Sir Sunday ka matlab hi badal Diya aapne, ab na movie na sitcoms only aapki videos dekhte hai weekend pe. Clarity towards life is growing like compound interest. Thankyou guruji 🙏😊
I totally agree with you. Your understanding of family dynamics are really good. I am really thankful that there are people like you that telling the truth to the society.
@@Bold-BeautifulMoney can never outweigh emotional support and care. And parents are right to be selfish, even if they are being selfish, because all 'seva' is being done by the one who lives nearby, they can't afford to offend him as who will take care of them? It's fine to be pragmatic specially for old people.
@@user-eu9tj3ui7k How come one sibling becomes offended if parents are loving towards other child .How come parents great connection with the one they live is so insecure that parents have to behave in a certain way with the other kid.Even if the other kid doesn’t want that money only love still they are labelled as bad guys by the parents to make the one they are living with happy .This is ridiculous and fucked up .Well their loss .If they have to loose one of the kid to butter up the one they are living with .It can’t be a very good life and such siblings are losers who instead of being happy they are with their parents and getting larger chunk of money take their insecurity out on their own sibling .And idiots like you support this sickness .
I tried to accommodate with my in-laws a lot but they always treated me poorly nd humiliated me a lot so I decided to stop trying to please them after 10 yrs. I helped them financially many times but now they behave tu kaun main kaun so that un ko money return na karni pade. How smart they r
Nice video, same situation hamare ghar me hai, my dad it elder son, our meri dadi mere chacha ke pass raheti hai, hum ek hi gao me rehete hai but donoke ghar alag alag hai property dadi ke nam par hai our hamara ghar dadaji ke nam par tha, my chacha is also nilkkama and fraud person and my dad is hardworking person also my mother is 90,s complete sanskari women, both my mom and dad took care of all of them financially bhi aur monthly requirements jese kirana saman vagare all his life but my dadi give all property to my uncle (nikkama) beta kyuki use beta hai (vanshka dipak) hai and onthe other hand mere dad ki me single child hu and i am the eldest granddaughter then also my dadi dont consider nor me neither my dad Moral of the story - my mom is a good sanskari aghyakari bahu and my dad always give money to my dadi we live in same village but still we don,t get anything in land plot and also jo hamara ghar hai dadaji ke nam par usmebhi dadi aur chacha ladmarrahehai apne hak ke liye Not always galti hamari hoti hai , kabhi kabhi na log hi saale kamine hote hai aap kuch bhi karo pyaar paroso thalime par aapko badleme sirf dhoka hi milega
Sir this is exactly my situation right now...but the only difference is we are not connected with our family because they ask for money every time we go there..
Mera story diff hai.. they took money from me for my younger brothers expenses and gave the property to him too saying he is uneducated. I did not do any of the things u mentioned but still was treated differently by my parents.
Sir ye case study to samajh me aayi. Ab ek aur case study. Bade bete ne bachpan se mehnat ki, mauj masti kam ki ar jaise taise engineering karke ek company me job li. Wahi chhote bete ne pura mauj masti kiya, forcefully padhai complete kiya. Ab bade bete ko bachpan se iss tarah se groom kiya gya ki family to tumhe hi sambhalna hai. To jab job laga to father ke support role me aa gya. 25k se career start ki ar jitna ho sakta tha ghar pe paise bheje, ghar ke chhote chhote kharch, fir aage jake ar items khareede. Jo ab jod ke dekha jaye to 11-12 lakhs ke hote hai, sab kuch mila ke. Sath hi sath chhote bhai ko support kiya, career guidance deta rha, apni company me referral de kar job lagwayi. Ye sab krte krte bade bete ke paas kabhi paise nhi bachte the ki wo apni family start kar sake. To unse socha ki sath me kuch business try kiya jaye, kabhi stock market kabhi kuch inn sab chizo me hi fasa rha. Dusri taraf chhota beta samajhdaar nikla. Job lagte hi usne almost bhaag ke shaadi kr li. Uss samay paise uske paas bhi nhi the to almost 3-4 lakh ka bank loan liya, jise wo chuka nhi paya to bank walo ne pareshan krna shuru kar diya. Fir parents ne wo paise chukaye. Uss samay chhote bete ne bola ki mai dheere dheere krke chuka dunga. To cut the story short, aaj ke date me bada beta single hai, 38 ka ho gya hai, still struggle kr rha hai apni life ar career ke beech. Kafi depressed hai. Ghar pe paise deta hai, ghar ke liye samaan lena, mata pita ko ghumana, ye sab kr rha hai. Dusri taraf chhote bete ne na wo paise lautaye, ar shadi ke baad apni wife ko bhi bhut kam time ke liye hi ghar pe lata hai taki uski wife ko ghar ka kaam na krna pade. Nahi ghar k liye kuch samaan lata hai, na hi parents ko montly kuch deta hai. Baat yaha tak bhi theek hai. Lekin problem ye hai ki itna sab krne ke bawajood, parents chhote bete ke jyada kareeb hai, ar ab bade bete ko lagne laga hai ki jab to wo logo ki khwahishen puri krta hai tab tak hi logo ko usse matlab hai. Ar upar se saara gyan, farz, duty, responsibilities ka lecture bade bete ho hi milta hai jabki chhote bete ko agar ko dena bhi chahte hai to wo sunta nhi hai, to fir wo dete bhi nhi hai. Ar bade bete ko iss sab se jyada problem bhi nhi hai, lekin ghar pe basic izzat, samman ar adhikar to mile jiska wo haqdaar hai. Ar unka ye behavior dekhkar bada beta ar depressed ho rha hai.Loneliness + Depression + Feeling of leftout + Not having enough money/power ye bhut hi deadly combination hota hai. Guruji, bade bete ke liye koi suggestion? Sorry, comment thoda lamba ho gya.
bade bete ko apni life aur priorities per focus kerna chaiyeh,bada bhai khudh apni priorities per focus nahin karta isliye uski koi izzat nahin karta.bada bhai need to respect his own life & time before even parents & get married ASAP.
@@dreamsdesires Thanks for your concern. Lekin ye khud ke liye sochte kaise hai. I mean bachpan se mai aisa hi hu, so I think and behave accordingly. I actually don't know ki khud k liye sochte kaise hai. Please elaborate.
@@dreamsdesires ye bolna aasan hai...par jab khud ke liye time mile tab to...inke comment me dikh rha hai ki zindagi nikal gayi khud ke liye time hi nahi nikal sake. Ghr ke bade bete ki kuch zimmedariya hoti hain agr use wo na nibhaye to wo khud ki nazaron me gir jaega. Or ghr ki problems jyada ho to khud pe focus karne ka time bhi nahi milega
Salute hai aapko Mera....aasan nahi aisi zindagi jee pana....log khud ke chakkar me apno ko bhul jaate hain ..aap apno ke chakkar me khud ko bhul gaye..meri umar jyda nahi 20s me hi hu pr ye kehna chahunga ki aap himmat rakhiye....aapke jaise logon ki kami hai samaj me.....tab nahi to ab sahi thoda khud ke liye paise bachaiye ab or ek acchi life partner dhundiye or settle hojaiye
@@aashishdevexactly meri story hai. . I am 38 year old female pehle govt job me thi I was star in front of my parents. Mujhe groom karte the to take lead role. I resigned frm job tabse parents badal gaye. They have sidelined me like a piece of rubbish. I was a fool to not realise their selfishness behind a mask of parenthood. Now my sister who is earning n my brother who is jobless but apple of their eyes coz hez male child are their star kids. I feel cheated, betrayed by my own parents
@@amu808 sach yahi hai. Pehle parents ke khilaf koi kuch bolta tha Mai gussa ho jati thi. But parents khud hi dhokha dete hai seedhe aur ache bacche ko
Please share more of such case studies on various topics. These kind of videos will improve people's emotional IQ. VERY REFRESHING AND KNOWLEDGEABLE VIDEO. 🎉👋👋👋
Thank you so much for sharing. Very useful and inspiring story. The best use of human intelligence is this. Making everyone happy is an art.👍 Looking forward to learn more from you .😊
बढींया solution दिया सर जी आपने👌👌.....एक तरह से समाजसेवा ही हैं.... identify किया...and more case studies are most welcome....🙏🙏 तोडने में टाईम नहीं लगता, जोडने में बहुत टाईम , मनी , एनर्जी लगती हैं...
I am 19 , there's a lot of resemble in it with my situation , there's something that I have learnt form this person is that whatever the case don't just go nd ruin your relationships with family , talking works, listening works but when there's right people to do it
good morning sir aapke 90% vedio dekh chuka hu abhi tak sare vedio real h and actual h jo life mai chal rha h kafi kuch sikha hu and motivate hu i salute you 🙏
Dhanyawad guru ji it was a great video on a crucial topic and your best advice was to accept the mistake and act according to the situation. Love your work ❤
Such a great and eye opening video, being and eldest daughter in law in 3 brother's family set up I was extremely unable to make them understand to help each other and grow with each other
Best thing is not have expectation to get property or money from parents unless its ancestral property. Like he said, the older brother who left his home and parents has no real legal basis to make any claims. He can "appeal, beg" to his mother's sense of kindness but has no right to the property. In such case better to forgo any "claims" and live with dignity on your own earnings and savings.
Agar uss chhote bete ne teem tyohar sath celebrate bhi kiye hote , fir bhi agar uske mataji ko lagta to fir bhi woh uske naam kuch karate but yeh mamla favourtism ka hota hai ... bahot baar .. Esiliye kabhi bhi parents se ummid mat rakho.. parents bhi swarthi hi hote hai bahot baar ...
@@amu808parents swarthi hi hothey hai. The reasons being they are selfish to have kids and then ruin their lives My mother in law left her husband and sponged off all my husbands savings , invested all money in businesses which eventually flopped. I was stranded in Canada unwell not able to change jobs. Maybe it's because of caste also. As my husband is lower caste converts and dmk people.
Biwi ko faltu me property k liye badnaam krte hai..gold digger bolte hai jabki asli gold diggers to bhai hote hai .paise k liye apas me lad mar jaate hai aur iljaam biwi ko de do
Why should the son who enjoyed his life n family n kept away from his responsibilities be given anything? Can he give back the privacy lost by other son n wife ? Looking after parents or inlaws can never be compensated. Sorry to disagree .
Aageh jah kr voh Ghumi ghumivala Officer, ish chote Bhai ya uske Bacho ko Dhamkay gah ke maine Paisa lagakar yaha 2 majil banaya hai. Abb ye mera hai, aab ye Court case bhi kr sakega. Chota Bhai, inn Uncle ki baat meh aa kr bura fas-gya
Great sir...exact thing happened in my vicinity few months back...they have lost communication...I've sent them this case study...I'm sure they'll understand.
Ram Ram ji. Seen too many of such cases. Even if a son is ‘nikkamma’ or not stable professionally and struggling financially with wife and kids, he must not live with parents. The mental pressure and on and off abuse the son, his wife in particular and children get is too much. Why to pay price for mental peace. Live with dignity separately from parents. But most importantly sons and daughters must take care of aging parents it’s not bahu’s or damad’s responsibility.
I think isliye ye ladka deserve karta property ka bada piece.. at the end mentally, physically parents ki madad to Kari hogi jyda bade bete ke comparison me.
Sir i have seen old couples like 70+ are struggling to lead life, dependent onkids who hardly care, despite having 4-5 kids nobody cares during old age, everyone is busy in their life.. Aisa situation na ho toh kya karna padega 🙏🙏🙏🙏
True said door rehne walay kbi zindagi main na maa baap ki khidmat ki na kabhi kharcha dia baad main kehtay hain pass rehne wale ne haathon main lay k sb pr qabza kr lia lakin maa baap ko chortay khial nai ata
Yes can very much identify...but not so relevant in my case ....as my case is again unique and very to different from normal middle class....smthng very rare tragedies gone thru ...soo... But liked aapka video...thanku sir...u r doing good job selflessly for d society...
If father bought it and it is not encestrial property and father did not write it in the name of mother, then all 3 (mother and 2 brothers) have equal right to the property. But good that father wrote it in mother's name to simplify things.
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Sir Sunday ka matlab hi badal Diya aapne, ab na movie na sitcoms only aapki videos dekhte hai weekend pe. Clarity towards life is growing like compound interest. Thankyou guruji 🙏😊
Not long before this too becomes boring
@@snehanshuphukon728 yep kyunki ab aap sab sikh chuke aur wisdom repeat ho rha, zindagi ka naam yahi h
I totally agree with you. Your understanding of family dynamics are really good. I am really thankful that there are people like you that telling the truth to the society.
Kabhi kabhi parents paas rehne wale bacche ko anyway select kar lete hai even if door rahne wale ne bahut kuch kiya ho .
It's because they are more connected with the Child with whom they are living with.
@@kamalgandhi7919 I don’t think so .Wo selfish ho jaate hai aur door rahne wale ko drop kar dete hai
@@Bold-BeautifulMoney can never outweigh emotional support and care. And parents are right to be selfish, even if they are being selfish, because all 'seva' is being done by the one who lives nearby, they can't afford to offend him as who will take care of them? It's fine to be pragmatic specially for old people.
@@user-eu9tj3ui7k How come one sibling becomes offended if parents are loving towards other child .How come parents great connection with the one they live is so insecure that parents have to behave in a certain way with the other kid.Even if the other kid doesn’t want that money only love still they are labelled as bad guys by the parents to make the one they are living with happy .This is ridiculous and fucked up .Well their loss .If they have to loose one of the kid to butter up the one they are living with .It can’t be a very good life and such siblings are losers who instead of being happy they are with their parents and getting larger chunk of money take their insecurity out on their own sibling .And idiots like you support this sickness .
Sabse jyada yehi hota hai...saath rahne wala mom dad ka brain wash kar deta hai
I tried to accommodate with my in-laws a lot but they always treated me poorly nd humiliated me a lot so I decided to stop trying to please them after 10 yrs. I helped them financially many times but now they behave tu kaun main kaun so that un ko money return na karni pade. How smart they r
Nice video, same situation hamare ghar me hai, my dad it elder son, our meri dadi mere chacha ke pass raheti hai, hum ek hi gao me rehete hai but donoke ghar alag alag hai property dadi ke nam par hai our hamara ghar dadaji ke nam par tha, my chacha is also nilkkama and fraud person and my dad is hardworking person also my mother is 90,s complete sanskari women, both my mom and dad took care of all of them financially bhi aur monthly requirements jese kirana saman vagare all his life but my dadi give all property to my uncle (nikkama) beta kyuki use beta hai (vanshka dipak) hai and onthe other hand mere dad ki me single child hu and i am the eldest granddaughter then also my dadi dont consider nor me neither my dad
Moral of the story - my mom is a good sanskari aghyakari bahu and my dad always give money to my dadi we live in same village but still we don,t get anything in land plot and also jo hamara ghar hai dadaji ke nam par usmebhi dadi aur chacha ladmarrahehai apne hak ke liye
Not always galti hamari hoti hai , kabhi kabhi na log hi saale kamine hote hai aap kuch bhi karo pyaar paroso thalime par aapko badleme sirf dhoka hi milega
M... Sirji, your win win situation is a need in today's world. Most are like 'mujhe nahi milega to tujhe bhi nahi lene dunga' and case starts.
Sir this is exactly my situation right now...but the only difference is we are not connected with our family because they ask for money every time we go there..
More Case Studies please.. "Dard ka SIP😂" thanks for the original content Amit Ji
Yaha se mera bhi mind set badal gaya... Kya twist tha ye word
Mera story diff hai.. they took money from me for my younger brothers expenses and gave the property to him too saying he is uneducated. I did not do any of the things u mentioned but still was treated differently by my parents.
Same story as you😅
Sir ye case study to samajh me aayi. Ab ek aur case study. Bade bete ne bachpan se mehnat ki, mauj masti kam ki ar jaise taise engineering karke ek company me job li. Wahi chhote bete ne pura mauj masti kiya, forcefully padhai complete kiya. Ab bade bete ko bachpan se iss tarah se groom kiya gya ki family to tumhe hi sambhalna hai. To jab job laga to father ke support role me aa gya. 25k se career start ki ar jitna ho sakta tha ghar pe paise bheje, ghar ke chhote chhote kharch, fir aage jake ar items khareede. Jo ab jod ke dekha jaye to 11-12 lakhs ke hote hai, sab kuch mila ke. Sath hi sath chhote bhai ko support kiya, career guidance deta rha, apni company me referral de kar job lagwayi. Ye sab krte krte bade bete ke paas kabhi paise nhi bachte the ki wo apni family start kar sake. To unse socha ki sath me kuch business try kiya jaye, kabhi stock market kabhi kuch inn sab chizo me hi fasa rha. Dusri taraf chhota beta samajhdaar nikla. Job lagte hi usne almost bhaag ke shaadi kr li. Uss samay paise uske paas bhi nhi the to almost 3-4 lakh ka bank loan liya, jise wo chuka nhi paya to bank walo ne pareshan krna shuru kar diya. Fir parents ne wo paise chukaye. Uss samay chhote bete ne bola ki mai dheere dheere krke chuka dunga.
To cut the story short, aaj ke date me bada beta single hai, 38 ka ho gya hai, still struggle kr rha hai apni life ar career ke beech. Kafi depressed hai. Ghar pe paise deta hai, ghar ke liye samaan lena, mata pita ko ghumana, ye sab kr rha hai. Dusri taraf chhote bete ne na wo paise lautaye, ar shadi ke baad apni wife ko bhi bhut kam time ke liye hi ghar pe lata hai taki uski wife ko ghar ka kaam na krna pade. Nahi ghar k liye kuch samaan lata hai, na hi parents ko montly kuch deta hai.
Baat yaha tak bhi theek hai. Lekin problem ye hai ki itna sab krne ke bawajood, parents chhote bete ke jyada kareeb hai, ar ab bade bete ko lagne laga hai ki jab to wo logo ki khwahishen puri krta hai tab tak hi logo ko usse matlab hai. Ar upar se saara gyan, farz, duty, responsibilities ka lecture bade bete ho hi milta hai jabki chhote bete ko agar ko dena bhi chahte hai to wo sunta nhi hai, to fir wo dete bhi nhi hai. Ar bade bete ko iss sab se jyada problem bhi nhi hai, lekin ghar pe basic izzat, samman ar adhikar to mile jiska wo haqdaar hai. Ar unka ye behavior dekhkar bada beta ar depressed ho rha hai.Loneliness + Depression + Feeling of leftout + Not having enough money/power ye bhut hi deadly combination hota hai.
Guruji, bade bete ke liye koi suggestion? Sorry, comment thoda lamba ho gya.
bade bete ko apni life aur priorities per focus kerna chaiyeh,bada bhai khudh apni priorities per focus nahin karta isliye uski koi izzat nahin karta.bada bhai need to respect his own life & time before even parents & get married ASAP.
@@dreamsdesires Thanks for your concern. Lekin ye khud ke liye sochte kaise hai. I mean bachpan se mai aisa hi hu, so I think and behave accordingly. I actually don't know ki khud k liye sochte kaise hai. Please elaborate.
@@dreamsdesires ye bolna aasan hai...par jab khud ke liye time mile tab to...inke comment me dikh rha hai ki zindagi nikal gayi khud ke liye time hi nahi nikal sake. Ghr ke bade bete ki kuch zimmedariya hoti hain agr use wo na nibhaye to wo khud ki nazaron me gir jaega. Or ghr ki problems jyada ho to khud pe focus karne ka time bhi nahi milega
Salute hai aapko Mera....aasan nahi aisi zindagi jee pana....log khud ke chakkar me apno ko bhul jaate hain ..aap apno ke chakkar me khud ko bhul gaye..meri umar jyda nahi 20s me hi hu pr ye kehna chahunga ki aap himmat rakhiye....aapke jaise logon ki kami hai samaj me.....tab nahi to ab sahi thoda khud ke liye paise bachaiye ab or ek acchi life partner dhundiye or settle hojaiye
@@aashishdevexactly meri story hai. . I am 38 year old female pehle govt job me thi I was star in front of my parents. Mujhe groom karte the to take lead role. I resigned frm job tabse parents badal gaye. They have sidelined me like a piece of rubbish. I was a fool to not realise their selfishness behind a mask of parenthood. Now my sister who is earning n my brother who is jobless but apple of their eyes coz hez male child are their star kids. I feel cheated, betrayed by my own parents
Moral of the story is निकम्मे और निखट्टू बने रहो फायदे में रहोगे ।
Hahaha , Sach main , but dignity se jeo and don't expect anything from parents bahot bada heartache hoga otherwise
👍👍. Ye wala feeling office life aur personal life dono me AA Raha hain aajkal.
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@@amu808 sach yahi hai. Pehle parents ke khilaf koi kuch bolta tha Mai gussa ho jati thi. But parents khud hi dhokha dete hai seedhe aur ache bacche ko
@@amu808truth is that the future time we cannot earn salary that will be enough to even live with family, you cannot make properties
Very relatable in today's social setup. You have hit the nail on the head.
Please share more of such case studies on various topics. These kind of videos will improve people's emotional IQ. VERY REFRESHING AND KNOWLEDGEABLE VIDEO. 🎉👋👋👋
More....Sir this is second vedio I have seen you are genuine and very much practicle towards life's problems. A big salute to you Sir..
Sir first time i saw your video and can say one of the best video dharti se juda .. kudos Sir !! Very Indian Contemporary and effective..
Thank you so much for sharing.
Very useful and inspiring story.
The best use of human intelligence is this.
Making everyone happy is an art.👍
Looking forward to learn more from you .😊
Great Video Tau ❤❤
Im 20 lekin future mein kaam aa jayega shayad❤just Building Mindset
Ab tak ka sabse best video laga apka ye wala.... Ekdum mind set hi palat kar rakh diya.... Sach me bhut sahi baat kahi apne... Thanku for this video
bahut badhiya topic sir..maza ah gaya sunke
Thanks for taking much of strains in studying & sharing valueable suggestions for solving family disputes sharing paternal properties.
बढींया solution दिया सर जी आपने👌👌.....एक तरह से समाजसेवा ही हैं.... identify किया...and more case studies are most welcome....🙏🙏 तोडने में टाईम नहीं लगता, जोडने में बहुत टाईम , मनी , एनर्जी लगती हैं...
Sir u r a real and honest person. Give right solutions.
More..case studies. its real eye opener listening to you.
Excellent video sir. Hits the bullseye 🎯
Excellent video and nice solution. Eye opener vdo you had made. You make more case studies. 🙏👌👌👌👌👌👌👍
I am 19 , there's a lot of resemble in it with my situation , there's something that I have learnt form this person is that whatever the case don't just go nd ruin your relationships with family , talking works, listening works but when there's right people to do it
good morning sir
aapke 90% vedio dekh chuka hu
abhi tak sare vedio real h and actual h jo life mai chal rha h
kafi kuch sikha hu and motivate hu
i salute you 🙏
This was nice and very practical. More. Thanks,
Yes we want more case studies guruji 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Much needed video.. Thank you Sir. Please give more case studies.. 🙏
Dhanyawad guru ji it was a great video on a crucial topic and your best advice was to accept the mistake and act according to the situation.
Love your work ❤
Excellent content, so real world issues
Real life experience . Too good . Needs more such cases .
Kya study hai sir Same my mother family story. It's so relat. Thanks once again for your valuable video 👍
Sir it is happening in each and every middle class family. Thanks for eye opening suggestions.
Guru ji very practical , and more case studies🎉
Loved the case study sir ... would like to listen them more ❤️
More......... Thankyou for providing us with such valuable case studies, please help us keep learning by more such studies, Thankyou.
Congratulations
I wish you same energy and happiness for future.🎉❤
Very good work...sirji..aapne...bahut..achha..kaam kiya...such neun..god bkesss u...maun isi probken mein hoon
Excellent case study. Please bring more cases.
Sir bahut hi badiya se samjhaya aapne maza aa gaya ❤
Very true & eye opening vedio thanks sir 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Superb handling of situation and crisis management
Excellent video. 👍👌🙏👍👌🙏
More.. great case study
More....thank you very much sir ji🙏
Such a great and eye opening video, being and eldest daughter in law in 3 brother's family set up I was extremely unable to make them understand to help each other and grow with each other
Very nice clip with very important problem
Best thing is not have expectation to get property or money from parents unless its ancestral property. Like he said, the older brother who left his home and parents has no real legal basis to make any claims. He can "appeal, beg" to his mother's sense of kindness but has no right to the property. In such case better to forgo any "claims" and live with dignity on your own earnings and savings.
Agar uss chhote bete ne teem tyohar sath celebrate bhi kiye hote , fir bhi agar uske mataji ko lagta to fir bhi woh uske naam kuch karate but yeh mamla favourtism ka hota hai ... bahot baar ..
Esiliye kabhi bhi parents se ummid mat rakho.. parents bhi swarthi hi hote hai bahot baar ...
@@amu808parents swarthi hi hothey hai. The reasons being they are selfish to have kids and then ruin their lives
My mother in law left her husband and sponged off all my husbands savings , invested all money in businesses which eventually flopped. I was stranded in Canada unwell not able to change jobs. Maybe it's because of caste also. As my husband is lower caste converts and dmk people.
सही बात
Biwi ko faltu me property k liye badnaam krte hai..gold digger bolte hai jabki asli gold diggers to bhai hote hai .paise k liye apas me lad mar jaate hai aur iljaam biwi ko de do
"The biggest service you can do, is uplifting the state of mind of other people." and I think this is happening with your video, so thanks.
Why should the son who enjoyed his life n family n kept away from his responsibilities be given anything? Can he give back the privacy lost by other son n wife ? Looking after parents or inlaws can never be compensated. Sorry to disagree .
Exactly, ush Grade A officer ka koi haq nahi banta
Sirf magarmachh ke Aansu baha kr, Property lena chah rha hai
Aageh jah kr voh Ghumi ghumivala Officer, ish chote Bhai ya uske Bacho ko Dhamkay gah ke maine Paisa lagakar yaha 2 majil banaya hai.
Abb ye mera hai, aab ye Court case bhi kr sakega.
Chota Bhai, inn Uncle ki baat meh aa kr bura fas-gya
waaaw sir its eye opener👌👌🙏🙏🙏
Perfect sir and meditation is very important
Nice Analysis. Really, u nailed it.
Sir hats off to you.. This is exactly true... Exactly..
Nicely handled 😊, more
So beautifully explained!
Great sir...exact thing happened in my vicinity few months back...they have lost communication...I've sent them this case study...I'm sure they'll understand.
More , u did a great work👍👍
You are great. Best advice ❤
Ram Ram ji. Seen too many of such cases. Even if a son is ‘nikkamma’ or not stable professionally and struggling financially with wife and kids, he must not live with parents. The mental pressure and on and off abuse the son, his wife in particular and children get is too much. Why to pay price for mental peace. Live with dignity separately from parents. But most importantly sons and daughters must take care of aging parents it’s not bahu’s or damad’s responsibility.
I think isliye ye ladka deserve karta property ka bada piece.. at the end mentally, physically parents ki madad to Kari hogi jyda bade bete ke comparison me.
Sir itna gyan ek video mein puri RUclips pe khi nhi hai ❤❤ this knowledge is worth crores😊
Very informative video sir, same condition with us
Sir i have seen old couples like 70+ are struggling to lead life, dependent onkids who hardly care, despite having 4-5 kids nobody cares during old age, everyone is busy in their life.. Aisa situation na ho toh kya karna padega 🙏🙏🙏🙏
Very truly explained...
Great content, please more
Verry good sir it's done my family
An eye opener video for women who always disconnected from her in laws and not understand family bonding.
Family bonding????? SIP investment bola jay toh sahi😂😂😂😂
Apna ikkata karo jyda .. mahnat se khud ka ..
Na parents de rahe na bacche .. agar na Dene pe aa jaye to.
Paaji tussi great ho...❤
Its amusing to see you discuss taboo situations in our present society. Mostly the elder brother and his family suffers.
Excellent articulation ❤
Indeed this video was needed
Superb !!! MORE !!!
Pls share *more* case studies please.
Thank you!
You have explained so so well
behtareen baaten kahi aapne sir
Nice video. Thanks sir
Aap toh mera New Gurujii ❤
Lajwab guruji 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Very very nice sir. More.
Very nice... more❤❤❤
More ..really good
Please more case studies sir.Thank you
Very nicely explained!
True said door rehne walay kbi zindagi main na maa baap ki khidmat ki na kabhi kharcha dia baad main kehtay hain pass rehne wale ne haathon main lay k sb pr qabza kr lia lakin maa baap ko chortay khial nai ata
Real blessings of parents have come through their grandchildren.
Yes can very much identify...but not so relevant in my case ....as my case is again unique and very to different from normal middle class....smthng very rare tragedies gone thru ...soo...
But liked aapka video...thanku sir...u r doing good job selflessly for d society...
Sir bahut acchi case study MORE
Aisa laga hum sabke Ghar ki kahani hai kabhi Chhota kabhi bada
maza aa gaya!👌
Nice video. Well settled the case.
First time real stories good
I have fallen in love with your videos
Wonderful. More
🙏🙏🙏too good and superb
Great....more
If father bought it and it is not encestrial property and father did not write it in the name of mother, then all 3 (mother and 2 brothers) have equal right to the property. But good that father wrote it in mother's name to simplify things.
But if she doesn't write will before dying her property will be automatically distributed btw all children (boy or girl)
But mother's are giving property to daughter s because why bahu enjoy hard earn money why not my daughter?
Ur thinking s very clear true