great.
Sir great teaching.....as always 👍
सर वह कुंवारे रहने के नुकसान पर तो वीडियो बना दो ?
Don't bite more than u can chew...very correct. Only relevant matters most
😊👏👏👏 generally boy and boy's family gets neglected after marriage
1:54 Guruji north me hi nahi yahan hamare south me bhi aisa hi hai..