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  • Insight on the fact that the narcissist’s discard has happened you but they realized they still need you.
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  • @AnnieRiv-nn7ym
    @AnnieRiv-nn7ym 7 дней назад +37

    This is so on point!!! When I found out my ex was having a long term affair, I immediately asked him for a divorce. I didn’t cry, yell, fall apart, or beg. I was 100% sure I was done and he felt that too. He in turn served me with divorce papers first, and put it on a public forum to act like he made the decision to get divorced. 😂 It didn’t matter to me that he filed first because he saved me the trouble and he sped up the process. Now, i can feel him in a state of panic because it will be finalized sooner than later. I think he was trying to call my bluff, but SURPRISE!!! 😂

    • @dorib.3367
      @dorib.3367 6 дней назад +4

      😂😂😂😮 God is good!!!

    • @TheCurlyBeauty
      @TheCurlyBeauty 5 дней назад +4

      This sounds like my current situation. My ex abandoned me suddenly and asked for separation. I didn't beg, plead, or make a fuss. I think he was shocked. I cut him off from everything, and he still kept asking me for money and my time, wanting to talk. I refused. He filed for divorce in January, and now he can't pay his attorney fees. I don't think he expected me to call his bluff. Divorce will be final in August and I can't wait.

  • @Annie-ol3jx
    @Annie-ol3jx 7 дней назад +50

    I walked out 6 years ago and never looked back,ever!! I never NEEDED IT at all,and IT WILL NEVER BE ALLOWED TO RE-ENTER! Knowledge is POWERFUL, once you DISCOVER YOUR REAL VALUE, YOUR WORTH,YOUR VOICE, SELF-ESTEEM, AND YOUR PURPOSE you are on your way!!! If I could do it YOU CAN DO IT!!!!

    • @kimsanders8262
      @kimsanders8262 7 дней назад +3

      Thank you

    • @tburgess25
      @tburgess25 7 дней назад +2

      Amen

    • @Annie-ol3jx
      @Annie-ol3jx 7 дней назад +1

      @@kimsanders8262 you got this!!!!

    • @Annie-ol3jx
      @Annie-ol3jx 7 дней назад +3

      @@tburgess25 you got this!!!!

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 6 дней назад +3

      @@Annie-ol3jx yessssss!!!! Then you look back and think WTF ughh … he needed me wayy more than I ever needed him. After I left, he went down immediately.

  • @marilynwanzer1201
    @marilynwanzer1201 7 дней назад +40

    Forever blocked! No contact almost 2 years!! 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾

    • @ShunThorn
      @ShunThorn 6 дней назад +1

      Facts 2 years 7 months 🤸

    • @jjones4314
      @jjones4314 2 дня назад +2

      Same here! Blocked him in every way possible in 2021.

  • @susanjones1753
    @susanjones1753 7 дней назад +33

    MY Ex Narc Discarded Me I went straight Black out on him I will never Look back at that Delusional demon ever again!!

    • @tammywatts6221
      @tammywatts6221 5 дней назад +4

      I really believe my ex-narc knew what he was doing. He's arrogant, sadistic and manipulating. And they need to be held accountable for their actions.

  • @ByronRainer-AMG
    @ByronRainer-AMG 7 дней назад +23

    Expose all narcissist.

  • @Agheel963
    @Agheel963 6 дней назад +7

    I dont do social media so the narc will never know what goes on in my life and that suits me fine 😂

  • @debbiegalica2992
    @debbiegalica2992 6 дней назад +8

    I don't care if he still needs me or not because I don't need him. I've moved on.

  • @zelmaellison4049
    @zelmaellison4049 7 дней назад +53

    BLOCKED 🚫 BY THE BLOOD OF JESUS AND POWER OF THE HOLY GHOST 🔥

  • @tamlynn100
    @tamlynn100 7 дней назад +23

    These hyenas are dangerous 🤡🤡

  • @chantemckeithan372
    @chantemckeithan372 6 дней назад +13

    They're so sad. They just want access to you but I pay them no mind(my ex and my almost narcissist). They always want who and what they can't have, it's a challenge for them because they have their at the moment supply on lock. Yet they want you too, they can't stand to be by themselves. When you walk away you struck their ego, so they see it as a chase they won't let go. I can't lie though we had an amazing connection and the xes was amazing, but he's way too toxic, manipulative, and it's all about what they can get from you as long as you're giving them what they want.

  • @browneyes9507
    @browneyes9507 7 дней назад +17

    He would have never discarded me couldn’t afford to . He thought the “marriage “
    Would keep “us”
    He thought he could shelf me again and come back begging. I left never to return. Absence & totally silent off the grid - changed my number moved away .
    5 yrs out 🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @aliciabell7631
      @aliciabell7631 6 дней назад

      YOU GO GIRL 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 6 дней назад

      @@aliciabell7631 ❤️❤️

    • @jjones4314
      @jjones4314 2 дня назад

      Bravo! Keep up the good work! I'm 5 yrs out, 3 yrs no contact! Best thing I ever did! 😊

    • @browneyes9507
      @browneyes9507 2 дня назад

      @@jjones4314 ❤️❤️

  • @Payday-ky7mb
    @Payday-ky7mb 6 дней назад +6

    I could care less about her trying to hoover or contact. I need my money and home back I lost after twenty one years of marriage. I blocked her soon as the divorce was finalized and it’s been more than a year. She text my mother happy birthday or makes comments on my family and friends social media pages but it’s no contact period with me. I’m too grown to be playing games and going back and forth with an adult that acts like a child. Please tell her debt collectors to stop calling me looking for her. The grass was supposed to be greener on the other side. I’m more angry at myself because I married her.

    • @viewerwatching5712
      @viewerwatching5712 18 часов назад +1

      I feel the same, married her and was with her for 20 years. She was a whole child and completely had me fooled. I let her keep the house and the equity in the home, I just wanted peace. It's been 10 months since the divorce and I'm still healing.

  • @sher696
    @sher696 3 дня назад

    I have a business relationship with the narc. Once I figured out that he was a narcissist, I completely changed my relationship with him. I’m still involved in a business relationship with him but without giving him my emotional support. It’s all business and no emotions whatsoever. I keep it moving. I set boundaries, tell him like it is and keep it short and sweet.

  • @StrengthNLove
    @StrengthNLove 6 дней назад +5

    Need Jesus in my life everyday

  • @rochellemack642
    @rochellemack642 6 дней назад +4

    THE GREAT PREYTENDERS

  • @lisajones6496
    @lisajones6496 6 дней назад +2

    They definitely tell you that you need them and that you are using them like you just couldn't make it without them. And when you leave them you do the best you ever did in life

  • @WomanofGod-jc4cj
    @WomanofGod-jc4cj 6 дней назад +7

    Good morning QUEEN. There aren't words to describe GOD'S PEACE.. I THANK GOD I'M OUT OF ALL THAT CRAZINESS UNNECESSARY STRESS. YRS, THEY'RE WANTING TO COME BACK. WNEN I'M DONE,I'M DONE. I DON'T FEEL SORRY FOR THE OTHER SUPPLY . THEY ARE AWARE OF ME. THOSE TWO BIRDS CAN LIVE MISERABLY EVER AFTER

  • @beemonroe4330
    @beemonroe4330 7 дней назад +24

    No thank you for forever … they refuse to go away. Infinite insanity they are. Thank God he saved my life… ❤

  • @tracybirden4503
    @tracybirden4503 3 дня назад +1

    I discarded him, then I looked back and checked then I got discarded 🤣🤣🤣

  • @rachelhopkins3855
    @rachelhopkins3855 3 дня назад +1

    Blickety blickety BLOCKED!!!! Never again

  • @haroldhendricks1167
    @haroldhendricks1167 7 дней назад +7

    It's almost like you're speaking to me, in real time 😮

  • @kimsanders8262
    @kimsanders8262 7 дней назад +4

    My ex narc friend says he has other supplies, i said thats good. Im glad I am not on any social media, and it's been over a year now no contact.

  • @WomanofGod-jc4cj
    @WomanofGod-jc4cj 6 дней назад +7

    HAVE A BLESSED, HAPPY,AND SAFE 4TH OF JULY FAMILY.❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉.

  • @WomanofGod-jc4cj
    @WomanofGod-jc4cj 6 дней назад +5

    Good morning QUEEN. No ma'am. I will not be contacting with that bird. When I'm done, I'm done. I have my peace of mind back. There aren't words to describe GOD'S BLESSINGHIS PEACE WHEN YOU LET GO OF THOSE COWARDS.

  • @lagoldie9783
    @lagoldie9783 7 дней назад +5

    Good morning Ms. Telsha. Good to see you this morning. After dealing with narcissistics, I know I can surely appreciate the good in people. Thank you for sharing good to see you. I will miss you this Thursday. I wish I could give you a hug this morning 🤗❤🙌💯👑💎

  • @user-vb8kq4xt8t
    @user-vb8kq4xt8t 7 дней назад +7

    Tealshal, I always watch your videos 😮 here on RUclips, and on Tik-Tok, it all resonates with my previous experience about Narcissists friends

  • @TheNaturalibra
    @TheNaturalibra 6 дней назад +1

    This is alll soooooo true! They are constantly looking… even hacking into your devices 😏

  • @antoinemull6682
    @antoinemull6682 3 дня назад

    Only through the grace of God and really surrendering to Christ we truly leave and move on through Christ we realize how much we need our Lord

  • @NK-ek3kt
    @NK-ek3kt 3 дня назад

    So true. Me and my daughter moved out and a month later he no longer loved me and had someone else. He’s getting married to the new supply in the same year he met her. He wanted to block my number and when I said I wanted to change my number and communicate via a parenting app he weren’t too sure.
    I don’t know if he will come back, but I’m so over his shit.
    Going to court to sort the parenting arrangements out and setting boundaries - he doesn’t know this version of me. Him and his brain dead new wife can do one :)

  • @FREEATLAST-7
    @FREEATLAST-7 7 дней назад +4

    He’ll naw BYE FOREVER

  • @viewerwatching5712
    @viewerwatching5712 18 часов назад

    After she divorced/discarded me 10 months ago, I immediately blocked her everywhere but she kept calling from strange numbers and having her flying monkeys call. So I had to change my number now my peace is complete.

  • @DedraAllen007
    @DedraAllen007 5 дней назад

    He walked out again for the second time 4.5 years ago when I was in need of surgery! I blocked him on everything social media, changed my phone number too. I thank God he left, and this time I'm divorcing him online, and don't even need his signature! I'm healed, whole and now I'm doing very well financially, but he will never know it. I praise God for your channel, and others like it, who teach us how to heal, and you hold our hand while we do it. I rocks with my girl "The Tea on NPD!"

  • @clydesmith2676
    @clydesmith2676 4 дня назад

    I don’t think she even cares! 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @Wolfdogs1973jk
    @Wolfdogs1973jk 5 дней назад

    I just wish I had been educated on this enough back in the day so I could show my mama she didn’t need him..(step dad)😔😔😔😔

  • @Mikey50285
    @Mikey50285 6 дней назад +1

    I don't but I have a 3 y.o. son that we are going to have joint conservators over him! That's good content thank you!

  • @charlesmatthews6822
    @charlesmatthews6822 6 дней назад +1

    The narcissist I was with, she told me I was her breath, the breath in her lungs

    • @dorib.3367
      @dorib.3367 6 дней назад +1

      Oohhh scary!!!!

    • @jjones4314
      @jjones4314 2 дня назад

      Wow! That's a new line I've never heard before! They are slick though - know what to say & when! Master manipulators!

  • @Wolfdogs1973jk
    @Wolfdogs1973jk 5 дней назад +1

    Thanks to folks like YOU .. NOW I can see that he was never the person I thought he was so it became much much easier to move on..I thought it was ME..now I know it was never ME..I’m ok inside.thank you for your work💜💜💜💯💯💯😏😏

  • @jacky198012
    @jacky198012 7 дней назад +6

    God blesss, and thank u… perfect timing….

  • @Nikki_Nicole_
    @Nikki_Nicole_ 5 дней назад +2

    This was a whole word!

  • @lorraineamaker9416
    @lorraineamaker9416 14 часов назад

    Wise words. Staying blocked on everything 💯

  • @anitaaustralia
    @anitaaustralia 7 дней назад +2

    I'm not religious, but I really love your message. It rings true universally. You are clearly a wonderful person. So pleased I broke up with him when he didnt expect it. I accidentally (still partially under the spell) told him he wasn't fighting for us. Oh well... You're correct: No information, always. Thankyou for helping us all. xx

  • @Bob-zh6dw
    @Bob-zh6dw 6 дней назад +2

    Thanks!

  • @Amazinglady60
    @Amazinglady60 7 дней назад +4

    That’s the truth

  • @anitaaustralia
    @anitaaustralia 7 дней назад +2

    I am scared to block him bc he'll increase his smear campaign. It's really dangerous

    • @lidmontgomery8837
      @lidmontgomery8837 7 дней назад +1

      The smear campaign will end and then everyone will eventually see the truth, you will have to walk through it and out if it…. Just keep living no matter what.❤

    • @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd
      @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd 7 дней назад +7

      He was most likely running you down in the ground behind your back while you were still with him. They eat you up to your face, and talk about you like a dog behind your back while they are pretending to be in a "relationship" with you. It started way before the discard happened.

    • @rochellemack642
      @rochellemack642 6 дней назад +1

      Block & NO CONTACT IF THEY KNOW U THEY KNOW U REAL TALK

    • @anitaaustralia
      @anitaaustralia 6 дней назад +2

      @@WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd that's exactly what was happening

    • @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd
      @WorthyIsTheLamb-rm4pd 6 дней назад

      @@anitaaustralia Block that devil. He's gonna run a smear campaign on you either way you go. Let him run his pie hole.... God knows the truth! And, that's all that matters.

  • @jesusvasquez8531
    @jesusvasquez8531 7 дней назад +3

    Do you think it would be wrong to answer,just to reject them to their face.

    • @Terri302
      @Terri302 6 дней назад +5

      Naa, Don't get caught up with revenge fantasies, it's just a trauma response that gives you a false illusion of closure, and control over your life , it puts you right back in the ring of emotional control in the narcissist games , living well healthy and happy is the best revenge..✌️🫶🦾

    • @WomanofGod-jc4cj
      @WomanofGod-jc4cj 6 дней назад +4

      Let that go. It's not worth it. YOUR PEACE AND SANITY IS MORE IMPORTANT. ALL YOU'LL BE DOING IS GIVING HIM SUPPLY

    • @dorib.3367
      @dorib.3367 6 дней назад

      Nope no response, I couldn't figure out why this Narc was still clinging to me. I'm still allowing him in my personal space smh. He told me he is never gonna stop trying to get me back. I discarded him. I'm glad I watched this video!!!!

  • @donnasoares9141
    @donnasoares9141 7 дней назад +1

    Worst thing I ever seen

  • @gregorygrayson8044
    @gregorygrayson8044 6 дней назад +2

    She blocked me on social media but uses different outlets to Hoover and she has that phone app and uses different numbers to Hoover and try to gas light and her flying monkey is a horrible person and talks bad about her when we were together but she only says I’m lying and they talk about me it was an awful situation and I hate to say it but she so horrible I believe somebody will do something terrible to her

    • @1010QUEEN7
      @1010QUEEN7 6 дней назад

      He did that and more to me but I don't care I'm so done with that demon

    • @gregorygrayson8044
      @gregorygrayson8044 6 дней назад

      @@1010QUEEN7 you are strong I want to reach your level of not giving a 🤬 one day 💪🏾👍🏾

  • @RhiannonNettles
    @RhiannonNettles 5 дней назад

    You’re fantastic. Going through this now and it’s a great help listening to u❤

  • @bridgingfears3771
    @bridgingfears3771 4 дня назад

    This is deep deep deep....

  • @dinayansane7524
    @dinayansane7524 12 часов назад

    Ong she is so beautiful ❤

  • @energy5351
    @energy5351 7 дней назад +7

    The greatest deception is to be self deceived. These kind of people cannot be helped and they don’t perceive that there is something wrong or believe they have done anything wrong.# walk away and take your power back then be indifferent.🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥⚒️⚒️⚒️⚒️⚒️⚒️⚒️🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅🦅💎💎💎💎💎

  • @bustermarch8005
    @bustermarch8005 7 дней назад +2

    Love you miss T❤❤❤

  • @bigo7952
    @bigo7952 7 дней назад +2

    YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL 😻… I THINK I LOVE YOU 🤭

  • @jenty2713
    @jenty2713 6 дней назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @luvbug7179
    @luvbug7179 6 дней назад

    ❤❤❤

  • @gwenmoore160
    @gwenmoore160 3 дня назад +1

    I'm sorry, how is this helpful jr beneficial to a survivor. If They're mentally ill, we should pray for them and keep it moving. Give these wolves in sheep clothing over to God. Are we in the book of Revelation.

  • @tamlamoore7962
    @tamlamoore7962 3 дня назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊